5 Secrets to Letting Go that will make you Attractive AF 

Aaron. I found your videos earlier this week. These are the types of things I believe in, spiritually. I just wasn't practicing or had a full awakened conscious yet. I was holding on and trying to control the outcome with my woman. So much neediness when she was trying to pull away I had her on a pedestal and couldn't let go of control. I was creating so much resistance. Isaw your vid and woke up. I let go and detached from outcome. Literally the next day she is trying to come back and attracted to me. Thank you!

Thanks bud

Protect your energy bro, remember the guy you paid to do that job? And didn’t finish/taking too long to finish (if I remember correctly) he basically tried you, bro. Either he was a racist (against whites) or an a-hole. either way he didn’t respect you, that there, if you don’t see respect after showing respect, automatically assume you’re going to bump heads. Do what you gotta do, you need to show your backbone Mr. Doughty. They’ll try to cause some traction, gotta let them know you are about that action, or avoid them at all costs. Or else. Some people just want to watch the world burn, zigzag away from them.

Yeah I'm an empath, picked up my parents failed marriage in, all the bullies in school had so much pain in their hearts and I took it in. After many awakenings Ive come to realized I am talented, handsome, and lucky, and my life changed forever. I am a receiver of my own karma, and I put myself first because I am worth it.

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Yeah.. Then magic happens 💫

Yes it does

Exactly

Hi.. really your comments helps me much. Thank you !

been horizontal 10years hardly need food or water definitely no need for company or sex and given up on media of all kinds, dont feel the need for anything in fact dont feel much at all ever unless i have to interact with others which just gets me depressed till im alone enough again, also im attracting absolutely nothing and can say that your comment SEEM to attract everything is indeed an illusion and just seems that way in your mind cause of some programming or w e

I recommend you to a love specialist to help me to restore my life partner back to me

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@@favourokah5113 Get a life human.

Wow, I need to write that on my wall.

Me too!!!! I’m a big ole kid🎉

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definitely not your fault!!! mental illness is real

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5. ...eat all those bananas in the background 🍌 😄

Thank you

REAL.MVP. thank you friend !!

But how do you be compassionate to someone you like without falling into these 4 traps because eventually they’ll always see you as someone they can tell the problems to

I'm still working on the saying no part to others. Cause I like helping others. But I tend to wear myself out. Then I can't do the projects I want to do for myself. 😆

Wow I love it ❣️

@@anissakh4710 Thank you

Thank you

@@Wills276 you are welcome:)

In your life there are special people that lead you to your true purpose. Ask God for the answer to ANYTHING!! You will be amazed at your way of knowing Him.

literally read this as soon as he said it

Beautiful so true

It is better to give then receive! This entire ideology is creating selfishness not kindness, compassion, & or a spirit of giving over a sense of self & its fn stupid, just like blaming stuff in your life how your parents were when you were 3 years old…when you are a child you think like a child & act like child but when you became a man you put your childish ways behind you…aka grow tf up!

Amen 🙏

Amen

I'm not religious but I like this verse thanks for sharing

Nice

That was helpful

Blessings!

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Absolutely right. How are you doing? Hope you are fine and staying safe out there?

I'm craving either a denali suv or lincoln navigator, my eyes are bigger than my pocketbook.

@@janeprescott7381 hi

I havent figure out how to do that...

I love this I noticed my energy going elsewhere and I pulled back into self I had to take a step back I was like oh no I went for a great walk and tuned into me❤

Sameeeeee

Did you find the path forward and solved your problem yet?

But wait ! How does Aaron remember stuff of when he is was only 1yo ? How can he tell how he felt then ?

@MarieN8959 I can remember things like seeing a mouse run across the floor and being scared, I was only 3. So sometimes if things are traumatic to our young brains they get almost inprinted

I really wish I could be like that. But my heart is just so soft so other people tend to not value it.

What becomes surprising is when you start to realize how few things you can actually control!

maybe you should look into stoicism

I’m a damn empath. Ugh

Love this

Me too...this video was so on point

Every video is like this.

Freaking same . My Mind is blown 🤯 I finally understand.

I'm 3:23 minutes in I'm done

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I recommend you to a love specialist to help me to restore my life partner back to me

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Thanks seemed to be a message for me

Yea friend I have done this more than once

@@haj.1671 your welcome 🙏🦋

Especially Mothers are last on the list because Mothers are naturally giving and loving. Yet on Mother's Day, it's the biggest day for phone calls, flowers and appreciation for the person who selflessly loves her children and grandkids.

So pleased to hear that as I’m 55

Although I’ve been watching vids for a few years now, and trying to work through childhood trauma. I really need to hear this today ( light bulb moment) and wonderful teaching

Actually, yes, in your case, it IS too late. Just let go now, honey. Just let go.

@@JohnVKaravitis is it to late

This so much! If you ever needed validation, you've earned it! You're crushin it!

Took the words right out of my mouth

"Empaths" aren't real. That's just a fancy word for codependent.

@@Benjy86really? There’s a lot more to empaths than you may know. Empathy is innate; co-dependency involves people-pleasing behaviours and abandoning one’s own needs for the sake of others. Two totally different things.

@@Benjy86 You had a two-digit iq moment. ''Stop it, get some help.''

Perfectly said!

Wow. Hit home for me.......

Excellent

Love that

jeez amen

So true

Something I had to learn the hard way

@@WhoamI-su7pg Hey now we really understand it don't we haha

Needed to hear that✌

I know for a fact I’m not doing the absolute best I can .

I don’t really agree that your statement is always going to be true but I do think it’s what we need to believe when dealing with others; whether they actually are doing their best or not. I had the same thought a year and a half ago and it completely cleared my mind of certain inadequacies I felt and resentment i harbored.

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please write on a board and explain each point.use examples.

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thank you

Thank you!

I like how we feel, not how we want. I love it. Thanks much 🙏❤😇

Helpful, thank you very much

I have always imagined what you just said. But didn’t know whether the feeling was the cause of the effect. Was I unattractive because I felt unattractive? Or did I feel unattractive because I was unattractive? I do think that both may have an effect on each other

@@patrickrutherford5553 Interesting. We get what we believe in. I personally believe that the feeling is the cause, though. It is like that question: What came first - the chicken or the egg?

@@ketolicious-4914 easy. God creates the chicken .

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A carefree attitude is how you get fired from your job and end up a drug addict living next to a bridge because the trolls don't want you.

No. Your comment is laughably wrong. 100% off base with this. I can’t believe people watch this ba on RU-vid.

@@charliijean lmao .. a sensible comment thank you

@@charliijean you have a employee/ negative scarcity mindset, we don't need that around us please leave

I was thinking the same thing. I feel like he’s talking about my life

I hate this gift.... fuck what people intend empaths are too much in they own head feeling other people's bullshit ITS THE GIFT AND THE CURSE

My sentiment exactly 💯.

I am an empath 100 percent.

Same....

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Bring a parent ^ you see no barriers to protect your own

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You know there are very religious people out there that pray hard every day and none of their prayers gets answered even til the day they die. I think i quit myself.. You are just privileged, nothing to do with your beliefs. Belief in higher power won't rid of unfortunate circumstances. And it's very sad, i wish this was not true but it is.

@Nat Smythe I agree and disagree, Disagreeing with identifying with labels e.g "you are a people pleaser". No, that's counterintuitive to actually recovering. the commenter may have presented themselves as one but that is not who they are. You are not an illness/mental condition etc, you are just experiencing it! I do agree with the term "empath" isnt' really meaningful. People need to stop identifying as their issues or accepting labels from others, then half the work is done.

I’m not so sure any Empath would actually say, “everything comes easy to me.”🤷🏼‍♀

I don’t believe in the concept of “empath”. To me, that’s not a particular identity. It’s the absence of “other” (unhealthy psychological disposition). Such as extreme narcissism, Etc. As a consequence, one is empathetic, caring, considerate, genuinely interested, a good listener and other similar qualities. Has the ability to be objective and recognize that everyone’s worldview is unique.

@@kaboom6157 I understand what the reason is for you thinking this way. See the same things you are mentioning .

If that's an actual picture of you. How can you not know your worth? If you are pretty on the inside as you are outside. That would be pure gold in and of itself.

keep it up girlfriend.

Yeah I needed this

I was that parent to my daughter. And she and I have a relationship, but she keeps it very superficial and distant. And of course the more she does that, the more I try bcuz I 'need' it to be deeper and need her approval that I was a good mom. Then being needy pushes her further away bcuz she doesn't have to be around my unhealthy codependent behavior anymore. She will avoid me for months. So, forgiving myself for not giving her more stability, or not showing her that it's okay to shine her own light as bright as possible when she was little. I hope she is able to heal from my destructive behaviors while I was raising her. Bcuz I love her with my entire being and only want the very best for her... I am so very proud of her and what she has accomplished and how she is so loving to others and the amazing woman she has become.. I hope one day she and I can have a deeper relationship like I have with my own mom. bcuz my daughter truly is the most important thing/person to me. She is sooo amazing! and beautiful - but she is afraid to shine her own light. She is so inspiring to me - even without shining her light - bcuz I see her determination and accomplishments and I have seen the light she is afraid to shine. I want to go back in time and tell that little girl: You are worthy and you ARE enough! You are beautiful and you have the potential to be whatever you want to be.. Dream big and Go be YOU!

@@kristinfranklin5911 A mother’s love has no bounds ❤️❤️

@@kristinfranklin5911 just tell her this- the last like you wrote. Tell her she can be whatever she wants and that she can shine her light I would love my mum , dad or grandma has told me this . It can possibly help her heal if she hears it from you 😘

Empathy is a good trait . Don't confuse empathy with people pleasing

Felt that…

What a prisoner of his own silent denial huh…

Yes!!!!!!! most profound statement!!

I'm opposite I dodnt want anyone controlling me I like being my own boss I'm addicted to this But feels okay being the boss

That WAS me. Not anymore.

Same here!!

Ase.

Me too, literally

So true!!!

True

It's quite easy actually. Not having attachments makes it simpler

This!

I'm trying to learn

It pays off. Believe in yourself.

I could have written that and it would be the exact same besides the name and I'm 38 years old but everything else is exactly true although I am quite lovable people just don't realize or appreciate how lovable I am

Same story & I’m 32 you just gave me even more hope I’m slowly unlearning A LOT about myself one step at a time🤞🏾💛 ~love&light💫

God bless you honey i know how you feel now trying to fix a girl that she needs to help her self and she says she will but I got to let go keep your head up babe you are worthy of your own happiness and someone needs to be nice to you IV learned that

@@chancesanders2751 thank you. 💜 let her go for your own sanity. You cant fix anyone she has to do the work herself. Hugs and blessings.

Ohh you’re an empath

Hey much love the program Codependent anonymous helped me a lot With improving the relationships in my life

We can do this.. we can change..we can be who we always wanted to be

Next time you have a panic attack listen to what i am about to tell you, Think of a river flowing freely if you were to try and stop that water flowing it will build up and eventually all come down in a big surge , When you feel a panic attack coming on think of the water flowing freely same as the panic attack let it flow freely through you it will get weaker if you show no resistance once you have done what i say a couple of times you will gain confidence to beat them and remember panic attacks cannot hurt you say to yourself what is the worst it can do to me

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I was in a car accident when I was 11. Lacerations, broken jaw, fractured skull. It really brought me some perspective that I don't think it is healthy for children to have. It led to a negative self-awareness and anxiety. I know what you mean. I'm sorry. Childhood is important and it really shapes your behaviors. Also grew up in a hoarding household (no friends coming over). It's tough man. It's partially destroying my relationship with my gf but we're good people and our weaknesses can make us strong in so many other ways. Don't be too hard on yourself. Take care

Hey brother. Take baby steps. Fake the confidence until you really have it. Good luck on your journey sir. 🙏🏾💯

I'm really sorry. I've had a lot of self hatred that was unnecessary. None of what happened is your fault. I hope you get some therapy or emotional support. It can be really hard. We all hear you and we hope you start to feel better.

We got this

yes all those things are actually our greatest teachers propelling us to ascend further. It's almost like the ones "controlling" us are actually trying the hardest to wake us up.

@@Corey-gb1rx great outlook- very insightful

@@Corey-gb1rx yeah everything happens for a reason, be it negative or positive. the world needed a shake

Best video you’ve ever done!!

I am so in the space of reclaiming myself . It’s okay to admit that we choose not to be available to others bc we want to be available to ourselves.

I can relate , you

@@bpassion4fashion581 thx for that reminder ❤

I feel that !

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Very true. Took me a long time to understand that. All the backstabbing, cheating, fakeness, etc. done by others is in no way a definition of who I am. Why? Cause it's not my shit, it's there's. Wish them well in the future for their sake, forgive and let go.

Asking myself what is mine and what is theirs is how I got over a severe sensitivity and understood world reality better. ( hsp )

I really like your comment

Hi! Are you myself!?! Hugs!

Hang in there; been there with the need to fix, nurture, etc, and put their needs above my own … working on it but still a work in progress! When you get to point of believing 1- you’re worthy 2- you can’t “fix” people 3- & everything else in this video is spot on! Sounds like you’re working on it well & heading in a positive direction!

Dont worry it gets easier with time,take more time for you,learn to be happy by yourself by doing things you love ,trust me it isnt easy but its doable and such an amazing feeling at the end!keep fighting💪🏾

Take things one day at a time! Sending you positive vibes and healing energies. I hope everything works out for you!

@@sarahcopey hugs back atcha!!

Everyone is an empath and you are not Deanna Troy.

I 100 agree and feel exactly what you're saying for sure

Say no don’t abandon what you need for others would they do it for you !everything changes why stay attached to It

I am living like a crazy person now for abandoning myself no Energy dirty house not eating suicidal thoughts can’t stand anything now no friends no one to Cry to But I be ok cause I Am strong and I Am worth it

Freedom it’s yours take it ❤️👍

I have been there myself in the past my friend and I understand the darkness can consume you. I am in breakup right now and how I deal with them has changed massively. I think about it this way. I do love her and I do care about her but I want the best for her and if that’s not me then I’m ok with that I understand I am not perfect and have things to work on. I use this time to focus on myself and my shortfallings to make myself better for the next person that comes along. All hardships in life are an opportunity for growth, we just need to notice that they are an opportunity and cease it. Take time to focus on yourself and I promise you that not only will you feel better but you will either reattract that person or someone even better.