Why My Channel Sucks Lately 

Dude your channel doesn't suck. I'm going on my first solo Vegas trip tomorrow because, in part, to your videos. I'm pushing myself past what I would have ever thought of doing because of your attitude to life. You should know you have a positive impact in real people out in the real world. I hope you're doing well man, and I'm really sorry to hear about your Father. Your audience is here because of your authenticity and trying to give advice to other travellers. We will still be here for you no matter how long it takes for you to grieve the way you need to.

Grief and sorrow does change the attitude. I hate when people say GET OVER IT. No, work through it. There is nothing like a Dad and son bond. I love your channel. That’s all sir.

Video should have been titled A Tribute to my Father. He deserved every word you said. Father and son relationships are everything. My Dad was the greatest man I have ever known and now I work hard everyday to bring the same joy to my son that my Dad brought to me. Your videos are amazing in part because your Dad was amazing. You are him. He is proud of his son.

I’ve been a follower of the channel and a follower of you since the beginning. The fact that you are a real person and not some flashy fake personality is refreshing. Thank you for sharing a small glimpse into your life and I think we can all appreciate the understanding of your loss. Thank you for being you.

You're actually really good. Please don't be so hard on yourself. Your perspective, observations and recommendations are top notch. Sending an honest review from Vancouver BC Canada

First and foremost, you and your family have my deepest sympathy. As a true supporter, we’ll be here for you and the channel REGARDLESS!!! Stay strong and live life to the fullest.

James how amazing that you’re able to turn something so heartbreaking into a positive! That says a lot about your character, wishing you peace and happiness ❤

James, I’m not a typical RU-vid commenter, however I felt compelled to tell you how much my wife and I appreciate you and your videos. We’ve been watching for years and you’ve inspired us to pursue travel and ignited a greater passion for adventure. Thank you for your hard work, resiliency, kindness, and desire to inspire us all. Obviously nothing can replace your dad, but throughout the rest of your life you will be the beneficiary of moments and reminders that you carry his love with you everywhere you go. I pray that this will bring a measure of unmatched comfort whenever you need it most. Thank you for what you do, keep pursuing your dreams, and safe travels my friend

Sending you love, brother. You have provided joy to others...and I hope that you reclaim your light. The very best to your entire family.

Sorry for your loss Coolist. The bottom-line is that you reach your highest point when you are in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic. These are the most wanted/watched videos by far.

I lost my dad to cancer ten years ago, and I feel the pain and struggle to keep going. Appreciate your dedication to keep going despite the circumstances and wish you all the best for the future. Just remember to do what's right for you and your family and the rest will take care of itself. Your mental health is the most important thing, just look after yourself.

Man I tell you what, there’s a lot of less than desirable people making content on RU-vid. Obviously I don’t know you in person, but you really seem like one of the few really great and genuine people out here. I hope the best for you in whatever you decide is going to be best to put your effort into moving forward. Sorry for your loss brother.

So sorry for your loss James. Growing up, I used to dwell on my biggest fear of someday losing my parents. When those days came, they were worse than I ever imagined. All I can say is time will ease your pain if you let it. I really value your content and hope you find the inspiration to continue it.

James, thank you for sharing this deeply personal part of your life. Your wonderful Dad raised an equally wonderful son. Sending you all good vibes & love & best wishes for the future!

I loved the ending when you showed photos of your father. He's in heaven . Thank god you got the last bit of time with him.

So I'm only a minute into this video but if you don't think your content makes a difference, it really does. I've talked to multiple people on vacations in Mexico and Punta Cana and so many of them have referenced your videos when they were making vacation plans. So, your content is definitely reaching people and makes a difference in trip choices.

Beautiful Tribute James. Thank you!

appreciate you james!

I am so so sorry mate. We don't know each other obviously, but this hits home and I am so sorry for your loss. You're a fighter and always keep it real, don't feel ashamed about having to go through what will be one of the hardest times in your life.

My wife and I are big fans of your channel. I don't comment much on videos but I felt compelled to do so now. I'm so very sorry for your loss. I lost my dad 14 years ago so I understand what you are going through. I hope the pain goes away and you are left with the wonderful memories you have had with him.

I am so sorry about the passing of your dad. He sounds like a great man and an amazing father. I was lucky enough to have one of those. It's also cool he got to see you live out your passion. Take the time to grieve and I'll be here for your next adventure. Thanks for being vulnerable and the update.

You’ve inspired me to self care. To have that dinner alone and not to feel shame for it. You make me want to indulge and enjoy my life. I can’t stress enough, you’ve helped my personal mental view and perspective tremendously. So sorry to hear about your father. All the love in the world headed your way my friend.

This is exactly why you never judge someone so fast you just never know what they are going through. Remember you are human stay strong. My condolences.

I am so sorry for your loss. Everyone grieves differently and sometimes you just need to breathe. Your videos are the best! Your channel has helped me plan so many vacations.

My condolences, Coolist. I personally can say you helped me have the best vacation of my life at the Lopesan resort, which got me through an extremely difficult period in my life last year. It was exactly what I needed to power through and get my mind right. I owe that to your recommendation. I wish you all the best.

Most of your followers on vacation. On your awesome suggestions

Love your channel! Pop up in my EarPods and watch listen all day at work. I’m sorry for you loss, I just lost my mom .. it’s life changing.

My condolences Coolist. I know it’s been tough loosing your dad. You’re amazing and thank you for sharing this with us. I love your content and I’m glad you’re rejoining the platform.

Sorry for your loss. Hang in there. 2023 I lost my Dog then my Mom and 2 months later my Grandmother. My best advice is keep going. Your videos are important to people; not only for advice, but some can't make it to these destinations and get to experience through your channel. Peace.

James, me and my wife are sending you our deepest condolences. Filming this video was an incredibly brave thing to do! I admire your vulnerability and honesty putting this out there. Me and my wife LOVE your content, we stumbled across you a few years ago while looking to travel to the Dominican Republic. We've watched all of your travel videos and must have watched your Punta Cana content 10× at least. Following your advice, we booked our trip to Royalton Bavaro and loved it! I'll add that we had our honeymoon in the Riu Palace Montego Bay Jamacia and was so excited to see you visit. We were over the moon to see you enjoy it. Sending you some love, brother. 👊🏻💚

James, thank you for this heart to heart peek at your personal life and the realness that that has been with your dear father and best friend's passing. How devastating it must have been and still be to you and your mom. To have that deep, complex, and rewarding relationship with your father must be so special. Congrats on that forever bond. And thank you for always sharing in specific, colorful ways that make you and your energy and opinions so clear, useful, and entertaining. Your dad and mom must be so proud of you, your character, and your dedication. God bless you all.

So sorry for your loss 🙏 Your channel is one of the best I love how realistic and authentic you always are and I look forward to all your future content.

Mama Coolist, you have an amazing son that produces incredible, honest travel videos that sometimes create friendships even he's over at another sunny beach. Our household went to Lopesan Costa Bavaro three weeks ago, and I met a gentleman from the UK while watching the sunrise over the party boats just offshore. About five minutes into the conversation, we both found out the reason why we were there was because of some RU-vidr that goes by Coolist highly recommended it. James, your content is amazing and it was so cool to talk about it with a stranger that soon became a friend. We're going to try to cross paths again next year from opposite sides of the globe. Regarding your father, my dad beat Stage 3 Esophageal cancer, and I get to cherish my bonus time with him. I'm happy to see that you had the opportunity to do the same. I am anxiously awaiting your journey back to happiness...keep up the good work!

So much respect for you for opening up. I lost my Mother to Cancer 5 years ago last Wednesday, I know she is with me all of the time as your Father will be. Followed you avidly for 2 and a half years now. Looking forward to many more. Respect James 😊❤

Hey Man, my heart goes out to you and your family. You are great at what you do and I lost my dad, who was 93, three months ago and I binged a lot of RU-vid in those two weeks after and namely your videos of your traveling and reviewing all over the place. It took my mind to a better place during a dark time so what you do makes a difference to lots of other people in ways you might not even think of so keep moving forward and know your videos sometimes mean more than just reviewing a cool pool scene. Your communication skills and mojo are exemplary. Keep up the good work and stay strong. You are admired by many.

The algorithm has not failed me. You do pop up in my feed. 18 months? I found you within that time. I came for the travel advise, but you stayed for the human connection that we all sorely lack. Don't be so quick to discount that. I'm sending you the biggest digital hug, handshake, whatever... Find some stillness. Reflect. Appreciate. Thank you for what you do. You've made a difference in my life and others. No matter how big or small.

I am really sorry for your loss. My dad was similar and I lost him 20 years ago. It hurts like nothing else. Keep making your excellent content, we are all here for you. ❤

God bless you James. Family first, always. Love your videos & have used many of your recommendations on my own trips. I think your content is awesome!

Really sorry to hear about you dad 💐 just want you to know I’ve always appreciated your videos and the thought and meaning you put into talking about the places you’ve been to. Your channel helped me plan and have a great time on my first Caribbean trip with friends; even since then I always look forward to watching your content.

Thanks for sharing your heart and being vulnerable with us James. Always appreciate your videos. Deepest condolences on your loss.

My condolences. My mom passed away over 30 years ago and I still do not talk about her to others. It takes a lot to talk about this on camera for everyone to see. Wish you the best in your journey.

What you focus on grows. Rightfully so, for the past 18 months, your emotional connection and relationship with your dad grew the most. Now that your focus is back on Coolist, because during good times you were consistent and invested so much, it will experience tremendous growth in the coming year. Thank you for providing entertainment, joy, travel data, and a community for us to connect with. May your dad RIP, and I'm sending good vibes your way.

I am so sorry for your loss. You are an amazing person and I am a huge fan of your videos. I’m wishing the best for you and I am keeping you and your family lifted in prayer.

Brother, thank you for being honest, real & vulnerable. I’m like you, I had the best mom & dad anyone could ask for. Seeing my dad suffer through dementia right now is heartbreaking.

Sorry for your loss James, sending love and light from Ireland 🫶 your videos have shaped so much of my luxury travel, so thank you 🙏

Never commented before but love your channel so I subbed a few months ago. Losing someone so close is void you’ll never fill. The beautiful thing is he planted so many seeds and taught you so many lessons you can embrace. Your dad sounds like an amazing human. What an incredible legacy .. it’s your time to represent ❤️🙏🏾

James, I am so sorry for the loss of you dad. I can relate in some ways, but it is not easy. Your video do not suck and you did your best under what your were going through and any of us that care and support you we all would understand. Congrats on chasing your dreams and your videos have helped us decided on a resort. I love your energy and honesty and care that you put into you hard work in every video. Looking forward to what is coming next. Your the best, stay strong!

My condolences James. 💜 My father-in-law is in comfort care right now and I know how this affects your whole life. Take time for you and do what feels good for your soul.

Take things one day at a time James. It never goes away, but it does get better with time. You had a great father it sounds like, and one day you will pass on the lessons he passed on to you. That is the beauty of having that kind of dad. His light and wisdom lives on in you. Peace to you as you walk this journey man. Been there and I feel your pain.

Deepest condolences for your loss, James. My father was in the hospital for one year straight, pulled through after countless complications, and lived another seven years before the complications caught up with him. Like you, he was an amazing dad and left this life way too soon. He is always in my heart and prayers and his influence on me lives on in my day to day choices in life. It has been many years since his passing. There will always be an empty space but, surprisingly, he remains as much a part of my life now than when he was alive. In time, you will see just how great he was because of how great an influence he had on you. That means he is always there when you need him. Always. Go do you!

Thanks so much for being brave to do this video. I was telling my good friend the other day that something seemed off about you. We all struggle with something and it's hard to be vulnerable and share our stories. You were very fortunate to have had a close bond with your dad. Thanks again for your amazing RU-vid content.

Sending you lots of love James. Sorry to know you arn't feeling the best on the inside. Also sorry for your loss. Thank you for everything you do! I understand burnout too well... I hope you find personal some peace. 💞 You deserve it! We appreciate you!!!

So sorry for your loss. I lost my best friend my mom September 2022 and went on vacation July 2023 with my friends for my first birthday without her on this earth. And although I enjoyed my friends. There was a part of me, still a part of me today that will forever be sad. I try to live in the moment. Let myself cry when it comes, but I continue to make good memories bc I know that's what she would have wanted. Prayers to you. Grief is a life long journey 🙏🏾

To have someone make that kind of impact on a person says a lot. What you said is exactly how I view my dad. Thank you for sharing with us. Sorry for your loss. You're channel has been our go to because of the quality of what you present. We love the rapid fire no nonsense accurate descriptions.

James, I’m so sorry for your loss. Grief is a hard thing to overcome but know that it won’t last forever. Your father sounded like such an amazing person and I’m sure he would be so proud of what you will continue to accomplish. I also want to add that I don’t go anywhere on vacation without checking your channel first! You have been such a help for the past few years for me when it comes to planning vacations and I’m sure you’ve also helped so many others around the world! Always rooting for you and I can’t wait to see your future content! 🤍

I'm sorry for your loss. A beautiful inspiring message. Keep going, brother 💪 you are an amazing content creator and more amazing human. God bless you!

Condolences to you Coolist, beautifully said and we are here for you. Looking forward to you getting a second wind and the great informative videos. You are the BEST, great energy and giving us the most information, especially for us that don't travel a lot.

I’m so sorry about your Dad. I lost my mom unexpectedly 2 years ago so I’m happy you had a chance to spend so much time with your Dad before he passed. I found your channel not too ong ago and love the videos!

James, I’m sorry for your loss. Keep being you sir. I had a similar experience with my mom since I came from a single family household. I gave up a 7 figure business to spend the last 18 months of her life with her. Also like you travel intrigues me to the point I want to consider it. I was paralyzed emotionally and somewhat mentally. Depression set in to the point I became a recluse. I eventually came out of the “hole” when I found out my wife was pregnant with twins (who I named after my mom) about 10 months after my mom died. I knew then life had to go on and it was a blessing. I would love to talk to you personally because we have much in common. The road ahead is wide open. Go be great.

Sorry to hear what u are going through.Stay positive and u have a great channel.

Thank you for efforts during such hard times. You have been a key reason in my grown family becoming closer. I use your content to guide my travel decisions. We went from never traveling to traveling together several times a year. You're appreciated, stay honest, we will be here for you. God Bless

James, I would like to send my prayers to you and your family regarding the loss of your father. Remain strong and continue with your journey. I will keep supporting you and your channel. I am looking forward to seeing your upcoming content. I always enjoy your content. Be you and keep doing your thing James - that is why I started watching your channel, and will continue to watch. Thanks🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪

I lost my mom in 2019 and I have never been the same. A part of me is gone when I loss my Mom. Grief is different for everyone and grief as no time. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad and my prayers to you and your family. You need to do what is best for you and take your time with it. I hope you still continue with the channel. I will be waiting for whenever you come back but right now you have to take care of yourself. Just remember grief as no time. Take care of yourself.

Take a break bro, everybody needs it even if you are every time in paradise but hey no for to long, your videos are so amazing and your life is amazing. I will do anything for have it.

I’m so sorry about your dad. I have to tell you that even what you’d consider your “lousy” content, is good to me! Yours is the only travel blog i pay attention to. ❤ 4:30

Very sorry, James, to hear of your loss. Your love of your father comes through loud and clear. It was nice for us to hear of your relationship stories with him. Just seeing the pictures of him at the end of this video, it seems clear where your moral principles emanate from. Thank you for sharing, may God bless you and your family... and may he have already welcomed your dad home with open arms.

So sorry for you loss! You never get over the sadness of losing a great parent but have so many great memories to hold onto.

Oh man you just made me cry so hard and then the pictures at the end...so sad and yet so happy because you can see the joy in your face when you are around them. So tough cuz it makes me think of losing my own parents and how hard it will be. This is my 1st time commenting on your stuff although I have been watching you for a long time and have watched your videos numerous times. You travel and have the same interests as my husband and I, so I know I'm getting honest like-minded content when I watch your videos. We are set to go to Royalton Chic Cancun in December and so excited that I have watched that video, Royalton Punta Cana, and the comparison videos so much lately its crazy! Thank you for your content and for keeping going...it sounds like this has been a rough year and half for you and yet you still put on your game face and get done what you need to. Thank you for being you and hope you find inner peace! Sending good vibes your way!

your vids helped me book my first all inclusive, still my go-to channel for travelling.

As a new subscriber, I appreciate your openness regarding the matter. Losing a parent is one of the most difficult situations to encounter. My advice is to take things a day at a time and know your true subscribers will be with you along this journey. My prayers are with you.

So truly sorry for your loss. My husband and I enjoy your videos very much. Thank you for providing us with all your travel content. We appreciate you. Sending you healing prayers. How wonderful you had an amazing Dad!!

We watch every video, keep it going James.

Allow yourself to grieve and process. I was in a very dark place after my mom's passing. Everyone handles grief differently. I am so very sorry for your loss.

You were integral when I planned my upcoming trip to Punta Cana. I'll be at Breathless in 2 weeks because of you! I didn't get a notification for this video, I saw it when I came to your page to look at your Vegas videos. You're helping me plan my first trip there, too. I'm sorry about your loss. Your channel doesn't suck. You do help people and make a difference.

Sorry for your loss. I lost my mom almost 4 years ago and it truly sucks. Although you and I travel very differently I've found your content to be incredibly helpful in making travel decisions. Thanks for all your videos.

NOPE!! Your channel will NEVER suck! Now let me finish watching the rest of this non-sucking video🤩😂

James, it was really refreshing seeing a more personal side. Much love as you go through the process of grieving. So much of what you said rang true for me in the loss of my father. My description would have paralleled yours. It is a gift to him for you to find your joy again.

I'm so sorry for the loss of your father. Prayers for you and your family! My husband and I found your channel back in September when trying to decide where we wanted to go for our 20th wedding anniversary this past February. We decided on Punta Cana. And it did NOT disappoint! We loved our trip, and we really enjoyed your channel. We rarely get to travel, so we appreciate all your great feedback and advice on traveling. Keep up the great content and videos as you're ready to dive back in.

Sincere condolences. I really appreciate your honesty and genuineness.

I always book my vacations based on your videos brother. We appreciate you brother . 🙏🏽

I actually started watching your channel recently and I found it absolutely amazing! Your reviews are so on point and they helped me choose such a resort in Mexico I would have overlooked.I respect and appreciate your honesty and your vulnerability, thank you for sharing about your personal life.I will continue watching 🙏🧡

This is such a moving video James! You can hear how much you love your father in your voice. We support you, take all the time you need and move at your pace! You’re so inspiring!

So very sorry for your loss. We appreciate all you do. What a wonderful tribute.

One of the most authentic, genuine and raw videos I've ever watched on RU-vid in my 35 years.. Appreciate all you do. You helped me have the time of my life going cross-country to Vegas for the first time last year and now headed back again in September. Sorry for your loss & just want to say thank you for all you do. You inspire us all to have more fun, live life to the fullest and to just be a good human being. I'm sure your family is super proud, and you should be proud of yourself too brother. And for you to go out of your way to compliment a service worker telling him his personality was electric & he could do anything --- got me a little emotional. I run a restaurant & it never ceases to amaze me at times the lack of respect many patrons have for hospitality workers . Your character is also "electric" & your Dad I'm sure is super proud. Appreciate everything you do ❤ Thank you.

Sorry for your loss James, I get it completely. Losing a parent or loved one will always change your life. I have been through this as well and time will heal all.

Been following you since the vegas days. I love your channel bro. I lost my dad a year ago he was the strongest man I ever knew. Keep pushing man it is what your dad would have wanted. Much love from Detroit

So sorry for your loss. Time well heal. Cherish the memories. Take care.

Thanks for sharing it means a lot especially as a 60yr old who lost his dad at 18. It takes time to grieve and that pain of losing a loved one turns into something special. We love your videos. We’ve used your videos and have travelled to Cancun. Cabo, and recently to Holbox (where time seemed to just slow down). We look forward to your new adventures and that trust me when the smile returns it will be bigger and brighter!

Yes, noticed. We are so sorry for your loss. Thank you for letting us in and knowing why you haven't been you. Thanks for sharing. May you be blessed with peace and happiness in your life.

My condolences Coolist , I lost my father to terminal brain cancer. Standing in front of him and he not knowing who I was , was the worst feeling in the world! I know what you’re going through and take your time coming back, you have loyal fans! We’re like family ❤

Sending you the deepest condolences. I found your videos a few months ago, and I'm a big fan. Mourning takes all the time it needs to take. I lost my dad 4 years ago, and still have days where it punches me in the gut. You take care of you, and we'll see you when we see you

So glad you got to spend a bunch of time with him in his last few months. I’m hoping you find happiness in reading these comments and how much your fans love you and your videos, no matter how much time passes!

Sorry for your lost James! I went through this situation myself with my mother. It's hard for me to see you going through this, especially when you've been my inspiration to start my dream project. I'll keep you in my prayers. We all love you very much! God bless you!

Awe James, I'm so so very sorry for your loss. I haven't been on RU-vid in a bit and this is the first video that crossed my path. Big hugs ❤ I lost my Father 4 years ago, it's devastating, nothing like anything we've ever experienced. It doesn't get any easier, we just learn to adjust and cherish the memories ❤

Sorry to hear about your loss. My wife and I love your videos! Keep them coming! Awesome channel.

First I’m so sorry for your loss. As a travel content creator for 7 years, travelling solo that was hard enough, I can’t imagine going through this during my travels, but I always feared it too. Appreciate you so much, don’t be hard on yourself your videos are brilliant and informative and I always check them before booking in the Caribbean to see if you’ve stayed there.

Sorry for your loss. And thank you for every moment and video you've gifted to us, your fans. Your content sure does bring me smiles and guides my vacation planning.

Your videos ALWAYS hit with me. Thanks for the candor - you're one of the best, J!

Condolences Brother. The wife and I Love your channel. We travel on your recommendations. I lost my parents 9 months apart in 2020-2021. I understand your grief. Hope you find peace 🙏🏾

James, this is emotional on so many levels. I wish the best. You are so talented, love your content!