Why Your Attempts to Manifest Attract the Opposite of Your Desires 

Indeed!

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Yay! Thank you! I'm so glad to see you here, too! Is there any way I can support you?

You're so welcome!

Every job I really wanted and was secured It was mine, i didn't passed, however, everytime I screwed up something in the interview I was hired. Every romantic partner I had only stayed while I wasnt making any plans because of this insecurity. But when I finally felt safe and planned something, they left out of the sudden with no explanations. Im so tired of this, and I don't even know what Im doing wrong. Everytime I got a bit of self-confidance everything goes away.

If your underlying belief is that...when you get self-confidence everything goes away, that is what you will create.

I can't believe I found the answer for my biggest question by accident in comment under this video. Similar toxic assumption punished me for self-confidence moment, as though I believed that I have to be punished for being too confident. In my memory I come back to childhood moments, the more self confident I was the more punished I felt from the side of dominant family member. The assumption was probably created during such childhood moments and it's time to change it. The same with relationships, the more I lost hope, or the more angry I was due to circumstances I didn't want to the faster good things manifested and the more I expected good things, it was the opposite effect. It's so weird. Great, that you explained it. I wish everybody with such weird assumptions to identify the source of the problem and to change it.

Personally I believe that when God/Universe closes one door it opens another. This is something in my core I have always believed deeply and completely and this has an amazing use. When I have looked back over some of the most profound and immediate manifestations I have experienced I noticed this one thing. Like a spoon full of sugar helps the medicine go down, I have found that mixing my desired outcome I don't have full belief in with this concept I have 100% faith in my desired outcome can slip through the door with it and manifest super fast but there is one more step many people fail to mention. You need to quiet your mind while raising your energy level via controlled deep breathing. It is a state you almost never naturally enter so this is why it is so elusive. Normally when you get energized and awakened your conscious mind is fully energized as well which negates your attempts to manifest. One way people naturally enter this state without realizing it is if they go on a leisurely walk on a nature trail alone where they zone out mentally yet have elevated breathing. This is when they have some deep thoughts or realizations or the answer to a problem pops into their head and they just feel so much better. They think it was the rocks, trees and bunny rabbits they saw along the way but it was actually that they calmed their mind while elevating their energy level and the universe connected with them. When the universe connects with you it can heal your body, offer solutions to existing problems and if you have a deep loving desire for something or an out come it can be communicated at this time. Then when you go about your day forgetting all of the above the universe is working in the background rearranging things to make people, circumstances and events make your desire a reality. You are NOT broken. You are just logical, set in your ways of thinking and like 99% of everyone else. Manifestation is like a combination lock but also a ridiculously simple one--- You just need to do it right.

​​​@@NinaAmirand how it will work??? please explain practically

Exactly.

Choose to be in a different emotional state.

Well said!

Thanks! Glad you are here.

Glad you enjoyed it!

When you change, sometimes things and people have to fall away. They show you the opposite of what you want and you have to choose out. You can't change them. You can only change yourself....keep doing that.

Have you considered telling a new story and STICKING to it? It sounds like you’ve been repeating an old story for years now and have expected something to change.

My pleasure!

Exactly.

You are so welcome

I'm sorry that has been your experience. On some level, you must be blocking this creation. It could be a subconscious belief, a fear, or even your brain directing you away from what you want as it tries to protect you. But explore your conscious belief that when you get close to your dream your heart gets crushed and you are disappointed and in pain. That's highly likely causing that to happen over and over again. Try changing that and living as if you are someone who has your dream...not someone who gets close to it.

Sometimes the Universe does seem to want to be certain it's what you want. And sometimes this is a growing edge.

Faith comes from within. The more you tell the story about bad things happening, the more they will. Tell a different story...one of faith in good things happening.

So...change your thought about that. Be someone who gets what they want with amazing terms and conditions.

We often attract what we don't want prior to attracting what we do. But I'd get specific about what you want in a white man rather than being so general. And I'd focus on BEING a person who has already attracted your PERFECT PARTNER--white or not.

@@NinaAmir omg thanks so much this helps but im spiraling al day long it seems like im going crazy

Indeed, when you want you get more wanting.

That was the best explanation of all time! How can I get ahold of you for further explanation. Thanks. E.

@@eric6281 hi was you talking to me Eric I have many years experience supernatural paranormal and have learnt a lot of my stuff through guidance of the supernatural world I can only tell you so much because I get told off if I say too much.. And you don't want them coming after you ..trust me

Try reading the associated blog post. The link is in the video description.

Please read the associated blog post and see if that helps. The link is in the video description.

Done!

I will not is asking to have your will be strong enough. It can't overpower your brain or subconscious programming. If you want to be with a woman...just be with her.