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Why Kiss Your Partner Before Leaving for Work.
Speaker: John Gottman
#kissing #relationship #hugging

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@jackwestcott4469
@jackwestcott4469 2 месяца назад
“What’s a 6 second kiss?” “Come closer, I’ll show ya”
@JulianK67
@JulianK67 2 месяца назад
Hahahahaha😂😂
@Sandy-of6gq
@Sandy-of6gq 2 месяца назад
👴🫦
@JuniorShepherd
@JuniorShepherd 2 месяца назад
@@Sandy-of6gq😂
@user-yg4us5rz8c
@user-yg4us5rz8c 2 месяца назад
Underrated comment
@angies3057
@angies3057 2 месяца назад
😂😂😂
@lilianaS03.
@lilianaS03. 2 месяца назад
My husband gives me a kiss before going to work. There have been times when he is in a hurry and he walks out and then I see him come back. I ask "did you forget something?" And he gives me a kiss and is on his way. It is the best feeling and vise versa.
@Aftermyownheart
@Aftermyownheart 8 дней назад
@dehydratedculture9126
@dehydratedculture9126 2 месяца назад
I kiss my wife, daughter and son on the cheek or head since they’re asleep when i leave for work at 5:30 in the morning. When I get home the first thing I do is hug my daughter and my son. And then I hug my wife for a good couple minutes. Family is everything. Don’t forget to remind them that. Especially if you’re gone most the day.
@tommyxavier685
@tommyxavier685 2 месяца назад
I really love your story. You're a good man. Statements like "family is everything" though are insensitive in some ways. "Good family is everything" makes more sense. Because how do you explain your Statement to all the sufferers of abuse, murder, and so much pain at the hands of family. Do you still recommend them to see their family as everything, or do they deserve freedom. As funny as it sounds, your situation is extremely idealistic and perhaps you need to consider this more of a Massive blessing as some people will never have the luxury of feeling this whole "family is everything"
@eeaotly
@eeaotly 2 месяца назад
​@@lolabrini3758 I think he hugs whomever is the first, and probably is easy to find children because they run into his arms when he opens the door. The wife, being an adult, has patience.
@eeaotly
@eeaotly 2 месяца назад
​​@@tommyxavier685 His family is normal. And is everything. He has nothing to say to others who suffered abuse. It sounds like he has to "excuse" to the rest of the (envious) world for not having a wrecked family life. If someone destroys someone else's family life then he/she/ is/are the one(s) to respond, not someone who has a normal life (his own family life) and actively strives to maintain it.
@LorraineAmoako
@LorraineAmoako 2 месяца назад
@@eeaotlyexactly! Is the man running for president or something? Some people can be so dumb
@Sammy-lh5wu
@Sammy-lh5wu 2 месяца назад
Hug your wife FIRST and then your children.
@TechWiz1983
@TechWiz1983 2 месяца назад
If I get kissed for 6 seconds... I'm taking the day off.
@user-yg4us5rz8c
@user-yg4us5rz8c 2 месяца назад
😂
@cwizzy13
@cwizzy13 2 месяца назад
hahaha!
@helgaioannidis9365
@helgaioannidis9365 2 месяца назад
If you get kissed for 6 seconds every day you don't take a day off, you've created a life where you have space for those you love.
@katleho-annkk8378
@katleho-annkk8378 2 месяца назад
😂
@kristinguldner9473
@kristinguldner9473 2 месяца назад
Right I was just about to say don't advocate for these men to lose their jobs. A peck is sufficient. Lol
@wildkynd7174
@wildkynd7174 2 месяца назад
6 seconds puts the most beautiful smile on her face. It's bliss.
@HMBOGgoldengoose
@HMBOGgoldengoose 2 месяца назад
I haven't seen this much of the video before. I only saw the one that said if you kiss your wife goodbye you live longer. My husband died at the age of 43. He kissed me everyday before he left for work. That's one of my favorite memories about him. I wish he would have kissed me for the 6 seconds! Ha! ♥️ Miss him so much! ♥️
@Dexter_spalding
@Dexter_spalding 2 месяца назад
I get up anywhere from 3:30 in the morning to 5:30 for work. Most days I dress as quietly as I can so I won’t wake her. But this morning she woke up and when I went to leave she rolled over to my side of the bed while I was getting my boots on and we kissed. It made my morning bright as the sun coming up and it made the many times going to work in the dark more than worth it. Been married 10 years with 4 children and she still makes my heart throb.
@Rajab25161
@Rajab25161 Месяц назад
Luckiest man on planet Earth
@Dexter_spalding
@Dexter_spalding Месяц назад
@@Rajab25161 blessed beyond measure!
@ericaadams7127
@ericaadams7127 15 дней назад
4 kids? That's more than your heart throbbing! Lol. No that's beautiful. God bless.
@sheaholloway9537
@sheaholloway9537 2 месяца назад
Always hug/kiss partner, child, parent before bed and before separation in the day. We die in our sleep or out in the world. It matters! My parents kissed each other that way and me and my parents hugged that way. Always. My dad passed when I was 29. I miss his hugs and cherish my mom's even more now!
@helgaioannidis9365
@helgaioannidis9365 2 месяца назад
I lost my brother at age 26. I always make sure to let my beloved ones feel my love when one of us leaves or we go to bed. I don't want them too ever doubt my love if something bad happens. Life's unpredictable.
@sheaholloway9537
@sheaholloway9537 2 месяца назад
@@helgaioannidis9365 I am so very sorry you lost him. Good on you for taking the ordeal and finding the message within of charishing your loved ones.
@rosekisiel3383
@rosekisiel3383 2 месяца назад
My youngest son is a Police Officer and he's learned that it's important for me to give him a kiss and tell him, I love you and be careful before he leaves for work. Each day can be his last and I never want to regret not telling him how much he's loved. I don't have to run to the door anymore because he does it naturally now.
@StopTheWorld65
@StopTheWorld65 2 месяца назад
I adore this My parents enjoyed a genuine, down-to-earth marriage for 59 years, enduring life's challenges with maturity and prioritizing their relationship and family above all. They experienced disagreements but never let these disrupt their bond. My father passed away at 91, a year and a half after my mother, who died at 87, and I believe he died of a broken heart. Their longevity, surpassing their own parents by 25 to 35 years, can be attributed to both modern medicine and their exceptional emotional maturity and selflessness. Maintaining such a relationship requires finding the right partner and committing to hard work and dedication. While not publicly affectionate, their private moments of tenderness demonstrated their deep appreciation for each other. This level of devotion is increasingly rare, a fading trait in our culture.
@johnhickey3484
@johnhickey3484 2 месяца назад
The kiss is the sign of a good relationship, it's not the kiss it's the whole thing that is beneficial
@GrubKiller436
@GrubKiller436 2 месяца назад
Exactly.
@rinavt1455
@rinavt1455 2 месяца назад
So true❤ even a 20 sec hug gives feeling of lightness, love and joy.
@andreadouglas8581
@andreadouglas8581 2 месяца назад
My husband does this every morning for the last 19 years. He gets up with me. He makes my tea he opens the door I walk through it. He opens my car door. I give him a hug and give him a kiss and we’ve been doing that every day for the last 19 years.
@Freetoughts
@Freetoughts 2 месяца назад
I love this so much and I pray you will be together forever Insha’Allah (God willing) ❤
@Dont-worry1618
@Dont-worry1618 2 месяца назад
@@FreetoughtsOr u pray for her guidance?
@Freetoughts
@Freetoughts 2 месяца назад
@@Dont-worry1618 I pray for everyones guidance in this life, but I didn’t comment on her post to force my religion on her. I just wanted to complement her on this beautiful experience in her life.
@AshishKaleSays
@AshishKaleSays 2 месяца назад
Lucky you... May you both be blessed always
@Ayesha______
@Ayesha______ 2 месяца назад
@@Dont-worry1618praying for her relationship is allowed the the prophet of Allah made dua for a Jew that Allah beautifies his face. Nothing wrong in it dear sis/bro
@blackclover3222
@blackclover3222 2 месяца назад
Both my parents are elderlies(86yrs/75years), when my dad goes out shopping or go to the barber shops, he always kisses my mom before leaving. It’s so sweet and he has been doing it ever since I was little
@chriswood9808
@chriswood9808 2 месяца назад
“Men who kiss their wife before leaving for work live 4 years longer” “Men who kiss their wife for 6 seconds before leaving for work always end up late for work”
@traceyja40
@traceyja40 2 месяца назад
😂😂😂
@marthaz1183
@marthaz1183 2 месяца назад
Yup happens all the time 😁😉
@starwk4474
@starwk4474 2 месяца назад
Late by maybe a minute or two 😂😂😂
@iRavenHD
@iRavenHD 2 месяца назад
😭😭😂😂😂
@AntonioRodriguez-vg9yx
@AntonioRodriguez-vg9yx 2 месяца назад
Was that Confucius? 😁
@crystalthow5533
@crystalthow5533 2 месяца назад
My guy does that, after 18 yrs it still feels like the first kiss🎉❤
@RandomVideos-kn3pf
@RandomVideos-kn3pf 2 месяца назад
Humans need food, water, love and passion find these things and you're good to go
@Rosemary46840
@Rosemary46840 2 месяца назад
And shelter
@jasperdalesamaniego3407
@jasperdalesamaniego3407 2 месяца назад
It's not the kiss itself, it's the meaning behind the kiss that has an absolute effect. The kiss is just the key to unlock what you really feel.
@tupacshakur5868
@tupacshakur5868 2 месяца назад
uhm no, it is the kiss, hormones are some strong bastards
@ratdaddee
@ratdaddee 2 месяца назад
No, it's the kiss. Our bodies physical reaction to the kiss, or hug, releases oxytocin, a powerful bonding hormone. It's in the vid.
@jasperdalesamaniego3407
@jasperdalesamaniego3407 2 месяца назад
@@ratdaddee oohhh! Does the body react the same way when you kiss someone you don't particularly like at the moment???? For example a married couple kissing after a fight before going to work? Is this so called oxytocin still being released in such an event?
@Rosemary46840
@Rosemary46840 2 месяца назад
​@@jasperdalesamaniego3407yes
@ratdaddee
@ratdaddee 2 месяца назад
​@@jasperdalesamaniego3407 False arguement. No one kisses somebody they don't like for six seconds. You're just being obtuse.
@shannonumanzor9452
@shannonumanzor9452 2 месяца назад
I'm not bragging BUT My husband kisses me whenever he or I leave the house or either of us returning. Been together since 1999.
@questionsoftoday4tomorrow
@questionsoftoday4tomorrow 2 месяца назад
Most enjoyable and thought-provoking video I've seen all week.
@wwherbert007
@wwherbert007 2 месяца назад
Love plus passion equals longevity! Simple.
@user-zq5de7pi2x
@user-zq5de7pi2x 18 дней назад
It really is as simple as that.
@loganmannke9023
@loganmannke9023 2 месяца назад
We kiss every time we go anywhere and we always say love you, be safe/ be careful.
@lambo1131
@lambo1131 2 месяца назад
6 sec turns into 30 min 😮
@webb555
@webb555 2 месяца назад
“What is the 6 second kiss?” Did bro really just ask that…
@grubyjanusz4517
@grubyjanusz4517 2 месяца назад
Because of the question I now know more of the biology of love than I would have not known if it wasn't for the question (the oxytocin part). It
@NormanJohnston-gp7xd
@NormanJohnston-gp7xd 2 месяца назад
Don’t ask the question you don’t get the background. Everyone knows the simple answer but why? He even asked why not 4 or 5 just to make sure he didn’t get your answer.
@robjdtv
@robjdtv 2 месяца назад
Some woman asked wtf a meat pie was once when I said I was gonna get one later. Yes these people walk among us.
@AnonymousDub
@AnonymousDub 2 месяца назад
@@grubyjanusz4517No, he’s right, the vernacular was wrong, they’re two very different questions. He should’ve asked “what’s the meaning/significance of the 6 second kiss?”. “What’s a 6 second kiss?” was dumb because it can only be answered literally, as a kiss that lasts 6 seconds. The English language is very precise most people are too thick to realise! 😂
@ferdousimiah6843
@ferdousimiah6843 2 месяца назад
If my husband kissed me 6 seconds, I dont think he will be going to work
@AlphaEntries
@AlphaEntries 2 месяца назад
I’m glad he explained the purpose and meaning behind every second - it takes time to create wonder.
@meiowalot7570
@meiowalot7570 2 месяца назад
What is a ham and cheese sandwich? - this guy.
@byroncarter7328
@byroncarter7328 2 месяца назад
😂 y hav u not got more likes !
@traceyja40
@traceyja40 2 месяца назад
😂😂😂.. brilliant
@user-yg4us5rz8c
@user-yg4us5rz8c 2 месяца назад
Don't understand
@cristiannaJ126
@cristiannaJ126 2 месяца назад
We always kiss and hug good bye!! And never ever leave without saying I love you
@igazsag4839
@igazsag4839 2 месяца назад
I can't wait to kiss my wife after my wedding day. We don't kiss till then.
@stevenmurray5894
@stevenmurray5894 2 месяца назад
I always kiss my wife at any moment at anytime when it hits me, but this information is nice to hear
@guillermostorey3734
@guillermostorey3734 2 месяца назад
Lady- ... and bonding. Man- ... and bonding. Lady- Programming complete.
@phd1313
@phd1313 2 месяца назад
It has nothing to do with the kiss probably but more with the deeper cause and effects of a better realtionship. For example less stress.
@kitihot
@kitihot 2 месяца назад
So sweet ❤
@StCDUB
@StCDUB Месяц назад
In that case I'm a bit closer to the forever nap
@a32tl
@a32tl 16 дней назад
There's so much of life I feel like I've missed out on. I'm 56 and have never even been close to being in a relationship. I wish I could have experienced having a loving wife and family and being able to express my love towards them. I never ever get kissed and only get an occasional brief hug from a family member or acquaintance from church.
@michaelmano7261
@michaelmano7261 2 месяца назад
I hear the gate I run out to welcome my girl home no matter what I'm doing
@Coke_Cain4160
@Coke_Cain4160 2 месяца назад
29 and always been alone. When i leave or comeback from work, it's just an empty house
@matolerma9462
@matolerma9462 2 месяца назад
My dad did and I hug dad more because he just got used to it. While we were growing up
@princess21538o
@princess21538o Месяц назад
It creats bonding , connection , and safty for me . And i get a grate relief from it.
@user-qm7dk8gm1c
@user-qm7dk8gm1c 2 месяца назад
Is make your relationship for greater love , and feel more secure. ❤❤❤
@pamela14989
@pamela14989 Месяц назад
I love this! ❤😙
@user-li5ly4xp1b
@user-li5ly4xp1b 2 месяца назад
There's no better feeling than hugging your mom as a man and telling her I love you mom.
@thegreatbaruc8741
@thegreatbaruc8741 2 месяца назад
I used to hug and kiss my mom on the cheek everyday and I would even tickle her from time to time. She passed in 2017 and I would do anything to hug and kiss her one more time. Show your parents love
@nicholaslong6529
@nicholaslong6529 Месяц назад
Damnnnnn. I do that all the time. Im on track. ❤❤😊
@SoftCampingSouthAfrica
@SoftCampingSouthAfrica 2 месяца назад
Me slowly kissing my girl with a timer going in my head
@kumarn7179
@kumarn7179 2 месяца назад
Why to stop at 6 😂 never let anything unfinished 😮
@glorias.2930
@glorias.2930 2 месяца назад
Amen to that! I can guarantee you that woman will be happy and will take care of you!
@tru_hart
@tru_hart 13 дней назад
this comment section gives me a glimmer of hope for humanity
@TheLionKing999
@TheLionKing999 2 месяца назад
“Men who kiss their wives for at least 6 seconds before work live 4 years longer” Me: -400 years
@marklo3739
@marklo3739 2 месяца назад
I kiss your wife too
@shirleysmith8565
@shirleysmith8565 2 месяца назад
❤😂😂😂❤
@orchids33333
@orchids33333 2 месяца назад
Felt
@rumab11
@rumab11 2 месяца назад
I love hugs..everytime i get huge get happy 😊
@felixrubalcava4533
@felixrubalcava4533 2 месяца назад
1 second pat on the head shell remember forever
@MLove1991
@MLove1991 2 месяца назад
I will remember that
@eltern_herz
@eltern_herz 2 месяца назад
it is also acknowledging your partner not just being a caregiver to your home and family. if this is missed I know how sad it feels
@rachanddennis06
@rachanddennis06 2 месяца назад
Always a kiss and a long hug when greeting or saying goodbye to my husband and plenty in-between . 20 years and still going strong
@jangriffin-fi1yx
@jangriffin-fi1yx Месяц назад
Glad my Husband & I always kissed before during & after all our 51 1/2 yrs we were together ❤❤ I fully believe love has the power to extend someone's life & that "love conquers all" being loved loving reciprocated is powerful bond "trust" everything equals "love" ❤❤
@willydoit4u2c
@willydoit4u2c 2 месяца назад
Just thinking of that made me feel good inside ❤
@azarpiano
@azarpiano 2 месяца назад
Thanks for the reminder.
@HerFather
@HerFather 2 месяца назад
I heard of dumb questions but *CMON* now
@madhavimattupalli4748
@madhavimattupalli4748 2 месяца назад
POV: If it is the first time some people make that moment as a beautiful memory, if it is their favourite day and place.❤❤❤
@glow009
@glow009 2 месяца назад
Single crying from corner 😢
@UnequivicaLEE
@UnequivicaLEE 2 месяца назад
The love hormone❤
@martharossouw9368
@martharossouw9368 2 месяца назад
Me too
@OneLovefromOregon
@OneLovefromOregon 2 месяца назад
I would always kiss my partner before I leave the house. That's sort of day one s***.
@theresedillon6717
@theresedillon6717 2 месяца назад
Smart observations.
@sooboese3211
@sooboese3211 2 месяца назад
Always kiss your love ones sad my grandma to me as a kid and I always do it to my kids my husband and my loved mother on every visit and on the daily phone calls I always say I love you mama and my brother and always with a full embrace hug
@okaforchinyerematthew1937
@okaforchinyerematthew1937 2 месяца назад
Thanks for the marriage lesson sir
@threadripper3750
@threadripper3750 2 месяца назад
this guy is the mack. i am gonna try this out.
@Dena403
@Dena403 2 месяца назад
My wife ain't secreting anything 😂
@neumondlicht2811
@neumondlicht2811 2 месяца назад
This video is the reason why I get woken up earlier now. Not by my alarm, but by smooches.... It's fine. But I'm tired. I go to bed later...
@everythingelle6828
@everythingelle6828 2 месяца назад
Love This!!!❤
@lynnmarie2477
@lynnmarie2477 2 месяца назад
A kiss 💋 and a prayer 🙏🏽
@MrX-pb5qq
@MrX-pb5qq 2 месяца назад
Now I have to count to 6 while I am kissing
@smokee6269
@smokee6269 2 месяца назад
The devils 6 second kiss .. lol😂
@jordanterry6248
@jordanterry6248 2 месяца назад
Trust me bro data right there
@c-m5
@c-m5 Месяц назад
How fascinating! Thanks for sharing 🙏
@lifeisshort3606
@lifeisshort3606 2 месяца назад
Just switched off life support for my young son few weeks ago following head injury When you say goodbye assume it will be the last time you see them alive. I guess I am a softy dad, living hell on earth now.
@nhlanhlamay3090
@nhlanhlamay3090 Месяц назад
lol I’ve done my part and subscribed my men.
@mabelisbister-lu6pb
@mabelisbister-lu6pb 2 месяца назад
Now thats a way to leave home and start the day 😍😋❤️
@ashleyt.6619
@ashleyt.6619 2 месяца назад
I JUST heard this man this week speaking on KLOVE radio………….he doesn’t look anything like I thought. 😂😅
@christopherfalz3990
@christopherfalz3990 2 месяца назад
Top notch advice
@nelliedean7088
@nelliedean7088 2 месяца назад
It’s not the kissing it’s the fact they have love in their lives.
@trains889
@trains889 2 месяца назад
I prefer to hug my husband for 20 seconds before he goes to work
@SFCaliofUSA
@SFCaliofUSA 2 месяца назад
I followed the steps wow it works. Now I am late everyday.
@jesusriced
@jesusriced 2 месяца назад
Im a man and my ex would leave a good hour or 2 before depending on the day but shed always wake me up with a long kiss and it would give me all the motivation id need to tackle the whole day
@SydneyKnowles-nl3qu
@SydneyKnowles-nl3qu 2 месяца назад
Always done this
@Darkest25678
@Darkest25678 2 месяца назад
My grandpa kissed my grandma 60 secs everyday. That's why he died at 59. The excessive oxytocin fried his brain. True story!
@familyfirst7027
@familyfirst7027 2 месяца назад
😮😢
@susanchalkley9480
@susanchalkley9480 2 месяца назад
I live alone no companion etc ..if I kiss myself ?
@scroll.withmohit
@scroll.withmohit 2 месяца назад
​@susanchalkley9480sad life
@dimitrikrawtschenko7093
@dimitrikrawtschenko7093 2 месяца назад
It‘s the same mechanism that governs how men, who put the dirty dishes directly in the dishwasher lives 4 years longer than, men who don’t.
@ak-0151
@ak-0151 Месяц назад
A 6 second kiss I’m calling in sick.
@elrioto
@elrioto Месяц назад
Correlation Does Not Imply Causation
@halimah7164
@halimah7164 2 месяца назад
next time I have to check the time ❤
@scaryhours2220
@scaryhours2220 2 месяца назад
Now how the hell would you know that lol
@StayHome4Them
@StayHome4Them 2 месяца назад
30 seconds a day can change a marriage ❤
@roopeshmesta456
@roopeshmesta456 2 месяца назад
Will start doing it from today itself
@brandon1349
@brandon1349 2 месяца назад
That’s great advice
@mannygarcia9101
@mannygarcia9101 2 месяца назад
Cause 6 second kiss is more catchy that’s why
@redridinghook5932
@redridinghook5932 2 месяца назад
I tried doing this and my husband literally wanted to... do it... every time 😅 causing him to be late. So he literally asked me to not do kiss him or hug him for too long or else..... 😂
@danicameszarosova1636
@danicameszarosova1636 2 месяца назад
That's a beautiful problem.😊
@shashankks1962
@shashankks1962 2 месяца назад
If an older man is saying this, its out of experience
@dianesisler7175
@dianesisler7175 24 дня назад
Great information
@whatthedeuce
@whatthedeuce 2 месяца назад
Honey. What are you doing. Wait, i am counting to 6 mississippis. 😅
@Motivationtowinnn
@Motivationtowinnn Месяц назад
I mean really if kissing your partner increase your life why not do it?
@jaredb6934
@jaredb6934 2 месяца назад
That's not the only thing that gets secreted.
@djsanti4446
@djsanti4446 2 месяца назад
men who kiss their wives before work actually still like and can stand to be around them. it's stress not a kiss matey
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