Why setting boundaries makes you attractive (life changing) 

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The most important thing is your dignity. Don't let anyone make you feel bad for not agreeing to do something you don't want to do. You have every right in the world to set boundaries and defend your own space. Anyone who is unable to accept it does not deserve to be in your life.🖤

You have to prove yourself as worthy of the abundance by adopting it mentally, before experiencing it physically

I used to feel incredibly guilty for setting boundaries, like I was doing something to hurt the other person. This was my nice person syndrome. But as I started to set them more and more, slowly, then my confidence became a lot better. That book called 30 Days to Overcome Guilt by Harper Daniels also helped, and the Tao Te Ching. Everyone is self centered, so it's important to set boundaries, it's ok.

Attractive is internal first. You cant perceive what you arent the vibration of. Knowing who you really are, beautiful wise talented powerful in the energies of love and light which carries beneficial and exciting information, you flow with high frequencies and become a boundary which unwanted can't cross. Knowing who you really are frees you from all programming. Embody what you affirm. Feel it. Become it. New person new world.

ooh this may explain why when i consciously told myself, that i'm not responsible for my parents' pain, nor their life, the relationship dynamic changed.

The reality is that I don't give a penny for people who respect me but not the others. I don't want this kind of person in my life. There's plenty of people like this in the world, but I like good and loving hearts.

External boundaries are like a signal to "Energy Vampires" 🙏👁✨ This video is insanely true & brilliantly describes *you don't need external boundaries, when you operate the way this concept is presented by Aaron Doughty.*

I always struggle with what boundaries are reasonable to set and what ones aren’t. Doing it internally by working out your personal vibe makes a lot more sense.

This was beyond helpful as always! My internal boundary is letting go of everybody else’s anxiety. It’s not mine, yet I’ve been carrying it for so many friends, family members, a few acquaintances, and even my therapist (who I just ditched for being insanely unhelpful). I adopted this mentally and suddenly opportunities started coming my way!

Totally unrelated to this video topic, but I just wanted to share that I deeply respect you for staying true to yourself. A lot of content creators based in spirituality tend to change and let success get to their head. They trade their integrity for views and forsake who they are. You've grown so much as a person and yet you remain humble, charismatic and give relevant advice instead of merely repeating what you've read or watch somewhere else. I sincerely hope you'll keep growing ! Thank you for being you :)

“Pop spiritual” or not…this is such helpful content ❤

When I started to set boundaries with a guy I started dating who I really liked, he started little by little to walk away from me. I’m so glad he did, he was not in tune with my energy so I’m grateful that I didn’t let another narcissist into my life again, he sometimes said little things about me to about me as in criticizing my actions and way of being and felt like he wanted me to feel ashamed of myself so I’m definitely grateful that I’m not seeing him anymore. Since I started watching your videos literally every single day I feel my energy shifting little by little and I started to attract people who have similar energy. I’ve got two exciting job offers in less than 3 weeks which I thought was amazing. Energy is magnetic, I started to believe 💖 Thank you Aaron, honestly you are a gift 🎁

I am doing this. Only picking the people on my life I want

Intriguing perspective on the power of internal boundaries! 🌟 Strengthening our energetic boundaries not only enhances personal resilience but also transforms how we interact with the world, influencing our external experiences profoundly.

This is such valuable info. I love learning about how energy works ❤

Funny before I saw the title I thought he looks so handsome :)

I wish you were my son. You are a very intelligent & kind young man. Thankyou for Everything You do for people All over the World 🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅⚔👼👑

Once I understood boundaries I became even more powerful!!!

Having health boundaries for yourself is healthy and it takes time to get it together while you heal from tocic behaviors

This video really resonated with me, everything in it was so obvious yet so profound. Ever since I came upon your videos I've gotten a good genuine feeling from you and the quality and value of your content but when you dropped the Mac Dre reference in this one I realized this this dude really is my tribe lol. Keep on doing what you do because it truly does have a positive effect on peoples lives. 🙏

This content is helping me heal so much. Settling into my frame… keep drawing my energy back inward. I am worthy of a sense of self, of a personal borderline. Thank you 💕

Dude i was walking around yesterday doing my job (retail vendor) visiting all kinds of stores. And I was keeping my perspective and consciousness elevated and as high as I possibly could. And everyone around me was just miserable. All the employees, all the customers, everyone. Just nothing positive there. Everyone's vibe was so low and I felt it. I could see nothing but a ton of people who hate their loves and aren't living their purpose. And it made me think of how I need to start living mine. But I don't know how.

Yes. The inner wellspring can be self-sustaining, and if it is or is becoming self-sustaining, it is also rather infinite in its quality. To be dependent upon the validation of others is distinct from respecting another's validation of oneself and one's living; to be dependent on the validation of others is also, and this is very true, capable of guiding behavior without one being aware of it. The wellspring is extrinsic, catapulted into outer space where it can be caught and manipulated (for better or worse) by others on a whim. So basically, yes :)

I am always attracting the narcissist (female) in an authoriative position from me all the time. Now she is my boss whom is under investigation from 30 prior employees for being toxic to work for. I have chosen to NOT see her in this light and she does not behave in a dominate way with me...but it has taken alot of meditation and energetic boundaries up before I head into work

Wow! You really posted this at the exact moment I needed to hear it! Thank you!

I am so thankful for finding videos like yours. They help me so much when I feel like I am stuck in old patterns.

Totally blessed to have seen with my own eyes all the planatary movements & beauty in the sky to pass time away from all the noise.this past year has been a trip.

Yes 🙏🏽💚✨ No need to fear or struggle with putting up real boundaries as your assured and lovingly detached presence will naturally do that. Thank you this is what I need to practice. This is similar with dealing with familiar spirits

Aaron l can't express enough how much l appreciate you and your teachings on this subject!! You have helped me more than l can express! Sending oceans of love and gratitude ❣❣❤❤❤❤

Wie schön wäre es, all die wunderbaren Erklärungen auf deutsch zu hören! Es würde sicherlich viele Menschen interessieren.

This video is Essential, thank you from the bottom of my heart Aaron . With gratitude, Tati

Ok... I watched this, and I am thinking how complex and complete is everything on this channel and from you, Aaron... My God... From dealing with inner child, through relationships, traumas, core beliefs, personal frame and dealing with inner feelings, inner energy to the human soul... You literally speak about everything... And... That situation in your life with your step mom woke you spiritually and you woke me through your videos and lot of people. Thanks man, this channel is treasure.

I would like to thank you 🙏 because you're helping me more than my therapist! You're great! 🤗

Thank you Aaron 💜🙌🏻💫✨️

Not my circus, not my monkeys ❤😄

Thank you for this! Hope you are having a great day - this is am amazing topic 💯💯💯💯

Much needed😇Thnx Mr happy Soul💓

Thank you so much for your work!!!

Firssssstttt I hope you have the best life ever Aaron

Thanks again Aaron for your time making these videos! hope your doing well!

You are changing my life. Thank you Aaron ❤

Man this is some deep psychology. You are bright my friend 💪

Amazing video!!! Great teaching! Makes it harder as a parent and having these boundaries but yet parenting.. it’s a dynamic where you are involved in their feelings and their choices. But yet still need boundaries Thanks Aaron🤩✨✨✨✨

The problem with healers and energy givers or motivation givers is that they know exactly who they are and have their egos in check. It's the other person who doesn't understand what is going on. When you constantly give someone praise and energy it gets to their head and they begin to feel like they are in 7th heaven. They get a wrong kinda ego boost. I feel people like us need to learn subtle ways to give an ego death to them everytime they start acting God. All in all. I loved my baby gurl, she brought out the best in me and never felt soo abundantly loved. I witnessed her downfall right in front of my eyes. I lost my self respect and mind in the process. And most important, I lost the love I had for myself. I wish her all the best and the other jealous haters who are giving me the evil eye atm. Everyone deserves to be happy. I deserve to be happy as well without you if it must be

Very interesting to view this self vs others,Super talk A4,!!💜🌹👍🎈🎈🎈🎈🌄

Watching it for the 4th time, guessing it's the video I need now, the most. Since I discovered your channel your are in my "INNER PEACE" case in favorites bar

Thank you Aaron ❤

18:09 - 19:29 - the certainty, holding the vision, confident in your own frame, ... "knowing, feeling, and behaving ... [and] holding the frame"

I thought this was very interesting. Thank you for posting!

This is helping me refine myself. ❤

Listening to this a third time so it sticks!

Yes that’s it I have to let go even if I feel guilty it’s been a hard practice that must be continued and resisting need for reassurance from authority figures🙏🏽

Thank you for this great explanation of setting boundaries! Didn't hear this before so clear and real! Greetings from Germany 😊

thanks for all of those videos

Thank you very much Aaron. Can you please also develop some meditations for kids? In order to unlock their inner child’s issues. First developing their self confidence

Top G of Energy

Thank you Aaron for always addressing many important issues that we often encounter in everyday life. 🙏🏻🌟

Really enjoyed this one, thanks Aaron

Most powerful video of all! Thank you! This is my favourite ❤️ Most helpful video of all time so far. This is WHAT I need to embody and this is what I need to practice doing. This will be my next breakthrough. Thank you so much 🦢

Agora eu entendi! Thank you!

So fantastic Aaron!! This is exactly what I've been practicing. ❤❤

I love this, on a deeper spiritual level can you talk about being attracted to a narcissist before birth (like having a mom or dad who is a narcissist ). I hope that makes sense.

Totally.

You speak to me No one else does Thank you I ♥️U

This is value !

I’ve been listening to your videos for about an hour and I just make the decision to let go and said that making daily pay with my program is normal and guess what 🎉 I got a payment ❤🎉🎉🎉

This is genius

I love your channel. But the constant commercials are very distracting. Love you Aaron 😊

I am sorry Please forgive me Thank you I love you ❤

Youv'e gotta let go of the ego mind, The wants of. Control, Approval and security. .

Great video brother!!

Thanks 🙏

So good!

Aaron, love your lessons😊 That's not my job🥰🙏🕉💃💜💖✨️💖 Resonate and most Def going to share your meditation 😊 In gratitude and harmony💜💜💜

Thank you so much for this wisdom

Great video ✨👏🏻♥️

Wow. You’re freeing!!!

Thank you Aaron ..❤

Very bueno Aaton! Me love this video! Thanks ! 🙏🎉

To give love to give love

true power lies within.

Narcissist ghosted me after I didn;t let him to step on my boundaries early on.

I am from a very strong minded Greek family. A lot of narcissistic personalities (not that I’m saying Greek people are that way). But there are strong egos and it’s hard to escape it when I’m trying to work on myself and they tend to push guilt trips on me. It’s a constant struggle. How do you escape these strong family personalities when you’re working on yourself and still be part of the family? I have kids and I don’t want them to get the impression that I’m isolating myself or my own family. This is my major struggle

That's a great perspective tysm

Thank you for this 🤍

I already am

Brilliant! You nailed it 🎉

Thank you. Very good 👍🏻

Fabulous message!

Nothing in this world that's worth having comes easy.

What is the background music ?

I'm afraid to have boundaries or standards since I've been single my whole life and that feels like beggars being choosers. Every year that went by I assumed there was more to fix about me otherwise I would have found someone. I am 33 this year and never even kissed. What could possibly be attractive about someone like that? So many times I've asked for advice on how to get out of this rut and got called an entitled monster.

I was the first to like❤❤❤❤

I like this now! Thanks

How come I have ever notification off, including yours yet your videos always come on top? Always with a blue dot, always on top? I am curious what are you doing because I don't have any notifications but whenever I go on my list there is your video. Why?

Loved this!! Soo good.

When I say the hooponopono phrases , who am I saying them for ? My self ? Or the thing that bothered me or God ?

I loved this video, except when it came to the practising the separation. I read Conversations with God and it clearly states that we are not separate. Maybe it's just that we need to feel separate, I don't know... need to think on that one.

Your content is getting better and better… or i am just resonating more with it :) thank you 🌈🩷