@@jimcoonyusuf2644 bro, he hasn't married yet because he's not yet have the mean to provide. refer him to a job seeker group or a hustling group instead of matchmaking group. once he's loaded, girls will come flocking.
I am afraid to get married and often make up excuses not to. May Allah give us courage, and make it easy for us all to do what is right and what is truly good for us.
Just a little tip if you allow me. Often we know what is right but our beliefs can hold us back. Take some time to reflect on your beliefs about marriage. Where did you acquire these beliefs about marriage? Once you have identified the beliefs or the experience that led to the fear, replace them with new beliefs by defining what sort of marriage you want. Don't just think about it, actually close your eyes and feel how it would feel. Then strengthen this with the purpose of life, as is explained in this sermon.
Ma sha Allah, extremely beneficial Khutbah. But I humbly disagree with a point raised at 13:28. Musa A.S didn't simply get into a gangfight as a naive person and became responsible after ten years of marriage as I understand from the lecture. He was still responsible at that time. During his early time in egypt, he used to go out in the noon to offer help to anyone he could find. On that day, he mistakenly killed the other person, but the next day - we see that he approaches the other person more carefully trying not to kill him. Days after that when he became fugitive and goes to Madyan, he is responsible enough to offer help to the two girls and also do not flirt with them. All these events that happened before his marriage should signs of him being responsible. While marriage had put stability and tranquility in his life, the comparison and transition mentioned at 13:28 doesn't seem right to me. Other than this, the whole khutbah was on point, especially at the end where it was mentioned that the boy has to grow and fit the robe. Amazing! Please keep up the good work!
Marriage is made difficult because there’s no rule set. Everyone is like go to the parents. Parents aren’t trained to be gone to. So they basically say why are you asking me?
What happens if you feel as though you wouldn’t do the job justice - being a mother and wife - instead of it being something that you get rewarded by Allah. It’s something you get punished for. Is it not best to not assume those roles?
As long as you are a woman, then you’ll do a great job being a wife and a mom, because this is ALLAH’s creation , n our nature !! The unnatural thing is to work n mix with men n deny yourself a good husband and becoming a mom
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In Pakistan, majority of women are encouraging men to involve in financial and characteristic corruption. Even you can listen chief justice of Pakistan's mother in law talking about something in an audio which is shameful for us. My point is that marriage is beneficial for religious couple.
