How Can We Get Married Without Flirting? - Tough Questions On Marriage With Omar Suleiman 

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But nowadays people only look into your financial condition not in your practicing deen.I saw people who is righteous but there 1st priority a rich girl.

Ma sha Allah May Allah bless and protect you and your beautiful family, and may ur knowledge of deen be the inspiring for you to be in great place Akhira and may we follow the good of you deen knowledge Aameen Ya Rabbi

Machallh allhuma barik sister

@abdikhalikhussienosman1928 yes exactly. Knowing the boundaries and back to the intention. Barakallaahu fiikum, brother.

@zaidalikhan1444 wa’alaykumussalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. Thanks for the question. First of all, of course i put the standard and qualification according to the syariat before knowing each other. Next, we just do our own things and updated sometimes. Never go out together alone. He several times came to my house where i have my parents or we went out with other family member if we want to talk and get to know each other. Mean while i can figure out his attitude and character. I also ask people from his family and circle what kind of person he is. Last but not least, i ask guidance from Allah. That’s what we did, brother. Barakallaahu fiikum.

SubhanAllah may your life be blessed dear sister and may Allah grant many blessings upon you ❤️

@@yen.a847 jazaakallaahu khayran.. may Allaah bless you in return.. barakallaahu fiikum..

Ameen

Ameen.... INSHALLAH Ameen 🤲❤️

They praise u to stay at home and act like a dog

Amen

Amiiiyn

Seriously lam amazed ❤

Same here, I look at romance in the western world completely different now. He had a really good point.

It does ❤

So glad to hear that! May Allah grant you long healthy life

😮 mashallah 😊❤

I also married my husband 2 weeks after meeting him 3 to 4 times Alhumdulillah ❤❤❤

Summerized the whole message

Excellent summary.

Mantep kak. Noted

Amiiin

Did you get husband

Not yet

May allah show you a good boy and mercy on u amn

@@ikyamelia15 yes

Islam is beauthiful my friend,i hope you become muslim my friend,have a good day/night and take care of you and your family,peace.

Become a muslim friend! :) god is only one 1⃣

@@randmh3643 so happy for you my brother/sister,i hope happinness and peace for you and your family

@@randmh3643 I'm a proud chrstian what i loved is his personal idea which is marriage not else and thank you for your advice

@@mekdelawittariku7211 Brother /sister I would like you to become Muslim how do you see?

❣️

tysm

Wa yaka!

Yes inshallah 👏

I’m a living example of this and I can say sheikh is so right. May Allah guide us right

Me also

How old are you sis? Where are you from? Are married already to that guy?

Ameen

That should not be unexpected.

in your life u have to keep things privately there are evil eyes in this not everyone will be happy what u are blessed with

exactly

True

Ameeen

Olá, irmão. Sou da Turquia e falo português. A gente tem que saber que o destino já é definido pra todos nós. Só que a gente tem que fazer algo pra encontrá-lo, fazer esforço para ser muçulmanos melhores. O medo de morrer sozinho é normal mas Allah nos vai ajudar inshaAllah. A gente tem que seguir rezando e ter esperança. Um abraço!

Man I feel bad for you. The covid 19 punishment wasn't meant for the Guys but the girls... :/

Find girls from Malaysia and Indonesia.

The other day I heard a story of a woman who got married in her 70s -i think- , to the love of her life mashaallah! Allah will give you whatever you ask him for.

Awak kena masuk Islam juga kalau tidak perkahwinan kamu tidak sah disebabkan berbeza agama..this is important tidak bermain

​@@loverfreind4273 muslim men are allowed to marry Christian and Jews

@@loverfreind4273 Not true. Muslim men can marry people of the book, Al Kitab, know your deen akhi.

Study Islam .. inshaallaah u shall accept it

​@@1Loveneverendsno muslim men cant marry pls understand christians dont worship Allah so they are not believers they worship jesus so anyone who worships anyone other than Allah are not believers

How dd u do? Wat dd u do?

@@khadujifuad9360 I loved someone a long time ~7 years and I realised he was bad and I didn’t want to marry him anymore. (He had a lot of excuses etc). I stopped praying for a while maybe one year and I used to have more and more sayi’at subhanallah… things I never thought would happen to me. I never felt good until I started to pray again and stop staying with girls that have no deen because they don’t even care about what’s right and what’s wrong. I focused on myself and I asked Allah sincerely to find a way to escape from people (even my very strict father) who make me feel bad but in the right way. A few days later I met a revert man, I could notice he has fear of Allah, he was better than me. I told myself this is a sign. The second time I saw him was at home with my family even when I didn’t decide if I accept him or not. That was his will, to be completely honest in front of my father. He came every day for one month with a new gift and he used to give me so much attention… I woke up one day and I made istikharah, I told myself he has deen and akhlaq and looks sure about his decision. What do I want more?? At this time honestly I didn’t care about feelings or love , all I know is that I felt at ease, with someone sincere, who’s ready to do everything for his wife (that’s akhlaq) and he made me feel special and we could speak about deen together, become better together. We spoke about all of it. I woke up one month later I told my mum I want him to be my husband and she didn’t believe, one week later a sheikh married us, one month later we did it officially and That’s it. If you are with someone who listens, who apologizes, and RESPECT you, has fear of Allah, it’ll be a good marriage my sister. Maybe the best thing to do is to prepare all the important questions, Allah will show you if he’s sincere or not.

@@tasnimqurashi1245 What is his nationality/ ethnicity?

@@alisonelaa6742 he’s from Chili and Iraq. He’s a revert. We’re both Swiss too.

@@tasnimqurashi1245 You talk only about yourself how you met him, like how he was kind to you , how he has akhlak, how he gave you a gift every time he visited you. But what about you? What did you do? Did you benefit him too? Because you only talk about yourself how you benefited from him.

write peace be upon him

@@sadqyyarasoolallah6300 they did. pbuh = peace be upon him

@@ShipMyPants ? who did

Sad truth

May Allah SWT strengthen our iman. Aamiin.

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Ameen.

*Singles

Best of luck 😅

Marriage CV? I’ve never heard of this how does it work? Where do you post it?

@@shariqusoof5649 it's common to prepare Marriage CV/biodata in Pak/Indian/Bangla Muslims.... you send it to the other party directly or indirectly... or you post on marriage related whatsapp/Facebook groups....

​@@statetechguru4804 yikes, I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Its making marriage too formal and transactional

@@Emsyaz I think its the best thing.... when you talk and ask the Girl or a Guy stuff like what does your dad do ? or whats girl's height, age, qualifications, job ? family background ? most often they lie or give vague responses.... they try to cat fish if you dont make it formal... it has to be formal, it has to be written, factual information you would be accountable for so people will write the truth... I think you are in a LaLa Land, you would end marrying a person who is only pretty on the outside (sometimes even that is not the case with all the makeup, they would deceive you in broad day light)...

What do you mean people are rough on phonecalls?

May Allah he grant you a pious husband

Ameen

Amen

Aameen

Ameen

I totally get what ur saying ! Too many ignorant so called religious people ! We need people who speak from Quran and uses logic

Perhaps you're talking about followers of false religions. In Islam religiosity and sound reasoning goes hand in hand.

Ofcoarse a man and a women can be friends. Female logic

@@jordanqueen5873 I am best friends with my wife. If you can't be jokes on you pal...

Exactly

​@@csgaiao33 after marriage? Yes you should be best friends with your wife. But before marriage? Nope. Thats ridiculous

Surprising to see a heartwarming comment from you regarding him. And Ameen to your duas

Macha alah

Forget about the advice of the kiffar

@@Emsyaz 9

AlhamdulliAllah i have complete trust in Allah but what is the homework i want to know

@@muskakhan3278education