Fellas! Focus on constant growth and self development and protect yourself from the losers and negative people in your life. They’re dream killers! Also, if you haven’t done the 26.2 Challenge yet, here’s the link, it’s free. bedroskeuilian.com/challenge
@@l.patrick2171 I can relate to being unhappy and discontent with circumstances. I have found in my own life that when I removed all the things that I have used to make my crappy situation tolerable, it became intolerable. Which is exactly what it needs to be to motivate change. I abandoned everything. Junk food, music, entertainment, porn, alcohol. Once I did that I was left with a crappy life and had no choice but to fill it with substance.
@@l.patrick2171 if you’re that self aware then there’s no reason to stay in that place my friend. You’ve been there before, don’t make this your home. Do what you know you need to do to lift yourself up!
I would mention a word of caution. Don’t get hyped up about changing your life watching tons of self help videos and hit the gym and do a solid morning routine and begin to judge your friend after a week and a half. Prove to yourself that it isn’t motivation driving you and it’s an actual change in your being, then bring who you can along for the ride.
100% agree and sometimes striving for success results in judgement of others. I think it’s ok to be disgusted with meekness in others. You just gotta flip it around as soon as you’re able. Realize you’re not actually disgusted with them. You’re just disgusted with that attribute in yourself. That’s why you’re moving away from it. Its an unfortunate but useful step in pain style motivatio. A good amount of of ppl might think your a dick. But if you meditate or some other form of self exploration, you’ll eventually temper that side-effect and you’ll be further ahead from leveraging it. Hopefully in the end you circle back on the fact it was always a collaboraton. The people that didn’t want to soar were just sign posts telling you where not to go. They are a gift and the best you can do is be compassionate- it just isn’t their time to fly yet.
Crazy how a Man on RU-vid is speaking more game and life into existence than my biological father has ever given me, I genuinely appreciate what you’re doing man. May GOD BLESS you & your future endeavors.
Right.. its really crazy how listening to Bedros' show for just a couple months has impacted/changed my whole perspective on life.. its given me this new wind in my sails, fuel to shake the bullshit off and become the 2.0 version of myself.. its proof that society can either use social media to build yourself up/benefit your life or it can distract you from your life.. keeping yourself miserable until the day you die.. if you see this Bedros, thanks bro.. you're a straight up fucking legend and I'll forever be in your debt🙏💪 I've been sending my friends your videos but no one seems to really care.. as a result, they will remain chickens as I learn to scoop a massive fish right out of the water🚫🐑🚫🦁
That part about watching sports resonated with me greatly. As a guy (who participates in a lot of high risk sports) I could never sit and watch a game, at a bar, at friends at home, and feel like I achieved what that team did if they won. You see people cheering and hollerin’ but imagine letting a sports team dictate how you felt for the day or week depending on how they did. It’s a no from me dawg Great words spoken
@@zachflag6506 honestly probably true. I just prefer to do them vs watch. Surfing for example. Love that shit…. Is it boring to watch the WSL, sure bet ya
I was 10 years old when the Bears lost the superb superbowl to the Colts in the 4th quarter.. I was BEYOND devastated.. ever since, I play the sports I don't get 100% mentally invested in them.. mfs break their TVs when "their" team loses lol it's amazing how influential sports can be
The best way to shift someone's momentum to a more positive direction is by leading through example. You can try and educate people, but they might not want to listen or want to make any changes. You just have to show them. (Which is a lot easier said than done lol)
I think i have heard Bedros say that you could stop talking with him/her or minimise contact. This is something iam struggling with myself. Hanging on to old relationships maybe because Iam comfortable with these people regardless of how damaging they are to me. This is stopping me from getting to meet the positive and productive people I really want to be around.
I completed drug rehab in 2019 and the hardest part of changing my life is cutting out the losers in your life. I underestimated it for sure, so I couldnt agree more with this message.
Letting go of those friends is really hard. We make excuses for them, try to help them get to where we are but like bedros said they aren't ready. So there's this weird in-between of doing your own thing and still hanging on to them. There's also fear of being alone, having no friends and the struggle to find like minded people. It's hard but once it's done, it's a relief.
@@DaveJos Reach for Bedros' videos when you need to lock arms with the correct mindset and grind through the next hurdle. You've got this. You're worth it. Bedros' interview with Tom Bilyeu on Impact Theory 3 or 4 yrs ago was awesome! Find that video and listen closely all the way to the end. Be the author of your own life.
Entered rehab for substance abuse almost three years go. Took me until this year to let go of old friends. Im down 20lbs, bulding muscle, working on my business, putting my hobbies and interest first, journaling, eating clean, budgeting my money, getting into therapy. I feel stronger, more mentally clear, financially stable, and more. Bedros knows what hes talking about
This is what love for humanity, and your fellow man looks like. One of the few that are left… I hope others can understand the urgency in your message. Serving Humanity to the highest potential. This is what that fucking looks like. My fellow brothers and sisters… Empty the Tank ⛽️. God Bless
A saw a quote.. " Going to the same 10 bars with the same 10 friends 10 times a month is no way to live freely" Freedom comes at a PERSONAL COST with PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY
@@BedrosKeuilian Thank you Sir, and I'm Not Just Here as I Have Nothing Else to do, I'm here to Learn and Utilize some of the informations you presented in Transforming To a Better Human Being, I Appreciate your work and will be Supporting for a very Longtime.....
Hey Bedros, I had a conversation with my friends and tried to get them to see my point of view. It feels like they were really jealous of me wanting to separate myself. I just didn’t feel like they filled my cup. But after cutting them off, man I am looking forward to my 2.0 self. They think that I have animosity towards them and I think deep down they’re jealous of the direction that I am headed towards. Our convos are different and I can no longer relate to them. CHEERS TO 2.0 me !
I totally get what you’re saying. I can no longer enter in to the nonsense conversations that often happen around me. It’s literal nonsense that has no real value. I have people try and trip me up, because they can’t take the first step towards self betterment, so they try and bring me down to their level.
From a guy with 20+ close friends, I am left with 6. Had to fight myself a lot to make decisions to let them go, but now, I regret nothing. I am about to start my media company and can't afford to have my decisions influenced by people who haven't worked on themselves and are puppets of the system and their own insecurities.
Wise man. But I hope you realize in retrospect that no one productive has 20 close friends. To maintain, sustain and nurture that many relationships on a deep level would mean that you had no focus for your OWN life. With a close friend you see them x amount of times a year, talk to them x amount of times a week. Imagine multiplying that by 20. My god
@livennlearn Well thank you so much for your thoughts 💜 🙏 I think the want to make everyone my "close friend" came from a desperate attempt to be liked by everyone, which happened because of having no friends as a kid. That's why I over compensated. But as time progressed, I realised quantity never fulfils anyone. it's always the quality and, hence, I changed my ways. Once again, your kind attention and advice is highly appreciated and is spot on 👍✨️
Bedros is dropping gems and solid logic here , truly being what he is which is one that serves. This is one of the keys to his success and his example is tremendous. He has laid down an amazing blueprint and has been diligently paving the way with his guidance and knowledge along with his entire journey for several years now . Bedros is a great man and such a valuable asset to society. Beyond generous with his true wealth which has nothing to do with money.
It’s as if this video was for me!! 5 years ago I was diagnosed with cancer and I decided to go all natural My friends family came against me it was horrible what I went through however moving forward 5 years later now those family members and friends who came against me saying I didn’t know what I was doing now those humans are asking me for advice Most humans want the easy way out and I believe nothing worth having comes easy including your health but If you work at it you can become whoever you want to be in this life and the next!! Ty for this video Explained so much I had to shut that door to the No sayers and boy what a weight taken off my shoulders!!
@@r14j- Thank you 😊 All I’m focusing on today is how I can evolve and keep learning and growing Spiritually mentally physically and reach my goals Financially Being alone I found is best when trying to grow and evolve Spiritually mentally physically and financially!! It’s worth it to be alone with opinions of others Ty again
hey bedros! i dont think ive written you a comment yet. but you’r by far my favorite youtuber! i could listen to you all day. thanks so much for all your gems. i see that your channel is dedicated to men but a lot of your teachings help business women like myself. you’ve changed my life! i also just ordered your trulean stuff. im excited to try it out. may god bless you
There was a day I tried to tell all my friends about being rich and I said to my 6 friends "invest in yourself instead of playing games and just instead of leveling up in games let level up in the real world" now after 11 months I have 0 friends but still leveling up in the real world even though it hearts that I left my friends that I know for 7 years it was worth it. Now I know but the banking system,business management, stock market,crypto , real estate and much more but I am steal improving and my goal is freedom end of the day.
Just finished Man Up. As a veteran who had a panic disorder pop off I really appreciate your ability to share your mental health hurdles. Anyone who’s ready to level up will gain some awesome insight from your writing. 👌🏻
Sir you are the father that i never had. Thanks Mr. Keuilian for showing me the path of self mastery, and being a beacon of positive energy in my life. Lots of love and respect from India.
Sound advice sir, your advice and knowledge is greatly appreciated. I am a 40yo man, a father of 3, a husband and an addict who had been clean for 7 years. I just want you to know that your channel is one of the only ones I watch now, other than Mountain dogs. I work 40+hours a week doing landscaping in the Florida heat, but I still find time to go to the gym every morning before work. I am ready to level up and make more money and have more time to spend with my family and for myself. I will be tuning in every episode, thank you brother🤙💪🎣
I quit my job in construction and started my own small company. I have been in business since 2015 and have no regrets. It's the best thing I ever did. It is definitely hard and stressful but the WINS mean soo much more
Im 20 years old and Bedros you have helped me a lot. Not only with you will continue to help me on my journey of self improvement and growth, I will continue to learn and subscribe because in this world continuous improvement will gain you the happiness you always wanted. Thank you
My whole life I’ve been saying it’s hard to sore like an eagle when your surrounded by turkeys, but never practiced it. That’s to you Bedros I’m now spend more time alone reading instead of drinking & smoking weed & now taking a leap of faith & making a career change from a trade I hate.
bro you're like the older brother i never had...you're ability to help me right now is f ing incredible. I've been struggling with ptsd and alcohol. And when you talk its like I can tell you are coming this light energy and place of truth. You legit calm my anxiety down and have been inspiring me to get out of the house and get healthy
You're one of my favorite podcasts. You speak real and your advice is so useful. I too want to be an asset, and not a liability. Thanks ❤ for this..keep them coming!
Every single time man you heavily resonate with the mindset I have and it’s so rare yet grateful that people like you exist because even if it’s uncommon it’s powerful and pure, thank you for yet another great video your message hits!
I’m from Russia and your message resonates with me just as much as it resonates with people from all over world. It gets a bit weird when you make reference to American politicians but these are easy to extrapolate on a worldwide scale. I thank you from all my heart for inspiring and sharing the energy 👍 Peace and prosperity to all of you people ❤
I have believed these tenets for decades, and have preached them to others. Thanks for encouraging me to practice more of what I preach. EXCELLENT advise!
Friends are not that helpful in life, they should be low priority. Think about it, did you keep your friends from elementary school? High school? Most people go their separate ways after high school. People go to college in other places or work. Then they start their own families. Your higher priority should always be family, the family that raised you and the family you are going to start. My father was able to help me get a job when I was young (didn't last long they went out of business). My coworker helped their kid get a job where I work. My supervisor got her daughter a job where I work. Family will usually always help you out in life more than friends.
You have the same fire in your belly that I have had all my life. Sadly what held me back was people pleasing. I’m 44 now and I’ve spent the last 10 years working on letting people go and finding myself. I also had a stroke from doing too much for others. I am now recovered from the stroke and the mental struggle of that recovery changed my outlook completely. Now I’ve dropped the people pleasing and have taken my life back. Already 20lbs down and am retraining to work for myself and set up a business. Everyone else can GTF. Many left me when I was no longer able to serve them due to disability last year. 🤬This is MY life now!
Im 23 and I used to be a heavy cigarette smoker since 18 I quit that a year ago and it felt good, but you’re so right about being the change you wish you to see in the world makes you the role model and people start to copy what you do and not what you say, I can say I have been watching you for 6 months and because of it I stopped drinking and smoking weed and I feel amazing about it I don’t even feel like doing it anymore,it was a waste of money and it was holding me back I appreciate you bedros
Bedros, these were the words I should have heard from my father but didn’t. Every day I end up in a situation where I think about your words of wisdom. I have manned up, I am figuring it out, taking personal responsibility for everything in my life. Thanks for what you do for us, it’s been a huge asset in my life.
Life changing episode man! I just ordered Man Up. I don’t know how you popped into my you tube feed a couple weeks back but I am so thankful that happened…powerful. You are a clear and excellent communicator… I’ll summarize what I got out of this episode: Be an asset and not a liability to your family, friends, and the world. That makes you unable to be controlled by the elites in power who want to keep us dumb, docile, and distracted and enables a person to be an influence for good in society and ultimately in the world. Your message resonates with me more than any other persons right now. Keep doing it up, much appreciated! -Tim
Bedros is amazing he's a source of change and a powerful motivator. His experiences in life that either were good or bad and what he learned from it he shares with us for free and that's what I call a real hero. THANK YOU BEDROS FOR BEING HERE FOR US! WE REALLY APPRECIATE YOU AND ARE THANKFUL FOR YOUR CONTENT.
The thing Bedros said about being grateful when waking up in the morning is soo true. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) instructed us to do the same, every morning right after waking up we are instructed to say this prayer: اَلْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ الَّذي أَحْيَانَا بَعْدَ مَا أَمَاتَنَا وَإِلَيْهِ النُّشُورُ. Alhamdu lillahil-lathee ahyana baAAda ma amatana wa-ilayhin-nushoor. (All praise is for Allah who gave us life after having taken it from us and unto Him is the resurrection.) Al-Bukhari 11:113, Muslim 4:2083
I needed to hear the first 10 minutes or so! I relate to “wanting to help everyone” and letting everyone’s small talk & negativity affect me. I can’t help but wonder why/how people talk & think that that Constantly! You definitely helped me realize that not everyone can be/wants to be helped Bedros. This is my quick thank you to all of your hard work.
I appreciate the content you put out, i’ve come to realization I can only watch videos like this self improvement, money etc when I am alone. I try to put friends on the same path but you cant help someone who won’t help themselves
Here is the most painful truth in life. Most best friends are from when you were struggling in life. They were either in the same shoes as you, or slightly better off. They come along and give you a hand and comfort, and for that you are grateful. But when your life turn around, and you start succeeding, but your best friend don't succeed, you will be surprised how many of them leaves. They just can't take it, their jealousy got the better of them. You will start hearing hints of them not happy for your success. They want to put you back into your old place. They want to show you how bad you still are. etc. Or they view you are a show-off and rude (You weren't even trying to be rude, you don't have to. Your successes naturally make you sound like a show-off to them, a threat to their self-confidence.). They will pay close to attention to every single thing you do, say, or think, and trash talk all of them, give you a shot any chance they could to bring you back down. You will feel more and more uncomfortable hanging out with them. That is true, because they feel more and more uncomfortable being with you and your successes, even if you don't do anything rude. Before when you were a failure, they know how to handle you, but now they don't. Now your mere presences offend them, because you remind them of their own failures and shortcomings. You of course value that friendship, because they helped you out when you are down. But they cannot be there with you on your way up. So you must leave them. Let me be clear. If you are getting better in life, and you have friends who doesn't want to be better (they are happy where they are), but they are NOT jealous and you still feel very comfortable hanging out with them, stay friends with them. In this case, yes stop being a "dictator" or a "show off". Just enjoy each other's company. It is ok. But if the other person is jealous and is dragging you down, making your uncomfortable hanging out with them, even when you weren't a dictator nor a show off, you must leave them. They are a very negative influence for you.
I’m going to watch this episode while I crush out 1000 goblet squats with a 40lb dumbbell. If I don’t finish all 1000 reps by the end of the video, I then do 10 sets of 10 strict full range of motion bodyweight pull-ups. Love your channel dude!
Shout out to Bedros man every time I watch your episode I always feel revitalised it really makes me wanna be my 2.0 and be my best self keep pushing these episodes out man bless up 💪🏾🙏🏾
I literally was hanging with my chickens when I started this video, I have chickens next to my home gym, I let them out every morning and workout to your videos 🤣🤷🏽♂️
I hit the snooze button this morning 😢i pushed myself to get to work but I didn't get a workout in, I have to do better, I don't want to be average anymore
- cutting wasteful spending - voting with your money - eating better and exercising - taking personal responsibility - being kind and showing more gratitude - focusing on personal development - being a role model to humanity - making more money 💎💎💎💎💎💎💎🫡💯💯💯🎯💪🏾
Friends usually aren’t friends , just people you know and spend time with , I stopped making first contact with everyone and that has helped me sort out who to keep around
My man Bedros. I have been listening to your channel and believe me you have made an impact, even though we don’t share some political beliefs. I am trying to become that 2.0 version of myself and the “dictator” comments is always followed when trying to help other do the same. You mentioned the opposition as government, and I do agree there are problems with government starting by the fact that is ran by people who have biases, are selfish and can’t identify with someone who looks or sounds different that’s them. That defines probably 99% of the population. But I would include the rich as part of the competition as well. They own the businesses that want to sell you the wrong foods which are the source of the majority of our health problems. And advertise this while we watch the games of sport franchises owned by billionaires who make money out of our preference for entertainment over information. Best of luck to you and please keep doing this. We really need to here your voice and what you have to say.
I love this. I've lost so many friends and family over making a decent second income gambling. They all thought I was crazy and now myself, my family and 1 friend enjoy the fruits of my discipline and success
Thanks for sharing! No matter where you are on your journey towards self mastery, there is information in this video that you can relate with. Happy surfing!
Men like you that try to better other men with their mindset and actual steps to self improvement are so key 🔑 and vital in this day n age. Sounds clichè but listen to this quote I forgot who it was from but it goes along the lines of this.. “There are two types of people in the world 🌍.. One who believes they can and One who believes they can’t & they’re both right” Really respect your work and effort of the narrative you’re pushing and you deserve all the rewards and accolades behind it 🫡 Keep it going 🔥🔥
I think most people are never ready to master themselves, that's why we have such a soft society. It usually takes a life crisis of immense proportions to change yourself. I speak from experience, I have primary progressive MS and I am in a wheelchair full-time with a body that does not work. I made changes in that state, I am still in a wheelchair with a body that doesn't work but I am a mental bulldog. Cold showers everyday and eating right have changed my world. 6 ft 5 180 lb and I feel great, aside from the MS obviously. Seriously just get on with it because nobody's going to do it for you....
I have like 3 friends. I am a lone wolf and definitely could use more valuable men in my life. The problem is one of my friends is very immature but we’ve been friends since 8th grade and his mom is like my mom so I can’t really cut him off. He’s one I’ve had to edit. Another friend is married with kids like me but only wants to do and talk about things like we are still single and in college. He seems stuck and missing our old lives while I want to level up to where I am and where I’m going. My third friend is a great dude. We live across country so it’s hard to get together with us both having our own family, but he’s a great friend.
Bedros I thank you so much for the content you have inspired me to finally get off my ass take a step into the business side of the company I work in. I stepped in the position I am in 7months ago and have exceeded my as well as my company’s expectations. They are paying for my degree and pushing for my advancement. Thank you for guidance and speaking to men like me that we can be what we want to be.
Another fantastic episode BK, so inspiring. I grew up hearing such small mindset peasant bullshit and met the man of my dreams 11 years ago. We haven’t looked back. We stopped turning around behind us offering our hand to the others not wanting to go in the same direction. I had to distance myself for the most part from my family as ‘wealthy people’ are looked down on….. well see ya. You can choose your friends but not your family unfortunately.
