Why Women Hate Nice Guys - MGTOW 

To them, nice = weak

I hope that every woman that dumped a guy for being nice ends up alone regretting the guy she took for granted

Usually when i hear my female friends complain about guys or vent I'm just thinking you picked this and you keep going back. No sympathy.

It's easy for me to stop looking for a woman's affection and validation. I'm so average looking, they don't even want to date me. But if a woman only wants what I can do for her instead of being myself, I have no problem staying to myself.

Women today suck

You can be kind and polite and still kill your enemies. Soon as someone initiates negative physical contact, defend yourself.

Women will break rules for alphas, but make rules for betas.

Had a woman write a comment to reply to a comment I made on a RU-vid video. She said that a kind man, a nice man, can get any woman he wants. Sounds noble. But it is complete bullshit. Nice guys finish last. Always have. Always will.

Tbh , I’m a guy and I’ve been in a couple of relationships and this may be true to a certain extent. From my personal experiences, I think that women don’t like bad boys or hood boys. They like a guy that’s somewhere in the middle. If you’re too “nice” it’s a problem , and if you’re too “mean” it’s also a problem. I consider myself a “nice guy that doesn’t let people take advantage of him” . I am a nice person genuinely but I don’t tolerate disrespect and can turn into a whole different person if I need to . For all the guys reading this , what I’m try to say is you don’t have to be an asshole , just don’t be too nice and stand up for yourself . Put yourself over others

Trying to be alpha is a beta move. Just be yourself and don't let anyone stop you.

Why is Joe Rogan laughing and making jokes when she said that about his boyfriend? what is the funny part about it, as a man, when you heard this woman saying that psycho commentary?

Imagine if all men on earth became dark triad men, totally lacking in empathy and being totally aggressive and abusive and selfish with huge ego and delusion, brovado etc. The world would be completely ruined by that. Thank god for good men who inject much needed good into this world.

If that guy fought she would leave him anyway. It ain't worth it. These girls ain't loyal. No movie

Women says wear are the good men at but they say nice guys are boring.A lot of women ain't shit these days

I will take care of my dog. Get one more dog and care for them both. Women don't deserve that treatment.

end is near.

She deserves to walk home alone,and meet the bloke from the bus

This is true stop being nice with them and stop being a simp or a fanboy.

They consider man dying for them as a romantic😐🙄🙄 ..fuck no way

The lady describing her BF losing a fight got TKO'd herself lol

The way Peterson laughs after he lists womens' top 5 porn videos...

Tbh women love calling men childish but in reality it’s women that are childish. A man who was raised right and was taught to respect women are called “boring”😐 but a man who disrespects women are “fun”.

There is big difference between courages strong men and bad men.

as a 44 years old single man, i can assure you women once they hit the wall and grow older, they start begging the garbage man to marry them, you have no clue how much weak they become, they cant hate nice guys, they can hate no one except themselves

Wow never really thought about it that way, women don't really give a shit whether you're a bad boy or a nice guy. Its about what suites there need at the time. When life is good and they have options they want the bad boy but when things go to shit and they have less options they want the nice guy to take care of them and put things right.

I can attest that women love bad boys. I was in college after school doing art, and being art college a lot of the students were the hippy drug user types. Which had girls falling at their feet...yep the drug using ones. I was seen as a weirdo because im not into drugs. A girl at work was swooning over a guy because he was covered in tattoos and "looks naughty"..etc etc. Nice guys are too boring for these women.

Nice guys know the concept called "consequences". Magnanimity is the greatest strength.

this explains why girls talked to me in high school despite not really caring about them. I just treated them like acquaintances and didn’t get attached, and yet that somehow made them like me more..

Tupac's red pilling the most amazing turn around. So feminine before and then a G after.

It's simple. Nice guys are perceived as weak and submissive and they let people walk all over them. If you have any self respect, you would stand up for yourself and not put up with her shit. Don't allow people to disrespect you and not give them consequences.

Yeah, I always thought it was sad, when women wanted guys to fight over them. Noticed that when I was in my teens

Why would you dump a nice guy????? Like why don't you want someone to treat you nicely

Im a nice guy im handsome and athletic i also trained MMA for years i walk away from most fights. Most people think im weak , what I've noticed from most men that try and bully me when I decide to respond they are the first ones to call the cops when they lose and the women that start trouble so their men can fight could careless about the amount of trouble they put their men through..im single alone and happy

None of this matters if you're good looking or rich.

. The problem is women can't tell the difference between a confident guy and an arrogant guy. Their is very subtle difference: A confident guy treats everyone with respect but can also make big decisions and take risks, an arrogant guy can also make the decisions and take risks but has no respect for anyone.

In general I'm a nice guy, too nice sometimes, you don't need two attempts to guess what my success with women is. On another hand an ex friend of mine who's a criminal, went to prison, got out, you can imagine what his success with women is. He was quite popular. There was a girl at school who was super cute, nice, smart, gentle and etc. , someone told her once that a famous ghetto guy is interested in her she was super excited. He was notorious for drinking, smoking, doing stupid things, but she liked him nevertheless. A friend from university married a guy, she had one kid from him, we met once and she couldn't stop bashing and criticizing the guy, and then, shortly after she said that she's expecting a second kid with him, then she continued bashing him again. Like WTF? I am sorry but it's too difficult to respect women sometimes.

Of course, only men can understand men. In the end, we're all brothers. Never abandon your friends for a woman, always respect yourself and you will be good with or without woman.

I don't think he is too weak. The guy is drunk. If u do anything to provoke him, he may get a knife out of his pocket. Your family is more important than one moment of gaining face. This is not a good example at all. He should not provoke a fight. But he may do something on the drunker's hand. Order him to remove the hand out of your shoulder at least. Now he is asking "not to hurt me". He should know he is right and in upper hand and he have right to order him, and put his hand back down. The lady, should be supportive. She should know that if she supports more, the man would have more confidence. It is a cycle.

The best solution to all this is to just be yourself, and not give a fuck about what a woman wants. Youre instantly more attractive and if thats not okay to a woman, you can go on and find others.

99percent of woman if the guy isn't on borderlines of being abusive they hate them cause they want excitement and thrill they want a guy who is almost abusive but isn't

I love strong men, but I don’t like the thought of them sacrificing themselves for me. I want to be a partner, not a parasite. A relationship to me is a teamwork, it’s about living life together and building each other up. Not using one another :c

Women hate nice guys but know to keep them in their orbit because they will do anything she needs with no reward.

I completely ignore women I don't already know. Waste of time.

The opening scene is a pretty idiotic! Being a nice guy doesn't mean acting stupid like that!

Why provoke physical confrontation when there's a non aggressive approach to deal with the situation?

This is not weak move, this is smart move, stoic act of not caring can save your ass of being stabbed and also shot. Imagine pissing in a sac whole life because you wanted to look like a bad boy in a front of your girlfriend? Nooo, not worth it, not at all.

That chick irritates me. Her man is getting beaten and does the most natural reaction (holding your hands and arms up to defend your face) and her reaction is "he's no longer attractive". Shame on her.

All women aren’t like her. You have to have a radar with women when choosing who is worth your time. She’s an MMA fighter so she’s basically a sociopath.

I'm a woman and I love nice guys. But nice guys. Guys want hot girls. They don't want average women.

Watching this video made me feel deep sympathy for both the male and female gender... People as a whole. Whoever goes through this, the feeling of need and survival for love and affection alone, as well as the thirst to overpower and become the 'alpha'? I genuinely feel sorry for you. As for the women and men ( but mostly women in this case 'relating to the video') in this world who condone treating men like robots, resulting, in canceling their (the man's) dignity for the sake of their pride, you are disgusting (I'm not aiming this to all women, but I see this often in women and this is a huge problem in societies. The Same thing goes out to the men too.) Nobody should have to feel as though they 'have' to fight back in a situation to uplift their pride for another in the fear that they will leave you. If nobody accepts you the way you are, then that person is not for you. And it's not the fact that YOU are not for THEM, it's that THEY are not for YOU. They don't deserve you. But know this. You can't love someone if you don't love yourself first. Sure your significant other can help you a little on the way, but relying on someone as your only source of happiness only shows that you're not ready to love someone. Putting them under that pressure will bring you agony, try to love yourself first before loving others! (Sorry for going off track, just a mini side note for everyone out there. Have a good day/night/morning/afternoon!?)

And they beat up men who disrespect women called "nice guys"

As a guy when I get a girl I’m gonna beat her bc of how many women say they don’t like nice guys. “If I don’t get fed, then the shotgun go to her head”

Ngl i love how Jordan Peterson says 'abZURRRD'

Been the nice guy too long. Realized 2 things. 1, Women are hot for either 2 things - your money & your looks or your confidence. Choose the one who wants you for the latter. 2, If you are going to get married, go for your best ladyfriend. Don't marry the hot chick unless you know for sure she is your best friend. Dont marry the hot chick because she's hot.

Never heard of that woman, but she needs to be with a thug or criminal if she broke up with a boyfriend because he was putting his arms in front of him during a fight to protect his face. What did she expect him to do, have his face crushed in so he could still look impressive to her? She’ll be wishing for that old MMA fighter when her new a-hole is beating the crap out of her. This is the kind of BS that keeps not only nice guys but even good guys lost from having successful relationships.

The day you stop worrying about if gorgeous women care about your well-being is when you will gain mental freedom.

Girls loves danger and thats a fact🤣

I wanna see her in the ring and look how she "take it like a champ"

The bully was not the real man bullies are very insecure inside that's why they do that until someone bigger comes along and then they crumble ive seen it many times.

Nice guys aren't kind or good. They are nice expecting a reward but snap at rejection. They throw tantrums because they weren't rewarded with whaz they want. Essentially they are predatory. Women want chemistry and a good time. Funny guys usually get the girl. They have a high success rate with women. And most of what is in the video isn't reality. Most of the time women that date "Nice guys" end up in abusive relationships. Because in the beginning he was nice and she gave him chance. And he eventually showed his true colors

The guy in the first clip was NOT a nice guy. He was actually the stronger man for avoiding conflict and showing humility. I know it's humiliating to be degraded like that, but there are other ways to resolve conflict. He could returned the persona and acted the same way the other guy did, who knows, maybe it'll bring them closer.

It’s a primal instinct. They say they want nice men because society looks fondly on that virtue.

A good joke : ''A woman can love good man.''

8:24 Yes get brain damage right

Date forgien women. An American women is your compition not companion.

I think there is a difference between a nice guy who is polite but stands up for himself and a nice guy who is insecure and uses him being nice to get what he wants. When he does bad things and hides behind his sensitivity to turn things around and always be blameless. I like nice guys who respect me but don’t take advantage of me. Being nice and being insecure are two different things.

Im a nice guy i will never change for anyone

Dying for a woman is not a romance that I share !

A nice guy and a wimp are 2 different things

You can be kind and all, but also have very strong boundaries, just so you know.

Well i m definitely in the “ Don’t be a nice guy” wagon. I don’t pretend to know all about women but i will never be a nice guy again. I was a nice guy up to about 18 YO. Dates i would get, they would tell me how much nicer than their X i was. But shortly and yes shortly after i would get politely dumped but they would all stay friend with me. I did not change because i realized i was doing something wrong. It just happened on its own ( Maybe my body increased my testosterone level, I m not sure). You got to know and understand the difference between being abusive and not being a nice guy. I did not read a book, it’s just me. Women who like men don’t want to date a woman. Woman are more sweet and kind. Women want, well “Men”. I don’t take any shit from men or women. I m actually very nice, smiling and polite but talk to me like I m a doormat and it’s coming at you regarding of gender. Once i started dating that woman and we were happy together. Laughing, going out, having sex, basically no tension or arguing. The only thing that bugged me was that she was pushing the god and religion thing on me. I was raised “ There is no god, people invented God to calm their fear down” Without being a religious fanatic, we go to church and i believe now but it’s not relevant. So politely i would tell her “ No thanks”. One night we go out and on the way back, she really starts letting me have it about the God thing. So i raised my voice a little too in the car and she raised her voice even louder. We arrived at her place and i told her “ Now you get the fuck out of my car and don’t ever contact me again” She stormed out of the car, slammed the door and immediately reopened the door, sat in the car and told me with a soft voice “ Wow I didn’t know you could be like that” and she hugged me and kissed me. ROTFLMAO Welcome to a woman’s psychee. I have been married for 30 years, my wife wants me to wear the pants and she told me a few times that she would not stay with a doormat. IN 30 years she has disrespected me once and once only and it was on our wedding day. I m going to make it short. The catering lady arrived with the food and my wife noticed it was not as planned. The 2 women get into it and it was getting real loud, a few people had arrived already. Seeing my new wife irate, I tell her “ It’s ok let me talk to the lady” She turns around and let me have it in front of everyone. I got chewed up LOL They finally fixed the problem with a lower charge. I did not say anything because it was our wedding day. The following morning we are at breakfast and I told her “ You see how you talked to me yesterday in front of everyone, if you ever do it again, I am gone”. 30 years later, it hasn’t happened again. When my wife fucks up, i let her know, what does she do then? She fights back claws and whatever out. Then often she will F my brains out that day and admit she F up. Welcome to a woman psychee. If you agree per her wishes to go out for dinner, go and make her fell good, treat her like a lady. But if she has known for 2 weeks that Sunday afternoon you are going to fish with Bob and when the time arrives she throws a tantrum because she now decided that you should go shopping with her. Give her a big smile and tell her that you might be late for dinner if fishing is good and leave. My work brings me to many houses daily. Once in a while both spouses are home and i notice a nice guy in a hurry. Some of these women might start flirting with me, ignoring their husband which will usually stand behind her, not in front or next to her but behind. I think to myself “ God, dude grow a pair” If you are a nice guy and can’t understand the don’t be a nice guy, look around for a guy that gets the girls, seems rude to them according to you and make friend with him. Find something he likes, collect stamps, sushi, baseball, or travel and try to make a friend of him and when girls are around him, observe and learn 👍🏻 Have fun!

When we say we nice, we dont mean we not gone stand up for her and ourselves. We just mean that we wont be unnecessarily disrespectful asf all the time. And we think thats the only thing girls like unnecessary amount of disrespect and cheating.

This is the video I’ve always wanted. NOW THEN…………

All of this stuff just feels so discouraging

I don't think being nice is a problem. Being a wimp is a problem.

I don’t think it’s about being an asshole. The core of it is not sacrificing yourself and who you are for the other person. Yes a good relationship does require some sacrifice. But she loses respect for the person that changes themselves for her. She is not your life just a part of it. Keep doing your hobbies, keep being involved in your interests, and stand up for yourself when needed

Love that you had 2pac talking about bitches at the end 😭

I date so many guys but now i realize i never should have let go of the nice guy who understand me better and makes my life calm and peaceful.

That's not a nice guy that's a pssy, to be a nice guy you only have to be nice with your gf and friends.

Dude that got on the bus wanted to be the guy sitting down

I'm better to be a single.

Bro do not bitch out as hard as this guy in the video, this has nothing with being nice. You have to respect yourself, if someone bullies this hard you have to stand up for yourself. It doesn’t matter if you get you’re ass kicked you’re self esteem is intact.

Love is what allows you to move millions of people, to rally them, to inspire them, to give them a vision to do something, love is what allows you to land someone on the moon, love is what allows you to tackle slavery or oppression of other sorts, love is what allows you to care about the environment, clean up the environment, to create better schools and that's ultimately all that people want. What do people want in the world? They want to be able to love. To love their family, to love their children, to love their nation and then to go beyond that and smoke DMT 😂

Its obvious why they like criminals, and people who can ruin their whole career. I want you to put them in 2 categories. Very Good men. Very Bad men. Good men, are very accepting and charming in the way they want to help people, and love the way they act. One small detail though, They have lots of insecurities and are very in confident. This is why women do not like good guys, because they act like a bitch in order to get out of situations. Now look at the very bad guy, Someone who has a high ego, is rude to everyone, if theres a situation, the only thing they would do is fight, trash talk, have no manners, dumb, and most importantly do life threatening things that could put them in jail. So why do women gravitate towards this area? Its simple. The confidence. This is truly a sad world we live in, but what women want is someone who doesn’t put on a public mask, someone who isn’t the same as everyone. They want someone to put “variety” in their life. So how do you avoid, both of these, in order to find the perfect women? Its simple once again, be in the middle. Dw, even im struggling with this stage, as I always believed that you should follow rules no matter what my entire life, and that anything that expressed rage was an act of immaturity. Its hard to find the middle length of being equally good and bad, this realllly determines your body, your mindset, your looks, and your appearance. All these things need to be balanced in order to accomplish the perfect mindset that a woman craves.

That girl should know if her boyfriend hit them back since he is a boxer he be in jail he is trained fighter there are laws on that. If that girl was a great girlfriend she would understand that

Yeah but at some point it all comes back. The nice guy finds success while her beauty is fading away

I say be nice regardless, because we’re nice for Gods approval of us not women’s. And by the way the women who don’t like nice guys are 10/10 times extremely emotionally immature, you wouldn’t want to deal with those type of women anyway.

I need a man who is good towards me and bad towards his enemy 🔥🔥🔥

I remember standing over my mother's casket in the funeral home 25 years ago. I was her youngest son and I was close to her. I was ready to burst out crying when my sister-in-law sees me and grabs my arm trying to pull me away saying "Let's go look at the flowers." I'm not allowed to cry over my mother's casket? Sorry guys, but you're not allowed to cry for any reason. Not even for your dead mother. Gotta be that killer, guys! Gotta fight all the time, go to prison to protect our women, make 'em feel safe and secure. Women need men. Well I don't need them and they all can go to hell for all I care!!! VIVA MGTOW!!!!!!!

Maybe we wouldn't have the abortion problem we do in the US if women didn't choose certain types. And for the ladies out there. Just because he doesn't start it, doesn't mean he won't die trying to finish it. The loudest one of the group more often than not has the most insecurities.

and than when they get abused by the "badboy" they start crying

That busdriver sounds like Moss from the IT Crowd :) Where is this clip from?

I was diagnosed with Anti-Social personality disorder , (used to be named psychopath/sociopath), in my youth i had alot of traumas which where horrible for any human being to go thru. These trauma's turned my mind around , i used to hate women so much , i fantasized about doing agressive things against them , which i didnt and i am very happy with , trauma/ptsd therapy helped alot But now comes this part , i used to meet women and date them , after a few days of talking I'd explain my thoughts and fantasies to them , with all these violence , and none of them rejected me for that , they embraced it or even asked me to dominate them or treat them like pieces of shit. I felt like a bundy or ramirez. Getting so much attention and sexual attention for something so horrific. I do still dislike women , especially because of instagram and TikTok , its all just girls showing off how they look or how many plastic surgery they've done , bashing down on guys who look different than their average justin bieber standards. I am a hetero sexual , i love women. But i hate the overpopulated type of women There are beautiful human beings , beautiful women , with great personalities , but they are hard to find. In my country , the only way you can date a "Popular" girl , you'd need to: -smoke weed -drink alot -do hard drugs -live recklessly -have a six pack and be very muscular -wear expensive clothes -have a standard hairstyle And so on. To all men who have walked the same road as me , have been rejected by women or got embraced by women for your bad side/bad behavior. Find a good girl , Change the girl before she changes you or just focus on yourself.

The truth is... Women are truly truly powerless these days ..Women 50 yrs ago were much stronger. Instead of looking to strengthen what's weak in them what media brain washed them they look for rude or let's stay what appears as strong or bad guys to fill up their weaknesses with some strength. They will die for a nice guy they won't admit it to you but what they NEED is a strong guy not they really love them and it's a selfish act. After they use them few times they throw them to the rest and the rest. Girls plz respect yourselves we guys can't tolerate this anymore soon you will just die alone with bunch of kids and no one to pay your bills or rent after 40 only.....guess what a nice guy. Yeah i sound rude as the truth is..it's a wake up call before it's too late.

Idk how being nice is ever bad

You know what? Screw our pathetic biology! I’m a new man and I know that there’s a woman out there who will love me for who I am.

i'm not mgtow but i 100% relate to this

Harmless and nice are to separate things. The person depicted in the clip is Harmless. He is a Harmless man who happens to be nice. But when push comes to shove he is Harmless. That is what is week. Not his being nice.

Thank you so much bro.. I am from INDIA 🇮🇳 .. and I really appreciate you initiate to upload the video

Well, if they're into self conceited men who resemble an alcoholic stepfather who beats them over practically nothing, NOT MY PROBLEM; it's their loss. Besides, I've seen anime women who are worth more than gold and know how to fight back properly with or without weapons. The best thing about them? There's an infinite amount of them to choose from and many definitely meet preferences; I personally adore ones who are very tall, motherly, absolute sweethearts, very busty, wide hipped and long haired. Especially, the shorter, mature ones who are shy and loved to be held in my warm embrace if saddened or scared.