Wife Decided To Explore Another Man Despite My Disapproval, So I Walked Out Of Her Life... 

the moment wife thought about other men and told husband about it , right that moment marriage is over for OP.

I don't understand why this guy wasn't out of the house immediately when she told him what she wanted. She never would have touched me again. Every time she dismissed his concern it was her essentially telling him to go fuck himself. He took way to much disrespect.

When your wife wants to sleep with another man. Divorce is always the correct answer. Do not tell her it is either just me or divorce. The fact that she is suggesting it is enough to know you will never be able to trust her. No man in his right mind marries todays women.

So glad that you left the same night and disappeared from Stephanie's life. I would have informed her family of her intentions before she went ahead, so they could see how stupid and heartless their daughter was.

As soon as she said she wanted someone else, she was already with the other guy. He should have ended it right then. She was already cheating.

I hope, if he ever gets married again, that he invites Del to his wedding.

If this occurred during the time of social media. I would broadcast her request all over to her family group chat and see the fallout.

It's always easy to second guess someone after the fact, but maybe if OP had stood his ground and moved out when his wife first started talking about being with someone else, he'd still be married to her. His pleading and begging only made him look weak in her eyes, which only reenforced her opinion to be with someone else.

WOW your wife really think that low of you that she brought a man to have action in your own house and told you to watch it🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You are a better man than me i would have been very tempted to make the video and send it to her parents so they can see the true colors of their daughter

There's a lot to be said about meeting someone when you're both older. My wife and I met and started dating in our mid to late forties. I was divorced after a twenty year marriage when my wife told me she wasn't having fun and wanted her freedom so she could go out and live her life. I gave it to her and dated a bit over the next five years. My second wife had lost her husband of 20 plus years but said he had been a serial cheater that she had accepted. She dated another guy who broke up with her over the distance he had moved away for his job. We've been together for thirty years now and there is no mystery about missing something by not being with other people. We both know how lucky we are to find each other and know how much we each care for the other. When you're young you want the experience but when your older you simply want someone you can trust and enjoy being with.

OP could ask a simple question:"Am I allowed to sleep with other girls according to your silly logic?" according to her answer her real character would be obvious

Fiction of course, but I have seen and experienced things not so far fetched from this. But this story does illustrate some real pitfalls in relationships. Guys can be TOO nice and not lay down the law on some boundaries. Communication is key and this guy did not make sure she understood the consequences. Also she was basically delusional in that she was so sure of his love for her that he would accept and forgive her for anything even cheating. Just marrying a virgin is also no guarantee against infidelity, especially in a social media world. And finally, who you hang with as friends determines a lot about your behavior as you pick up their values.

The wife is absolutely insane, what an awful person.

OP, this story needs an epilogue. What happened in the aftermath ? I've seen events like this play out over my sixty eight years. It NEVER just wraps up like in this story. Del would have reached out, she being Stephanie's friend would have contacted the husband to talk. Readers need to know what happened after Stephanie realised the damage she did. Was there remorse in her or did Stephanie become the town pump ?

She continued her campaign, trying to wear her husband down, because he was so wishy-washy in his response. Him gently telling her that he didn't want her doing it, then thinking she would change her mind, was just stupid. He needed to stop being a simp and TELL her, not ask her, to forget about cheating on their marriage. That he was STRICTLY against it and that, if she did, it would be very clear grounds for divorce! By not asserting himself, she could see that yes, she will go ahead, do the deed and her weak husband who loves her, will forgive her. Then later, she could try another different guy if the first one was enjoyable. Dumbo the husband, simply was not assertive enough, laying out what he thought and the immediate consequences if she went ahead. Because he was weak and pathetic, she just kept at him, wanting to get her own way. How much of a doormat was this guy?

OP some women were not meant to be a wife.

As soon as your woman tells you she want an open relationship (or try another man) you MUST tell her "We are done!" and just walk away.

IT’S NOT ABOUT DISEASE. IT IS ABOUT BEING COMMITTED TO ONLY ONE MAN. HER VOWS WERE TO YOU ONLY. NOT SHARING HER BODY WITH ANOTHER MAN. Then if she really likes it she most likely will sneak and lie to be with others. Colleen should have been fired. Never put up with this unless you deep down like sharing your woman? You go to therapy and marriage counseling first off. Still Carrie’s on like this you get a spine and respect for yourself and divorce and sell or split the businesses. YOU GET OUT OF THIS MESS. Even if she did not then go thru with sex she already did tremendous damage and show be divorced. You handled this in the right way.

He is too nice of a guy. Glad he left her.

This is what people think of when they call someone a beta male.

I hope that his ex never finds any happiness ever again because she doesn't deserve it.

Bro should have left when she first brought it up.

Omg, if SSM would be listening to this his hand would be numb from smacking this poor dude

It is very heartbreaking, and I am in the same situation myself.

Bro should have filed for divorce the next day. As soon as they say that the marriage is over.

What a fool OP was. He should have taken a video and then left. This way he'd never have problems visualizing her being skewered by another man.

WE NEED AN UPDATE RELATED TO STEPHANIE

Your passion for what you do shines through in every video-thanks!

WOW just WOW!!!

Your videos have been a constant source of joy and enlightenment-thank you!

if this had been my wife, I would have told her if she wanted to duck another man, then wait till the divorce was finalized, then she could have all she wanted and the minute she brought it up start moving your money into a different account and start to get ready to move. No wife of mine would be this crazy

These stories are the reason why AI can never replace humans 🤣🤣🤣

WHY DOES HE KEEP PLEADING WITH HER?

Great story. Thank you.

ok we need more details !! what happened when he walked out ?? first did he walk out before she cheated ? second what did she do and or say ? did she go through with it ?? we need more details please

As soon as that nonsense came out of her mouth it will be over. For us men love is respect and loyalty. Words, feelings and thoughts are just that, intangibles. Is not rocket science. Simple.

I would got proof of her adultery have I said divorce papers at work got my locks changed on my home got join accounts took out my half took my name off that account took her off my insurance got my own bank account kicked her out but her beg would of been side the road where the rest of the story did she run into him again I know she had to catch some doing a stupid thing like that messing with a stranger just because some one at your job put that toxic mess in her head she go though with it she had to have some strews loss why he pack his bags then make them get out

Well it is clear that your ex wife did not really love you and the fact that she wanted you to watch her and another man in you own bed shows that she never even respected you. The only thing I would have done is when she said what she intended to do and that her mind was made up, I would have left then and I would have contacted her family and explained that you were getting divorced because you had no love or trust for their daughter. I think you are lucky that you found out what type of person she was before having kids. I think she is very weak minded if she was swayed so easily by her worker and she was probably thinking about cheating on you for a long time. Good luck with your future.

I feel so badly for the young men that we have raised to be fools. When such a number of women pull this bait and switch, without care or concern as to whether their husbands are monogamous and zero care or concern for their marriage vows, these men simply lack the principles, the values, the standards, nor the knowledge of themselves and who they are to take a stand and to commit to making a stand, right at the moment of the bait and switch, the disrespect, and the betrayal. Regardless of the love a man has for a woman, when she demonstrates that she loves herself more than her vows and commitment, and her husband, it's over!

What happen to stephanie no updates what da f... incomplete story poor penship by the author..

Asked her to reconsider 😂😂😂

I'm surprised OP stayed until the guy showed up. If he would have left as soon as she had it planned, he might have shocked her to her senses. But he screwed up doing the pick me dance for too long. Bet she's got a bunch of swinging meat on rotation now.

Always some coworker dirtball doing damage. Stephanie was horrible. Thank God you didn't have kids. Have the police at your house to keep the guy out. 2 party consent. How do you sit on the couch with her after that. This woman you married is sick

The opening is too long. Stories of how they met got no bearing in the conflict. Should have just jump around conflict time.

Yup like they say shit happens if a person wants it to or not sometimes best anyone can do is move on to the next chapter of like

Aint no fkn way. She be gone.

I’m not sure where she even for a moment considered how this would affect your relationship. Like to invite this guy to your house??? I wish there was more to this story but at least I can be content with the op’s resolution.

She found as many good men as Konin ? What is her history ? Body count matters

This gentlemen is the reason you don't get married. I would've told her I understand her completely and I hope she understands that I will be visiting the divorce attorney in the morning. Stephanie was never told no by a man in her entire life and guaranteed whenever she had problems she would just pull the virgin card and get what she wanted. Guaranteed she never thought that dude would divorce her sorry ass in a million years.

THIS IS A TWO PART STORY......WHAT HAPPENED TO HIS WIFE....SHE DID WHAT SHE WANTED TO DO....HE LEFT.....WHAT DID SHE FEEL WHEN HE LEFT AN DROPPED THE DIVORICE PAPERS ON HER.........

Oh my god. What a weak OP. I can barely hear the story of this doormat

First, this woman had never been with another man. It is common for women to talk and for a woman to want to try what she hears is great especially when she has had no experience. She never had the chance to sew her wild oats. However, she was honest and told him about it and when he said "no", she should have known that he was not going to be staying in the relationship. Some couples can have an open relationship although it usually ends with one or the other falling in love with someone else. Polyamoury is fun but dangerous. She saw it as "an experiment" and wanted to include him. He was not able to accept it. That doesn't make either of them a bad person. The friend who kept telling her to try different men was a menace. She was more true to her friend's ideas then to her man. Once he knew that, and that she was not caring about his opinion or feelings, it was time to go.

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S I M P !! Why don't you plead with her 20 more times.

Story ended too soon. What happened to his ex wife?

This is fiction. Right? Coz it makes my blood boil that there are such wimps of guys walking around out there. I don't blame her one bit. If a woman can disrespect you to the point of even just bringing this up and you let her stay another second in your presence, you are the problem. A lot has to happen before she gets this brazen and confident to treat you that way. This is fictional writing. I refuse to believe it happened. Who negotiates with terrorists like that? People have been killed for far less than this.😅

Anyway in my eyes ans from my understanding he hande it well

You are in the right she is in the wrong she wants to see what she's been missing out on and it would probably be the worst mistake of her life. I married my first and I was her first but later on in life I found someone and I know within a year she was meant to be my soulmate and now she wasn't a virgin and had even been married for some time but you know when you are with your soulmate they want to be with you and only you and can't stop thinking about you. I have had women that wanted me to punish them and I never wanted to punish her because she was my soulmate and I knew it. This woman feels like she missed out on something but if she cheats on you I would end it because she will never respect a man that stays with her after she cheats that's a fact. It's like a man that cusses a woman out and calls her every name in the book my mother would say any man that stays if he really believe some of the foul things he was saying about her would not be much of a man. At some point you have to have some self-respect and self dignity about yourself if she loses her respect and dignity that's on her. That's the problem men don't get pure women anymore because they're always having sex with multiple partners so you would think marriage would be more likely to last. Just think about it a hundred years ago the study said 90% possibly more of women their first encounter was with their husband and they stayed with him their entire life. Nowadays men have substituted purity for love and if a woman can't love you and only you then she doesn't deserve it.

The moment wifey thinks about another man is the moment that she has all the freedom she wants because I'll be taking a walk you have to become a man and you can't let love or sex drive keep you somewhere where you're not happy. There is always someone that's going to come along that will make you happy. If you swallow your pride and stay in a relationship you'll never know. Any man that stays in a relationship after being cheated on will never be respected by his cheating wife and that is a fact. Just like a man that says horrible things about a woman if he really believed them he wouldn't be much of a man staying around. Although a spell should be top of your list in love along with your kids and the difference is the love is conditional. For me the conditions are love loyalty and honor will get you a long way the loyalty I believe is the number one. I mean I can't stay with a woman that cheats because all I can think about is her smiling with her lover while she's stabbing you in the back. Also any woman that cheats is a w**** it's never the man's fault no matter what how many how many hours he works to take care of his family. That's something married couples should talk about they don't find love in another man's arms and then say well you work too much and he can say quite honestly if I didn't work so much we wouldn't enjoy the life we have. It's never cheated on partners fault it is always the cheaters fault ONLY. Also although there are exceptions when women get older they are usually more loyal. Look at it this way a woman that you think is beautiful other men are going to think she's beautiful too and she will have more opportunities to cheat and only a decent good woman would be able to avoid it. Just like they say it is much harder for men to get laid than it is for women if women want to they can always get laid pretty ugly skinny fat there's always somebody willing to. Also I meant my soulmate and was with her for 10 years when she passed away and even though I got six on the very first day we met I knew beyond a shadow of a doubt she was loyal to me if your heart's telling you different there's probably a reason although the heart will lie. Also you will always know if the person you're with is that your soulmate at least I knew within a year that this was the woman I was intended to spend the rest of my life with of course she died due to unforeseen circumstances.

Meh. Dull ending.

Ugh.. it's an OK story, but for future reference, it's nice to hear how the other side is doing as well, considering the circumstances and the passage of time.

Is tat all.??????

For Pete's sake, stop with those super long intros with a 10mn explanation on how they met all the way down to the fckng first date - nobody cares about that. It's not significant to the story at all. Edit: Jesus, even the second date? What is wrong with you? Who cares how she dressed on the second date?!! Literally!

This actually sucked! Lots of talk about wife needing a meat stab and nothing about the consequences or follow up. A complete waste of time.

This story seems like another fake, the overly descriptive writing, the fact that stephanie was so easily swayed by this random girl saying she liked doing it with mutliple men, and her insistence to keep bringing it up to her husband. If it is real then he should have got with Del. I am only half way through but there are a lot of "this is AI or literotica" flags. Most people when told no when they pop the "open relationship" question will either respect their partners decision, or do it behind their back. Keeping bringing it up like a child hoping that if he asks his mommy for ice cream enough times the mother will break down and buy it for him is not a winning strategy here. Even Open relationships where both sides were enthusiastic about opening at first can end in disaster if one or both parties just cannot return to seeing the other as a partner anymore. Trying to force an unenthusiastic or opposed partner into an open relationship is basically as healthy for the continued survival of a relationship as just going out, doing it, recording the act and then sending the video file of it to your spouse with "it is easier to ask for forgiveness then permission" as the title. Edit: holy fuck the timespan between 18:00 and 21:10 has 5 times more this is obviously fake red flags then the first half. I already knew it was fake but it went from "pretty generic" to "this woman is the narrators super villain origin story." The wife isn't even trying to get away with it and The narrator is super wishy washy. as far as fake stories go I give it a meh, it isn't balls to the walls too ridiculous to make sense, but it isn't super interesting either. The wife should have fought harder, and it feels super weird that we get the awkwardness of him saying hello to the other guy but not a single thing besides calls from the delusional wife.

fake

Wtf happened to Stephanie,what a boring story from get go to end

I notice she didn’t offer him the chance to be with another woman

dude... when she told you she wanted to try another man you should have said sure go ahead, I will have divorce papers ready tomorrow. AND THEN DONE IT.