Why Narcissists Rage At You And What It Really Says About Who You Are. 

Yes, that is the only solution.

Unfortunately, that’s what I had to do to my family. Now I don’t have one but at least I’m happier.

You know me too 😢as a powerful empath I had an awful narc family all they would do was injure me 🙁

@@Powergirl838 same Cheryl. And it's funny cuz I adopted a G-D Mother and her name is Cheryl too hehe. We are Soul Family...and I'm your sister too. Love you and know you deserve only pure real non-abusive unconditional love. We all do. Stay Strong Cheryl..your angels and G-D and your soul family...we are with You💓😘🤗🙏🏼😇💪🏽✨💃✨💓💞🌈✨

FACT Jennifer

Absolutely true. Very strange people who hate to see people happy

That’s what happen to me

Yeah I call them the happiness police... more like happiness gestopo

Oh my gosh! YES!

I said this to myself & then to some mutual fam thinking it was hyperbole, but hyperbole that sums up an issue, y’know ? It was a new-to me-observation but, I found my guitar broken the next day. My pwNPD had been absurdly set off by me peacefully figuring out songs on that guitar. She’d kept interrupting me every 4 minutes. I hadn’t lost my cool or even said anything: I was just enjoying my guitar. “Golly, it’s almost as if me having peace & calm offends her,” I though to myself. Next day, I come home to a broken guitar.

then keep crying

So sorry sweetie what you have endured at your age I pray that God open doors for you and that you be far from this person and that you have all of God's

I hope you're safe now. 🙏 ❤

HotSeat17 when your sister gets violent go to your room, close your bedroom door and call the police and don't tell your sister what you are doing because your sister will try to kill you if she finds out that you called the police to arrest and charge your sister for what your sister has done unto you so be also aware that Luke 21 says: 21 And he looked up, and saw the rich men casting their gifts into the treasury. 2 And he saw also a certain poor widow casting in thither two mites. 3 And he said, Of a truth I say unto you, that this poor widow hath cast in more than they all: 4 For all these have of their abundance cast in unto the offerings of God: but she of her penury hath cast in all the living that she had. 5 And as some spake of the temple, how it was adorned with goodly stones and gifts, he said, 6 As for these things which ye behold, the days will come, in the which there shall not be left one stone upon another, that shall not be thrown down. 7 And they asked him, saying, Master, but when shall these things be? and what sign will there be when these things shall come to pass? 8 And he said, Take heed that ye be not deceived: for many shall come in my name, saying, I am Christ; and the time draweth near: go ye not therefore after them. 9 But when ye shall hear of wars and commotions, be not terrified: for these things must first come to pass; but the end is not by and by. 10 Then said he unto them, Nation shall rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom: 11 And great earthquakes shall be in divers places, and famines, and pestilences; and fearful sights and great signs shall there be from heaven. 12 But before all these, they shall lay their hands on you, and persecute you, delivering you up to the synagogues, and into prisons, being brought before kings and rulers for my name's sake. 13 And it shall turn to you for a testimony. 14 Settle it therefore in your hearts, not to meditate before what ye shall answer: 15 For I will give you a mouth and wisdom, which all your adversaries shall not be able to gainsay nor resist. 16 And ye shall be betrayed both by parents, and brethren, and kinsfolks, and friends; and some of you shall they cause to be put to death. 17 And ye shall be hated of all men for my name's sake. 18 But there shall not an hair of your head perish. 19 In your patience possess ye your souls. 20 And when ye shall see Jerusalem compassed with armies, then know that the desolation thereof is nigh. 21 Then let them which are in Judaea flee to the mountains; and let them which are in the midst of it depart out; and let not them that are in the countries enter thereinto. 22 For these be the days of vengeance, that all things which are written may be fulfilled. 23 But woe unto them that are with child, and to them that give suck, in those days! for there shall be great distress in the land, and wrath upon this people. 24 And they shall fall by the edge of the sword, and shall be led away captive into all nations: and Jerusalem shall be trodden down of the Gentiles, until the times of the Gentiles be fulfilled. 25 And there shall be signs in the sun, and in the moon, and in the stars; and upon the earth distress of nations, with perplexity; the sea and the waves roaring; 26 Men's hearts failing them for fear, and for looking after those things which are coming on the earth: for the powers of heaven shall be shaken. 27 And then shall they see the Son of man coming in a cloud with power and great glory. 28 And when these things begin to come to pass, then look up, and lift up your heads; for your redemption draweth nigh. 29 And he spake to them a parable; Behold the fig tree, and all the trees; 30 When they now shoot forth, ye see and know of your own selves that summer is now nigh at hand. 31 So likewise ye, when ye see these things come to pass, know ye that the kingdom of God is nigh at hand. 32 Verily I say unto you, This generation shall not pass away, till all be fulfilled. 33 Heaven and earth shall pass away: but my words shall not pass away. 34 And take heed to yourselves, lest at any time your hearts be overcharged with surfeiting, and drunkenness, and cares of this life, and so that day come upon you unawares. 35 For as a snare shall it come on all them that dwell on the face of the whole earth. 36 Watch ye therefore, and pray always, that ye may be accounted worthy to escape all these things that shall come to pass, and to stand before the Son of man. 37 And in the day time he was teaching in the temple; and at night he went out, and abode in the mount that is called the mount of Olives. 38 And all the people came early in the morning to him in the temple, for to hear him. Luke 21 HotSeat17 your older sister shows that she is just like Judas Iscariot who betrayed Christ Jesus the only begotten Son of God for 30 pieces of silver. HotSeat17 be aware that Narcissist hate it when you expose them, their hypocrisy and lies. Fear not HotSeat17 because the living God, the Lord God of Israel shall rise up to your defense and deliver you from your older sister that persecutes you.

You ok❤?

I'm praying that things are better for you today. Blessings to you. 🙏

Affirmative! I've been through that many times.

@@JBSDIVERSIFIED ok

Very scary!!!

Yup all truth. It's still horrible 😟

@@JBSDIVERSIFIED oh do they ever...like a toddler on steroids!

They feel worthless because they are, in fact, worthless.

@Savagegent777 gold lol 👍😂💞

they have NO JOY..PERIOD

I totally get it now…. 😳😳😳 Wow wow wow

​@@NopeNotTodaySatanIt's very scary believe me😢

yes totally

@11oyd77what are you talking about?

The only time my X Narc didn’t rage was when he was stoned on weed, which was the majority of the time.

Oh yeah it was insane, scared the shit out of me. It was over nothing, a stupid game of pool.

Yeah very scary because then you really find out they are demonic

@@suzannemitchell560 YES! I thought I married a mild mannered stoner but what I got looks like a narc whenever not high. It’s like he was self medicating whatever this sickness is...how stupid and naive of me.

@@romainecalm1108 So true right ?!?! Once during a very heated conversation, he RAN for his pipe bong to take a hit to calm himself down, it was rather comical. Blessings!!

Absolutely! Even the Bible says " light expels darkness."

Facts

The limit is the Hovering Helicopter mom who is stunned her KIDS are__ ordinary. Very..

AMEN AMEN AMEN Brother!!

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Your comment hits home with me. I went through the same ( 15 years with a live in partner. Plus from the past, my fathers narcissism growing up)- 2 years free and getting my self back more and more each day. Recovery is possible! Stay the course 👍👍

It can kill you ...run

I hope by this time you are doing well.❤ and don’t forget that gut instinct when starting a new relationship. I got right back into a narcissist web he’s not physical with me but has done some damage to my self esteem etc he can be verbally abusive. I’ve learned a few coping mechanisms to be ok I’m just kinda stuck I’m 63 and just retired so I can’t afford to be in my own. Sounds selfish I know but I’m dealing with it in order not to have any further damage

@@Cthomas5678 I’m in the exact same situation. My husband is narcissistic and refuses to see how much he hurts me with his ridiculous need for validation all the time. He has about a 6 week cycle. Things are fine and I start to get comfortable and he gets in one of his “moods” or am not 100 percent in agreement about everything he thinks and he begins to escalate it into an argument and says triggering words that he knows will cause me to become angry. It’s like a game for him. It’s a game I wish I never had to play again. I hope you are able to find some peace in your home and I also hope the same for me. Being retired and feeling helpless is not something I thought I would be doing at 62 but here I am.

@@StarsHollow214 yes!!! About the cycle I’ve noticed that too. I kept waiting to see his action and behavior for Christmas but he didn’t explode 😳 I was kinda shocked. I did notice something though I decided since there were so many people to buy Christmas for this year I suggested we make each of our families a Saran wrap ball and he said he’d do one while I did the other that shocked me😳 but anyway we were at the table with a huge pile of little gifts and candies well he’d never made one so he was being really careful and was trying to be perfect it and little candies were falling on the floor etc and he was getting so upset and mad cussing every time they would start to fall etc I remained calm but every word was gd and I hate that word but I was watching him and I said honey it’s not a competition and he said really hateful what? And so I said it doesn’t have to be perfect and don’t even think about it just grab some stuff and place it and wrap. I know his dad was mean to him and I believe he caused some damage like he wasn’t good enough. I mean he was trying so hard to make that ball perfect!!! It was kinda sad. But I’m dealing with it and don’t let him make me crazy!! I hope you’re doing well

JustBeReal, my thoughts exactly!

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Love that phrase

Exactly how a person has to be. Don't care what they think. Who are they? "If GOD be on our side, who DARE be against us?"

Well said!

Yes, because they feed off you like a leech.

You are SO correct!! I have totally experienced this with mine. I’m so independent , not the narc!

A parasite they truly are...no doubt

Ive used the words parasite & leech prior to realizing that he was a narcissist until further educated myself with these videos. Now I see confirmation & Thank you for putting it in writing. It helps.

This so true A life and soul sucking

Trips bring out the worst in them. They don't feel like they are in control of the family and they are jealous that other family members are excited.

Ur joy makes them annoyed 2 bad so sad😂

My [STEP -GRANDCHILD] preferred me over her real Grandmother ...she told me in a drunken moment..."You're Nothing!" ....I raised the baby since the young parents were drug addicted...a year and a half....broke my heart....the woman left me and our two kids rt before this Christmas.....unreal ...and nightmarish.

​@@laurabfromvt6197100% correct.

Reading that hensaid that to you literally brought a small tear to my eye. 😢

I warned my client you rage on me one more time and I'm leaving. So I walked off the assignment but why do I feel guilty I hate that 😞

you NEVER love suffering This is stockholm syndrome(it is a form of suffering and manipulation)

Amen, I feel the same. Darkness is always afraid of light.

C’mon now 🙏🏾 Amen. #keep it moving UP ⬆️

Amen to that

Amen God is great 🙏❤️

Amen. No weapon formed against us shall prosper! Isaiah 54:17

It's really weird when you don't even know what they want..😂

Drug addicts do this too as they have narracistic tendencies. Tons of that too in this sad world.

@@Portia620 alcoholics too. I think they can be the worst 🤷

I wished my husband would give me silent treatment. That would've brought me peace.

@@Portia620 my perspective: a narcissist is a CONTROL ADDICT. They have none of their own and want yours, because they are JEALOUS of you. A 5yr old that didn't learn pulling the pig tails on the girl they like wasn't the way. They all need turns as submissives at the hands of a real Dominant that can teach self control.

Stop now

Amen!!!! I’ve experienced this first hand!!

Yes, they get mad but they are not content to poke at us they need to bring others on board. If they cannot control you they will engage others to help them control you. When we are not controlled by anyone they cannot stand this.

I wasn't allowed to have any emotions and feelings, if I'd cry id get called a baby,if I got mad he would say "do i need to get mad" and the last thing I ever wanted was him mad

@@Wh0sR4yy Yes, I experienced the same exact things, they would say when I would cry, "you are a big baby", after I was grown they would say; "you are too sensitive." I would say if you know that I am sensitive about rude remarks then why don't you stop? OF course they would go silent and never apologize. Its as though they actually believed and still do that they did nothing wrong in being rude.

@Pedro Ivan Sanchez It's called the generation gap,fool💥

I’m glad you got away!

I’m proud of you for what you’ve become despite all of their abuse! I pray God will bless you with the desires of your heart!

Weirdly they probably take credit for how successful you’ve become

@larissacats390…..Now that you are away from these toxic people…..are you noticing any improvements in your autoimmune condition? These abusive types can be the actual cause of people getting serious illnesses, including cancer…..the stress that they put on our bodies and minds is real. But many have reported spontaneous healing after leaving toxic relationships.

Wow😮I am sorry you had to live that.

This is so true. Narcissists refute equality in relationships so when anyone pushes back on that, the narc will explode in an attempt to maintain the status quo ie keep you in the inferior position.

​@@anonnymous4684 Yes. They have very low self-esteem. They need to control others no matter what. They refuse to discuss their points because they have no arguments and often are just wrong. That's why they make such noise so that the truth remains hidden.

And they might even accuse YOU for being a narcissist.

@@SatanenPerkele yes, I experience this from my wife on a daily basis 😢

@@stebarg Yep, they simply tell on themselves by accusing you for the very thing they are/do towards you. It's very twisted. But once you know how it works, their lies won't affect you/have any power over you. Stay strong!

I left once I got to the point of suicidal thoughts! I knew I didn’t deserve anything he did to me! I ran away and never looked back!

You did yourself a favour girl...go live your life to the fullest,turn to the Lord...He'll give you the answers to your questions...l'm still with mine..mainly cause of the kids,otherwise l'd left him ages ago...he's much older now,pot belly,the hate written all over his face...before l didn't even know what the word 'narcissist' meant...when l started reading about it,l thought to myself..."oh my goodness,that's him..they're writing about him..!my hubs is a narc...!!..and that l'm not alone...l thought l was going crazy at one time...but things changed when l started to change towards him..he sees l don't give a shit...tough luck...l just feel like a rock towards him... he got what he asked for...!

@@Jackgritty28 both helped. Staying in that cruel, hateful man's own world of denomic Hell would had made me a fool. I stayed for 30 years believing he would change, until it was clear he didn't think his character or behavior needed to change. No amount of love, trying to give my all, forgiving, turning the other cheek, not engaging, ignoring, was going to change him. Only God can do this.

God has so much better for you NO man is worth it!!

Congratulation for taking that first big step! Don't hurt yourself over a narc.

This life stance enrages them more than anything.

They have no life force and steal it from you... energy vampires!😒😄

Yes! I've always felt this competition.... everything is a competition... and jealousy... and it never stops...

@@d3402 they are immature ppl shows you how there mentality is always in competition

@@d3402 yep.. they HATE the truth!,👽:-\^_^O:-)

Mine began angry bc I was laughing in my SLEEP!! 🤷‍♀️

YEs, mine was asking me one time why I am always happy and smiling. There is nothing to smile about. I think I wasn't even smiling, but it made me so insecure that I tried to look more serious. Isn't that stupid? I can't believe how much control he had.

@@zg6045 - YESS!!!! So stupid, juvenile & disgusting behavior. I’m so sorry you had to experience that nonsense. They’re nut jobs. It’s absolutely mind boggling how delusional & sick these individuals are. Seriously, what a pathetic existence they have. As you can tell I AM SO SICK OF THESE DEMONS!!!

@@zg6045yeah like what’s it to them fkn weirdos

Amazing! My father, my mother, my sibling, each at various points of lives could not stand me being connected with the family or friends in any fun or positive way. They despised that so much and I was not aware of that right away. I sensed their strange behavior, but was not suspecting any foul play. Why would I? They were also part of that fun group or situation. But, then they did the cruelest thing - they cut me out of the group, demonized me and gave me silent treatment. They won because they were persistant in their evil deed. I still cannot understand how hurting someone can make anyone happy? How isolating someone could make anyone sleep soundly? But it does.

So true !!

True👍👍👍♥️♥️

Yup!

True 💯

There's a good term I heard for that about them call the "weaponized withholding." If you're around long enough like I was, you'll become infected with creeping self-doubt you never had (NOR EVER SHOULD HAVE HAD) and almost be a fraction of yourself at the worst times. But I'm on the No Contact Autobahn and never looking back. Life gets a lot better once you get these clowns out. (Yet ironically you can get tricked into becoming dependent on these people unknowingly.. they're master manipulators.. because they give you just enough of the good stuff before another problem arises until they stop even giving you that that often or in any near dose that you used to get during the idealization days.. this problem hit me outside of romance and I think about a friendship I finally had to just let go of)

I personally believe narcissists are possessed by demons.

The mocking is the defining characteristic of- well, perhaps the rage if you don’t do what they want or call them out -in public- haha!!!

I learned not to cry in front of him. Because l think he enjoyed it.

My ex couldn’t say enough hurtful things to me. He got his mistress pregnant and now she’s stuck with him.😅

Thank her because she's done you a huge favor. She doesn't know it yet , but she's his next victim and one day soon she'll regret the day she met him .

Refuse inferior quality validation,oppress the narccisst,fool💥

@@Jackgritty28 Don't even jokingly call them a "fool" or else you're the real fool!

Yes they want you to come crawling to the crew or the tribe and begging for a chance to get in but after seeing how these people treat me and seeing how they probably treat each other why would I want in on that

Awesome!!!

You had the warden walk away from imprisoning you...great things shall come from this for it is Written..."Resist the devil and he shall FLEE from you!".... Nice goin'!🏋

Yeah, thank God. God speaks to us also trough the internet, RU-vid. He is awesome!!!

Same

Amen only heard now narrissists talking about me again and all I'm trying to do is live my life,but as sure as God il live my owe live without been controlled by anyone 🙏

Me too! But now at 72 and in a marriage with my second narcissistic husband for 36 yrs now is difficult to just leave. Our daughter and her family live on the same street as us. My son is close by also. My husband was just raging and ranting today. He looked so awful. I just stared at him. It has definitely taken a toll on me all of it but I am actually taking better care of myself physically and still do things with lady friends etc. But have not been going to our church since the COVID and decided I cannot sit there while my husband has been a crazy person all week and then Mr Holly Jolly In church that day. And Jesus I know understands. My husband is a charmer in our church or in public of course. I don’t know if our Pastor sees thru him or not. Probably not. I’m sure that my husband has probably said things about me to our pastor to cover himself. He is not nor ever been married. I guess I am really waiting for Jesus just to call me home maybe.

@@deborahcollins1100 so sorry Deborah. Find a way out. It's never too late. Mine was an usher at church, all the while cheating on me and addicted to porn. I'm free now, so happy I cry.

Yes ...you can by the Grace of God alone...Victory belongs to God above alone....call out to him he is waiting for you

I did 30 years of bondage and I mean from the beginning but it was too young to understand but God brought me out of it not unscathed mind you but I know what they look like a mile away 🙏🏾

Do a 3 day water fast and pray about it. This will help you leave and break the trauma bond. TRUST! God will deliver you ♥️

You just quoted MY narc. He actually denies screaming while he's foaming at the mouth screaming, and then accuse ME of screaming (my voice is not raised).

Bruh

Makes me laugh (now) when my father spews out a blood curdling "I'm NOT ANGRY"! Pathetic baby man.

Yep. I heard the same.

Lol I like that.😊

They’re a very sad group and they get zero sympathy from me

@@chachiolivares5664 I agree! We can never let our guard down because of sympathy. They will use us up and move on to the next target and screw over someone else’s life.

My daughter has this, but also abandonment issues. Part of why she only had bad memories. Very sad to watch her pain. Always a bully, but she is still in there. I know her better now, that her symptoms are text book. Not my fault. Is there therapy or meds for this? I only hear from the abused, like myself. Just wanna love her, but she always hated just me. Then the anger spread when her lovely meth addict mother in law got her hooked. Taught her how to take it dry to earn money. But she's lies about ...well everything. Gotta save her children before they remember too much. I called the police when my 4 year old grandson yelled at me that his Mom could hit him if she wants. Not a freakin'' chance. Love to all survivors and our abusers. Take care everyone.

I have compassion towards others. But at times it's difficult. Especially with receiving punishment as a kiddo. Now grown with TBI so life b more challenging 4 sure.

They called themselves "a family " and also they used to say they were a "a nice group" . I refused to sabotage the company with them, they staked me even the union was with them. I had to leave the country to be FREE from those stalkers. They look like adults, behave like children with tantrums and their faces with rage is like to see the demons. It is hard to go through this experience but there is lights at the end of the road. God bless you all.

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Exactly. It's all about us regaining our "power". Which is just being ourselves really. make them feel small!

So true - for years I used to go on walks either my narcissistic friend, and I found that I had to keep quiet about anything good in my life if I wanted to keep her in a good mood

House Devil.Street Angel.

Lots of people stay because of their vows. I took them seriously, but somehow it never quite occurred to me that he didn't. Six months ago I realized he knew exactly what he was doing, while he was doing it. It wasn't a mood disorder, and it's not even treatable unless they can admit to themselves the problem. The prognosis isn't great even if they can, though, and God doesn't intend for us to waste our lives in abusive situations. And suddenly, that was that. 😮❤

@@johntuohy1867 All Narcissists are nothing but a bunch of self righteous hypocrites that act like the Scribes and Pharisees that hated, persecuted and had Christ Jesus the only begotten Son of God and those that believe in Christ Jesus the only begotten Son of God put to death. Be aware that all Narcissists will worship and serve the Man of sin, the son of perdition who will claim to be God. Be aware that all Narcissists will support the Beast system under the Man of sin, the son of perdition who will murder all those that will not worship and serve the Man of sin, the son of perdition who will claim to be God.

Your story is exactly my story!! Wow exactly got married and then saw the real person. Screaming and yelling at his son who was 6 and helped him get custody of his son. Married 20 years and I couldn't take it anymore. After I had my son with him then he became so cruel towards all of us. Divorced 5 years. Separated 5 before finally divorced 5. Courts drag everything out so much that I lost everything. My home, he stole the business and retirement. Thank you Lord that I did get full physical custody of my son. But came at a price of severe depression as the courts left me with nothing. He stole the business and never had to give me a dime. Not sure why the courts allowed that when I had full custody. I've been so lost for so long. I'm finally renewed in Christ. I've been a follower of Christ all my life. One downfall was I was never taught to put myself first but to put others first. Women need to be taught in Church boundaries.

Yes Tiffany!!! Right on!!! ❤

I like the way you think!

Yes, at work they talk loudly and say random things like they have tourettes or something. Then its like you find your little area and they find a way to go over there to watch you or they send someone else to watch you.

@@jazzy9282 Yes I observed that too- they have tourettes - they do not control entirely what they say - they are really mentally ill - one at my previous job - I had to quit or it would danger my health.

Had to pray daily and focus on raising the Children. If I had know in younger years that he was Narcissistic Personality Disorder, I would have left him and NEVER had Children with all that RAGE around. I can't get my young years back but I left (with God's help) in my 30s. Something kept telling me, I did NOTHING to provoke the RAGE so why show I FORCE myself to TOLERATE it my entire life. He never said he was sorry, NOT once, the parasite!

That's been my problem too. There's narcissists everywhere in my life. I've even stopped dating bc every boyfriend was a narc . I haven't dated in 10 years now , but there's still narcs in my family . It's awful .. but I'm happy to be on my own without a narc ..

I can sooo relate! So many narcs in my family. None of them have a life, or atleast happy and contented one, that's why they want everyone around them to feel exactly the way they feel. Misery loves company. I have learned not to enable their behavior, ofcourse when I push back, their inner 2 yr old tantrum child comes out. It's so good to see it come out because it shows me and them that they do not have self control, nor are they mature. They expose themselves by losing control which allows them to see that its them, not ones around them. Having control of your emotions is like cryptonite to them.

You attract that

Same! Mine doesn’t have pride for his home. His excuse is he doesn’t have time. How odd when I see all my neighbors, how they still have care for their homes seven after working all week long. I’m saving money to fix repairs in the house. If I could afford to pay for my bills. I w

I am 36 and been in this 18 years 😢

I can confirm. One I can't get rid of without quitting my job, thinks he's the only one who's important and the only one who knows anything. He gets mad when he's corrected. Oh well for him.

Grinches!! Can't stand when people are happy!

@ABUSE: FREEDOM AND HEALING IN CHRIST i refuse to be inferior

Nutter,nothing to understand

Virginia Wolfe That's so true, I was laughing with her and she was going absolutely mad at me over the phone, screaming and shouting. This was only because the TV in her room had broken lol

They are not happy until they burst your bubble, then there face is filled with delight

Heartbreaking

You are in an abusive relationship. Find what ever small amount of courage you can to physically escape. Once you

Do you will have yourself given back to yourself. Be strong because you deserve better

Get out and never ever look back this is full on abuse.

I just endured a narcissist rage, my bf got mad that I dared to speak up about his vile comments about a coworker, "she is stupid, like my ex wife" I commented that he stayed married for 25 years, then he e defended himself. I said I understood and went upstairs. He finished the call with coworker, then came upstairs to rage against the machine that is me...I ended up crying in my car because I know he is a true narcissist. I am in grad school to be a Christian counselor and he knows I will soon leave for good because of my relationship with God. I am praying for you. Please pray for me. I may just live in my car to save money. ❤

Now he is the one in the toilet... 🚽

Yep. Raging over my good memories and experiences.

DANGER DANGER DANGER. RUN! DO NOT CO HABITATE WITH THIS PERSON YOU ARE IN ENOUGH DANGER ALL READY JUST BEING IN A CAR OR BUILDING THAT YOU OWN IF HE HAS CONTROL OF THE SITUATION

Be really careful now. He could show you how he handles rejection, & things can get dangerous

seriously,, I'm out of a 37 year marriage to a cheating narc, now my male roommates are doing it....gonna shut it all down right quick.

They bullied you because they're insecure , have lowself esteem , and wanna be like you etc...stay away these monsters and dangerous people !!!!!!!

It's true.

That describes them perfectly.....straight up wicked. I don’t know about your experience but it showed me how disturbed my narc “friend” was when he acted normal fine in group settings but was a WICKED bully when he isolated me by myself. They’re severely insecure and scared individuals

Christine Haigh, I never felt safe in that toxic relationship, I left few times and this was my last. So many times I let my wall down and let him know my hurts in life and he would always find a time to throw those hurts back in my face like it was always my fault, he twisted my hurts around and said it was always my fault. I believe our past wasn’t a prison sentence, but a lesson learned. It’s been 3 months Final no contact, I’m healing and Always keeping the Faith , believing better days to come! Stay strong:)

Hugs!!!!

I’m currently in a 17 year marriage and my wife is a Narcissist. I had no idea what this word even meant, but his first video was a slap in the face that woke me up to my wife’s behavior. The name calling, the complaining, the verbal attacks and total disrespect made me feel alone and that the problem was with me. I would start questioning who I was, how I was raised, that my values were out dated. This video has been a blessing. I now understand what exactly I was up against. -Steve, Ohio

Gross

We shouldn't have to ask them to wash their hands they should know this! Lol😂 but they dnt! So we end up looking like nags,because we have to give them play by plays..

The LORD God our Father in heaven heard your cry and He shall avenge you so fear not. Here is my testimony unto you: I went no contact with the narcissist that sought to strangle me to death while bashing the back of my head on the corner of the wall in order to cause blunt force trauma to the back of my skull in order to kill me. I had to flee to another city for three months before The LORD God our Father in heaven who in His wrath took care of the narcissist for me because it was The LORD God our Father in heaven that struck the narcissist dead in the street while the narcissist was walking from the motel they were staying alone at to one of their relative's houses in the morning on December 25th while I was living far away in another city with my family. Hearing about the narcissist's death was the first news that I got that morning when I woke up that morning on December the 25th when my parents told me about the narcissist's death. I knew it was The LORD God our Father in heaven that avenged me that day because Romans 12:19 says: 19 Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. Romans 12:19

Yes, I agree - the intro music made me stay and listen..

Mine got remarried and move out of state! WIN. thank you God!! IM so thankful for that peace but he has left damage behind with our children.

Please leave him

I've seen the eyes 👀 turn black,.... also. Then the rage can go on for hours.

My narcissist mother's eyes change too. I believe narcissists are possessed by demons. That's why they're so evil.

​@@katherinegipple5393 I believe they're possessed by demons; that's why their eyes change.

How on earth did you survive?

Good for you!!!

Sweetie I’d be dancing in the rain with you…that feeling is simply beautiful! It’s true happiness that’s inside you and me that makes all things beautiful !

Lol!! Yes!! I Love Living This JoyFull Way!! I Could Care Less AnyMore What People Think About my Happines Shalom 🙏😊

She’s miserable

Your brother 's anger at you was really his guilt because he was faced with the truth about himself which he didn't want to own. NARCISSISTIC people are basically very selfish and irresponsible...your asking him that question made him look at himself and see something about him he did not like or want to take responsibility for. Sorry that happened to you.... KNOW YOU WERE AND ARE LOVED ALWAYS!! 💝

@@patricestar6510 Thank you for your kind words,yes he did not want to be faced with his pathological selfishness and believed everything was owed to him.

It's sad that your brother wasn't willing to take you into his home but it does sounds like you were better off in a children's home. It was his problem (and perhaps his wife's problem) that he wasn't willing to take care of you. If he flew into a rage, there's something going on with him, that is NOT your fault. He (and his wife) have issues that prevented them from embracing and caring for you, that is there problem, not yours. If he is mean to you, flew in a rage, then he is probably mean to others in his family, and you are best not being raising in his home. I hope you find happiness, security, people who care about you and wish you all the best in your life.

​@@zhmw You are spot on ,his wife was a mean spirited woman as well, she did evrything to please him because this is how she controlled him,they deserved each other,and yes he needed a scapegoat so he also picked on one of his daughters when I was not around,I was not unhappy in the children's home we were well cared for, the nuns who looked after us were kind,we were lucky in that respect,the older children were made to look after the younger ones and we cared for one another,the orphanage was well run,I remainded there for three years and was never abused,so yes I was far better off there but I had a family who rejected me and that hurt terribly as a young girl.I am an old lady now and I have made my way in life and am not dissatisfied with what I have accomplished.

@yvette vernet ••• I am so sorry you had to grow up like that and suffer such great pain. You are a miracle for being here today and a beautiful woman who deserves everything & then some! Believe me. Even on the days you feel you’re undeserving, unworthy, bad... you’re none of those things. Keep on your path and enjoy your journey. The true meaning to life- is to endure. YOU, my friend, are a strong woman that others should be looking towards for life lessons! Deep down, you know it bc you’re absolutely incredible! And you are WORTH IT!!✌🏼🥰♥️

That's so true

Did you know the devil?why did the devil have a mule,destroyed Thatcher,but she wasn't loving,and her beauty if any was debateable💥

@@Jackgritty28 The devil comes only to steal and kill and destroy; John 10:10

As my husbands narcissistic mother once said “I love Jackie (my sister in law), she has always tried to please me”. Narcissistic parents engulf/consume their children and see them as supply to obey and reflect them. A child never individuates. My husband uses our son as a pawn; it is disgusting and disturbing.

My mother hated me from the beginning. Very jealous of me, all my life.

It’s more common than you think. Siblings as well.

It is a devastating experience when your own mother hates you from the begining and is jealous of you .Just the person that should love you and be your confidant ! My mother is insanely jealous of me and wants everything I have for herself Thank you for these videos that show I am not alone . Thought I would go insane !!

Narcissistic mothers often hate their daughters.

mhhunter,You deserve better 🙏

So get evidence and EXPOSE the abuse

Your experience with being the scapegoat in the family I can truly relate. I'm going through it right now. I've lost close ones to me and now I'm fair game, but I have God on my side, so bring it on demons, you can't win against him.

It's horrible to be attacked by your siblings. I'm so sorry. It is unbelievable that they can hate someone who has only tried to love them. Very sick minds. Stay away. Other people will assume you have done something bad to them because of their hatred. They don't know about these kind of people. They are truely sick in the head.

Good job and proud of you!!

They are insane. They will praise you early on for the very thing they later try to devalue you for.

In the same situation. Stay strong.

A “laughing disorder”! I think I have one of those. 😉

This is very hard...I have a narcissistic mother as well....but my unconditional love for her makes it hard to pull away...she is older as well.

“I can’t stand that you’re laughing so YOU have a disorder.”

It's been quite a while since I posted this on here. I have to say that things have changed drastically between my mom and I since early last year...I went to see her with my husband and could see that she'd declined in her ability to manage living alone. I felt so much compassion for her, that I let all of my anger go towards her, and we began a healing journey that only could've happened because of God! Mom also had been suffering from pain and not feeling well for quite a while. Though my sister never stopped caring fory mom despite how difficult it could be for her at times, she'd tried to get both my brother and I, who'd gone no contact for over a year to reconcile with mom because she didn't want us to feel guilty if something happened to her while we were still angry. So we all took a vacation to Florida to try to work out some of our feelings about it, because for a long time, I was angry at my sister for expecting me to do that with mom being the way she could be. We had spoken to mom while in Florida for a few days and she was very ill. Once we got home, I went straight to her place and she was not eating, or taking her meds because she couldn't remember to. Long story short, she ended up in the hospital with sepsis from two kidney stones! She was very weak and ended up staying in the nursing home that she had to rehab in from the infection. Since her dementia had progressed, she was evaluated and found to not be fit to live alone. She fought that tooth and nail and didn't even remember being sick for a while. But her memories of that did come back to her, and though she hated it, she realized she needed to accept it. My siblings and I never wavered in being there with her as much as we could, though my brother lives 8-9 hours away. We all realized we had to take over her finances and clean out her home, which she was renting. That was tough because we knew how independent she'd been all her life. Then, in November of last year, she had a stroke while there and she's been wheelchair bound ever since. But to this day, my sister and I try to go once a week or sometimes a couple of weeks to go see her. Now that she's properly medicated, our relationship has healed! I just want everyone here to know that love really does conquer all and with God's help, healing- even miraculous healing can and does occur!! I give God ALL of the glory for that too! I know her days are numbered, but she still knows who we are and though she requires 24-hour care, she appreciates and cherishes our visits! So, despite all of the horrible things sh said and did over the years, our relationships with our mom has healed! My brother and I have learned so much about unconditional love and it's healing power! Stay strong everyone, and let our Lord lead your steps in your journeys with your mom's! Love & prayers for ALL of you! ❤️

Even worser when the narc is your parent as our parents are supposed to make us feel safe and loved.

Great advice!

Thank-you! And we will❤️

I went through similarities he constantly berated me about my looks yet he was below me as well to be honest they way I dressed my education everything he respected at first he came to hate and the names he called were degrading and he wanted my independence cause it supported him but kept telling me i think im better then him. I couldnt figure out how i didnt see his true self but with no contacr now i just didnt want to see.

Usha, You must be very Glad to be free of that nightmare. Keep him far way away from you.

❤️❤️❤️

Crazy, I'm a loner by choice. So when me & the narc got into it he was like THAT'S WHY NOBODY DEALS WITH YOU!!! UHHHH SOOOOOO LOL ( I CAN LAUGH NOW!)

I heard this somewhere... Your Joy is their hatred

Your sadness is their Joy!

@@tootienottoofruitie1726 oh yes! I have a narc flatmate with her little flying monkey, if I'm watching something funny and laugh or whistle and sing in the shower or doing dishes, they start banging doors and I can feel the hate coming from downstairs! They want everybody to be miserable like they are!

@@SilviaCalzolariSylvia YES EXACTLY!!! YOU ABSOLUTELY CAN FEEL THEIR HATRED TOWARDS YOU!!!! they demonic possessed people!!!!

@@SilviaCalzolariSylvia get this not to top you at all... I live in a very small community.pop 1200... it's a big dis functional family..inter breeding and all that and if they say hello to you and your don't answer back they all get upset and angry atyou... entire narc community and they..many are satanists... I have seen voo Doo dolls..oh my goodness...and whole community hates me..l love the truth! I am right now taking it as a challenge to learn how to deal with this crap... something I have been lacking my whole life... God bless 🌝♥️🥀🤗

Well said!

Don't mention bats at this moment in time,fool❌🦇

I've found that even if you agree with them to keep the peace, they will DISAGREE with you anyway!!!

@@reesedaniel5835 exactly, they are hopless and helpless beyond anything we know. They are raging demons walking among us. The more they rage 😡 the more I enjoy myself 😊and the more I enjoy myself, the more they rage😂😂😂. To watch them do this, is wicked