Since men constitute over 85% of the membership of these dating apps they should use economic/consumer power to level the playing field like women did at Bumble. Membership could be restructured so women focusing on a limited segment of men pay hefty premiums for their membership on a per swipe basis.
Well men want the best looking women hence why a lot of them are single too. They get upset with women for wanting the best. Yet they won't date women who don't look s certain way
@@monasAre you really certain of that???? You think men haven’t tried going out with average women??? Men don’t mind being with a “plain Jane” at all, but guess what average women believe they deserve attractive men as well so they reject average men also.
As much as we want to blame simps, there are two main problematic entities here. 1. Daddy government. 2. Women would just rather be single than be committed to an average dude.
Yeah drake goes after my girl and he's a simp automatically.😂 (Hypothetical) Most men just don't care about the lady's status and he could even be a player with 9's and still look at your 7.
Big big facts. Social media and dating websites will have a 5/10 woman feel like a 9/10. This is mostly due to the amount of average men that constantly boost their egos and give them constant validation.
I been telling my friends this simps gas up these avg females thinking they're the world's greatest gift but more then likely those same avg females will not be able to keep an above average guy and by the time they realize it's not working and they should give the average good guy a chance it'll be too late
I find it’s usually the opposite for average women. Social media is fake and makes women feel terrible for not looking like filters. Not sure what apps your using but my experience is men ignoring or going out of their way to make fun of average looking women 😅
A lot of them choose to be single, because they make their own money, and they can get laid whenever. They only want a relationship when they’re in deep financial trouble, or they want a guy they can do relationship stuff with. A lot of relationships, and marriages fail, because most couples aren’t on the same page. A lot of males get into relationships due to fear of being alone, and a lot of wmn depend on those lonely “I need love” type of males for financial, and emotional reasons. That’s guaranteed to end in disaster. This is why guys need to focus on self improvement, so they don’t end up in situations where they get with a wmn who see them as a ATM machine. Stop leading with your wallet, and taking wmn you just met on expensive dinner dates. They don’t deserve a dinner date unless you already smashed, or y’all are in a relationship. If a wmn is really interested in you, it doesn’t matter where you go for a date, she’s just happy to spend time with you
If there are unwanted men, then there are also unwanted women but you are very welcome to pick up the left overs or you can come and compete for the better options like the rest of us do
its the ILLUSION of more options. Most of those top tier guys are not available to them outside of one night stands and booty calls, or as thier side piece
That’s why I won’t even date women over 25. Once they’ve accumulated all those bodies and “trauma” from flings with men that don’t want them, I don’t want them either.
@@ohtaesvnMen dont get dna shot inside them that forms soul ties via microcherism. Most females cant pair bond after theyve been with a certain number of ppl
And for some women thats all they want. A growing number of women are now preferring singleness rather than partnering with some fool just to end up divorced.
After you do all those things you get selective!! Most women aren’t worthy just for fun nothing serious because now you’re looking for the extraordinary woman.
I hooked up with this girl and she asked how tall I was, I told her 6'1 , she responsed "Ahh yeah that's average " I laughed out loud and said "nah it's only average to the guys you hook up with . The " average " guy you wouldn't notice . She just giggled and nodded ..smh these women are clueless
We as men lowkey got an advantage cause 90% of men are low value, so if you stay focused on your self and build yourself to be a high value man, then you become the CATCH.
If you can beat the average man, you’ll reach a lot of success in this world(success is greater than money) . Last year I was 315lbs, had mad acne, depressed with no h4es. Now I’m 230lbs, swole as shxt, no acne, best mental state I’ve ever been in rn , a couple girls I mess with + I learned Muay Thai and Jiu Jitsu and will have my first fight January 2024 + I just turned 20. No matter the age, self improvement is MANDATORY for results .
Excellent video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my marriage of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Some supposedly 'attractive' guy that are 8s or 9s might even end up not getting a single girl like ever? Some 10s baddies are seen with some under average guys that don't even have half the things 8/9 guys have. Women simply just want to boost their ego over men they can control and have something to boast about.
Without a doubt with technological brain washing. Of course its instinctive for a man to like a big rack and wide hips, but with how hyper sexual the world is now. It has corrupted men. About men not having a good women tho. It kinda tends to lean with a man not thinking hes good rnough for her or the bitch thinks highly of herself. Me personally, im an asocial weirdo who hates everyone. So ive seen some tbings go down and hear nasty work. There is still a chance for things to go good. However the deckine of good mirals is going down so it is scarce
That’s the thing they think it’s an inflation of options. Most of them are going for the guy they will never get. They just gone get they cheeks busted and wonder why Chad went missing. Then blame it on all men like they don’t ignore 80% of them
The bottom 80% of men are below a Average to them while the top 20 check the mark. Even then, the bottom 19 of the top 20 rank between average and good enough and only less than 1% of men are actually seen as attractive by women
The vast majority of women aren't worth dating anyway, so I say its a win for men. Technically men do not need women for anything. Honestly what can a woman do for a man in 2023?
I need women just for s. Otherwise ive no interest in them. No interest in cuddling kissing walking with her hand in hand etc. Just fcking sx. Im happy being alone at home, sleeping alone etc etc best thing ever 😊
As a woman, I can attest this is true. And honestly it sucks because you can’t help who you’re attracted to and I actually get mad at myself when I’m not attracted to someone. Which is pretty much most men like he says. So it’s my own fault I’m single. Although kinda not my fault either because I can’t help it. And the few men I’ve liked don’t always reciprocate because they can’t help it either if they don’t feel a spark with me. I’m starting to feel like it’s a miracle when two people actually fall in love.
Women brought back polygamy. Male virginity has trippled In 20 years, while 1/4 women have an STD. Om top of that There’s not even enough average men for women to go around. Women live longer than men, 97% of work related deaths Are men, 78.7% of self deleted Are men, and more women Are born than men. So even if every man on earth had a wife each there would still be a hundred million women without a man. On top of that women want a small pool of men. There’s 6000 women that turn 20 every single Day In America that all demand 6ft six figures But they bring the same. Not pure, not feminine, promiscous, not nuturing. So women Are bringing back top men having harems. Percentage of men 6’3 1% men making six figures 10% thats 0.1% just on height and income. Thats without counting is he handsome, masculine, In shape, stoic, dominant, kind, gentle, or if hes gay.
@@Gman1998 Kid i'm 38 years old, i was already mingling up extensively with girls when you where born in 1998 (a very memorable year for many reasons as i clearly remember). And we didn't have social media to rely on, go figure. So don't give me any lectures about going out and meeting girls when you don't even have the shred of my social experiences.
@@momoghost What women dating felons over Austin Dunham? Broke men? Those women are losers. Yea low value future single mothers want felons. Only women who's only value is their physical want criminals. Austin Dunham can beat out those men cause he got status and money.
Austin D man you are 1000 % accurate, and that is a big part of the problem, also women have poor judgement in men, and many have bad attitudes, I believe you have mastered this excellent job
The internet and social media has completely fucked up the world and possibilities for men to get into relationships, and it’s also completely fucked up a lot of women too.
@@monas Doesn’t matter if men made them because it still ruined it for men. Man creates stuff to destroy other men all the time. Look throughout history.
Being divorced at 48, and coming into this mess has just about killed my self esteem. I quit the the dating apps finally, after a couple years of no dates at all. The only hope I see is meeting someone irl. Now I have to learn to stand out from the crowd in talking. I never know what to say so I don't come off as a creep. I've watched all the dating advice I can handle. I can't imagine what the younger guys are feeling to. All I can say for you young guys is get your talking piece handled. Learn how to make em laugh and tease. Good luck everyone!
Long story short, men suffer early on but thrive as they get older/wiser women have fun early then end up alone with their cats once they hit the wall. This dynamic seems harsh for men right now (which it is) but in the long run it’ll be worth it fellas. The end.
Huhh that is IF you can get a young woman when youre an old man. If not youd be childless too. And my aunt is 62 way past this wall youre talking about, has no problem finding boyfriends
@@hanalala3164Older men have a lot more success dating young women than older women do dating men in general. And you’re delusional, your aunt doesn’t tell you her “boyfriends” are almost 80.
The sheer insanity is what gets me. I'm a guy who's spent years turning myself into a fit, attractive guy who has a physique very similar to this guy, developed a sense of confidence and charisma that is undeniable, and overall SHOULD be attractive to women. Yet I can't get any interest from girls. Meanwhile, I see average AF guys who aren't rich, charismatic, or attractive that are with girls who are smoking hot and easily 4-5 points higher than them on a 1-10 scale. It makes absolutely no sense and the logical part of my brain refuses to accept it.
Dont accept this bs. Women dont want a disciplined man when she can get a weak man with money and cheat on him with a guy like you. LOL we are in the Babylon system and women run this dating shit now.
God...As an Eastern European girl. What on Earth makes western guys think women from the East wait for them with open arms?! We don't want you either!!! There's a good reason western women don't want you and that's cause there's not an ounce of chivalry left in you. Good luck competing with Eastern guys, cause courtship is still a real thing here.
Judging by the divorce statistics, I'd personally conclude that they completely detest us.. If only 10% of men are chosen by 90% of ₩0MEN, and the divorce rate is above 70%.. this doesn't include the "Cheaper to keep her" or the miserable man that stays married. I'd say none of themwant us around at all.
Funny thing, im 6,2, atlethic and pretty muscular for a 16yo. I do take care of myself and my skin, im healthy. However where ai live girls only likes guys around 6ft or below, most boys of those that the girls like is often skinny, a stupid haircut, acne, and still somehow they get girls while the people who actually are handsome and healthy doesn’t. Wierd generation innit.
Their options are pretty horrendous too though. My eyes opened to this seeing the dating profiles of a few attractive girls I know. It’s mostly simp or creepy dudes flooding them with messages and then a few good looking player types that won’t commit. If their goal is a relationship, they’re just as optionless as most guys are for sex, unless they settle for far less…like most guys looking for sex. It’s the same problem on both sides just dif goals
Nah there are plenty of guys who want a relationship, but women just want the attention of high-value men even if it means they need to lose their self-respect
Don't believe you. Every girl I've seen the guys messaging them and at least a few are normal decent dudes. They still go 'he's not my type' for some stupid reason like forehead slightly too big or under 6 foot.
@@thelabarbiee No it isn't. The average woman has PLENTY of options in her prime years. It's rough if the woman is chasing these top 10% men hoping they will commit rather than staying in their lane. It's rough if the woman takes no accountability for chasing toxic relationships because these men give them the tingles.
I think another problem is guys don't approach women or are bad at socializing with women too. So many guys use dating apps and IG. They totally ignore going out and building social skills, a social circle and interacting with women. You don't need to be 6'3 and a millionaire just be the best be the best version of yourself and improve your game and you'll do just fine
This! If a man just cleans up and goes out on a somewhat regular basis, you get to know people, and will end up with chances with women by just being around.
@@banzaaiiiii their was one video where Austin I think his name is and his Turkish friend were asking girls to rate them and Austin got allot of 9’s and maybe a hand full of 2’s and 6’s and the Turkish fella got a whole bunch of 2’s- 5’s but at the very start of the video him and Austin got a 9 each by a columbian chick. I’m not sure if it was a short or not but I watched it.
I`m a similar nationality as his "turkish friend" and putting him as white is not accurate, better would be semi-white or semi-ethnic. Makes sense top tier blacks like Austin have very high smv and status and would also kill it with top Euro chicks around major cities here. Sometimes location plays a role also.
That’s cause the average woman is more attractive than the average man lol. Women put way more effort into their appearance and guys are finally realizing they have to put in effort. Remember that every time u think a woman looks bad without makeup, that u probably look like that all the time
Exactly! So many men would look so much better if they just made an effort! But instead they take online dating profile pics where they havent bothered to shave and they scowl at the camera :/ like, how DARE we not lower our standards for these godly men xD
Sorry to break it you , they ugly ones date women . But I've seen a lot of rich elite class men being bisexual or gay . It's women who are getting replaced cause they had very little to offer .
It ain't better in India as well Girls here don't expect all guys to be over 6ft or anything but they say they want a nice/kind guy but go after the bad boys and later talk shit about men overall
I work with an american woman. She's a total c**t. I've also noticed whilst travelling overseas that american women, whilst they like to go out and have fun, are very argumentative, narcissistic and sort o f arrogant. The only nice ones I've met were mid western christian types
youre so right, as a guy that has been to 36 countries i have been treated better by foreign women, escpecially one who was Scottish, american dating aint shit
Guys need to be a bit more honest. I think a lot of average men don't want average looking women. Women now today are so advanced with makeup and can make themselves look like Instagram models. As an average looking woman myself without glam, men act like i dont exist. But I see them go after glamorous women with the makeup, booty shorts, and tight pants and dresses. Even in school, i noticed the pretty popular girls would get attention from all types of guys. Average looking girls like me were mostly invisible. I hear guys talk about how 90% of women (even average women) are going after 10% of men. But I feel that 98% of men are going after mostly NON-average women. It's like a viscious cycle. Instead of a guy going after the pretty girl with the puffy lips, puffy butt, and skimpy clothes, maybe he can try to approach the average looking girl in the library or the market wearing two sweaters 😊 Us average girls arent landing dates either, cuz men so obsessed with these doggone glammed up fake women
Guys dont even be liking average girls like that. It's so messed up. I am an average looking female, and I'm constantly having average looking dudes tell me to put more makeup on or get my hair done. It's like dang, my hair is done and I don't want to wear a bunch of makeup. Sheesh
Not really , men's through out history , their values have never been based on how attractive or good looking they are. But , their values have always been based how much they can provides, protects and nowadays add how loyal they can be. And we know for a fact that good looking men and loyalty is like oil and water..
@@JA-xq6eq Yeah, because nowadays base on laws you cannot just put your hands on people no matter what. And who knows what these people might have on them, whether its a gun ..
@@JA-xq6eq Just imagine getting charged, ending up with a criminal record and losing your job , trying to protect some strangers, who probably won't care after you lost everything //
I agree with you in this message in what you say man don't need a women he needs a loyal wife and good mother for his kids thank you for your help and support .God bless you 🙏🙏
@@monas exactly. All men want to sleep with any woman on those apps. It’s laughable how they proclaim they would provide relationship to average looking woman.. 😂 they just try to sleep around and hope for some woman who is 10 to end up with. Then cry that women stop using the apps and not going on dates no more I am average woman and turned down all men on dates, because I could tell they are there to get laid and nothing more. wtf is that? If I stated I don’t want f/bodies, don’t waste my time. Say you not interested and don’t try to pretend you are just to get laid. Little man whor.s, and I was going for average looks men, they weren’t even good looking. What a trash 😂 And they speak when lonely : ‘average woMeN are entitleD 😂 Or women just don’t want to be used. By men who are not good looking anyway
Very true. I know a girl that had Aaron Judge slide into her DMs while on an away game in our city. Honestly, 10 years ago this was a basic chick you could pick up at the mall or smash at a house party. Now, no longer that simple. Social media and thirsty ball players/rappers/entertainers have truly ruined the game.
It’s because biologically women are more selective than men are when it comes to sex. Men on average suffer less consequences for having sex with multiple women, but women have to be more aware and selective because just one partner can cause a pregnancy. It’s nothing against men, its just women trying to protect themselves
The problem is that men admit defeat too easily. Womens standards haven't changed they want real masculine men they always have. It's the men who have changed they are less masculine they obsess over looks and man bags and beauty regimes. Just work out. Get your character and behaviour down. Treat women as a person, take a real interest dint view them as a piece of meat you want to ravish. And most importantly of all become a real masculine man. From inside. No acting no masks no fakery or swag or boasting or needy attention seeking behaviour. Do the inner work necessary. Looks are one thing but alone they are not enough. You need to have your emotions under control and be able to back up your physique and looks with a masculine mindset. Mindset will get you more dates than looks alone. Here is the guidance for the inner mental work needed. Once you have this down you will have no limits in any areas of your life. The art to masculinity by james Francis
@@veracity5977 This is what influencers tell you to keep you down, keep you needing them and to keep monetizing you. Maybe you cannot see this now but one day you will. Dont give up. What ever you want can be yours just believe in yourself. I'm 165cm and never had any problems Attracting women.
it goes both ways . i never met a man who would just be after most women . all men iv met in my life are picky . probably like one specefic type of women . which women dont have . like .. they dont specefie a single type of men to date . they just accept what they get but men usally have one image of what girl they want to date in terms of height , skin color , hair ... ect
If average men worked on their sex appeal and stopped worshipping “baddies”, the women would like those men too and the gap wouldn’t be as wide as it is now...
Exactly. Men who watch OF and too much porn give off this distinct aura of being too weak to hoes. It’s unappealing. It’s a huge factor in why good non-hoe women will not go on a second date.
I’m In the middle bracket and find no problem with women higher or lower status 😭😂😂😂😂 I love life wouldn’t trade it for another as I hope everyone else can say the same 🤟🏾❤️
Let me say this high value men are going through the same shit as any other men ask me how I know. Social media got women hooked on the idea of they can always do better
Social media have men also thinking they can get better. Many guys now believe they will get Instagram model looking chick when he gets older and have money and he rolls his eyes at average looking women
@@Noel-0noah he means that by avoiding western women u life will be better. Go to Asia, Europe, or any place where women are women and not a Masculine energy girl telling u that she don't need you
@@Ali-fx6jd 🤣🤣🤣 yeah yeah go there and be ready for the surprise package, here in asia Asian dudes be saying they'll run to west and the west be saying they'll run to asia, keep running when it's quiet clear that those dudes are the problem lol 😂
This is the only video that explains what I been trying to tell people women have an inflation of options even the below average females have options now thanks to social media so like he said they think the grass is greener so it’s throwing off the balance
I always hated when people say that. Some people being “themselves” isn’t good enough to attract women on a consistent basis. I would say, try being the best version of yourself. Try to push yourself to be the best you can be.
Sorry to say being yourself is not good enough 😂😂😂you have to be somebody else to get women because women can’t think for themselves they all like the same thing.
You can't have a plethora of men in your DMs that you don't find attractive or don't interact with and consider them options. More times than not, she doesn't even want the men in her DMs. The word "options" applies to men she sees potential in, and that's very few. The men in her DMs paint the illusion that she has so many to choose from, but in reality, she ignores 95% of those men.
chicken and egg situation slightly, she doesn't find them attractive due to the fact that the couple of higher value/attractive men who may have also messaged her are now the default for the type of men she thinks she can attract and (keyword here) SUCCESSFULLY retain, in reality the men she find's attractive would hit and never see her again so they're not an accurate gauge of her own sexual market value
Honestly looks are not that important , its more about status and confidence..im 41 when i was younger in my twenties i had a great shape better looks obviously than i do now , but not very high status...right now with better career more finances and confidence im much more desired by women although i can't say im unattractive but less attractive and more desired...so guys yes work on your looks but work more on your career and confidence
I’m an average looking girl. I get men in their 30s who are stereotypical “chads” message me but it makes me I’m uncomfortable because I’m only 19 and I only like normal guys my age. And FYI I only speak for myself
They have this delusion that we want old men lol I'm 20 and I'll never date anyone past 25 lol. It feels weird like I'm dating my dad or teacher😂 Plus they look older than their age. Yuck!
The reason why there are so many more attractive men in places like Europe and Japan is effort. Women are attracted to the men that dress well and put effort to look good. So many guys in the US make themselves look ugly by wearing clothing that doesn't look good on them or coming across as immature.
@@nihaln7330 Clothing and grooming are a part of looks. If someone wears torn clothing or something that doesn't look good it will bring down their attractiveness. Also, resources and dominant behaviors are an large factor in human mate selection by women. Looks are a huge party of selection for health markers. The whole "nice guy" thing is something that I think men made up. Any man I've known who described himself as a "nice guy" was not nice at all.
Not if you've got some serious money. And before you or anybody else says'' She's only after your money'' ...do you think she goes after footballers, rappers, Rock stars etc, etc because of their ''personality''? 🤣🤣🤣
Then they’re heartbroken to find out that in reality, when the makeup remover comes out, that they aren’t even a little bit attractive, then they wind up alone.
