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Why I Hide My Girlfriend 

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I do not reveal the identity of my girlfriend on RU-vid for various reasons and this largely has to do with the negative effects of having a social media presence. The reasons I outline is not only important for the standpoint of my girlfriend but for anyone with a social media account or aspiring RU-vidr. All this from my personal experience of having a traditional job while juggling being a RU-vidr at the same time years ago.
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@annamartinek7998
@annamartinek7998 Год назад
Francis, we missed your good humor and unique style. Glad you are back and in good health. Your girl friend is your business. Privacy is very important. Good to see you back.
@danim.2717
@danim.2717 Год назад
As an INTJ female, I don't blame your gf for not wanting to be in your videos. Valuing privacy and peace of mind is way better than everyone knowing your every move and personal business. If my had a bf who was a youtuber, I would do the same without a doubt. No need to explain to anyone, it's a personal choice and the two of you can enjoy your private lives in peace.
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
Too much risk. Thanks for that. =D
@FinancialShinanigan
@FinancialShinanigan Год назад
Your girlfriend looks just like you!
@Anthony-ys4lp
@Anthony-ys4lp Год назад
Its weird how random people online can be so invested in other's lives, I don't blame her for not wanting to be in the videos. But listening to your points it reminded me of something very important for 9 to 5ers to remember: people at work are NOT your friends. HR is not your friend. Your boss, no matter how chill, is not your friend. HR and your boss first concern is to the business. If you as an employee is doing something that they think could distract you from your work, or takes away your productivity or could be a threat to them (like having a RU-vid channel) they will do what is best for the company, not you.
@iamontech
@iamontech Год назад
LOL at the reveal. Awesome content as always!
@huhhuhhuh4069
@huhhuhhuh4069 Год назад
Thank you Francis. The talk at 7:05 is what I needed to hear right now. I would like to start a channel and escape the rat race. To do a job where my result is correlated to what I put in.
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
=D I had a coworker who brings in millions in value by building the entire platform. I wonder how much bonus he got.
@huhhuhhuh4069
@huhhuhhuh4069 Год назад
@@BeatTheBush what platform?
@michaelgray1123
@michaelgray1123 11 месяцев назад
I agree. "the less you reveal about yourself, the better."......... excellent words to live by
@richarde3378
@richarde3378 Год назад
Haha! That photo was hilarious! Thanks, Francis! 😂
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
Glad you liked it! ROFL. XD XD
@christopherbf1197
@christopherbf1197 Год назад
speaking of YT privacy, yeah my regular day job co-workers know I do videos. it's a little embarrassing at times being almost 30, but I'm glad my faith/work ethic has kept me consistent. I wish youtube could be my livelihood but I'm nowhere near there. but we'll see because I just have to keep going. in spite of this being about privacy with youtube, this was somewhat inspirational. Thank you
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
When it's out of the bag, no way going back.
@Dracomies
@Dracomies Год назад
I totally relate to this video. Heck I have a RU-vid video but never show my face in videos. And it's actually really hard to do that, hell I have to redo some videos because I'm accidentally in it. But yeah, I just don't want myself to be shown in front of a bunch of random people.
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
There are many risks involved so you have to bear the consequences if you ever show your face.
@Dracomies
@Dracomies Год назад
@@BeatTheBush Exactly! I'm paranoid. Also there's no Edit-=> Undo. What stays on the internet stay there forever.
@tilasole3252
@tilasole3252 Год назад
@@Dracomies yup. If you are that paranoid though, make sure you have no mirrors or glass, including camera lenses that will reflect back to your face. Or a shiny or glossy surface or a counter top or accordion can reveal your face. Maybe wear a mask, cover up any tattoos while filming and a hat, just in case something was not caught in editing.
@Dracomies
@Dracomies Год назад
@@tilasole3252 That's why I have to redo some videos hahah and it's a pain! Sometimes I think, oh the hell with it. But yeah, sometimes there's a bottle there and it's me on it then I gotta redo the whole video ahah.
@sogerc1
@sogerc1 Год назад
🤣When BTB said he's gonna show the picture for a frame or two I went 0.25x and slight pressure on the spacebar 😂
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
XD XD
@solomonchau7725
@solomonchau7725 7 месяцев назад
People start FREAKING over my "girlfriend" all the time as well. The reality is no ones cares if you're broke, so just keep working/making money/whatever you do. Time after time again, everyone wants to know about the girlfriend. Then, the money. That's all people care about: Girls and money. In short, no need for anymore drama bombs. Just don't tell anyone, period.
@zaulty
@zaulty Год назад
Those are exactly some of the reasons why i decided to not show myself when i recently started to put some of my music on youtube. The other side of the medal though, i guess there would be a lot more views if i would put my face on it.
@Spacemonkeymojo
@Spacemonkeymojo 6 месяцев назад
The story at 1:40 could be a Seinfeld episode LMAOOOOOOO
@Jung1981giggles
@Jung1981giggles Год назад
That’s for sharing this always good to hear the good and bad things about once you get to a certain RU-vid level and people getting jealous with work with the extra income
@nhiakhang2622
@nhiakhang2622 Год назад
My side income and investments I keep them away from my W2. Same with social media. My boss from my W2 asked if I have one and to link it up with our company and I simply told him that I do but I prefer to keep my personal and business lives separate. I have now started a 1099 for nights and weekends recently, totaling 4 income streams and this too, is not known to my W2 to avoid any conflicts.
@CurieBohr
@CurieBohr Год назад
Make social media accounts with your real name. Link those. And say, I don’t use them. No time.
@jacquesleriche_
@jacquesleriche_ Год назад
Love your humour Francis. Never change
@CENA896
@CENA896 Год назад
Your job and relationships should always be separate in your life unless your married I agree with u on this
@kevinstewart4346
@kevinstewart4346 Год назад
Great advice on privacy at work. I’ve seen coworkers get raises and bonuses greater than their coworkers because “they needed it more”.
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
Lends itself to giving hints how you need more... I'm not saying lie but rather when things happen, let people know you need more money! Like new roof? Mention it in the weekly one-on-one! Heck yeah!
@tilasole3252
@tilasole3252 Год назад
If I ever started a RU-vid channel for any kind of income, even before what happened that I already mentioned, I would either not show my self at all or at least wear a mask or something. I just like my privacy. But a lot of people, in order to feel comfortable, needs to see who is the person they are subscribing to or giving donations to. It helps to get "acquainted" so to speak. But ehhh... Besides a very small group of people I'd feel comfortable with, I rather I didn't. That also reminds me of a digital artist. She would always draw her self as the avatar of the video. She had extreme anxiety, which hopefully went away by now, as she does or did begin showing herself on the videos. But you also don't want pervs of either sex commenting poorly either, which undoubtedly will happen. Either compliments, rude comments or straight up perv ones.
@GhostofTradition
@GhostofTradition Год назад
it makes sense, internet exposure is all risk and no benifit for her
@cows4us
@cows4us Год назад
Good for u! It’s u guy’s business and no one else! 😊
@jimv77
@jimv77 Год назад
Are you sure your girlfriend is not your sister?
@FlyingAnna
@FlyingAnna Год назад
Cuz other Silicon Valley bachelors would try to steal your gf😉
@heinuchung8680
@heinuchung8680 Год назад
Keep her private you need to have a private life and then your media life . Keep her private no shame glad you are doing better
@ikitmodel7758
@ikitmodel7758 Год назад
Someone at my job found out about my channel and next thing you know the whole office knows about it. It's super annoying because now coworkers see me differently. It changes how people interact with you some better some worse. It can definitely be used against you as well if you are not careful. P.S The channel is not this one I am writing this comment with.
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
Cons are much worse than the pros in my experience.
@mlk8703
@mlk8703 Год назад
Solid video
@patrickr2686
@patrickr2686 Год назад
Of all the social media platforms who do you think pays the most for content?
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
Not sure, I haven't used all of them. I think it depends on how good you are at monetizing.
@Paleface324
@Paleface324 Год назад
She's very attractive and looks just right for you. I hope she's frugal.
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
LOL! Blah! I don't know what to say.
@6240tv
@6240tv Год назад
your reasoning is exactly why I do not post my face on my videos and or my photo here and name can not identify my gender . one will only see my cats or dogs as well as in past having a stalker whom ended up in jail ,. for their actions
@TheSimArchitect
@TheSimArchitect Год назад
You already expose yourself when people know you're FIRE. I wonder if people come to you for solicitation purposes and how often. I am not "there" yet but I hate the curiosity people have around how we can survive without going out everyday to work. 😬 You are entirely eligible to as little or as much privacy as you want to have. The same applies to her. Stay strong and do what brings you joy. 😇
@Soljarag5
@Soljarag5 Год назад
I guess her menu doesn't include it
@Spacemonkeymojo
@Spacemonkeymojo 6 месяцев назад
The advice about RU-vid was really good actually. With great RU-vidness comes great responsibility 😂
@RexMoore1984
@RexMoore1984 Год назад
How many of those beers did you have prior to this date? Wow.
@tsizzle
@tsizzle Год назад
That’s why the concept from the tv show “Severance” is so brilliant… if in the future employers can separate your work self from your non work self. Albeit not always a pleasant experience for you. The real question I have is if your gf eventually becomes your wife and you guys get married… would you ever combine your finances or always keep it separate? 😮🤔
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
I really don't know what will happen in that regard.
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303
Separate. The only time we go out of the way is if we do it no strings attached.
@831mermaid3
@831mermaid3 Год назад
Very wise decision. I have always worked with mostly females and they are very jealous of each other even the ones in their 50s and 60s. Great video👍🏻💛🧜🏻‍♀️
@vacationboyvideos
@vacationboyvideos Год назад
Thanks for the advice
@mikeshr4932
@mikeshr4932 Год назад
The problem I had when I started my own business : enviousness. When you only make a small amount of money people are still nice. But when you start to make serious money - people will try to derail and hinder your business .
@JapanPotato
@JapanPotato Год назад
Hahha it’s funny how you talk about Japan. That’s exactly what I’m doing, not showing myself, not saying anything but my channel is still quite popular.
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
Some of these first person view vids like yours are great! Makes you feel like you are there.
@JapanPotato
@JapanPotato Год назад
@@BeatTheBush thank you! the bad thing is that it’s quite difficult to get any kind of sponsorship compared to channels where you show your face. Companies prefer more personality I guess. I’m thinking about launching a separate Vlog channel for a year now and already produced some videos. Just need to overcome my fear launching them.
@YouTubeGlobalAdminstrator
@YouTubeGlobalAdminstrator Год назад
That's a realistic waifu pillow.
@social3ngin33rin
@social3ngin33rin Год назад
I'm jelly of his realistic pillow waifu
@cashmonyz
@cashmonyz Год назад
what's your thoughts on chatgpt francis....ask it some questions and get back to us lol
@GurtGobain
@GurtGobain Год назад
I've written and published 2 novels using it since January. It's the future.
@privateprivate31337
@privateprivate31337 Год назад
My wife is a RU-vidr too and I always ask her not to show me haha
@social3ngin33rin
@social3ngin33rin Год назад
Lololol omfg this video Also, the only answer you needed to say was "because the internet," and that would make sense to me lol Lol I like the new plushies, but I still miss the previous plushies.
@cosmeticscameo8277
@cosmeticscameo8277 Год назад
right of privacy. it's her right. it's your discretion. no one asked. don't ask don't tell.
@cryptoinside8814
@cryptoinside8814 Год назад
Ugly ??
@GotJay713
@GotJay713 Год назад
She's beautiful!
@colorsofavon934
@colorsofavon934 Год назад
🧡Never show her face or share her name.
@kingming869
@kingming869 Год назад
This video is gonna give me nightmare for days
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
XD XD
@MC-nf3js
@MC-nf3js Год назад
what girlfriend? I thought you we're a sigma male monk mode wizard "khhv" going into the legendary 40 year old khhv mage or if you haven't already. The master has fallen...
@CurieBohr
@CurieBohr Год назад
Controlling.
@twindragon3827
@twindragon3827 Год назад
I just find it hard to believe that someone as cheap as this guy could get a girlfriend. Most women are not into cheap guys.
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
It's because I'm funny.
@twindragon3827
@twindragon3827 Год назад
@@BeatTheBush No amount of humor could make a woman fall for someone cheap. A woman would rather fall for a poor guy than a cheap guy. Especially a guy who makes a lot and is cheap.
@twindragon3827
@twindragon3827 Год назад
@@P.90.603 Guess it depends on the trait. I honestly wouldn't trust a woman who is into cheap guys anyways.
@daniellai7712
@daniellai7712 Год назад
@@twindragon3827why are you being so insecure about yourself?
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303
@@twindragon3827 "No amount of humor could make a woman fall for someone cheap. A woman would rather fall for a poor guy than a cheap guy, ESPECIALLY a guy who makes a lot and is cheap." He makes a lot and is cheap.
@CP-np4rw
@CP-np4rw 28 дней назад
@smarterexfly9099
@smarterexfly9099 7 месяцев назад
Its good to have some humor 🎉
@plutoflorin3649
@plutoflorin3649 Год назад
You have a boyfriend, not a girlfriend, I think
@lanuiiohu
@lanuiiohu Год назад
Utube = nosy world.....Don't reveal your friends, family or even your pet.
@Mindsetolympics
@Mindsetolympics Год назад
Very smart guy
@oliviafox6745
@oliviafox6745 11 месяцев назад
Another way to answer your employer is to say, from nine to five I give you 100%. When I'm home, I'm free to put in as much effort as I like into my RU-vid.
@fogrunr5075
@fogrunr5075 Год назад
I'm here for the dinosaurs! 😄😄🦕
@jasonreviews
@jasonreviews Год назад
i would believe it. the face becuse your cantonese.
@RouRoro
@RouRoro Год назад
😢
@tilasole3252
@tilasole3252 Год назад
Best to stay single if you are trying to save money. Never met woman who didn't use and take advantage of me spending thousands and leaving. Then again... you can't "beat the bush" if you're single so...
@lukamagic5993
@lukamagic5993 Год назад
He is single dude. You actually believe him? Lol
@tilasole3252
@tilasole3252 Год назад
@@lukamagic5993 he did have another video of a hotel with her bags with his. I see no reason he can not enjoy life with another person.
@lukamagic5993
@lukamagic5993 Год назад
@@tilasole3252 Bags? That's it? He could be with anyone. Could be with his mom for all we know. Being super cheap is one reason. You said yourself you never met a woman who didn't like to take advantage of you. Women stay away from super frugal guys.
@tilasole3252
@tilasole3252 Год назад
@@lukamagic5993 there are women who are just as frugal. And being frugal with one's self does not mean he would be "frugal" with her. I've just been extremely unlucky or I never learned and still have bad habits. He isn't poor. He has his life together. He travels. He can cook. Has his own house. I assume he is good looking. I don't judge guys, but he certainly is not disgusting to look at. So I am sure he does have a woman.
@lukamagic5993
@lukamagic5993 Год назад
@@tilasole3252 If you are rich and cheap, that's worse than being poor. Women would rather be with a poor guy who is generous with what they have than a rich, cheapskate. You do realize there are many guys who are decent looking and have their life together, have good jobs, and make a ton of money that can't get a girl right? It's cause socially, they are awkward and just don't know how to get a girl. A lot of Asian guys fall into this category actually. Cause they were taught by their parents from a young age that they need to just concentrate on school and get a good, high paying job. Once they do that, women will just flock to them. But that's not how it works. And they realize that too late. And by then, all the money in the world that they've saved up from their high paying job can't solve their problems with women. Look at Elliot Rodger. That guy was decent looking. He wasn't grotesque or anything. He came from money. But he could never get a girl. This guy here isn't disgusting. But he's no heartthrob or anything. He seems like just a skinny, nerdy guy. Fits the profile of an incel actually. So unless he has evidence of a girlfriend I'm not gonna believe it.
@PHOENIX1699
@PHOENIX1699 Год назад
So fame doesn't go to her head and hypergamy kicks in ... Smart
@lowbudgetpokemon
@lowbudgetpokemon Год назад
Lol, obviously the picture you showed is not your girlfriend after all you've said in the video. I am wondering whether you somehow managed to photoshop your own face in....
@theChef1337
@theChef1337 Год назад
Mooomoo
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
=D
@mylifethaidiy7045
@mylifethaidiy7045 Год назад
That's not a girlfriend. That is a man.
@_Wai_Wai_
@_Wai_Wai_ Год назад
having not even watch the video, you don't reveal her so that Thirsty guys don't leave comments about her.
@lukamagic5993
@lukamagic5993 Год назад
Nah, cause she's imaginary
@mannydiehard1
@mannydiehard1 Год назад
Keep your personal life private…
@randomizationme
@randomizationme Год назад
She's pretty !
@howtoitall76
@howtoitall76 Год назад
Bruh. The fact that you even have to make this video is such an unfortunate thing. It incredible how people believe they are entitled to your privacy.
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
On the internet, if a question could be asked, it will be asked. XD
@howtoitall76
@howtoitall76 Год назад
@@BeatTheBush facts
@limeboyz16
@limeboyz16 Год назад
because she is trans gender
@zanquinoe.s.7131
@zanquinoe.s.7131 Год назад
She cute
@missalicesmiles
@missalicesmiles Год назад
Omg, squishmallows! 🥰
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
Oh! You recognize it! Sawyer? But I don't remember that name.
@missalicesmiles
@missalicesmiles Год назад
not sure what the name is but squishmallows have a unique look. You picked a cute one to add to your stuffed animal collection though!
@60Airflyte
@60Airflyte Год назад
First off, she’s your gf and not your wife. How many times has someone asked if an ex bf or gf can be removed from photos because they don’t want them them in their pics or videos for the rest of their lives. I understand spouses can become exes too but the idea is that they aren’t supposed to. And even if you do marry her, maybe she doesn’t want to be on RU-vid then either.
@Baqsam
@Baqsam Год назад
What happened to the cha-ching when you introduce yourself? 🤑
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
Forgot.... do I need it? I suppose as long as it doesn't take up time. =D
@Baqsam
@Baqsam Год назад
@@BeatTheBush It feels extremely off not to hear it after following you for years!
@RedandAprilOff-Grid
@RedandAprilOff-Grid Год назад
🥸😊🏜️
@gerry2345
@gerry2345 Год назад
Looks very good to me,But you are too wrong.. However I can understand the non ublicity, she is going to get attention some attention? But only from me.
@Eratas1
@Eratas1 Год назад
Stuffed girlfriend?
@lukamagic5993
@lukamagic5993 Год назад
Exactly. This dude doesn't have a g/f
@lonewolfnwj
@lonewolfnwj Год назад
Lol you are hilarious
@Unknown2103
@Unknown2103 Год назад
Why even reveal you have a gf when you want to hide her? LOL
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
Bc too many girls are sliding into my DM.
@sheldoncooper0
@sheldoncooper0 Год назад
how much did you pay for this actress?
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
lol
@nealgrey6485
@nealgrey6485 Год назад
I volunteered at God’s Love We Deliver, a Manhattan charity that provided food for persons affected with AIDS. The men I men met were lovely gentle people. They would sometimes refer to their ‘girlfriend’-their male partner.
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
Huh... I understand in gay couples, there is often one partner that is more in the female role and vice versa.
@douglasfuentes2737
@douglasfuentes2737 Год назад
Because she's trans
@BeatTheBush
@BeatTheBush Год назад
Enter a beauty contest?
@GuestYouTubeUser
@GuestYouTubeUser Год назад
Lol 😂😂😂😂
@cashmonyz
@cashmonyz Год назад
LOL
@Transcendent-Economics-101
@Transcendent-Economics-101 Год назад
He won't show her on camera because she is highly recognizable from the adult film industry? 🤭... I'm just kidding😜🤣😂 ... I think?!🤔
@lukamagic5993
@lukamagic5993 Год назад
More likely cause she is fake. Doesn't exist.
@dedemager7926
@dedemager7926 Год назад
Kinda scary! Lol
@keviny.9596
@keviny.9596 Год назад
parasocial is real LOL
@smalltownpicker
@smalltownpicker Год назад
First!!
@kmusic5944
@kmusic5944 Год назад
PS level 0 haha
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