Why You Must Learn to Say No 

' we might even be busy doing things for God, and not spending time with God'. Wow! Powerful! 😇❤️

This is so true! During the election season, at a time when I had two part-time jobs, a woman (biology teacher) asked me to give private lessons to her student. Honestly, this woman was such an approachable and pleasant one that it was difficult for me to say no & I volunteered. A time came when she and the student were expecting me to come to one morning to have that class with her and I was so tired physically & emotionally, even though I was at my workplace, that I didn't even bother to call to ask her should push down the time in our schedule because I'd be late. She called me that morning and was *furious*. She said that I inconvenienced her and that student and I felt really bad about it. I then wanted to have a make up class with her without charging her but the woman said no. She also criticized me for behaving in a manner she perceived to be unprofessional, I told her I'd be on the way and then she said no it was fine. I had never known how it would've affected her and she doubted I would be reliable and cancelled the classes. Had I said no, we all would've had a long-lasting & enjoyable relationship.

Yes ma’am I use to run run run around the holidays singing in choir, praise team , work , family wow. I ran soo much I began to question if what I was doing if it was for church or God and it was church because I wasn’t spending time with God.Help Lord. I had attempted to get off Praise team so many times because I wasn’t fruitful in God and if not fruitful in God you sure can’t praise and worship Fruitful. Your Worship should always be sweet to him. This quarantine has actually helped me sit back and reflect.

protecting your time!! that was valuable!

I am my neighbor's first "go to" person. Everyday, and throughout the day, it's like I'm on call for her and her family. Usually, I do it because I can, but I was in the middle of my Bible study today - and, sure enough, the phone rings! Guess who? I had all I could do to keep from answering it. But I said No! God is more important! and learned that I need to say NO more often. Thanks for the great study, Kim! xo

Thank you for this I didn't fall on this channel for no reason..🤔 I feel convicted time with God should be a priority. 🙏🏾🙌🏾📖

Wow I use to try and do so much and wonder why I didn’t do well at it wow was doing too much without God. You can hear this over and over about spending time with God but just keep moving right along thinking a devotional a day will keep the devil away NOT!!!!! Nothing keeps him away but the Word of God is our way of escape getting closer to God. Yesss Lord I hear you loud and clear.

“ protect our time with God “ you hit the hammer on the nail with this one for me . I had been struggling to say no to people when they want to come with me . Knowing in my heart my time would be better spent with God alone . But some reason i was feeling guilty about not bringing them . 🙏🏼 Thank you for this message

Woman of God, I love your videos! You are such a blessing. I'm going through all of them tonight. You bring such valid points forward. God his working through you! Glory to God!

I'm 57 and finally say no to many things.

Time with God is a priority #1...Amen 👑♥️!! Season blessings

Tku. Loved listening to your video. Many years ago I read a small book(cannot remember who wrote it) Don't say yes when you want to say No. Thought it to be a joke. But today your teaching made me understand that Love sometimes means having to say NO.. Specially when you need to discipline the people in your life.. your loved ones for example.

Amen, amen, amen!!! Wisdom woman of God😊👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Amen , we have to say No , and not feel bad about our decision .thank you for this GOD is GOOD

Thank you so much for such practical teaching. I NEEDED THIS! If I could hit like more than once, I would.

you have no idea how you are touching my life and confirming so many things in my life 'God bless you abundantly

Praise be to God for Kim's ministry!! ❤❤

Thank you kim for everything that you taught us and the things you will be teaching us in the coming...continue to inspire and touch our lives...we love you and God bless you more and more power...thank you kim!!

Thank you so much for your kind words...I so needed to hear #3 &4. May God continue to bless you with wisdom and knowledge.

I'm not a Christian. Yet I enjoy listening to this woman. I think she's a great thinker, everything she says makes since to me, and synchronises with my life events.

You really bless me. Very authentic, down to earth, just you no commercials!!!

Your Awesome Kim a lot of people want actually tell you these things you are truly God sent in my life.

Kim, you are such a great teacher to me. Thank you so much for your videos! With love, from Brazil!

I really needed this today!!! God bless you Kim!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Thank you for your peaceful wisdom! You’re truly anointed to teach us! God bless you!

I needed to see this at this moment. Thank you for your ministry.

I must learn to say no as well, I have been practicing and hoping to perfect it for my New Years resolution. Thank you for this amazing word!

Kim, you have found your perfect purpose and having fun with it. You videos inspired me a lot. I discovered you today and since can not stop watching your videos all day. I am blessed today with them. Thanks to God and you

I just simply wanna hug you.. Thank you lord for this channel n equipping kim. Thanq Kim for bringing the heart of God for his people thru his word..

Well said! I want your videos in my life, I'm subscribing. You are a great influence!

I've been bullied by my family since a child I got molested by my cousin and got in trouble for telling the social worker I was outcasted...I cried so much as a child so much...My aunt tormented me and kicks me out everytime he would come over and family trips and they all bullied me that I couldn't go for what I did.. He kept molesting my cousins.. Now older Even at my moms funeral.. And uncles they bullied me whenever my aunt who raised me is in the hospital she kicks me out if he comes and I gave her flowers recently and gave her Bible verses for salvation... It hurts so much I get flashbacks... My sister says stop feeling sorry for myself but I told her no I am not going to keep putting myself in the same situation... They think I'm bitter can't forgive it's just I'm falling apart... I told her no I'm moving on I forgive but I will always have grief and reason why it hurts so much when my aunt scolded me and yelled was that she was like a mother to me... I bore the shame as a child for coming out with what he did to me... Enough is enough I can't do it anymore I pray for my family I don't want them to go to hell but I can't keep putting myself in a situation where I'm treated that way...any advice..i feel God is telling me to move on its like I'm damned if I don't and damned if I do I got to shake the dust and keep it pushing they don't care what I feel or got to say so I got shake the dust Lord help me thank you for this video! This helped me and believe I need to hear this!

Thank you for this video!!! I hadn't watched you in a while and I just had to click on this one and this beared witness to the season I'm in!! Your hair has really flourished!!! God Bless!!

Thank you for this! I believe that God spoke to me today through this ! Thank you Jesus!

These Annointed Videos Are Such A Beautiful Blessing, So Happy I made the Time to listen to this Message, Thank you Sooooo Much Woman of GOD'💜I Truly Needed This!

1. I would love if I can learn how a full-time pastor, if any, makes time for downtime, be it with just self, family, friends, like a person with a regular 9-5 without much overtime, and if there are times they say no or not today to a parish member to protect the downtime with self and family and friends. 2. Awesome video. I feel like sometimes I am wrong for saying no to people ( no, I am not a pastor, in case anyone thought so because what I wrote above ), especially if it involves money because knowing the Lord looks out for those who looks out for others, bless your spirit for making a video on knowing when it is ok to say no. I'll also join in on saying your hair very much suits you!

I agree with this, and doesn't your hair look fine!

This is so valuable. Thank you women of God.

This video fulfilled me with peace and joy ❤️

Well said, Kim! This reminder is received with a grateful heart! I get scared of saying No, I don't know why. Maybe like you said, to please everybody. Then I'm exhausted and who am I to blame? Bless you and take care, Georgi PNG

Awesome, Kim. I truly needed this word. Thank you. 😊👍🏼

I love this💟protecting my time with God is so important I never thought of it that way! Thank you for your video's!😀God bless!

So good thank-you! Nooooooo!!! I like that word. Always felt guilty telling people no. Pleasing God is all that matters!

Sistah Kim, I ran across ur videos this morn & I jus subscribed! U stated n tha 4 videos, that I hv watched, Xactly what I practice & believe, based on tha Word of God! Thnk U 4 being an Nspir8ion! (Inspiration), LOL! Blessings, Peace & 💜! 🙏🏽

I need to learn to say no to a lot of in my life... Thank you needed this!!

Thank you so much for this lesson...I need it.so appreciate your teachings..

I'm thinking about retiring earlier it's gonna cost me lots of money, but I have a feeling that my precious God Jahweh is started to be the second best in my life. You helpt me to consider this option even more. So thank you for helping me getting my believes in to the front. It's sometimes difficult when most of the people around you say, don't do it you are out of your mind. But I think that I'm out of my mind now because I'm so distracted from the most important thing in life and that is paying attention to my saviour. You are a big encouragement for me. Thank you lovely. Greetings from Marianne from the Netherlands

Sister Kimcashtate u never failed me your teaching helping me alot GOD bless you much sis

Beautiful Kim I came across your podcasts last week. I am 56 found Jesus when I was 12. No teacher has made more of an impact on me than you. The Almighty speaks through you. Praises to our Lord and thank you Kim for saying Yes to God. Jeff

I love you mom ...nice ideologies you preach out there...

I happend to stumble upon ur videos and I must say Im enjoying all of them coz its helping me in my bible study thanx Kim keep it going ok

Great points and wisdom that just makes sense. Thank you.

Woo hoo, thank you Lord!!! Up in Kim’s videos! God did all this....❤️🔥💥

Amazing! I thank you Yah for guiding me to this bless sister's video.

I had to learn this lesson at the point of burn out with no joy and no peace and a lot of guilt when I finally said no. I had to let go for my mind's sake. Church and religion almost destroyed my relationship with Jesus Christ.

SENDING LOVE FROM MT!!! ☆♡♡☆ I struggle so much saying NO. I always say yes or I get eating by guilt. I just feel so bad for people & I know I can make a difference, but we do need time just to be us sometimes. Love in the present! Thank you! °•○GOD●BLESS○•°

I'm in my God appointed season 🙌💕Thank You FATHER Thank you also Sister Kim 💕

Awesome and timely word today. I needed that. Thank you for your obedience and be blessed Sister.

That's what I tell my daughter ;think before you engage yourself in doing any thing .you might see it hard in the middle of the way or change your mind.

May God bless you!!!! Your so wonderful!!!

THANK YOU!!!!!!

Amen! Thanks for sharing!❤

Am back to refresh my mind, thanks sis 🤗♥️

Needed this

Sooooo good! ❤️

Thanks sis. Love you

Thank you!

Wow, so nice we can and should protect our joy and peace by being set apart with God. Makes sense we'll have more to offer too after we spend time with Him anyways.

Amen Amen GOD bless u sister

i just Love your videos😇

You have Gods spirit on you.

this video is deep!

AMEN !

So Amen! Praise the Lord Jesus Christ!

Ty so much

Thank you

I love u n i mean i loved yo vedios I dnt normally put a comment n ths is my first tym to b here n i really loved yo vedios really.. God bless u

Amen

Thanks

Good video!

Thank you God Thank you Thank you 😢 I have a hard time saying no...

yes

Cassandra Nelson touch in agreement for this miracles in Jesus Christ holy name. Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah

Thank you for that Sis!

Subscribed!! 👌

protect your joy and peace :)

Enjoying your ministry! Thank God, and thank you... "Keep the faith!"

Bit of a conundrum, having to say no to a church type pilgrimage because of the people you are going with

How can we identify the season we are in?

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Quinett

Can you give an example of a situation when you do things for God but you don't spend time with Him.

how do you spend time with God.....

This video made me smile so much

I had to say no to my employer so I could spend time with God. The money doesn't mean anything to me.

Amen