My take-home: Avoid compromising the sources of your glory, the center that keeps you on fulcrum in whatever case. Your center is that assuredness that you are aligned with God.
I have been left by guys because of my high standards, not that I didn't feel anything for them but i couldn't compromise my values that have kept me just to satisfy some temporary emotions. So yes I support this ,keep yourself. It hurts but it protects you
It doesn't hurt sis. It only hurts when you have done all the compromising and still get dumped. But if you never compromised your standards, you are the winner and you should be happy for it. The guy on the other hand is the loser.
You look around social media it's all relationships...the youth have been desensitized to the divinity of sex... that's why mental health issues are on the rise...watoto tumejirusha kwa vitu hatuwezi...😅😅😅
We need part 2 of this! Another thing what do you say about kissing and romancing generally in a relationship yet you are a Christian? Cause that can another door for sex if you are not self controlled. Thank you Benjamin for sharing us!
When you interview sb with marriage in view, you examine the person whole scale and with long term repercussions in mind👌 Benjamin is out here saving lives!
I can't get enough of benja videos show ur are such a blessed gem who have decided to share free educational with us iam glad and humbled,,, I appreciate you both
You two are so nice together when doing interviews....Ski Benjamin Zulu you are so wise.......I always use your nuggets for my day to day life and I'm looking forward to teach my daughter your wisdom.....You are blessed...Keep on teaching us more.....
hi Mwekali and Benjamin, you asked us to post what conversations you would like... how about how to choose a partner? us christians are told God has to tell you, but what if you use your gut and signs like if he is ready to wait and have sex after marriage? because not many men are willing to do that and some of us are not 100% sure when God speaks, sometimes we think it's just our gut or our own desires, or desperation like the biological clock
I was the goat that was untied in campus bt I thank God it was not too late to go back on track. I think it's important to teach the young people the implications of every direction they take instead of instilling fear . There should be a very impactful way of educating the young people of dangers of premarital sex.. thank you for the show today..God bless
Benjamin Zulu. Me I have a burning questions. 1. In courtship what is value and respect in a realtionship and give me examples. 2.In courtship are you supposed to do house chores when dating or in courtship?
I met a guy of my agemate n he was like i wanna marry a God fearing lady coz am Godfearing too n about a wk i asked if abt having intimacy with me bofere marriage n he was like yes we must do sex for stronger bonding n am like u said having sex before marriage is for stronger bond,,,,,i couldn't stand so dear girlfriends never lower ur standards for a stupid boy calling himself a man bt maintain high standards n principles until u meet the right person.
