I am with a wonderful man, he doesn't fit that category. I base the man on his heart. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years he is not able to work, so we were living off my disability check. It is only because he is working on getting his disability pay from the military.... But he does everything for me and that is a lot because I have one leg cut off below my knee. I know he loves me, even after cleaning me after going in my pull-up and bathing me everyday and still loves me.i can't wait till I get my fake leg to help.i wish all of you to find that kind of love and my husband passed away three years ago before I met my wonderful man, I was married for 23 1/2 years and we loved each other so much that if I wasn't in eye-view of his bed he would look for me and even though he couldn't talk anymore we spent everyday together by his bedside till he passed.