Why do we sabotage love?

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Psychologist Raquel Peel examines the reasons why so many self-sabotage in their relationships and shares tips on how to get out of this destructive cycle. This talk was filmed at TEDxJCUCairns.
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25 июн 2024

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@daveogarf Год назад

Raquel, you nailed it! Insecurity in a relationship, i.e. waiting for the other shoe to drop, seems to be a hallmark of my relationships.

@nabilsiddiqi687 6 месяцев назад

What does that phrase even mean

@rrich52806 Год назад

Trust due to past relationships. We re-met after 47 years. We talk about it and we make changes due to our love of us. We are 70. Hard being a part time boyfriend. She is busy 3 weeks of the month. I get one week.

@Humblethegiant832 Год назад

that's very beautiful

@elisathompson3380 Год назад

This was something I needed to hear today. I plan listening again

@williamvorobioff6566 Год назад

All relationship theories offer us useful info and understanding. I've come to love the IMAGO model for it's richness, accessibility and practical skills in addressing the issues that Raquel mentions. We, and our love lives are complex, and our relationships offer us our most powerful doorway into healing and growth. That's why we have them. Newcastle, AUST.

@Godisnotdeadonlyresting Год назад

Such a great piece of advice for those of us from unstable worlds who are trying to create stable realities ❤️

@nabilsiddiqi687 6 месяцев назад

Love the way you put that down.

@funnytv-1631 Год назад

Because love is blind and complcated

@farhodsulaymonov1725 Год назад

Yes, love is a very crazy feeling in our life.😢

@jackbusiness7879 Год назад

Some people really think that way, today I learned.

@marybaker8061 Год назад

❤ very helpful info! I shared it as it was very timely as well!

@bukurie6861 Год назад

Thank you❤💕for your warm talk😍🌍

@l0g1cseer47 Год назад

Instead of calling "it" by the name of "Love" which is very very traditionally generationally religious which meant and still understood as being devotional.. And today, people are more accessible of individual, independent, self immersive from private to public which expands definitions to the relative common constructive socially acceptable and manageable capacity for timely relationships. So, therefore more modern and rational of compassionate utility and of personal necessity. Its more now of collective maturity than adolescent fanaticism. Thanks for sharing.

@CollinsBlessings-rj2fz 9 месяцев назад

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@MabruukaXuseen-dl8tn Год назад

I am somali Islam❤❤❤ ALLHE HMUDILH

@charleneterrell Год назад

Why do the men that pretend to want to date me think I care?

@nishantraj1284 Год назад

Pls translate it into hindi language

@pjeean_20 Год назад

Why I am single

@hardikmehta1613 Год назад

Your karma is good

@rudaindirasrinivas Год назад

Congratulations bro this time feel happy because you are in the safe zone 😂

@ayinyeyoutube8354 Год назад

Selam❤❤❤❤❤

@ready2travel226 Год назад

We don’t. We pursue our goals, wait until the stars align and embrace it. 👍🏾

@magius-jo2gl Год назад

I hate relationships... don't trust them.

@F_L_U_X Год назад

Why is Charlie Chaplin in the thumbnail?

@cutflow2 Год назад

A marriage contract is the only agreement where a woman is richly rewarded for breaking it

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@cutflow2 Год назад

“Hoeflation: Today’s men must work 5 times harder than their grandfathers for women that are 50 times worse than their grandmothers.

@cutflow2 Год назад