Why Donnie McClurkin Thinks He'll Be Alone For The Rest Of His Life | RSMS 

He just needs to be himself. I couldn't serve a God that requires one to be that miserable

I know that it must be hard for him because of him being raped at a young child he's been holding out for this long at least he know who he is with a lot of people don't, a lot of people live their life as pretenders.. IJS

@@venusbaptiste8210 He was miserable being in that gay lifestyle

@@venusbaptiste8210 God didn't create us to do what we want. You don't see all the suffering on earth? That's from disobedience to God. You might not understand but you will one day.

@@FaithandNova the suffering on earth is due to OUR PLANT-IT being taken over by these Hyte Devyls and our Warriors refusing to take it from them due to this POE mouth religion. You can see it in this interview, McClurkin won't even TAKE what he wants and limits himself rather than being true to himself. It's obvious he's miserable.

That’s how I feel. I want companionship but if it separates/distracts me from God (or not of God) I resolve to walking this life out with just Him.

Yes agreed

So Man-written dribble decides what God loves?

@@GoofyFlan if you don’t believe, that’s you.

That God is a wicked creature if he requires that.

@Denysha Taylor I was curious. I heard him say that he really wanted a relationship but because he didn’t have the experience in or knowledge of how to deal with a women in a relationship that he found it challenging. What does that have to do with “forcing” himself into an “expectation” if it’s something he actually desires. Just a thought.

@@fatbones4life252 Because he had the opportunity to do that with his last relationship, but he didn’t *force* himself to go through with that for whatever reason. Especially when the public eye really wants to see their own version of a happy ending for him (I.e. married to an ‘ideal’ woman of God). Rather he’s taking his time and figuring out several aspects of what that experience would mean for himself-since he hasn’t been thinking about his life with woman for his entire life. It only recently became a consideration. Doubt is attached to several things, and it is something you have to work through, not pass over. I emphasize with him as a single, almost 30 yr-old woman. I had the chance to settle down with a guy that really liked me, but those feelings weren’t mutual. So I didn’t force myself into that expectation-considering I have relatives continuing to ask ‘when you getting married’ and ‘when are you having kids’. Even though most of them are divorced or baby mamas. Hope that helps.

@@denyshadials5702 I see. I completely understand. I focused “expectations” but you clarified that extremely well. I can relate. I’m a 47 year old single black male with no kids who is very, very active in ministry and I have been celibate for 12 years. I have dated seriously a few times and none of the relationships worked out. I have always had a strong desire to be married and have a family. Never thought it would take this long. Am totally accountable for any part I may have played in that. But to me it is all about being patient and finding the right person and situation. All things considered. I am fully confident in the fact that it will happen. And yes, a lot of people have tried to put their expectations on me. In church that’s what you do right? Get married and start a family. So thanks for the explanation. I get it. Blessings on your journey.

@@fatbones4life252 Thank you, blessings to yours as well. I pray you meet the woman of His dreams not yours 😉.

@@denyshadials5702 🙌🏾🙌🏾

I agree with you I respect him too A lot of people don't know how to do that and when they do it's always something wrong so some say! 😏

ME TOO! 🙌🏾🙏🏾

Is he actually being transparent? I'll say no, Why?? Because he's not really telling the full story about why he feels that he has to be alone. I'm assuming that you already know that he's gay.

@@DON8691 his sexuality has never been a secret. He has always been open about this and uses it as apart of his testimony to others 🤷🏾‍♀️

No reason struggle unless you're still living a lie.

I think he may be gay, but afraid to completely surrender to it.

@@shomifochap3 That is likely true that he's gay. But being gay doesn't guarantee him someone to love him. It just allows him to act out his sexual proclivities.

@@shomifochap3 Ya Think? Donnie has been very open about his sexuality, He's been 95% with Men, and 10% with women and the struggle is if he chooses to be fully himself, The Church will reject him and he will loose his livelihood of how he earns his money. When you reach his age, you begin to wonder, why do I have to LIE to LIVE a Godly Life??!!

@@tymbreturner501 well I had no idea. 95 % men? Ok. Well that settles it.

@@tymbreturner501 I don't think he's worried about the church. Feel like he doesn't want to disappoint God

Be picky. NOBODY nEEds SHIT in their lives. I'm single, alone, but NOT lonely. I cut BS off in a heartbeat, and if you're picky, you know, it's easy to spot.

@@GoofyFlan Preach!

Your picky because you can see someone and not their heart and the truth it’s also hella scary.so be picky it your right.

Thousands of individuals have that thought EVERYDAY. Push through!

I’m single but I’m not alone I’ve go so many things to be thankful for that for fill my life it’s just not a priority for me if God sends me someone I’ll take him But I’m not stressing myself about t

🗣🗣🗣 Amen. Only Godly marriages that produces the fruit of the Holy Spirit is lifelong. You can still be “alone” in a marriage or end up alone after many years of marriage. The prize is always Jesus Christ the Messiah.

Yessssss

EXACTLY!!!

Right I agree especially unnecessary stress who wants that! 😏

Are you overweight, over religious, and argumentative.?

@@keithburch3238 Really???😳🤦

@@keithburch3238 In all honesty was all three at different stages of my life. Being 'augmentative' I got from my father, 'religous' from my mother 'overweight' poor diet habits. I never had a crazy argument with my husband, never attended a religious event with him, he was when I met him perfect man, health guru; our personalities compatable. We learned much from each other. However, we grew apart and wanted different things. He remained the same, I wanted to changed. Life is what it is. I did try dating waste of time and energy. Looking for someone who gets the same jokes, enjoys watching HC and makes me watch sports channel. So single until otherwise!

Right 👍

I just commented somewhere else about this. He also said that it is better to get married than to burn with desire. The goal is to be fully committed to God. But, if you have needs, pray and seek out a spouse.

@@memefaison6007 marriage is preferable, but that is not always possible. I’m just saying that’s ok too. Dr. Charles Stanley has the same problem with being without a mate.

Amen 🙏🏾

Bs

So then don’t get married god is all you need amen ?

He is very much alone. He knows that

@@tanyasampson763 if he is waiting for god to hug him he will definitely be alone

Exactly I have my moments why I feel that way, but it's ok.

Yessssss Amen ,I,m happy with Jesus alone until he sends me an angel 🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️👣👣👣😇😊

@@ingridc.68 Amen God got us

@@wandahwhetstone6338 I have no doubt thank you.

@Christal Davis Trust in God he will provide REST EASY DMX YOU,E FREE🙏🏼🥊🦁🦁🦁🦁😭😊🖤🖤🖤🖤

A soulmate is nothing that I need but it would have to be something that I want,... if you can't be by yourself then you can't be with nobody, needless to say I prefer to be by myself I've been married I had boyfriends and as it is told... you give a part of your spirit when you allow others to enter inside of you no more riding on this body,..lol... I have two cats and I'm not even 60 yet and I'm done there's just to many life games being played and I'm not willing to give anything up no time soon..Ijs

Agreed. Some of us close our hearts off by being picky or self hating, thinking we came into this world alone etc... but no, there was someone there to deliver and hold us and to satisfy our need when we couldn't for ourselves. Making loneliness the 'option' we settle for. Donnie is torn between being happy and pleasing the church and I want nothing but his happiness, whatever that looks like, bc I don't have the right to judge.

You're right you don't have the right to judge and we did come in this world alone unless we happened to enter the world as a twin in our mother's womb but after we came into the world we wasn't alone, it is not written that we can't be by ourselves and I always say if you can't live by yourself then how you going to live with someone else?... Some people prefer to be settled alone it's really nothing wrong with that..Ijs

@@TruCentrinoTech again some of us don't close our hearts because we just don't want a relationship some of us has open our heart to too many things to be hurt, who wants to continue being hurt?.… so yes that is a reason why some people choose to shut their heart down so they won't continually get hurt by people that don't mean them any good😑... I also believe that's why a lot of male and females end up being gay because they can understand the same gender better ..Ijs..not saying that the same gender won't hurt you but I guess they understand each other better than the opposite sex I've heard stories behind that..Ijs.. who really knows why people shut their heart down sometimes it's healthy to not let anyone in as long as you're happy it doesn't matter what anyone thinks.. 😏

@@sherijennings769 There's a difference between being alone and being lonely, he's taking about genuine loneliness, which means you're preaching to the wrong crowd.... But sure, tell us about how great your life is being alone. P.S. You did not come out of ANYbody's womb by yourself, it's the moral not the cliché. Unless you're crawling out head and elbow, you needed someone, we all need ppl from our first day to our last. Give credit period, but specifically give credit to Donnie's pain, instead of your ego a.k.a "life exampe of loneliness".

Well said

Exactly you got it. Most will never understand the spiritual battle he's not trying to entertain.

@@FaithandNova Flesh and spirit are two different things. Spirits live for ever, flesh withers away. Spirit will live forever despite of what the flesh does... Do you not feel that it's unfair for a person to be unhappy because of some man made rules?

Fully understand

@@DON8691 but he chose to walk and live a certain Life and to be a Pastor. HE doesnt believe they are man made but God breathed .. Hence the struggle..

Hope you mean heart of gold and not God. I don’t think he’s worried about being judged by man, but by the God that he serves...

@@jasonbartell6579 Thank you for the gold correction. I went in and edited. To be honest, God loves us just as we are but his decisions are based upon his perceptions. Thank you for your reply

@@puzzlepeace exactly, based on his perception. He loves us as we are but he requires us to be better than we’ve been.

@@jasonbartell6579 Exactly 💯

@@jasonbartell6579 Better than he's been? Loving a man doesn't make him worse ...would 'probably' just make him happy -but that's alot to ask a Christian to permit, bc perceived judgement makes a lot of our decisions.

Amen! 🙌🏾

And if he doesn't one have to be good with that...I personally believe not everyone will end up with a lifelong partner in marriage.

Amen

Amen 🙏🏾

I hear you my friend, but this post proves that Donnie never really got back up. I feel sorry for my brother..

Yes indeed

WOMEN are usually on the receiving end of custody/child support modifications. Trust me when I tell ya......she's the exception in this case, not the rule!

Good for you.. You've done what many women fail to understand. Men and women alike will meet and date many "frogs" before they find the right person for him or her.

@@jaxjr121 Her, Brittany Spears, Sherry Shepherd are a few that had to pay child support as the bread winners in the relationship. I personally don’t think it’s necessarily unfair if the dad is the primary caretaker of the child.

@@alb5801 Right....."a few".

What standard are you...

Yes.... come out of the closet and live your life

He was out of the closet then he decided to run back in it. Now he's peeping out the door crying.

@@WiseOne671 we’re going to need you to turn in your telephone... !!!!

Lol

Thanks for that inspiration.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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WELL said!!!

💯💯💯 God is not playing with none of us.

How do you know they’re in hell? What is “THE Truth”? Seriously, just asking.

@@iamiao94 God is truth. Truth is to acknowledge that truth itself proceeds from the nature of God. While many things can have the truth, only one thing can be the truth, with that one thing being God Himself.

You have accounts from ppl in Hell, instead of predictions?? Now that's amazing!

Well he read leviticus so I'm sure he's abiding by the rules.

@@Beyondme7700 It's a MAN-WRITTEN bOOk. Not of a God.

@@Beyondme7700 “rules”? Such a lonely miserable life. Is that abundant life? Who made man? Who put their prostate where they can be penetrated?

No Satan, he chose to walk upright in accordance to gods word by any means necessary. These new age idolaters think that you can submit to the flesh completely, justify it by saying “god loves us all” and still make it in to the kingdom. I have news for you, your place in hell is already reserved.

@@RizzoDaManiac Bro. A council of slave owners wrote the book. Go lOok it up and educate yourself. There's no 'BoOk of God'. Wonder why? Gay relationships don't produce MORE SLAVES, so slave owners denounce them.

He’s Gay. Most women want no part of that!

@@keithburch3238 He just needs to learn about women from a woman. Trying to date at his age is difficult. He knows absolutely nothing about women. He may decide to just be celibate. We are not that easy to know and understand anyway. However, if he is willing, someone needs to school him about women, that is all that I am saying.

What woman would want him?

@@tranquilshorestravelagency9641 the real one God had for him and all of us. That one we refuse to accept because it's not packaged like we want it. None of them worked for him or some of us because they simply were NOT the one! They were OUR picks but not God's. Sometimes all it takes is a conversation with a person to know if they are the one or should we wait for another. If that person can reveal what only you and God knows about severalllll situations then God told them if you didn't. If that person says to you "I need to talk to you about something" I think it may be beneficial that you take time to listen. If it wasn't so sad, It's laughable knowing what I know. We miss out due to our own selfish desires of wanting a Ginger the movie star when God had you a Mary Ann on Gilligan's Island 🏝 Deb (Terry's Wife)

He knows exactly what God requires of him, and that’s why the struggle is there.

@@vivinethomas7091 exactly

@@vivinethomas7091 According to that report, he's stuck between 'the desires of his heart' and pleasing the church, because you know ...if same sex love was allowed, that void he described would be filled right now.

So true! I feel the same way, but it’s not about keeping them, unless one has done something to push he, away. It is an investment that people don’t really get to deep into. It cost on all levels. I had to get rid of my ex because he wanted to live off me. He wanted me to have his back, but he didn’t have mine. When things got rough with me, who did I have? No one. I been on my own since I was 14 when I lost my mom. I had to take care of myself and get a job and take care of my siblings and my father didn’t do anything. All he cared about was his government assistance. But anyway... I left home in high school, got a job and a year and half later got my own place. God provides. I had no clue how I would make it. These men now a days want the woman to give all, while they sit back and do less. What I went through in my last relationship (and my ex wind up stealing from me too) and I had to start all over again. Still to this day he can’t be found. I thought I knew him but apparently I didn’t. He was living a double life. But I bounced back from that.🙏🏽 You got people out here married or in a relationship, still trying to creep or whatever. It’s like no one is satisfied. I hate to bring race into it but, some of the black men that want to date me, they are already taken and got mental issues with women and all they care about is sex. They keep offering their stuff on a platter as if somebody wants that. 🤢 You got men out here that want an independent woman, so they don’t have to do anything. The men I’ve met, all they want to do is domesticate me and keep me in the house and pop out their children as if the other baby mothers aren’t enough, like I’m their maid or they want a mommy. They don’t want me to have a life or be ambitious. The other races I’ve dated, Latin and Caucasian don’t do that, but to be honest I’m not looking, lol. I see men looking and the majority of the time is lust. I could be all covered up and they still looking with googly eyes 👀 they are not trying to get to know me. I’m working on me. Companionship would be nice one day, but I have so much peace now, for the most part, and it’s going to have to take someone special, that I can make room for. I’m finishing my degree, looking to buy a house and I’m not waiting on a man for these things. Never have like most women. I. Trying to break generational curses as long as god wakes me up each day. I have so much I want to accomplish and if I have to do it without a life partner so be it. Because sometimes relationships hold you back. Anyway, I wrote too much, thanks for reading 😊

@@lifeisbeautiful9455 Oh, how could I not read. I don't usually post longer than that, but it's relevant. I agree with everything you said, (one special person to change me). God, and fulfilling my purpose keeps me busy enough. However, those who are in relation or married, God bless and each to his/her own. But, I've wasted so much time, money and energy that allowing someone to steal that again would likely get me to act a fool and likely be the death of me figuratively or literally., which the enemy knows Although, some people may occasionally date, but I love fairy tale romances, which are quite different from reality. Important: "Know your kryptonite." So we and Donny will be fine with the help, wisdom, and love of God..😇

@@Annabee399 Amen I agree! I have no more time to waste. I’m so grateful to God that he delivered me and kept me and had me go through something with one person. Instead of many. A lot of people keep going through the same thing with a different person because they still have not learned their lesson. Or their thinking is still the same. I realize on a deeper level I kept attracting needy people, because my own needs weren’t being met. I had needs but since I been on my own so long, my needs were neglected, (Even in relationships, friends, family etc) I never even thought about it. It’s not like I was willing taking care of others. They just found a conniving way to get something done, until I put a stop to it. My father hated that I wasn’t gullible and he used to try and trick me but couldn’t. I always stood up to him and for my mother. I think it’s crazy that people expect you to be so self sacrificial just to prove to them you love them. Time is the one thing we can’t get back and some people really want to waste your time. As we journey through life we are trying to correct what we didn’t do, because now that we know better. We do better. 🙏🏽

@@lifeisbeautiful9455 Well stated we are now seeking God's approval. I hope our dialogue helps someone other than us! Happy Easter/ Resurrection! ☺

Thank you👏🏾👏🏾

I just hope that he plucks out his issues at the root. Because, whatever he's going through will keep resurfacing until he addresses the root of the problem. I wish him the best as well. I pray that he finds the person that God has in store for him. I don't know. Some people are destined to be alone, I guess. But, there is a scripture that says "it is better to marry, than to burn with desire". Yet, I feel that some people get married to quickly. So, I don't know. Test the spirits (the person, the opportunity, etc.) to see if they are from God.

Since he is a Gay man that is obvious. In love with a dead White man on a cross. Women are supporting this. The world has changed.

@@keithburch3238 No, we are in love with a Hebrew Man who is alive, the God Man. I agree the world has changed but God remains the same. The world now thinks that we have to give into our passions to be happy but it only makes us unhappy. We become slaves to whatever it is we love, sex, drugs, alcohol, material things etc. Freedom today means being free to do whatever we want. True freedom is being free to do what we ought to do. Just because things change in the world doesn’t mean it’s right and only leads to despair. True happiness is following the truth and the truth is not something, it’s somebody...Jesus Christ. He loves us all whether we love Him or not.

If you know anything about Hebrew, (1) it is not a BC language (2) Jesus only becomes a Jew in the KJ Revised Version in which the book of John was added in 1607 and released in 1611. Most churchgoers don’t deal with facts just emotion. Desiderius Erasmus the Dutch philisopher and Ex Roman Catholic priest wrote the 4 gospels in 15 yrs. Not a man named Matthew, Mark, Luke or John. He was one of Europe’s most influential scholars. Called the Novum Testamentum.. Geneva Bible was before that. Pope Leo controlled Bible reading and declared that the fable of Christ was for Profitable for the Church. A belief, not human history. Now Islam is the new Religion of the world going forward.

@@keithburch3238 none of what you’re saying matters to me. Jesus is the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords. If you don’t want to believe, that’s your prerogative.

@@911theanonymous Only in the mind of the uneducated believers. Preachers avoid facts. Too much money in the Church game! I’m sure you feel better when you leave church, No problem. That’s what is made for.

Another upset religious Gay. Past has caught up with him.

Being anointed doesn’t mean shit! To rub with oil. But it’s popular church bullshit.

Hunni, I'm exhausted...

Donnie wants literally, exactly what you're describing... he just thinks he's not allowed.

Who claimed a man should be with only one woman for life. When Men exercise their options women don’t like it.

Where is that in the bible?

Nah, matters a lot actually.

Does he feed all the starving children in the world. Don’t be silly.

I don’t think anyone is denying that. That’s the reason why he’s struggling. It sounds like he’s choosing to deny his flesh

I had the same thoughts, but If that’s true I’m thankful that he hasn’t married someone to pretend that he’s not gay and ruin their life with a lie. At least he’s staying single.👍

Agreed. More People need to be real with this subject like BSlade

He’s convicted because of his religion. Being with a man is not an option for him, but he doesn’t know how to be with a woman. So, I think he has accepted that he might be alone. Before, I think he had some level of hope.

So it's everybody's fault but yours right

Yep!

Lol..Its 2021..Madonna paid for boy toy..Women want equality only when it benefits them..

The comment was to be a man! A man should earn his own way.

@@annabel1grace So women should just continue to come up off of men success but never be held accountable... Modern day women thinking.. No disrespect but disrespect..

@@already5912 What are you talking about, you are trying to start an argument over nothing! I agreed with someone saying a man should hold his own. Don't turn this into something else.

Michael:don't rush it. Trust God man. I only been with one woman, and thats my wife. Put your confidence and trust in God to build you into the man he wants you to be FIRST. Then, walk and talk with God DAILY, and about what you desire in a wife. Don't look for a mate until you have allowed God to establish you as a man and prepared you for the responsibilities of a relationship and hopefully marriage one day. Nothing or NO ONE, is more important than your individual relationship with Jesus.

@@tw9946 Thank you so much for the sound advice. I will keep praying for that guidance

Are you overweight and argumentative.?

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They play for the same team 🤷🏽‍♂️

Play for the same team but Donnie on the bench.

Get in shape and get back out there to get chose. So many think a dog is their companion. Not! Oh , add the preacher and Jesus in the sky!

Omg can we not compare the woman’s struggle to everything?

It's just not easy finding love in the Western Hemisphere. I rather just find me a wife from Africa. My uncles did it after waiting nearly 50 to 60 years of their life and they are so happy now, I could almost cry tears of joy for them.

Bullshit Yal don’t even know what you want

Women are victims of dating circumstances they created. 🤷🏿‍♂️

I hear you, but I graciously say that this brother's situation is a bit different. He is gay, and the rules of his Christian lifestyle says that he goes to hell if spends his life happy with a man. I guess he'll rather be alone to avoid going to hell.

yeah that's what it is

Nailed it.

Sad truth.