Why You Should NOT be a Topper !

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Why You Should NOT Be a Topper! - In this video, I will show you how and why you make the mistake of seeking perfection. I will show you how you can achieve perfect results with imperfect methods.
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@chandanareddy48 4 года назад

Progress is better than perfectionism!

@liveloveprosper 4 года назад

Chandana Reddy this is so true . 1.01^80 is very different from 1.00^80 by a huge margin . Slow movement is the way forward .

@kishankharwar99 4 года назад

@@liveloveprosper Wow!👌

@Dr.lost586 4 года назад

Omg,so true

@karthiksashank6829 3 года назад

I dont think so

@vandanachopra7502 3 года назад

I barely passed my 1st yr mbbs exam. I am and wl never be a topper. Wl I be able to clear my PG exam ?

@achyutkanungo.98 4 года назад

Can't explain how hard it is to swallow this truth is. This is nothing short of gold. It's more important to "start". Forget 100%. Even 1% achievement is better than paralysing yourself to stagnation.

@jeevan402 4 года назад

"Shortcut cuts your success shorter." -My Dad.

@doraemonmemes3439 3 года назад

Wow so gooood

@theguywhoasked2957 3 года назад

U have the best dad But my dad always says that how many marks I have got but doesn't see my football skills

@priyanihar5635 4 года назад

I was the topper of my school and once I entered medical school ... I couldn't even pass my internals ... I lack motivation 😌

@DrPratyusha23 4 года назад

Same here

@kishankharwar99 4 года назад

So sad!😣

@krishnalalmohan5050 4 года назад

😂😂same thing with me.

@alminaaktersumana4516 4 года назад

I am in the same.. should I get into medical college or not.. it's tough

@mdmohsin2670 4 года назад

most medical students story

@dr.magizhvendhan5552 4 года назад

It happens every time.Earlier If I don't Wake up at the time I wanted to,I will waste the whole day sulking it. Then at the end of the day I regret thinking that even if I have started studying at the time I woke up, it will be of great use. Perfectionism and all or none phenomenon will definitely lead to procrastination. Believe in COMPOUND INTEREST.

@prime5816 4 года назад

Dark Knight i feel like reading about my self... i thought i was t oly one wasting the whole day or panicking if i wake up late...

@dr.magizhvendhan5552 4 года назад

@@prime5816 Ya it's good to know that am not alone:-P. Hope you are doing good ☺️

@frankez1691 4 года назад

Story of my life.

@rahuldeshmukh4305 4 года назад

Same here

@pratikshyapradhan5363 4 года назад

@Dark Knight well said ..

@Boneteacher 4 года назад

Comment your thoughts below ! I hope this video was helpful. My only request to you is LIKE & SHARE this video with any student you know, it gives me the motivation to make more videos! Love you all! ❤️❤️❤️ 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/the_boneteacher/ Watch My Previous Video: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-yFzB7Xm6aNg.html Watch My Other Videos: 1. How To Study like a Machine With Maximum Focus: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-z_tYjLJsadQ.html 2. Do this Every Night for a Better Tomorrow! : ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aRBXp9Cn34Y.html 3. Is it Too Late to Study for Exam? : ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-w26CBFw5j1w.html 4. Why Exam Stress is Good? - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_6LL5VWIURs.html 5. Why You Should NOT Be a Topper! - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aNTuOhNoRYE.html 6. Are You YOUR OWN Enemy? - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-4TjWLWSvltM.html Or Watch my productivity Playlist: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-z_tYjLJsadQ.html Or listen to my My podcast Playlist: ru-vid.com/group/PL6O4HtEve6W6sFF0Jx0HQ2gvKRZFI7wdf MY Podcast Link: anchor.fm/boneteacher

@themedspirit5062 4 года назад

Boneteacher Sure Dr.Abbas

@emptyspace6296 4 года назад

Thanks.. you're not only a good surgeon and teacher but also an excellent psychoanalyst whose wisdom is uniquely the best... Watching your videos really kills depression and helps to tide over the worst times of life.. thanks a lot sir.. 😍

@mindyouDoc 4 года назад

The introduction part of the video is so true...trying to be perfect at every task is like an addiction which I need to break ! Sir, you have rightly explained how perfectionism can lead to let downs and failures when we only look at the "results" & forget to focus on the "process" . Thank you so much Sir. This one is my favourite video till now.

@msdahinwal 4 года назад

Hello sir..am prepairing for pgi..and today i given my pgi grand test..my score was like 365 correct option...160 incorrect..sir it was my 3rd grand test..i have increased attemptation and no of correct option test by test but negatives are somewhat stable..am bit worried as only 40 days are left in pgi..and am confused should i just give 2 more test or should start weekly test from now...bcz some faculty told me twice a weak grabd test are good enough and weekly grand test will be counterproductive..sir pls tell what should i do..attempt more GT or just persist with my total 5 grand test plan..and also 2nd problm is as solving pgi gt takes more time...should i solve gt along with notes or just cram the solution given by institute

@arathykrishnan4110 4 года назад

Thank you sir ..this was something much needed😊

@shashisoni2412 4 года назад

"U will fail many many times, before u succeed" Master lines sir....ur gem of a person....ur videos are awsome...😊😊

@siddhishanbhag5442 4 года назад

Nobody talks about that essentiality of working hard and accepting failures and still not giving up. I am a perfectionist and could relate so much with the fact that perfection is equivalent to glorified procastination! "Strip it to bare essentials" "Nothing worth having comes overnight" Thank you sir. This was therapeutic.

@chandna63 4 года назад

100% true. The idea of just starting to do something is more important than the idea (subconscious excuse) of achieving perfection. Loved this video sir!

@aryan2065 4 года назад

The much-needed video, you got my nerve exactly on point. Thanks, an understatement but thanks!

@tpsingh5773 4 года назад

"All or none " --- absolutely true It is incredible how you read minds and make these fabulous videos . Thanks a lot 🙏🙏

@drgargiwavikar366 3 года назад

This is one of the most brilliant videos I have come across on You tube. Better than any TED talk. Perfectionism is like a car with a battered gear box. No forward progression despite the energy expended. That’s my vague metaphor for it. Thank you Sir for giving it a tangible form

@elsalavato3186 4 года назад

Hi sir, I'm a two time neet failure and am going to Georgia to study mbbs since private colleges in India are expensive. I've been trying to grow out of this situation for so long after being depressed and suicidal. I think I finally found my mistake and will try my best to learn from it and not repeat it again. Thank you. Subscribed! N downloaded the video so I can listen to it before going to bed everynight.

@preksha1710 4 года назад

Thank you so much for this video ! Exactly what I (and I’m sure many more) needed to hear ! 😁👍🏼

@ranita1370 4 года назад

"The gap between noble visions and mediocre efforts" . So wonderfully worded, sir. It's like, you're putting voice to my problems, my dilemmas, my everyday struggles. Your on screen presence and voice brings so much calm and it feels so soothing to listen to, sir. How do you know us, our struggles so well? 🥺

@minajhoond8208 4 года назад

everytime i'm on the verge of giving up, you sir always seem to know why I'm about to do so and make me realize the mistakes I'm making. Idk what's going to happen in the future, but all i know is that I'm really grateful for your encouragement and ability to understand what goes on in my mind. I wish you all the happiness in the world sir, i hope you know that you've impacted a lot more people than you'll ever know.

@dermdrgurman 4 года назад

Sir, I can totally relate the each and every word you’ve said in the video! Thankyousomuch Sir for taking out your precious and time and making such amazing videos!💙

@AleemKhan-bf4mn 4 года назад

Not a bone teacher, A “PERFECT “MINDREADER; Thanku sir❤️

@shikhadugar8402 4 года назад

I can relate to all of that ! Thank you for bringing out this video... Thank you very much Sir!

@gudiya8883 3 года назад

Some times.... I use to think that how good I was with my work when I was in class 12 but now when I have to clear the NEET exam it seems so difficult for me, and i wish that i could be as like that when I was in class 1o .

@BlairBerries 4 года назад

Really needed this! Thanks alot sir! As being a PCB student, theres much higher expectations and harsh competition and in between we average scorer (but science lover) get sandwiched and also get judged for being ourselves!

@impossible9599 4 года назад

Yes sir, you are absolutely right!! In my first MBBS , I just focused on studying and taking self tests and asked my friends to ask difficult questions. Initially I didn't knew most of the questions. But by the end of one semester, I had grasp of most of the things. Than I taught few of my friends the whole subject. This really took improved of my retention of the subject. At the end, I didn't even expect to top the class but I did. The one's who studied with me knew how I fucked up subjects in beginning while others think I just have a good memory or have some god gifted skill.

@mudrap8737 4 года назад

Do it and move forward. Imperfect actions lead to perfect results. Don't focus on results, focus on the process! Well said!

@sauvikbhowmik1357 4 года назад

I do agree Failure is always the pillar of success👏

@venujarapala4242 4 года назад

I'm so thankful for you sir . You are actually giving the right way at right time for reaching the goals.

@Vishnu-cd4xy 4 года назад

Thank you for helping me find my problem... I couldn't get into my dream college just because of this. I was labeled a perfectionist in my school and wherever i went.. Now after getting into a medical college, I still hadn't find my biggest weakness... Thankyou so much.. This made me come out of my regrets l, gave me a new perspective, and real MOTIVATION. Thanks for all the solutions, thanks a lot... 🙏🙏🙏

@plus332 2 года назад

agreed ..💯 .....thankyou for guiding and sharing

@akshatrb 4 года назад

I am stunned to see how relatable this topic is! This could potentially be the THING holding me back. Thankyou for such a thoughtful video sir.

@DrAvdeshJain 4 года назад

very well said most of us chase perfection instead of working fully to our extreme limits thank you sir

@anujana25 4 года назад

Much needed video sir!!! Loved the genuine opinion you have given....and its the ultimate bitter truth that we need to sooner or later accept and work accordingly. Thank you sir!

@allurimeghanath1 2 года назад

Agree sir! Gradually your videos changing my perspective over my potential.

@garys4076 4 года назад

Perfection..... procrastination... focussing on the process....carrying failures on ur sleeves... before ur goal achieved.... U gave such a splendid perspective...Thank u 🙏

@yasmeenfatima8426 4 года назад

U exactly replicate a student's thoughts . I always wanted everything to be pin perfect. Now I will move forward even if I lack a little behind.

@abhyusoni 4 года назад

Thank you sir, this was the kind of video I was waiting for. I was thinking to myself that when will you post a video next. This gives me immense energy to move forward and do better now knowing what I am doing wrong. 🙏

@suneetpatel94 4 года назад

This hits home way too hard, sir! Thanks a lot for the solutions. 🙏🏻😎 You're the best!

@shibilyparveen8894 3 года назад

1 year later your words still motivate so many students

@rachelcynthia2264 4 года назад

Omg.... I needed this message. The right video at the right time. Superb video!!!! 👍👍👍

@katherinecabildo1527 3 года назад

I am preparing for my biochemistry exam and this video just popped up at the rightest time!!! seriously, I'm excited to see how my results will change in time after I apply this new mindset. Thank you very much for sharing!! May God bless you doc

@reham475 4 года назад

You solved my confusion. I'm a kinda perfectionist as well as afraid of failure, I'm delaying my exam from a long time. Thanks for great advice.❤

@ajaythomas2830 4 года назад

Great video sir , actually it's never the lack of enthusiasm I lacked but the understanding that being good enough is enough

@raveenakukreja258 4 года назад

Thank you soo much sir. This kick was needed at this point of time..

@abhipsasingh2001 3 года назад

Thank you sir, I really needed this. You are a savior. :)

@swethaselvaraj7122 3 года назад

This is so relatable. The insight you have regarding how minds work is what makes you such a great mentor. Each video has such good content, that it equals reading an entire book on productivity. Thank you Sir.

@Dr_Analise 4 года назад

Wow! this is so true... focussing on the end result makes everything so stressful... I need to break down my goal n enjoy every bit.. one day at a tym!

@silentstalker3077 4 года назад

Thanks for thid

@doctoroffduty2319 3 года назад

Totally relate...I would love a detailed video about solutions for perfectionism and procrastination!

@vidhijalan2023 4 года назад

Totally agree with each part of this video ..Thank you so much for the motivation :)

@shreyarathi8305 4 года назад

I can completely agree. Thank you so much!😊😊😊

@dncmi1436 4 года назад

I always seek perfection ..... And then all ends up in demotivation... Thank you so much sir....

@humairasadaf5090 4 года назад

Thankyou so much sir for making time for helping and guiding...this video was really the need of the hour 👍

@shubhanginandini3092 2 года назад

So relatable!! Thank you Sir!!

@shubhadipchakraborty9032 4 года назад

Just when I needed it ! Sir, you are a Genius... Godspeed,sir !

@kavivarshinipriya851 4 года назад

I agree with you entirely sir. It is all exactly what we face.

@manthanraiyani4458 4 года назад

Sensational presentation of reality. Hats off sir, Rather than those which temporary boost the confidance and motivation this is what required for long term efforts. Just perfect 💪🏼

@utpalkant6883 4 года назад

Yes I agree what you explained! Thank you sir

@Augaustya 4 года назад

Thanks doc! For boosting our energy to the road map to our destinations. I am studying with the same process in mind. Now all I have to do is to practice it continuously. Continuously because I sometimes skip studies.

@rupindergill94 4 года назад

Thank you sir, much needed 😊

@ramu6369 4 года назад

I do focus on the end result for now sir Now i ll change it to the process thank you for throwing the light and striking in the head telling that you have to manage time and put efforts...

@deepanshugupta1990 4 года назад

Thanks sir for this video. I was facing this problem and this video sorted out and make me again back to track.

@divyamsdd5181 4 года назад

I agree 100% percent...it's very true Sir Shouldn't Overestimate our potential Underestimate the task

@mlbbhub2833 4 года назад

Thank you sir, i really needed this. Lots of love. Please keep making videos.

@Mynamearnab 4 года назад

Thank you very much sir . I can relate this video with my present mind set . You cleared my myth about perfection .

@swatimishra5693 4 года назад

How do you read (I bet) every student's mind and post just the perfect video w.r.t time, all of the time. You are amazing, always, Sir!❤️🙏

@nimishaagarwal4372 4 года назад

Very nice vedios ! This is what exactly happening . Totally agree with you ! Felt relieved after watching ur vedio !

@happysona6379 4 года назад

Thank you for this video.... The idea is wonderful and thoughtful

@vidhishah9944 4 года назад

Thank you so much sir, your videos are very helpful. You show us the path and give us courage. Gratitude 🙏

@deepakkumarramesh1508 4 года назад

100% RELATABLE! SUCH AN EYE OPENER!!! TYSSSSM😎🙏 sir!

@swagatkumarsaha8339 4 года назад

Sir i am a neet aspirant...But i can relate everything to myself !!🙏...I was aiming for perfectionism too...Now everything is clear to me why i m not improving bcoz i was focusing 100% result not on my every day progress .Thank you sir.

@anushkabhardwaj9904 4 года назад

Sir you really understand us. Thank you so much for sharing this video with us.

@balasubramanianc9113 4 года назад

Sir, im new to ur videos... But im saying from bottom of my heart that everything u address is relevant to students becs i m a person who has been trapped in this perfectionism cage.... I lost many of my oppurtunities due to this.....

@Dr.Mitali 3 года назад

Thank You so much sir...your videos are the true support for all the medicos out there...Greatful ✨🙏

@heavengarden5546 4 года назад

Sir I could relate with the every single example u gave!! Thanks so much sir for inspiring 🙏🙏

@sayantanig5386 4 года назад

Agree with you completely sir !!! Thanks a lot 😃

@dipanjansaha7258 4 года назад

This is so inspirational!

@priyankagarg2046 4 года назад

Yes sir I feel this.. I think more about results than process

@gauravh5961 4 года назад

Thank you sir for the words of wisdom. That does summarise our mindset.

@dranuppawar8032 2 года назад

Thank you so much @boneteacher for every word!!! Directly hits nail on the coffin 🙌🙌

@sakshipatel3229 4 года назад

Sir, this was so much needed . I could completely relate to each and everything you mentioned . Thank you so much sir for understanding us and being there for all of us !😊

@shibilyparveen8894 3 года назад

Thank you so much sir, every single word is absolutely true. I have never attempted neetpg in fear of getting disqualified. This year I started preparing initially at a very good pace, but so many hurdles came up and I had to give up. When the postponed date came up, I thought of trying my luck and started again, but now as the neetpg is just a month away, I have started to lose all focus, and have been so paralyzed by the fear that I totally wasted last 2 days, I saw your video and now I am back in action. Maybe i can't perfect the exam, but let me at least try how much I can learn in this short time. Thank you so much, please keep up with your good work sir

@liveloveprosper 4 года назад

This is so real . Quora and your videos really help me deal with PG preparation issues . Thanks .

@doctorshe 4 года назад

absolutely agree ! every morning i hear u once and den start my day 🙂

@dhanyakarthat3998 4 года назад

Thank you sir...this talk has really helped me..

@gayatreenayak6243 4 года назад

It's applicable even for life events... thanks a lot sir🙏

@ishraq7734 3 года назад

Wow this is really eye opening, a new perspective for me

@coolvsh01 4 года назад

Wow.. can totally relate to each and every line!! How can you be so accurate and understand our mind so well.. That's where I am standing after DVT.. thank you so much☺️

@Amit8866797159 4 года назад

Wow, Thank you Sir, Right Advice at Right time. You are an inspiration Sir.🙌

@mahithakanugula8405 4 года назад

I think u r reading our minds...and posting the video accordingly at the right time....true inspiration ❤️

@sanjaythapa717 3 года назад

That's one of the most important suggestions any student can get in a lifetime. Focus on the process, results are bound to be good. 🙏

@DrAlfredNUmar 4 года назад

Thank you so much Dr. Your videos are Awe inspiring!

@niloferishrath2461 Год назад

Thank you sir ❤ very useful video!

@mathsolver4480 4 года назад

This was the best.I'm so glad that I have found this video which I wanted!!

@mrudulhirlekar4044 3 года назад

Thank you sir for giving the clarity that I was seeking...😁

@ipsitapriyadarshinipatra412 4 года назад

I am just halfway through the video and I couldn't stop myself from writing the comment... Sir, whatever you said is so scarily accurate!! Ever since I was a kid, I always wanted to do everything perfectly..it worked out when I was in school..but as I grew up and the amount of studies and workload increased, it was my need for perfection that paralyzed me.. (even now)..I am scared of grand tests because I feel I am not perfectly prepared and end up skipping the test which is even more detrimental.. Thank you, sir..for sharing this.. 😊😊

@gurneetchhabda4062 4 года назад

Man, it seems like you have already spoken my heart out!! I struggle with the exact same problems. I’ve been a perfectionist since school time, gathered a lot of praise for being an all rounder all through. But now, it’s actually paralysing to overcome that perfectionism in your habits. And, the struggle with grand tests is so real ! I could resonate with each and every word of the video, Sir. Thank you so much for coming up with this.

@ayushjain6934 4 года назад

This is most raw and real advice anyone has given till date. I very much agree to you sir. Thankyou

@arnabduttaura378 4 года назад

Thanks for the insight

@himanshushekhar4815 4 года назад

Perfection is probably close to impossible! But don't know how u PERFECTLY figure out...wat I(we) need at wat tym... Nd all ur videos are launched jus at d perfect tym having a perfect topic.

@Boneteacher 4 года назад

Thanks

@drmohammadmoin5030 4 года назад

Himanshu Shekhar Can’t agree more

@purvaupadhyay6945 4 года назад

Sir, u understand our psychi so well... Just feels amazing to hear you everytime... .

@ruksarshaikh5982 4 года назад

This idea of perfection in all the subjects has been my problem since UG days.....and yes as u said i always end up thinking abt the branch or the clg I'll get rather than working on my weak areas and revising....thank you so much sir! I may not be a perfectionist but surely i am hardworker and after watching ur video it's better to focus on the process than expecting the results overnight!

@rutujabhujbal509 4 года назад

I can relate to all the points ........ Seriously we don't accept the truths and hide behind excuses .....thanks to u sir..🙏...

@Vaishnavi_agarwalll 4 года назад

Yes sir! I have that thing of doing things with perfection. Specially happen when I write something or try to learn something new. But to do everything best I end up getting nothing . Also idk why I never want to fail. Tbh I am gonna follow your advice, & will be a change