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Honestly, my first time of hearing this combo. Classic Masculinity. Wow! You nailed it 100% and I totally agree with you. "MAN KNOW THYSELF " has just been explained in details. Thanks Antonio .
Great video. As a 57 year old man, I agree with you wholeheartedly 👍🏻. As a 21 year veteran of law enforcement, I see the struggle of young men with direction. Keep up the good work
Real masculinity is being independent, cooking your own food and not depending on some company trying to take money out of your pocket if it’s something you can handle yourself. It teaches you independence, self reliance and personal responsibility.
@@keyonbrown7775 Who did the hunting during hunter gathering times? Who discovered fire so that raw food can be cooked? Was it male or female? Modern women do not cook. The chefs at restaurants I see are mostly men despite how media tries to distort reality. The truth is that women are dependent on man despite what feminism teaches them. Feminism essentially teaches women masculinity under the guise of “feminism”.
I totally agree with this video's content. As men, we have to help each other and the Z generation especially, to overcome the false narrative of "toxic" masculinity. Excellent video 👍
Man, the world is changing and I feel sorry for the gen Z, nodays women are more into cute feminine boys with beautiful faces and soft skin, how can we expect this generation to be masculine and tough, masculine and tough men will not get anything and their wife's cheating on them, how can we expect this new generation of men to be masculine?.
When someone says they were discriminated against for “acting like a man” I really want to know what behaviors they’re referring to. The things you listed as your definition of masculinity I would go so far as to say are universally praised as good qualities.
Behave like a man, get respected as one... Yeah, it's that simple. A lot of people have lost the ability to self reflect their own doings, just take a step back and think about it for a minute. Not every critique is unjustified and punishing you for being "a man".
Great video! As a guy in his 50’s, the feminization of men in recent years bothers me. There’s a reason men and women are different. We have different roles in society. I respect everyone in how they view their identity. However, it also good to be unapologetically manly.
What is this "feminization" of men you are referring to here, exactly? Displaying care and emotions? Performing jobs and tasks often assigned to women? It is worth noting these gender roles are just social constructs and can be different and have been different in the past.
@@wyatttomlinson3475 One only has to watch tv to see what he is talking about. Male characters in both commercials and sitcoms are now predominantly portrayed as bumbling idiots, with the wife always coming to the rescue and managing life’s problems.
@@sampsondiane Which shows? In contrast, men are portrayed as being allowed to be emotionally vulnerable, among other traits. And the wife does save the day, yes, sometimes, because we are all allowed to be human.
@@wyatttomlinson3475 Emotionally vulnerable, but not to everyone. A true man should be able to control his emotions. When he needs help, he asks for it only to a few select people. Also watch Captain Marvel if you don't understand. Somehow all the heroes these days are women. So I usually watch old movies instead.
@@sampsondianeThe indoctrination starts early. You only need to watch Peppa Pig to see how the father is usually portrayed as a bumbling fool, and Miss Rabbit takes on all the masculine jobs.
By far, one of the most poignant and timely productions you’ve made. Absolutely critically important discussion given what has happened to males in the last five or 10 years. There’s one big wave of traditional males waiting at the door about now.
I like this video, although, it’s not representative of what’s available today. Jason Momoa, Simon Sinek, Tony Robbins, Chris Do, George Clooney, The Rock, and Idris Elba are all examples of strong confident men in media who aren’t womanizers as depicted in the thumbnail. I agree stoicism and resilience should be a part in how parents raise their children. Stoicism helped me connect with my positive masculinity, the idea I am strong for others rather than being invulnerable or invincible. The Classic Toxic Masculinity of the Don Draper types and Connery Bond had to go. There was a severe lack of empathy in the classic masculine figures, aside from Michael Keaton’s Batman. Bootstrap theory is not a stoic ideal. I am a dominant personality and I try to lead with empathy. As Marcus Aurelius says, I am tough on myself and lenient on others. Calling people woke because you disagree with them is a toxic trait. Ask questions. As Stoicism teaches us, if someone is being too sensitive be lenient with them and tough on yourself. Be the change you want to see in others. Live by example instead of shaming others. If you throw a tantrum or complain every time someone is being “woke”, you are not being stoic or masculine. I would also change Responsibility to Responsibility & Accountability. Masculinity of old lacked accountability. Fortunately, for anyone who misses the sharp dressing fashion is trending back toward what is being labeled grandpacore.
@@CGillSP I totally agree with you! During the video I thought the same. Most characters he showed are not good exemples of the kind of manliness he is defending. Tom Shelby and Don Drapper are not good role models. They just dress sharp.
I think the problem is people comfuse the term feminine man with man child which are two different things becauee man children cant do anything for themselves but feminine men can like boy george david bowie prince harry styles all feminine and can do things for themselves with a feminine flair to them all
I think the examples this video shows as "classic masculinity" are telling. I see a lot of Godfather and Peaky Blinders...weren't they murderous criminals? To be honest, I see a lot of men who claim to want old school manhood and masculinity back are not men who accept challenges, own up to their actions, and respect a level playing field. They are men who think that when others gain equlity it mens they have lost something. They believe leveling the playing field has tilted the field. In a way, it has in that as a middle aged white male I do not have the built in advantage my father and grandfathers had...but I believe part of what makes me a man is understanding that what I lost was never right for me to have and that I have been robbed of nothing. I am just being asked to now play in a fair game. I see SO MANY men who cannot accept that. I see so many men who cry about the loss of "real men" because they desire the old arrangement of being their wife's master. They are not to be questioned or held accountable by the members of their family - they are to be obeyed and served. They do not desire partnerships. They do not desire growth and change. They are to be who they are and everyone must adapt to them. I do not believe in this either. All masculinity is not toxic, but there is some beliefs and traits that are. Andrew Tate, Joe Rogan, and the like very much are in my view. If I am not masculine to you because my wife and I are partners and equal, then so be it. If I fall short to you because I respected my child as a human being with opinions and rights - and can say I have apologized to my child when I have done wrong - then so be it. I don't want to be a gangster or UFC fighter. I don't want to work in the world of Mad Men. I don't want a wife who just cleans house and brings me slippers and martinis at 5:30. I don't want children who are silent, meek accessories. What I am is a man with a successful career, a happy 26 year marriage, a well-adjusted college junior who is doing well, and the respect of friends and family. You can do that respecting others. You can do that respecting true equality. You can do that without all the macho BS.
Nothing wrong with being masculine, nothing wrong if you’re not either. I can do without the Jordan Peterson style red pill introduction. I think strength of character is more important than worrying if you’re considered masculine by traditional standards.
It has nothing to do with traditional standards. The bar doesn't change when it comes to being a man. And just because someone is male doesn't mean they're a man. Manhood is earned. There are many mature males that are not men. And the same applies to women. Just being a mature female doesn't make a woman.
@Nicholas-V So he can't talk about things in his intro because they overlap with something Peterson says? Just because a large portion of what JP is saying now is crazy, doesn't mean everything he has ever pointed out is also so. Or am i misunderstanding this?
I appreciate your message, but as the first genetic man created in DNA, the Kongo man, or Afrikan, your message doesn't apply to ourselves. Yes we must build honor and integrity, yet our measure of masculinity is our vision and aestetics
“I’m in my soft guy era” = the realization that what’s the point of manning up and carrying the extra burden and weight of responsibility if you can just basically be a “woman” in some sense and be entitled to the same equal benefits and advantages of manning up without actually having to man up.
Honestly gents, screw what modern society wants you to be when it comes to masculinity. Get out there, and be the man you know you can be. “Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one.” - Marcus Aurelius. If that isn’t enough, look up 1 Corinthians 16:13-14 for more reinforcement. Godspeed on your journey to true masculinity.
I got all choked up when you said "slip into a role he was born to fulfill" I do feel as though I was born to be as I am. Living your truth as a man in this world, to me, means sticking to your principles. We all have a set of convictions we live our lives by. That includes the girls too. To be strong in this world means being loyal to yourself.
I'm age 75. My brothers and I were so lucky that our late father, a WW2 Navy man, taught us as boys what it means to be a real man: Strong, yet kind. Amen.
I totally agree with todays content!!! New generations need guidance, direction. The path of Martial Arts (with a good Teacher) tought me those values and as a teacher, I do the same! Just trying to make a difference!
As a mid 50s man, I truly feel bad for the current generation of younger men. I really hope as time goes along that this group of men can find their way and help recapture what a man has been for generations. Don’t let the media or way far left types dictate it. There’s nothing wrong with being a strong masculine man.
Your thumbnail shows on one side the word simp and the other side a picture of Christian Bale posing for the movie psycho and the word Sigma. Make it make sense. Full disclosure I am a Sigma male I always have been. What about Christian Bale’s acting in psycho makes him a sigma, or even as a person for that matter?
Frankly, these are values _everyone_ needs to incorporate. It’s very frustrating seeing the way those trying to remake society are hostile to or warp every ideal. There are lessons to be learned from both classic masculinity and classic femininity, but modern culture is vilifying both, and it’s not leading to a better society but turning us into modern-day savages.
💯well done list My daughter is currently dating a real man with Texas State Trooper Man supposed to be masculine Not whatever trend we see here in West men becoming weak addition to households
Correct, individuals born between 1981 and 1996 fall into the millennial category, while those born between 1965 and 1980 are considered part of Generation X, distinct from millennials.
I agree with the sentiment but shouldve put a better james bond in the thumbnail especially when discussing "classic" masculinity, sean connery or pierce brosnan maybe
حبيبي توقف عن مقارنة مجتمعنا بمجتمعهم، حياتهم الاجتماعية مختلفة عنا و صعبة جدا للرجال، نحن الحمد لله مزال هناك نساء فيهن الأنوثة و يحبوا الرجال، هم ما عندهم الحاجات هذي.
@@ahmeterwinog6295 Ok, I thought you are Arab, I said don't compare our Muslim values with the western values, we are completely different, western women don't like masculine men anymore.
What exactly is “woke ideology?” I keep hearing the word “woke” but it’s becoming an increasingly vague term. You defined classic masculinity but how, specifically, does being “woke” run contrary to being masculine?
Woke ideology is the ideology of egalitarianism. It's the push for the complete removal of gender/sex specific roles and duties from society and to condition people into believing we are all equal using the levers of government to mandate said conditioning. It roots tie to feminism and the feminist movement dating back to the 1950s.
