Ugh-how we get in our own way. There are no perfect humans, so it’s illogical to think we would not require help! So grateful my life today is a team sport!
I agree and I still wonder because I do ask for help now in one of my worst points in life economically but I can't even find someone to give me a job. I don't know life, God works in mysterious ways perhaps.
I asked my mother for help when I was at my lowest and weakest. She didn't come. She didn't help. She is a lovely person (no really, she is) but she sees me as strong and independent and just left me with words of encouragement. I needed her to come and help me in my postnatal depression. She could have come but opted not to, thinking I would cope. I didn't. It was hard. I hated asking for help before, and I hate it even more now. I am always the first person to volunteer help for others but don't want to ask for it or even accept it for myself.
Dont matter how much u ask aint no 1 helping and no 1 cares been there heard it before we care but when it comes down to it ur alone so u understand to just ask urself for help.
But the problem for me is that if i ask for help the person im asking for it will automatically expand its chest..like he has done a huge job for me..i dont want that..
