Anyone who's refusing or avoiding to marry you for any reason, they're literally refusing to marry you, you need no other reason to not be there. Simple as that. Don't have a child with someone who doesn't want to marry you. That's it.
Not really. The principle itself is straight forward. Working this out in one's life is not always so straight forward in my experience. It took me 20 plus years to learn how to treat myself with great respect and to give up my addiction to unhealthy relationships.
Cameron told you ladies straight up! If a man wants to marry you HE WILL! If he doesn’t waiting 10 years probably won’t help. My husband married me 6 months after he met me.
please help me sent this to everyone, my man is in trouble. Good evening sir I'am the woman you are talking about on youtube. You are talking about the wrong man stop it please. He didn't abuse me. They put him in someone else place please stop talking about him😭😭
My husband and I got married after 8 years together and 2 kids. We both had baggage, we both had difficultés. We've now turned our lives around and celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary in July. Because of past experiences and mistakes we both found it hard to commit but we got there. HOWEVER, I still absolutely agree with what Bindi and her husband are saying.
Amen! Thank you dear sister and brother. This is soooo true, I have 2 children out of wedlock I thought that this "believer" would marry me because we had 2 kids together. It took me 3 years to accept I was in open rebellion and to repent without going backwards in that I had to allow God to break that soul tie and heal that area in my life.
Same sis! Thank God for his restoration and healing power! Two children out if wedlock we were engaged for a year, God woke me up and brought me to my wilderness for deliverance and healing and even though it has been so hard I'm so thankful for my salvation and sake, but as well as for my young girls❤
This is good. I didn't understand all of this at first. Along my walk with God I started to understand. Nobody would never be perfect for marriage. It's about growing together. Walking with God together and becoming close to perfect as you can. And accomplishing God's mission together.
This is solid christian advice. Unwatered down and straight facts. We need more advice like this in our community and more people softening their hearts being willing to listen and implement it. Too many people dismiss this type of advice because it doesnt tickle their itching ears. We all need to hold ourselves up to a higher biblical standard and stop being so wishy-washy with our faith and lifestyles. Speaking from experience.
To add to the conversation. Sometimes, men will marry quickly because they are afraid to be alone! They DON'T want to do the introspective work and grow. Therefore, the next woman that comes along he will commit to because he knows that's what a lot of women want anyway. Don't be upset or disappointed when a man or women moves on quickly because that's a HUGE red flag!!! How are you going to waste years of your life along with someone else's then get married months later?! That's INSANE!! He or she didn't happen upon the love of their life and changed that quickly!! They intentionally chose that person to make it seem like it was possibly the other person's fault that they didn't marry them!! To each their own but I would definitely be cautious of someone that does that!!!
A lot of struggling believers haven’t had the revelation that God does the washing. The wife is hilarious omg 🤣 I love her reactions 🤣🤣🤣 I genuinely am Glad God blessed us with men. They are so wise.
Man.... like Bindi said, "ooo chile!" Your husband wasted no time. He was calling this out. This was an encouragement for me to wait to the man God has for me and not settle. This was so good that I need to watch it again. Please keep these up Bindi. The man's perspective is so valuable.
The funny thing is I shared with my husband what this women went through and the entire scenario and my husband actually said the very thing your husband said. Like every point he made my husband touched on that. Men really know men.
Heavy sigh with hugs to all the Sista's who don't know their worth. Been there BUT (Drumroll) God speaks to how valuable you are to Him, through His love letter the bible. Discover your worth, remember your worth, add tax! You are NOT a placeholder.♥
You did such a wonderful job responding to her question. I didn’t think it could get better BUT what your husband said was biblical sound and wonderfully put! You two are so wonderful and the love for the Lord you both have is so amazing!!! Kingdom marriage!!! Yesss!!! I really adore you guys❤❤❤❤. God bless.
I agree. Grateful to God as a result of praying over my phone, divine guidance over what I engage over the Internet, www and the few social media/ influencers that I currently engage: I appreciate Bindi channeled blessings including the lovely dress I purchased.
AWESOME! PLEASE CONTINUE THESE TYPE OF DISCUSSIONS! PLEASE CONTINUE TO ALLOW PEOPLE TO PRESENT THEIR SITUATION FOR BIBLICAL ANALYSIS AND BIBLICAL ADVISE! I capitalized because this video is worthy of all caps!
A thought just occurred to me: When the LW says that her boyfriend has been teaching her to not take out her trauma with other men on him, I bet that what he's calling "taking it out on him" is her expressing boundaries and expectations. Like she says "no, I don't want to have sex with you, this isn't right", and he responds "that's just your trauma talking, don't punish my by withholding sex because of what happened in your past". I just feel like this is a first class manipulator and it makes me really sick. He's using not just her past abuse, but also weaponizing her religion against her by using faith to keep her with him (promising future marriage and a "godly household", etc). He intentionally sought out someone with a lot of trauma and mental health issues, because he knows that a woman from a strong family with a strong sense of self wouldn't put up with this crap. He knows she's in a weak position, desperate for affection after being cut off from her parents, and can be made to doubt herself.
Bindi, I absolutely love you’re channel and content. You’re a very no nonsense person and I love that your husband takes it to another level. You didn’t even get 10 seconds into the question and he already knew what the deal was. Seeing things for what they are right away is needed in our society today so we can stop wasting each others time, playing house, “testing out the waters” and dragging people along in these relationships that aren’t leading to marriage. As your sister in Christ, I appreciate your honesty and straightforwardness to help your sisters in Christ rise to the standards of the Lord instead of trying to make the Bible fit into our ever changing world
The problem here is she had a child by him. That makes it so VERY HARD to walk away. But, yes it’s an unbeliever and it will likely be a VERY HARD marriage. Pick your hard.
Words cannot express how much I appreciate seeing two godly and sound people speak TRUTH in LOVE. My prayers go out to the woman who sent that email. May you use wisdom (and not emotions) and discernment in your decisions and may you ultimately find healing in our Lord.
I normally don’t watch stuff like this, but as I’m getting back into my faith walk, I’m also applying it to my dating life. This is great information & insight. ❤️
This was excellent but the best part was watching Bindi's reaction to her husband's "bars". 🤣 My grandmother told me, "when a person shows you who they are - believe them". Best advice ever.
Lord bless the wisdom of this young man! Cam, you are truly a man of God!! I love both of your honesty and hearts for God. May He continue to bless you! 🙏
Oh thank God for this video! I wish so much I had seen this before I got married. I am one of those that got with a man who wasn't a believer... all I can say is that the tears are never far. Its hard y'all. Look to God and actually obey. God actually told me not to do it, but I married him anyways because I wanted to help him. Now I know that is not a reason to get married. Marriage is serious, lets not be foolish.
Love the way you two bounce off of each other and the way you hype him up when he brings up a good point🤣 You two gave sound advice, I know your viewer is grateful for it!
Wow!! What a wonderful video! Cam is dead on! I really pray that he is disciplining other young men in your local church. His very practical and straightforward mindset is what our young men in our churches need. This is absolutely golden! God bless you guys!
Stop identifying with illness and allow the God that made you to tell you what is wrong with you, if there even is anything wrong besides intense emotional healing that needs to be done. Eventually be strong enough to leave the man that did not love you.
My first thought after hearing her story is that she may be a Jehovah's witness. However I hope she really considers what you guys are saying and not dismiss. This is so serious. He sounds like a narcissist. They will literally mess you up mentally. They also love dealing with women with negative self- image of themselves. They love playing the knight in shining armor and at the same time make you feel unworthy. Forgive him and let him go before he lets you go. Do not warn or manipulate him, just go. You are in a harmful situation. Stop codepending on this guy. You already have mental struggles and living in sin is one of your present struggles. Let's say y'all decide to get married tomorrow? If he hasn't repented before God and man you will have problems being married. Leave baby while you can. When he leaves you for someone else, it could do you a great harm you are not able to handle. Shacking is an open door for someone to get out of a relationship with no responsibility towards you I. don't care how many children a woman has. Child, get out! Love God first, then yourself and your child. Get true help and true happiness. Stop telling yourself his lies. God has someone that's going to love you with bipolar and all. But you got to seek Him first. Love you child. I'll be praying God give you what's needed to do his will. The devil is a liar.
"However...dass da Holy Spirit" lol truer words have never been spoken. You can't change people, you can only invite Holy Spirit in and hope they do the same
Thank you Bindi :) Your husband is very wise, just as you are, and your chemistry is so elegant and beautiful with him. He also has a wonderful sweet sense of humour that is so precious :) What a beautiful picture God has put you two together. A lot of gems from both of you and the personalities that you guys bounce off each other!
Wow this was really good. Especially the part about “a wolf in sheep’s clothing.” I was so blinded to this. Everything seemed good and portrayed like he was leading me to Christ, but wasn’t.
Woow I'm mind blown. The mindset of this guy Cameron is transforming. Please do this kinda duo more often. Much lv Bindi love ur show. I've heard things I've never heard and I'm not that young 😅. It's the way bible knowledge is applied in real life that's just mind blowing. Kudos guys #Solid Christian Advice #Unwatered Down Truth #Straight Facts
I love the Way she honours and supports what he says. Meeen she is patterned for marriage 😂❤😊. Though without a doubt Cam is full of wisdom. You both are such a blessing ❤❤
Such great man points! Wow! I love how he views things. You got yourself a winner lady! You guys are the best! Dang, this is such a good reminder!!! Wow
I'm enjoying these videos with the two of you sharing your perspectives. It is a good example for young women (and possibly young men watching too) of what a Christian marriage should look like. Thank you for sharing.
I think he definitely deserves a seat on this channel because I love how discerning he is. He is a very well discerner and I just love how he mentioned where is the fruit because many of us won’t be deceived. If we look at the fruit, the Bible says you know them by their fruits. And also, I just wanted to say there’s a difference between a believer and a person who is in Christ this man could have been a believer very well, because to believe is to know that God is, even Satan is a believer, but whoever is in Christ is a man or woman who has denied them selves picked up their cross to follow, Jesus. Meaning that their flesh has died in order for the spirit man to live. A man or woman in Christ Holy Ghost filled they are not living carnal lives They are not perfect, but they are not practicing sin. it’s a difference between a believer and a man or woman who is in Christ I had to learn the difference. Think about this, the people in the days of Noah, watch the ark being built for years until the wrath of God came. it’s a difference between being in the ark, versus knowing that there is a ark because if you’re not in the ark, it doesn’t matter if you know that there is an ark
Love all your videos, they are so inspiring! I would love to see a video of your husband speaking of general Christian characteristics that a husband should display for his wife/family..... something I could pass over to my husband and say "hey let's watch this together!" My husband is great... but we all have soooooo much room to grow and you guys are so much more spiritually mature.
Let the church say AMEN. @Bindimarc, I hope you got a fan and fan down your husband (when the video ended) because he was like on fire 🔥. All throughout the conversation, the Holy Ghost was using him. Listen, this was lit lit (by the Holy Ghost fire). I bless GOD ❣️💓. Many blessings @Bindimarc, keep following the leading of the HOLY SPIRIT - as HE continues to transform you into that Titus 2 woman. Because trust me, Genzers like me, GOT TO HEAR THIS‼️
Great advice as I love both you and your Husband's Christian/Biblical prospective!As a 53 year old Christian/Single man with no children will bring a child in the world without Marriage by God!Marriage with a Man and a Woman is a Ministry according to God!I had a discussion several years with a lady asked (late 40's)why I had no children, I told her only with a wife (6 years Celibate thank you Jesus. )Men as well as Women both need to be taught Biblical Principles of not Fornication (one of my regrets. )Men need to learn about God first then pray for that Wife (same for Women.)Put your trust in God and marry a Man or Woman who loves God more than that person;Love this show and God bless you both!
I always felt like because i came from a broken home i would never be Marriage material , or that i needed to improve myself and be perfect to be married. And so everytime id see my imperfections and sin id be like "dang i guess i wont be married until i get this stright or until i am better in this area etc etc." But the Lord showed me that i will never be perfect , but that doesnt mean illcnever be married . Marriage isnt for perfect people. He also showed me that that mind set was like me trying to earn something from him. As if once i achieve this or that level ill get what i want from God.... well thats not how he works. And dont get me wrong , im not saying there isnt areas of improvement in our lives . But thats not to get something from God or anyone else . Thats apart of life . And God also wants to grow us and sanctify us. Ladies , wait for the one who doesnt have you jumping through hoops . Wait for the guy who loves you and wants to grow and heal with you because they also recognize they arent perfect either.
Great video as usual!! I love these the best, don't get me wrong, Bindi you do GREAT videos all on your own with the Holy spirit, but i do love these the best when you and your husband are together, truth really be flowing lol and it reminds me of the morning edifying talks my husband and I have with coffee 😂❤
The man in question simply needs deliverance and his woman also if they want to prosper in righteousness. They must get away from fictitious spin-offs commonly found in replacement theology and get back to the feast days as commanded in Exodus 34. The feast of Unleavened bread is all about deliverance and it’s not the same as the concept of communion that’s not mention in the whole of the Bible or kept by the most high YAH, Messiah, disciples, and apostles. They kept the feast days while people aren’t experiencing deliverance due to doing something abstract in religion. Pure religion as found in the word is not what we see people doing today. Also by saying you are a Godly man doesn’t mean anything if you don’t know which god you are serving. Most men are godly men because they do serve a God but it’s not the most high YAH. We must get more specific in who we serve and realize the penmanship of the scribes is in vain. The most high YAH didn’t give us holidays but the Sabbath and feast days. These other Gods, Idols, deities are the reason for all these vain sacrificial holidays YAH never asked for. 1 John 2:4 King James Version 4 He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him. Closer To God Ministries on RU-vid
