We met, she winked, I accepted, we had good time, no sex. She discards me, I accept, I ignore her, she kept meeting me in parking lots, small town, I ignore her. Three weeks later she knows where I'll be, she approaches me, she starts yelling at me, I wave her off and tell her to go away, she comes back and says, "You can't just swat me away like I'm a fly." I say to her again, go away. She does for a few days and she's still bothering me a year later. "Human Super Glue."
That would be called being a stalker instead of "Human Super Glue." Or instead someone who is so arrogant they believe it is possible for anybody in only a small town to know where each and every person is living at any given moment while whomever they arbitrarily in a unidrection decision choose should be going out of their way to avoid them 100% of the time unless of course they have already become a known to many having to be a recluse most of the time while being a star themselves who hardly ever goes outside no matter what the weather is there or anywhere while obvious to everyone having to be very busy with their own life. Another form of extreme arrogance would be when someone believes they can in an instant through only their own eyes when observing only someone else's body language what they are at the time thinking, feeling and doing. The sentence in only a parking lot being offered to only a passersby who is being expected to instant recognize her while saing it, "You can't just swat me away like I'm a fly." sure does make her sound like a narcissistic stalker.
….perhaps she was from the Klingon Empire….the narc that preyed on was happy to move on with some low grade supply but didn’t want to let go of me because he thought he owned me, like I was his pet to torture at his whim….happy that you saw the light and removed yourself 👍🏻
Mine is acting stupid, im a nurse, he's now showing up at my job as a patient with bullsht complaints and telling everyone all about how I'm divorcing him and my coworkers can't tell me he's there or he will file hippa charges...so now he's entering my safe zone. I can't figure out if he wants me on edge, if he wants my sympathy or he's trying to bait me to open his chart...silly child....I'll always assume he is there for an std and I'm not stupid enough or give a crap to open his chart.
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They also need to prove to themselves just easy it was to manipulate and love bomb access to you again. They get off on being able to gain your attention again!
I dated someone for 3yrs and I told them am doing it the godly he was 33 at moment and I talked about marriage. And even meeting my parents was hard for this person he said parents are more respected why should we visit them, he barely knew anyone in my family and when I talked about it they said we should love ourselves first remember it's 3 yrs into dating hahahahaha I was played until it slipped out of his mouth that he only wanted kids with a godly woman thats all and he would proceed and marry someone who is into the world because that's his lyf style. But God kept whispering move on its not the right one but I insisted because i loved him. He was never afraid to loose me
Been 8.5 mos following her discard of me by a text to monkey branch. Chased maybe 5 days then got my ish together and been strict zero dark :30 since. Loads of level up. Promotion. Success. New dream truck. New GF after i waited 6mos to date. She can have her lesser fatty new supply. Im good 😉👍🏻
My ex, Ruben Hinojosa of Kansas City, "let" me use one of his cars. Trouble is, he cancelled the insurance. He also said he'd sign the car over to me so I could get insurance. He did not. I didn't chase after him. This is what he did. Had I begged, I would have gotten what I needed.
keep strong, day by day, - my narc move moves people like pawns on a chess board, i was the invisible child and turned into the scapgoat - my sister scapegoat into golden child - she killed my father over 50 years of narc abuse - he was strong - now brought hr boyfriend home - she was having an affair with him for 40 years - crazy world - me no cotact with narc mum for 10 years and she still stalk me
Hi, i was wondering if i could ask you a question? Does a Narcissists devaluation always have to be overt? The reason i ask is i met a woman online, i wouldn't call it a relationship because of the dynamic and the circumstances. However i definitely experienced the love bombing aspect of things. However when it came to the devaluation, whilst i experienced it overtly occasionally. Most of the time it seemed like she was on her best behaviour. What i tended to experience instead was idealisation and then pretty much out of the blue she would block me but with no explanation. Sometimes she did it with no message beforehand and other times she would give her reasoning although it didn't make a lot of sense. So i was just wondering if it's possible not for a Narcissist to skip the devaluation phase as such, but for them to devalue you more so internally and then discard you? By the way great channel. Very informative.
It's what happened to me. It was like somebody flipped a light switch, and then the person that I thought I knew was gone. Then I later discovered that she had been plotting her exit for a long time while long-distance cheating with multiple guys at the same time, each being given different dishonest stories about her and her past. It's not uncommon with the female covert type. It was like living a fairy tale up until that moment.
@@Matt-ou7tuI hope you do learn something from it, because you obviously have qualities that attract them. They're like vampires, and not everyone is prime sirloin to them. They don't pick people at random. Their ideal victim is a highly empathetic person with codependency issues from childhood (the hero who's ready to sacrifice for them). Perhaps that describes you. Not learning anything could lead to an endless, lifelong cycle for you. I wish you the best of luck, and hope that you don't become prey again. Sometimes a person isn't able to walk away from it the same, and it sounds like you were lucky this last time.
@@HealthWyze Yeah I know what's it's tied to. I developed an addiction to external validation (as a result of childhood abandonment from my father) and as a result of that I think it left me susceptible to someone like that because they can pick up on that need for affection/attention, etc. Btw do you have Instagram or anything like that? It would be interesting to have a private conversation with you about it.
@@Matt-ou7tu I use Telegram. That's about it, but I do occasionally check Facebook. I'm not a fan of "social media". It's ruining our society. It is designed to encourage infidelity and stimulate narcissism. It's all intentional too.
