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Men and love fall in love differently, and women usually treat men like women and do with them what they want, which rarely works with men because men are hardwired entirely differently. Men fall in love in your absence. Men love a woman, which appears to be a challenge because this activates a different part of their brain, making them feel like they’re working for something they want - women don’t want that feeling. Naturally, when there’s space, as humans, we want to fill it. Painful emotions and unpleasant emotions will make him move toward you - and if he’s not feeling that anxiety, he won’t do anything to close that gap. Your absence creates that pull for him to be with you more. This is the opposite for women because women fall in love in a man’s presence, although our sexual desire peaks when a man is not around.
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@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

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@oneness3249 3 месяца назад

you kept saying closing the Gap what does closing the Gap mean? can you give a specific example of what closing the Gap is?

@learnitnow6265 2 месяца назад

@@oneness3249 it means when we go towards them instead of letting them do the work to pursue us. I know exactly what this means because I learned the hard way and will never repeat that mistake again.

@omnipotent451 2 месяца назад

Nobody cares what men want. Men are too emotional and delusional to be rational.

@omnipotent451 2 месяца назад

@learnitnow6265 so closing the gap is letting them be the opposite of what they claim they are throughout history? No ..why don't they own up to the illusion of grandeur they created for themselves instead. Be a man and pursue or build something or lift something heavy..but it appears all they really want to do is make claims of strength and logic while whining and attacking ovaries.

@Arwaa.M.Jarrin 2 месяца назад

For any intelligent and wise man, no matter how severe their depression and how much torture they went through when they were young and how much they were rejected by their parents and no matter how much they suffered in the hands of their criminal bosses, some men were created to be saints. Some men were created to be celibate. Celibacy is their test in the world. Because they're sensitive and emotional and because they are dependent on people and human emotions of feelings of love and loyalty, celibacy is their test and celibacy is their answer. Celibacy is their blessing and celibacy they think is their curse. And whenever an intelligent and wise man goes into a relationship and seeks love and happiness in this world from a woman, he ends up suffering so much through other reasons that he ends up emotionally and mentally breaking down and becoming depressed and dependent upon a man emotionally physically and eventually sexually. And many of them end up falling in love with younger boys after sexually being involved with an intelligent and emotional man who feels dishonoured and humiliated by the sexually serving their boyfriends and husbands. The answer is very simple. Celibacy... Purity. Piety. Chastity. Although for a person who is mentally and emotionally depressed and spends all his life crying weeping and wailing and being sad, the greatest nightmare of that person is to be single and chaste. But if they could suffer that pain of celibacy for 3 to 5 years, then they would find such happiness and such fulfilment in their lives and they would never ever have to go through the long part of seeking sexual pleasure from a woman and then falling in love with a man and then becoming a criminal to keep that man and then becoming a murderer and a monster and a weak person who is dependent on another person's love and has to destroy the universe and every religion and every law just to justify themselves and they're sick sexual sexuality.

@roseclaire5850 26 дней назад

It’s funny , men need absence to realise they miss her , but during the absence women realise they don’t need them anymore.

@Zairrr00 16 дней назад

True

@lisabeauty5073 15 дней назад

literally

@chrisherber1635 14 дней назад

This is the same thing men will say about women lol. Who is right here? When both sides do it intentionally, nothing ever happens.

@patriot-hj5vx 13 дней назад

Exactly - we learn how to live without him. They seem to be confused and offended at the lukewarm welcome we give on their re-entry.

@passerby6168 10 дней назад

It works both ways.

@moonhanaa 2 месяца назад

He can enjoy my unlimited absence for the rest of his life

@glynis1007 2 месяца назад

Omg 😂!! absolutely true

@shirleyamccreemccree6323 2 месяца назад

❤😂😂

@princesa111 2 месяца назад

ABAHAHAH

@beatricebrighton8668 2 месяца назад

😂😂

@parirubhogal4664 Месяц назад

😂😂😂😂

@marianneisafemolde5061 3 месяца назад

If a man ignores me, I will find another man who doesn't ignore me. No time for guessing games. Omg this is the most likes i get from commenting 😇 well, the man I'm talking to is on cold shoulder on me so I'm doing the same. Mirroring. Staying single is the best. 🥰

@shantalbarbot5801 3 месяца назад

Right

@nadinesoussi7352 3 месяца назад

Yes ,you are not rotten tomatoes, if he wants space he wants to cheat and play games if he wants space never let him back in your life again .

@danilima-fromrio7162 3 месяца назад

Right, me too!

@beccf.s.8012 3 месяца назад

Thank you 👏🏼

@iTman20007 3 месяца назад

Why would he ignore you if you were as attractive to him as you were in the beginning? Finding another man makes it easy for him to get over you, and enables you to not take accountability for what you've done to make him not want to be close to you. A woman whose answer is to just find another man was never fully committed in the first place, and is just a needy pole hopper.

@gmailuser3377 3 месяца назад

If he needs my absence to make him realize I’m the one for him, then he’s not the one for me.

@SugarHue 3 месяца назад

So dont take the advice and see what happens. You seem super proud and ego driven, probably will end up alone.

@gmailuser3377 3 месяца назад

@@SugarHue nah, I have standards, clearly you don’t. And just the fact that you think being “alone” is a bad thing speaks volumes about you.

@imarie6901 3 месяца назад

@@SugarHuebetter alone than having an unstable person

@minuit6305 3 месяца назад

@@SugarHue Projection is bad sis. I think you just described yourself.

@Lakaizerina 3 месяца назад

So you rather want to be in his face all the time?

@basicinfo2022 3 месяца назад

Giving him space to chase and miss you is so important even when married. Always let him feel like hes pursuing you so the attention is on you. Masculine men enjoy pursuing and earning a woman who knows her power and value.

@summernight7587 3 месяца назад

But how do u give him space when you’re married and live together?

@basicinfo2022 3 месяца назад

@summernight7587 have your own individual life and be focused on it. Invest in your self care. Let him initiate most calls and messages asking how you're doing...

@kenishahammond3935 3 месяца назад

So true!

@kenishahammond3935 3 месяца назад

@@summernight7587Go visit a friend or family member for a few hours

@spirituallydivineevibess 3 месяца назад

@@summernight7587have a girls night w your friends, go on trips w your family, go to appointments for your maintenance(look good, feel good for yourself) make a business, focus on your work /art.

@cloudslady3400 3 месяца назад

I don’t believe a man who needs to lose something to appreciate it is a man worth being in a relationship with

@amethyste684 3 месяца назад

exactly

@Zuzzamma 3 месяца назад

this... I just was watching a lot of Sheraseven, and then I trusted a psychic that matchmade me with a young and average financially doing manchild who was ghosting me for 2 days and then calling me "his Queen" and he wanted me to just come and live with him, but he could not even provide me with current rent and bills so I could travel to him... And now I asked him some questions about what he would expect of me and how much space he needs and I got left on delivered for 20 hours :))))))))))))). And to think that I got to such point of desperation again to consider moving to another continent to a not well fiancially doing manchild that was mostly absent and only sometimes fooled me with words? And I was so tired of his and everyone's elses words and compliments and empty promises, and yet I tolerated the same shit one last time... But I finally got to my dignity and blocked this piece of crap...

@irinaivanovic9792 3 месяца назад

Exactly!

@lotusphoenix8 3 месяца назад

That's it. He's just a gambler

@livelovely4681 3 месяца назад

It's human psychology people will take forgranted what is always available.

@abrahamlincoln8913 3 месяца назад

As a christian man, coming from an atheistic background heres some honest let you know. If you give it up, you are being used. We men know who we want to marry, and who we just want to have sex with. Men with no morals will play you/drag you along. I've seen it from both perspectives. The getting played and the player. If you want someone, dont have sex with them. Thats the best filter. Dont have sex with someone see how long they hang around. A man that wants to be with you will fight for you to the moon and back. A man who just wanted to play you will disappear. Easy. Me and my wife were not always Christian. When we got together i set the standard of "we're not having sex till we get married" she understood and we married a year later. (Hard to wait that long) but worth it. Especially knowing if i can wait for my wife. And not going to break that for some random girl later. I own my standards. I feel proud about it too.

@ImCheesedOut 3 месяца назад

OK, but you kind of sound judgmental and that’s not very Christian.

@hellobridgette 3 месяца назад

My respect to you.

@Emilnananaxo 3 месяца назад

seriously people these days gave up religion when its obviously a divine truth because who knows how we are more than our Creator? as a woman, a conservative one at that, also religious, i am aware of men's use of women and disposing then after they are no longer "of use". its so disgusting, and back then when when not being a "virgin" is a taboo shielded women from a lot of pain. now because western ideals have abandoned humanity for riches of the minority, we have one problem after another. im so sad for the state of the world, but know that God is indeed ever-watchful and present, even when life seems very bleak

@rosie5848 3 месяца назад

Is it possible that a man will know you’re the “wife type” while in a player phase & try to table you for later, when he’s ready? Especially if you make it clear you won’t sleep with him & he has talked about marrying you & whatnot. I feel like this has happened to me

@steelbeachsiren 3 месяца назад

Men may wait to have sex with you, yet you may still find that they aren't the one (and vice-versa).

@AS-xn7nr 3 месяца назад

I broke up with a man almost 3 years ago due to inconsistency and moved on with my life. He just reached out to me at the beginning of this year. I don’t even like him anymore.

@ladysmithanderson3355 3 месяца назад

They always come back even if it’s years later. I had 3 of them do it but I’d lost respect for them because of how they treated me.

@ladysmithanderson3355 3 месяца назад

Let’s face it. We don’t like weak inconsistent men.

@jd6331 3 месяца назад

@@ladysmithanderson3355 yes, they make you feel alone when you're not, which becomes excruciating overtime...

@dinahwestallen 3 месяца назад

Yep, sometimes absence makes you realize that they were no good in the first place

@melanierose5825 3 месяца назад

😂

@basicinfo2022 3 месяца назад

No contact is so powerful.

@SherryONeill Месяц назад

For The Narcs In our Life It Is The Power Stroke For us NO ACCESS FOR ABUSE

@winterkai12 28 дней назад

Tested and proven, yes.

@Deborah-go3kh Месяц назад

IT IS MORE RARE TO MEET A GOOD MAN THAN A GOOD WOMAN!

@user-sz3yh1ug6h 23 дня назад

she's such a misogynist for saying that lmao!!! i couldn't believe it

@albertshinskiy 9 дней назад

Interesting video content, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

@floraanderson-xc6en 9 дней назад

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

@albertshinskiy 9 дней назад

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

@floraanderson-xc6en 9 дней назад

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

@albertshinskiy 9 дней назад

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

@HauwaBalaHalilu 7 дней назад

Be careful, maybe she wasn’t the one for you, be very careful about reaching out to these people

@yukee1127 3 месяца назад

If you date a avoidant attachment style person, they’ll constantly leave and come back thinking you’re the best, repeat.

@12day1 3 месяца назад

What if they are not an avoidance attachment style person ?

@ladyfl0wers 3 месяца назад

Then theres no need for this bullshit

@timharris1675 3 месяца назад

Trapped in a toxic cycle. Tragic

@EvanPaul111 3 месяца назад

How to heal this

@irinaivanovic9792 3 месяца назад

Also known as GHOSTING.

@Meggiebeth19 2 месяца назад

If he is the one then he’ll want to be w/you all the time & you will want to be w/him. 43 years married & counting here.

@belle3055 Месяц назад

😢

@jessicahitchens6926 Месяц назад

No such thing as the one. You just got lucky.. the end. You didn't drastically change whilst in your relationship. You worked together etc. .

@A_W2016_love Месяц назад

I hope to be married 43 years, I found my one. However long we get there will be no one like him. 14 years together and 8 months married.

@flyandshy00 Месяц назад

People need space to miss each other, if you want to be with someone 24/7 - it's anxiety, you're having childhood abandonment trauma and cling to a person which is very unhealthy or/and you feel subconsciously he's a cheter, inconsistent, leaves you on read etc

@Jediknight4jc 3 месяца назад

If a woman plays these kinds of games, she's not the one. No high value man with options will tolerate absence to try and manipulate him. Next, if a man isn't treating you the way you want to be treated, then have enough self respect to walk away. Be absent for your own benefit, not to try and manipulate him into behaving.

@priscillamoussa8841 3 месяца назад

yh…I think her argument is for those who have been in a committed relationship with a man who loves them, outside of that …it’s pretty non-existent.

@ThunderSen 3 месяца назад

I am high and value. Cause I

@JamalJohnson-se4mz 3 месяца назад

Haha exactly! A woman who doesn’t give me time, I move on!

@slaybaenay 3 месяца назад

As a man, you’ve never gotten comfortable in a relationship with a woman you love and yet managed to overlook her? This is where that advice would apply. Not right off the bat in early dating. In my experience men need to be kept on their toes. When they think you won’t leave is when they get too comfortable. It’s not playing games with them, it’s simply not giving them all of your attention at all times. Have things going for yourself and keep yourself busy. Make time, yes, but don’t be completely dependent on him for anything.

@Jediknight4jc 3 месяца назад

@@slaybaenay No, I haven't and if I did, I'd expect her to communicate like an adult and tell me if she feels like I am taking her for granted, instead of trying to play games and manipulate me. We'll even ask women what's wrong and they'll say "nothing."

@XxxX-wx3er 3 месяца назад

Why even engage in a relationship if you have to “step away”. That’s the exact opposite of what a relationship is supposed to be.

@thecurrentmoment 3 месяца назад

I don't think so, because a relationship is about give and take and there will be times when you have to be away or step away from each other. I think you are trying to find a comfortable distance or rapport between you two, and that requires a bit of moving back and forth at times to figure out where that is

@BlueBlue23 3 месяца назад

Sadly, you still didn't understand that men are different from us

@nofybn7794 3 месяца назад

PREACH! SORRY I CAN'T DEAL WITH MEN ANYMORE. I EXPECT A RELATIONSHIP. OR EXPECTED. I AM DONE WITH MEN. DONE.

@nofybn7794 3 месяца назад

@@ceyciemateo9411 ? How does that answer their q?

@nofybn7794 3 месяца назад

@@BlueBlue23 No, they got it. Why is it all on us? And not on them to accept us? SO NOT RIGHT!!

@Twighlight333 3 месяца назад

I see a lot of people misunderstanding what this video means, a needy anxious co dependent person male or female, rich or poor, ugly or attractive will push anyone away. If they liked you in the beginning but you started to show signs of co dependency right away thats a turn off, we are all individual adults who need to have our own autonomy, hobbies, and goals.... creating space either makes or breaks the relationship, after creating space if they dont miss the heck out of you they were never into you but if they do miss you it might make the relationship far more solid, only in absence can one truly know how much someone or something truly means to us. We humans take for granted what is always there its normals science, creating that space makes it new and exciting every time.

@peaceofmindofpeace1650 3 месяца назад

But what if you are autonome and relaxed but he is quiet 4 days I have my limits. I told him bye bc 4 days after his last text " thinking of you 😘" is weird and hurtful. I texted him how I felt about it calmly and no reply. We were in talking stage but he was soooo enthusiastic and I never chased. I told him to be a bit cautious with words bc we still had to meet ( he talked about living together etc bc felt such a deep connection...) He said " you are already deep in me can't wait to meet. Now he is quiet for 4 days! He is on vacation and we planned to meet after he is back. Last text conv was normal positive. I opened up. No games but I guess it was a façade and only for attention. Maybe he is married. I asked him he replied: are you serious? I guess I will never know but it's hurtful.

@PlaywithDaisy 2 месяца назад

@@peaceofmindofpeace1650he is bread crumbing you. Detached NOW. It’s a form of emotional control over you!!!!!

@Haileyhamm77 Месяц назад

Exactly

@belle3055 Месяц назад

@@peaceofmindofpeace1650😞 I think I’m dealing with same guy, when we are together he’s so nice, so attentive, wants hugs, kisses, communicates but when he’s away he barely texts. I don’t want to seem annoying or codependent so I just ignore it. I feel so strange, I also like him so much.

@Mari-qp4ly Месяц назад

facts!

@rinamalan6665 2 месяца назад

I ain't got time for hot and cold. Either we are doing this or not

@mariamartinusz9699 3 месяца назад

If a man needs absence, he's not worth it.

@poetaenlaluna 3 месяца назад

No honey, don't make excuses, he's either not that into your, or ready or just not worth it, don't waste your time playing games.

@keylo2473 Месяц назад

Agree

@laurarondan6537 3 месяца назад

And thus the saying Absence makes the heart grow fonder! I went to travel for my work and my husband completely changed!! 100% He helped more around the house and our children, started cooking, messaged me more as well! Our love grew so much more! I am so Happy! Feel so lucky!

@nate2759 3 месяца назад

Yes, it’s good to have some absence even in a long term relationship!

@irinaivanovic9792 3 месяца назад

Absence does NOT make the heart grow fonder, for men. For women, yes it does. For men, it is not the same since they are VISUAL. If you are not around, his eyes will wander and he will be looking around and shopping for another woman. Guaranteed.

@BeautyQueen2023X 3 месяца назад

@@irinaivanovic9792 Women are visual as well since they mostly care about the looks of the man they wanna be dating they arent gonna date a man who aint good looking for them

@Haileyhamm77 Месяц назад

@@nate2759ESPECIALLY in a long-term relationship

@Haileyhamm77 Месяц назад

@@irinaivanovic9792so what? Thing is, if they do, they realize the other women are not you, or they end up with them and then you’re better off because it was only the convenience of your availability or insecurity keeping you together. It’s not our job to keep him on a leash so he stays loyal. “Let people do what they want, so you see what they’d rather do”

@2710TK 2 месяца назад

Or you meet someone who loves you and loves spending time with you, who you don’t have to play games around. This is the safest kind of love. I don’t want to pretend to be aloof. If i love someone i love them with my whole heart

@elyzak333 3 месяца назад

Or you step away and he doesn’t care. And that’s good information too.

@originalgoldengoddess 2 месяца назад

I'm more than happy to give him my absence... just don't expect me to come back 😊

@pkp6791 3 месяца назад

For me: If they do something that results in absence, the relationship is over and there will be no coming back. Ive had them come crawling back and I ask them one question: Why should I give them another chance when a man who may actually be able to rise to the occasion hasnt been given one chance yet? I have never received a good and satisfactory answer to that question.

@breenatajames9781 3 месяца назад

Thanks for that! I will have to use that question, just in case.

@lotusphoenix8 3 месяца назад

Spot on!

@BeautyQueen2023X 3 месяца назад

Yet you are still single and havent found the good man yet xd

@pkp6791 3 месяца назад

@@BeautyQueen2023X Yes. I won’t settle for less. Im happy with that.

@BeautyQueen2023X Месяц назад

@@pkp6791 Yet you are still here lol

@timduvall6488 3 месяца назад

You marry them for who they are. Otherwise don't marry him.

@basicinfo2022 3 месяца назад

8:15 sometimes the man is bluffing which is why no contact is so powerful to call their bluff. Always show them that youre willing and able to walk away and move on to another man...

@nofybn7794 3 месяца назад

You can walk away and move on without another man.

@oliverschulte427 3 месяца назад

It actually ruins the relationship

@Love2Love927 3 месяца назад

Walk away & “DO YOU,” if need be. Don’t even worry abt another man. He’ll come when the time is rite 😊

@beccf.s.8012 3 месяца назад

Another man doesn’t and shouldn’t be in the equation

@lotusphoenix8 3 месяца назад

If he still has time to bluff then he's still immature. Boy bye

@MirandalindaL.A 3 месяца назад

Great video. I been giving him space and gifted him my absence. He is now chasing me and checking in every day. I stopped trying and I'm staying in my feminine energy ❤❤❤ Los Angeles CA

@fatvegan4621 3 месяца назад

Lol thats not the case for everyone 😅😅😅

@beccf.s.8012 3 месяца назад

And congrats, you have behind either a narcissist now in the cycle of getting you back, a dismissive avoidant now idealizing you because he doesn’t have you or simply a man who was pursuing someone else and his other venture failed. You could be trapped with someone like this for years. They simply come back when ignored because they lack the capacity to enjoy healthy & steady relationships. As soon as you show interest they start with their games again.

@irinaivanovic9792 3 месяца назад

This is 100% accurate.@@beccf.s.8012

@MirandalindaL.A 3 месяца назад

@@fatvegan4621 hi yeah not all situations are the same. I have been without seeing him for almost a month now he's checking in with me every day and has asked to see me personally but I have made excuses to not see him. I'm in love with him but my dignity and peace of mind comes first. I'm so done and focusing on myself. Good luck to you. Los Angeles CA

@MirandalindaL.A 3 месяца назад

@@beccf.s.8012 hi I have been distant and have not made an attempt to see him in person. I completely stopped giving him my attention and he's checking in with me every day. He's asked me out but I have turned him down. I'm taking care of myself. All I want is some peace of mind

@jazminm9052 3 месяца назад

Making space from the one you love out of self love must be hard but so worth it, either will bring so much growth to the relationship or just the answer one needed, thank you for explaining it! very helpful Fareen 💕💕💕🥰🥰🥰

@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

yes exactly! Beautiful comment thank you for sharing 🙏🤍

@MaxineShaw-de7bh 3 месяца назад

Totally agree with this. ❤❤❤❤

@user-mn6sq3is4t 3 месяца назад

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤@@fareenashofficial

@kindredkey Месяц назад

It's not manipulation if it's genuine... meaning, don't walk away expecting them to come running after you... walk away because that's what you must do to honor yourself... now, if they make the appropriate changes and want to return to you (and that's also what you want) then great... if not or they don't return at all, GREAT! It's meant to be a win win for you ALWAYS!

@user-hp5mr4yz8h 9 дней назад

❤

@austinmahonefan2 3 месяца назад

Haha if he doesn’t realize I am the one the first time around then that’s it. Women we need to realize and go where we are wanted and loved and given the world. The past had its chance and we stand on that hill.

@Realmariah510 3 месяца назад

I disagree with some points in this video. A healthy masculine man should not feel uncomfortable with feminine women. If he is, he may have wounded masculine energy and that's why you would be triggering him with your femininity.

@thecurrentmoment 3 месяца назад

He may be healthily masculine but, as she said, truly feminine good women are fairly rare so it may be that he is not necessarily triggered by it but he is simply unfamiliar with it. Like a culture shock

@Love2Love927 3 месяца назад

I can understand both of these comments.

@patricesmith135 Месяц назад

@@thecurrentmomentUnfortunately, truly masculine men are rare too. This is a hook up, manipulative, generation!

@heenagujral244 29 дней назад

I think that’s what she’s saying tho ; even if a healthy man is a healthy man , if he’s only had experience with wounded females he won’t know anything else . So naturally when someone he isn’t used to shows up and is more feminine in nature , it will be a bit more of a difference for him and will allow him to express his healthy masculinity in reciprocation with her healthy femininity

@Wise-up-already 3 месяца назад

Women often say that it is "emotional abuse" when their man chooses to be in any way absent.

@carrielegg5480 16 дней назад

I have seen many marriages that are good and last and I never seen where the woman had to go away for him to decide or see how important she is. I believe either he loves you and wants you or he doesn't!!

@Chris-hp2gg 14 дней назад

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.😂

@beautybrandy9816 3 месяца назад

Wow this came at perfect timing. I walked away, and he’s going through all of this right now. Meanwhile, I’m solely focused on myself. Thank you so much, beautifully said, Fareen! Love your books! (Would love audio versions as well!) 😊❤

@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

Oh I love love love this for you! And thank you for your kind words… I’ve been getting a lot of requests for the audio.. it is something I will look into 🤍

@beautybrandy9816 3 месяца назад

@@fareenashofficial Thank you!! You’re so welcome, you’re the best! So exciting! 💖

@sarahsawrie 3 месяца назад

@@fareenashofficial OMG, and audio version would be out of this world CRAZY GOOD… I can just hear all your energy and expressiveness and how much everyone would learn from that! Next level 😍

@degrasi135790 3 месяца назад

yes queen

@theeladyj 3 месяца назад

same

@ThunderSen 3 месяца назад

The key to happiness in relationships is mind games, or passive aggressive things. Preferably both at the same time, with limited communication.

@angelalogan3637 3 месяца назад

😂 So true. That was the secret to my "highly successful" marriage...I'm so relieved it's over now.

@urstrulii5932 3 месяца назад

Lmao 🤣🤣🤣 As crazy, insane and disgusting as this sounds. I hate to say it...but it might be some delulu truth to this ughhhh

@irinaivanovic9792 3 месяца назад

Please tell me this is satire.

@angelalogan3637 3 месяца назад

@@irinaivanovic9792 I was just joking with my comment -- except the part about being glad my nightmare marriage is over. 🙄

@Darima2 2 месяца назад

Great advice 👍🏻😂👌🏻🤣🤣🤣

@sunnyvasic 3 месяца назад

And then when you're back in the routine, they get bored again...its a viscious cycle

@urstrulii5932 3 месяца назад

Indeed! Try not to get too comfortable lmao Relationships....can't live with them... can't live without them lol

@user-gk6fv7du2d 2 месяца назад

He ain't no child I STEP AWAY IM GONE GONE

@shae.the.gymini 10 дней назад

Crazy that I’m going through this “absence” phase right now with a guy & this video pops up 😂 she is absolutely correct about everything she touched on!! When you’re a good woman & truly know your worth you will never settle for less because you have the confidence that’ll you find that man that will see your worth & already know how to handle you without you having to teach him. Either come right or get left.

@fareenashofficial 10 дней назад

Bingo!

@lolelyn1 3 месяца назад

Omg this is helping so much!! Honestly. I've been so confused the last days, because a guy came on soo interested and told me he is into me on a date but only send me heart emoji after that and didn't reach out since that.. which left me so confused, but now i know why.. He already took me for granted just because he got my approval that i like him back..

@norswil8763 Месяц назад

Why can’t you reach out? You expect men to constant chase and act needy? You’ll just leave him for acting that way!

@QuantumMarie 3 месяца назад

I’m confident that there’s a line of men who would date me but my problem is that I hardly fancy anybody

@joev7014 3 месяца назад

I’m a man and chasing sucks… I like equal reciprocation. Proper communication. I’m not gonna chase and I don’t expect that from you. But I do expect communication

@petarbg123 3 месяца назад

We don’t need you to leave to realize that unless we are bums

@nederlander111 Месяц назад

sometimes it is ok for the woman to leave so the man can heal. i for example did make mistakes and we have 3 baby's together. i did not see my mistakes when we were still together. after the break-up a month after it i saw my mistakes so now i can make it good

@TheRealVivia Месяц назад

Exactly.

@aquata3367 3 месяца назад

Thank you Fareen! Have a terrific week. 💛

@surbhidixit5406 2 месяца назад

why do i find the comments more interesting then the video

@Soysaucinn 3 месяца назад

I love how you always go back to doing the inner work! 🙌🏽 Such a great video Fareen ❤

@kekelwatson 3 месяца назад

I've applied your method - works 100%!

@amandasplit 3 месяца назад

I’d like to think there is a midway point between a woman being demanding, needy, and smothering, and a woman that is purposely taking space just to make a guy think she is high value. Do what works for you , if you don’t want a guy that needs space, try to find one. If you are with a guy that makes you feel like you are too much, let him go find less. If a woman is just giving space to try to keep a man coming back and she is not staying true to her authentic self, that is no way to live.

@michellement2158 3 месяца назад

This is so true! We must be ourselves at all times

@kirawong4629 3 месяца назад

I kind of agree w this bc who wants to play games for life lol? We marry so we can be ourselves with someone and let go of the childish games… and if I have to keep doing this then something is wrong.

@dg5175 Месяц назад

I know I'm a good woman and I've always been used and then passed over for the bad girls. I used to let this affect my confidence and self worth. Then I realized that most of the men I was dating were immature, and weren't looking for anything serious. They always wanted to date the girls who were "exciting" but good girls can be fun too, we're just not reckless. Most of these men are still single and have gone through so many women most of which were bad girls. I learned to work on myself and change the type of men I was going after. Even if they weren't "bad boys" they were still emotionally unavailable. Now I look for guys who are mature, can regulate their emotions, and have a good outlook on women. ❤

@priscillamoussa8841 3 месяца назад

This applies when you are in a committed relationship with a guy who loves and values you. I won’t trust a man coming back if we only dated briefly. It’s not even mentally healthy to go back and forth. Great advice babe ❤cheers 🎉.

@gimmelife3717 3 месяца назад

So glad I found ur channel. U are so wise, I like the way you’ve set up on personal on-on-one coaching too

@Toobs8465 3 месяца назад

Space is for astronauts!! Not in relationships. My soulmate will be 💯 sure of me and won’t be playing games 😊

@Nika-je6zd Месяц назад

Perfectly said 🎉

@faithful0487 3 месяца назад

💯💯💯 I agree with you sometimes men have to feel and appreciate your exit/absence and from there is a wake up call for them.

@poppyseeds1844 3 месяца назад

The idea is to focus on yourself: What do you want in life? What would you like to do right now? Lying home crying is not the answer. Work on your own stuff.

@carlosoliver1887 3 месяца назад

Whenever you do that the only thing we think about is "I'm gonna stop giving attention because she's not showing interest "

@urstrulii5932 3 месяца назад

Not true. At all. And TBH probably only applies if he really likes you. Men and women come in all shapes, sizes and mindsets. When I met him we instantly hit it off and started dating exclusively. However, I got the feeling he was getting cold feet and I started back focusing on me. I could give a hoot about him because I had things going on before he entered my life. I also started back dating others and im sure I pissed him off. But even after over a year no intercourse he still chase me down like a damn taxi cab. Finally, after getting my attention he wants to step it up. I'm seeing him differently and allowing him space, time and effort to get it right. Sooooo thats not always true. Depends on both parties involved.

@sem1663 3 месяца назад

If someone is reaaally interested in you, they won’t play games and they’ll definitely let you know.

@urstrulii5932 3 месяца назад

@@sem1663 I agree. A healed one won't. But one thats not healed yeah ok lol

@jessicahitchens6926 Месяц назад

That's fantastic because you dismiss yourself and she moves on to someone whom can be serious and consistent. Actually investing properly not phoning it in..

@lophi6474 4 дня назад

Loved this! Thank you!

@888esoterica 3 месяца назад

wow this video is actual gold. thank you sharing!

@Lucky.London 3 месяца назад

Great advice! Thank you Fareen! 💕

@justsomeideas9594 3 месяца назад

I am currently going through this right now as I’m watching this video. It resonated with me so much. Thank you so much for this video it really explains this dynamic for me. I bought the secrets of a feminine woman book 2 weeks ago and am slowly reading through it. Thank you so much for all that you do for us🥰

@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

I love when timing works out the way it does! And I’m really happy it’s helped you and that you bought the book! If you need specific guidance, reach out ok. You’ll know. Trust your intuition 🤍

@justsomeideas9594 3 месяца назад

I definitely will. I also told my best friend about this video and she wanted me to send it to her to, in which I did. I’m waiting to hear her response back. Before I found you, years prior i was lead to do a lot of work on my own intuitively. This just confirms everything I’ve done for myself and have experienced. There’s nobody speaking about or teaching about masculine and feminine dynamics at all. So happy I found you! Thank you!

@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

@justsomeideas9594 oh I love this!! Yes your soul will be validated by truth! 🤍 I’m happy you’ve found me as well!

@iTman20007 3 месяца назад

Men need absence when they're undecided about her toxic behaviour and weather or not they still want to be with her. This can give the woman a second chance to be as solid as she was at the start of the relationship, showing feminine and attractive qualities, keeping quiet and listening to him, and facing the truth. Often, when giving women this chance, the woman fails and doubles down on her toxicity. This woman just gave you a woman's viewpoint on men giving space, and it's totally wrong. If you fight and argue with a man in this period, he will most likely get rid of you, no matter how much he liked and wanted you at any point in the relationship.

@soy_red 3 месяца назад

THIS

@morganeoghmanann9792 Месяц назад

A woman should have no voice? In a relationship? Only if you consider her a piece of property and not a human being. If he gets to define what is feminine, does she get to define what is masculine? Any man who can't handle an occasional argument and God forbid admit he may not be God and be wrong once in a while, is just a bully.

@gosiadubis1111 2 месяца назад

First time Here and I'm staying 💜Thank You ❤Perfect timing With This particular post which just popped up on my RU-vid

@user-dc1me5lu3l 3 месяца назад

Absolutely looove this video and its guidance!! Thank u for sharing this golden advice 🙏

@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

I love that you do! Thank you for sharing your appreciation with me!

@thaisa2439 3 месяца назад

every time i watch this video, about 4 times now, it really hits home. thank you for this content Fareen, i enjoy your coaching very much ❤

@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

You’re very welcome! You’ll enjoy the new video about to be released!

@Toikag 3 месяца назад

Well said. Putting a masculine man in check is essential and works to your advantage.

@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

Yes!

@kristinej.4182 3 месяца назад

Great content and advice! Makes a lot of sense! 👍🏻

@matthiasaronjonsson3066 3 месяца назад

When a woman ignores me, I quit and move on. My time has value.

@sonofhibbs4425 3 месяца назад

Then she meant nothing to you. And she in turn lost nothing of value.

@reginapolo3357 3 месяца назад

When someone as you put it "ignores" someone, is for a reason, and it is better for the person that "ignores" you, to be left alone.

@Dimples216 3 месяца назад

But she is talking about when a man steps away not women.

@rachelking8801 2 месяца назад

That's figures .😂 🖐Goodbye

@joelalala2845 2 месяца назад

@@Dimples216your so dumb it's cute

@karolinarios2208 3 месяца назад

I met a man from another country, he is consistent and makes himself present. We met two months ago and it's been so good and light! But I think I'm self-sabotaging, afraid that maybe he'll come to my city to meet me... How can I cure this fear of opening up to new people? I'm very introverted and I'm afraid of getting hurt again.

@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

Hi my love, I would need to know more details to advise accurately. You can find ways to connect with me about your situation in the description 🤍

@basicinfo2022 3 месяца назад

Try emotionl detachment videos. You cant get hurt if you have emotional control and don't emotionally invest. I would only invest feelings of love when he becomes my husband.

@selfdiscoverysupport 3 месяца назад

If you have a healthy partner, communicating openly and kindly about your fears and insecurities is better than avoiding or pulling away. Just check in with them in small bits to see how they handle what you have to say. They most likely will be able to talk it through with you.

@user-dh9wg7kj4g 3 месяца назад

@@basicinfo2022how do you do that? I’m very interested in your logic because I have issues with attachment I get very anxious!

@basicinfo2022 3 месяца назад

@@user-dh9wg7kj4g I had the same anxious attachment issue. When I became emotionally detached and emotionally in control, they pursued me all over again and feared losing me. As a woman, you have to know and be the prize. It's unattractive and emasculating for the masculine man if you're chasing him and unstable

@VolleyballAddict521 3 месяца назад

I needed this. I just started giving him space and no longer chasing.. resting in my feminine I know he will be in pursuit.😊

@lotusphoenix8 3 месяца назад

Or he might not. In which case, boy bye

@VolleyballAddict521 3 месяца назад

@@lotusphoenix8 Within 3 days he totally turned around. But I also believe in the Law of Assumption, So it worked out perfectly for me 🤗❤️

@pepper1474 3 месяца назад

@@VolleyballAddict521I'm glad this worked for you but I sincerely hope you won't need to keep repeating the same strategy in order for him to be reminded of your value... 😢

@VolleyballAddict521 3 месяца назад

@@pepper1474 like I said before … I believe in the law of assumption so he’s going to react anyway I assume him to. You have way more power in this world than you think. It was never about him and all about me. This video was a nice healthy reminder for me to take a step back and allow him to be the man. 😊💟☮️

@ralphkramden2089 3 месяца назад

@@VolleyballAddict5213 days isn’t enough at all. You caved wayto soin

@nicoletaf.9290 3 месяца назад

Sonetimes pressuring him into an answer that we wish to hear is worse than stepping away ( which we think he might just forget)

@tikax2085 3 месяца назад

Great content! Thanks for sharing

@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing your appreciation! And your very welcome 🙏

@candro5510 3 месяца назад

Yes, a woman is in for the overall "growth" and when things are shaking (economically) due to various reasons she is reconsider. Is not about being truly supportive and adapting to the situation, truly doing the work, but finding the best warm place for her. While she is taking her time to fall in love, she forget to be a team player, an "engine" to the duo, complaining more rather than working on herself to be able to proper contribute to a relationship. Yes, absence is mandatory for a man to see what she is really and if he could count on her. This is how I found out that I had an laing unreliable partner (to say it kindly).

@taliag6488 Месяц назад

Literally hit all the points so well done

@fareenashofficial Месяц назад

Thank you so much 😊

@mee976 3 месяца назад

Thank you Fareen ❤

@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

Your welcome 🤍

@anita.5964 3 месяца назад

Thank you for this message 💗 It always helps us to learn how to be more empowered and not play games in love

@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

Thank YOU for sharing your love and appreciation! I appreciate it so much 😍😍

@badcheetah5927 3 месяца назад

Hi, what is your email address?

@stanleymcomber4844 3 месяца назад

We are different, be careful with stepping back/away. When that happened to me, I just moved on, not wanting to waist any more time.

@nederlander111 Месяц назад

thats a possibility yes if you have no kids together. lets say you got 3 baby's with her , then moving on is very very difficult.

@jessicahitchens6926 Месяц назад

You weren't that interested and she didn't let you waste her time. Men will waste a woman's time. You were never going to invest.

@BeautyQueen2023X Месяц назад

@@jessicahitchens6926 The woman wasn't that interested in him either otherwise she wouldn't have backed away from him so he lose nothing tbh stop putting all the blame on the man lol

@BeautyQueen2023X Месяц назад

@@jessicahitchens6926 Yeah well a woman can waste a Men's time as well lmao stop acting as if women are all perfect and as if they never do anything wrong in relationships and marriages

@cl7360 2 месяца назад

Excellent! Thank you

@Champ1988 3 месяца назад

Effort is genderless. If a person isn't showing up the way you need them to when you're present and showing them love; then THEY are the low-value person. It's going to do more damage to your self-esteem to try to "one up" a man and go against your nature to artificially trigger loss; than to find someone who appreciates your value. If you're legitimately clingy and needy; you need real inner work because it's only a matter of time before your true behaviors show again. So if she's speaking to women in this boat, you may consider professional help so you can heal. But IF... You're a reasonably emotionally healthy person and you feel you have to overcompensate for the other person's lack of effort, thus causing you to become needy and clingy; then this relationship is affecting your mental health and you need to let him go. If nothing less, if he does realize he lost something good, it will be a lesson that he'll learn from. Some people need to lose something for good to learn. We enable people when we keep giving them multiple opportunities. So if he's not reciprocating effort, he's just not that interested. And unfortunately, women tend to respond to men like this more than they do to men who are more attentive. The same woman chasing after one emotionally unavailable man might have 100 men blowing up her socials and phone. So it's also a chance to look inward and see where you might be passing up healthier options. Just a thought. But low effort means they either don't really like you. Or they don't have enough experience to realize the gem that they have. So don't grow a set of balls and start trying to one up him. True strength is realizing you're beautiful in your feminine; and you don't have to change for an immature eff boy. Let him learn the hard way because true masculine men don't need a "kick in the pants." They already have it together, and you'll be following their lead. You'll know when you encounter him because it will feel too good to be true. And it may TERRIFY you. But so long as his words and actions align and you have shared values, you're in good hands. God bless, ladies.

@imanijx 3 месяца назад

Yes to ALL of this!

@21urbana 3 месяца назад

I really enjoy how you state everything ☺️

@tomekamatthews2833 3 месяца назад

Great info!

@Jo_Cruz 3 месяца назад

Very, very helpful.

@toughlovetarot Месяц назад

I always say men respond to no contact, not paragraphs!

@fareenashofficial Месяц назад

Haha! I loveeeee this! And yup!

@gaiaangel9408 2 месяца назад

Oh, he knows what im about. Didnt say a word to him when he decided to play silly little games. I ignored him for almost two weeks, and i was more than happy doing my thing living my best life without any effort because i know my value. He came running back, realizing im not your regular jo, so now his acting accordingly, lol. Dont play games you cant win. Im more than happy to walk away!

@deniseunknown4576 26 дней назад

I needed this.

@shireen400 3 месяца назад

Great video!!! I feel so much better following your teachings and focusing on myself, not being clingy nor so available to men. ❤❤

@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

I see such an improvement in you and love it when you’re so empowered! Love our journey 🤍

@shireen400 3 месяца назад

@@fareenashofficial me too!

@MaxineShaw-de7bh 3 месяца назад

Agreed 💯

@user-mn6sq3is4t 3 месяца назад

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤@@fareenashofficial

@nothandontshalintshali4335 3 месяца назад

Beautifully explained

@mimosa27 3 месяца назад

Valuable content ❤

@seeratkk7231 Месяц назад

So so so profound ❤ Absolutely true

@dianaciriaco4820 2 месяца назад

The best video I’ve ever seen on this topic! 👏🏼

@fareenashofficial 2 месяца назад

Awww thank you!

@cashmere85 3 месяца назад

Always love your messages 🩷

@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

Aww thank you 😊

@aileenfiel2240 3 месяца назад

Thank you... I will try that way.. ❤

@vixenvalenzuela 3 месяца назад

Girl it makes all the difference I’ve experienced BOTH ends of the spectrum and intuitively I knew this was why. Years ago, I just knew that that was the reason for me pushing the other guy away, I wasn’t giving him time to miss me and it ended up being a crash and burn type of ending unfortunately

@ladywrld5863 2 месяца назад

That's why I withdrew. I'm not making any first move anymore.

@user-gg4en2vs2m 3 месяца назад

Amen. I believe absence is such a great tool to get them to wake up and realize that you are the one. Praying for my kingdom spouse at the moment in Jesus Name!

@g-man3093 3 месяца назад

Just discovered you. Every single point resonates with me in this moment!

@fareenashofficial 3 месяца назад

I love hearing that!

@LiveWellWithElle_ 3 месяца назад

Amen! We are out of the honeymoon phase now. Perfect message perfect timing as always!!! ❤

@somsri444 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much ❤

@duck9886 3 месяца назад

Love this video ❤

@sarahspringer4412 18 дней назад

Your videos have brought me across the finish line in my feminine journey. Thank you so much. You really gave me that complete understanding that I was missing

@fareenashofficial 18 дней назад

Best comment ever! I’m so happy that I’ve been able to help 🤍🤍