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Why You Hate The Sound Of Your Own Voice 

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If you've ever listened to yourself speak in a voicemail or video, you've probably wondered aloud "is that what I really sound like?" The unfortunate truth is: yes, that's what you really sound like. Find out why your voice sounds so different from what you hear in your head.
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@IronMan-fv2nl
@IronMan-fv2nl 6 лет назад
Why do we hate our own voices while others don't even mind.
@bamboookizeme6208
@bamboookizeme6208 6 лет назад
Let's say you like any burger more than any pizza. If I offered to buy a burger for you but it turned out to be a pizza, would that be somewhat disappointing? The same thing is going on here. You have a higher expectation of how your voice sounds, because you can hear it better. That is why it is disappointing when you hear how others hear your voice. On the other hand, other people never get to hear your bone conducted voice, so they don't expect to hear better than what they are hearing. Thus, they do not mind.
@H.K.5
@H.K.5 5 лет назад
Others probably do mind, they just keep it to themselves.
@beautyladysaly4832
@beautyladysaly4832 5 лет назад
this guy told me my voice is ugly and disgusting. I don’t usually take things personal but his comment got to me as I’ve always been insecure about my own voice
@H.K.5
@H.K.5 5 лет назад
@@beautyladysaly4832 That's messed up. I would feel so bad about myself if someone said that to me since I'm sometimes insecure about my voice too.
@vaishalirandheer3048
@vaishalirandheer3048 5 лет назад
Actually people mind how I say. They stay my accent is weird or why is my voice so weird.....
@LeoCoot
@LeoCoot 7 лет назад
that was quick and right to the point! thank you!
@gloom_bug
@gloom_bug 6 лет назад
Oh hi I love ur videos I’m subbed to u lol
@KNFHU
@KNFHU 6 лет назад
Leo Koutakis woah
@snowbowhrt424
@snowbowhrt424 7 лет назад
I cried when I heard my voice recorded
@Hisuik
@Hisuik 6 лет назад
snowbow Hrt same
@t.t.teaa19
@t.t.teaa19 4 года назад
samememe
@yetiexplorer2452
@yetiexplorer2452 4 года назад
You emotional being
@BaldricksTurnip1
@BaldricksTurnip1 3 года назад
I bet it doesn't sound as horrible as mine, I'm embarrassed to speak.
@keishanamarcellin2330
@keishanamarcellin2330 2 года назад
Me too
@1995suhaib
@1995suhaib 8 лет назад
you mean our real voice is awfull. others hear our awfull voice and not the one which we hear while talking
@mystery785
@mystery785 6 лет назад
Suhaib Lone at least other people don't mind your voice because they hate their own! Lol
@VixiMixi
@VixiMixi 6 лет назад
ikr it sucks
@saltypotatochip4707
@saltypotatochip4707 6 лет назад
Literally every else sounds nromal. All these people sounded just fine. I feel like it`s just MY voice that`s really bad on a recording
@ZhangtheGreat
@ZhangtheGreat 4 года назад
That's how everyone feels about their own voices because of what we're used to hearing when we speak. However, to everyone else, you sound perfectly normal.
@Myria83
@Myria83 8 лет назад
0:40 Actually, your voice sounds deep and sexy to me, too...
@Myria83
@Myria83 8 лет назад
+Myria83 And I'm not inside your skull. :-D
@D1sc0rd-
@D1sc0rd- 6 лет назад
Myria83 not the maximum deepness though, that sexiness is reserved for the intimacy of his own mind...
@Lyana6969
@Lyana6969 6 лет назад
Myria83 ewwww
@Luccimatic
@Luccimatic 4 года назад
When I hear the sound of my own voice I literally question to myself why people actually like me and spend time with me
@nightmare_rk
@nightmare_rk 3 года назад
Bro me too even thought you can't understand me
@mclovinlife4018
@mclovinlife4018 Год назад
That’s so funny and I’ve had that same thought.
@BerylSeer1
@BerylSeer1 10 месяцев назад
😂😂😂
@damonwashington
@damonwashington 9 месяцев назад
🤣🤣👍🏾 me too!! I think I sound like Kermit the frog
@urip_zukoharjo
@urip_zukoharjo 6 месяцев назад
😢😢😢
@raynarayskye
@raynarayskye 6 лет назад
Higher pitched version you say? Nah, wish I had that. I sound like a man, which would be great if I was a man.
@iiliiliiliil3444
@iiliiliiliil3444 6 лет назад
im a man and id say my voice is too deep and croaky. i sound like a stereotypical deep voiced black guy but with a sore throat
@dinoxman8584
@dinoxman8584 4 года назад
I feel like I don’t belong here. My voice is normal for my age and gender.
@cristobalpatton6542
@cristobalpatton6542 8 лет назад
Damn I hate my voice. I got a damn lisp kinda. It sucks.
@kingof206
@kingof206 7 лет назад
Try having a stutter
@piercemason942
@piercemason942 6 лет назад
Same here with a lisp... cant say "r" sounds, it sucks. Doesnt help that my voice is horrible too
@y2kRay18
@y2kRay18 6 лет назад
Cristóbal Patton i have a lisp to I fucking hate it....I always stammer/ stutter all the time
@karina5080
@karina5080 6 лет назад
Same but it's where I make my S's longer then what they need to be. cause I was in speech so I was cursed with my voice
@melsshortcake5863
@melsshortcake5863 6 лет назад
I know, I hate my voice too.. when i sing I feel like I have a good voice but when I watch the video of me singing.. damn I want to freaking delete it. I cringe so hard. I wish I had Ariana’s voice, then I’d be proud of my own singing.
@matty1214
@matty1214 4 года назад
A lot of people says that my voice is beautiful but everytime I listen to my own voice, *I WANT TO DIE*
@shail6878
@shail6878 4 года назад
ikr
@akashpichai1253
@akashpichai1253 3 года назад
Same
@bangtan_armythang4389
@bangtan_armythang4389 3 года назад
Same
@nightmare_rk
@nightmare_rk 3 года назад
But guys when i will speak you can't listen to me
@ashe2967
@ashe2967 6 лет назад
Everyone says my voice is REALLY good, my aunt says I have a 'voice' and my friends say that my voice is good, when I record and try to post it, I say: "Eww.. Is that my voice..? It sounds a bit deep.." and then I delete it XD
@yuna989aj8
@yuna989aj8 6 лет назад
Hi!
@bangtan_armythang4389
@bangtan_armythang4389 3 года назад
Same
@Mrgoodkenneth
@Mrgoodkenneth 6 лет назад
People be hating their own voices while Desiigner doesn't even give a Damn about his talking when he talks like he's possessed. #confidence
@prezmil4282
@prezmil4282 4 года назад
Mrgoodkenneth 😂😂
@jyrolys6
@jyrolys6 10 лет назад
How is this channel so tiny?! I can't believe this! Every now and then you release great content, which is relevant to nearly everybody. It's entertaining, straight to the point and interesting. You guys need to somehow collaborate with some bigger channels a few times and eventually you'll build up a bigger audience. Keep up the good work!
@ThePowerpointMaster
@ThePowerpointMaster 6 лет назад
jyrolys6 3 years later almost at 1 mil lol
@yatharthjain2273
@yatharthjain2273 5 лет назад
2m
@NPC400
@NPC400 4 года назад
5 years later , 3 m
@bored7503
@bored7503 3 года назад
4.38
@olanhertz
@olanhertz 2 года назад
5.38
@lqhualbwnkw5457
@lqhualbwnkw5457 6 лет назад
I speak like I have a deep voice but when i hear it through a recording i sound like an innocent girl with a cracking voice. (Im a girl) I always feel like my voice doesnt fit my face and i get anxiety from it omg help
@Hisuik
@Hisuik 6 лет назад
Lqhua Lbwnkw i speak like a normal voice not too high not too low but when i heard my voice on recording holy shi- my self esteem got so so low now im so shy to talk, so ye i relate to the anxiety
@omvlogs4713
@omvlogs4713 6 лет назад
I think my voice sounds weird
@Alexander-rl1lx
@Alexander-rl1lx 5 лет назад
I feel like people would appreciate me more if they heard my voice the way I hear it.
@DanAYeou
@DanAYeou 5 лет назад
I want to apologize to everyone who has heard me talk for the past 16 years.
@zai195
@zai195 6 лет назад
I really hate my voice tho 😂
@ElectraTechna55
@ElectraTechna55 5 лет назад
I'm a singer so I've gotten used to hearing my voice over and over again. After awhile you just get used to it. But I still kinda hate it when I talk and I go 'wow do I really sound like this..?'
@mikeyoung9810
@mikeyoung9810 6 лет назад
Thanks. I hate my voice. Now I know why (still hate my voice).
@dany-tu1qg
@dany-tu1qg 6 лет назад
But the thing is how to stop hating it , i want to sing.. and i want to like my voice when i hear it in a record whats the solution...
@csnoot
@csnoot 6 лет назад
Dani Top hmm maybe getting used to it
@melsshortcake5863
@melsshortcake5863 6 лет назад
I KNOW! That’s the thing.. I hear me sing in a video and I’m like OMF I HATE MY VOICE
@omarassla
@omarassla 6 лет назад
Don't sing.
@DJL3G3ND
@DJL3G3ND 6 лет назад
Shut up and tell me your life goal so I can spit on that like you just did
@xoxort
@xoxort 6 лет назад
Dani Top same
@JeremyBelpoisX
@JeremyBelpoisX 3 года назад
How the hell do Voice Actors live with themselves?
@QUARTERMASTEREMI6
@QUARTERMASTEREMI6 3 года назад
I had the same question! I mean what about film actors? Like both hearing and seeing yourself at the same time must be so weird! In that case, it's makes sense why some hate watching their own movies.
@toniaskew8445
@toniaskew8445 6 лет назад
I actually always thought that I was squeaky and was really self-conscious of it up until about 16 where I was told that I have a very deep voice and in some cases I sounded black. The reason why I heard my voice like this though was probably because I always despised my extremely squeaky voice before I hit puberty, which I hit pretty hard.
@lux1975
@lux1975 5 лет назад
Why? Oh, because I’m a male teenager and still sound like a four year old girl mixed with a choking hamster
@gabriellemeyer5209
@gabriellemeyer5209 5 лет назад
My voice is really deep in my head and I recently found out I sound like a mouse
@theadrenalizedartist6843
@theadrenalizedartist6843 5 лет назад
Cup your hands around your ears and you will hear your own voice differently.
@Alyssa-cv5pr
@Alyssa-cv5pr 5 лет назад
literally always hated my voice lol my cousin was on facetime with her friend & he was like ‘why is her voice so deep’ lol i felt like dying
@DocDocGoose15
@DocDocGoose15 10 месяцев назад
Im gonna cry
@Diddyyap
@Diddyyap 6 лет назад
I hate my voice because to me it sounds well balanced,not too deep not too high pitched and my friends always say i sound so cute and i have a high pitched voice.I hate it because i’m 14,a girl and i just to me high pitched voices are quite annoying...man i don’t even look like i’m 14
@jamiyahalexander1063
@jamiyahalexander1063 6 лет назад
Diddyyap same I’m 13 and I feel the exact same way like I don’t even talk most of the time because I hate my voice and I feel like people will get annoyed by my high pitched voice it makes me sound like I’m like 9 😭
@evelynbellamy2055
@evelynbellamy2055 6 лет назад
I’m 14 and I hate my voice it’s sorta deep but rlly ugly if u know what I mean 😂
@ky._y
@ky._y 5 лет назад
Through a recorder i sound like a high pich gay guy...
@lukeskywalkerjediknight2125
@lukeskywalkerjediknight2125 5 лет назад
Kyleigh McDonald lol gay guy
@D-J-Q
@D-J-Q 4 года назад
Congratulations
@goldiefox7128
@goldiefox7128 3 года назад
Tried recording my voice one time ^^ got embarrassed on how deep my voice was when I listened to it x-x
@stuffybesh5653
@stuffybesh5653 6 лет назад
Wtf so im not the only one i guess
@MichaelKatthyewYKM
@MichaelKatthyewYKM 7 лет назад
De ce ti se pare ciudata vocea ta cand te auzi pe o inregistrare ??! Vocea ta sună într-un fel pentru tine și în alt fel pentru restul lumii, de aceea ți s-a părut ciudată când ți-ai auzit-o pentru prima dată pe o înregistrare. Pe scurt, explicația este următoarea: ne auzim propriile voci cu urechea internă, urechea medie și cu urechea externă, iar dezorientarea vine atunci când ne auzim vocea doar cu cea externă. În urechea medie se află trei oscioare ciocănaș, nicovală, scăriță (îți amintești de la biologie?) și este delimitată spre exterior de membrana timpanică. Vibrațiile membranei timpanice se transmit mai întâi la ciocănaș, apoi la nicovală și scăriță, iar de acolo la fereastra ovală, situată la limita dintre urechea medie și cea internă. Sunetul care ajunge în urechea internă este transmis prin intermediul oaselor craniului, ceea ce te face să crezi că vocea ta este mai joasă decât a altor oameni. Unii dintre noi nu suportăm să ne auzim vocea pe o înregistrare în primul rând pentru că ni se pare prea străină și în al doilea rând pentru că refuzăm să o asociem cu noi înșine. E clar că din această categorie nu fac parte... cântăreții. Dar nu-i nimic. Partea bună e că numai tu știi cum sună vocea ta pentru tine :)
@lizziegrant8767
@lizziegrant8767 6 лет назад
Michael YKM ok mersi ca te ai chinuit sa scrii toata chestia asta la un video in engleza :)))
@1p4142136
@1p4142136 4 года назад
I thought it was just me lol! Glad to know science got my back here 👍😂
@friedspeech6880
@friedspeech6880 4 года назад
I had to send a video of me saying happy birthday to my friend and it took me 8 takes because I thought I sounded like and idiot
@James-if3kc
@James-if3kc 11 месяцев назад
I hate hearing my own voice because it sounds stupid and I hate seeing pictures or video of myself because I look stupid.
@freyaallisonx
@freyaallisonx 6 лет назад
I don't particularly like my own voice but I don't dislike it .tbh I don't rlly care
@magnoliamike
@magnoliamike 2 года назад
Everyone who is into fountain pens knows that quick Brown fox line. It’s a sentence that has every letter in the alphabet
@smallpinkthingjakuraididnt4467
I hated my voice cuz my classmates wont understand me :(
@saveUyghurs
@saveUyghurs 4 года назад
My voice sounds so whiny, shrill and nasally, hate it. Wonder if radio people like their voices
@ikkial
@ikkial 8 лет назад
this is so informative
@moman485
@moman485 4 года назад
next question, why do I hate myself?
@AdelaTomankova
@AdelaTomankova 6 лет назад
I hate my voice. I pronounce 't' WAYY to much and it sounds weird.
@infamous8131
@infamous8131 4 года назад
My voice definitely sounds better recorded, it’s deeper and less annoying than when I hear it just talking.
@alphaarx3055
@alphaarx3055 4 года назад
Me too
@garethpowell3537
@garethpowell3537 4 года назад
my voice in a video with a camera sounds spontaneous as ive been on camera before lucky this is not me
@LekeO
@LekeO 2 года назад
Bruh I know my voice is deep cause people always tell me but when I hear it on camera I sound like Darth Vader I hate it
@guapify2320
@guapify2320 11 месяцев назад
😂😂
@koiworld8182
@koiworld8182 3 года назад
I just got told I have a terrible voice on my vids so much its unwatchable so since I have anxiety over it so much I just searched up about it now im thinking my head bones are broken? Maybe it's ADHD
@godwhy1282
@godwhy1282 8 лет назад
John Malkovitch approves of this video
@heafoneman7870
@heafoneman7870 4 года назад
I hate my own voice when I record a youtube video
@psycho5815
@psycho5815 5 лет назад
It’s even worse for me. I hate my voice, And so do the people around me😭
@repentlessss
@repentlessss 6 лет назад
I hate my voice. I sound like an idiot.
@anavukas6791
@anavukas6791 6 лет назад
I like the video even tho it doesn't answer the question "why do you hate the sound of your own voice" but it explains WHY do you hear it different but ok.....
@jcjrfilms
@jcjrfilms 2 года назад
The sound of my voice is my biggest insecurity. It's also a dead give-away that I'm gay, according to a lot of people who hear it and assume I'm gay. This is infuriating, because I can't hear it unless I record it. I'm terrified to talk in environments where I'm not comfortable.
@ameenka2796
@ameenka2796 12 дней назад
Who are watching in 2035
@plainsabertooth7828
@plainsabertooth7828 29 дней назад
I hate my voice too I get so disgusted that I had to turn people away because of it. I really terrified of being made fun of it as well. And when I mean turn people away, I mean in a voice chat.
@asifhossain2088
@asifhossain2088 Год назад
Everydayyy I sit and ask myself Why my voice so bad Something whispers in my ear and says That you are not alone --Michael Jackson
@just_lillythestupid4612
@just_lillythestupid4612 4 года назад
I don't like my voice at all, I'm a girl who plays online games so people I play with say if sounds fine but I think it sounds like a chipmunk and a cow combination
@pkavenger9990
@pkavenger9990 10 месяцев назад
Just like people who start to watch an anime in Japanese voice but when they hear the dub version it sounds unrealistic, and same when a person who watch dub version and then someone show them the sub version of the same anime, it sounds weird to them and unrealistic.
@JustaSimpleComplexSyrian
@JustaSimpleComplexSyrian 4 года назад
but how are your voices still really nice and my voice is like a 7 yo voice when i thought its really deep and gives me charisma I Am Really Disappointed and now i know why they tell me my voice sucks although i find it really cool
@NinToby
@NinToby 8 месяцев назад
“But to everyone else, this is what I really sound like” *sounds the same but less muffled*
@mohamadfirdausbinmat2577
@mohamadfirdausbinmat2577 5 лет назад
I kinda hate my own voice cuz it sounded pretty girly (girly but deep? idk somewhere between Kelly Rowland and keyshia cole voices lol) and i'm a dude. I'm approaching my 20 in 3 months time and i don't really wanna stuck with this kinda voice for another 10 years or so. I don't mind it to sound demonic but ughh (and some people i'm faking it wtf)
@snag3822
@snag3822 4 года назад
my voice is so annoying ugh, i look a lot older then most of the people in my grade then i have a horrible raspy high pitched voice
@snowecaddel9454
@snowecaddel9454 4 месяца назад
I can’t even speak properly. I hate it so much. The sound of it makes it worse :(
@M0ldyBubbles
@M0ldyBubbles 6 лет назад
I hate my voice. Im a girl and its not as high as other girls voices. Its like a boys voice and its really frustrating.
@Chrxzz
@Chrxzz 6 лет назад
I h8 my voice too!
@nathanyao1233
@nathanyao1233 4 года назад
Well yes, this explains why our voices sound different to ourselves, but it doesn't answer the title.
@tiktokcomps3929
@tiktokcomps3929 4 года назад
Me recording myself speaking* *EWWW* Me on a discord call with someone for the first time* Him: your voice is cute Me: what I sound horrible-
@drizzy6302
@drizzy6302 5 лет назад
My shit sounds like slimy
@DJL3G3ND
@DJL3G3ND 6 лет назад
Yeah it is a problem as I'm going into videos with commentary and I often don't enjoy editing or uploading them and I can get despired
@torrestorres6687
@torrestorres6687 7 лет назад
These people do have annoying voices though
@thepersonbehindelonmusksuc1634
@thepersonbehindelonmusksuc1634 4 года назад
Fun fact - you searched for this :)
@shaquana6250
@shaquana6250 5 лет назад
I don’t hate my voice
@marvelismarvelous8987
@marvelismarvelous8987 4 года назад
I only hate my voice because when i speak to me my voice doesn't sound that deep but when i listen to it from recording i sound like a depressed 40 year old man and im only 15 wth
@lisa-im4kv
@lisa-im4kv 5 лет назад
I saw and heard myself on a video once. Ohhhh, I found out I act spazzy, with quirky little gestures and my voice sounds YAH YAH YAH like an annoying YAH
@wonder_9315
@wonder_9315 2 года назад
This was a great lil video that was both entertaining and thought provoking... but why did it feel so much longer than 2 minutes???
@gamingwithcharlie5008
@gamingwithcharlie5008 7 лет назад
For people, if you are afraid of people making fun of your voice if you make youtube videos, Try using a text to speech software instead
@weskerredfield5176
@weskerredfield5176 6 месяцев назад
I feel my voice just sounds so stupid whenever I listen to my recordings.
@kyarailumi
@kyarailumi 6 месяцев назад
even our own body use autotune bcs it disappointed with the natural sound it produce 😂
@Aliejha
@Aliejha 4 года назад
whenever i hear my voice recorded... its so high that i sound 9 lol i hate it
@godwhy1282
@godwhy1282 8 лет назад
John Malkovitch approves of this video
@_souldier
@_souldier 3 года назад
i just realized that sentence have every letter in the alphabet
@dilderdroge6139
@dilderdroge6139 4 года назад
It's not that my voice is higher then when I speak, it's that j sound like completely different person on recordings
@John-hz8xy
@John-hz8xy 3 года назад
Appropriate title: Why you hear your voice differently than others.
@yaurora9993
@yaurora9993 6 лет назад
Me to i hate my own voice to when i sing like mad and to the outside is so weird my voice is like a 15 year old bully
@dinoxman8584
@dinoxman8584 4 года назад
Shower Thought: Every single RU-vidr you’ve ever heard has a different voice then you hear because they’re speaking out of a camera to you!
@heybey6713
@heybey6713 6 лет назад
I effin hate my voice, i’d never thought that was something to be insecure about. My voice sounds childish yet deep
@osutakizito2688
@osutakizito2688 2 года назад
I never wanted to speak again after I heard mine... It sucks
@wolfgangvs
@wolfgangvs 2 года назад
Imagine what Vin Diesel sounds to Vin Diesel.
@seungcheolcreditcard6789
@seungcheolcreditcard6789 6 лет назад
I hate recording my voice and i also hate singing on karaoke cuz i think my voice was not good
@fokion20
@fokion20 5 лет назад
People in the video are saying that they hear their voice deeper but I hear it more high pitched
@BobbyVene
@BobbyVene 6 лет назад
I hate my voice. I sound like an Asian guy sometimes, and other American. My friend say don’t think about it when talking.
@memoriesvines4586
@memoriesvines4586 3 года назад
No one minds my voice but I feel bad I mind about my own voice
@BaldricksTurnip1
@BaldricksTurnip1 3 года назад
My voice sounds so horrible I stopped talking.
@kwuek4760
@kwuek4760 3 года назад
i recorded myself and no wonder people tell me to repeat myself i sound like im high af
@Illumirage
@Illumirage 5 лет назад
hate the sound of my voice. Sound so high and nasal. Yukk
@matte.b1337
@matte.b1337 5 лет назад
the reason i hate my own voice is because people comment about it right infront of me
@nicecockbro1087
@nicecockbro1087 6 лет назад
I like my own voice, do i have a problem?
@UchihaSasuke-m4z
@UchihaSasuke-m4z 10 месяцев назад
😂Me when heard my own voice : Mother...ff......😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@kaarenremley7585
@kaarenremley7585 5 месяцев назад
Lol! Yep. So familiar. It's a struggle.
@leenalahamadi5532
@leenalahamadi5532 3 года назад
Is it weird that my voice sounds LOWER while recording?
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