Why we “chose” to have white babies | Embryo Adoption & Donation | Transracial Adoption 

Why can't people just be glad that children have loving parents. You have a beautiful family. X

No justification needed. You wanted to give three lovely babies a secure and happy life. Beautiful family.

Coming from a abusive home, colour etc doesn’t matter it’s LOVE that matters and only matters.

I've never heard anyone say a white woman who adopted black kids had low self esteem, so why would anyone assume that would be the case with a black woman adopting white kids?

The world would be a better place if more people were like you.

The only thing that matters is that your children are in a good, loving home. God bless you all❣️

I'm a 56 year old white woman and I don't see what the problem is. You are an amazing mother. That's all that matters. People shouldn't care if the embryos were white, black or anything else. I think you are amazing. That's all. ❤❤

You definitely don’t NEED to explain your family to anyone, but I found this video so interesting and educational! Thank you and love to you all ❤️

Sadie, I appreciate that you touched on this topic and that it did not come off offensive that people were interested in your choice or lack of choice. As a woman who has no children and has been researching various methods, I think it is important to know these things, especially what is available and what you have to look forward to. A lot of people in the comments seem to think the questions concerning the race of your children may have been rude or unnecessary, however, I do like how you were very informative in your delivery and you did not make it seem like their questions came from a bad place. Thanks and blessings to you and your family.

My manager who is white adopted two black children and then she naturally conceived two boys after trying for 10 years. She was so happy and I don't think she ever had to explain it to anyone. Love your children and don't let the hate in this world interfere with your happiness. I love all children.

Love how you considered what emotional things the kids may need as they grow up. Alot of adoptive parents dont even do that. Good for you. So happy for your family. I admire you both so much.

I’m pissed you even had to explain this. Like damn they need to stop with the bs! They are all happy and healthy and has loving parents; who gives a damn what their race is

I really appreciate the fact that you are concerned about the children wanting to know down the line about their genetic donors, I think that shows the type of people y’all are-caring, empathetic, loving, and intuitive, and y’all are terrific parents❤️❤️❤️

I am a white woman (secret admirer) and you have really opened my eyes without me having realized I had any subconscious questions to begin with. Thank you

I respect this a lot. I am 42 and after doing an Ancestry DNA test, I found out that I was donor conceived. I know nothing about the donor at all - no health history. Nothing. Also, my parents raised me as white even though I looked mixed and acted like I was crazy if I asked questions. So I found out that I was half black through the DNA test as well. Honesty is so important - life is confusing when you don’t “match” your family and you don’t know why. And health history is important too. I made so many decisions based on the wrong information. (I was the result of a donor mixup. My parents wanted a donor that looked like them, but that isn’t what they got).

I love this! I mean, I was curious, but damn I would never ask lol These people be bold on the internet! Keep doing you mama. You're a great mommy!! Congrats on all your little miracle babies :) 🥰😘

Melanated people can produce children that look like this . My children and family members have green , blue. , hazel eyes. My granddaughter has bleach blonde hair blue eyes and a pale skin tone . You guys are amazing parents 🥰

This is beautiful this how the world should be kind understanding it doesn't matter who you are when we all go to heaven it doesn't matter what you look like everybody is God's grace Beauty this is a good example

Congrats on the twins!! I absolutely LOVE their names!! Soo beautiful!!!♥️♥️♥️

I'm so proud of your dedication with the child's feeling and knowledge of their extended family!!!

My grandmother was a single young woman when she adopted my uncle who was black! My grandmother adored her son and he adored his mother, when she passed he cried every day for her until he passed at 85 years old! My uncle was 14years old when my grandmother got married a year later give birth to my mother, in our family everyone was welcome regardless of race, my grandmother and my grandfather taught us not to pick and choose who to love, our hearts are big enough to love everyone and that’s the way it’s been in my life. Your children are your blessings love and raise them well to be stand up citizens, to reach their potential and Serve God.

My pigment challenged husband adopted my 15 yr old last year. She calls him "Padre", and in our village...We are just a family! KEEP LOVING EACH OTHER! ❤

It sounds to me that you and your husband are very kind, considerate, thoughtful and loving human beings who didn’t rush into any decisions. Congratulations to all 5 of you on your beautiful loving family.

It’s sad because I’m a healthy black single mother of one, who has been blessed w the gift of fertility. I’m from a very fertile family but I don’t want a bunch of kids. I’ve tried twice to donate my embryos or surrogacy, and twice I was denied.It’s sad because I know there is a shortage of black donors. Idk I think that’s by design. Anyway congrats on ur beautiful family🥰‼️

Little Ezra has so much love in his beautiful heart. I love to see his sweet smile. What a Daddy's boy!

I'm a white lady with an adopted black/Hispanic child. I strongly believe in his right to have access to his genetic family, and in their right to know that their child is ok as he grows up. I believe you made decisions that centered the best interest of your kids, which is exactly what a good mother should do.

I knew even before watching this video that the reason they had white/hispanic twins is because that's what was available to them at the time. It's a numbers game, you will have a higher number of white couples going through IVF and potentially donating embryos then you would black couples. Also, from watching them a few times it seems their #1 motivation is to have kids and it doesn't matter the race.

That’s wonderful that you and your husband thought about your children’s future needs and desires the way you did. I think y’all are incredible. You have a beautiful family. 👏🏼

I never understood how in depth embryo adoption was this was very informative thank you

I think that you explained it very well. The color of skin doesn’t matter, it is the love for a child. They are God’s precious children, and he chose you and Jarvis to be their parents.

My husband & I have been looking into embryo donation. It helps me to hear stories like yours. Your family is beautiful!!! The color of your skin doesn't make you a family....what connects you is your heart's. Congratulations & I love your family!!!

I never had problems getting pregnant, but I do know how much I wanted a baby. I understand how strong wanting a child is. Everyone deserves that experience. I wish you & your family all the best.

I have 2 donor kids. I’m single and used a sperm donor to have my babies. It really resonated with me when you said that there’s so much more than race when it comes to choosing the right donor. When I looked for my donor health history was very important. Once you start narrowing down your options end up being very few. There’s SO many things that are more important than race!

It seems that Jarvis and you just wanted to have children to love, to be a family. It doesn't matter what color any of you are. Those babies are blessed to have loving parents.

Wow…just wow. This video is a eye opener. You are a blessing to this world. This was such a beautiful and inspiring video. The part you said about not taking a donors egg because there white and that’s raciest was super true. Wonderful video❤️❤️❤️

I love how all the decisions you and your husbands made were out of love and security for your children. Every detail well thought out with great diligence. You are such a good mama🥰

Why ask why? Love is about celebrating the beauty in all colors!

Why do you feel you have to explain that subject your babies are your babies. You guy seem like your great parents and if anyone questions you let them go. You know what your doing. You and Jarvis go forward and be blessed with your beautiful souls and wonderful (babies) angels. God bless 🙏🙏🙏 you all, in Jesus Christ Holy name, Amen 🙏.

Bottom line - you love ur children and want the best for them - and knowledge is positive power God bless you

I have never watched a video of yours that doesnt blow me away!!! You have such a incredible heart and soul. The world really needs more humans like you! God bless. Sending hellos from Anchorage Alaska Tschandra

Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I didn’t know much about embryo donation processes until today. Thank you for being so open and educating us. I’m sorry that you experienced such hateful comments about your very personal life decisions on how to grow your family. You and Jarvis were very conscientious of your children’s future needs in choosing to have an open adoption and open embryo donation. You two are very good parents. Wishing you all many blessings!

This is such a great video. Anyone who is thinking about embryo adoption should watch this. It’s a teaching tool. You and Jarvis have put so much thought into this whole process including speaking to embryo adopted children, children from sperm donation, and children from egg donation. I’ve learned so much. TYFS 🌸❤️🌸

It's heartwarming to see how much you have tried to cover the many aspects.. Especially in the light of the long lost family shows telling how important genetic family knowledge and contact is

Congratulations, I'm happy you decided to get an open embryo adoption. Myself and siblings have experienced this. Some people who are adoptees struggle with identity crisis.. Even, if you grow up in a loving home most adoptees still want to know where they came from.

No matter why you made your choice, I am just in love with your family! You both have a wonderful and loving ❤️! That’s what matters the most!

I love love love they way you are thinking! My grandkids were adopted out of the family, many years ago. And I`ve had great communication with the families that adopted them, all the time. I see them a couple of times a year, and I`m the link to their blood family. They have always been allowed to ask me anything at any time. Or call me anytime they want. And we all have great chemistry. I have great respect for the adoptive parents, and have always wanted everything to be on their terms. Open adoptions and open embryo adoptions, are great for the kids. And they will definitely thank you for that decision , when they are older! Your kids are super lucky to have parents like you! xx

Literally my favorite thing about you guys is that you are breaking the race issue in a very proactive way. It shouldn’t matter what race your babies are, they are a gift to you and you and Jarvis are a gift to them. As long as everyone is happy and loved race doesn’t matter. Thank you so much for being you, because in my opinion you are breaking “social barriers” that shouldn’t be there to begin with.

When we project something hateful on to someone else, we’re usually dealing with our own fears. I’m gonna assume the vast majority of folks throwing shade are also not gonna be the ones donating embryos, or adopting children who still need to be raised. I was adopted at age 14 and can confirm that I didn’t care about looks or bloodlines, I needed love, stability, and security. If we aren’t being part of the solution what right do we have to shit on someone who is? Sadie and Jarvis I love your family, I love your love, any child that gets to call you mom and dad has been blessed. Carry on being beautiful souls and showing us how it can be done. 🤗

Ezra looks more and more like Jarvis. I know it’s not physically possible but it happens a lot in adoptive families. Lots of love to you guys 💕

I think you don't have to explain yourself to anyone because children are children it doesn't matter where they come from , you guys are great parents that's all that matters

We all belong to one race… THE HUMAN RACE!

Sadie, you and Jarvis are Angels! Your children are so lucky to have you both as parents! Sending you all love 💕

You and Jarvis are the best parents ever to Ezra, Destinee, and Journee love all your videos love you guys sadie your beautiful 💖💖💖💙💙

Good idea to talk to the grown up children of embryo donation! Great information on the process. Thinking of the kids’ feelings down the line is what makes you great parents! Thanks for sharing!

Your children will thank you for all the effort that you have put into keeping in touch with where they came from. Some people wouldn’t put in the work. God bless you x

I love that you thought about how the kids will feel in the future 🥰

I say those baby girls are tri-racial. You carried them, your beautiful black body nourished them, you grew them in your womb! They are a part of you, too! ❤️

MIC DROP GIRL!! Perfectly explained but no explanation needed by any means! The bottom line here is, your family, yours & your husbands decision in what you decide & what you choose & why you both chose it. They are loved no matter their race & everyone that follows this channel & knows you through it KNOWS this!! The kids, you & Jarvis are LOVED beyond measure sweet girl & you just keep doing you & your little family & I'll back you all 10000000%!!

You guys have been so thoughtful of behalf of all of your three children, I love that their health and happiness are the only criteria, not genetic or physical appearance. This is 100% gold standard for being a really amazing parents. Applause for you both!!!!! 🤗❤️

Your children are so lucky to have such thoughtful parents! God bless you!

This is a very private experience and decision. I really appreciate you commenting on this but I never thought twice. I have albinism. I am whiter than white and white hair and legally blind. My children are biracial. They have dark brown hair and brown eyes. Do you know that I had so many people asking me about my babies . They couldn’t believe I was their biological mother. Some thought I was the nanny. You are amazing people with beautiful children. I love your story.❤️

Congratulations on your twins, they are absolutely beautiful. I have enjoyed this journey with you so much. Following this journey with you has answered so many questions for me and my husband. We are considering this for ourselves. Ezra is such a lucky big brother. May you and your family always be blessed. 💖

Congratulations with extending your family! I’m so glad everyone is happy and healthy. And thank you for making this video! I’ve learned so much about embryo donation, something I never knew about. Really appreciate you sharing your journey!

Btw. If anyone gives you grief send 'em to us....we'll set 'em straight! Lol

Any child would be blessed to have such a loving mother and father.

Thank you for explaining this as such. I've never heard of this until today. Thank you to you, your husband, and your donor families. Many blessings to you all. ❤

These children are loved and that is all that is important.

That’s cool! Seems like you really thought through all your options and made the best decision for your family. Thank you for sharing a bit about your journey to parenthood of twins! Btw I thought that was so neat when you introduced your embryo donors. I never even considered that to be an option (a relationship with donors). (Edit) good gracious I am so sorry that people are so stupid, ugly, and rude!

You and Jarvis are AMAZING! You do everything from the heart and are passionate and informed on the decisions you make and I am so happy for you all and to watch your family grow!

This is a beautiful story. You’re an amazing woman hands down. The research, time and thought you and your husband put into this is awesome. Best wishes to you and your family and thank you for sharing and educating. ❤️

You guys rock. Literally watched one video (taking your twins to the Dr) and got sucked into this one! You don't need to defend nothing, enjoy your babies and love life ❤️

I'm so so happy that you were able to have kids in whatever manner you chose. The most important thing is LOVE!! I LOVE GUYS!!🤗😊🤗💜💜🎉🎉🎉

When I see your family i see loving parents and precious children not color

I don’t feel like you should even have to explain yourself!! Internet Trolls just have nothing better to do. So happy for your little family 💕

Ya'll are amazing!!!! I love how you thought about yourchildren's future and future feelings even before they were born or even on their way!!! You guys are wonderful parents and we need more like minded people in this world skin color should never matter love is love know matter how it happens your babies are extremely blessed having ya'll as parents!!!

We love y’all 🥰

The biggest piece of info that I learned from this video is that she said claimed Jarvis is the bigger “hot head” of the two of them. That caught me completely off guard. He seems “easy as Sunday morning “ LoL 😂!

Sadie…you are a breathe of fresh air! Congratulations on your beautiful baby girls! I am so happy that y’all were able to grow your family! Thank you for being open & honest!

I appreciate you taking the time to explain the thought process. This benefits the nosy people (me, if I'm honest!) and also provides awesome insight into how adoptions can affect the welfare of the children. It's a perspective people may have never considered. Kudos to you two for taking the time to diligently do the research and act accordingly. Many blessings and love you and the fam.

Your donors gave a wonderful priceless gift to a family, and then they were blessed in return. You guys are awesome! Love is love no matter the race! God bless you and your family.

Those three beautiful children have two loving parents, that’s all that matters.

Way to go you both for making sure no matter the color , the baby's are wanted as who they are and that you have kept a open relationship between you and their true backgrounds for them. They will love you two even deeper than you know.

Congratulations! You have made some very good points that I had never considered. Good for you! Your children are very blessed to have you as parents. God bless you all!

Sadie, you and Jarvis are the absolute best parents! Ezra, Destinee, and Journee are so blessed to have you both as their parents. I love your family so much and I love your videos. Nevaeh is a doll and I love to watch her interact with her nieces and nephew. She’s a wonderful aunt. Thank you for everything you do. Thank you for sharing your wonderful life and beautiful family with us!

Sadie and Jarvis whoever those people are that are saying negative things that they know nothing about should now feel like something that stinks on the bottom of shoes. You and Jarvis have been very wise in how you decided to do your embryo adoption, and so very considerate of your children’s future and their feelings. So many children suffer inside themselves because they know nothing about who they are and where they came from, and you and your husband have eliminated a lot of their struggles with that. God bless you, Jarvis and all of your beautiful children. And thank you so much for allowing us into your private life to enjoy watching your journey into becoming a beautiful family. God bless the Sampson family.

How awesome to go to children conceived as yours were, or in similar ways to get their perspective on their adoptions! I would never have thought of that. What wonderful parents you are and will be in the future.❤️

God is awesome! This popped up in my recommended videos. I wondered what happened to the additional embryos after a couple conceived. What you all did and are doing is smart, thoughtful, and responsible. Of course you all already know that. And thank you for documenting your journey.

I absolutely love how your family is full of love and acceptance. Keep doing you and what makes you happy.

Your beautiful children won’t be looking beyond the fact that you and your husband love them and that they are a part of a happy family. You two are pretty amazing!

My heart is so full of love and joy hearing about your beautiful family!! ❤❤

Just the fact that you did that much research and tried to put yourselves in the potential child's position and went out and talked to people in that situation, shows how beautiful your souls are. Wish there were more people like you out there, God bless 🙏

You don’t need to explain nothing. You are a true family built on love, the most sacred and real love.

You explained this so beautifully, everything about you is wonderful, those kids are very lucky. Love you. x

GROWN women doing your walk as GOD see’s fit 🙏🏽 I was wondering how your family was blended and you answered was so in lighting! Thank you for sharing Sis❣️

You two are wonderful, loving parents. I admire your whole outlook on what a family is. It's so beautiful!

This is the kind of love and acceptance that should be uplifted in our country!! Thank you for sharing mama!

At the end of the day Sadie & Jarvis are parents in the true sense of the way GOD intended. 'Color & race' are words GOD never presented. LOVE is the word to describe FAMILY. GOD BLESS ya'll's FAMILY.

I think what you’re doing for your children is absolutely wonderful! As a person who was adopted myself, it would have been awesome to have all that history and also know my biological parents. You’re amazing in my book because you absolutely right, who cares this is your life and your family. People are so horrible today, I mean more than I’ve ever seen in my life time. I can’t see how ANYONE could possibly dislike this or ANY of your videos but they’re here🤦🏽‍♀️. I have to say, this is very useful information your sharing here and it will help others that find themselves in the same situation. I can totally see how someone would ask you if you would be willing to adopt their child. Good job mamma!♥️ You take care of that beautiful family of yours and don’t give any attention to the haters. Race should not matter ever, besides…it’s none of their business!!!

I have so much respect for you! I am really impressed by how much thought you put into this and how much you considered your kids‘ future needs. Your kids are very lucky to have such loving and caring parents! I wish you and your beautiful family all the best!

Family is family it doesn't matter what color, the importance is Love♥️