roses bel air take me there notice you did not refute the content of what i said. So you result to adhominems. Thats how i know that you have no coherent rebutal. Lol. Thats good. Going by your faux logic if i have never been raped i shouldnt speak on rapists or speak on how bad they are just because i wasnt a victim nor a perpetrator of rape. Check mate dumbass 😊. Now if you cant refute what i said then kindly step back and allow others with the brain capacity do the refuting. You are intellectually too inferior. ☺
Shan flores by that logic i could say a black man who prefers non black women over black women for the reasons of black women being more likely to sow in a hair texture that isnt NATURAL to her NATURAL state isnt a selfhating black man. Voila there you have it. Btw white women wearing extentions that LOOK like the hair they grow naturally and black women sowing in a full weave to HIDE their natural hair which looks NOTHING ALIKE isnt even comparable situation. Dont be dumb. Thats like comparing a woman with boobs getting boob surgery to a man without boobs getting boob surgery to get boobs. You would not think much of it comming from the woman since she was BORN with boobs, you would more likely side eye the guy that did get the boob surgery done because that feature doednt come NATURAL to him. Same with black and white women. White women wearing EXTENTIONS to give volume and lenght to their NATURAL hair id not thesame as a black woman REPLACING her hair with someones elses hair while HIDING her own that lookS NOTHING like the hair on her head.
When that guy said we're not well educated I was speechless like, jaw to the floor! Unfortunately I already expected the disrespect I was about to watch, but that one shocked me. Wow!
Kameca brown kameca i blame the social media for this! And I think it was about time this topic was covered because I keep hearing and seeing people being horrible about their own race which is honestly soooo out of order!!!!
My friends and I (males and females) had this conversation 3days ago. Some black men want the "black girl" body on different races than their own race. Some black men would rather deal with a Latino for their "crazy loud" attitude because it's seen as a turn on but would call the same behavior as ratchet for the black girl. Some black men truly believe that to have beautiful/handsome children they need to date outside their race. We black girls are raised with a whole different mentality than other races being taught on how we have to be strong all the time, don't take bs, be independent, set standards, and work 3x harder than the rest because we are at the "bottom of society" which is true especially in America but I tell everyone don't let the stereotypes define to you because it wont lead you anywhere But great video as always lol
Tabitha Well said! Mainstream media and white supremacy also have a hand in the negative stereotyping of black women. Black people that think like this need to reprogram their minds because this is all masked self hate. Smh!
KayTime TV ha I went MIA on youtube for a bit lol had to get myself together for the spring semester and year but I'm back now 😂. this was a great topic now I have to go watch all the videos I missed 😅
Once again, a fellow black man providing a platform for other cultures including our own to disempower, generalise and misrepresent black women. Embarrassing.
Roma Rodgers What? Attitude meaning being mad for every little thing and constantly aggressive in person. There is a difference between disagreeing and rolling your eyes, saying 'i dont need no man!'. And acting like your gonna get into a fight. The constant fake hair. Needibg to argue about the smallest things. Disagreeing with you is fine hun itss not a bad thing. Most guys want a women with there own mind but when you act like a bitch to have ur own mind. If i was a black man. I wouldn't want to date most black women either. And the fact that none of you can see your own actions and choose to gang up. Welp. Not like its gonna hurt the guys who dont want you. There sre amazing black women but they are not representing black women and not as common. So when they do act like a regular person. People are surprised by her and how her mom raised her. Choose to gang up and make yourself feel better. Lots of men still love attitude. Many men outside of our race will date black women for being black. just for that reason. Attitude. Don't think anything else. be stubborn all you want. It doesnt hurt anyone. It helps a lot of guys realize the nature of many of you who refuse to see for yourself and they will find love somewhere else. Maybe they will be lucky and find a black girl who isnt like that. but msny had bad experiences and can't stand it. Lots of black guys like feminine women and you can't make them like you by bashing them.
IAMTOLANI31 yes maybe black men worship non black women more because during the time of their courtship those women treat those black kings better than black women.
IAMTOLANI31 Lol its ok for you to generalise white women but you throw a hissy when black women are generalised. Interesting lol. Like i said, from what i have seen and heard black men get appreciated more by white women. White women are more feminin in behavior and tend to look more feminin too. Black men dont like aggresive loud beligerent women with weave who every second scream "collorism" whenever a guy prefers a lighter chick. No guy wants to put up with that im sure.
You're 100% wrong for making it seem as if black women being in a relationship or not has to do with a man's decision to go after them or not. You really think black women are single cause black men dont go for us? You should ask why black women dont want to commit to relationship cause I have a lot of white and black girl friends and Ive observed white women are more inclined to entertain any man that comes for them, they find their worth through a man wheras black women just know their worth before they step into any form of a relationship with a man . This probably comes from the fact that black women have been conditioned to depend on only themselves for self love (not the media, society, friends etc..) wheras white women need to be told and reminded of their worth because thats how they are conditioned. Its historical effects, not a simple concept.
Obviously there ARE elements of truth in your analysis but after dating, primarily, Black Girls/Women of Caribbean antecedency for over 30 years most judge their success and status in life by the number of Males they attract. Only yesterday I was, jokingly, telling my best Black Girlfriend of over 20 years that she is " up her own ass" as she was telling me on Monday her colleagues were irritated by Men " pinging" her phone with messages all day. Her colleagues did not know it was a stream of Guys but just got annoyed at the " pinging" which she explained to me as constant Men being on her case and she LOVES the attention and most other Black Ladies I have known over a long period are the same ( I lived with 4 of them )...
Isleofskye 😂😂😂😂😂 Thats quite obvious everyone knows that they just think that people in general including black men haven’t realised that...... undercover hoes!
True but 99% of FEmales like SHARED experiences. You , almost never, see Women on their own in Pubs/Restaurants/Betting Shops or doing solo sports. Even when they run in the park they like chatting to a companion whereas I have known endless Males live happy independent lives.
I always have a bunch of love for black girls and My future wife will be a black girl but Most of the black girls are so dumb and they only searching for mr perfect and that doesn’t exist.
IF TRUE...!!!!...as a statistician and qualified Accountant who could do his " 23 x " Table when just 5 years old that made NO SENSE AT ALL..I would love evidence of that because if we all think about that in Society there are 51% Women/49% it;s very close in The UK over 70 million sample. Where have these EXTRA Black GIRLS come from. It can NOT be " fertility rates" as ALL races, roughly have equal numbers of Males/Females.
By The Way before I praise myself toooo much allow me to say I am the World's most useless impractical Man who has no interest in Plugs,Lightbulbs and can not change a tyre ! lol
This man said with his chest that black women are rude, not educated and don't bring anything to the table? I'm so shocked. He must be deep in the sunken place.
These problems did not begin over night......the blatant disrespect began a long time ago, listen to the music, look at what you promote daily. Black women aren't HURT anymore trust THAT
Not all black girls have attitude I’m so sick of hearing the same thing, this exact attitude is why black girls don’t want boys with a mentality like that period
Spend about five years dating black women Oh shut your mouth and mind your own damn business You have no idea what you’re talking about You’re out of your element
60% OF ALL PARTNERED HETEROSEXUAL BLACK BRITISH MEN ARE WITH NON-BLACK WOMEN (UK Census 2011) .....all of these mixed race people with white mums and disappeared black dads didnt just fall from the sky
Why are Black men in UK and US obsessed with the idea of what other race of women prefer? Why they obsessed with figuring out why black women are undesireable/undateable? You guys never talk about the high incarceration rate, the lack of middle class in the UK for blacks, or any of the important issues. Its always would you date black girls/boys or white boys/girls? Black people need to stop asking stupid questions like this all over he world!!
Ant rip ikr. They keep bringing shame to themselves. It’s not like he’s a researcher who’s going to compile this data for a reputable study. No, instead they want to use it to get quick views and ad revenue.
Winter Nah. Most indians look just like black people skin wise. But they're called Brown. Idky. I think it's stupid too. I was just saying it so that he knows that some people might think he means he only likes indian orother south asian women.
This is so interesting ... even across the waters how powerful white supremacy has infiltrated the minds of black men. These reasons of "they have attitudes, they are rude, etc..." even the interviewer called it out in question and said "but are these reasons for them being single?" Which points the mirror back on these men of lack of tolerance. I'm willing to bet every one of those men have debilitating character flaws and are not being used against them... and to say "white women are easier"... Let me break it down for you: if you lived in a society where everything that looks like you, media, status quo, social economics, and beauty standards all represented you, then what do you have to be "angry" about. You navigate life with privilege and ease. You don't have your own men of your race degrading you and you are highly desired because the people that look like you control the imagery. Of course you would be "easier" to handle, because you don't deal with the stereotypes and generalizations that would follow you around regardless of if you fit the idea or not. But not black women...who suffer microaggressions at their jobs, their dating lives, their families... (you're too dark, too fat, too rude, too this, and too that) on the daily and even from your own... what do you expect to happen. You live in a world that openly reminds you that you don't matter... even animals react to rejection from their tribe. I'm not excusing the said behaviors, I'm illustrating the root cause. Black people always talk about the surface but never the root. The few dudes said it best, black men simply don't like black women because... they have been trained not to. They have been programmed to believe the same played out narrative in their brains and live it out to full effect. Black people really need to free their minds from the centuries of programming that has warped and dumbed their minds about each other. The follow Up question to those men should have been "who taught you how to hate yourself?" If you think Becky, Ling, and Karina don't have hang ups then you have selective processing. If all over the world there is a huge ratio of single black women and allllll over the world black men are saying the same thing.... then the problem is with us!
Great analysis apart from one " teensy-weensy" point. Asian AND Chinese AND Jewish Women also encounter that situation like Black Ladies but they are (99% ) NOT aggressive or rude or "angry".......
Sure, because all these black men from European influenced countries have a “preference”. A presence that’s not your own. Just make sure while your preferring you not insulting and get a 10.
kunle johnson people will look at you funny. One thing I’m proud of as a Nigerian is irrespective of the bleaching going on back home, someone will definitely find you attractive.
At 14:46 I was goneee 😥 is this guy joking? More black women are in higher education than black men, overall it should be higher for both but it's getting better I guess. Love the video btw it was jokes when people finally got the riddles 😂😂
Black men in the Uk have been fed the same stereotypes as black women it's rooted from slavery and has evolved throughout our western media and some of them feed into it, because it's easier to fit in rather then challenge those perspectives. A few of the guys you interviewed understood that which is why they challenged the statement. I'm glad you challenged some of the guys who where simply buying into the stereotypes.
This is extremely sad and angers me. If we don't love ourselves in all the shades we come in, who else will. We cry racism to the white man all the time, yet we don't check and analyse what we're saying and doing to each other.
I gotta be honest, I love black women. They are loyal, but blackmen are showing them time and time again it’s not about building together. Love from an East African brother✊🏾
Black kid with the glasses and jean jacket: what black goddess hurt him? He was so mad. It was like personal. Some beautiful black woman destroyed his whole life. He needs to seek professional help for that burn.
As a white guy who’s opinion probably shouldn’t be taken in any way valuable, the way I see black women they are mostly about empowerment confidence, self respect and won’t put up with shit which is taken from the mother pushing them to believe nothing less and accept and strive for nothing but the best. My black friends have white girls throw themselves at their feet and seem to have fetishes for black guys and they come onto them and state themselves that white girls are too easy. While someone mentioned black girls are seen as “ratchet” in my experience most black women i have met are smart, well articulated, well mannered don’t seem to put themselves out there or chase boys while boys of all colour not just black want to go out and get what they can and not get into a relationship or commit themselves while they are young. This is just my opinion though and what i think from what I’ve seen
roses bel air take me there how am i mad for asking a woman with no pic claiming to be peng to show us her picture? You seem rather confused. The shrink is 👉 way. Bye
Roma Rodgers Technically speaking i did not make a "sound". You meant "seem" dumbass. And secondly how is it dumb to ask a person making a claim to prove it? Seems like you are dumber than the idiot above me.
Ladies, a man who wants you to be easy, is a man that probably doesn't value you and is entitled to women. Have standards and respect yourself. Anyone who disagrees is foolish and probably in that entitled category. Find a quality man who knows how to talk to and ABOUT women properly and treat you as his true equal. Stay strong, possess high standards and very well educated. The RIGHT man will come to you.
Why is the host laughing so much...nothing is funny about this...hes not even educating them to the full effect...by you laughing so much gives off the feeling that you are in agreeance with them or slighty agreeing with them
NO you really don't. Hardly ever see a white guy with a black female, anywhere in the UK. That is where the stat came from in the opening statement of the video, did you actually WATCH and LISTEN?
Smh, everyone is this video makes me really sad, a lot of self projection, because certain traits like being feisty on non-black girls is seen as a pro, but on a black girl she's too stubborn. Really sad, I am exhausted of seeing these videos on RU-vid all the time, black girls seem to always be the topic of discussion. Date who you want and go.
Black women have to deal with constant colorism in and out of the black community, unrealistic beauty standards and expectations, and lack of support from our men. That's why our guard is up that's why we are angry. Now we have the burden of fixing these issues.
Majority of black guys in the uk are with black women full stop. Nigerian men almost always marry Nigerian women, other African men are the same. Jamaican men have the highest rate of interracial relationship at almost 50%. I live here, and only see a hand full of interracial relationships/...most races stick to their own. I only personally know one Nigerian man with a white wife....where are you finding these stats...Gosh...Nigerian women marry interracially much more than the men too.
Tosin Ojo majority of Nigerian men in the uk have been and are with white women either for visa or fetish’ reasons. Let’s not lie Nigerians love their white fat chavvy women
Bila..please oh.....i am always with Nigerian men in the UK...I know many of them have been chased by white women (nice looking ones) that are very hesitant. If they are willing to do anything for paper, that is up to them. But African men, especially Nigerian men are with African women.
roses bel air take me there lol stop it. There’s no different in intellect between Nigerians and other Africans. All African men are almost always going to end up with an African woman of the same nationality.
Erika Barnabas right you've never done things before that would make your mother question you. Hypocrite. Pray for yourself . Him saying black girls got atitude why should he say it to his mom? Makes no sense
Bianca Strober He’s talking straight shit about black girls. His mom is a black woman. It makes no sense for him to be talking mess about black girls like he mother isn’t one of them.
Also I rate the guy asking questions because for once it was a black guy who you could tell at least liked black girls. Some terrible opinions but overall I liked it 👍🏾
So not to long ago some black guy tells me , I'll never be loved by a black man and i'll never be noticed by one .Also that I should stop trying cause nothing is gonna work. It brought me to tears cause it makes me depressed ,He also told to me that he will Always pick white and latino women over the Black ones, and he also said he would date a black female but only LIGHT skin,cause he would hate to be seen with a brown/dark skin woman/queen. This is why I tell everyone I'm only into Asian men because how can a BLACK man be racist to his own RACE.So to all my black (DARK skin and BROWN) females/queens don't waste your time on someone who hurts you, find someone who will love and care for you and tell you you're beautiful everyday. (BTW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I KNOW EVERY BLACK MAN IS NOT LIKE THIS)
I kinda feel bad for black women hearing black men themselves speak in this manner! But trust me, the only mentality that is wrong is that of the men in this video! I can't even take most of them seriously, they sound extremely immature.
Guy at 15:58 ShaneSuga cheated on a lady who was very sweet and soft-spoken . And got another lady pregnant from that 🙃🙃🙃 who he isn’t with now. And he has the nerve to say why are black ladies tough, learn to be more controlled. Lol just throwing that out there, the people answering are the problem. Take a look at the men in the mirror ☕️.
You need more likes. I always tell people these guys are instigators that like to hide their hands. They’ll abuse women and then wonder why she’s crazy. They get with other women and dog them out the same way then wonder why they “all of a sudden” start acting the same as “ratchet black girls”. They’re part of the problem but can’t see it. They think the woman being non-black will somehow fortify her from being driven insane by their antics.
The black female has never changed, but only awaken to her personal struggles, self identity and survival of the fittest. Hence she will adapt, adopt and determine her own life anyway she can in order to move forward and off into greener pastures. 😉
Actually that’s incorrect Asian males and black females are the least desired races on the planet Black women are the least desired females on the planet By all races Do your research Sorry to smash your sliver of joy
Black women have been told many times about their aggressive attitude, the black man has spoken loud and clear and the women are wrong and strong and now they get left on the shelf
@001lightning1 ...Black girls in the UK are not it fam. Bare rude, mad mouth, double faced, low self image, fake hair, claw nails, love for ratchetness ....cant deal with it. Especially Carribean girls headache
15:00 loool that's the kind of guy i rejects on a daily basis, so I know he's mad because black women probably ignore him because he looks like a darling. Hun if you're reading this dont blame black women for your own insecurities.
Not surprised at some of these responses if I am honest with you, most of these young black british men are lost when it comes to black girls and believe me they don’t wanna be found until they get bored and realise they really can’t connect with a certain race not all but most, so let them do whatever they want the world is a big place man who has time to worry when you could be a beautiful black queen getting stacks of money and living your dreams, just know when the right one comes along you will know childdd, and can some one rescue these black girl haters in the comment section they’re obviously bothered
It's only a matter of time before the black male kill off each other and they have the nerve to talk bad of Black women. This is why I will never march or protest for them when they get shot and killed. I just shrug my shoulders and happy that I don't have to deal with them.
It’s called self hate... sick of all these Kodak Blacks 🤦🏾♀️ “black girls got attitude.” No we just have standards and when you don’t meet our criteria we’re not afraid to say NO!
I hate that boys always assume black girls are rude and loud it’s so rude and annoying and for the boy saying they hype themselves let them be proud and happy about owning there natural beauty and body aspects as there’s not much people in power that always help us out and our race in general so don’t bring down ur black sisters and women, girls . When ur mum , cousins, grandma , sisters are all “black” don’t forget so don’t hate please. It’s very upsetting also when I hear black boys say black boys don’t like black girls .don’t forget also that We aren’t all “ratchet” and if it is it’s a small proportion and don’t base 1 bad experience and judge all of us on that 1 experience
Reply to the last guy: guess what, black girls don’t wanna deal with your family too, we don’t wanna deal with your mom, your cousin, your aunts, etc, but instead of running away, we still accept to deal with you and your family because we know that’s our culture. A lot of black men are too scared to say it, it’s not only the so called attitude that chase them away, because I see the same black men who complain about attitude, chasing after Latinas and Hispanic women who also act crazy and also got a lot of family baggages and problems, the same black men would accept mixed black girls cos they say they can deal with the so called attitude and family only if the black girl is light skin and doesn’t have NAPPY(kinky) hair. They also feel like they can only have beautiful kids with other race. Another thing is, most black men love black girls features on other race. This is the simple truth, a lot of self hating, colourist black men are scared to say cos they know it would sound ridiculous. Thanks for this video, the internet, social media and black men like you are letting the world know that black people do not only have to deal with racism, we also have to deal with colourist black people. SMH
That freestyle though 😩😂 I think its because many have not found quality men worth settling down with. You have to rule out gay men and incarcerated men for obvious reasons... men who are of a different race (if you’re looking for black love) and men who do not want to commit if you’re looking for commitment. With all that ruling out, our options are limited. I refuse to believe its because of attitudes, lack of education (as that fool put it) or aggression. Not all black girls possess the same traits... but unfortunately our portrayal in the media doesn’t help that stereotype. And just because you’ve met a few black women that act like that doesn’t mean we all do. 🙄😒
I don't understand how this could be a problem, people need to stop putting people's colour into categories and stop generalizing black and white people, everyone is different and it has nothing to do the skin colour