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Why You Struggle to ARTICULATE Your THOUGHTS Clearly. 5 TRUTHS! 

Kara Ronin
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Do you struggle to articulate your thoughts clearly? When you speak, do you get your thoughts muddled and your thoughts come out in a jumbled way? Do you find that your thoughts are clear in your mind, but when you go to speak, they're not clear anymore?!
Being able to articulate your thoughts clearly doesn't come naturally to many people. In fact, most people are unable to articulate their thoughts well. Sometimes it's because you're trying too hard. Other times it's because you haven't put enough thought into what you want to say before you start to speak.
There are a number of reasons as to why you can't articulate your thoughts clearly. In this video, I share 7 of the most common reasons as to why you struggle to articulate your thoughts clearly.
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00:00 Why you can't articulate your thoughts clearly
00:37 Do you speak too fast?
01:49 Do you communicate too much?
03:14 Do you understand the question?
04:38 Do you focus on sounding intelligent?
05:38 Do you use variety in your vocabulary?
07:18 Do you have anxiety? (Fight or flight)
09:50 Do you use this 3-step formula?
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@driversl
@driversl 11 месяцев назад
Anxiety would just shut my brain down during normal meetings where I had to brief. If the stakes were very high, adrenaline would help overcome. Day to day stuff, I’d get so nervous I’d lose track of my thoughts mid sentence.
@superkikaymom6910
@superkikaymom6910 11 месяцев назад
Same with my problem. Been struggling of this since childhood. Is there a cure?
@99.99_
@99.99_ 11 месяцев назад
Same and it’s getting worse when i’m stressed
@ap8441
@ap8441 11 месяцев назад
This just happened to me at an interview for a job I so desperately want but because I forgot what I was trying to say like 3 or 4 times I may have blew it. It was for a store manager position, I have years of experience in management and in this field. I feel like because this happened towards the end of an almost hour interview I bunked it.
@earlem9771
@earlem9771 11 месяцев назад
@@superkikaymom6910 There's no easy cure. You need emotional behavioral therapy to help you learn how to calm your anxiety and focus on your objective, which is communicating your idea. People who don't seem to have the problem you do have learned to effectively do this at some point in their lives.
@driversl
@driversl 11 месяцев назад
Honestly - invest in yourself and talk to someone about how you feel. There are solutions out there.
@althalos9410
@althalos9410 11 месяцев назад
My biggest annoyance is that I always realize what I should have said and how easy it would have been, but never on the spot, only after the conversation has already taken place. That I'm always best at articulating my thoughts when I'm alone and not under any pressure, but I guess that is due to anxiousness. But thank you for the video! Thinking on the spot is something I'm trying to work on, and you gave some good advice!
@kitkatkim98
@kitkatkim98 11 месяцев назад
That’s a telltale sign that you need to take a bit longer to think through what you would like to say. I have the same issue. I’m an impulsive person; taking moments to think and process is the antidote ☺️
@uchi2226
@uchi2226 11 месяцев назад
I feel you. It's hard always thinking that I'd get judged. Even after being given the chance to speak in a group, I'd overthink what I told them. It's madness sometimes, but yeah really taking the moment before speaking and consequently speaking slowly is what I'm trying to improve on. Sometimes I want to speak fast because I don't want to lose the idea, only to confuse others, and just hope someone catches it and repeats it to me because even I have no idea what I said lol
@fleeceshawl
@fleeceshawl 10 месяцев назад
I feel you too! When I am away from the event or conversation all the vocabulary comes back in full force. This life!!!
@80NG5
@80NG5 10 месяцев назад
Same
@-1lovethesea
@-1lovethesea 9 месяцев назад
Don’t worry about it. You’ll improve with time when you stop caring.
@miskerassefa595
@miskerassefa595 11 месяцев назад
1. jump to fast 2. Your trying to communicate a lot at once 3. You don't understand the question 4. You try to sound more intelligent 5. You use the same vocabulary
@Hagalazii
@Hagalazii 11 месяцев назад
Some people are good at talking, some people are good at listening and asking. Both styles can guide a conversation toward their destination. This is what I've learned.
@mhraena
@mhraena 10 месяцев назад
You're right but one must know both of the things. What say mate?
@beingboomlovinglife
@beingboomlovinglife 2 месяца назад
What do u do when the talker is a bad listener?
@sadepennbrook
@sadepennbrook 11 месяцев назад
Turns out my inarticulation was early onset dementia at 35. One of the key clues is when common advice like this video doesn't apply to you and specifically my inability to retain anything I was told or read no matter how many times I tried to learn it. That and recurrent brain fog. I'm literally losing my mind until I don't recognize who I am anymore. I learned some people just have undiagnosed autism or language disorders. If you struggle despite advice, consider your brain's health.
@irenemasek9138
@irenemasek9138 11 месяцев назад
Yikes sorry to hear that?❤ What are things that you do that have been helping you feel more like yourself?
@morganjonasson2947
@morganjonasson2947 11 месяцев назад
​@@user-th1qn6uo3k That's not quite true. You can still articulate full paragraphs for SOME concepts. Like, how hard is it explaining what dementia means? Take myself as example. People often praise me for being well articulated when I explain simple concepts like how to think about finances and stuff, because thanks to my autism I have an natural instinct to explain everything in a very overly detailed manner. For simple concepts i seem articulate because I explain vague things with overly detailed metaphores, painting a clear picture to the listener. However, as a programmer, it means I literally can't explain how my code works in a summorized manner. Lets say a code base has 10000 lines of code. How do I explain this code to someone who doesn't understand code? It would be like trying to explain to a five year old how to paint an exact copy of Mona Lisa without showing the picture, but because it would take days to communicate every pixel of the image and a five year old has like, 30 seconds or less in attention span, the end result is a stick figure that merely resembles a human but is nowhere near similar to the original painting.
@smk4990
@smk4990 11 месяцев назад
My mom has dementia I really hope whoever wrote this comment does not have dementia at this young age. Dementia and Alzheimer’s disease is a terrible disease and strips people of their personality and cognitive functions, it’s not a disease to take lightly and I won’t even wish it on my worst enemy.
@geenesmern6830
@geenesmern6830 11 месяцев назад
​@@irenemasek9138 I believe she is telling the truth because I can write a complete paragraph, but not most of the time.
@gaelle4328
@gaelle4328 11 месяцев назад
My tip who has been through some of it you might want to take a look at clemastine which is a common allergy medicin that research has shown can help, also omega 3 and 9 has also helped. Not magic cure but can help. ( Background MS that has commonalities ( plaques) with Dementia ( alzheimers) and Parkinson. Big hug if wanted.
@jessejules2092
@jessejules2092 11 месяцев назад
The problem with taking time to think about what you want to say, is that if an idea suddenly comes while someone else is talking you don't want to be thinking about what you want to say because you might miss a vital piece of information from the person talking.
@andoniades
@andoniades 11 месяцев назад
Yup!
@AjeebAurat
@AjeebAurat 11 месяцев назад
Write it down! I had the same problem but now I just write it down and it helps 😊
@Freaky0Nina
@Freaky0Nina 9 месяцев назад
so mid conversation you pull out a notebook, put your idea down all the while listening to the other person?
@andoniades
@andoniades 9 месяцев назад
@@Freaky0Nina yea, and by the time the thought is scribbled, you forget the rest of what's said lol
@beingboomlovinglife
@beingboomlovinglife 2 месяца назад
​@@AjeebAurat its the same as reciting in ur head what ur going to say while someone is speaking. Ur not giving them full attention so that's rude and ur just focused on what u wanna say and miss what was said. The conversation is happening u currently u can't be writing things down..thats even ruder my god
@TADSkewd
@TADSkewd 11 месяцев назад
There’s a whole other conversation going through my head while I’m also trying to talk….
@enjoyinglifewithdreamyk7
@enjoyinglifewithdreamyk7 Месяц назад
Omg you’re spot on 😂 I can relate unfortunately lol
@nathanharmon8971
@nathanharmon8971 11 месяцев назад
Weirdly, I’ve found that I’ve developed a stutter as I’ve grown older (30s currently). I think it’s because I’ve got a traffic jam of information from brain to mouth. The second tip is really helpful. Stop. Pick what you want to get across. Make a plan to get there. Then speak slowly.
@akuskus
@akuskus 11 месяцев назад
Same. And it is kind of distressing because I am often noticing people in lower-skilled places being much better in verbal communication. It probably indeed is the constant information overload that has taken its toll on linguistic parts of the brain.
@ericsohn5084
@ericsohn5084 11 месяцев назад
Is English your first language?
@nathanharmon8971
@nathanharmon8971 11 месяцев назад
@@ericsohn5084 yes, but It didn’t happen to me until I became fluent in another language.
@ericsohn5084
@ericsohn5084 11 месяцев назад
@@nathanharmon8971 What language possibly can that be? I'm bilingual and these languages are dramatically opposite. so it fks me up sometimes
@rue1868
@rue1868 11 месяцев назад
Same issue, I thought i was broken. English is my fourth language btw, i have no issue whatsoever in speaking it, but as soon as i start with my native language, i can’t make sense of what I’m saying
@PromoCodeLady
@PromoCodeLady 9 месяцев назад
For me overthinking blocks my existence. Knowing too much and not enough is the death and life of me.
@lorrainedzeka
@lorrainedzeka 9 месяцев назад
Totally hear you, I can relate
@nekto34
@nekto34 11 месяцев назад
#4 is one of my biggest pet peeves. I actually ended up working with a whole bunch of people who would only converse using industry jargon, and obviously tried so hard to sound intelligent and very educated. All that resulted in them discussing the same subject, same idea, for like an hour (and I did time that!).
@just-a-fella3212
@just-a-fella3212 11 месяцев назад
Were they social science types such as psychs, counsellors, social workers?
@InsanitysApex
@InsanitysApex 11 месяцев назад
Pompous pontificators proudly prostelytizing patronizing passages precipitously upon paltry, prudent peasants. Preposterous!
@calisongbird
@calisongbird 11 месяцев назад
That is also a HUGE pet peeve for me also. People can be so pretentious - it comes from personal insecurity. Jargon used judiciously and occasionally as a shortcut to certain concepts (the entire purpose of jargon) is fine. But when it’s used excessively, it bespeaks arrogance and pretentiousness. The speaker is not trying to actually communicate to be understood, but just to inflate his/her own ego.
@titamartinez162
@titamartinez162 11 месяцев назад
😂
@Jazzyjamjam
@Jazzyjamjam 11 месяцев назад
This drove me nuts back in school 😭
@angelolivares8754
@angelolivares8754 11 месяцев назад
Reading and deep breathing are the ones that work best for me. Also having a constant internal dialog this way you can practice articulation with yourself, sometimes I like to imagine I'm explaining my ideas to other people and this helps a lot too
@iloveplumpgrannies174
@iloveplumpgrannies174 9 месяцев назад
To me, my inability to articulate my thoughts stems from my anxiety. I am socially awkward, when I am talking and when I notice that they're not really interested in my thoughts, I simply dismiss myself before they dismiss me coz it hurts whenever it happens to me. Due to that, I am unable to fully express what I have in mind. Now, I have developed a habit to only answer the question/s being asked and nothing more. Because of this, people think I'm snobbish but that is the furthest from the truth. I like having conversations with people but my problem is my social anxiety and my inability to articulate my thoughts that wouldn't bore the person I'm talking to. I can articulate properly and I can maintain a conversation with the people who I consider are close to me. It's completely different when I'm talking to strangers, colleagues, or people I know but seldom talk to.
@larissaforde7885
@larissaforde7885 4 месяца назад
I can relate to this 100%
@Letthembelightpeaceonelove
@Letthembelightpeaceonelove 4 дня назад
I understand that feeling well. Lately it's been happening to me a lot... I'll think I'm actually having a conversation with someone but then they start looking away or talking to someone else while I'm in the middle of speaking. Or when they start doing something on their phone while you're in the middle of speaking to them, it's a huge bummer. It seems like no one knows how to be polite or have a proper conversation anymore.
@jessicafb5398
@jessicafb5398 11 месяцев назад
8am global team meetings where we all give updates of all of the projects we’re working on - I now write down all of my notes, which makes it much easier to be articulate! I’ve begun doing this EOD Friday, so I’m ready to go Monday AM. 😄
@kararonin
@kararonin 11 месяцев назад
Love that!
@jessicafb5398
@jessicafb5398 11 месяцев назад
@@kararonin thank you!
@patriciadenise3048
@patriciadenise3048 11 месяцев назад
Dd😅d😊😅😊😅
@NoName-tj8dm
@NoName-tj8dm 11 месяцев назад
How did it go ?
@tonykelpie
@tonykelpie 11 месяцев назад
A very common and sometimes serious problem in communication is people not having thought exactly what they want to say before they start to speak. So - think more before you speak, write down the precise words, or at least the outline, before you start talking
@jessejules2092
@jessejules2092 11 месяцев назад
By the time I would put my pen to paper, meeting would be over.
@pokeystar1980
@pokeystar1980 11 месяцев назад
I've always struggled with this. When I was younger I unfortunately was always around very assertive people who spoke up at every opportunity. You sort of just learn to fade away into the background and listen to how well they articulate and think....If only I could communicate like that. Now RU-vid just shadowbans everything I say anyway. Great video!!!
@morganjonasson2947
@morganjonasson2947 11 месяцев назад
Well, you are already half way just by avoiding those assertive people. I am usually good at explaining things but as soon as you meet these bessewissers that talk over you because they think they know better, then I have a special way of communicating with them. One tip is the way you word things. I usually let these assertive people speak their A4 page, memorizing some of the claims they make, build a question on top of that, and then ask such people "Okay, lets say for the sake of the argument that . Then how come ", then he will spit out another A4 page of bullshit and you will just listen and repeat the same algorithm, until he either freaks out, become silent or starts agreeing with you. That trick works well for me because it means you can ignore 90% of what the person is saying, keeping only a few sentences in your head, and you will have plenty of time forming a counter argument while they speak into a brick wall.
@austinhernandez2716
@austinhernandez2716 11 месяцев назад
I have social anxiety. Sometimes I struggle just to speak. So that's one reason for me.
@Rainmakers84
@Rainmakers84 11 месяцев назад
Agree. Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than you speak and remove all doubt. Ben Franklin.
@toofy7253
@toofy7253 11 месяцев назад
Wow, this is like 100 percent my problem. Its my biggest struggle when anxious. When anxious, everything else fails with speaking clearly fo people who need well summarized talking points
@Utah_Man_Sir
@Utah_Man_Sir 11 месяцев назад
You have just described me perfectly. I usually get stuck when the precise word I want just does not come to me. Embarrassing and frustrating,
@primlee4071
@primlee4071 11 месяцев назад
I feel the same! I always thought I was the only one struggling this. It’s so frustrating and some times it makes me feel incompetent or lame. 😢
@sidneyboo9704
@sidneyboo9704 11 месяцев назад
100% on the clarifying on the question. I never once had people think im dumb because I told them I didn't understand their question. Infact a lot of times, they are just blurting a question out without really thinking about it. It makes them think twice about the question as well.
@edwardmanlutac507
@edwardmanlutac507 11 месяцев назад
As a stutter I can relate to this. In the past, when I do representations infront of the class I get curious because what I'm saying and thoughts they don't make sense. I always get nervous every time talking to public because of my stutter.
@justinaikwen8481
@justinaikwen8481 11 месяцев назад
Thank you so much. this video relates to me. Lately I have been thinking something is wrong with me because I struggle to put my thoughts together and communicate effectively but after watching this I now know that nothing is wrong with me I just have to put in work. Thanks again
@kararonin
@kararonin 11 месяцев назад
Absolutely! So many people have this issue (even me). I recommend you watch my playlist on Become More Articulate and Well Spoken to get other tips for this ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-9NrpJSxUeFY.html
@rossycastillo236
@rossycastillo236 11 месяцев назад
I'm so grateful I stumbled upon this channel. This is something I'm working on because I want to be able to express myself clearly to connect more with my loved ones. Clear communication is key!
@EVL-xj5vc
@EVL-xj5vc 11 месяцев назад
So true as I reflect back on my earlier formative years in my career. And now I’m still learning! Thank u Kara!
@threearrows2248
@threearrows2248 11 месяцев назад
I think I just recently lost a client, which would have brought my business a lot of work, because I answered the phone and tried to give them all the information on a case before I had actually put together my analysis for them. I probably tried to explain too much before I had put together concrete ideas, and sounded dumb, for lack of a better word. Good advice to slow down and focus. Kicking myself, but now I can practice this.
@serenarobak3640
@serenarobak3640 11 месяцев назад
I found with menopause, it's gotten noticeably worse too, getting my thoughts out if my head as words out my mouth. 😊
@blackrainbow192
@blackrainbow192 11 месяцев назад
Same here
@KlingonPrincess
@KlingonPrincess 11 месяцев назад
My mom gave me a book by, don't laugh, Suzanne Somers, when I was peri-menopausal. I got a lot of good information and confirmation from it about health (including brain fog).
@angchin2135
@angchin2135 10 месяцев назад
All the above, I didn't articulate my points well for job interviews. Overloading information with repeated vocabularies, stress, anxiety to name a few. Thank you so much. Great timely advice!! Thanks for the video, feeling blessed.
@conniepun6659
@conniepun6659 11 месяцев назад
Excellent coach. I will replay this over and over again. 😊 🙏!
@tkuhel12
@tkuhel12 11 месяцев назад
Ugh it’s #6 mostly for me. But I have worked and worked tirelessly to overcome this!!! It’s a constant work in progress. I have gotten better! But I still struggle, I don’t think I will ever truly enjoy public speaking, but learning to be articulate when I am in front of people and all eyes are on me is crucial to my work!
@stephen6415
@stephen6415 11 месяцев назад
Man am I glad people like you exist ! Awesome video, thanks for the help!
@beingboomlovinglife
@beingboomlovinglife 2 месяца назад
I am one who doesn't like to address things I'm unhappy about and what I desire so u can tell my life is full of issues. Thanku for making these videos
@1castellp
@1castellp 6 месяцев назад
Since I'm alone the majority of the time, I don't verbalize my thoughts often. Hanging out with people is a rare and special treat for me.
@Nobix93
@Nobix93 11 месяцев назад
She nailed it, I’ll probably have to watch this more than once
@kararonin
@kararonin 11 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!
@alexanderlyon
@alexanderlyon 11 месяцев назад
This is a great video, Kara. This is an excellent list of difficulties and practical solutions. AND, the video is clearly killing it with 24k views already (in under two weeks). Looks like you have another winner on your hands!
@kararonin
@kararonin 11 месяцев назад
Thanks Alex! It's doing pretty well isn't it 🤗
@sherryc2443
@sherryc2443 11 месяцев назад
Reading something I've never read before is probably one of the best advice I've ever heard. I struggle to improve my vocabulary being foreign born and raised with parents with very thick accent I find myself insecure in this area. I want to grow and I hope this helps me. Thank you so much for all of your help and suggestions. You are such a great coach
@kararonin
@kararonin 11 месяцев назад
Reading out loud will definitely help you with this, as well as listening to and repeating other speakers.
@sherryc2443
@sherryc2443 11 месяцев назад
I will try this too. I appreciate you. Thank you.
@sherryc2443
@sherryc2443 11 месяцев назад
I forgot to tell you. I watched your video yesterday and went on Amazon and bought the book right away. It arrived last night and I'm excited to get started on that. I just thought you'd like to know that.
@kararonin
@kararonin 11 месяцев назад
@@sherryc2443 Fantastic Sherry! Thank you for letting me know.
@georgeikinya2779
@georgeikinya2779 11 месяцев назад
Thick accent should not worry you as long as your pronunciation is good. By the way , accent brings in beauty in communication. It's not something that should heap insecurities on you.
@judimagda29
@judimagda29 7 месяцев назад
I'm so happy i stumbled across this channel. Reading everyone's comments brings me so much comfort knowing that I'm not alone. I'm actually getting emotional because I'm a Master's student who struggles to articulate thoughts. My sentence form and structure is all over the place, and i end up sounding like such a dumbass. It's so frustrating and causes me so much anxiety and insecurity because i can't communicate exactly what i mean to. It is worse when I'm on the spot. This Channel is exactly what I've needed. Thank you Kara! ❤
@kararonin
@kararonin 7 месяцев назад
I'm so glad to be helping you Judi! You're definitely not alone. I think there are many people who can't articulate well. The first step is realising it and finding resources to help you. I'm so glad you found my channel too!
@DS-kt5gj
@DS-kt5gj 3 месяца назад
Hi Kara, whenever I see your video it feels you have read my mind .I feel someone has understood me..
@charlesnoonan2575
@charlesnoonan2575 11 месяцев назад
This lovely woman has just enlightened me and now my life is positively altered.
@lazytocook
@lazytocook Месяц назад
i think you are more practical than a lot of videos I have listened to on communication. well done
@cloverteagarden
@cloverteagarden 9 месяцев назад
I can be really on point when I'm in my room doing an interview with myself. 😗
@lorrainedzeka
@lorrainedzeka 9 месяцев назад
Yes me too, I have a lot of conversations in my head
@xulucia4814
@xulucia4814 11 месяцев назад
This is so well summarized and helpful
@marujamarujj
@marujamarujj 9 месяцев назад
This made me realize a lot. I have stage freight and I’m a very introvert person. I shiver talking to even small group, my anxiety would eat me up. I’ve been practicing myself but it seems like I said it wrong or it ain’t enough or it doesn’t make a point. I realize I am processing too much information and is trying to say it all in one go; now I know that less is more. Thank you! This is my first time seeing your video, you gained a sub. 😊
@kararonin
@kararonin 9 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!
@sarahn9050
@sarahn9050 9 месяцев назад
This is the video I've been looking for my whole life. Straight forward and to the point. Every mentioned reason resonates. Thank you so much for sharing this valuable gamechanging information. Simply awesome. ❤
@user-bc6in9so1f
@user-bc6in9so1f 11 месяцев назад
Thank you for this great video, which is so relatable to me, in particular, being anxious while speaking. It's really annoying and it is the main issue that is holding me back from reaching my full potential.
@fleeceshawl
@fleeceshawl 10 месяцев назад
I so needed this. Let me go back to reading!
@proverbs3530
@proverbs3530 11 месяцев назад
Thank you! Awesome ideas!! I'm so glad to know that this is common.
@chickyandchuguchannel1616
@chickyandchuguchannel1616 11 месяцев назад
Everything you shared is true. As someone who attends a lot of meeting, I always jump to a conversation I partially understand or made very little preparation thats why i end up not saying anything at all. Thank you so much for these wonderful tips.
@modupeonabajo2665
@modupeonabajo2665 11 месяцев назад
i just want to tell you that you are doing a wonderful job! thank you for helping people like us.
@kararonin
@kararonin 11 месяцев назад
Thank you very much!
@donnybrasco6321
@donnybrasco6321 2 месяца назад
Very useful and succinct. Thanks.
@peace_companion95
@peace_companion95 11 месяцев назад
Yes got lot of value. Thank you so much!
@lalotato
@lalotato 11 месяцев назад
This video was well made and cohesive. Thank You!
@kararonin
@kararonin 11 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!
@shaunkhemraj7825
@shaunkhemraj7825 Год назад
Thank you so much Kara! I think this video was made for me.
@kararonin
@kararonin Год назад
Thank you so much! I'm glad it was helpful for you!
@andrejones3930
@andrejones3930 11 месяцев назад
Finally, some real advice and strategies. Thank you. Terrific video.
@kararonin
@kararonin 11 месяцев назад
Glad you enjoyed it!
@saigebasil2285
@saigebasil2285 11 месяцев назад
This is me everyday...thank you for this video.
@eustaquiozambrano2974
@eustaquiozambrano2974 11 месяцев назад
Good speech. Thank you very much. Have a nice weekend 👍
@carolztt
@carolztt 11 месяцев назад
very helpful and thank you❤
@rogeliorodriguez8518
@rogeliorodriguez8518 4 месяца назад
@6:50, I like that idea of reading something new every day on different topics. Like an article. For me, I'll choose topics I am interested in. Thank you! Subscribed!
@drsranjanconsciousnesscoac6833
@drsranjanconsciousnesscoac6833 Месяц назад
Reading enriches mind, provides content; improves vocabulary. #readmorebooks
@sunvaj6754
@sunvaj6754 8 месяцев назад
I always learn something from Kara. Thanks!
@BBBarua
@BBBarua 11 месяцев назад
Thank you so much! That was very helpful ....
@renantebaladhay4640
@renantebaladhay4640 Год назад
Thank you Kara! That is so helpful to me.
@kararonin
@kararonin Год назад
I'm so glad to hear that!
@ainnovation6967
@ainnovation6967 11 месяцев назад
I always wanted to improve my communication skills but I am struggle to articulate my thought. Your explanation is really help where should I start. Thank you for this video. I am glad I played it.
@paulsmith3994
@paulsmith3994 11 месяцев назад
This is a fabulous video. Bravo!
@olebogeng_za1881
@olebogeng_za1881 8 месяцев назад
Very informative!
@marvinfollero846
@marvinfollero846 11 месяцев назад
thanks a lot! sharing too much information is my main problem. sometimes while speaking I will think of additional information that I want to share making it jumbled and confusing
@kararonin
@kararonin 11 месяцев назад
Now that you're conscious of this, you'll start to naturally reduce the amount of information you share.
@awilliams2516
@awilliams2516 11 месяцев назад
Wow I appreciate this because I definitely need it
@CarmenGaelle
@CarmenGaelle Год назад
I just want to appreciate how elegant you look and articulate you sound. More power to you and your channel. ❤ New subscriber here. Learning from you.
@TheGratitudeMan
@TheGratitudeMan 11 месяцев назад
Very articulate :) Clarifying queries also gets more info while at the same time more room to process the information to come up with multiple solution possibilities instead of just one solution whichever pops up first. I loved the idea to read something new to add to vocabulary new words and read, white and speak formula is also making a lot of sense. Thank you for these ideas, it has helped me realign my thoughts on better learning patterns. Regards
@Lime1958
@Lime1958 11 месяцев назад
I love how she eloquently and respectfully advises people "hey, do yourself a favour, shut the fck up when you have no idea what the hell you're talking about"😂
@franzjoey
@franzjoey 11 месяцев назад
super helpful, thanks ❤
@djben928
@djben928 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing
@abazism
@abazism 11 месяцев назад
Thank you very much. This is my biggest problem.
@FamilyMan938
@FamilyMan938 11 месяцев назад
Not sure if I ever subscribed to a channel after just watching one video in the past. Great stuff!
@chizpafea
@chizpafea 9 месяцев назад
Well, I'm watching this because I thought it was for English learners... I think these recommendations could be useful for us! Thanks, I'm gonna try to practice it in my mother tongue as well
@c.k.1958
@c.k.1958 4 месяца назад
Thank you x
@rayomide5642
@rayomide5642 11 месяцев назад
Thank you so much , I have made this mistakes for years now I understand why . My issue is I get anxiety when I’ve been asked questions now I’ve learnt a lot in this short video. 🙏 👍👍😘
@fatimahmakgatho8968
@fatimahmakgatho8968 Месяц назад
Thank you 🌺
@jz4087
@jz4087 Год назад
Your videos are well made and helpful.
@kararonin
@kararonin Год назад
Thank you!
@everythingteen6842
@everythingteen6842 10 месяцев назад
Thanks for these tips. It really helped me being that I've been trying to improve my communication skill.
@mostafakhamis5204
@mostafakhamis5204 11 месяцев назад
Wow really helpful! Especially for ones like me communicating with different languages than the native one!
@Soulenergy31
@Soulenergy31 11 месяцев назад
Thank you! 1:46 intro for an idea
@bprmel
@bprmel 9 месяцев назад
Insightful ! 🤗
@KONSTANS5OMILLION
@KONSTANS5OMILLION 9 месяцев назад
Really helpful
@namehere8099
@namehere8099 4 месяца назад
Another issue that I have found is talking about important matters to impatient people. They want me to "hurry up, finish the statement". I could have only said 3 words, but they already "think" they know what I'm about to say. Then they interrupt, and try to finish the convo thinking they have the answer. When I inform them that they are incorrect, and they "actually" wait for me to finish...then they look foolish because they realize they should have just listened to get the whole message! 🙄😑
@Dewii-qo2ed
@Dewii-qo2ed 3 месяца назад
Very Great information and tips
@amandataebby
@amandataebby 11 месяцев назад
I feel like 1 is my main problem, but even when I do spend time to understand and plan my thoughts, I still get something wrong. Every. time. If I had to relay info like "The dog jumped 2 meters", for some reason I'd relay the info as "2 feet". It's not dyslexia, it's literally carelessness and I don't know how to get better. Even if I study that phrase for 20 minutes, I'm still getting something wrong and I wish I knew what to do. I think because I've always had people over-correcting me (now and in the past) and I'm subconsciously very anxious and fearful to get things wrong. But I do it anyway.
@kararonin
@kararonin 11 месяцев назад
Fear can cripple your thoughts and your speaking too.
@bunn228
@bunn228 11 месяцев назад
I have this too. I often say the opposite of what I mean without realising. Or I just completely lose the word. Using your example I'd forget "meters", completely gone, like it never existed. I was also overcorrected a lot when I was young so I just don't feel confident in any facts that come out of my mouth.
@daahircabdiguleed4270
@daahircabdiguleed4270 Год назад
Dear trainer teacher Kiraronin Tank's alote
@sonofbatavia
@sonofbatavia 9 месяцев назад
It’s like you talking to my face and cut through my soul. Thank God, it’s not directly.
@robertjackson1407
@robertjackson1407 11 месяцев назад
Thank you 😊
@DavidRamirez-fl7dm
@DavidRamirez-fl7dm 3 месяца назад
Great video 💯💪
@BrunoMCDowell
@BrunoMCDowell 9 месяцев назад
I must admit, this is becoming my favourite RU-vid channel. Another excellent piece of content.
@kararonin
@kararonin 9 месяцев назад
Thank you so much Bruno!
@maxtee8020
@maxtee8020 7 месяцев назад
Love this presentation. This is so beautifully done like your other ones. Masterfully presented, inviting, intriguing, a warm, natural but high level of professional grace. You have peeled back so many hidden gems which are easily overlooked e.g. point #7 is an absolute cracker. I can't say much more, you're the best !
@lorrainedzeka
@lorrainedzeka 9 месяцев назад
Sounds like me : trying to communicate too much information at one time. Loved your tips , thankyou so much
@physiotherapyinsider6468
@physiotherapyinsider6468 11 месяцев назад
This is gem! Thank you! 👍👍👍
@kararonin
@kararonin 11 месяцев назад
Thank you!
@mnsuchak
@mnsuchak Год назад
Excellent tips. Thank you
@kararonin
@kararonin Год назад
Thank you!
@g_b03
@g_b03 10 месяцев назад
Great advice 👍
@Convoafrica
@Convoafrica 11 месяцев назад
Very Helpful...
@katmandu5753
@katmandu5753 11 месяцев назад
This is why I suck at writing essays. I have trouble identifying ideas and linking them clearly in an academic way.
@sarthaknikhal5540
@sarthaknikhal5540 11 месяцев назад
You're so well spoken.
@rodaraguz
@rodaraguz 6 месяцев назад
This is a great video. I think I talk way too fast and jump in without thinking about what to say. I've learned that Its like writing an article. You have the main idea then sub topics and headings and you fill in the rest but you have to always think before you speak.
@mansourkifle9914
@mansourkifle9914 Год назад
Thanks, amazing video teacher
@kararonin
@kararonin Год назад
I'm glad you liked it!
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