Why I IMMEDIATELY Pulled My 6-YEAR-OLD Out Of THIS School... 

I am a teacher. I have been a director of a preschool too. Let me tell you, there are some BAD teachers out there and also some really bad schools out there! You HAVE to be aware just like you were and when you see what you saw pull them out!!!!! WAY TO GO!!!!! You can tell all the signs, you did, and you acted on it. Great job! It will happen again. And you wont always be able to take your child out so you will have to be vocal in ways that don’t embarrass A. The kids NEED parents like you (who are involved) to speak up. Shame on those teachers for being in that position and yelling at the kids and not watching them properly. Very sad.

Teacher here. This is how field trips are supposed to work: Parent chaperones arrive 15 minutes before the students. They get first aid kits, a map of the venue, a schedule of events and bathroom breaks, a list of students in their chaperone group, and we exchange cell phone numbers. (I usually also give them a heads-up that the bus ride might make them carsick and give them baggies in case a student in their group gets carsick.) Then the students arrive, I introduce the chaperones and divide them into their groups. Chaperones collect their students' lunch bags and water bottles, then we all go on the bus together. Once we get to the venue, the people who work for the organization meet us and lead us to our first location and explain the activity. Throughout the trip, chaperones count heads and make sure everyone's having fun. Bathroom breaks as scheduled. Lunch at the picnic area. Last bathroom break, then chaperones lead their groups back on the bus. Once on the bus, I count heads at least two more times before we head back. Then we say goodbye and thank you to the parents and we head inside for a read aloud before dismissal as usual.

It really is ridiculous the school you paid for was so bad. Just goes to show paying more doesn't always mean better. You are an AMAZING mom to recognize something was off about Ayla. She's an EXTREMELY intelligent little girl and enjoys learning so I'm very happy you switched schools. Don't ever second guess when it comes to babies. Noone knows them like mama 😉

When I was in third grade I had a teacher who was so awful. She would pull kids out by their ears, degrade us, and she wrote me up for going to the bathroom after I asked her and got her permission. I can home daily in tears and told my mom I didn’t want to live anymore nor go to school. My mom had reported her many of times before. After a month of the school year my mom was fed up. She went and immediately talked to the principle. My teacher told my mom I was her favorite student and I was very well behaved. My mom said “well if your favorite student doesn’t want to live anymore, how do you think your worst student feels?” She retired IMMEDIATELY after the meeting. Stand up for your babies!

My baby girl is going to preschool for the first time this year and I’m just so nervous about stuff like this 😢 you handled that very well!

I hope you got your money back. I would have been livid. Especially if they weren't doing their jobs and treating the kids right

Good call. I should had done that with my oldest for kindergarten. After that, she had an amazing teachers and they worked her.

The field trip seemed like an easy way for them to make it seem like a good school/make money. I’m glad you went with her that day.

I love how you don't even get distracted by the screaming lol

So glad you went on that trip to realize how things were really going! We have to be an advocate for our kids!

I am so happy you switched her schools and she is back to being excited about going to summer school.

Best summer ever is being home with momma and doing stuff with her

this makes me sick. as a parent it’s scary enough to drop your child off and have them be alone.. then add on top of that a bad teacher.. turns my stomach.

I’m sorry you had that experience with your daughter’s school. Please talk to the director. Maybe it can change things for the kids still there.

So so glad that school is fun and new journey of learning for Ayla like always thanks for sharing your journey.

So glad shes liking her new summer school! ❤️ Some Teachers nowadays are terrible And its so sad many of them spend so much time on their phones 🤦🏻‍♀️

This is exactly how I felt from my daughter picking her up from school when she was in class learning.. like there’s something bothering her and sure enough a year later she told me her classmates are mean to her and teacher never told them to stop 😞💔

Happy for your Daughter and you. Happy kids will show it. So it is the same of the opposite. I agree take her back to the museum. Teach her what she missed. Hugs Aloha

What was the fun place you took them to with the ball pit & remote ride ons? Looked like so much fun. Great video.

One bad experience at school can ruin school for kids. It’s so sad. Glad you caught it

Hope you got your $ back Talia. So sorry Ayla had to go thru that. I hope this opened her eyes to be more vocal to you if something isn't right. Imagine if you hadn't volunteered for the field trip.

As an early childhood education major this makes me so sad! Unfortunately there are people who teach who are just looking for a job but there is hope. So many of my peers are passionate about working with children and truly want to provide them with the best. I’m sorry you got the short end of the stick in this situation but there are lots of teachers out there who love children & teaching :)

🥰 you always handle things so perfectly

I would have blown a fuse, also kids should have a great time at there school your right there too learn not to get yelled at. 😊

You are such a good mama! I admire you for that!

You should of take her back to the museum and tell her what the things are since the school didn’t and let her play by the way love you guys

Is it just me or when she was explaning it i felt like she would be an amazing teacher?? and btw im so sorry ayla had to go through that!

Good job mom!

So hopefully I can explain this well. We're from MN and I was told here that the teachers that charge a whole bunch are trained teachers who have not attended college. The schools that are free or way cheaper are the ones that can not charge expensive prices. Makes no sense! However I have had similar experiences with inexperienced teachers that way! Maybe that was the problem? Though so much goes into it all! People like that shouldn't be working with kiddos! Hugs to you mama. Having to go through that! You are such an uplifting person! Love your videos+

This is my biggest fear with sending Carter to preK this year! Like please be nice to my baby 🥺❤️ you always just know. Mama instincts ❤️

I have several disabilities. I was bullied by my math teacher due to not knowing how to do the math problems. I was in a special education program for students with disabilities. It still effects me to this day. I am grateful to now be in a day program for adults with Autism. I had one bad staff member at my day program. I reported her immediately to my head staff members. Now that I am not involved with that staff member I am so happy. I am thriving now!

That is awful! We had a negative experience with Summer school too. I am glad that your daughter is having a much better time at her new school.

So sad the kids didn't really experience the Bishop Museum. I remember going as a girl scout. I loved learning Hawaiiana History.

You are right to have pulled your little girl out of that school. The SCAREY part is knowing that the other girls don’t have anyone watching out for them like your girls. Not to say that their parent are caring for them just that they probably don’t know what is happening … like when they are running around close to the parking lot while the 2teachers are on their phones. Sooo dangerous inattentive and have no. Is Imes’s being with small children. Your a great momma… always listen to your mother’s instinct. It’s always right.

hey! much love and aloha to you 🖤 we are a family of 8 also from Oahu

I’m so glad you went on that field trip to witness it first hand! 800$ your child should be learning and in the best of hands!

Love you guys

omg i would have done the same thing. always trust your gut!

Multitasking nailed it.

You should send la’a to PPNS in Kailua. The tuition is affordable and you get to be involved in the school at all times. You even get to work there a couple times a month to see the teachers with the kids. There’s part time and full time options, but the days are short! They’re amazing!

This is why I homeschool my daughter. I also work a full time job.

New to your channel, love it 🥰

The screaming in the background is such a mood

You and your sister are so beautiful and are very good moms

Matilda's teacher was NOT mean AT ALL! That was her fucking PRINCIPAL!!!

Here showing love💞

Mama knew something was wrong. Watching kids get abused in schools is scary and why I am now for cameras in school. I used to work with infants through 2s and 3s and was against it cuz parents can be well... overprotective we'll say. But now, huhhhm. Glad she got into a good place. She is a sweet little girl.

That’s why I homeschool. My son’s ( 7 years old ) teacher wouldn’t allow him to drink from the moment he entered school until the end ( 3:00 pm .) According to her he was using the bathroom too many times. She wanted to hold him back since she claimed that he wasn’t performing on grade level. Four months after I pulled him out and started to homeschool he was tested through his old brick school and tested on 4th grade level ( both in math and reading.) His teacher took all his confidence, was rude and mean to him. Now my child regained his confidence and happiness. He was deadly afraid of having to go back to his school. Therefore I decided to quit my job and continue to homeschool. Our school district is on the top 5 of our state but our experience was unfortunately much different.

Always follow your mama instinct.

When she was doing the roller coaster is she doing the intimidator from kings dominion

I’m sorry you had such a bad experience! I’m so glad you went on the field trip and saw what was going on and pulled her from there! My daughter’s first preschool they were nice but weren’t teaching them what they said they said they would! It was more like babysitting than learning. So 2 other mom’s and me went to another preschool and was such a wonderful choice! I’m glad she loves her new school. I hope you can get some of your money back!

Good mommy intuition 👍 turn over rate of teachers is a bad sign in of itself

This is all normal part of mom life. You learn what’s important after you find yourself exhausted constantly criticizing everything. Pick your battles.

I love your vlogs, I live in Mililani. Hawaii is the best place to be

I have to wonder how many other parents don't know that this is the environment their kid's are in. So sad. I would've been out also! Mom instincts on point!

OK I am a formal daycare/preschool teacher. Former because I was diagnosed with terminal cancer six years ago. And no that teachers are not doing their job because it either being lazy or just not giving two craps about what they're doing, just breaks my heart. And a 14-year-old child being left in charge of a group of 45 and six dogs because the actual teacher is too lazy to do a job, pisses me off. I don't know about other states but in do you say you're allowed to be in a preschool setting or school setting of sorts if you're 14 and have working papers. But you were literally just assistant to the teacher, you're not in charge unless the teachers right there watching you. So it sounds like this little 14-year-old who is at her wits end because she was dealing with all of these little kids on her own even though the person that was supposed to be the one in charge was there, she wasn't there. She was on her phone and doing things that she should not have been doing while at this huge facility with all these little kids that she was in charge with. She left a 14-year-old to be in charge of all these little kids. And therefore put a lot of stress on this 14-year-old who is a child herself, and made her look bad in front of all these parents. And yes I know that a 14-year-old should know better than to yell at the children. But I am going to stick up for the 14-year-old because she's a child herself , But she was left in charge of a group of what 10 children or so. And not many 14-year-olds have the strength to deal with more than two children let alone 10. So though this child was yelling at your child or other children, parents should really look at it from this 14-year-old's point of you as well. If in fact the child was 14 and it wasn't an adult, you did find out she was 14 and was being left in charge of these children even though the teacher was there too. The teacher was in the wrong. If the teacher was just letting the 14-year-old be in charge, that's not OK. I'm very sorry that you went through what you went through when you were on that field trip. And I'm very sorry that your daughter had a horrible time at that summer school. I'm very happy that she's having a good time at the other school. I do miss teaching so much. My boss was kind enough to leave my spot open for up to two years. But after about a year and a half we knew that there was just no way medically that I'd be OK to come back. I couldn't even lift over 10 pounds. And in the daycare business you have to be a lift At least 10 pounds because you're picking up children anyway I wish her the best of luck. And good job on you for being a wonderful mama bear

Okayy but how is her family so perfect and her life ?!?

I like this good bless

Where did you purchase the cute masks from? 😊

I teach at a daycare and we would be fired right away if we had our phones out we cant even have them on us they have to be locked away, the only time we have one is on a field trip it is a school phone that is only for calling in an emergency.

I love that Genki the old school Genki..

my dad is the same way he is very verbal. But that makes a good parent.

I love you guys and I'm always that happened to you and honestly I was in summer school for and I didn't like it and I was coming home and telling my mom everyday what is happening and my mom didn't believe me too till she went up to the school and so it before herself and then I got pulled out right away she told me to grab my stuff and we are going I'm like okay and I was in the third grade so crazy 4 years ago and I'm like okay now do you bring me now when I say my teacher is just being weird and being mean to me and my making me feel uncomfortable basically and she goes to another teacher and I hear her talking about me all the time I'm like what did I do because I'm the quiet student I get my work done everyday I'm just trying to get done with school I guess this is what happened to me and I'm like Mom please don't make me go to summer camp anymore and I'm so grateful I don't have to go to some more time cuz I passed all my classes already I'm being seventh grade this year and I'm 14 years old and I love to watch your channel because I just love watching people raise their kids because I want to be a mom one day and I'm trying lean why I'm still young I love you have a great night and have a great day and I will see you in the next video I'm following this was a very long comment well right now bye

You need to take this higher Hun those children are at risk with those teachers go to the school board and higher this is not ok

Did you ever consider saying something to the teachers??

hi, sunkissed momma, yes i totally agree with you so much that no child should have to experience that and i feel so bad for your daughter, i have been through some situations myself and let me tell you it wasn't in any shape or form great at all, in fact a couple teachers were involved and my daughter has been through the worst and as adults we need to be very vocal and put a stop to things like this and i am so proud that you stood up for your daughter being bullied like this

A good rule of thumb is to insist on being allowed to sit in on classes. If they tell you you can’t then that is a good indicator that they’re not a school or program to trust

This is how my teachers are… if we talk in the hallway my teacher turns around like she heard a gunshot and starts screaming at us and I talked back to one of my teachers because he wasn’t addressing a problem with another student that was upsetting half the ppl in the class and then he proceeds to call my mom later that night saying I call him inappropriate things (I don’t) and that I have a severe bad attitude(I also don’t) and that my grades were slipping I had from a B+ to an A in that class but no matter what I tried to tell my mom she didn’t believe me

I love fact that I can hear the children playing in this video.

That is me I've very loud and I say what I have to say very proudly and if people don't like it well close your ears or walk away but your still going to hear me lol I would have done the samething so glad my kids are going to be home schooled

3 teachers in one month,,,, there is a school problem as well as a teacher problem!

The red flag for me would have been no head counts. So dangerous. They could have lost a kid. You're supposed to take a head count at every door way. They can't do that if they are barely paying attention.

Where do you work at

👍🏽 dad’s 👍🏽

Did the old teacher have a bachelors in education?

Hey sunkissed mama can you eat Filipino food please please

Did you get your money back?

This is just so sad that’s this happened it is summer school this school is supper off and not right these poor little girls just trying to have fun end it just makes me so upset that this one lady was yelling at a four-year-old like are you serious right now so sad I am so sorry that this was an experience you had to be a part of 😞

I had a bad experience with a teacher in primary as well it was in Yr 5 about half way through the year and my teacher left u got a new on at lunch I didn't want my whole sandwich so I threw it in the bin she came it the class to get something and she looked in the bin and took my sandwiches out she asked who's is it I admitted it was mine she came up to me and put it infont of me and said you need to eat it take it home if u don't want it don't put in the bin . Then at she shouted at my mum cause I couldn't swim she was like u need to get your daughter into swimming lessons

Sad thing is that's most inner city public schools. Or public schools in general. Idk if your child is in private or not. But at least you can pay for better or know better to remove your child. Imagine all the parents that have to leave their children in situations like that. Teachers should want to teach. It so sad.

It's scarier if you are surrounded by lies and they making you look bad. I almost got abducted near my child's school for learning how to save for a house. who would have your information being paperless. On top of that, you were in a good apartment then you thought switching to an in-law house would be better not knowing they were using you for rides for work. After they got their shit straight they go tell male friends they molested your daughter. Which wasn't true, fuck the bathroom.

You so freakin beautiful ❤️❤️

Omg how horrible! why even be a teacher if you really don’t care about the kids or don’t know how to have patience and talk to them like actual human beings. & 30 min is a long ass time for little kids to be waiting smh. Good on you mama for pulling her out and protecting your keiki.

I have 2 nieces that had mean teacher

Watching this video I felt like you and Britney Morrow look like you could be sisters.

Thank goodness you pulled her out. Not for her sake but for the sake of those teachers. You are a nightmare of a parent and no TEACHER should have to deal with YOU.

Any field trip I went on I don’t care if I was in preschool or high school or college from the beginning we would at least get in the group so they would let us know OK this is what we’re gonna do here is your hand out follow along to the speaker who is speaking we’re going to do the demonstrations and they would like tell you OK there’s a time where you can ask questions or they would ask if anyone had any questions but there was like a designated time for everything we did like a schedule not just walking through the museum without really knowing anything other than just listen or walk through the buildings. That’s really weird and very on organized it seemed. Honestly it looks like they just wanted them inside for certain mount of time or to cover the entire school day I know there’s curriculums certain schools have to complete three field trips in a year or three educational trips and they’re just checking boxes off. But the teacher should’ve at least gone through stuff at the beginning with them and obviously told them OK guys we’re gonna meet up at this time to have lunch especially if parents were there to shop rune I mean I loved when my mom chaperoned my field trips. And she tried to chaperone every single one because it was more time I got to spend with her otherwise she would be at work and I would be at an afterschool program. I looked forward to those times and if there was a field trip that was unorganized or it didn’t go the way it should have my mom would’ve definitely Spoken up like you did. That’s really sad that you had to pull her out but that shows if she had three teachers in one month that’s sketchy right there

This is why I want to be a teacher. Every kid deserves the attention and care they need. And a good teacher knows it's not the same for every child.

$800 for Summer school. That's ridiculous. The field trip was a horrible experience. Field trips r supposed to b organized. My kids & grandchildren had wonderful field trips. I'd report the teachers on their treatment of the kids & how bad it was organized

Shocking personally I would press charges it's really vile how they do their jobs and discipline the snotty nose kids it's truly wild you were not the centre of attention omg insanity

I had a teacher in my 5th grade that actually got fired because of her behavior. I’m not gonna say her name but the first day of school I had this weird feeling about her she acted almost to nice, so it was study hall time and I was working with my friend we were talking quietly and my teacher gets in my face and says “ is there something u would like to share with the class” and I said “ ummm no why? “ and she goes to sit in the hall and yelled at me. A few day before that my friend went home crying because r teacher said my friend could not get a new desk and my friend was really tall and her legs were red and they hurt and she would cry. She went home and told her mom and I complained to my mom how my teacher always yelled and slammed the door when she was mad and it honestly scared me. So my teacher walks out into the hall get in my face yelling at me and says “ do u really have to go home and tell your mother about me, u don’t need to share everything that happens at school” and she waited for me to talk and I said “ my mom has never met u and she trusts her little girl to be left with u for 8 hours a day so yes I do go home and tell my mother about my day and about u “ she gets so mad and she tells me to go to the principals office, I have never been in trouble or gone to the principals office in my entire life so I was freaking out and hyperventilating. I get to the principals office and started sharing what happened and is balling my principal comforts me and says “ hey it’s ok to cry I will have a talk with her and your class ok” and 5is helped me so much and I thank her a lot. So a few weeks pass and my teacher is blasting music threw the hallways while other classes r learning ( she always tells us to shutup and cusses in class almost everyday) so the principal gets on to her and she talks back, a little while later the principal calls her to her office and tells her she’s fired and we had a substitute for the rest of the year! 😂

Hope you got some of your money back .

Sadly when they get to regular school there are quite a few not so nice teachers and you can’t always switch classes or schools every time. Complaints only go so far. One of my sons teachers actually made me cry. She was a former marine, old and bitter I guess but just be prepared or home school. Much love!

kid city looks like the boston childrens museum

I pulled my son from school and started homeschooling him because he was being bullied not only by his peers but the teacher 😑😒😐🙄😔

I am a soon-to-be teacher and this just disgusts me. These women should not be in this profession. Being a teacher is hard work and if you don't want to put in the effort and take responsibility for children then you should find a new job.

You two should do a hold my breath challenge in your next video

That sounds horrible an like they didn’t care at all for the kids an would just be mean an snappy ! There meant to teach them stuff not just follow the leader for two hours! Sounds odd I would have pulled my kid too and complained

I know it’s not about money but I have to mention.....The amount of money you paid for this place?!? 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 disgusting, just trying to do the best thing you can for you kids. SMH 🤦🏽‍♀️

Have to wear a mask while playing in a ball pit... they are second to a subways in the nasty chart. Sidenote...I work at a school... teachers really are that Loud, screaming, yelling...sounds more like a bar than an elementary school. Ugh