Why you should NOT date K-pop idol *SPILLING THE TEA* 

the story just shows that there are so many hidden relationships and we have No Idea abt them like jeez

Lessons to learn: -Don’t hate idols gf‘s cause they suffer already -Don’t waste your money for gifts cause you don’t know who get it in the end -Don’t be delulu about your idols image cause you see just what they want you to see it’s an illusion -Don’t love them tooooo much cause you don’t really know them. Love yourself and your time;)

I feel bad for the secret girlfriends of the idols.

I admire a Chinese famous actor once said "Please just pay attention to my hard work and like the dramas I film. Don't pay attention to my personal life. I'm just a normal person like you. Not someone special." That is the real truth about the entertainment industry and celebrities. No matter which country. Being a celebrity is just their JOB! Fans are their source of income.

She lived the Y/N life... Edit: WOW didn’t expect so many likes. Thank you everyone!

Not only did she have a idol boyfriend, she also has kpop friends.

Topic: *"DATING WITH KPOP IDOLS"* Me: *_I can't even date any normal guy, how much more a kpop idol?_* (why is this still getting attention? it's been a year already 😃)

Imagine going to your idol’s concert and his girlfriend is right next to you and you think hah wow she’s A FAN TOO

*After this, im getting a conclusion that some kpop bois don't react to girl group performances on award shows because their secret girlfriends will get jealous.*

kpop idols are humans too. not every human being is nice and kind. it's hard for kids to understand that but once you get older you start to realize that things aren't always what they seem.

I think the hardest thing for being a kpop idol's gf is insecurity..

Her : why you should not date a kpop artist Me : I even can’t buy a ticket for a concert-

Chen's wife be saying "You just got the wrong man"

"why you should not date a kpop idol" me: i cant even buy an official merch-

That is why I have mad respect for Chen and his wife. Maintaining a relationship is not easy and Chen owning up to it despite his fame says a lot about his character.

“You shouldn’t date kpop idols because-“ Me: *still picking who in NCT I should marry*

Why you shouldn't date an idol? Chen's wife: that's why I married him instead?

hmm... let's see why we shouldn't date idols -dating bans -hate from 12 yr old fans -unwanted popularity -nosy papparazis -saseang fans *I wonder why we shouldn't* 🤔

To the kpop idol who dated her, Watch this video and reflect on how you hurt her so that you do not repeat the same thing all over again with someone else.

Plot twist: he was actually watching this... Wait- i think he definitely saw this😂😂

Her story is really sad cause like she is there when that "kpop idol" is just a trainee and reaching his dream to become an idol, but when he finally reach his dream he just like broke up with jina and forgot everything about them its just so sad :( some kpop idols are not allowed to date publicly cause like it could end their careers, and their fans will get angry at them and throw hate to them. Some fans are really obsessive and delusional so they can't accept the fact that their idols are dating. They're humans too so we should respect their decisions in life and If ever that they are dating we should be happy for them because thats what makes them happy. :)

First step to date a kpop idol... - being pretty. Me: Can't relate

Sometimes i just want to have a k-idol friend so that i may know all the things happenings in the kpop industry

Jina: Don't date idols Also Jina: he was so cute, his smile was so cute, he was such a good kisser, his lips were so soft

Jina : you should nt date a kpop idol Chen's wife: EXOcuse me

Imagine this Idol seeing this video bow being like: 👁👄👁

The hardest pill to swallow is that idols are just normal person and could hurt you as much as normal persons. Some have attitude problems, commitment issues, etx but you of course cant see it on tv. So if you have a chance to interact with one, or befriend an idol, it’s better to stay friends than just pursue a relationship with them.

I actually would prefer to be friended with the idols because they seem funny but i also wouldn't date one Thx for my first 1k likes

Why you should NOT date a K-pop idol Koreaboos: *surprised Pikachu face*

I can imagine that there's a lot of idols that broke up with their girlfriends/boyfriends because of their company. But then there is Hyuna and E'dawn breaking the rules 💖

*Her: Don't date K-pop idols* *Me: Thank God Suga is a cat*

Why does everybody think it’s Tae, when she clearly told us it’s not someone from BTS

Hmm Bambam really wasn't joking about the tinder thing huh? Edit: It's a joke 🤦🏻‍♀️

Plot twist : this is just a huge commercial for tinder

"why you should not date a kpop idol" thank god, Seokjin is a moon.

I thought I should watch this video. Because in my delusional mind me and Jackson Wang are getting married

*Why you should not date a Kpop idol* As if like we're even gonna meet one. 😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭 Edit: WOW! So many of us connect on a spiritual level😂 Let's make a toss for the idols who will be our boyfriends forNEVER! Cheers🍻

Fans: give gifts that are probably expensive to their idols The idol: gives it to his girlfriend

As a good detective as I am (lol), I tried to search for more information to try to at least have a hint of who could possibly be her ex. I thought about a few things that she said in the video, plus some more info that I searched online (guys, have in mind that I did this just for fun, and not trying to harm anybody, or anything like that). Info that I analyzed: - She said "it was a long time ago" - Tinder started in 2012 BUT got to Korea only in 2015, so I guess that the history happened around this time (2015-2016); - If he was on Tinder around that time, it means that he was not under age, cause you need to be an adult to use the app - so, he was at least 19-20; - She is around 33 y.o. by now, and she never said that they have a huge age gap, so I think that the guy must be around her age (maybe 29 - 33); - She said that he was from a big company BUT, she said back in 2019 that it was hard to still see him on TV, which means that he was still active, at least until 2019; - All of this means that it was a guy who debuted quite late, when you think about the age that idols usually debut in Korea - besides the fact that she said that to be able to debut was his dream, cause he trainned a lot for it - which kinda confirms my assumption; - The groups that debuted around this time (2015-2016), that were/are from a big company: Monsta X, N. Flying, DAY6, Seventeen, iKON, UP10TION, VAV, Astro, Imfact, KNK, NCT 127, NCT U, Pentagon, SF9, Victon. - Analyzing what I said, about the age, I think that the guy (probably) was born before 1992, so, the options that we have are, finally: Shownu (Monsta X), Seunghyub (N. Flying), Jae (DAY6), St. Van & Baron & Ace (VAV), Jino (Pentagon). What was REAL interesting about searching for all of this was, I suddenly remembered the part where she said that she got his attention on Tinder saying "Hello" in 4 languages (Spanish, Korean, English, (...)) AND, Jae, from DAY6 was born in Buenos Aires, Argentina (Spanish language), grew up in California (English language) and went to Korea around 2012 (Korean language) 👀 And, as a DAY6 fan myself, I know a lot that Jae never got really used to the Korean culture around K-pop and stuff, and the fact that he left JYPE last December kinda proves me right. Maybe he put this info on his profile on Tinder (about the languages, or whatever).

I have no chance with a regular guy , how much more a kpop idol haha hahaha hahaha

_I feel bad for her_ , _when you have fallen for someone who isn't feeling the same anymore_ ╥_╥ _Jina deserves to have a better boyfriend that really love her_

"I met him to TINDER" me: *starts downloading tinder* pls be got7 or exo----- jk HAHAHSHSHSHHS

I think something we kpop idol forget is that we’re not really in love with them. We’re in love with the image their giving to us, which is not always true. In reality your fav idol can be someone completely different and maybe if you even met them as how they really are you wouldn’t even like them anymore as the image they are giving us it’s not true, it’s all marketing. And I know this is so sad I’m in love with hongjoong ateez but in reality I dont really know him at all 🤧

"Dont date a kpop idol" Im grateful that TXT are tiktokers

This sounds like a whole ass fanfic with a Y/N and everything Tysm for 1.2k likes :0

“why you shouldn’t date a kpop idol” me: i'm ugly

All these K-Pop idols professing they *never* date. Then you, and Grazy Grace come along, and spill the tea LMAO

this video makes me feel more confident that many kpop idols are actually secretly dating with someone, and the fans are so innocent believing everything what their idols saying...

her: that's why you shouldn't date a kpop idol me: thank God NCT are vloggers

"Do not date a kpop idol" *me staring at the engagement ring I bought for namjoon*

"Why you should not date a kpop idol" Me: Thank God BLACKPINK is a color

I lost it when she got lots of gifts from him that were actually from his fans jsjjsnsjksnxixjskn

*My reasons :* *3rd* : Fans will attack me *2sd* : He is super busy *1st* : I am potato

Jina: do not date a Kpop idol. Me: I pray every day so the lord could give me the opportunity to even see him in person.

They broke up but she’s clearly still in love with him *hiding the pain* stonks

When the part came how jina suffered through her secret relationship after his agency found out that he was in a relationship . I was thinking what did exo Chen's wife have gone through with much scary entertainment which is really naive in handling dispatch

Yeah. This video should be spread to every kpop fans out there. It's ok to be a normal fan. You'll be happier. Seriously.

“why you shouldn’t date a kpop idol” me: THANK GOD SEVENTEEN ARE COMEDIANS

I know you are searching through the comment section to find who the guy is -.- .

Key points √ Don't give gifts to your idols √idols DM famous and pretty girls √Entertainment company will interfere √Many beautiful Artists/idols in the industry √Dating an idol is very expensive √emotional turmoil √don't believe what your idols told on television. ~~ Dating an idol for us normal people is just a dream. ㅋㅋㅋㅋTime to wake up.

What people don’t realize is that if you were to date a kpop idol and like dispatch or something found out, your whole private life would be invaded, and it could actually put you in danger (from like insane sasaeng and stuff)

Like how she just assumed we ever are gonna get the chance to even MEET a kpop idol

i don't understand how fans think theyre gonna be with their idols, its ridiculously funny .

I feel so sorry for her :(( She’s so brave for enduring what she’s been through, and I hope she finds someone better for her 💗

Unpopular opinion: This just shows that ordinary people CAN date their kpop idols. Thank me later. I have no plans to date Suga but I want to cheer you up so here you go.

This vid made me more proud of Chen. He is such a big star but then he manage to keep and protect his girl and even informed his fans. Huhuhuhu Whoever that idol is I hope he would change so he could not hurt other girl like you. Update: I am so sooo happy and proud that MANY of the fans accept and love Chennie, Our Sunshine despite of what had happened. LET'S CONTINUE SUPPORTING EXO NO MATTER WHAT!

Every youtuber who said “I dated a kpop idol” Also “this video is not about bts, no” haha

11:11 The Chinese fan who give the wallet and watching this video be like: 👁👄👁

See y’all Our kpop boys aren’t waiting to date us They have lives Let them date who ever they want We can’t control their lives

As much as I've fantasized about dating a K-Pop idol, when actually thinking about it, I wouldn't be able to handle it anyway. Reasons: -Stupid selfish childish obsessive/possessive fans -Dating bans -Annoying paparazzi -saesang fans -Not being able to go out on dates in public -Having to hide our relationship -Not being able to meet often -Unwanted attention from media (if relationship were to be discovered) I'll stick with supporting the K-Pop idols I like as a fan. Also I'm an international fan, so it wouldn't be possible to date a K-Pop idol anyway lol.

Lesson learnt: Tinder works guys, Tinder works...🌚

“You should not date a kpop idol” “He was so cuteeeeee” “His lips was so softttttt” 🥲

After the whole scandals in K-pop...I've been so disappointed. The ent. Industry is so dirty and some idols are just as dirty. Worse is that when they get popular their ego shoot up....sad

She is still in love with him , she can’t stop touching her hair thinking about him .

She looked and sounded really hurt. I wonder how old she was at that time. I feel bad for all idols gfs out there tryna keep the relationship going even tho they only seem to be like shadows or something.

I feel like I’m sitting at a girls night with these two talking about our Ex’s Very entertained

We all know BamBam is on tinder so I believe you Jina 👀

“you should not DATE a kpop idol” me: kim seokjin, i’ll MARRY you.

To summarise: idols saying they're too busy for dating isn't an excuse at all. It's all up to them what do they decide to do

she is smiling but you can feel her pain. She seriously was in pain. Don't forget that celebrities are also human so they can be nice or bad too. They can use you too. Please protect yourself and your mental health

the lesson is : don't date K-pop Idols

Me during 18 minutes video : trying to figure out who's that idol 😝

"why you should not date a kpop idol" Me: *thanks god that band pd nim is not a idol*

"Why you should not date a kpop idol" Thank god Namjoon is our President Thank god Seokjin is our Moon Thank god Yoongi is our Meow Meow Thank god Jhope is our Sunshine Thank god Jimin is our Mochi Thank god V is our Bear Thank god Jk is our Kookie

Jina: so, this is why you shouldn't date kpop idols. Me: thanks god kris wu and zitao aren't kpop idols anymore. 😳🙏

Jina: I ask my other K-pop idol friends for advice Me: I don't even have regular friends

"Don't date a kpop idol" Chen's wife "yeah she's right marry him instead" 😂😂😂😂 My poor ass will never relate

Idols seem to be a "product" that companies try to sell to the public and the idols need to be "perfect" - though no person is. So what we see is just one aspect of the person. We don't see their flaws and imperfections. Sadly, there are so many fans who think the idol is perfect and he/she's not.

Biggest clowns on the earth are Are Person who think they could marry their idols

Who else is scrolling down the comments to find who Jina's talking about??

"why you should not date a K-pop idol" ~laughs in wattpad~

"Don't date a k-pop idol" Me, living in Ireland: Damn, there goes my hopes and dreams of having a meetcute J-Hope 😔

Imagine going to a concert and your bias’s girlfriend is next to you cheering for him, that’s gonna be insane if you find that out

High chance most kpop idols don’t date foreigners

"You shouldn't date an kpop idol because" Me: because I can't even meet them😭that's what you want to say,right? ?😭😭(crying in the corner)

“Why you should NOT date k-pop idol” Thank God Jimin Is A Mochi🙂

Other girls talking about ex : he was a jerk, a pig. Ew Jina : His lips were so soft. Luv u 💜💜 Edit : Thanks for likes guys 😉

“You should not date a kpop idol” Me: Good thing Bang Chan is a kangaroo 👀😂 Edit: Come to think of it, every skz member is an animal. Soo hmmm whos ur fave animal? 😂 Chan: Kangaroo/ wolf Lee know: Cat Changbin: pig rabbit Hyunjin: Llama Han: quokka/ squirrel Felix: kitten Seungmin: puppy Jeongin: fox

kyungha was literally like that one supportive friend when you’re talking about your boyfriend or ex 😂😂😂

This strong woman should be on one of those program that teaches fangirls life lessons. She could win the world🤝.... I wish I could be more like her 😤✊🏻💜