This is going to be a good video. Have you had any plastic surgery? Please make a video if so. As for getting older, I’m actually feeling better and better as I age. Healing trauma, growing, and becoming more myself everyday. Feeling more content alone and with life.
So I am 26. Not old right? Yet when I go onto social media majority of people are between 16-21 and I feel old when I go on instagram. Also I am in hair school right now and I feel so old compared to the rest of the girls. I felt I had to lie about my age just to fit in. Not relevant to Hollywood but relevant to feeling old!
I think you get more beautiful in your 30s. As someone who just came into their 30s, I look back at teenage pictures and I cringeee. 30s just look and feel so much more confident. 🙌🏼 I think Christy looks like a full on babe now, plus it’s kinda weird to think teenagers are better looking (unless you’re a teenager.)
All the well-meaning people in the comments complimenting her by saying “you dont look your age, you look so great, you aged gracefully (meaning she looks young) are just proving her point that we arent allowed to just simply age. We have to age “gracefully” aka look young despite being older. 😒
I'm not a celebrity in Hollywood and I'm 28 years old, and I still feel that horrible guilt just over being "older". I find myself feeling jealous of kids who are in their teens or early 20s because they don't have to worry about being old and "not relevant" anymore and time isn't running out for them like it is for me. Every time I tell someone how old I am I get the "oh wow! you look good for your age. You look 18-21" for my age? I'm only 28! I'm really tired of feeling this way and if I don't get past it, it'll only get worse from here the older I get. I hate how much our culture idolizes youth :/
I would never want to be a teenager or in my early 20s again. Yes you are young but people that age are also immature and lack experience so their youth is basically wasted. I like being an adult so much better because of the mental maturity that comes with it.
*I'm in my 30s too & my clarity about ageism is that most women between 25-38 look the same, they just want you to feel insecure so they can profit. When I see my laugh lines in the mirror, I'm proud of them too many ppl I know who are younger than me didn't even make it to 21 w/ the rise of overdosing. You look great to me Christy
Yeah but you have to admit when it comes to this one issue. You have a privelege most American women don't have. Not a societal privelege so much as a natural one.
@@nicolewin4180 Black people age incredibly well compared to white people. Black women especially age better than white women. Honestly most races age better than white people. She's absolutely right, I can't tell the difference between a 25 year old and a 38 year old Black woman. But with white women it is much more obvious.
I turned 30 this year... I was dreading it back when I was younger but into my 28-29th year I had been doing some major self reflection and I realized I'm a lot more comfortable with myself the older I get. I don't care about people's opinions in the same way I used to. It's weird to think that now I'm 30 I feel the most confident I ever have and that I'm living my most honest self. I think the patriarchy realizes that the older women get the less they require the approval of men and thus the less controllable they are.
Turning 30 is a blessing not a curse.. getting older and wiser with age means more experience and knowledge...And everything else in between plus your still young and in your prime
I turned 30 in March, and I 100% agree and relate to what you said! I definitely don't care about other people's opinions on hardly anything anymore. It's refreshing honestly!
The problem is there aren't enough interesting roles for women. A 37 year old woman shouldn't be relegated to just a mom. We need more diverse writers to write more interesting characters
This is the diversity that should matter! Women in their 30’s have the right to be dreamers, and main characters without playing one dimensional mothers who die all the time!
that’s also part bc they aren’t even focused on older women tho. all the roles that are creative like you’re describing are typically given to younger women. it’s weird
I think it’s cyclical tho. is it bc there aren’t enough interesting roles that there aren’t enough older actresses or is it because they aren’t hiring older actresses for the roles to begin with? like she said that one lady on imdb who didn’t get hired once they found out her real age even tho her appearance etc. presumably did not change.
The main reason why the first “SpongeBob Movie” will always resonate with me is the same why SpongeBob himself has resonated with me for the longest time: acknowledging that even as our most noble selves, we’re all kids at heart. We’re Goofy Goobers to the end and sometimes that’s okay!
"Growing old is mandatory, but growing up is optional." -Walt Disney Be yourself, Christy, and embrace yourself of your character and likeability. You may not be a kid no more, but never let go of your childhood memories and still enjoy your adult life. Have a awesome Veterans' Day, Christy!
This is so accurate! With all of these youngsters on TikTok as an example, my first reaction was, “I was not nearly as mature at that age!” But now I’m realizing that you aren’t really supposed to be mature at 14 haha 😂 I was absolutely naive and innocent as a teen and that’s absolutely ok! It seems like kids are growing up SO fast these days and it’s wild. I also love your point about realizing how fragile life is. I’m now 29 and it is definitely something that I’ve begun to recognize more and more. Another amazing video!!
And these kids on tiktok are'nt mature they are just children with no guidance from the adults in their life and they are trying to be grown way too fast
Thing is, kids aren't mature, they just know how to blend their contour, wear cut off tops, and do inappropriate sexual dances online. It's so sad to watch, because everything they post on the internet will live on forever.
"You aren't the main character anymore" really spoke to me haha. I'm a few years younger than Christy but I definitely remember waking up one day and suddenly realizing I was older than all my favorite characters in fiction...and I can also definitely remember being a teen and thinking anyone whose age started with a 3 or higher was "old." Funny how perspective changes.
I love getting old! I never thought I would make it to 30 due to all of my illnesses and hospitalizations but I am in remission and love every birthday that I am blessed to have. You never know when it will be your last day on earth. God could bring you home at any second. Be thankful you are here.
Yes Christy, I agree with everything you’re saying. & we’re not grandmas at all, we were just their age. If teenage girls should listen to anyone it should be women our age (30s.) We mean no harm or judgement towards them at all, they’ll be our age sooner than they think. Just wanting to protect and prepare them like our age group should have been. 💙
The hell with Hollywood and their mindset. Whats more important is you being active and being the best version of you possible regardless of age. Excellent video and to me, very informative. Have a safe weekend Christy!!
I've been thinking a lot about this topic lately. I grew up dancing, singing, and doing stage shows. Just turned 29, I do look young, but my body doesn't always feel that way. I sometimes wonder if it's "too late." Maybe in some people's eyes, sure, but framing how I view myself is important. Thanks for speaking on such interesting topics and life experiences, Christy.
My birthday is this month I'll be 30 on November 30th and yes I've been nervous about it and excited I just love watching your videos Christy your so open and honest 💜
I notice with Hollywood movies that the majority of them have a lot of aging men with young women, like romance movies, action movies, etc. It's not fair that women are held to this ageist standard and that not many women act a lot as they get older. I'm honestly not surprised, though. It seems the Hollywood has an unhealthy obsession with youth.
My best friend who passed was a performer and Italian. She actually favored you a little. She loved you. Now watching your videos gives me extra happiness because I know she would be loving your content like me. You’re beautiful as ever and we are blessed to have you then and now ❤️
This is one of the things that stresses me out the most. I’m an actor and I can still pass for about 17-18, but it does feel as though my “window” is closing pretty quickly.
Oh my goodness Christy, I turned 30 this year (obviously I rewatched 13 Going on 30 on my birthday too, hehehe), and I just realized my HALF birthday is this weekend! I always feel scared getting older now that my 20s are behind me, so I really needed this. Thank you so much🥺🙏
This is really wholesome feel-good content. I love how you walk and talk. I find that hiking, walking, running, etc really helps with processing thoughts and emotions in a positive way. :)
I would never think Reese Witherspoon is old. Plus she works all the time on amazing projects and develops a lot for women with her own production company!
I am 25, and I COMPLETELY agree with you on every point you brought up. Especially the portion you mentioned about these young girls acting and dressing in ways that are honestly inappropriate for their age. Tiktok and instagram have become free real estate for creeps and predators. It is sad, because I think this idea and concept of body positivity is good, but posting it on media where it can be exploited is not smart at all. I think tiktok and instagram needs stronger guidelines to help protect these young girls and boys, and I wish we could raise more awareness about this without people claiming "don't shame them!" It isn't shaming to tell someone that they can dress how they like, but don't share it on social media where predators are so prevalent and can do whatever they want with your information, photos, videos, and more...
Christy is still one of my heroes. That will never change. It’s also Remembrance Day in Canada. In 2009, my Grade 6 class hosted an assembly and played A Pittance of Time by Terry Kelly.
Beautifully said Christy. I had no idea you were 37, but it makes sense because of how much wisdom you impart! You are really beautiful inside & out and I especially appreciate that you commented on lip fillers. It is shocking when very young women think they need those and so sad when their faces do not look right anymore. I hope a lot of young women will choose to understand their inner beauty first & foremost...it's hard in this world of social media but it IS possible to think differently despite the pressure. Thank goodness there's wise women like you offering a different perspective. ❤
Thanks for this powerful message, Christy! You look like you're in heaven at 37! I'm busting through at 32! LOL. And I LOVED your performance as an insane, vengeful daycare worker in Lifetime's Deadly Daycare! I've been saying this for a while, but you belong on Hallmark! You're perfect for them! They give beloved stars from our era like you pure material that really helps strengthen your chops. Think about it. You've definitely inspired this actor. Peace and blessings.
Great video, I loved hearing your experiences and thoughts on this subject. I feel like women in general, in and out of Hollywood, “loose value” as they age because we come into our power, realize our worth, have more boundaries and are more outspoken. In short, it’s much harder to exploit us. So while we loose status in society, we are gain deep and powerful emotional gifts that propel us into more meaningful seasons of our lives.
Love the thumbnail of your video of your younger picture of you and now. You are still a bright and beautiful person. Don't listen to the haters! They no room to talk because they're just jealous of you, Christy.
You’re more beautiful than ever. Getting another year older is a beautiful thing to begin with! Just look back at old pictures & you’ll see getting older looks good on us! 🥰
Thank you so much for this video. I’ve never been in the acting business but I’ve noticed this since I was young and have been bugged by it. Womanhood shouldn’t be based on how sexual you make yourself because it seems like you are selling yourself in a way that is mentally disturbing and demoting. Thank you for being aware and keeping your standards.
I am so happy to have found your RU-vid page. I grew up on your work and it is so awesome to see you on my screen!!! I look forward to your videos!!!! I love it!!!!
I think you and the other actresses that are getting older in Hollywood should move here to England. Our actresses actually age its amazing they have wrinkles and everything 🙂 and no plastic surgery,no age limit on what work they get and there not on channels that are marketed for a certain age. It's like having a lot of meryl streeps and bettie whites 🙂🙂
If you enjoy life to the fullest, that's what will make you feel the youngest on the inside and the outside. I fully agree with that sentiment. If we enjoy life and fill it with what makes us happy, that's all that matters no matter what your age is.
I’m terrified of turning 30 because shows like Friends (and basically every romcom ever) made it seem like women expire at 30. Even though I know that’s insane, it’s a sickening feeling that I can’t get over.
I appreciate how open you are in your videos. I love the simplicity of just going for a walk and discussing topics. After all these years still know how to control a camera 😊. Keep it up! Fans for life
I love Hallmark, but I had to get on them a while ago about their lack of POC main characters. I'm glad they are improving in that aspect. It is just crazy how long it took for a main character to look like me in big time Hollywood movies. Now that I'm getting older, this is just another thing on the list.
With respect, I’m a black man myself, but we don’t have to act like we need characters to look “like us” lol. Those movies are still enjoyable. There are other outlets that have poc main characters.
@@IWantToMature85 thank you for your reply. I respect what you are saying, but I wholeheartedly disagree. I remember how much "That's so Raven" and "The Proud Family" meant to me on Disney. Not only I got to see those that looked like me, but children from all backgrounds got to see us as main characters. No different from Hallmark.
I have literally never felt allowed to enjoy being my age since around 22. Thats the time some friends started referring to my age as old in a negative light. Maybe they felt bad they were growing older, as well. To the contrary, I feel so good about growing older. I still feel blessed and happy to be alive. I don't feel old or understand why growing in your femininity is bad. But holy shit, did the heat turn up once I turned 30! Every year I hear from OTHER WOMEN how awful it is. Lol. I haven't experienced this phenomenia with men, just women, especially ones older than oneself. Whether taught or inherently acquired, some people have a toxic relationship with aging, regardless of the industry they are in.
10 to 20 is half your life - 20 to 30 is a third of your life - and so on - you feel this and remember the 'Old days' 'cause it was your longest frame of refrence.
Aside from that being logically true, there is also a great video on youtube from Vsauce touching on why time seems to speed up the older we get. Basically, the novel experiences we have (which slow time down for us) peak in childhood, and the novel experiences in adulthood lessen dramatically the older we get. Hence, time flies for us as we get older and each year appears to go faster.
I'm 32 and feel I look older than that. Stress from work and young children the past 5 years has taken the youthful attitude I had in my early 20s. I don't mind actually getting older, but I don't want to feel "old".
It's pretty sad, but when I was a child, I realized that this world is f+++ed up. I used to sit down and day dream all the time, thinking about the resources I did not have, why my family wasn't like a sitcom, and why we weren't *Wealthy.* Life just always felt gloomy. I actually never wanted to grow up. *At 24, I'm still trying to be optimistic... trying to see the positive side of my situations in this world.* I loved this part right here 9:15 😇 *All the best Ren... I mean Christy👌🏿😇*
I always saw it as a blessing to grow older and I am looking forward to my 30s. I don't have it all together, but I have wonderfule parents, a loving sister, and awesome friends in my life. I am living life knowing that God has my back. God bless you all! ❤️🙏
I'm excited to see the underground fights against aging.... I stumbled into the world of growing grey on Instagram and stopped dying my hair 8 months ago. I have grey coming in and I love it. I've never felt as comfortable and confident with myself as I do now at 35.
What Hollywood needs is the diversity that matters like actresses who haven’t even been famous in their 20’s but later as more main characters without being relegated to one dimensional mom roles all the time and having more adventures!
When I was in high school, I discovered that a certain supporting actress from a popular 90s TV series was either lying about her age or her age was misreported on IMDB because my father told me he went to high school with her and he showed me her signature in his high school yearbook. I wasn’t really familiar with her before that so I looked her up on IMDB. Her year of birth on IMDB was at least 2-3 years later than it possibly could have been.
I remember headlines that Anne Hathaway addressed the ageism in Hollywood and yeah, older actresses tend to get shoved to the side. It doesn’t matter if they were in the highest rating stuff
I LOVED this so much, Christy! And I can SO relate. I love how you have this perfect way of explaining things that I can just truly understand and feel like I can almost agree 100% with in every single video, or at least see where you're coming from if it isn't something I personally relate to. My spirit age is 23, I think. My real age is 30, soon to be 31 in March.
This is very beautiful. I know that many people are afraid of ageing but it's really a blessing. I remember when you did Even Steven and Kim possible. You were very young but even now, you're beyond gorgeous. Thanks for the video.
I feel a sense of respect and responsibility to myself to take a moment and congratulate myself of what I done right in my life . That has to help me feel the beauty on the inside.
It doesn’t bother me getting old. The funny thing is you mind always feel young! Even at 58 years old, my mind feels 21! Love you videos! There always so real and honest! 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
I am dowm to get older, it's exciting and no matter what it's always going to be new. Our first time being one age, that we will never be again. But I do hate watching my parents grow older. That gets a little harder every year for me.
When I was 7, I didn’t have cable, and when the kids at my school reenacted episodes of The Suite Life of Zack and Cody, I couldn’t keep up. When I finally got cable at age 12, I watched Zack and Cody, and the same kids told me, “we don’t watch that anymore, we’re watching Degrassi now.” I watched Degrassi at age 14, and they said, “We don’t watch TV anymore, it’s boring.” My point is that they were so obsessed with acting older than they were, trying to act “sexy” and mature and use adult language, and they really thought they were really cool for using it, when they were literally children that were not even teenagers yet. It was really unnerving and disgusting and made me feel like a baby because they made me feel that way. They would make fun of me behind my back and say that I was too naïve and didn’t get jokes.
My 20s have been difficult because of dating the wrong people, death of a family member, working menial low-paying jobs while I complete my master’s degree. Not to mention, constantly doubting myself. At 28 I finally got married, started my first real job, and my husband will finish his work degree next year. I feel like my 30s are going to be so much better 😄
I'm proud of being my early thirties now since recently turned 32 but everytime I go somewhere somebody looks at me and says you look 18 and I considered that as a compliment and yes while I do miss being that age it starts to get annoying real fast and very agitating because I told them my real age and I have to convince a lot of people about that but some are still are shocked or surprised. It's crazy
I remember those "[female celebrity] is eighteen!" videos. Now, I would say that I was (25+) no less pervy than the average heterosexual male but, seriously? And with how Britney's "virginity" (read "virgin sexuality") was blown up to mythological proportions, #MeToo did not come soon enough.
Is Riley Weston the actress you mention at 1:35? She was 31 in 1998 and had trouble finding acting jobs, so she posed as a 19yo and was hired to act and write for the J.J. Abrams series Felicity. When her real age got out she was dumped from the show. That set off much discussion about age bias in Hollywood. She was interviewed on 60 Minutes about this. It was a cause celebre at the time.
I hardly notice much a difference between those two photos. You are older, sure, but you're still you in the second photo (I remember that one from Insta, by the way). And you still resemble the one on the right in a great way. 😉
That is very nice to say and she is great, but in one photo she is a little kid and in the other she is an adult. They are rather different, but same nice person I say.
