Why Men Cheat And Always Leave Strong Independent Women 

Ladies, you do what you want to do in your life! Never try too hard to make the relationship work! "Be present, and confident, and interested in him", But, a man should be more in love with the women, then only the relationship will work! You don't be desperate, just match his efforts, it works like gold!

At this stage, I do not care about men. I do what I want. It is not about strong or vulnerable woman. Men do what they want. They use both.

Even vunerable women are consistently "cheated" on. Its not you Hunni. Its the man!

Agree with you. Is so sad to see Shakira suffer. I think she deserves a super star like herself. I think it will be difficult to find a man of her stature and caliber. Her IQ test came out as one of the highest equal to many scientists and innovators like Albert Einstein. She speaks 5 languages, plays several instruments, it's a composer, has won several grammies and other awards and is a top earner according to Fortune 500. Imagine the kind of man who could come close? She is beautiful!

Is it that Shakira lowered herself to get with her man. It's less about her being "strong" imo. I understand with her status of being a world renowned celebrity her potential suitors on her level are extremely small group of men. Ladies no matter who you choose don't lower yourself to get with them. Shakira needs another "boss" like her not Pique. On a another note I can understand why she did it. She was in her 30s and wanted marriage and have children so she settled with Pique. Shakira has even sort of admitted to this in an interview. My best friend recently tried settling with a guy that I knew wasn't her type of guy...she wanted to settle so bad. next thing I knew she told me the guy ghosted. Even if Pique only had a few million compared to Shakira's mega million if he really wanted her he would've been flying to get her or even joining some football club in Colombia or somewhere else in South America. There's nothing wrong with dating a man that's not of the same caliber if they put in the effort. It's clear Pique didn't.

Im 35, and never want to sleep with a man again. The idea of never being “close” to one again, frightens me, but my life gets exponentially better when I just focus on myself.

I believe when you de-center men in your life, and focus on yourself, you become more magnetized to men. Im 42yrs and men are often confused by my age. I meet more men who are in their mid 20s and are often confused about how old I am

Do you think it's coincidence that he did not feel emasculated when Shakira was 35? When she was 40? He felt it when she was 45 or so. I think there are more simple answers, even though it's hard to hear, they really get bored in time, especially when the woman is not so young anymore (she is still beautiful, but cannot look like a 22 y.o.). Then they want the opposite, weak or strong... If you are vulnerable, they want strong, if you are thick they want skinny, when they get skinny they would like thick and so on. You get my point. Sorry to say it, but for most of them no woman is ever enough...

You know what, prioritize yourself and don't compromise or sacrifice, you will be much happier for it.

Beautifully put together. I may be strong, I also love being relaxed and letting the man do his thing. I totally get it when feminine men feel "cheated" when they are expecting you to pull their weight as a "strong" woman. Learning to regulate my feminine and masculine sides has been a game changer. I am not attracting these little feminine boys anymore. Thanks for this video!

Men will cheat on women regardless if they’re strong or not they just don’t care. And even if he felt like he couldn’t be masculine with Shakira why did he have to cheat on her, why couldn’t he just talk about it with her and try to work things out and if it can’t be resolved then separate 🙄

i radiate masculine energy and the men who come up to me are the stereotypically feminine ones

For some reason it seems that we run into relationships that are actually extensions of Mom/Dad issues. Which are truly personal issues for each, man and woman. There’s a difference in unconsciously or deliberately emasculating a man and a man feeling emasculated as he compares himself to her. We see each other as competition or projects in our wounded-ness but each learning themselves first and respecting the dance of masculine and feminine energy could help us choose more wisely. It’s natural that a woman softens next to a confident man. And men appreciate knowing they can trust. Thanks for this! Got me thinking. 😊

Frankly, I also believe that his relationship with Clara Chia won't last long because he has cheated on ALL his previous partners aside from Shakira. And a cheater always a cheater.

I totally agree! In a relationship the man should provide and the woman just be present and relaxed! And I think the woman should use her masculin energy only for herself when she is single.

So it's all about male ego.

I believe that he saw her as his ideal woman. Then, he grew up and realized his expectations have changed, just as she did. Age gap could be a problem. That's my opinion. He was so immature when he met her.

As a man, i thank you for seen this problem from a man's perspective. Yes you are totally correct, Men are not intimidated nor afraid of strong women, however if women act masculine all the time thats a BIG turnoff, because we feel like we are in a relationship with another man, and of course straight men dont want that at all. Thats why "strong women" always attract weak effeminate men. Problem is that even the strong women like strong men.

I think this issue is much more complex than we imagine. I always love comments from all the beautiful ladies here and this gives me a completely different perspective. I think it’s not about getting bored. It’s not about being old either. It’s not about being masculine/feminine either, well to a certain extent. This totally depends on both people, here not only Pique and Shakira, but who they really are as human beings? Let’s assume Pique was an LV Man, so was Shakira a high-value woman? I am still a novice but what I have learned from this channel a high-value woman will never let anyone cross her boundary or let anyone give her so many signs. But there is another perspective as well: Maybe Shakira was high value woman, but she fell in love with Pique (or not) to fulfil her desire to be a mom and have a family, she ignored all the signs Pique had given her and most importantly ignored her inner voice. So, for the time being, she became a low-value woman. Here’s another thing to consider: Not all successful people are high-value or good people. They very well know how to figure out their professional life but do not know how to figure out their personal life. Yet another thing: Maybe some people just do not want to figure out their personal life, they are pleased with what life has given them and will give them; probably better than what they deserve. In my life, I have received plenty of attention from boys (till graduation) when I was feminine but was I? I was extremely shy to express myself, people assumed I was a perfect feminine woman. But was I? Then again when I started expressing myself (expressing more masculine energy), my grades improved, and my career took the high road. I met one guy who was attracted to my energy and down the road, we broke up in my early 30s with a long time of knowing each other for years. There’s a catch here too: I have changed myself for him, I tried hard to become a feminine woman. Let’s think about the above-mentioned question again: Was I really feminine? Was I really masculine? Was I really old when I was 31? Did he cheat on me with another woman? No Let’s shake our brains… hahaha And on top of that in my 30’s I see my parents in their 60s living a romantic life hahaha, it’s been like that since I was born, they never got bored with each other. To my papa, my mom in her 60s with sagging skin is still beautiful. As I said, it is a complex issue…..

I would love to hear you talk about Rihanna and ASAP Rocky. I suspect this relationship will also have a similar fate

I briefly met Pique about 8 years ago, at a gathering. He seemed nice and acted shy and submissive. I thought that was just because the other people there were mostly elderly intellectuals and he did it out of politeness and good home education. Some people there, who knew him better, privately told me that he is like that all the time and that he usually lets his family, mainly Shakira and his coaches make the decisions. I think he finally reached emotional maturity and his ego wanted a younger submissive woman. I noticed many female beauty icons are left or cheated on, in their late 40's, although they are still beautiful. That's because most men consider us women old after 40 y.o. Anyway, he did it the wrong way. He should have split from Shakira as soon as he was bored with her, instead of cheating. That would have been easier for all of them, including their kids.

Well in theory it all sounds so neat, but in reality... Vulnerable women get cheated on too. I know this woman, very beautiful, extremely feminine, has her own thing going, creative, kind, comes from a filthy rich family. She married a rich man too. Low and behold, her husband turned out to be a serial cheater. Despite them having this perfect family with 3 kids, her keeping her looks and figure. She is also so feminine, most people (men especially) call her the epitome of femininty. And here was her husband, cheating with a completely opposite type - the much more fiery women😅 So you can never really control another human being. They will always keep being their own person and do what they want to do, at the end of the day🤷‍♀ Plus, once they get used to you, they start taking you for granted. Especially when you're always available. But then when you're not always available they might cheat because they feel lonely🤣 Bottom line is, things like cheating are extremely common. It has always been like that really, throughout history. And there's so much temptation in this world. The only thing is, now intimacy is even more available than ever before, for men and women both. And no, it's not enough to be feminine to be happy in your personal life or avoid being cheated on. Again, just look at history - there have been countless feminine, drop dead gorgeous icons, and a lot of them were rarely happy in that regard. Even the absolute femininty icons that we still learn from, to this day, like Marilyn Monroe for example. Even if it's not cheating, then they would be mistreated in some other way. In regard to Shakira and her ex boyfriend, I suspect that the problem might be with the man himself too. For one, I've heard rumors about him being a sex addict and very money hungry. In that case, he is not really a "good" partner to begin with. And it's way too early to predict that him and his new girlfriend, who is less "masculine", will do better than him and Shakira, after having spent as much time together, as he spent with her. Especially once the new girlfriend will start wanting more for herself, after getting a taste of a new life, new position, and herself becoming more mature. Also, I disagree that he chose someone completely opposite to Shakira - at least looks wise, he seems to have a type (the blonde wild mane look) There's a danger for successful women though to attract men who are after their money and such, a similar plroblem to successful men for that matter, only with an additional twist. Which is why I'm sure he was in no hurry to leave her (despite the new love of his life or whatever), until she herself kicked him out. Bottom line is, I don't think there's any point in trying to change yourself for someone else. You're not guaranteed anything anyway. Only do something if it makes you happy and only change something about yourself when you feel like it, and when that change is for the better in your own life. What I will agree with, is that balance between femininty and masculinity is important. However again, it goes for men and women both. We all have both aspects to ourselves. Balance is the right answer to the most questions in life, really. When something is out of balance for too long, disharmony appears, manifesting in many different ways. However things like that should be done for ourselves first and foremost, rather than for the approval of men. Because how someone will treat you in the long run - is a russian roulette anyway

Pique is not exactly the type of man any woman should try to please

This is sad but true 😢. Ladies date within your income range or higher . Or stay single

Damn, why can't men just communicate and separate, instead of cheating?!

Correction : Weak men don't like strong women.

Mic drops and explodes! 🎤 🔥 Peace and gratitude Goddess 😘🙏🏼💫

Idk if you’re into astrology but Shakira and I both have our Venus in Aries. Which means our feminine love nature is naturally masculine. We like to make the first move and strategize. We don’t like to be held down too tight etc….Venus in Aries is considered a determinant placement as it means we have to work twice as hard to be more “feminine” and do things like wait or suppress the urge to pursue. Venus in Aries has the gift of being able to make a lot of money doing what they love but relationships take conscious effort. Unfortunately, I agree with your video and it’s only unfortunate because I struggle in the same ways as Shakira and I feel bad for her betrayal as well.

there is no such thing as relationships anymore or love or any pure and beautiful thing, unfortunately this is the way of the world, in this day and age. 😔

Masculine feminine energy theory is so real. All those financially sucessful women pretending to be feminine are actually very much masculine in real life. Sucess can only be achieved by becoming more competitive, aggressive, assertive, dominating etc and these are masculine qualities

This is gold, as usual

Wow this is beautifully articulated and explained! Balance and manipulation of masculine and feminine energy ⚖️💯

i think it depends on the man,because there are a lot of independent,strong,women who have wonderful husbands who don't feel trapped,like Beyoncè,Swift,etc etc. So,i think it's a matter of compatibility...if that man is not emotionally mature enough to "handle" a strong woman,that's what happens

What do you think about the situation when a woman might appear "strong" as in: she is seen as attractive to men around her, she has hobbies and she is able to survive on her own (because she had to) but once in a relationship, she turns out to be submissive and vulnerable? Will the man appreciate her or will he run because he had been expecting a strong woman? Or maybe will a masculine man love her more and a feminine man want to run because that is not what he wants?

Pique was a narcissist. If this was a good relationship she would have married him.

Good analysis! I was thinking just the same about their relationship. Hopefully Shakira will find someone mature and right for her. ❤

I think Shakira needs to be less critical because in an interview she said she was very critical. She even said her children are like herself. Pique said that he dealt with her criticizing him for 14 years. This is something that Pique must have felt and no one likes to be with people who are constantly criticizing you. He was a boy when he got with her and he started to change into a man. The problem was yes, this video got it right two masculine energies isn't going to work out. Shakira knows how to be feminine perhaps because he was more submissive at first she took on a more mommy role. He changed wanted to lead and you can't blame him for wanting to be a leader his a man. The problem was he choose the wrong way to do it, so he is looked at as the villain. (This was just a toxic relationship)

Hey, I really loved your (unbiased) views about this incident. You didn't trash him but tried to understand him and how he changed with time during his relationship with Shakira. I somehow feel that professional(working/independent), strong, successful women make BIG mistakes while picking their partners. Shakira herself admitted that her close friends warned her against him and she still decided to go ahead and establish a relationship with Gerard. I'd really love to hear your views on CR7 & Georgiana.

i disagree, I think most men loveeeeee going into their feminine energy. I only think it becomes tricky when the dynamic is playing out in the public/infront of an audience/friends/family etc, in that when a woman who is easily able to lean into her masculine energy, has a partner who is insecure and feels that insecurity when being evaluated by others (because its a social norm men should be more masculine in. a partnership he may feel like he is living up to that norm). So I think insecure men dont like strong woman (publicly) but generally men love strong women... assuming that the woman expresses her masculine energy or any type of energy from a secure place vs. insecure

Why just not say that pique was in feminine energy 😪?

Can a woman be successful and rich without being masculine ?

Wowwww I loved the way you put this together in a capsule form👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💖💝❤️💞 Yes balance your energies ladies. Be powerful, strong but at the same time let your vulnerabilities come out. Enjoy your femininity by getting pampered and taken care of but masculine men🥰😘😍💃

You are spot-on. Everything I’ve achieved in life I achieved without guidance or assistance from parents, family or partner and a new partner simply can NOT handle it because he feels not needed in my life. Then it occurred to me - he never got to hear (because he never asked!!) how I got to where I am so I guess he wasn’t the person I thought he was anyway. It’s SO difficult to date these days.

I great question would be : When a man doesn’t want to cheat ? Sex is always on his mind ….

Wow l like you teaching this is so true, no man wants to feel like a woman in a relationship

Im 1000% agree with all the words in this vid! Exactly my thoughts about this relationship...Everyone is accusing Pique, and it wasn't good thing to cheat, but I felt that he could be masculine enough in presence of Shakira. But the DNA was calling...

Moral of the story: never be the come up woman, which Shakira was

You remember shakira not was physically stranger than pique . She was just mentally stronger than him . These type of men doesn't say masculinity, they just have fragile ego and toxicity. If pique was never a man, he is just a bad person. He doesn't deserve any kind of women indeed he is not men also

It's so childish to pretend weak, vulnerable just to impress a guy, the right guy will stay with you for who you really are and a mature woman doesn't need to change herself because she knows her worth, if someone leave then it's their loss, she doesn't need someone to protect her, she might want a guy but it can't be her need

Dear this is a great video thanks for your análisis. I agree with your answer at the end of the video. Modulate our masculine energy

This is a great video! This is a great subject bc the media pushes nonstop for bossbabe status in fear of being a loser. I am Shakiras age. My experience with men is that while the masculine or feminine energy synergies do play a very significant role in partnerships, the most important two aspects are: 1. The man must chase, value, protect and support his woman at all times or he will lose interest. 2. A woman must only chose suitable partners to consider marriage material and stop dating losers but she must also stop giving attention to losers immediately. Losers are any man who is not secure in his manhood, secure in his worth, secure in who he is and what he offers. These weak men will be attracted to a strong woman bc they consider themselves alphas. When faced with a true alpha woman, these low value men/ weaklings will immediately begin to undermine the strong woman and do everything in their power to emotionally and psychologically abuse the woman into submission. There are so many men out there who literally only hunt for strong woman to tear them down. Once done, they move on to the next target. Again, if the woman is not allowing the man to chase, not allowing him to prove his worth, is not allowing him to court her, not allowing him to earn her love every day, don’t be surprised when he dumps you once he is done using your powerful energy. Women nowadays dress scantily with very little regard to their body’s worth. Women just sleep around absorbing so much corrupted and disgusting/ toxic DNA into their blood and tissues (yes. Every person you kiss or have sex with stays with you for life- including all of the disgusting women they sleep and their sex partners and their sex partners etc). Until women respect their bodies and themselves again, we will continue to see the destruction of stable relationships. God bless y’all. Praying all Princess of God recognize their divinity and their worth before being dragged into their 40s with nothing but regret and hundreds of sexual partners.

Very interesting perspective!

What a Great video!! I 100% agree with everything you said. Thank you for sharing your opinion

You have a great perspective. Good video

I didn't even know who Gerard Pique was before Shakira married HIM!

And my guess is that this love was one-sided. Shakira fell in love, he - not so much. She panicked he would leave and did all she could to be with him, sacrificing many things to make the relationship work; he simply used her to become more famous himself, then he left her after he found a woman he really loves. A man who loves never cheats.

When a man marries a woman more successful than he is, the society will make him feel small. They call him henpecked, pushover and a hundred other digs. If he is emotionally mature and fairly successful on his own, he may manage. Otherwise, he won't be able to cope well and things may get ugly. He may do something foolish to cope with the situation, just to feel "powerful". It's important to talk about the societal experience of men married to stronger/more successful women.

He cheated because he was bored after 10 years and wanted to hav fun with a younger chick if at all. Not all this bullshit reasons

We are no longer in the 1940s people. Women are more independent and less submissive.Dolly doormats get walked on.

By compromisig her career going to another country to start a family, wouldn’t this be considered feminine energy? Another question: how to deal with this situation, when your are strong because of the circunstances, but still have a feminine energy?

Thank you. Keep doing what you’re doing.

The number 1 reason always gets overlooked.

Well said I agree with every word

I thought THE SAME THING 👌🏻✅ !!

I think he used Shakira to propel his personal brand equity and then went back to what he really always wanted - a damsel in distress.

Weak woman are boring but independence is nothing to a relationship. My wife is a surgeon and I think it's great that she has important things going on in her life. Her achievements make her a more substantial person and interesting. But independence is another thing altogether because it brings nothing to a relationship. I may understand how things work, know how to get around, make things happen and even hold my own. But I am not independent because family and friends are important to me.

Ive seen this dynamic with a friend, too much in her masculine, always giving..two men have left her who were both quite selfish also

You should talk about the Tom Sandoval and Raquel Leviss cheating scandal. It is a similar "scenario", a man cheating on his strong independant intelligent woman for someone younger/less career oriented, etc..

the idea of a woman playing provider is disgusting too a man

I think its crazy that we associate being and adult human woman who can take care of herself as masculine...

Totally agree with you

This is very interesting… Thank you for your videos. I just got divorced after 16 years and my ex-husband cheated on me and is now engaged to that woman. I am a very strong woman and often found myself in the leader ship role, even if I didn’t want to be because he is a weak male. He actually looked to me to make big decisions,l and then would get mad at me if it didn’t work out. so this is very helpful for me when I am looking for my next partner.

Este tipo de contenido reafirma que aún seguimos pegados en la idea de que todo gira alrededor de los hombres. El “dark femenine” (según el nombre de tu canal) se supone que es la energía de una persona empoderada, que por sobre todas las cosas se centra en sí misma, es segura, sensual, misteriosa, etc, etc. Por eso digo que este video y otros mas que subes se contradicen con esta energía y el avance que ha tenido la mujer en su empoderamiento. Nada gira en torno a los onvrez. Y de hecho A MÍ QUE ME IMPORTA LO QUE LE GUSTA A PIQUÉ xd. Así que chica, just work and be better FOR YOURSELF.❤️‍🔥

Imo Shakira is not that strong woman. She may be successful but if you see videos of her and him together, she acts needy and clingy. And besides why would a strong and balanced woman get with an immature guy 10 years younger and then have tantrums and venting at him with her songs. A strong woman also suffers but keeps her dignity and head up

In short girls:Guys are insecure af Wtf?And the answer is •Be beautiful selfish woman!•Don't give him too much attention. And just focus on yourself Coz when you are in a right relationship the dynamic don't matter but the heart does 💓 love you

Brilliant explanation... In fact u r helping me so much to understand the things around and what am I going through and had gone through... Truly i liked ur channel and videos. Unfortunately my financial status is not great to get in touch with u in one on one coaching of building myself... But lots of gratitude and respect for u...

nothing can keep people from cheating except their own will to stay loyal.

My problem with this kind of argument is putting masculine equivalent to strong and feminine to weak. Also strength has different meaning: bank account, fame, career, or personality?

Couldn't agree more

Several months ago, I watched a segment on 60 Minutes in which the former couple were interviewed. You could tell that Sharika has a lot of masculine energy. (I could feel his emasculation. Since I have been doing this energy work it is amazing the things I can see now.) In fact, the reason for the interview was because of her and since he is a top 🔝 soccer ⚽️ player they probably decided to include him in the interview process. I don’t follow soccer so I hadn’t heard of him before either. I have respect for Sharika and her many accomplishments. Her boyfriend could have been much more respectful about how she treated her and their children.

Can you do a video about yourself? Subscriber’s questions and such…

Yes ladies, stay strong and get a cat!!!

GIRL, I love your opinion. Period. Very apt analysis. 💓

Men try/need to humble women by cheating on them. Don’t let them.

7:25 source on DNA research on that?

Thank you well said ❤

Such a great video!

El no pudo manejarse bien con una mujer tan poderosa por qué le daba en su ego, por eso decidió herirla engañandola. Lamentablemente así se comportan una gran cantidad de hombres

I agree … but then who do we date ?? I hate done do so the man doesn’t feel like he is not needed ?

Thank you 😊

Shakira deserves much better than pique..but alas the world doesn't carry that kind of men anymore

Can you do coverage about rihanna and ASAP.... i love your videos

So what we should to do ?

Now he gets to cheat on her as well. He wanted to be the prize and the 22 year old will tolerate it.

A 50/50 never works in a relationship, the musculine will never feel like a man and the feminine wont ever feel cherished like a woman, the imbalance causes the man to go outside and cheat with or leave for someone younger and more vulnerable who would appreciate what he comes with likely less experienced, thats where he will feel like MAN and is more appreciated there. I do not recommend doing too much for a man, it makes him lazy and invites a lot of dysfunction in the future. Let him go if you feel you're too strong or loose your feminine Glow.....

Is the other woman younger?

So I disagree. It has almost nothing to do with her or him so much as the combination of her and him. Shakira got with a guy who was and still is mentally in his 20s. From the way he is behaving and his nonchalance/guiltlessness, you can tell he has no concept of romance or loyalty beyond next Friday. He is playing it by ear. She fell in love with an image that he probably wasn’t. And with their young and wild and on top of the world dynamic, if she started complaining even a little, this is the kind of guy who would walk rather than have any one ever infringe on his ego. If he ever truly loved her, it was probably as a prize, and not as a person. He felt flattered that someone of such high caliber took an interest in him but when you know you don’t deserve it, you will inevitably sabotage. The lesson here isn’t guys can’t handle this or that. She should have found someone on her level who was equally smitten with her as she him. Maybe with how outgoing Shakira is, Pique never had to learn to be how treat someone delicately or exercise any finer emotional skills. Getting famous so young, he never got that character development. 🫤 The way Shakira responded is pretty atypical considering what happens in most cheating scandals. We never get this much first person information. What she says publicly is but a fraction of what she will say privately. Her machismo is comparable to his. And maybe she’s not romantic either; maybe she is attracted to the sociopath type for a reason; she’s all ego and show too. 🤷🏼‍♀️

But why Travis Scott broke up with Kylie, Kylie radiate feminine energy a lot

Lovely video pack with knowledge 👌

Pique just needed a bimbo he can manipulate. That's the main reason why men choose a very young woman. (And this information came from a group of guys.)