@@deeboi6567 So you have to be married to be unhappy?? But y’all mfs with baby mommas/fathers be the most struggling/unhappy people and yall have the most toxic relationships filled with nothing but drama atleast when I see married couples they’re more happy and successful black people are the only race of people with the lowest marriage percentage and have the highest percentage of having children from different people especially black men so why does my opinion matter to you atleast the married men I know actually have more successful relationships unlike the unmarried men with 5 baby mommas
@deeboi6567 You people aren't happy alone. That's why people run around looking for sex,dates,compliments from strangers. If not folks wouldn't have sex than
@Kaesar24 They act like people who aren't married are more happy than the people who are married. I also laugh at the tax bracket that single people are in who make money & cry about it. Married people usually pay less taxes on top of them having children.
Only because women want to have the advantage because the only difference marriage provides is after the relationship is over and husband is getting screwed in court
You right you definitely don't need to get married. You still have growing to do. But Don't use women, or have babies. Don't bring a child in the world knowing you only gonna have a one parent household. A child deserves to have both parents married in the home
I was cracking up when you said marriage benefits women more than men. I knew you was a troll at that point cuz ain’t no way you’re this confident in saying that 🤣🤣🤣
@@Jaimelikegem did 0 research before making the video, lol and the funny part is that it’s mostly women in the comments saying they don’t want to be married too
Marriage is not overrated, marriage is beautiful. The government gone be in your business anyways lol. We have it mess up because now and days people don’t care about being in love anymore… so we do this. I don’t care how old you are or young everyone wants someone to love and care about them… romance 💘
Cop out- only difference marriage provides is after marriage when husband is getting railed in court. Come out ahead and never marry, dont come at me with common law because I was common law and still havent paid a cent to her in support 😊
@@DerekDaly92 lol ain’t nobody talking about when things get shitty. Anything in life that you do can always go to bad. Not just marriage. See that’s why marriage is fu*k up now because you and people looking at it the wrong way. We fu*ked marriage. We forgot what it marriage is TRULY for. It for people who wants to marry someone the they truly love. Not for Fu*king money or some type of perks anyways. The way yall talking.. it sounds like you are planning on being single. In which means that you’re DO NOT want someone to care for YOU and LOVE on you… it’s a difference for sure.
This is so me! I don’t want kids or marriage. I don’t even want a relationship. Grew up as an only child! I love being alone. People think it’s some trauma behind everything. I had a great childhood. Now, I do believe in God and think marriage and having kids is something he specifically plans for certain people but people are getting with people for their own lustful reasons which is why there are a lot of divorces. God didn’t bring it together in the first place. But I don’t put my beliefs on others so they can do whatever they want. I choose to stay single though lol People be having work husband and wives 😂
When he find that woman he will be moved and COMPELLED to put a ring on her finger because he will not want any other man to have her, he will LOCK it down 💍💎💍 No worries
Nahh marriage gives security and rights to ur partner to make certain decisions for you legally.. But Most importantly Its God’s Will for his people to make a spiritual bond of commitment with ur partner to make ur relationship sacred. u don’t have to do the whole big shabang ceremony but yk do it how u like it. aslong u make the relationship sacred.
Saying someone is your baby mama might just mean it’s your child’s mother but it’s also denigrating bc it reduces a women to a child bearer. And on top of that people say “MY” baby mama as if this woman is YOURS and your child bearer. She pushed out your child and that’s it?
But in this case, a child bearer is all she is to the eyes of everyone that sees her. Another statistic just because people are scared of committing instead of looking for better partners.
I am a woman. I have no desire to get married. I have too much to lose. I cringe at the thought of someone else legally having access to those things. I also need my space, time to decompress and be alone. Not everyone wants a traditional relationship/marriage. Not every couple fits that. Let couples do what works for them.
Marriage isn't for everyone but it stupid to have a kid without it, worse for a woman. Also for people who are scared of "losing." Just sign a prenup, at least that way you know the person is there for you and not what you have. I have one with a strong penalty for cheating.
@@jodianbeckford1312 My original comment disappeared. I do not want to get married. I do not want nor can I have children. I have more to lose than just monetary things. I have accomplished or progressed so much. No one is allowed to claim or take credit for those things. I don't need a prenup because my boyfriend and I will literally never have this issue.
Marriage is great if one desires it. Get married, but there is nothing wrong with not desiring it. It’s all beautiful as long as the person is happy with their decision.
I think it’s crazy for anybody to tell another grown ass person what they should or shouldn’t do. Why do you care so much when you could be using that energy to better your own life? Human beings are weird.
I didn’t want to get married before I met my boyfriend. I didn’t want to deal with all that. But now I want to get married I’m not in a rush but for me I think it was just the right person.
Legal protection Rob. You can get the final say in a lot of things especially after your partner passes. My grandma took care of my granddad. My grandma wasn’t married to my granddad and he passed and all his checks went to his kids and nothing to her. Luckily his kids left her with his truck
Marriage is better than dating and sleeping around. Making baby daddies and baby mamas. That’s not a flex at all. The younger generation is lost. But you are still young and your mind may change later. There is more to marriage than what you mentioned. You can live together but if in same household for 5 years. Some states will still look at you as being married and the rules apply! But my opinion each to their own. I wouldn’t look at other peoples relationships as a reference. You never know what they go through behind closed doors. Not everyone tells everyone their problem.
Exactly you said it plainly. There are many benefits of marriage. I think it’s good for Rob to think a little more positively in terms of this, because it’s a mindset that can change later in life and he’s still soo young.
I think your perceptive is a reflection of your reality. If you were very unbothered lol… you sure darn made a video quickly to address this. You thought you would get more support on this ideology than you did & thats okay. I’m just happy that people in the comments seem to have their values intact!
Marriage is literally for financial benefit lmao. Why ppl can’t be loyal to a person outside of marriage? To me it’s really no difference but paperwork
i’ll be damn if i possibly spend my whole life building wealth and a family jus to struggle when my spouse passes away bc i don’t have any legal rights to handle his business post-death. clearly ppl can’t be trusted with or w/o marriage soo 😂🤷🏾♀️ marriage itself ain’t the problem👀
I love being married! The problem isn’t marriage, it’s divorce! The courts will leave a man with nothing and not care and that’s not fair! Most women only care about what they can get from a man and they are more of a liability than an asset! I would advise a man with lots of money not to legally marry! Sometimes even a prenup won’t protect you!!
Marriage is definitely for those who actually want it. Some people do, some don’t. That’s great. However, I personally just don’t see the point in staying with someone for years, bearing their children/having children with them, and just being a gf/bf for the rest of your life. You might as well stay single hell. Plus with marriage comes legal benefits. If something happens to your partner, your relation to them really is insignificant in the eyes of the law.
Marriage is in the Bible because Jesus said a man and woman are supposed to conjoin into one through marriage. Look what your putting out as a Christian
I say to each their own BUT for me,I dnt need another individual to make me happy&I know how cliche&dumb thts gone sound but it DNT!Took me a long time to recognize&realize happiness comes from within&NOT from another human being.I believe another person can add to my world,life& happiness BUT ultimately tht shi comes from ME!Like you Rob,I spend most of my time alone,if I'm not home,Im wrkn,ppl literally drain me!Takes me days to decompress from mfrs draining my energy,not to mention iont even like ppl like tht anymore😂Im completely content&happy by myself,but some ppl can NOT do tht.I know ppl who cnt be w out someone,jump from relationship to relationship&to me thts weak,we are not the same,at alI! I pop out from time to time,but Im focused on me for once&tbh its beautiful!BEST thing I ever did for myself.&As I'm getting older,the MORE I realize marriage aint shit. Idek if I believe in it anymore bc for what!?For a little piece of ppr to prove my or our love for each other?😂NAH Im good off tht.I dnt think marriage solidifies a bond or love between 2ppl&most of the time,as soon as mfrs get married,their whole relationship go dwn the drain.Not to mention this the most single married generation I ever saw lol idk not 1married couple who are genuinely happy.Most married ppl aint smiled in about 5 months😂IDK not 1married couple not cheating in 1way or another! Bc this AINT the day&age from our grandparents time.Ppl have changed¬ for the better might I add.It's become way too easy to cheat,its all about being grimy&savage& being a snake🤮Im def NOT wit it man.&Trust me I know its odd for a female to think& believe&say wtf Im sayin,but I stand on all of it.Dnt let anyone pressure u into anything,not just marriage.You seem to be a smart dude,just continue to be true to YOU!
You’re young and that’s ok. Ava you may not be a Christian either. Marriage is from God and is blessed. The issue is sin. Sex outside of marriage is fornication. That’s the big deal. But like I said if you’re not Christian and don’t fear God. You will not look at marriage in this aspect.
I think the reason why most women want to get married is because as children, we are socialized to believe in a prince charming, getting married and having children. I mean, that’s what all the Disney movies shoved down our throats. 😂
Marriage is literally made for the protection of your partner. Alot of people just suck at picking them and as much as I hate to say it, marriage benefits the woman more than it benefits the man.
Marriage is over rated because when you guys break up eventually even after 10 years together you yourself will end up farther ahead, I have 3 kids, 8,6,4 two girls and a boy I have not paid a single dollar in child support. If I was married I would be FUCKED. When you we’re together living as a family it was indistinguishable from marriage, the only difference comes when the relationship is over honestly.
Sounds more like you picked the wrong person and have trust issues. Why would anyone have children with someone who can't commit, if you decided to walk right out of your kids like what would ensure that they will be taken care of?
I respect your opinion 100% Rob and I don't know what you believe in but I believe in God and GOD said he who finds a WIFE finds a good thing. One more time HE WHO FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING. He did say girlfriend he didn't say baby mama he did say side piece he didn't say friend with benefits he said WIFE. But marriage is deeper than that biggest example is who can do what in a medical emergency, after-death benefits and PERSONALLY I tend to be submissive to anything but a husband dumb sholl won't be a boyfriend. But again I say we are entitled to our own opinions and it's a known fact that back in the day family was more stable before the marriage rates dropped.
Rob is young, he might change his views in a couple of years. Second, Rob really just be trolling us....why is everyone so pressed? Third, Rob is entiltled tl his views and opinions. Last, marriage aint for everyone! Its okay to not get married. I know more misrable people in marriage than i do single.
You say close-minded but you being close-minded from other people too if you believe in God you know that's the right thing to do but if you don't I can see where you coming frombut the right thing to do
It means legal protection for both you and your spouse. I'm tired of seeing so people people left with nothing when one partner dies before the other since it automatically goes to the family. One partner walking away from the relationship and just saying " I don't want to be a parent anymore" and leave their partner with barely any recourse. It just seems like everyone has trust issues and scared to commit.
