“Before I used to over share, now I never share”, she confesses while doing an impromptu interview on the sidewalk with a stranger…she’s right, she’s hilarious
But it's not oversharing. It's appropriate to the setting. I rarely ever vent personal stuff to people, but if someone came up to me in the streets wanting to know about personal(but not intrusive) stuff, I'd absolutely share.
The most awesome gal on the internet. Sort of confident, sort of insecure, good sense of humor. She seems like someone you can ask any question on any subject and enjoy her processing it out loud.
Him: do you like cheeseburgers? Her: yes... no... maybe. Him: how does this conversation make you feel? Her: sad... happy... angry... actually, none of those.
She's so cute and totally in the moment. She's not trying hard to be anything. Wholesome but wacky, awkward but confident... she's like one of those eclectic outfits where you throw together a like a bunch of pieces of clothing and accessories that don't actually go together but it works, and catches people's eye. And so naturally pretty. What a great video capture of a loveable human's personality in just 10mins.
Ga ga goo goo. "I'm great....I have a lot of of improvements... I made myself available..I used to overshare, not I don't share..." This poor girl is struggling with mental illness, clearly. If you find this girl "cute" and "wacky" ask yourself WHY. Would you be so charmed if she were ugly, overweight and 50? Honestly? I doubt you would find as much time for rambling 60-year-olds. You are dominated by the visual.
I think what’s so lovable about her is how genuine she is. Feels like she’s comfortable and keeping it real right from the start. No persona to be nice or to impress for an interview, just herself and it’s more than enough.
Really? Because I have this strange feeling that an ugly dude giving the same statements wouldn’t have garnered a video, let alone gotten your click, let alone kept you engaged for 3+ mins… Let alone gotten a compliment from you.
@@D.A.OhK. LOLZ. People who seek therapy: WAAAAAAAA! I''m too lazy to think for myself. I am too lazy to put into effort into building up my character. Can't I buy a better persona, you know like I can with make-up and clothing? Don't you have a magic pill or magic incantation that can make me a more-liked, popular person? Good luck!
She makes a statement then she picks it apart, evaluates it’s accuracy, relativizes it, dismantles it, and then at the end reassembles it again, but partially only.
I went to elementary school with her and was surprised to see her on my RU-vid feed lol. As hilarious as I remember! Great video and glad to see she’s doing well.
This is called “mentally and emotionally unbalanced” yes we as men are attracted to it, even if it leads to our destruction and causes misery throughout the whole process. When we like it and think it’s charming it’s usually an indicator that we are mentally unhealthy as well.
"Beautifully chaotic" - this expression makes no sense... Read more books and learn how to write. I don't understand why are there so many stupid comments on youtube. She's just hot and beautiful.
She is absolutely adorable, drop dead gorgeous, and would make millions if she started a RU-vid channel where she just talked! She's mesmerizing. I can't stop watching her. :)
I like her a lot. I’ve seen this clips on all my socials and she makes me reflect on my own issues every time. We all have these thoughts and feelings, she just shares hers. Self love and kindness is everything.
Not gonna lie, Martha just captivated me in a way nobody ever has. She's clearly beautiful, but also her character, her rambling, her humour. Interesting Characters like this should be the centre of reality TV shows, not the damn Kardashians!
Great interview. This should be a great 'time capsule' interview in 50 years as an example of how young women were (spoke, thought, felt) in the early 2020's in NYC. I imagine people 50 years in the future will absolutely love this.
Yeah, man's gotta walk up and down NYC in the hope of ever finding her again. There are certainly worse ventures to spend your time on, albeit probably more auspicious.
@@justinsixx90 she is 22 years old, attractive and confident and still goes to a therapist. If that isn't a massive red flag then I don't know what is. She is a me, me, me narcissist.
Very rare to see a person so genuinely open and real about who they are. Love that she's already learned so many lessons and grown so much more than she realises. Probably the most wholesome conversation I've seen all year, probably years. A beautiful rare star. #CelebratingRabbitBrushing
She is normal for these times, as she seems to be the typically mentally undeveloped, damaged individual. In another time, these people were normal. James Monroe, 18 Aaron Burr, 20 Alexander Hamilton, 21 James Madison, 25 Their time was 1776. In her time, Mary Shelley was 21 when she wrote "Frankenstein."
@@johnp.johnson1541 most people from the times of those days could barely read and write unless you had some type of wealth in your family. shes being a typical quirky girl. nothing wrong with that.
Caught here is a perfect moment in time when all Martha's stars came down to twinkle together for us. May the passing of the years never fade her guiless essence poured forth.
I love your writing and your perspective…. I wish I could look at my own youthful self with even a smidgen of such appreciation and kindness but I know somewhere between my authentic self and keeping myself from making more waves I never intended… ugh I bought the hype of similar critiques to some here and now I am realizing that when I didn’t filter myself etc. my candor and authenticity served as a great way of repelling the people I wasn’t going to want to share any part of my existence with in the first place and I never really miss these unsolicited critics who were trying to smother my light under a bushel. ❤
@@hamzamalik9705 If you mean "Not dazzled by slightly above mid-looking psuedo-inellectual chick rambling on for several minutes chaotically"....then yeah, guess I am. I don't know, I talk to women all the time though.
My ADHD was like "long lost sister!" Her stream of consciousness, positivity, and evident growth as a person is so great! Rock on ShartyMarty! You seem like a delightful human; the kind of soul I want in my circle.
I wish i could be like this because my brain is just like this, but i was always kind of suffocated by my social anxiety and learned to very cautiously choose my words because of people around me judging me whenever i was relaxed and myself let out whatever weird shit i was thinking.
I needed to know that making yourself laugh more than anyone else does was not a strange thing, she is so relatable in many ways I hope she finds that happiness.
What a spirit...booming soul. Rare catch, great find. We must praise and capsulate this lace laden beauty. It's like she just came out of the woods from the 60s.
@@JohnDoe-ve1pl I think you are 100% right about that! Unfortunately, we are too late. ha. I did a little (harmless) cyber stalking and saw she had posted this video (and therefore the related comments) on one of her social media platforms (forget which one). So yea, by now she may well be dealing with ego issues. haha Hope not!
She’s really cool!! When I lived in NYC in the 90’s this is the exact type of person I wanted to hang out with- “she’s got it”. Fun and genuine and smart. I hope she makes the best memories in NYC
Self hating narc would usually be of the covert kind. Overt narcs tend to lack the shame necessary or the self awareness of the existence of shame, usually tho the coverts have self awareness and better capacity for shame. One type hates themselves while the other type loves themselves but on the outside both appear to love themselves.
I love her energy. It’s decisively indecisive. She’s confident in what her problems are and what are good attributes and has a general idea of what she wants but when she has trouble explaining, she quickly looks to correct herself. She has no shame in correcting herself nor any shame poking fun at herself nor any shame complimenting herself. An “overly confident” person is often a narcissist and doesn’t like to admit when they are wrong. IMO, those people aren’t actually confident but pretend to be. This woman has the confidence I wish to have - no your problems, be okay with them while addressing them, know your good traits, and be honest in life
@@nicbarth3838 ALL people with NPD are self-hating. Self hatred (and the refusal/pathological inability to ever get past the fear and insecurity of that) is the baseline of what NPD is. Grandiose narcs are only masking their deep seated self hatred with big, smoke-and-mirror shows of hyper-competitiveness. They smother you with their (fake) sense of high self esteem. Covert narcs, on the other hand, smother you with their (real, but exaggerated for effect) sense of low self esteem. Grandiose narcs manipulate by pitying you. Covert narcs manipulate by getting you to pity them. Many narcs vacillate between BOTH grandiose AND covert. Those are the most destructive narcs of all. Idk this woman and I wouldn't make any assumptions just based on this one video.
I stumbled on this video by accident and she has the same birthday as my daughter, crazy...and she is eerily similar to her as well...loved it! A very refreshing personality...thanks for stopping to talk and making this video...peace
She is very much female lead of a drama comedy tv show, Fleabag- energy. I’d love to see how she approaches life closer to her 30’s. The 20’s can be brutal, at least they were for me. Wild!
That's like saying if you don't stop drinking alcohol in your 20's you'll never stop drinking - I think if you go to therapy and take responsibility for your issues you can heal at any age. It's definitely harder to change as people get older though@@tsubadaikhan6332
I like your interview style, Eric. You've got a light touch, patients and no particular agenda other than to invite people to share their humanity with us in their own terms and rhythms and inflections and you're able to remain centered and still and let them. And that is a gift. It's kind of a talent. I hope you re-interview many of the people you meet. I think more than just the sum of their stories and opinions and hopes and fears might manifest. We might find some become poets; others might become poems.
And she wouldn’t really now what do do with that love for her so you keep wondering if something would lead up to something and in the end you stay as friends - kind of
If she's as chaotically and funnily cool as she looks, who knows, maybe she wouldn't think you're out of her league. She may be the kind of beautiful girls whose boyfriends/husbands spend their lives thinking their pairing is some sort of misunderstanding (but it's not).
"If there's a spark,then we'll unpack" 😅 Martha,you are hypnotic ! And gorgeous. Eric,well done for finding this gem of a girl.....more reports on her,please 😊
This girl's got RIZZ. 😎 And she doesn't seem to be trying, or even AWARE of it! You wanna date, marry, drink, get arrested and hang out with her all at once! 😂
maybe people don't notice it cos she's so fascinating, but the cuts, and the zooms and the camera work are s e a m l e s s . well done Eric. you are a talented man. thank you for having the curiosity and the gumption to bring little miracles of the world out of their hiding place. and into the ether for us all to see. i salute you sir.
This National treasure is a thinking man’s beauty. Spontaneous, then rethinks, corrects and can laugh at herself. Having a coffee with her would be like riding a unicorn. Unforgettable and no one would ever believe you. Great job by the interviewer to choose her and get her to open up. Love her unconditionally, cherish her, make her laugh (not cry) and everyday together would be your reward. Wish you well, Marty and hope to hear more from you. 💕
Oh my word, she is adorable!! Young lady, you are a breath of fresh air. Never change who you are. The world needs more ppl like us. I only stepped into my nutty personality at the age of 51, where i finally had the courage to be unapologetically me. Here you are, 22 years old, and already embracing all of you...well done!! So keep being as nutty and free and funny as you are, ShartyMarty!
This was awesome. Chaotic yet soothing. Relaxing yet intriguing. I just want to hang around her. I also love your interview style of just letting her talk.
SHE IS SO AWESOME....!!!! I love her.....!!!! It surprising this video didn't go viral.... Calling her "The funniest Girl in NYC" is an understatement.
She looks good cause she looks natural. She hasn't done anything to her yet. No lip job, no dumb fingernails. No huge tits, not full of make up. Even her teeth are not a 100% straight, which makes her look like a real human being.
Thanks for posting the whole interview. I'd only seen the shorts, so this puts her more in context. I hope she finds what she wants. And I'm glad she doesn't overshare like she used to!
My God! She's like, so real! People have a lot more to give when they're at the point of not giving two sh!ts anymore. Her honesty is much appreciated.
Dunno how this popped up in my feed, but 20 seconds in, and I'm in love. I need to fnd this woman now. I'm driving 6 hours to NY, and will drive around witrh my windows down yelling "Sharrrttyyy Maarrrtttyyy!!!" "Donde esta!! Donde esta!!! Donde estas chica!!!!"
She seems like she’s also the sweetest girl in NYC. Her personality was equally wholesome and genuine with just the right amount of chaos to keep her unique and interesting.
"I feel like a lot of people want to hang out all the time...and I'm like why?! Go hang out by yourself" I have this same thought everyday lol. This was fun to watch! Great editing as well!
Hey brother, thank you so much for capturing theses scenes😁 This character is so gorgeous and so funny i haven't laughed like this watching a person being normal in the streets for so long. She's so funny and doesn't even make us laugh on purpose . That's the best comedians, Genuine funniness. Love her already 🥰
Wonderful interview. Thanks for sharing!!! Hey, I was in her Vineyard! And I met her twin or little sister in Carson City, NV. Small world. #ilovekindpeople
I really enjoyed this video. She's beautiful inside and outside. What a special human, more special than she believes. I pray that she finds true love and has a long and happy life.
I only subscribed because of Myrna. Hey "Sharty Marty", your interview was a wild ride - you in that 50s dress while dropping lines that had me in stitches! You're like a ferret cat lady tarot card collector with a twist, and I can't help but think that maybe the high entry point into your bubble isn't always necessary. Sometimes, it's in the surprise, the unexpected "back door in the alley that leads to the best surprises". As an only child who's never been bored, I see the world through a different lens, always up for something new and intriguing. Your favorite person being your therapist? Classic. It’s like you’re daring the universe to keep up with your unique blend of charm and chaos. Keep doing you - you’re a one-of-a-kind firecracker, and I can't wait to see what historical, amazing things you come up with next. As a creative that has way too many ideas; I think with a little discipline, first starting with not touching your face #1. Greasy, sharty fingers up in your canvas and stuff. Like nasturbating leave that stuff to ikky nikky or picky Ricky, you. Anyway, if you lower your wall a little or promise not to stab me with a rhinestone pin if I sneak through your back door then maybe there is a possibility we could talkle a couple projects I have in mind. It's going to take your high caliber of epic to make it successful ! To keep it straight up Foreal. You My-N.R.A are extremely extremely extremely intelligent; like I'm pretty certain you are an Advanced human, Rare- Fresh & So Qween.
What an attractive girl. She wasn't afraid to lay it out in her sassy, but smart way. She'd be fun to spend time with and talk to. The great questions gave her space to let her guard down and talk off the top of her head. At only age 22 she's made great strides in understanding herself. Would be very cool to see you interview her again sometime. Good job.
Eric,…this was brilliant. Made me laugh. She is like a modern day Anne Hall. The bit about her therapist was absolutely hilarious. Great stuff! All the best, Marty!
I just came from another street interview show with Miami locals. What a difference in vibe. Lol I love New Yorkers. Yessssss! She’s so New York or the type that NYC attracts. Quirky, stylish, creative, intellectuals who go to therapy!! I miss NYC! ❤❤❤ I hope she writes and pursues standup. She’s so funny! 🥰
The part where she said "I made myself available to everyone, but now I'm like .. F-you", really hit home for me. I'm always saying yes to everything. Learning a lot from this girl !
Being overly inclined to “be there” for others-especially if it’s costly to yourself (& what you need to do) could be a trauma response. (*please note, I said “might be,” and not “100% always is)
@@miahconnell23 short answer: yes. But at first, after the first few ADHD mistakes you make, you may think it’s not. But after those first 30 days, during the few days between scripts, and then when you get a refill you will *really* notice. It’s all about expectations. It’s just meant to slow down your thinking and allow you to stick to the moment. GET THERAPY. Get a few wall clocks and maybe. Timer to just run while you shower. Everything needs to be in your line of sight. Keep keys, wallet and daily items handy in a container where you can see it. Everything is on a delay. Especially your emotions. I have more tips. I pray dearly that if you are on the fence and you do decide to take them-that you are the rare one to have 100% symptom suppression.
@@DarkGloComics Thank you for your candor & willingness to share. I’m going to look for a chemical testing lab because I had BRILLIANT success with ADHD meds fixing my “non-24 never ever ever could sleep-cycle the way most ppl do” PLUS I started getting tasks DONE (not soley creating “to do” lists on random junk-mail envelopes). But then i noticed some capsules missing, and some capsules tampered with, and things have not been as successful since then 😓😡🤷♀️
I just love the cadence of her voice and her outlook on having shit that could be unpacked but doesn't and wants to move on to bigger and better while trying to love oneself. I wish my therapist had challenged me more. We love you, Martha. We hope you find the friends to thrive, find love and show them your beef taco recipe that was your ascendance to adulthood. LOL
