WHY YOU'RE A TARGET FOR THIEVES. even if you're not on social media STORYTIME: 3 ATTEMPTED ROBBERIES

Sophie Shohet | Fashion Beauty Lifestyle

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An interesting topic!! Carrying a designer watch, bag, jewellery…. It can naturally make you a target. There’s a thought that social media can make you more of a target for thieves, but I’m of the opinion that whilst it can drawer attention… actually ANYONE out in public can be a target (social media or not)
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@AnUrbanGypsy 3 года назад

Thirty odd years ago I had a job interview in a city centre office and when I left, the older gentleman that conducted my interview commented on my necklace and said just to tuck it under the neckline of my top so it wasn’t visible as there had recently been some “unscrupulous characters loitering close by ”. I remarked it wasn’t real gold just costume but as he said, the robbers wouldn’t know that and he didn’t want me getting hurt just for a necklace. He would probably be amazed at how much luxury is flaunted on the streets these days! (Yes, I got the job and yes, he was a genuinely lovely man.)

@truth5454 3 года назад

Awwww that’s very nice Person

@sapphirecamui6447 3 года назад

That was very nice of him - to warn you.

@lisamarielund6292 3 года назад

He sounds like a sweetheart.

@laurenmyers401 3 года назад

I went on a job interview and the guy interviewing me asked why I wasn’t wearing jewelry. I said that I didn’t think it was appropriate. My house was robbed two weeks later.

@sapphirecamui6447 3 года назад

@@laurenmyers401 Damn.. i can only guess who did it...

@Simsimay 3 года назад

I have a very simple tip that actually worked for me several times. If I am passing by a bad location or If I have to use public transport with my expensive bags, I always carry a spare tote bag with me and before I go near that destination, I put my expensive handbag inside the tote bag. People won't even glance at your bag because it looks like a grocery bag.

@MissLittlesabs 2 года назад

Primark shopping bags are ideal for that.

@parishers6351 2 года назад

Thank you

@ceciliabrown3301 2 года назад

I do exactly the same 😉

@tc_is_me Год назад

That’s a smart idea. Thank you.

@shopqueen 3 года назад

Also Sophie made a good point. If being followed NEVER go to your work or home. Best place to go is the police station...

@seabreeze4559 3 года назад

or a cafe or petrol station to call police

@sheilaa1333 3 года назад

I did that once and it worked like a charm. He kept on driving...

@nora4981 2 года назад

Learned this from my college mate (at the time’s) mother who was being followed…

@3iMrEaDy3 3 года назад

If someone is following you make sure to stay in a crowded area then turn around and shout so everyone can hear “stop following me” or “I don’t know you why are you following me”. Take the anonymity away from the stalker and draws people’s attention to them. Also another tip is to pretend someone has called you and then say “hey, I’m almost there, oh you can see me? I think I see you too” then start waving. Makes it seems like you’re not on your own

@Daria-bg3ds 3 года назад

great tip!

@Linnybear Год назад

Done that, confronted someone loudly to stop following me! They stopped as many eyes were on them, it does work!! I don't wear my luxury purses(carry a old Liz Claiborne) while walking down a street or on trains or buses, save them for when I go out places in my bf's car, yes stinks to not be able to use them everyday, but so many scumbags are just waiting to rob you & to get physically harmed or worse while someone steals your bag is just not worth it!!

@jesseeec 3 года назад

It’s not just luxury goods that’s vulnerable to be taken, it’s your children, pets or even yourself

@SophieShohetOfficial 3 года назад

VERY true 😣xx

@JanGlow 3 года назад

So true! Lady Gaga’s dog was kidnapped. The dog walker got shot during the kidnapping 😢

@susanm2804 3 года назад

True. I don't think as a society we are strict enough with the sub humans that are doing these crimes.

@santoshr2984 3 года назад

@@JanGlow what!! .. are you kidding me ... people do that .. my goodness

@naureenr.s.4065 3 года назад

I was thinking same thing about children!!!😭

@LivieCaroline 3 года назад

Sophie, thank you for sharing. Another point to highlight: I don't understand people who get out of Harrods with plenty of shopping bags and get into the tube.... Seriously, if you spent that amount of money take a taxi home and be safe...

@miriamhavard7621 2 года назад

Amen!

@danndeelion 2 года назад

Totally. I've seen this so many times. Its the "drunk with money" brain that makes people do stupid things (and sometimes buy stupid things also!)

@mcleanroom7997 2 года назад

You have a Lamborghini??!!!! Wow!

@ThePassionflower9 3 года назад

I’ve heard two burglaries from my friends and they were both done by their 'friends' who knew their collections, their home address even the entrance access code, and knew they were not at home... so actually, be aware of those jealous friends.

@miriamhavard7621 3 года назад

So often it is.

@sct4040 3 года назад

How terrible!

@seabreeze4559 3 года назад

yep, commented this too and service workers like electric, boiler, gas pipe

@mismamari. 3 года назад

Oh yes for sure. Sometimes it may not even be a friend with malicious intent, just a friend commenting on something valuable/designer and their acquaintance (secret thief) gets enough info to know where to go or get invited to the next house party by proxy. I found out one of my friends was a kleptomaniac and after several years of things gone missing and a confrontation, I went no contact. Just not worth it.

@damongirl66 3 года назад

@@mismamari. A month before I was to have major surgery, I had two women insisting on watering my plants while I was in hospital. One of them knew I depended on prescribed drugs (for legit reasons) and the other was always commenting on how lovely my modest home looked and furtively observed what jewelry I wore as well as commenting on how expensive my skin care routine must be. They often asked when the date of the op was and I kept on deflecting the question. Eventually, I was in and out of hospital and neither of them were aware of it. I didn't return their calls and went absolutely No Contact. Beware of people who are way too keen to help you.

@debm9413 3 года назад

Anyone is a target. Long before social media, I was a “poor” graduate student with no luxury or even contemporary bags, no jewelry etc, and our house was robbed while we were out. Crime can happen to anyone at anytime. Once I graduated I’ve always had a German Shepherd. I feel pretty secure with him around.

@marielou3556 3 года назад

I always felt so safe with my big Bernese Mountain Dog but sadly he passed away in april.:( Now I only have my little Chihuahua girl.^^

@loloholmes2793 3 года назад

Our home was robbed & it's the most intrusive feeling, I felt violated. Even more heartbreaking was finding out our neighbor kid (15 yo boy) was the one stealing from us. We let this kid come over all the time (he didn't have a dad & my husband is like a big kid himself) we even trusted him to babysit our son & then we started missing things....

@caterinawilliams998 3 года назад

@@loloholmes2793 that's horrible, so sorry to hear this. How did you handle it?

@user-lt3qf3dh1n 3 года назад

Agreed, I have insta and I show my items, but the average thief in the street isn’t going to rob me because they’ve seen my insta.

@claudiakalkbrenner4148 3 года назад

@@user-lt3qf3dh1n definitely! It’s so scary!

@AloeVeera 3 года назад

For handbags don’t keep the authenticity cards/documents in the pockets! Easier for thieves to sell on and profit from your items.

@AnUrbanGypsy 3 года назад

Or in their boxes in your wardrobe, heaven forbid they should break in your home.

@suzannehall5200 3 года назад

Absolutely. Preferably they should be hidden in another room so that burglars don’t have time to go looking for them as well. Especially as you will need them for insurance.

@leahe8654 3 года назад

Always be alert, great tip for protecting yourself when your alone instead of pepper spray, carry a small bottle of spray paint (they even do ones that can go on keys). Instead of using pepper spray, use spray paint to aim for their face, as it’s hard to get off and will be able to be spotted by police. Hope that helps xx

@seabreeze4559 3 года назад

making the attacker angry can make them worse....

@dlightfulheiress 3 года назад

This is awesome and will also blind them so you can get away.

@susanm2804 3 года назад

Good ides

@x_slaughotto_x3129 3 года назад

@@seabreeze4559 Not always. A robber has a higher chance of bugging off rather than hurting you since would they rather go to jail for attempted theft or for attempted theft AND assault?

@azra6706 3 года назад

I use bleach ;)

@annhans3535 3 года назад

Being in NYC these days is very unsafe. After the pandemic people have gone crazy and crime has gone up so much. Especially in the subways. My daughter came home last Thursday using Amtrak(train) from Boston in business class early in the morning and someone tried to take her bag. She said she felt her leg getting tugged on because the bag strap was wrapped her leg and on the floor in front of her. So, she pull it back forcible and said loudly, "it's not worth it". You never know when something can happen so you always have to make sure you are prepared and be vigilant. Stay safe everyone. Thanks for the message Sophie.💜🌼

@catnip4587 3 года назад

I am much more careful and mindful of my surroundings on subway platforms and subways than I used to be. New York is not safe post pandemic

@seabreeze4559 3 года назад

the whole rationale of welfare was to reduce crime so they've got no excuse

@ericacosta987 3 года назад

Oh my God I hope she is well!!!

@itsbritneybisch8552 3 года назад

That's what you get when you have a mayor who encourages criminal behavior and hatred toward the police!

@annhans3535 3 года назад

@@itsbritneybisch8552 So right. And that moron thinks everything is fine.

@heyyjanuary5256 3 года назад

I held off buying luxe bags because I didn't want to be a target for mugging. Eventually I bought luxe bags but even then I still am very cognizant on the environment I'll be wearing my bags to. 🙈🙈 Sometimes luxe brings unwanted attn.

@claudiakalkbrenner4148 3 года назад

For some reason with my bags I never felt insecure… but with jewellery I feel terrified!

@travelaway5802 3 года назад

3 words, GPS Dog collar. Remove the straps and Hide one in your most expensive bags. Keep one charged by the door and put them in your bags as you leave. Hide one in your car. Yes you will have to keep them charged and Hide them well. But if you want a Snowballs chance in hell to retrieve your belongings this is the way.

@marilynsteele3306 3 года назад

Great idea..thanks!

@Oddesteidolon 3 года назад

apple air tags would work better for this scenario.

@zuzanna1456 3 года назад

Or just get insurance 🙄

@travelaway5802 3 года назад

@@Oddesteidolon Yes. Your right that will work too plus a samsung tag, or a tile, or Google nest tag, or a t-mobile tag. There's smartrac, chipolo, gego luggage trackers, jiobit kids trackers and lots more. The tech is out there. People just have to start being proactive.

@travelaway5802 3 года назад

@@zuzanna1456 your right, but insurance will try to figure out anyway not to pay and somethings are sentimental and irreplaceable.

@TheMayoHELLO 3 года назад

Also if your someone who likes nice things and also keeps your house nicely be careful with who you invite over. Too many times people will invite whoever or friends of friends to their home and you don't know who is taking notes of your home. I NEVER have a open door policey...no thank you.

@magnoliarose5910 3 года назад

I totally agree. We have a unique home, but I am very careful to whom I provide home tours.

@c.m.7734 3 года назад

Same! Even my teenagers always have friends over . Never know who their friends know. We built a "hang out " room for them above the garage. LOL, they don't need to know what mom and dad have in the house. I also tell my teens not to brag about wealth, what they have, and what kind of bags mom has! Never know who is listening. It isn't always strangers that rob people.

@dlightfulheiress 3 года назад

This is spot on. Everyone is not to be trusted ❤️

@susanm2804 3 года назад

I have locks on my dressing room doors People and partys You never know.

@mmc9828 3 года назад

Even though our housekeeper has worked for us for many years, she will bring one or two people with her as helpers. Immediately after they leave, I check each and every one of my windows to make sure they are still locked.

@je-suis_Tati 3 года назад

Sophie everything you said we are always telling our young daughter. Here are some more..1- when you are coming late at night before pulling into your garage, pass your house, drive a block or two more and go around before coming inside your house, sometimes slow down like if you are stopping at another Neighbor’s house, see if someone was following you or if you notice anything strange in your house. 2- break your times routines, stop at a café or place and delay your time coming home. 3- don’t always take the same routes to go to work or comeback home. 4- depending of where I am going or if stock in traffic, I put my bag against my body on the side of my car door. 5- pls while leaving your house, do not open your garage and realize you forgot something inside your house, and just walk back to get it. Wait until your garage door is close again before walking in to get what you forgot. I am glad you are safe and you followed your gut!

@peggyyang6137 3 года назад

All very good tips! It's just really sad that we're now living in a world like this...

@sexyalleycat 3 года назад

Thank you and god bless 🙏🏽💕

@ashfitrn 3 года назад

Great points. So easy to be distracted with a baby.

@designorganize2608 3 года назад

And, when you drive into your garage, look back and forth between your side mirrors... it can catch someone sneaking into your garage as the door comes down. If that happened, I would hit the horn and the garage door open at the same time so I coud back out fast!

@je-suis_Tati 3 года назад

@@ashfitrn so true omg, god bless you and your baby ❤️ @design organize, great tip ty for sharing! @sexyalleycat YW ❤️🙏🏼 @Peggy true! Very sad we now need to take so much precautions to be safe. I have cameras all over my house, everywhere, inside and out and I also have an alarm system;) stay safe everyone!

@karriek2207 3 года назад

I love the way you tell stories about things that have happened to you, whether it be about potential crime or a ghost story. You just have a way of saying things that makes everything fascinating.

@rtoma1974 3 года назад

She's a great story teller.

@vivyrox7202 2 года назад

totally agree! I was listening with bated breath!!

@sophiag4718 3 года назад

Years ago my now husband bought me this beautiful Dior tote for my 21st birthday. A couple of weeks later as I was walking home I rounded the corner and my home was a few metres away. This car drove down the road and this man jumped out and pinned me to the wall and said very calmly that I needed to give him my bag, it all felt really surreal I couldn’t understand what he was saying and the only thought I had was I’m not giving him MY bag. Another car drove down and it kind of brought me back to reality so I started screaming, this shocked him soo he let me go and I went screaming and running to my home. Everyone in my house came out, my brothers came out one came out with a wrench but they couldn’t see the guy on our road he’d disappeared. I was due to leave the country the next day so after speaking to the police they said they’d get back in touch. It turned out these men had assaulted a man on the road next to mine and then driven down my road and found me. It wasn’t me who shocked the mugger into letting me go, another man had rounded the corner. The mugger had them dragged him into the next road and stabbed him. After finding that out the muggers calm tone when talking to me made sense, he wasn’t aggressive as he had a knife. It took me months to be able to walk home alone, I had to be escorted to the station and from the station. Now I only buy bags I can wear as cross bodies and I hardly take anything nice out in London, I save my bags for holidays to the Middle East or Singapore. I genuinely can’t wait to move out of London and I was born and bred here.

@Krachela 3 года назад

The sad thing is this can happen to anyone even without wearing anything expensive or expensive looking. I carry pepper spray everywhere, I try to never walk alone.

@sunshinesmile94 3 года назад

Unfortunately pepper spray is illegal in all states in Australia (Except maybe for certain exceptions in Western Australia)... Same with taser.

@GeneGrey337 3 года назад

@@sunshinesmile94 American here. I feel very sorry for you. I hope something changes so you are safer while going out and about🙏🏼. I carry mace, and at times a pocket 🔪, and all my bags are cross body with a zipper or other form of lock. Cause, ladies. You. Never. Know. 👁👄👁.

@Krachela 3 года назад

@@sunshinesmile94 Really? I didin´t know that, I´am from Europe and it is pretty common here, we also got some in college welcome pack... and in my hometown people carry it in case they come across a bear as well, which in some places happen almost daily... I am still more scared of humans tho

@maria-soljimenez537 3 года назад

@@Krachela oh wow where do you live in Europe ? I'm from France and here it's illegal as well.

@anak.1563 3 года назад

A couple months ago in Paris, a guy posted on Twitter he got robbed a 1700€ Louis Vuitton bag which was purchased for his birthday treat. He parked his belongings in a safer place but he was followed by thieves who broke his car. The reactions and quotes to his tweet were harsh : it was his fault and he should not have purchased a bag in a context of a crisis. What I conclude is people have no fear stealing anyone, rich or not. A teenager killed Pop Smoke for a Rolex watch. An influencer just got robbed in Paris, just like Kim Kardashian in 2015. Another not-so famous influencer in the North of France got robbed while she was away in vacations. People have no desire (or dont see the point) of working and try to get rich the easiest possible. And if they have to harm somebody for it, they would do it

@MrsMoe72 3 года назад

I used to commute by train in downtown Los Angeles for several years. These are some of the habits I developed and still do when on public transit: I only carry bags that zipper closed. No open tote bags, preferably cross body bags worn close to the body. I would turn my wedding ring to hide my diamonds. When I board the train I look at everyone in the car and make note of every person who exits and enters the train. Never get distracted staring at your phone! Make a mental note of where to call for help if there’s an emergency. Always wear sensible shoes you can walk/run in. Do not sit near a window with an empty seat near you where someone could box you in.

@suzyq8777 3 года назад

Years ago, I was putting gas in my car and I had left the driver side window down. As I'm pumping gas into the car, I hear someone yelling and I look up to see my bag being lifted out from the back seat and a guy run and jump into a car and they drove off. I got in my car and tried to chase them down, which looking back was beyond stupid, and they got away. Now when I go to the gas station, my windows are rolled all the way up and my doors are locked. Lesson learned :)

@bernitajenkins3180 3 года назад

Carry a personal alarm... they're cheap and effective. Also, when driving, I always lock my doors...reduce the chance of car-jacking.

@designorganize2608 3 года назад

Always look into the back seat of your car before you get into it, and as soon as you get in, LOCK your doors!

@flx2525 3 года назад

Yes, always lock the door. My car locks the doors by default when I get in.

@hesterprynne5965 3 года назад

The most important thing is to look alert. Don't walk with your phone out. I hold my purse close to me so it won't be easy to snatch off and run. I have also been carrying an alarm in my hand so it's easy to make a loud noise if someone is near.

@marina56 3 года назад

I like the alarm idea. Thank you.

@bernitajenkins3180 3 года назад

@@marina56 You can even attach it to your front door...if it is opened, it pulls the pin.

@The_Avery 3 года назад

So true!! In Dublin, tourists are the biggest targets for theft because they look lost and unsure of themselves. Even if I don't know where I am going I pretend I know just to avoid having a target on my back. I carry an umbrella in hand at all times, handy for the Irish weather and its not technically a weapon if used in an altercation 😜

@MannyWC 3 года назад

Yes walk with assertion like a New Yorker~ :)

@sugarhill15 3 года назад

I was walking behind this girl one day that had her phone sticking out of her back pocket. I stopped her and told her never to do that cuz a friend had hers stolen that way.

@clairebear7902 3 года назад

I really wish more luxury influencers would talk about this! Thank you for this video 👏🏻👏🏻 My parents house was burgled when I was younger, I didn’t own any luxury items back then but the burglars took all the few valuables I owned (I was gone for ONE hour so was clearly watched). The violation made me feel so sick! Fast forward a few years and I can now afford a few luxury items. I have been following luxury influencers for years to help me narrow down what I wanted to spend my money on but I’ve always wondered why no one ever mentions the risks of owning & wearing such items, especially the ones with big logos, out and about as it is something that has always worried me!! I think being very aware of the area you’re in, always holding your bag/have bag in front of you in public transports, possibly hiding the bag with a coat/scarf/tote bag and flip the bag so that the potential logo is hidden is the minimum we can do… It is so sad that we can’t just enjoy our beautiful items with peace of mind in public.

@nadiamalen 3 года назад

I lived in Barcelona for two years when I was in my early twenties - lived on the metro, trains and walking through really touristy areas - and I had to always super aware of my bag, always a cross-body, always with a zipper or a flap with a secure clasp and always right in front of me, never my side or behind me. Now I live in a much quieter city but those habits stuck with me always! Great topic, Sophie!

@Kikiconsilience 3 года назад

I felt so violated when my car was broken into. They even saw the stickers on the car that I am looking for a kidney donor and a chemo patient. No empathy at all All they found was an old coat I use to walk the dog, they took it! and it was middle of winter and I had no money to buy a new one ASAP. So for few long weeks I walked my dog without a warm winter coat.

@seabreeze4559 3 года назад

pawn shops aren't held accountable

@eliza448 3 года назад

I’m so sorry that happened to you 🥺

@plant4table 3 года назад

😢 omg, that's so horrible

@Citrus1992m 3 года назад

Thank you for this safety reminder. I personally don't purchase anything flashy or with logos because I prefer a more understated look, but even then I sometimes get scared if I'm wearing an expensive piece (jewelry, bag, coat, etc.). As someone who commutes on public transportation, I know that feeling of being watched/followed and fearing that you're unintentionally drawing attention because of your appearance. As many of the commenters have recommended, carrying something that can be used as a weapon and running shoes are excellent ideas. I once took my nicest bag at the time (under $1000USD) to a vacation with my best friend and she stole it from me! After parting ways, I had to track her down at an airport for it. I learned many things here, but one was how pervasive jealousy is and that it doesn't matter how much or little you have, no one is immune to it. I have friends with similar stories of having a coat or bag stolen during a night out with friends. :( These days, I focus more on developing my confidence with non-material things and having fun, rather than worrying about what I look like. I still wear my nice things! But not all once, nothing with obvious logos, and I always remember to read the room. If I stick out like a sore thumb, chances are I'm overdressed and at this point, I'm not even enjoying my things because I'm just scared for my life. It isn't fair, of course, but that's been my experience.

@lb6823 3 года назад

You are correct about watching so called friends. I had two inexpensive Ace combs for years. They weren't made anymore. Two different friends sole my combs from me. If you lie you steal you cheat.

@damongirl66 3 года назад

Poverty and jealousy are close cousins. I, too, have to read the room and if I don't feel too good about the company I am in, I will remove a piece or two of whatever the jealous person is casing on me and put it in my pocket. I am poor and most of my friends are poorer than I am. If they ask how much something cost me, I get a bit nervous. Who would have thought that a bit of self-expression can put you in danger?

@twobirdys 3 года назад

I live in the bay area, and whenever I go to San Francisco, I use my worst handbag. I pack my car before I leave so I know I don’t have to go into the trunk and I wear Jeans and t shirt. I don’t carry any designer slgs. San Francisco is very dangerous and filled with homeless people. It’s pathetic and sad that you have to put on this costume when you go places like that. you can’t wear your nice clothes because something will happen to you.

@keemiel4005 3 года назад

I work in SF also and am thinking I’ll stop carrying a tote bag once remote work ends. Things were bad before the pandemic so not looking forward to having to be even more on guard.

@ShelleB 3 года назад

San Francisco has always been one of my favorite cities but so much has changed over the past 10 years. Always stayed in the Union Square area but now even that is dodgy. I’m quite hesitant to visit now and that makes me sad.

@littlelily4 3 года назад

Same but for Paris I never upgrade my old bag to look stylish and the other parisian girls, although I would love to. I'm too scared of getting robbed. There are gangs in the parisian metro as well. I want to buy a nice second hand luxury bag but I will be very careful of where I'll wear it (won't use the metro for sure and probably wear it only on the weekend).

@speedzero7478 2 года назад

I'm from SF originally, the crime there is dreadful. A lot of muggings are violent, sadly happened to some of my family members there. Stay safe everyone.

@Mscldrew 3 года назад

Please never be afraid to turn to someone else on the tube and ask them to walk with you. We will gladly do it, most people have experienced the same and are happy to help out.

@KDbelieves 3 года назад

Yes you should. Especially another lady because we are more likely to understand what's happening and thus help. One time, I was in the train when a woman sat next to me. At first, I was confused why she was sitting so close, but then I noticed the look of fright on her face and her eyes kept darting towards this creepy man. I introduced myself and asked her to exchange numbers with me. The man ended up getting off a few stops before us. Till this day, she is my friend. Her cousin and my brother are dating ☺️

@crustyrash 3 года назад

Sophie, thanks for the tips! One thing I've never thought about is not keeping my bag on the seat of my car. One tip to add: when I ride the Tube or Paris Metro late-ish, I always sit in the car closest to the operator and often I'll find other solo women there.

@janejdough2230 3 года назад

great tip

@designorganize2608 3 года назад

Same thing with sitting on a bus... sit as close to the driver as you can. Don't go to the back.

@zuzanna1456 3 года назад

Sadly I way misled times by other women when deciding on which carriage to choose.They pretend they’re getting on same as u and last min they go to a different one and ure left alone.Sad we can’t help each other 😡

@seabreeze4559 3 года назад

we need women only carriages like in japan

@damongirl66 3 года назад

@@designorganize2608 I'll stand near the driver if all the front seats are occupied. I don't care how many seats up the back are available.

@TheMonkey0King 3 года назад

If I plan on leaving my purse in the trunk for a quick stop after work, I usually put my purse in the trunk before I go to the destination. I just never know who is watching after I've parked at the destination. Also, don't leave anything that remotely looks like a bag. One of my friends left her lunchbox on the passenger seat. Someone broke in to basically steal her lunchbox. It was one of those lunchboxes that looks like a nylon puffy tote bag. The person probably didn't know it was lunchbox. Friend was peeved because of the cost to repair her window.

@themango9644 3 года назад

yea same thing happened to my sisters car. they broke her window. there wasnt even a bag in there just trash

@LuxuryInc 3 года назад

I'm putting my purse in the trunk before the destination as well 😊 I thought I'm the only weirdo... nobody I know is doing this 😅

@MegaTinni 3 года назад

I hope they only stole it in the afternoon, so it'd be empty :D the look on their faces!

@glorianelson9538 3 года назад

I also put my bag in the trunk before I go to my destination. But I also put my re usable grocery bags, a gym mat, my towel etc. on top and hide it.

@g.pp.712 3 года назад

When I took a cab from the airport CDG to Paris, the cab driver told me to hide my bag because he had 3 females passengers mugged by a moped gang, he now carries a big metal stick. The moped gangs target taxis from airports.. that is really scary specially when you are stuck in traffic. I too, will stop to put my purse in the trunk then then park my car a few blocks away. I always walk in a brisk pace in the middle of the sidewalk because you can either get pulled in if you close to the buildings or by the same token to a car if you too close to the road... I remember once I was walking and noticed a parked van which seemed out of place, it was a deserted street and turned around ... don’t know why.... always good to trust your instinct

@seabreeze4559 3 года назад

they saw you spotted them, I got followed and narrowly dodged a black van. the man stopped following once he saw me on the phone talking about where I was (police need that info)

@33watch55 2 года назад

@@seabreeze4559 So glad each of you was safe.

@katrinaloh2852 3 года назад

I carry a small taser with a built in flashlight I got on Amazon. I always have it in my hand when I’m walking at night in the city . I also never talk on my phone or listen to music. I also always check surroundings. Sounds paranoid but you ever know.

@memoi6308 3 года назад

Not paranoid at all. Better safe than sorry!!

@je-suis_Tati 3 года назад

Love the idea of the taser with a built in flashlight, could you please share link? Ty and stay safe!

@seabreeze4559 3 года назад

those are illegal here - uk

@funnygaming2672 3 года назад

@@seabreeze4559 make your own pepper spray buy a taser bring a small knife ,who care if illegal or not it self defense !A good lawyer will show how these laws are ridiculous !some laws are made to be break .

@katemiller7874 3 года назад

Be aware o your surroundings at all times. Put the phone away, ear buds. Look under your car. When your driving if they hit your car don’t get out. They want to rob you. In the US we’re having a problem with this. When they hit you on purpose tell you you hit them and ask for money upfront. There’s a video on RU-vid where the guy refuses to pay them because normally you have insurance that will pay. He breaks his windshield. Little kids in the back seat

@seabreeze4559 3 года назад

house guests, maintenance workers and taxi drivers are used to 'spot' targets and usually get a cut like a preferred handbag and if a scout asks you if your stuff is real, it never is

@bossbeyoutiful3669 3 года назад

Well, because of that I changed my style from wearing heels to trainers, or if I wear an expensive/designer bag I put it in a tote/shopping bag (those one you can fold) or a LongChamp bag so it hides the bag. Or put your wallet, money, ID in your bra when walking alone late at night to your car or home.

@crashingxhearts 3 года назад

I do the same thing!

@ebonynaomi1085 3 года назад

Good idea

@bossbeyoutiful3669 3 года назад

😂 I just saw that I have 2 of the same comment 😅

@1306laflaka 3 года назад

I’m with you with the tote bag! Even if it’s a mid grade designer brand shopping bag, I like to store my shopping bags in a reusable bag to conceal designer logos when I’m by myself.

@seabreeze4559 3 года назад

reusable plastic bag in a tacky design

@sweettthings 3 года назад

On the rare occasions I go to a shopping mall (esp. these days), if I want to drop off packages in my car and continue shopping, I will always move the car to another area of the parking lot, usually on the opposite side of the mall. I figure if anyone was watching me, they probably stopped the moment I got in my car and drove off. ETA: And yes, it's usually someone you know, or someone your kid knows. Keep your travel plans secret. I usually don't post anything on social media, but if I do, it's years later, lol.

@brownsuga 3 года назад

Sometimes close friends and family are usually the culprits of house bulgaries

@miriamhavard7621 3 года назад

🤷

@sct4040 3 года назад

It's so difficult to trust anyone, even close family and friends.

@flx2525 3 года назад

Not untrue...

@serenitynow9980 3 года назад

So true!!! B**ch tried to steal my Fendi sunglasses. I can forgive but I won't forget.

@janejdough2230 3 года назад

I drove a classic antique sports car for years .. The RCMP told me to when in a parking lot always part right under a lamp post away from other cars as "thieves like privacy" ( their joke).

@chanelsimone6072 3 года назад

So glad you made this. I tell ppl all the time, what you wear can be an advertisement and that sharing on social media is no different. You have to know your audience. Enjoy your things, they are just things. Even if we love them. When I'm in certain parts of town I dress a certain way. As long as poverty and inequality exist people will steal.

@laurawood4042 3 года назад

A neighbour had their bad taken from the passenger side of the car while they were sat at traffic lights. They smashed the window, took the bag before they knew what was happening, luckily they weren't hurt.

@ErikaBardere 3 года назад

I saw that with crossbody bags, a pocket knife will be used so the bag falls off of you. I always have my hand on my purse when it's crossbody & my bag in front of my body

@je-suis_Tati 3 года назад

I do the same with crossbody bags always in front or to the side if hubby is on that side:)

@kimtkb 3 года назад

Can they break through chain crossbodies though? That's what I tend to wear.

@je-suis_Tati 3 года назад

@@kimtkb I don’t know but that’s a great idea. I have been thinking to chain link the bag around my waist attaching it to the Crossbody strap. The chain link could be easily hidden under blouse :).

@zuzanna1456 3 года назад

My mums neverfull straps were nearly cut off on escalators on the tube

@jen6294 3 года назад

But wouldn’t that make it hard to sell then?? They lose the bag and only get the contents of it

@janmariebrunette-hunyady1386 3 года назад

I have an engagement and wedding ring set that I use while on vacation. It looks similar to my real set but made with sterling and CZs. If I am robbed or they fall off while in the ocean it is not a big deal.

@SophieShohetOfficial 3 года назад

That’s a great idea Jan Marie! 👍🏽👍🏽xxx

@lisabush26 3 года назад

I do the same. Have for many years. My mother told this to my sister and I many years ago.

@LadyShanghai-wj1kh 3 года назад

I wouldn’t bring even a ‘fake’ set. It’s not the worth of the item that’s important, it’s the safety of myself & family. The experience of being face to face with a mugger or being targeted at my family’s hotel room, is what I want to avoid.

@azalex91 3 года назад

I just dress down and like a typical tourist when I’m out now. Once in Honolulu i was being followed a couple of blocks by a group of local guys and i never felt so terrified in my life its just that constant are they going to jump me now feeling with every step. I had to go into a restaurant and order food just to hide out till i had a cab pick me up

@kassandrakc5492 3 года назад

When on holiday I take a coach Cassie bag for when I’m exploring a new city. I only take a luxury clutch or mini purse for activities when I know we’re going straight from the car to the location and not walking around. Growing up in Chicago I know how easily it is to get robbed. If your new to a place and need directions always try asking an employee in a shop and not a local on a street. Also for transit always avoid empty train carts.

@mismamari. 3 года назад

Yes, great tip! I do this too. No Chanel if I'm not driving door-to-door from home to restaurant/bar. Walking in any downtown with a designer bag at night for too long is just inviting trouble.

@onlyClaire 3 года назад

As someone who works in the insurance industry, when a property is burgled, these days all they want is cash, jewellery and watches as anything else is much easier to trace. Thieves will walk down a road and test every single property, if they get they search the master, the study (if you have one) and the kitchen. The most heartbreaking thing I see is people not insuring their treasured possessions for enough or correctly.

@alexwyler4570 3 года назад

computers? phones? are those enticing to thieves?

@roses8493 3 года назад

why the kitchen?

@MrVikingsandra 3 года назад

The Lamborghini story always makes me cringe! I can't believe they waved at you as they left...joke's on them though! Unbelievable

@masquerade4888 3 года назад

I usually wear a cotton hair band over my watch ALWAYS wear sensible shoes… Almost never carry my expensive bags😿 I know it sounds boring and depressing…but I am paranoid

@kbd7391 3 года назад

Wearing a band over your watch is a fantastic idea that I am going to implement! Thank you!

@zizilia9077 3 года назад

Well, my craving to buy a new designer bag has now been cured! Lol. Good points raised thanks. I’m thinking a card holder or cosmetic pouch could be a more discreet option for enjoying luxury items more on the down low, inside a basic bag.

@BareLux 3 года назад

Whether it is luxury, ghost stories, or tips on life, Sophie is the best story teller.

@staciarenee2982 3 года назад

My grandmother lived in boone, NC which is extremely rural but a tourist town for skiing and massive mountains. She lived in the litterly in between two massive mountains and had a steel front door. Even she got burglarized. Someone was able-- still don't know how-- to get in her front door when she wasn't home (she lived in a beautiful massive house but it was very dated) and she kept her jewlery dowbstairs in a bathroom. They took almost all of the real jewlery i believe. I remember thinking wow i cannot believe someone could do that considering she lived way up in the mountains on a hidden road.

@joannasliwa8147 3 года назад

Hi Sophie ! I follow a luxury fashion influencer Tamara Kalinic who has been living in Paris for some time . One week ago she posted a vlog about being robbed of her whole collection ( luxury handbags, jewellery etc. ) . It was heartbreaking and infuriating .Like in your case , It's her work to buy , to unbox, to review ( most of the time) design items . I'm from Paris as well and the probelm you notice after living certain time in my city is the number of fake homeless people from Bulgaria , Romania ( gypsy people) who are sitting at the entry of your building ( especially posh districts ) and asking for money. In reality, they are there to discover, at same point, an entry code and to get to know daily habits of wealthy inhabitants so as to easily organize robberies . I believe that was in case of Tamara who buys lots of luxury , going back and forth with design logo purchases .

@aufe46357 3 года назад

The rom are more a community actually they are not necessarily from Roumania. I’ve been between Belgium and France for many years and those deserve to be quick out of your country. About Tamara it was professional, criminal organization the kind of the peoples how robbed Kim Kardashian and Nabila the next days after Tamara. It wasn’t a coincidence and you can easily find Tamara in Paris if you want,after waiting the good time..

@joannasliwa8147 3 года назад

@@aufe46357 Hi Alexandra . Maybe you are right about that . In the end ,is it worth buying design stuff ? I mean almost everyone is wearing a design handbag crossbody .

@aufe46357 3 года назад

@@joannasliwa8147 I agree you point of view but in my opinion the big issue is the justice.. They know they will have anything ( the one in the street) so why should they stop? Sad to say but I wouldn’t wear a gold watch in many city’s of Europe at least when you are browsing. That make you a huge target.. Bags you just need to be careful and yes it’s « terrible » when you think about it. If you have the chance to catch one of them don’t hesitate to break his hand and scream !

@miriamhavard7621 3 года назад

You don't know if it was Romany ("gypsies") let the cops solve it. 🌺

@aufe46357 3 года назад

@@miriamhavard7621 the begging peoples that you will find in France for example are not gypsies. In French we call them les roms. The cops will never find them, after the Kim Kardashian they are learning more and more and that time would have worn gloves. And be sure that her handbags won’t be find on VC.. Karma will take care of them at some point.

@Fishaq 3 года назад

Thank you Sophie. I have a tip that when you enter your garage, keep your car in the reverse gear as it activates the camera and the warning buzzer, so that you can see anyone sneaking in. Once the garage door is down, then put your car in park. Also, always lock your car the moment you enter it and keep your handbag on the floor and not on the seat.

@33watch55 2 года назад

I agree - lock the car the moment you get in. Some cars lock automatically once you put it in drive. Do not wait for that. Also, some cars have automatic locks where every door opens once you open the driver's door - deactivate that.

@debracannonrndsn2564 3 года назад

Yes that is why I have two gates to my farm,a Rottweiler and adt security. I also never drive home the same way twice and I vary my work hours. I carry an alarm in my hand and my alarm on my Apple Watch. However I do wear my nice things to work at my hospice office but I have adt there two with cameras. When I work at the hospital I do not carry a nice bag or jewelry. Wisdom is my best weapon.

@audreyfong6802 3 года назад

So terrifying! When I lived in NY, I found that even if I was wearing a mid-range designer item (like a Coach or Marc by Marc Jacobs bag) that people would often follow me around and try to catch me off guard. Thankfully, I was almost always with a guy friend or several. But by myself, I would always be panicking.

@heidi1000 3 года назад

If you are a photographer - I usually put my gear in a backpack that looks like a backpack, not a camera bag. Also, make sure to get a backpack where the gear comes out from the backside and not the front. Whenever I am out and about photographing I only wear simple clothing. I will often research what areas have the most photo potentials - so that way I am not having my camera out all the time. Which can be a target. :)

@lejlacatic7367 3 года назад

I was also robbed by two girls in the tram, I was leaving home from the city,the tram was not even crowded,i didn't have any money in my wallet but I had so many valuable books from uni.. I was terrified when i saw my backpack open when i sat down...a week later my wallet turned up at the tram company,my ID,tram card and everything else was in there but the old photos of my mom,dad and sister were gone. So weird. I feel you! Keep safe everyone! 💓

@crustyrash 3 года назад

I cannot emphasize enough the importance of always keeping your wits about you when out and about--I think it's crazy people who constantly have their earbuds in while out on the street. Another thing I'm a huge believer in is paying attention to your gut instinct and as Sophie described, going out of her way with the Tube because something just doesn't feel right.

@Kay-jc3ub 3 года назад

Unless you're the crazy person who has their earbuds in making everyone around you thinking you can't hear a thing, when you can hear everything going on around you!!!

@roos-marijn 3 года назад

I mean for me with ADD, going out without music on to drown out everything is exhausting. I can’t filter out all the stimuli I get so to help minimise that I keep my earbuds in whenever I can. Of course they’re not super loud and I can still hear what’s going on right around me but it helps keep out things from further away. I think just being aware of your surroundings visually is enough like that, and of course on a dark street at night the music is off.

@jadiecakes3241 3 года назад

If its during the day and im not in a low populated area music is on, once its night time, music is off but ear buds stay in and I routinely look behind me. I even do this when im walking my two german shepherds, because you never know.... But especially in winter, the ear buds help stop the wind which gives me ear aches.

@crustyrash 3 года назад

@@roos-marijn I get the ADD thing, I have it too.

@syskye2150 2 года назад

Thankfully I’ve never been in any of these circumstances, but one other thing that should be mentioned is, workers that come into your house! I’ve heard of people having say a plumber or electrician come in to your house and once they have spotted something of interest, they inform a “friend” of theirs and usually a week or so later, you get robbed. I would suggest, if you don’t know the worker you are inviting into your house, make sure you keep an eye on them and put away any thing that is of value to either you or money wise. Stay safe everyone

@douglasgriffiths3534 11 месяцев назад

If you need work done to your home (plumbing, painting, etc) make sure to hire only licensed and bonded contractors. Don't hire small companies. And yep, watch them like a hawk. And don't have contractors at your home when you're not there. I had to have new steel screens put on my windows, and had to take a day off when they came out. Otherwise, I wouldn't have been home when they came. (Jan Griffiths).

@ms.bizlady2956 2 года назад

That's why you leave your expensive stuff at home. I remember a Sorority Sister of mine got her gold necklace snatched at the mall in broad daylight. Carry a wallet inside with you. Hide your bag under or near the driver's seat. When riding public transportation always go to a car with lots of people. Double back on your steps if being followed or go a different way whether walking or driving.🥺 Get LoJack or something similar it will be tracked by the police for your car. Have them install it during the day so the thieves can see. Experienced something similar with a non luxury car.😳

@hkluv333 3 года назад

My mom told me from a young age don’t leave ANYTHING in your car, and if you do have it hidden under a seat or in the trunk, even things you don’t think would cause a break-in, can. Example my friend had a bag of old clothes on her seat and someone broke in to steal it

@karendevansky7598 3 года назад

I keep a can of wasp spray in my car in the console between the front seats and one next to my bed. This is something the police (in the US) recommend because wasp spray shoots out as a stream, not a spray, which means they don't have to be that close to you for you to get them. You aim for their eyes and it will blind them so you can get away.

@OK.Graycie 3 года назад

That is what I got my daughter to keep in her 1st car when she was in high school (USA here too). Even though she was a competitive shooter, she can't have that on school grounds so wasp spray it was. If anyone asked, she had to take care of a wasp nest under her car, lol.

@OK.Graycie 3 года назад

@@fleur9439 If they are trying to harm me or my family, I don't care how bad they get hurt. They deserve it.

@susanm2804 3 года назад

Excellent idea

@lindaraj3643 3 года назад

I keep bear spray

@damongirl66 3 года назад

@@OK.Graycie Hurt them before they hurt you!

@honeymoon618 3 года назад

I live in the outskirts of a big city. And I always have to take a train to get into the city. It can get dangerous at night, so what I do is that I put my nice bah in a black tote bag so it is concealed when I take the train, and when I feel confortable I take it out. 😊 it’s sad to have to live in fear.

@francisca8026 3 года назад

I think the only reason because I haven't get rob is because I'm always with my 2m man hahaha

@skr8674 3 года назад

2m man?

@accidentsafe 3 года назад

@@skr8674 6’5

@francisca8026 3 года назад

@@accidentsafe yes

@neurofrou 3 года назад

I've to say...it's stories like these that make me appreciate Singapore (where I'm from) even more. I can have nice things, they remain safe day or night and no one bats an eyelid :)

@sct4040 3 года назад

I need to visit Singapore, it's on my list for next year 2022.

@Looloowa74 3 года назад

Same in Kuwait 🇰🇼 I appreciate it as well. I wear my expensive jewellery and bags and feel very safe. Some people will put their laptop phone and wallet on a coffee table and go to the restroom. It’s that safe. الحمد الله علي الامن والامان

@seabreeze4559 3 года назад

police who actually stop crime, must be nice lol

@hilarygiaguzzi6139 3 года назад

@@seabreeze4559 How about let them be allowed to stop crime!

@meghanh71 3 года назад

Same for Hong Kong

@indoora 3 года назад

I am glad you were not harmed in any of these stories. Thank you for sharing.

@Giselle332 3 года назад

Thank you. This is so useful. I was followed in a London station and I stopped, turned around and looked the guy in the eyes and said, "Stop following me otherwise I'm calling the police." I had to tell him twice before he left me alone. He walked off in the opposite direction.

@tessy28 3 года назад

Omg what a fucking creep ! God knows what he had planned to do you.

@Looloowa74 3 года назад

My moms friend is a Texan and if anyone was following her she would stop, turn around and point her gun at him. And say ‘try me’. She. NEver got mugged and she was a very snazzy dresser. Definitely the perfect target but that gun and her attitude. People knew she would use it.

@sfjayhawk5810 3 года назад

Guns aren’t the answer. This is an awful example.

@quorrakai 3 года назад

Love it!! Like that here in Arizona. Low crime where we are. Fully armed.

@seabreeze4559 3 года назад

@@sfjayhawk5810 she could've been robbed, ra-ped or trafficked. It clearly was the answer.

@tamaracarter1836 3 года назад

@@seabreeze4559 But you’re more likely to be *killed* compared to countries without guns e.g. the United Kingdom: *Gun related homicides (this does not include suicides etc - only murder) in each country* - US 4.46 per 100,000 people (figures for 2017), - UK 0.02 per 100,000 people (figures for 2015). *Number of homicides “overall” for each country in 2017* - US 17,284 (5.3 per 100,000 people), - UK 688 (1.2 per 100,000 people) - and that figure even includes 90 homicide charges that took place during the 1980s, so the real figure should be 598/ 1.0 per 100,000 people. *Number of fatal stabbings in 2019 for each country - because I know you’ll probably come back with something to do with knife crime* - US 1,476 (0.47 per 100,000 people), - UK 235 (0.34 per 100,000 people). *Homicides and stabbings for 2017 in London and New York* - New York 295 homicides (3.5 per 100,000 people) - 76 of those were fatal stabbings, - London 136 homicides (1.5 per 100,000 people) - 76 of those were fatal stabbings.

@cuijgffs890 3 года назад

Yep, until the robber has his own gun. Do You even realize how dumb this is? Unless she is professionally trained how to use it, adding a gun to any situation will always escalate. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes

@SofiaCaeiro93 3 года назад

The shoe thing isn't crazy at all... I feel and realise that I'm a much more appealing target if I'm wearing platform sandals, or even a block heel boot. These are the most "limiting" types of shoes that I wear and I realise I'll have difficulty running with, if I have the need, so I can't even imagine people who wear heals everyday... Not only women are easier targets cause they're tipically less resistant and easier to dominante, but the shoewear just makes it even worse! It's sad that we have to consider think about these things, but it's true

@HannahAngel123 3 года назад

I hear horrific things happening in London and Paris now with theft. This reminds me that Tamara Kalinic in her video where her apartment was robbed, she said the thieves didn't touch her RTW or Shoes. Maybe thats where I will be spending my money more in the future

@je-suis_Tati 3 года назад

Most likely because these people want things that sell quick and with a profit. RTW and shoes hardly ever because of sizes and also because most people spend their money on handbags or accessories before RTW or shoes.

@strawberriesncandii 3 года назад

She was robbed in St.Tropez too years ago which leads me to believe that someone who knows her schedule most likely did this.

@brownsuga 3 года назад

I have a feeling in her case is a close friend or family

@ivegotthis8301 3 года назад

What is RTW?

@ewurabenaofosu-aikins9498 3 года назад

@@ivegotthis8301 Ready to Wear

@zajch 3 года назад

The Brands are the real thieves in my opinion.

@melaniekirven4482 3 года назад

Sophie, I'm so glad you speak about the downfalls of owning expensive items my son was thrown off his mountain bike and the bike was stolen also my husband was followed by two men in a van whilst riding his bike luckily my husband was vigilant and got the men on his go-pro they stopped following him when he told them to smile 😆 my son hasn't ridden his bike since the incident you're correct we should be allowed to use the items that we have worked hard for but vigilance and awareness is paramount bless you Sophie 🙏

@gaelankathleen2973 2 года назад

I am from Canada and back in 2005 travelled to Nicaragua. I have travelled in Central America many times with no issue. Any way, one day I was at a busy market and happened to look up to see a young and handsome guy staring at me many feet away. Now, I have had no shortages of 'would be' paramour whilst on travel - but this was different. in an instant, I had adrenalin course through my body with the urge to flee. Luckily, my hotel was close by - but he followed me. I got in okay...but 15 years later, still remember having such a strong terrifying physical reaction to someone who was only looking at me. First and only time that has happened - and I got the hell out of there!

@sct4040 3 года назад

My girlfriend was once followed from the Metro/subway that way. She tried very hard to shake him. Went out into the street, into a store, throughout the store she was continuously followed. Finally, shook him off, but It was very scary.

@JessicaAzura 3 года назад

someone took my phone straight out my hand in London, horrible experience. learnt my lesson never to have it out ! x

@adamr-j232 3 года назад

On a similar topic, I used to put my phone in my back pocket when i wasn't wearing my coat.. I once caught a guy grab it out my pocket in town and he dropped it and ran when my friend realised and shouted, so i've learned my lesson. x

@glambox92 3 года назад

@@adamr-j232 omg I get second-hand anxiety every time I see people keeping their phones in their back pocket! 😅

@youheartmel 3 года назад

Try to not be on your phone in public so you’re not an easy target. Criminals look for the distracted because they’re easier to prey on.

@zuzanna1456 3 года назад

Lesson should be get insurance!!!!!!

@plcurrie 3 года назад

They used to call it “Apple picking”

@garyschoolcraft4797 3 года назад

Hey Sophie, I had one incident when I had just graduated high school and was in town for the day. I had gone to the library and there was this guy who was acting suspicious and I was always running into him whenever I would go around a corner or down one of the aisles. I left the library and was walking down the street looking through shop windows and notices him standing across the street in the reflection. I turned and started walking further down the street and noticed that he had crossed the street and was following behind me. I immediately crossed the street again and ran into a drug store and started walking towards the back of the store. All along the back of the store there were mirrors angled from the wall onto the ceiling so the store clerks always had a view down every aisle to watch for shoplifters. I looked up and there he was over in the next aisle. I left the drug store as fast as possible and ran across the street. He had followed me and caught up with me at the street corner. It was winter and he had one of those long mid length car coats men wear with suits on and he stopped me face to face and he mumbled something to me and opened his coat up. I just said no thanks and walked on by him. It turned out being kinda funny because it was like something out of a movie where some sleazy guy opens up his coat and there are watches and all kinds of things pinned to the inside that he was trying to sell. Probably stuff he had pick pocketed. It was really creepy. The other things that I’ve had happen is when I’ve been driving on the highway and someone comes up behind me, changes lanes to go around me but then get right beside me and just keep the same speed as me. If I speed up they will keep up the pace so I usually have to put on the brakes so that they end up getting far ahead of me. Sometimes I’ve had to take an exit at the last minute and go a different direction to where I was going. I assume they were checking out the car to see if it was worth stealing or carjacking. I always take good care of my cars and have sometimes put aftermarket wheels on them.

@bernitajenkins3180 3 года назад

Similar happened to me, except the guy had nothing under the coat... 🤪 I was also stalked on the beach, whilst I had my toddler with me. As I ran up the beach, he undressed and started (you know what)! There are some sick puppies out there. I would fit a dash-cam if I were you.

@themango9644 3 года назад

yea when people pull up next to your car and are obviously keeping the same pacce for no good reason i dont understand why people try to speed up. just hit your breaks lol. you were smart for doing that.

@CariJayy 3 года назад

I read in an article that actress Kerry Washington chose her wedding bands because she wanted to be able to ride the train in NY and not draw too much attention. That stuck with me. Especially being from Chicago. Thanks for this video!

@jesseeec 3 года назад

While we were sitting in our hotel room (Cancun Mexico) a man walked in , looked at us and walked right out. If we weren’t there, our crap would have been ransacked and stolen. We are lucky enough to be smart enough to carry all high value stuff on us and leave behind our only our clothes /cheap suitcases

@sandragams 3 года назад

My mom's Rolex was stolen from a hotel room.. was a bit sad as her husband and I were saving for quite some time to give it to her for her 50th birthday ❤

@lgempet2869 3 года назад

SO sad….so sorry about that😞. Hopefully, she had it insured.

@patr70 3 года назад

Inside Job(?)

@sandragams 3 года назад

@@patr70 most likely as the room was locked, but don't have any evidence...

@patr70 3 года назад

@@sandragams In Las Vegas hotels it happens all of the time.. the Hotel specifically adheres to the "Hotel is not responsible for lost or stolen goods" which the employees use an a safeguard to rob the guests staying in the hotel guestrooms.

@swimlaps1 3 года назад

Sad! My dad travelled alot for work in '60s-'90s. He said- never lv money or valuables in the room or flight chk-in luggage.

@s000mable 3 года назад

My mum stopped wearing her Chanel J12 watch after she went to the he rest room in a restaurant and a woman snatched her wrist and said loudly: is that real?!?!? People are so rude

@SophieShohetOfficial 3 года назад

Omg, that’s scary!xx

@dueseason 3 года назад

I was looking for a second hand designer bags on Mercari...I seen a beautiful LV for just a few hundred...in the photos you can see a young man holding the bag on his lap and the background of the room look sketchy af...really dirty..cluttered and grungy...it just didn't seem right...idk..I didn't want anything to do with it..pass!

@tessy28 3 года назад

Eurghh that's horrible. God knows who he stole that from.

@adrianneguinzo 3 года назад

So sad for Tamara Kalinic too. I’m not sure if this video was made with that event in mind. It’s like ‘The Bling Ring’ all over again.

@elenah1384 3 года назад

Me too, I am sure she was followed, they knew who she was, where she lived, and we all know what she had. I doubt the burglars randomly break into people’s apartments hoping they might find 10 Hermes bags.

@adrianneguinzo 3 года назад

@@elenah1384 🥺 Luxury owners or not should definitely have a security system.

@elenah1384 3 года назад

@@adrianneguinzo Yes it sounds scary if they didn’t have a security system with all those Rolexes in the apartment that everyone knew about. Although it seems that things in France are so bad, people might get killed for much less.

@mylifemyjourney1 3 года назад

If it happen to Kim K in France w/ security guards it could happen to any influencer, especially if you are posting everything online. That's is why Kim K does not post much about her material possession anymore. This is a lesson for all of us.

@cindyc3960 3 года назад

Appreciated the topic you selected for story time and loved even more your subscribers' stories. When I was a young girl, my siblings, mum, and granny went shopping together and purchased bedding and clothes for children. All the kids helped carry the purchases. As we walked up the path to our house, an unkempt young man with a cigarette in his mouth asked me a question I didnt understand. I asked my mom what he said. It appeared he asked for directions and as soon as she pointed out where the street is loacated with her right arm that held her purse, he snatched it off and mom fought him. I was scared he might have had a weapon and screamed for mom to let go. She did. Weeks later the empty purse showed up at our front door in a black garbage bag. We felt so violated.

@Bobby_The_Cat 3 года назад

Great video Sophie. It is uncomfortable to think about it but necessary. I will add that if you can’t run or ask for help do not struggle just pass your things. Your life is more important and you never know how far the thief is willing to go!

@ErikaBardere 3 года назад

Thank you for mentioning this because I always say, if you're a target... you're a target. I usually mentioned it in regards to online hacking because a "safe password" & "don't click on links" isn't going to keep you safe if you're a target. Just like, not putting photos online isn't necessarily the solution because so many other people witnessed you outside of your socials. Even having a fake version doesn't matter. I've had daydreams (yes, day) of things I'd say if someone tried to rob me off of my body & my reaction was to act like my stuff is fake & worthless & hope they don't take it.

@seabreeze4559 3 года назад

it's like sexual predators, women don't protect themselves hoping they'll stop, but they'll attack the next woman instead O_O

@CarolSummer 3 года назад

After sooooo many years I’m still so into your content, you’re always serving great entertaining videos !! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🥳😘

@strawberriesncandii 3 года назад

I live in Los Angeles and I know a few people who have been robbed. My neighbor was robbed when she was living in Bel Air. She and her family are private people with no social media. These tips are very helpful to anyone living in a city. I recommend those foldable flats be in your bag at least.

@MalkaLux 3 года назад

Great video Sophie! Crime can happen anywhere and at any time so being aware and vigilance is the key. If you are carrying an expensive bag or wearing an expensive item and feel that you may be followed go to the nearest police station. DO NOT go home or somewhere where you will be alone and vulnerable. Stay safe everyone!

@judeallan268 3 года назад

OMG Sophie, my heart was pounding when you were talking about the guy on the train sitting next to you and then following you! 😳

@nora4981 2 года назад

This is why I never put my handbag in the trunk of my car in public … if I can do it at home before I drive away to my destination I would.

@mayzmay 3 года назад

As someone who lives in London, I have so many stories of people getting robbed... so far I've been lucky. I usually hide my watch and wear my bags the wrong way round so you can't see the logo. Whenever I'm in a restaurant I never hang my handbag on the back of my chair, I always have it in a spot where I can see it.

@bocabunny7151 3 года назад

Stop staring at your phone. Big target there. Especially when walking. When your walking walk. Look around and be aware stop watching the phone.

@katharinebloodworth2638 3 года назад

i love that you always stay classy.

@angelajones-vc5ls 3 года назад

Love this video! Awareness is everything! I never wear airpods on the street. My best trick is black tote bags in my car. If I ever have to leave anything inside they blend in with the seats or the floor. I have a hatchback and I worry when I run errands.

@tpurdi1 3 года назад

PUT YOUR CARDS, MONEY, RINGS SUFFED IN YOUR BRA UNTIL YOU GET TO YOU NEED TO GO.

@katefr0m 3 года назад

Love how your blouse is on topic

@SophieShohetOfficial 3 года назад

I didn’t realise until you mentioned!! 😂 xx

@JulieWilliams84 3 года назад

I used to work in a bookies, I had a decoy bag I'd keep at work with me with an old phone in it so if I did get robbed and they did demand my bag I could give them the decoy one

@zuzanna1456 3 года назад

My friend was held at gun point while working at bookies they gave her a day off after she quit

@mismamari. 3 года назад

Oh yes, a decoy wallet is a must! The thief's going to be in a hurry so they'd prob snatch/grab and run before they realize they just got an old wallet full of rewards cards and a few dollars.

@RockyR 3 года назад

I remember in NYC some years ago being followed down the street and then an attempted mugging. The guy and me actually were both pulling my bag all the way to the end of the street that was somewhat deserted but we were coming up to a main road. I was incredibly scared and had never had anything happen like this before to me. This was before my luxe days and I was a student! Its crazy because I was wearing a simple medium size top handle purse from Forever 21 but he wanted it so bad. I ran and pulled my bag as hard as I COULD and ran right into a construction site and one of the workers jumped in front of me and stopped the mugger/stalker and made sure he walked far away from us.

@imalrockme 3 года назад

Anything is worth stealing if you're a drug addict or a professional mugger, I started thinking that way a long time ago ( my old Toyota's rear glass was broken twice ). Your bag wasn´t flashy but he thaught there was enough money in it for at least a meal and transportation. It's all easy profit for him.

@zhisu2665 2 года назад

anyone can be a target but some people really forget that thieves will target more obvious designer items especially handbags coz they can just run off with the bag for a profit instead of rummaging through a 'cheap' handbag to find the purse.

@aokiQ 3 года назад

Thank you so much for sharing these tips, I asked about the tips from another YTber few days ago, bc she was doing Q&A, she replied “ she don’t want to share it, bc she is afraid some ppl might take these tips and rob her”, suddenly I felt like I was being so rude for asking this question, anways thanks for not holding back, and sharing your experience.Also about that marking thing, it happens a lot in Asian, if you found there is strange mark outside of your home, remove it immediately

@bold_beautiful_and_opinionated 3 года назад

Thanks for Harding. You are so right. I was robbed several years ago in South Africa. I had just gotten into the country and arrived my hotel when these robbers armed with AK47 guns showed up out of nowhere. It turns out I had been followed from the airport. I lost my laptop and luggage but thankfully hid my purse. That experience taught me the need to be aware of one’s surroundings. Don’t get too drawn into phone or what you are doing. Folks are watching you all the time whether you are decked in luxury gear or not.... whether you are walking, driving or just sitting in a coffee shop doing your own thing. Your ability to read your environment, assess possible risks, chart possible exit plans and be proactive regarding your personal security might save your being a victim of crime. Stay safe y’all!

@bold_beautiful_and_opinionated 3 года назад

*Thanks for sharing.

@MinkyMothabela 3 года назад

13:20 **Rolex Gang has entered the chat** 😂 if you're South African then you know lol. But on a serious note, time and place is important when wearing your luxury items. Stay vigilant. Great video as always Sophie 💕

@munisecevik7755 3 года назад

Ahhh this video scared me a little! But I get it, I have a designer bag and I cover it with another bag (like a cloth or a shopping bag) when I reach my destination I take it out. I became super paranoid ever since I got mugged on my 16th birthday!