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Why Japanese Guys CHEAT So Much 

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I went out on a street and asked Japanese people whether if they've cheated or not
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@tk_attack
@tk_attack Год назад
That little kid that tripped in the background at 5:41
@Javasius
@Javasius Год назад
😭😭😭😭😭
@novivianngo
@novivianngo Год назад
lmaooo
@clonkyy
@clonkyy Год назад
epic
@OtakuSadEyes
@OtakuSadEyes Год назад
I LMFAO(Laught my f ass of)😂😂😂 thnx man
@joshuamagdaraog5468
@joshuamagdaraog5468 Год назад
BWAHHAHAHA
@Purpleavatar96
@Purpleavatar96 Год назад
For a culture where honor is so important, they sure normalize an extremely dishonorable act
@teamojesusss
@teamojesusss Год назад
Literally. I'm so confused
@Cat-tg8nk
@Cat-tg8nk Год назад
It’s because a lot of Japanese talk the talk but can’t walk the walk. They act like hard workers because that’s what their culture expects of them but when I worked in an office the Japanese would do less work but refuse to go home first so as to seem like a hard worker and protect their pride.
@kennix2914
@kennix2914 Год назад
Agree. Ever watched anime? There are lots of harem genres where the males got many wives. They sure normalize this kind of behavior 😢
@teamojesusss
@teamojesusss Год назад
@@kennix2914 Vice-versa too (female with many men) but more male.
@pandaman1331
@pandaman1331 Год назад
Strictly speaking, Japanese were woke before that concept even existed. It's all about the image of being a morally superior human not about actually being one. That's basically what Tatemae and Honne is. Only foreigners get fooled by it with the "different culture" argument. Japanese themselve know it's bs and wouldn't get fooled by it.
@kellypalusis6399
@kellypalusis6399 Год назад
I lost some braincells when the one guy tried to explain how it's okay for guys to cheat but that women should never cheat. If that's going on a business trip, he can just leave and never come back.
@akshaini.
@akshaini. Год назад
True so fucking true
@BowserMedia
@BowserMedia Год назад
When guys cheat it’s literally just to fuck. Kind of like taking a piss. No bond or connection. Girl cheats she dead to me cause for girls to have sex 90% of time they need to be emotionally invested to some degree
@artthounasty5877
@artthounasty5877 Год назад
Fr, I feel like my IQ dropped while listening to that shit...
@alexthemobster5849
@alexthemobster5849 Год назад
frrr...
@audreyhill6859
@audreyhill6859 Год назад
dw these guys probably never finished hs lmfao smart girls wouldn't ever get with them fdksjdsjf
@neesan_tv
@neesan_tv Год назад
It's one of the things that shocked me the most living in Japan. Most people (who are sexually active, which is not everyone) had already cheated or been cheated on and they were normalizing it like crazyyyyyy. The thing I also noticed is like, as we can sense in the video, there is still a huge gap in stigma between women cheating and men cheating. Even celebrities. Some celebrities after a while, are invited back to TV shows so they can laugh about the scandal and everyone says "well he's popular with women, shouganai haha" but when a female celebrity cheats, it leaves deeper scars for her reputation as a "good wife/woman", that's why Japanese girls have a harder time admitting to their cheating because they know how much harsher they will be judged. Something else I noticed when I tried to understand WHY culturally people are cheating so much is also because a lot of young Japanese girls have a hard time saying "no" and I am dead serious. The men are very pushy and manipulative and take advantage of drunk girls (drinking culture not helping), I've seen it first hand many times. Japanese men also have a way with words and promise things they don't mean so some girls accept the cheating in hope of finding better love but are almost always left disappointed. Of course, it's not an excuse to cheat in a commited relationship at all! I just saw a little deeper the roots of such light cheating and was shook.
@twilightprincess994
@twilightprincess994 Год назад
you are absolutley right! Japan just is not all that beautiful. Every country has its flaws.
@qiuyinghuang5907
@qiuyinghuang5907 Год назад
Well said. The stigma double standards for women and men is the root for the double standard bullsh*t showcased in the video. “For men it’s like business trip, for women it’s like changing job.” The nerve. 🤢
@katalystcruz8864
@katalystcruz8864 Год назад
Nope. Its because its all more difficult for men to get laid. To cheat a man must be attractive. A below average obsesse women still has more options than a average dude.
@mealovesyu
@mealovesyu Год назад
@@katalystcruz8864 you don’t really have to be attractive to cheat, it’s really about right place right time
@jamalahmed6957
@jamalahmed6957 11 месяцев назад
"Japanese men have a way with words" so does every other man in this world lol
@clinton4161
@clinton4161 Год назад
People that want to have multiple partners should be open about it and find each other. Leave the people that want monogamous relationships alone.
@Denji.99
@Denji.99 10 месяцев назад
the problem is these ppl want both at the same time
@purpleplanet888
@purpleplanet888 10 месяцев назад
most men dont like polyramous relationships as they are with rules and such they like the thrill of betraying and its disgusting
@clinton4161
@clinton4161 9 месяцев назад
@@purpleplanet888 I don't know about it really being most but I agree it's messed up that people will hurt others just for a thrill.
@werallgnnadieintheend
@werallgnnadieintheend 6 месяцев назад
Yes, exactly.
@l6e6i6n
@l6e6i6n Год назад
How can you hate being cheated on and at the same time enjoy cheating on others. Thats some stupid logic
@gordonbgraham
@gordonbgraham Год назад
Ever watch sports? How can they love winning but hate losing? Same logic...
@exoticme4760
@exoticme4760 Год назад
Uhh that's with the enemy teams ... Being a couple isn't a competition with someone you hate but damn.... Cheating is so bad ugh... It's like you weren't worth it 💔😭
@gordonbgraham
@gordonbgraham Год назад
@@exoticme4760 In a relationship you're competing for attention. You're competing for time. You're competing for wants and needs. Ever been married? It's a constant battle about money, the kids' education, where you're going to live, how you're going to spend your time, where you're going to go on vacation, whose friends get to come over and how often etc. etc. etc.
@exoticme4760
@exoticme4760 Год назад
@@gordonbgraham what you're saying is too difficult and complicated. It feels like headache and a waste of time. It is simple, you become ONE when you're in a relationship then everything is simple. I guess you've been with the wrong people or you yourself could be the wrong one with the right person or maybe both are wrong lol
@gordonbgraham
@gordonbgraham Год назад
@@exoticme4760 Becoming one sounds nice and fuzzy warm, but it's not reality. People are individuals whether they are in a relationship or not.
@oreoluwabello1329
@oreoluwabello1329 Год назад
Cheating is disgusting. Period
@xelkim9666
@xelkim9666 Год назад
Says the person with western value. You doubled period too
@oreoluwabello1329
@oreoluwabello1329 Год назад
@@xelkim9666 I'm African actually. Christian. And yeah. I wanted to just use full stop like in British English bit period is more forceful you get? Two, even more lol And forget Western values. Everyone there is cheating and getting divorced lol.5
@xelkim9666
@xelkim9666 Год назад
@@oreoluwabello1329 in Japanese culture, sexual activity isn't considered a family thing, so if u r married and have sexual thing not with your husband or wife is ok. Heck back then in sengoku time the Shogun had little boys as sex partners no one was angry. That's true Japanese culture. It's changed since ww2
@tt-ir4im
@tt-ir4im Год назад
@@xelkim9666 so youre saying "true" japanese culture endorses cheating and pedophilia... and this is a good thing? how???
@sunoo_love923
@sunoo_love923 Год назад
@@xelkim9666 huh. back it up with a source
@christine_15_26
@christine_15_26 Год назад
When cheating is taken so lightly, something is wrong. It's simple. If you want multiple partners, don't commit to an exclusive relationship. Cheating is very traumatizing and I can't fathom how some of these guys can talk about it like it was just a game. I feel very lucky I have a loyal Japanese man.
@zackwyvern2582
@zackwyvern2582 Год назад
If he's loyal, then appreciate him. Don't let anyone try to sabotage your relationship by stereotyping him as a cheater too.
@obey_forever_mae
@obey_forever_mae 11 месяцев назад
@@zackwyvern2582 when did they say they were stereotyping him... weirdo
@Kuromi_-68t
@Kuromi_-68t 10 месяцев назад
​@@zackwyvern2582 Nobody stereotyped him.
@user-xc3xv6gt1o
@user-xc3xv6gt1o 10 месяцев назад
read the other comment above@@obey_forever_mae
@ncrest4365
@ncrest4365 10 месяцев назад
@@zackwyvern2582 appreciate someone for not cheating even though it should be the standard for all loving relationships, ah...the bar is rock bottom lmao.
@lightsoul2096
@lightsoul2096 Год назад
I’ve been cheated on and it’s the absolute worst shit that’s ever happened to me. My confidence, the way I see myself in the mirror dropped. My ability to trust was damaged. And worst of all, all that time I spent loving them and they were betraying me and telling me I was “paranoid”.
@BreathlessGust
@BreathlessGust Год назад
Hope you find someone better.
@neetfreek9921
@neetfreek9921 Год назад
I'm sorry but I'll never understand how people tie their entire self-worth and self-confidence to other people. Just move on, this isn't a soap opera. For this to be the worst shit to ever happen to you, you must be living a pretty dam good life. Whether they made a mistake or were genuinely malicious, who cares. Make up or break up and stop internalizing things when there could've been a million other reasons that caused the cheating. You are being paranoid, maybe not about the cheating, but most definitely about your self-worth. This isn't sustainable or even remotely healthy. Kill the romanticism and treat people like people.
@TT-ee1vv
@TT-ee1vv Год назад
​@@neetfreek9921 If they didn't lobe that person they wouldn't be hurt in the first place. It's like your mother, sister or friend betraying you. Imagine them mocking you, stealing from u or hurting you behind you back while you go about loving them and being loyal and supportive, it's heartbreaking. Hope you never experience that though. It's still hurts but it's true that instead of carrying the burden for yrs ppl should try to move on and heal.
@neetfreek9921
@neetfreek9921 Год назад
@@TT-ee1vv There is a difference between being hurt and spiraling into a depressive episode. And how you practice said love Will effect either outcome greatly. I’m saying that we need to practice love responsibility and reasonably. Not to forgoe it for the sake of security. Look into romanticism as a philosophy if you want to learn how the definition of love has changed over the decades.
@TT-ee1vv
@TT-ee1vv Год назад
@@neetfreek9921 Okay, I understand what you mean
@seiramatsuda2644
@seiramatsuda2644 Год назад
as a japanese i am truly ashamed that these people think that cheating is okay
@tiffannyranger8134
@tiffannyranger8134 Год назад
😭😭
@beeslaughter7674
@beeslaughter7674 Год назад
優しい人です!
@helixxia9320
@helixxia9320 Год назад
yeah me too im baffled. like just break up with your girlfriend and be in a open relationship or polygami instead or something
@remadotea444
@remadotea444 Год назад
They’re like guys can cheat but girl shouldn’t,what even is this rules??🤨
@myintmadi6053
@myintmadi6053 Год назад
@@remadotea444 fr
@josiebobi
@josiebobi Год назад
i never understood cheating… if u wanna sleep around just don’t commit to a relationship with someone 🙄
@emperorhideyoshi3223
@emperorhideyoshi3223 Год назад
They aren’t committing to a relationship that’s why they be cheating 😂 u just answered ur own question
@Xilladan093
@Xilladan093 Год назад
For money
@cee_el
@cee_el Год назад
@@emperorhideyoshi3223 yeah but they were leading the gf on by claiming they’re official
@captainvanisher988
@captainvanisher988 Год назад
You don't understand cheating from the male perspective because you are a woman. Women cheat when they fall out of love (usually) or find a better suitor. Men cheat because they are biologically inclined to do so (usually). It's like taking a p*ss to pump a dumb for men. By cheating they do not express nothing other than the desire to get off and procreate. They will probably still love their girl as much as before they committed adultery. Now, the question is if it is wrong. Well that's for each one of us to decide since religion is no longer what drives and keeps our societies working.
@Okayme8080
@Okayme8080 Год назад
True
@Minaoda.1202
@Minaoda.1202 Год назад
As a Japanese girl It's sad to see how they're laughing about cheating. This is one of the reasons why I've never dated a Japanese guy lol
@Alvun416
@Alvun416 11 месяцев назад
No. You never dated a Japanese guy because you are typical gaijin hunter with a fetish. Don’t blame them for your problem.
@purpleplanet888
@purpleplanet888 10 месяцев назад
and then japanese guys get sad that 'their' japanese women go for foreigner guys like make it make sense
@6xyreng
@6xyreng 4 месяца назад
Go for other races hahahaha.
@srose1088
@srose1088 3 месяца назад
So, do you live in Japan then? Seems like alot more work to avoid Japanese men if you are.
@SMCwasTaken
@SMCwasTaken 3 месяца назад
¿Que piensas de los Latinos?
@K3ROKO
@K3ROKO Год назад
When I studied in a uni in Japan, me and my other foreign friend went to a local bar at night. Two Japanese dudes came to the bar and sat with us. I know Japanese but my other friend didn't. We chatted and the other guy started to express to me that he was interested in my friend. He asked me a lot about my friend because he didn't know any English. Then he started to show pictures of his WIFE and CHILDREN. And he still was coming on strong my friend and asking me whether she was interested or not. I was very astounded how openly he declared about having a wife and kids and still wanting to hook up with my friend... Nothing happened because we were really uncomfortable and after they gave us a ride (was stupid of us to get in their car) closer to home (not all the way because we didn't wanna let them know where we lived), we said our goodbyes.
@christellen3077
@christellen3077 Год назад
😢
@Kuromi_-68t
@Kuromi_-68t 10 месяцев назад
😢
@thoughty4257
@thoughty4257 5 месяцев назад
Holy fuk
@alinasmith5737
@alinasmith5737 5 месяцев назад
Dont ever, EVER get in that car again. No is a very important word and anger a very important emotion to learn.
@opaloktapiana3923
@opaloktapiana3923 Год назад
As a men i found this weird and disgusting... How can you mad when your cheating but you also cheating on her. Wtf
@yasmeen9592
@yasmeen9592 Год назад
Wow, you're a very rare and good human being. It's rare to see a man like you nowadays. Most cheaters, whether man or woman, are all disgusting
@teamojesusss
@teamojesusss Год назад
​@@yasmeen9592 True. It's so sad that there's so many people justifying cheating. Very disgusting.
@yasmeen9592
@yasmeen9592 Год назад
@cumeloia cumellia yeah, besides porn isn't good for people's mental health.
@asves4536
@asves4536 Год назад
Most people aren’t cheaters and are good people, but it’s the bad ones that make it seem like everyone cheats
@aaaduccs6667
@aaaduccs6667 Год назад
@@yasmeen9592 fr I agree
@oomay1925
@oomay1925 Год назад
I honestly don't care if people want open relationships and treat lust and love as separate things, but if you're cheating on your partner in secret and you know they would be hurt by it, than you suck. Just don't be in a relationship if you can't commit to it.
@terriermonisgod
@terriermonisgod Год назад
some of these people might be scared the pool of people to hook up with gets smaller, which it maybe does, but these days to me it seems like in the west its common to be open about what type of relationship you want
@chickenfoot2423
@chickenfoot2423 Год назад
exactly! its all well and good saying lust is natural and you want to be able to act on it, but thats not all you’re doing. you’re purposefully getting into monogamous relationships with the knowledge that you will lie, hurt and deceive them, and also possibly put their sexual health at risk. if you want to follow your bs biological nature, dont date? the guy with red hair literally said homosapians didnt date in his spiel 😭
@mikylejoubert8347
@mikylejoubert8347 Год назад
Like I get if they both agreed on an open relationship, it’s 100% fine then but while you swore to be monogamous is crazy
@PisCean
@PisCean Год назад
9:27 - This guy: "I think a lot of people are too posessive", "Hanging out with the opposite gender shouldn't be that bad..." 10:01 - Also this guy: "My girlfriend went to Disneyland with a guy, 2 girls and 2 guys... I really didn't like it. It was borderline cheating for me." Which one is it then??💀💀
@Kuromi_-68t
@Kuromi_-68t 10 месяцев назад
HAHA
@jomr4249
@jomr4249 10 месяцев назад
Maybe he was trying to make himself feel better about the situation by acting like it wasn’t a big deal lol
@venzchan
@venzchan 10 месяцев назад
Bruh himself is confused about his thoughts
@guesswhoosechub8412
@guesswhoosechub8412 8 месяцев назад
that is what i was saying when watching
@noneofyourbusiness9267
@noneofyourbusiness9267 Год назад
Wow, I never realized cheating is so normal. As a woman, glad I know this now before my trip to Japan.
@Kat-mu8wq
@Kat-mu8wq Год назад
Id advise you to never have unprotected sex either, East Asian men, particularly Japanese and Korean can carry and spread hepatitis B via "body fluids" without even knowing they're a carrier.
@karensurgery3845
@karensurgery3845 Год назад
it's not normal
@goldenhourss
@goldenhourss 10 месяцев назад
@@Kat-mu8wqEWWWW
@rifqimujahid4907
@rifqimujahid4907 9 месяцев назад
@@Kat-mu8wq whites can carry smallpox without them knowing, it led to the decimation of native americans
@hggpi
@hggpi 5 месяцев назад
​@@Kat-mu8wqhow do you know this much genshin pfp man?
@chloert
@chloert Год назад
The second to last and the last two guys were such a nice breath of fresh air I was going insane watching those other guys talking about how many girls they've cheated on
@funkthat
@funkthat Год назад
Hey girl its time to wake up, whether you know it or not all guys cheat (at least the ones that you are attracted to and actually like) we just wont tell. Poor or rich young or old, chances are if you are attrracted to a guy, guess what, your prolly not the only one! Haha see how that works? By default if you like him prolly hundreds of other girls want him as well. So you better be prepared to compete for that man and share him OR just date a safe guy who is prolly not exactly your standard BUT he wont cheat. BYE BYE
@Aynii95
@Aynii95 Год назад
Right like. How are they so cool abt it
@meinhofexe3955
@meinhofexe3955 Год назад
Culturally fucked up, no wonder NTR's, ugly bastard, and rape are commonly found in the Japanese pornography. Their mindset/customs are just "different" from mine in that particular view, horses for courses, I guess.
@gordonbgraham
@gordonbgraham Год назад
@@meinhofexe3955 snuff porn in the US...scat porn in Europe . What country are you from? What is their mindset? Let's do a deep dive...in the closet
@meinhofexe3955
@meinhofexe3955 Год назад
@@gordonbgraham Do those have anything to do with "affairs" or "ethics"? No
@chloert
@chloert Год назад
I'm begging you to do this interview with Japanese girls
@BobMaoui
@BobMaoui Год назад
Yeah
@JT-574
@JT-574 Год назад
But they’ll never tell the truth on camera. They’ll just act like they’re virgins because in Asia women are not supposed to be sexually forward.
@krio_0120
@krio_0120 Год назад
Up 🙋🏻‍♂️
@AnishNair09
@AnishNair09 Год назад
I think some other people have already done something similar
@Light-vc9ku
@Light-vc9ku Год назад
I don't think japanese girls will answer honestly
@laviniagaillard3412
@laviniagaillard3412 Год назад
I was in Japan one month ago, in Tokyo, and one night I met a guy that I liked so we just hanged out together untill he told me he had 7 girlfriends at the time, none of them knew about it ofc. I was so shocked but he didn't seem to see the problem, je was laughing about it a lot, that just disgusted me a lot, so unbelieable to tell things like that in Europe and joking on it. He even told me one of them was a teenager and a virgin, poor girl must loved and trusted him a lot ! So yeah, this video made me realize that my experience with Japanese guys isn't so strange in that country
@taishihayakawa3148
@taishihayakawa3148 Год назад
As a Japanese, I am truly ashamed of these people
@giuliab8484
@giuliab8484 Год назад
Don't be, not everyone thinks this way
@alexa_depphil7542
@alexa_depphil7542 11 месяцев назад
But you're society has many sex clubs and many slut ....so its pretty clear that you are aware of this.
@Kuromi_-68t
@Kuromi_-68t 10 месяцев назад
Well there are alot of people out there!
@hazelmint6671
@hazelmint6671 9 месяцев назад
Glad you are not the same. 🤪
@novivianngo
@novivianngo Год назад
I always heard how normalized cheating is in Japan, it’s really sad. I’m sure even the loyal guys that don’t cheat, when they hang out with their other guys friends that cheat, they tell them they should just cheat on their gf. The two guys that were justifying how it’s okay for men to cheat gives me the ick. “Spreading the seed” is all I need to know that he probably isn’t being safe and putting his girlfriend at risk by sleeping around with so many girls. Cheating is only okay if the men do it apparently🙄 the ego of it all
@funkthat
@funkthat Год назад
Hey girl its time to wake up, whether you know it or not all guys cheat (at least the ones that you are attracted to and actually like) we just wont tell. Poor or rich young or old, chances are if you are attrracted to a guy, guess what, your prolly not the only one! Haha see how that works? By default if you like him prolly hundreds of other girls want him as well. So you better be prepared to compete for that man and share him OR just date a safe guy who is prolly not exactly your standard BUT he wont cheat. BYE BYE
@AidenWithJesus
@AidenWithJesus Год назад
I agree with you, however it goes both ways, women in Japan should also not cheat... most of all though, men should stop being pigs.
@user-cv7lk1yj4c
@user-cv7lk1yj4c Год назад
RIGHT!! I was thinking the same thing!! so sexist...lmao
@user-cc7xy6jn6p
@user-cc7xy6jn6p Год назад
喋んな。日本に来たらお前もするんだから。
@user-cc7xy6jn6p
@user-cc7xy6jn6p Год назад
@Mina M 間違いない。あいつらピル飲みまくって浮気しまくってる。
@nia-cs3yd
@nia-cs3yd Год назад
Those two guys at 7:00 are the type of guys I never ever wanna associate with lmaoo the double standards
@Aynii95
@Aynii95 Год назад
Never ever!
@KNOWLEDGEREINGS
@KNOWLEDGEREINGS Год назад
Then they put on a fake personality around the women just so the can get sum…
@nia-cs3yd
@nia-cs3yd Год назад
@@KNOWLEDGEREINGS they're the type to say "men who cheat are scum" but they really think like this..
@ashleylove6840
@ashleylove6840 Год назад
Same, their personalities are trash. In general they are trash humans.
@alexis44444
@alexis44444 Год назад
They’re young, careless, and dumb fr i feel bad for the girls who will fall for those geeks
@NothingAsShit
@NothingAsShit 9 месяцев назад
Im currently in Japan for a semester abroad and I love it so far. The politeness, kindness and cleanliness. There are more positive sides of Japan but the dating culture disgusts me so much. Like what the fuck is this kind of behaviour. I would feel ASHAMED if I would cheat. But these kids... How in the hell can they laugh about it?! Cheating means hurting someone deeply. I thought they would always care for each other. But apparently many are just hypocrites...
@jackthejoke3298
@jackthejoke3298 Год назад
I just kept smiling while watching this train wreck go on and on. The red haired guy had me losing brain cells with every syllable. “Don’t attack us” I mean I don’t even use Twitter bestie but I surely will have an I eye ticking every time you speak
@dundermifflinscranton
@dundermifflinscranton 10 месяцев назад
i know 💀 he's not even that attractive to even cheat 😭 its his personality at this point but man youre not even good looking to be so proud of it
@leeettuce
@leeettuce Год назад
女の浮気は無理とか浮気する男が言うな👎 浮気する人間はみんなキモいよ…
@shawn9350
@shawn9350 Год назад
true. totally agree
@goodmorning2386
@goodmorning2386 Год назад
私もそう思います
@NailoBo1
@NailoBo1 Год назад
Real my g luv woke the ones 🙏💯
@hey_you.
@hey_you. Год назад
Exactly...
@itoshisaegf
@itoshisaegf Год назад
facts 💪
@soybeans4580
@soybeans4580 Год назад
Kinda sad to see that this is normalized in Japan for both men and women. The guy who said that it’s human instinct to cheat gave me an ick. Though that may have been true back then, but we’ve grown past that point. We’re now at a point where we can choose to cheat or not. Sadly, these guys choose the latter.
@captainvanisher988
@captainvanisher988 Год назад
The name suits you well. But that's besides the point. Male nature isn't specifically to cheat but to procreate as much as possible. And we definitely haven't outgrown our biology. How do you ask? Porn is a perfect example. It showcases what guys would do if they had access to these many women. There are guys that bust to 10 different women a day. The social restrictions of religious marriage were the only thing that somewhat kept people in check (especially women) but that's far gone now. We are living in the progressive age now, so if you don't like it then advocate for religion.
@DavidCruickshank
@DavidCruickshank Год назад
@@captainvanisher988 If you want to procreate with loads of people then do so, never a better time. but don't enter a relationship with someone then cheat on them. It's very simple. Furthermore porn stars do not have good sex, they have good looking sex, it's a job.
@captainvanisher988
@captainvanisher988 Год назад
@@kanotakt112 That's false. Monogamy has only been fully reinforced in the West the past 100-200 years. In human history 40% of men have reproduced whilst 80% of women have reproduced. That alone indicates that some men had multiple wives/partners/baby mommas whilst other had none or died before getting one.
@captainvanisher988
@captainvanisher988 Год назад
@@kanotakt112 I never said that women let any man into them. What are you on about? You need better reading comprehension. And yes you are right. Women preferred a high status and financially secure man that could provide for them. Some men could provide for one, some for two, some for 5 and some for hundreds. Is it a low percentage of men? Yes. Is it 1%? Who knows? But we know that for every 1 man who reproduce 2 women reproduced. Meaning that society practiced polygyny by default.
@ouui
@ouui Год назад
It's kinda weird that everyone thinks that it's common to cheat, but that if it happens they think there's something wrong with THEM. Never with the fact that cheating is normalised in society. They give up to this lol
@blast10734
@blast10734 11 месяцев назад
I am genuinely confused as to why so many men say that they “can’t resist” sexual urges because it’s “part of their nature” and why many think this makes their behaviour somewhat justifiable. How come the vast majority of men have these kind of instincts but (most) women don’t? For example, I have heard men who chikan on the trains etc. say that they “can’t resist if she’s pretty” as if it’s some inherent instinct, but I really don’t get how this is supposed to be a proper excuse… Why don’t most women act like this towards handsome men? How is it any better that men act as if they’re wild animals with no sense of self control? And why are they “unable” when there are normal men out there?
@tarabooartarmy3654
@tarabooartarmy3654 10 месяцев назад
Yeah, I hate hearing this excuse. And that’s exactly what it is - an excuse. It’s like alcoholics who say they couldn’t resist a drink, or overweight people (like me) who say they couldn’t resist another slice of pizza. Please. Yes, you can resist. You choose not to. You don’t want to. But you CAN if you want to.
@TheReMorseCode
@TheReMorseCode 10 месяцев назад
They believe that women don't have sexual urges, while men do. Probably because women are fucking bored when they sleep with Them, so they assume all women are that way. Just exposes how repulsive they are to women
@Timotarius_
@Timotarius_ Год назад
If you cheat or have thoughts of cheating you are scum of the earth. If you no longer feel loyal to your partner , before you cheat you have to break off the relationship before you cheat.
@JDPrimeShots
@JDPrimeShots Год назад
I think one of the best things about your interviews is how naturally everyone seems to act around you. It almost feels like the "wall" around strangers in Japan don't exist when you interview it!
@tellallyourfriends27
@tellallyourfriends27 Год назад
I think that's because he's half Japanese and they feel more comfortable around him. Plus, he's a native speaker and would get all the nuances that a foreigner interviewing them wouldn't.
@jonglopez5400
@jonglopez5400 Год назад
learning how to at least maintain common conversations gets you a long way.. even if you are not a native nor a half.
@Ok-oo2kh
@Ok-oo2kh Год назад
@@tellallyourfriends27 Nah, its bc hes half japanese, dnt make sense at all lol
@Ok-oo2kh
@Ok-oo2kh Год назад
@@tellallyourfriends27 I mean its not bc hes half japanese, asian people are very open certain thing
@verreal
@verreal Год назад
True. It's a gift.
@as-dg8sq
@as-dg8sq Год назад
As a Japanese, I found this part of society sooo disgusting. Since I was a young, I heard guys talking about this kind of sh*t, and that makes me don't wanna date with Japanese guys. Personally I've never cheated nor been cheated, also I've never dated a Japanese guy. I think Japanese culture has still a lot of patriarchal parts
@lyuuy7477
@lyuuy7477 Год назад
Cheating is common amongst both Japanese girls and guys. It has nothing to do with "muh patriarchy"
@lyuuy7477
@lyuuy7477 Год назад
Dont make excuses for being a gaijin hunter.
@massalleh5255
@massalleh5255 Год назад
@@lyuuy7477 Nah, I'm not a gaijin. But if a woman want to have a normal monogamous relationship. Japanese men is the last man she should go
@rukia01wubbaduck
@rukia01wubbaduck Год назад
​@@lyuuy7477 while it's true that Japanese girls cheat too, did you completely miss those guys saying men can cheat but women shouldn't? Used The rape apologist argument too. It's clearly disproportionately common that Japanese men consider it their right as men.
@Kitxne
@Kitxne Год назад
Ours is different. When he knows his 20 year old gf is pregnant the father runs away and never seen again.
@marcelooliveira7380
@marcelooliveira7380 Год назад
This is disgusting. Those guys should just be honest with their girlfriends and propose an open relationship since they can't live without having sex with others. At least that's better than hurting someone's feelings by betraying them. It's just so weird how hypocrite people are. If you're not monogamous, just accept that shit and stop pretending to be a person who you're not.
@sheisasaki
@sheisasaki Год назад
Cheating causes deep trauma and anxiety. Cheating thoughts consume you, drain you, and make you feel inferior in So many ways. So to those cheaters, please be with someone who plays like you do. You might be enjoying each other’s ride.
@mysteriousplayer248
@mysteriousplayer248 Год назад
Having lived in Japan I can confirm. I was shocked at first with the attitudes on cheating, but often I heard that same argument that as long as you loved each other having a side thing from time to time was not really that frowned upon which was a bit strange to me coming from a culture where cheating is heavily frowned upon.
@mookieyoe
@mookieyoe Год назад
Japan is well known as beautiful country yet disgusting country nowaday
@_CL
@_CL Год назад
Yeah, and cheating is not just emotional betrayal: you don't consent to the possible STDs your cheating partner could bring.
@kikulele
@kikulele Год назад
Do they even love each other when they know that cheating could hurt their partner? If they knew the person wouldn't mind it they'd be open about it.
@Mighty.Matcha.
@Mighty.Matcha. Год назад
For real, I have no idea how they think
@sarahs6165
@sarahs6165 Год назад
I feel like it's still wrong even if it's culturally more accepted in Japan.
@martiddy
@martiddy Год назад
5:25 This guy has a very twisted definition of love, how can you even say that is okay to cheat on the gf that you allegedly love?. That's not love, that's hypocrisy.
@mealovesyu
@mealovesyu Год назад
@@sanman-uj6oy I would also admonish them, but I’m the same so 😝 cannot really say much I’m also freaky and they’re hot so that probably why they say such things seems to be a common theme
@pappico
@pappico Год назад
he's also ugly lmao. the gall
@Unknownplsyer
@Unknownplsyer Год назад
They are narcissists that's what
@dancingcorpses5750
@dancingcorpses5750 11 месяцев назад
Exactly! If you love someone, it means you care about their feelings. I don't know how some of these people proudly say that they're cheaters while smiling. They should be ashamed.
@venzchan
@venzchan 10 месяцев назад
Yeah they want to leave offsprings but don't want to take responsibilities, even animals are far better than them lol.
@BaranoJosei
@BaranoJosei Год назад
I think it would have been interesting if you had asked them if going to a brothel counts as cheating on your girlfriend. It varies by person of course, but I have some guy friends here in Japan who don't view going to a brothel as cheating- I guess for them it is more like a 'business trip' as pink-hair guy said because there are no feelings involved. I think this was probably my biggest culture shock about moving here because in my home country going to a brothel has a negative image and is seen as something only done by desperate guys who can't get laid otherwise.
@PikaJess123
@PikaJess123 Год назад
It counts as cheating if your girlfriend isn't okay with it id say - its up to you two to work out boundaries within the relationship and follow the rules you set
@user-zt8iw9dd9o
@user-zt8iw9dd9o Год назад
そんなに色んな人と関係を持ちたいなら付き合わなくて良いんじゃないかなって思う。浮気をしている人は相手を蔑ろにしている人が多いと感じます。侮辱的です。
@Quitelifefor.I
@Quitelifefor.I Год назад
I hate cheating because I put all that love and effort for just one person and the fact they abandoned that to go get “love” from someone else saddens me.
@NailoBo1
@NailoBo1 Год назад
Nah fr g world just full of fuck up ppl remember what Tupac said tho “I’m not saying girls are perfect, ‘cause we know that’s not true. But why be unfaithful to her if she’s always true to you?” Real onw right there ❗️💯
@nivritiray800
@nivritiray800 Год назад
@@NailoBo1 i like alr love you fr bro
@CatsNCoffeee
@CatsNCoffeee Год назад
I watched this with my Japanese husband and he was getting disgusted and calling most of the men stupid. Just from their voices, he said they sounded idiotic and like they were just trying to show off.
@melisonline_
@melisonline_ Год назад
those aren’t men, they are BOYS!!! Its so disgusting how they think its funny to cheat. like they really need to grow some real balls and get a grip on reality. It also shocks me that one of them even said that men should cheat but not women???
@teamojesusss
@teamojesusss Год назад
To be honest, it's hard to believe your husband after this video. Maybe he says that because he knows you would be mad at him for it. Sorry but yeah...
@gordonbgraham
@gordonbgraham Год назад
Men always play innocent in front of their girlfriends or wives...I'd be careful of the ones who "protest too much"
@verreal
@verreal Год назад
@@teamojesusss I think it's a little of both. When guys talk, they often strut, without anything to back it up. Some of the interviewed guys were probably exaggerating.
@shafuimcoming5151
@shafuimcoming5151 Год назад
Keep your eyes on him bro.
@MelvinGeremillo
@MelvinGeremillo Год назад
7:59 あああああ男性が浮気するのは大丈夫って言ってるけど、女はダメ? めっちゃ昔の考え方やなー最低
@kat1652
@kat1652 Год назад
oh my god the double standard... it's okay for guys to cheat but not girls? NO man both shouldn't be allowed to cheat. what the hell...
@scentedlikerose2931
@scentedlikerose2931 Год назад
6:00 almost had a brain aneurysm listening to these two. cheating is disgusting.
@anikatasnimsaba
@anikatasnimsaba Год назад
He's japanese Andrew tate
@moonliqx2211
@moonliqx2211 Год назад
I really don't know how they pick up girls 💀 them laughing about it made me cringe.
@Zebiuiui
@Zebiuiui Год назад
They are disgusting but strangely proud
@sysonic917
@sysonic917 10 месяцев назад
​@@anikatasnimsaba I have no idea how you even linked it with him when that's on the contrary to what he believes.
@childee5912
@childee5912 10 месяцев назад
@@anikatasnimsabaFR
@jasmincita2000
@jasmincita2000 Год назад
I like the fact that they are very honest about it. It's not like they pretend or give you what you wanna hear but they openly answer with the truth.
@goosebump91
@goosebump91 Год назад
I think they're only honest about it because it's so normalized and accepted. If the culture looks down on it, they wouldn't expose it so openly
@pluviophile1988
@pluviophile1988 Год назад
For being the people who apologize the most, the Japanese sure are unapologetic
@XGaMeROo
@XGaMeROo Год назад
I love how Jesse calls them out, like he'll listen to them respectfully but he doesn't vibe with their bs
@dhimankalita1690
@dhimankalita1690 Год назад
He definitely vibes w them . He is a experienced cheater himself
@kimbo9793
@kimbo9793 Год назад
@@dhimankalita1690 How do you know?
@cheese6760
@cheese6760 Год назад
@@dhimankalita1690 he vibes with them to exposure them, its kind of, reading the air situation
@lorenebonsu146
@lorenebonsu146 Год назад
@@dhimankalita1690 you made that up, if he was criticizing then do you think they would talk? 🤦‍♀️. The moment he expressed he didn’t like what they are saying they would leave the interview or refuse to answer. We get to watch this because he makes his guests comfortable wether he agrees or not.
@mars__1400
@mars__1400 Год назад
"Doesn't vibe with their bs" *vibes with them throughout the whole interview*
@sarahs6165
@sarahs6165 Год назад
Laughing about being a cheater... It's a good way to turn every girl you meet off. I find it interesting the concept that girls won't cheat because they're more about that emotional connection than physical. You would think that would encourage them MORE not to cheat - more hurtful for the girl. It's just a sign of the person's character and disrespect for the girl. It sounded pretty sad for the guys that have been cheated on too.
@IxoraNera
@IxoraNera Год назад
If it is accepted in society like how I feel through this interview, it's surprising, It's the society that instills the values.
@fioreolivares1638
@fioreolivares1638 Год назад
Well, to be fair he only interviewed guys. I've known girls who were just as stupid and hortible and cheated for laughs. They disgusted me just as much as the cheater guys in this video. Cheating no matter the gender is just disgusting and disrespectful to the ones they claim they "love". Sounds like they just want someone they can control while they go do whatever they want and tell others that is what love is. Gross. They're gross.
@IxoraNera
@IxoraNera Год назад
@@fioreolivares1638 Actually after wacting this video I got a recommendation from youtube about the video of same topic in which women as ones interviewed by the ASIANBOSS channel. It was so bad, it's disgusting, they were saying they cheated like it's a common household mishap. From where I'm from cheating is the worst thing a men/women can do, it's spretty much social suicide. If you have done it, you keep it under wraps so that you don't make YOU or Your family look bad, because it affects the cheater and cheated equally, And here they talk like it's an everyday thing.
@beeslaughter7674
@beeslaughter7674 Год назад
I hope this video comes back to haunt them severely
@IxoraNera
@IxoraNera Год назад
@@beeslaughter7674 Don't think so. They don't have to worry if it's pretty standard like that and accepted by society. But that doesn't go for any other country, I'm pretty sure most companies fire you if they see you causally talk about cheating.
@Reefir_
@Reefir_ Год назад
The only reason I ever avoided dating Japanese men that taken fancy on me was because of this. I asked someone before about this and they were like those two other dudes that did everything to justify men cheating but women not allowed. It was so hypocritical, it was such a turn off 💀 As said, for a country that loved to go on about honor, they do love to do dishonorable acts. Either way, thats only one thing that I dont like about Japan, I still like other parts of their culture
@Kat-mu8wq
@Kat-mu8wq Год назад
I mean the samurai also cheated, with men no less. They had their wife and a younger male to "play with" shall we say.
@Reefir_
@Reefir_ Год назад
@@Kat-mu8wq oh I’m aware of that. A lot of culture that went on about honour were dishonourable. From Japan to Europe. There’s no difference. But in today’s society, Japan still hasn’t ‘gotten on with the times’ like most part of the world where any form of cheating is generally taboo. Instead for them, whether you are a man or woman, cheating is seen as normal in their everyday lives as if it really is morally okay.
@goosebump91
@goosebump91 Год назад
Japan is a very patriarchal society. Honor only applies to how you treat other men
@hggpi
@hggpi 5 месяцев назад
Yeah sure cope
@anniegreen5521
@anniegreen5521 Год назад
Soooo that settles it. No dating Japanese men for me 😂 The business trip/change in career analogy actually makes sense though... but I also have zero cheating tolerance, so yeah it doesn't fly. Wrong is wrong.
@Kat-mu8wq
@Kat-mu8wq Год назад
He is true, men cheat for sex, women cheat because her boyfriend/husband is a c*nt and isn't giving her the love and appreciation she needs emotionally. Some other guy will tell her how beautiful she is and that'll be it sealed.
@rem6093
@rem6093 Год назад
really disappointed with the responses of some of these guys... it doesn't just "happen" - maybe its bc im just an unexperienced korean teen whos never been in a relationship nor grown up in this culture, but its really shocking to know that love and loyalty can become so worthless like that.. like "spread my seed" ??? come on...
@gordonbgraham
@gordonbgraham Год назад
"spreading one's seed" is the biological catalyst that initiates male sexual activity. It's nature. All the romantic dressing is an illusion...It's a beautiful illusion but an illusion nonetheless
@anasian8894
@anasian8894 Год назад
I'm shocked as hell as well. Cheating among married couples is illegal in my country.
@gordonbgraham
@gordonbgraham Год назад
@@anasian8894 Cheating being illegal is far more shocking than cheating.
@yuki._loves
@yuki._loves Год назад
the "spread my seed" was something...
@NormalGUY___
@NormalGUY___ Год назад
@@anasian8894 Where are you from sir?
@ChelleMT
@ChelleMT Год назад
If cheating is something common, then the only thing left to hope for is for them to take STD tests regularly. At least be safe, for yourself and your partners 🙄
@summerchild5141
@summerchild5141 Год назад
The fun part is, majority of Japanese people don't, most just go to the next, then to the next partner without tests... according to a Japanese podcast for 20s women. And the hosts were like, they were envious because "STD-testing culture is prevalent in the West unlike Japan". My online friends thought I was insane when I had myself tested after a long term relationship and had some time-off before jumping on a new one. Tests are also costly so that may be a factor too.
@ansha17
@ansha17 Год назад
There are doctors here that will tell you if you're sleeping with a Japanese person then you don't need an std test because Japanese people are clean so
@odysseus0990
@odysseus0990 Год назад
They don’t and they won’t. It’s a joke among foreigners to be careful in Japan bc stds are so rampant
@dorothykelly3231
@dorothykelly3231 Год назад
@@summerchild5141his is why they are struggling with syphilis nowadays
@acutelilmint8035
@acutelilmint8035 9 месяцев назад
​@summerchild5141 ya my friends friend said this. guy was cheating g on several girls they got stds..
@DjWarp79
@DjWarp79 7 месяцев назад
This episode is so fun bro. Keep it up!
@she5139
@she5139 Год назад
these types of people shouldnt be surprised if they die lonely and unfulfilled
@emperorhideyoshi3223
@emperorhideyoshi3223 Год назад
Damn you’re mad ash 😂 they’re really fulfilled lol they’re basic ppl with basic goals and they’re meeting those goals so what’s ur problem dude stop sipping on the haterade
@marsfrog104
@marsfrog104 Год назад
@@emperorhideyoshi3223 You're just saying that because you're a cheater trying to make yourself feel better, as if we all didn't see your other comment 💀💀💀
@emperorhideyoshi3223
@emperorhideyoshi3223 Год назад
@@marsfrog104 lmao how would that be the case since I don’t have anything to feel bad abt if anything I’m just trying to help u 😭 it’s not healthy to get angry over stuff u can’t change
@marsfrog104
@marsfrog104 Год назад
@@emperorhideyoshi3223 I don't understand how you're helping me, cheating is a lot more than people fulfilling their desires, breaking the trust of your partner, spreading aids, unwanted pregnancies. It's like saying to a drug addict that as long as their fulfilling their desire it's okay
@cee_el
@cee_el Год назад
@@marsfrog104 lmaooo you called him out and he’s still there claiming you’re mad when he likes to cheat. What a loser
@Lucyfae
@Lucyfae Год назад
If cheating is normal in Japan... I salute to all those people who never cheated
@Hi98765
@Hi98765 Год назад
"it happensss" ... lmao no it doesnt you brute! be good to your woman/ man !!!! love the guys take at 8:34 theyre so adorable and honest
@w3livewelovewelie
@w3livewelovewelie 9 месяцев назад
6:58 i love how you backed up in disgust 😂😂
@StarMercurian
@StarMercurian Год назад
If you feel confortable cheating on your girlfriend then you don't love her. 🤷
@yasmeen9592
@yasmeen9592 Год назад
Too true, but do you know what these guys will say to justify their atrocities? "As men we destined to spread our seed, we only cheat because of lust, but don't worry, I only love you!" LOL sickening freaks, if they really loved a woman, they would be considerate of her feelings and try not to hurt her! But oh no! Their lust is more important than their significant other.😡🤮😒
@teamojesusss
@teamojesusss Год назад
Yup
@Rainbowpandemonium
@Rainbowpandemonium Год назад
But this goes both ways japanese women too cheat a lot, many guys said they have been cheated on by women.
@stillfangirlingtoday1468
@stillfangirlingtoday1468 Год назад
I don't think men in general love women. Some do, most don't. Very sad really.
@teamojesusss
@teamojesusss Год назад
@@stillfangirlingtoday1468 Oh, and most women do love men?
@chuuyaette
@chuuyaette Год назад
honestly this is just wild imagine the girls they cheated on watching this bro that’s just messed up.. and when he said because there Japanese they forgive easily. bro wtf
@nothnx3210
@nothnx3210 Год назад
F'd up as heelll. I wish girls in japan had more backbone and common sense to kick these mofos to the curb.
@NailoBo1
@NailoBo1 Год назад
Nah fr tho shit messed up to the max dude got all that confidence and shit thinking he all that like bro needa be humbled
@MrKewlKhan
@MrKewlKhan Год назад
@@NailoBo1 fr
@Kat-mu8wq
@Kat-mu8wq Год назад
Japanese women are often known as meek. That's why Japan has a serious chikan problem, because the women don't stand up for themselves.
@Kuromi_-68t
@Kuromi_-68t 10 месяцев назад
They should no not every japanese women is meek
@erinsexton5706
@erinsexton5706 Год назад
Omg whoever is doing your subtitles is amazingly talented 😂
@chiedawson
@chiedawson Год назад
I never heard about women cheating while I was growing up in Japan. Cheating by men were not that rare even back then, I think. I haven't lived in Japan for many years and wonder what happened to the Japan I used to know in the 60s and 70s. I am saddened to hear this.
@Kuromi_-68t
@Kuromi_-68t 10 месяцев назад
Oh then japan must have changed alot
@user-bk1ud7ru4r
@user-bk1ud7ru4r Год назад
I'm a Japanese high school student and I had no idea people were cheating so much.
@gordonbgraham
@gordonbgraham Год назад
You'll soon be a university student...and come to understand
@josi8366
@josi8366 Год назад
Please don’t follow in the footsteps of these people.
@catbeara
@catbeara Год назад
Open relationships and polyamory would be a good solution to this lol.
@frenchtupac6181
@frenchtupac6181 Год назад
@@gordonbgraham Whats your point?
@gordonbgraham
@gordonbgraham Год назад
@@frenchtupac6181 He’s going to encounter a lot of promiscuous young adults in university
@lavenderlillymi
@lavenderlillymi Год назад
As an Asian I can agree 💯 even my dad did it many times I cried but I saw it 4times even my uncle cheated I mean they were in a relationship with the other person without even divorcing my mom my mom is strong she withstand all the pressure and is living her life just for me I hope I find a guy who is loyal and true Please 🥺
@vampirehunter9299
@vampirehunter9299 Год назад
You are right as an East Asian. However, this is not the case in South Asia. Cheating is a crime in South Asian society and everyone in the society looks down on that person.
@GadisBaliLivesAbroad
@GadisBaliLivesAbroad Год назад
I'm Asian and I grew up with Dad, Mom, uncles, and aunties who are loyal 😊. So, not everyone thinks cheating is healthy in a committed relationship.
@he2295
@he2295 Год назад
You will. I would try not to obsess and find things you're passionate about. Through those passions you'll find someone
@ghhhggrtes-rx1gx
@ghhhggrtes-rx1gx Год назад
White men never cheat ❤️
@bobbykite8705
@bobbykite8705 Год назад
Just depends on your standards. it's easy to find a nice, loyal, regular guy who will cherish you and not cheat. the question is, are you okay with regular. the choice is yours.
@user-or5wp5dx3l
@user-or5wp5dx3l 4 месяца назад
外国人は街頭インタビューが客観的なデータだと思っているらしいw
@ababa8594
@ababa8594 Год назад
I'm Japanese but please don't be thinking the majority of us are like the horrible people in this video. Some people horny af and thinks body count is something to be proud of. They don't love their partner, they love themselves being able to be "popular". Us normies are having a healthy relationship. None of my friends are like this.
@alexa_depphil7542
@alexa_depphil7542 11 месяцев назад
Nah you're Japanes porn says alot even Jdrama , Anime so cringe so many wierd relationship
@jamesrian1578
@jamesrian1578 9 месяцев назад
Out of curiosity, in what life stage are you in? High school, university or working adult…? How are the people you know casually? I’m genuinely curious to know but you don’t need to answer!
@ababa8594
@ababa8594 9 месяцев назад
@@jamesrian1578 University. They're just normal couples. Never heard of anyone cheating around me.
@jamesrian1578
@jamesrian1578 9 месяцев назад
@@ababa8594 ohh I see, that’s a relief to hear kinda
@ababa8594
@ababa8594 9 месяцев назад
@@jamesrian1578 I really wonder what kind of environment the people in this video are in.
@Gazzy.
@Gazzy. Год назад
Bro this is wild, so open about it. (Like they either cheat or get cheated on, at least that's what it seems like)
@idk-lz4nl
@idk-lz4nl Год назад
its mad - but i wonder if its like an urban thing or just something extremely widespread
@xjmmjbnqfstjdijoj2044
@xjmmjbnqfstjdijoj2044 Год назад
@@idk-lz4nl extremely widespread... I think this is also influenced by the fact that Japanese culture has barely come in contact with monotheistic religions such as Christianity or Islam, where infidelity is deemed as an extremely serious and unforgivable sin The word for cheating itself "浮気 uwaki", which loosely translates as "fluttering or fluctuating spirit/energy" makes it sound like it's not a big deal, at least to me. Moreover they seem to differentiate between sentimental love and physical sex/libido...so cheating is usually seen as "serious" only when your partner actually falls in love for an other person
@irohsslipper6155
@irohsslipper6155 Год назад
From personal observation (7 years living here, talking to a ton of people across a wide variety of age ranges in-depth about life, love etc): 75% of Japanese people don't know how to: a.) Love, b.) be loved. Isn't evident from this video? These strutting young men, talking about relationships, love & cheating as casually as you would talk about the weather. Not realizing the immense psychological, emotional and spiritual damage they cause both themselves & their partners. The pressures of society, the obsession about how one presents themselves, the strict and narrow path that most Japanese people have to walk in life, the lack of space & time to get to know oneself properly, they all result in: People getting married before they're ready. Having 0 time to reflect on their true nature, or on that of life. Having children because it's the "thing to do". Not loving their partner, cheating etc while also hating their job and life situation (but continuing anyway because they've achieved some level of success in society's eyes), not loving the child properly, the child grows up with a hollow hole in it's heart. The cycle continues. Despite all that, some of the most loving and open-hearted people I've met have been Japanese. They've all been "non-typical". They spent time reflecting on their own adventure in life, and integrated the lesson they learned, perhaps they lived abroad or simply had the courage to do things their own way. In doing so, they became far more whole and well-rounded.
@darkdrake13
@darkdrake13 Год назад
Beautiful analysis
@luc4465
@luc4465 Год назад
oof i wonder if japanese ppl have even experienced love lol
@brendonprophette8890
@brendonprophette8890 Год назад
Words of wisdom from uncle Iroh
@kaelart5876
@kaelart5876 Год назад
this is so sad
@captainvanisher988
@captainvanisher988 Год назад
I have to rebut you on a couple of points. Early marriage is by far the best way to go about it. Especially marrying your first sexual partner. By statistics alone these relationships tend to be the happiest and the longest. Besides I know for a fact that marriages of older generations were far stronger and happier and loving than today's marriages. "Taking your time" isn't a good answer to this. What is a good answer though is growing up with values and a mindset of "the woman/man that I will first bed and marry will be the one I'll live with forever , so I got to choose wisely and I got to do everything to make it work". There's no such thing as "having kids for having kids". Kids and marriage are by far the best predictor of longterm happiness especially amongst women. As for "Japanese not knowing how to love" . I have one thing to say. Most people today in the first world don't know how to love. Love is something that you build upon, not something that happens nor just a simple feeling. If you are not determined to love someone then you do not know how to love. Something our grandparents had understood yet somehow this wisdom was lost by the decades of heavy societal change. The boys that boast about their cheating are a product of a valueless and directionless society. Where everything goes, whatever you feel is reality and you should act the way you feel and only do what makes you happy. No responsibility, no duty, no values just raw nature. And sadly or not, naturally men are polygynous and are inclined to procreate with as many women as possible. Without the societal boundaries this is the men you create.
@travelwithvist
@travelwithvist Год назад
Man these subtitles are hilarious, good stuff dude
@tiwozo718
@tiwozo718 Год назад
❤❤❤ thank you for the video
@kcrayzme2341
@kcrayzme2341 Год назад
It's disgusting that's all I have to say. I say this because I've seen what cheating and adultery do to a person and to many families
@Kat-mu8wq
@Kat-mu8wq Год назад
Yep, it split mine up.. It was my mother that cheated, then within weeks of my father moving out (we still saw him much to my mothers dismay) we moved in with a man I never met before.
@kyogal8628
@kyogal8628 Год назад
This is just sad.
@funkthat
@funkthat Год назад
Hey girl its time to wake up, whether you know it or not all guys cheat (at least the ones that you are attracted to and actually like) we just wont tell. Poor or rich young or old, chances are if you are attrracted to a guy, guess what, your prolly not the only one! Haha see how that works? By default if you like him prolly hundreds of other girls want him as well. So you better be prepared to compete for that man and share him OR just date a safe guy who is prolly not exactly your standard BUT he wont cheat. BYE BYE
@kyogal8628
@kyogal8628 Год назад
@@funkthat This comment was made without the presence of intelligence.
@josi8366
@josi8366 Год назад
And they still think they are the smart ones and they are the winners. Great illusion.
@captainvanisher988
@captainvanisher988 Год назад
Are you married with kids? Did you marry as a virgin? Are you religious? If not then how are you gonna call a societal structure that you actively participate in "sad"?
@jackfloc0
@jackfloc0 Год назад
@@captainvanisher988 fr these little girls are mad for what?😂
@adishreekundu3840
@adishreekundu3840 10 месяцев назад
The way they talk abt it so casually so mind boggling 😮 i would've thrown some punches 🥲
@Amiraurgirl
@Amiraurgirl Год назад
I was dating a Japanese guy for a few months not knowing he had another gf the whole time and way back before we met ?? I’m 18 so it’s not as bad for me as the 28 year old gf who he promised to marry. But that experience has changed my whole perception on dating and now I’ve got major trust issues and will legit never get close to someone unless I check his messages and phone
@Ceylin_Kurtbogan
@Ceylin_Kurtbogan Год назад
using a lot of big-brained "logic" for cheating while still hiding it from your gf is super funny to me. Find someone to have an open relationship with then. Why hide if it is all natural and ok? I gotta remember these faces vividly to avoid them completely if we ever come across lol
@teamojesusss
@teamojesusss Год назад
Take screenshots
@Alex-up2lh
@Alex-up2lh Год назад
Because these guys don’t want to be cheated on. They want to play around then have 1 girl only belongs to them. 🤡🚮 Totally trash kind of human right there.
@madamadadane7989
@madamadadane7989 Год назад
I am not even surprised. Cheating about in Japan is very normalized and that is why I tell people who have any Japanese man fetish to just cut it out before they even try. Seeing them spoke so openly about it is even more sadder. The reason why it's normal is because the cheated on party will feel like they are to blame for it bc they think there is something wrong with them. It's very hard for them to practice self love.
@teamojesusss
@teamojesusss Год назад
So true. I had this love for Japanese men until now. So sad.
@misato...
@misato... Год назад
I'm not surrounded by girls or boys who cheat. I don't even have to ask the people in this video to know that they cheat by the looks of it. As the saying goes, 'like attracts like.' People with bad brains attract friends with bad brains. Japanese people can understand that they are stupid people just by looking at their mood and the way they talk. They are not the norm for Japanese people 💔. I don't like such dim-witted people, so naturally I didn't get involved with them. They are so dumb that they can talk about these insane original theories and logic as if it is natural. Of course I have lived and seen people who seem to be as dumb as the ones in this video, but I don't think there were many of them when considered as a percentage! And there will always be such dim-witted people in your country. (I have seen many such people in other countries, and I have seen many such people in other countries. Of course, I understand that it is normal to dare to choose only such crazy people when making a video in order to create a buzz, so I would not make the mistake of thinking that all people in that country are like that.) Do you think that just looking at these interviewees is all Japanese people? I am also surprised at the fact that there are people who talk about cheating as if it is such a normal thing to do. I am surprised to know that there are people who seem to be so stupid that they act with such a pet theory. This is because I have never felt that this is the norm in my life in Japan. Of course, there may be people who have many opportunities to interact only with such people, but I never talk to them in the first place because I can immediately tell just by looking at such dim-witted people that conversation is not going to happen. Normal people know that they can't have a conversation with people who are stupid, so they naturally avoid them. This is not a bad thing, but because I find it impossible to have a conversation with people who are not right in the head. I don't want to get involved with people I know are not sane, and in fact, I feel I was not wrong when I saw them talking about crazy things like in this video, as if they were normal. The interviewer seems to be targeting only those who would dare to cheat on their partners. Because they don't show a single person who looks serious. I use a translation tool.
@goldenhourss
@goldenhourss Год назад
same for men who have a fetish for jp women
@Kat-mu8wq
@Kat-mu8wq Год назад
I will always adore my Daisuke (from the band dir en grey) but after my 2 experiences dating Japanese men, I would never go there again.. One of them, as beautiful as he was (which is probably why he manged it) 7 women, and he had the cheek to say the 7th didn't count because I found out about it. I was litterely about to commit murder. I was fuming he could do that to me when I had been loyal to him.. Must have been one of those "culture differences"
@hhsERyR4
@hhsERyR4 11 месяцев назад
外国人で日本人男性フェチとかめちゃ少数派やろうし、気にせんでもええやろ笑
@candicenguluvhe3750
@candicenguluvhe3750 Год назад
3:10 the No Comment guy is so funny lol. Lost it when he said, "Why am I even exposing myself"😂😂😂😂😅
@muuukhhu7534
@muuukhhu7534 10 месяцев назад
8:05 that guy was so nice and his view on cheating 🫠take my heart out ..plus his voice 🤧💗
@XGaMeROo
@XGaMeROo Год назад
Funny how one pair viewed being Japanese as cheating/being open or whatever his argument was and the other said being loyal was part of being Japanese
@rubyrose7858
@rubyrose7858 Год назад
This is probably just my opinion, but the reason why we get upset and hurt about cheating is not just the act, but that they lied to you. They broke the trust. So If you brought it up in the beginning before dating, saying that you can't stay with just one girl/guy for whatever reason, then no one would be super pissed/hurt because they already had a heads up. (the other person can 'cheat' too lol). Of course you will have less candidates for dating, especially if they are looking for serious monogamous relationships, but at least trauma and stuff may not be severe. Even if you want some thrilling adventures, tell them in advanced too or throw yourself over a tall building, maybe that'll help too.
@temiloluwaamusa2810
@temiloluwaamusa2810 Год назад
Find a girl who's down for a open relationship
@alina9843
@alina9843 Год назад
alright but kudos to your open and friendly personality that made people feel comfortable around you to admit what they did plus even joke around about cheating lol
@w3livewelovewelie
@w3livewelovewelie 9 месяцев назад
im learning japanese language and wanted to move to japan at some point, but this video blew all the desire away
@Those2menoverthere
@Those2menoverthere Год назад
I'm 26 years old and I'm glad I have never dated, I want to stay out of that kind of misery. Dating at a young age is pretty much useless. It saves me my time and money, lmao. Sleeping around just seems like an unnecessary mental pressure that could be easily avoided. Maybe I'm just too much of a "goody-two-shoes".
@NoctLightCloud
@NoctLightCloud Год назад
I'm certain if a girl said 7 guys in 2 weeks she'd be considered the worst of the worst...
@Ceylin_Kurtbogan
@Ceylin_Kurtbogan Год назад
well, this is how we perceive him as well though honestly. It literally made me nauseous how cheap he is
@NoctLightCloud
@NoctLightCloud Год назад
@@Ceylin_Kurtbogan Yeah but the image of a dirty person is less extreme in our perception compared to if it were a girl :'(
@hey_you.
@hey_you. Год назад
​@@NoctLightCloud sad tho
@Kat-mu8wq
@Kat-mu8wq Год назад
Shed definitely be considered a dirty skank.. probably full of disease So I guess thats what makes him too.. Fair is fair, all is equal here 😂
@luizaoliveira7034
@luizaoliveira7034 Год назад
Here in Brazil there is this discussion many times that those who love do not betray, and those who forgive betrayal are fools
@aia58
@aia58 Год назад
That stop the cap moment😂
@daphnethegamer
@daphnethegamer Год назад
Just be single if you want to sleep around, not that difficult lmao
@yukii3138
@yukii3138 Год назад
Honestly at this point that’s just so sad. Cheating should not be normalized and people should start thinking about how their actions could cause consequences in the future. Personally I think that’s just so wrong and disgusting in many ways. How could people be proud that they cheat? Honestly I think if a person cheats, they should feel ashamed because that’s literally betrayal in so different ways. Also causing problems for other people such as the lover themselves and also giving a bad image to the society and country itself. Cheating is just so gross and disgusting. And people honestly should start considering what they can do to put a stop to this act. Cheaters should rot in hell basically. And cheating is wrong for all people not only for males or females or what’s in between.
@Manny-ok7fv
@Manny-ok7fv Год назад
My man in the bulls jacket spitting facts 🚀🔥💪
@chaewon7863
@chaewon7863 Год назад
I like how some of them are open about cheating. Makes things easiee whether to avoid them or not 😂
@julianna8275
@julianna8275 Год назад
it’s so wild seeing them laugh about cheating (and getting cheated on) 😲 do japanese people have hearts of steel? ✋😭
@emperorhideyoshi3223
@emperorhideyoshi3223 Год назад
Nah most of them are soft but we are just rational about it everyone compartmentalizes and justifies their behavior and this is why some are delusional
@NailoBo1
@NailoBo1 Год назад
Nah fr tho in America they'd getting popped by angery Brothers,Sisters,Dads,Uncles,Nephews he better be glad he ain't see what we can do to him
@ciello___8307
@ciello___8307 Год назад
cheating happens everywhere though. Not just japanese people
@julianna8275
@julianna8275 Год назад
@@ciello___8307 of course it happens everywhere. what im shocked about is how it feels so normalized there (well based on the video)
@Kat-mu8wq
@Kat-mu8wq Год назад
From my experience of 2 men, they have no heart at all. The Korean wasn't much better.
@Waryfuls
@Waryfuls Год назад
0:08 bro belongs to the streets
@Kazoku4
@Kazoku4 Год назад
Belongs in a coffin 6 feet underground.
@marsaaas
@marsaaas 9 месяцев назад
he is really fucked up.... everyone who cheat is.
@amayikairuj1102
@amayikairuj1102 Год назад
A word to describe these people: insecure. Taking cheating this easily suggests that an aspect of them is extremely insecure--they would not trust anybody of not cheating. It would eventually show up in a form of testing and manipulation... by setting up an extremely low borderline for cheating. They would catch their partner casually hugging somebody for greeting as cheating, give a constant discomfort/threat whenever that "casual cheating" takes place, compel the partner to hide his/her personal life, and there it is----his/her action is now "legit cheating"; therefore they can confirm "all humans are dirty" and so their actions are legitimate.
@EmilyLuciaVlog
@EmilyLuciaVlog Год назад
Thanks for creating this video. The "it is ok to cheat" idea is tough to witness. Cheating hurts both parties involved, hopefully with time people in Japan can have conversations around emotional intelligence and boundary setting.
@summermotley8975
@summermotley8975 Год назад
These guys shouldn’t even be in a relationship. Don’t drag good people into your miserable life.
@captainvanisher988
@captainvanisher988 Год назад
They don't seem miserable at all. They seem actually very happy (even happier than the "non cheating" guys). People should do what makes them happy right? It's women's fault this is happening not men's. The sexual liberation movement helped men like this. So don't complain.
@arisashizuku2005
@arisashizuku2005 Год назад
@@captainvanisher988 💀💀💀💀
@captainvanisher988
@captainvanisher988 Год назад
@@arisashizuku2005 Am I wrong?
@dumbplings550
@dumbplings550 Год назад
@@captainvanisher988 keep oinking. Piggy
@captainvanisher988
@captainvanisher988 Год назад
@@dumbplings550 keep getting dogged by Chad and Tyrone 304
@Nekomikuri
@Nekomikuri Год назад
Living in rural Japan and noticed that. Japan doesn't have a lack of sexual activity. I think it's the opposite, everyone is getting it on and it's so encouraged here. I guess it's no different from American Universities, but I notice my club culture is very much about sleeping around. There's a lot of pressure when you see your friends do it and you wanna have some fun, yet everyone still basically lives with their parents and feel pressured to quickly get into relationships. The result is people forming boyfriend - girlfriend with others because of initial desire, then realising they want to experience more fun and going off with multiple people instead But then again I heard the west is the same yet doesn't have this problem - Maybe because they're more clear on the friends with benefits thing and don't hide it under an actual relationship I feel the same honestly, I keep going on dates and feel it just doesn't work out, and I stop pursuing it. Most are more serious and do want to date, but I only really want to do it if I feel compatible. My friends will tell me to just make a girlfriend and then continue dating so you can experience both and find out what you want. Aka sleep around while having a gf lol
@ifyouloveChristyouwillobeyhim
The Bible has all the answers when it comes to all these questions. What are our hearts longing for? What is a good way to find a life-partner? How should men and women treat each other? Why do people cheat and why is it tempting to cheat? Reading the Bible has been what's helped me most, way more than anything else.
@bartenderhd
@bartenderhd Год назад
@@ifyouloveChristyouwillobeyhim Wrong crowd, homie.
@gordonbgraham
@gordonbgraham Год назад
@@ifyouloveChristyouwillobeyhim The Bible says love Jesus or be tortured for eternity. How compassionate!
@josi8366
@josi8366 Год назад
@@gordonbgraham Wrong. The Bible says that all are (without exception) condemned for their own sins, but God by his infinite grace (grace that the human being does not deserve) paid the debt of humanity and gave chance of salvation to all who believe. As Jesus paid the price, it is through him that we find salvation.
@yuki._loves
@yuki._loves Год назад
@@gordonbgraham Well it's kind of like the guy who was in Bachelorette said. He thinks that his actions dictate his fate. If he dated this girl then he thinks that he shouldn't get mad that she cheated on him.
@makeusaywoww
@makeusaywoww Год назад
bye im sick
@uptonogood6738
@uptonogood6738 Год назад
damn this is so new to me, cuz in our country literally every drama is about cheating so people who watch it will get so mad and invested
@UCJInlzu1DhjQOOc3omg0FtQ
@UCJInlzu1DhjQOOc3omg0FtQ Год назад
i feel bad for japanese women for being cheated on, but also because they're being cheated on by ugly guys like these.
@gordonbgraham
@gordonbgraham Год назад
Japanese women are doing the same
@PeyloBeauty
@PeyloBeauty Год назад
Fr like they’re not on l cheating but be ugly while cheating too 😭
@solrun9524
@solrun9524 Год назад
“People shouldnt be too possesive” “My girlfriend went to disneyland with 2 guys and 1 girl, its borderline cheating” LMAO
@upthedown1
@upthedown1 Год назад
Solrun there is such a thing as friends going out to have fun. If they are flirting or like each other that's different.
@lurkerran
@lurkerran Год назад
Guy is jealous because his gf didn't tag him along 🤣
@verbadoo
@verbadoo Год назад
Depends on how long you've been dating before you can trust eachother. In this case if your gf doesn't invite you then you dump her on the spot. There is no way for you to know they're not cheating. Not going to take the chance on being cuckolded. Personally I think being possessive is fine. But I prefer a relationship where I just don't have to worry about it at all. So I usually only date severely introverted antisocial types.
@upthedown1
@upthedown1 Год назад
@@verbadoo Haha coward!
@lnnn4351
@lnnn4351 Год назад
I do not think so, why he is not invite but another guy on the trip, this setting in Asia is typical of going out-dating.
@gouravkumar-rr7py
@gouravkumar-rr7py Год назад
Just now i twisted my ankle but seeing this interview really hurted me more.
@akoden2667
@akoden2667 Год назад
I don’t understand how anyone could ever cheat on someone. It shows a total lack of personal honor not only a lack of respect for others but lack of self respect too. Id rather just ask my partner if they want an open relationship than betray them
@J.Crime123
@J.Crime123 Год назад
This video Shows exactly why i could never get into a Relationship with a japanese. Cheating is the absolut worst and there is no excuse whatsoever. But what do expect from people whos Favourit tags are cheating and NTR by the amount of stuff they produce of that, drawn and with real people.
@teamojesusss
@teamojesusss Год назад
X2
@lanceshadow7335
@lanceshadow7335 Год назад
Lots of western ppl love those tags too, don't generalize lmao.
@arvhee_kim
@arvhee_kim 10 месяцев назад
Honestly I'm not even shocked at this point. I might be generalizing people but idc at this point. The most well-known countries that produce massive animation series, movie and so on or anime, which is now pretty well known internationally, which also produces massive series about "1 mediocre guy and 5+ girls harem" type shit. It is just a porn with a little bit of plot created of the overworked and unpaid people as a cry for help to escape their unfair situations. Which now made me realize that maybe because it is a normal thing there. But then again it must be engraved in the minds of most japanese people, considering they see it as a common thing to do. I have so much respect for the clean and reserved images of Japan by the things I see and hear about them on the internet, but I guess not all are clean outside and inside.