yeah hawks are flying raptors, totally brutal. I had one take a chicken off my lap on my porch while having a snack with the kids, poor chicken was decapitated with blood all over all 3 of us before I could even process what had just happened. ripped my pants and leg right up as it grabbed my chicken. that mf just sat there on my porch railing trying to get the body back, buddy was NOT concerned by me at all. just pissed I wouldn't let it have my chicken. I had to hit it with the power washer to get that damn bird to leave me alone to get in the house. Damn hawk killed 9 of my birds that year, probably in cahoots with the racoon family that killed 15 more. (I have all new fencing now)
Also, the way she completely disregarded his instructions on what to do with the bunny is just complete disrespect and a problem in itself. On top of that, she refused to immediately take accountability.
@@watermia probably just some idiot who thinks so it's just a dumb rabbit yeah kids don't need to see a hawk rip apart a bunny it's the circle of life but I don't think tiny Timmy needs to see something he wanted as a pet be eaten
Jeez, Reddit tore that guy APART for his first post. It sounds like they desperately wanted to paint him as the bad guy for the bunny incident, what the hell
First off, I felt like she released that bunny in the middle of the field on purpose, it gave me serial-killer vibes! Anyway, I'm glad he had video evidence to back him up on her lies. Lying about being domestic abused is crazy and nasty AF! The fact that she cared so little about her kids told me all I needed to know about what kind of woman she was, smh. The kids are wayyyyyy better off with him.
It definitely showed a lack of respect for her husband By ignoring everything he told her about the best way to release the rabbit. However I didn't see disrespect like that coming from her by the end of that story dang she really is a cold-hearted disrespectful manipulating witch.
agreed. i get if ppl forget about the risk of birds of prey. but after getting told about it and she did it anyway, that was intended. also hope she has to pay child support and court ordered to pay for therapy for the children.
@@RequiemPoete I would agree, if not for how she acted when calling the police later in the story. Anyone who can not only lie to incriminate their spouse, but also smile while doing it(believing no one can see them)... That takes a particularly warped mind.
Idk but I feel like it’s a symptom of her not really caring about her kids anymore, bc if she did care she wouldn’t have wanted to hurt them mentally with such a scary scene with the hawk 😅
Not gonna lie, from the first two minutes into the first story with all if the edits he had to make everyone and their grandmother on reddit is trying to paint this guy as some kind of bad guy
Absurd isn't it? Reddit just loves to hate on male OPs for some reason. I'm sure if the wife posted the bunny story - everyone would call OP (husband) the asshole even though he did nothing wrong
@@muhammedahmed3291 That is one thing you learn about Reddit it is where the male hating feminist, go to roost. Never bother with that place if you are a man.
Honestly if you ever want real advice from Reddit and your situation has nothing to do with your gender, just say you're female. As soon as you say "male" you've instantly got like 30+ people trying to spin every little word they can until they can call you an ahole. It's so ridiculous that you can say you ate lunch and if you're a man they'll call you out for not sharing it with a homeless guy.
"It's just a bunny/dog/cat/[insert animal species here]" This sentence alone is the red flag that shows that you've married a horrible human being. As a wise fictional character once said: "If you want to know what a man's like, take a good look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals."
Can we all give some kudos to the bunny's sacrifice and the hawk's hunting? The bunny and hawk might not have done it on purpose, but it most definitely saved that man's life. Could you imagine the evil that woman could have done if the husband hadn't been pointed out the red flags? She tried to do plenty, but because he was ready it didn't ruin his life... That bunny, and hawk were the heroes of this story.
The problem with looking at someone through rose tinted glasses is that all the red flags just look like regular flags... I'm glad OP took them things off and came out on top.
The first part of the video of her not caring about releasing the bunny was the first red flag. She either didn't care or listen to the OP and her excuse of "they will get over it" shows little to no concern of her kids well being. In fact I feel sorry for the baby in her womb! That child won't get any love or support from her and I doubt the AP will care!
"hawks gotta eat" is probably the dumbest statement here. Yes, hawks gotta eat. But serving it an entire rabbit on a silver platter won't help.rabbits rarely venture far from cover for this exact reason.makes more sense to release it somewhere hidden so nature can take it's proper course Oh yeah, and it completely ignores the fact the KIDS WERE FORCED TO WATCH THE WHOLE THING!"
@@martinsnathan2039 no way you’re is actually this stupid? Hawks can catch prey faster than we can blink and you’ll still see the hawk carrying the bunny anyways. Like yeah a 5 year old is gonna turn around after seeing an animal he/she was attached to get carried off. What was so hard about listening to the husband and dropping the bunny by the woods? Like it sounded like the woods was literally their backyard. Is she that lazy to walk a couple extra steps to keep an animal safe? You white knights make the dumbest excuses.
@@martinsnathan2039if you think a single digit child would have the sense to look away on their own after seeing something like that you must be crazy
@14:01 Good thing OP had recordings of what really happened and not jumping to conclusions about OP being a wife beater. Handcuffs being slapped on her sounds awesome. 👏
Forget the bunny and the hawk…those were 4 and 5 year old kids watching a nature documentary happen right in front of them. HELLO?! That’s traumatizing at that age!
"Hawks gotta eat too." That bunny was getting destroyed in front of two children that are younger than 7. That is something that children that young should not have watched, it may affect them mentally. It's like children accidentally saw two stray dogs doing the deed in the middle of the street.
Wow, talk about turning the tables! This video is a rollercoaster of emotions - from betrayal to empowerment. Kudos to you for standing up against injustice and taking charge of your own truth. Your bravery is truly inspiring!
@@Homiloko2True, but that is all she is going to get, in most cases all this happen and after all that the guy (mostly) still have to pay her for a couple of years, also see everything she want but didn't get, she want half of the house, but no, she also she want half of his business and half of his savings, but she didn't get those either and since she was arrested once she have that on her file, in the end she didn't get that much.
It wasn't that the people on Reddit commenting for this story couldn't understand the important parts, they just refused to just so they can chew OP out because they have nothing better to do with their lives.
we're a long way from being able to create ultra realistic, smooth, convincing AI videos. And even if we were, there are plenty of tools to detect AI photos/videos
@@steviewonder580I mean it took 20 years after the stealth bomber was made for the government to actually start using them so I honestly don't doubt that we have the ability to do it but just won't make it available until we have some form of countermeasures against fake videos that is cheap and easy
The fact she was still offered half of the custody of the kids is something i can't wrap my hear around. Apparently a recording of a parent saying they don't give a shit about the kids is not enough
@@Anarchristian_Beanzit is technically a patriarchy because MEN set the stereotypes that women love kids so much and need to take care of them. they set the standard that men don't need to take care of the kids. just because the court still holds by that doesn't mean we don't live in a patriarchy
@@Anarchristian_Beanz Men were the ones who created these very rules LONG before women even had financial autonomy, let alone equitable opportunities for work to sustain a family as a single parent. Child support and alimony laws favoring women were originally meant to make sure that women and children didn't get completely screwed over. Nowadays, alimony is completely gender neutral, but custody and child support often goes to women because stats show that VERY few men actually fight for majority or full custody. As a result, the few men who actually want to be involved dads get screwed over by biased legal systems that notice these trends.
it is to hard understand the decision if you think child custody is all about love. No, child custody is about who can take care of children, who can ensure their well being and protect them from any harm. as long as she is not abusive and able to ensure children well being, she still eligible for the children custody even if she no longer love them.
To the edit about "ohh this must've been from some video on youtube" I live in a suburban area, not even close to being rural and many times I've witnessed owls swoop down to catch a rabbit or a squirrel, vultures and hawks come down from the north during the winter all the time and we have to make sure there are no small pets outside because it's almost guaranteed to get torn to shreds trapped inside a fenced in area with nowhere to go.
Meanwhile with the Hawk and Bunny. They look at the house with OP and hus daughters. They both grin at each other. Knowing there act saved a man from a cheater
At first, I was wondering "What's the relevance of this (adorable) moment between your kids and the bunny?" but then realized... sociopathic tendencies... is that the right word? Regardless, it speaks volumes on the kind of person his ex-wife is with their kids.
It shows the lack of nuture the mother has. She's a demon in human skin. Bunnies are too easily afraid and rarely go up to humans in general, so for the fact that the bunny came up to the kids is because the bunny sensed no danger from the kids lovable, caring yet naive nature. The mother is a terrible human being.
oh seriously the amount of annoyance at everyone saying “hawks got to eat too” and the kids seeing the bunny get snatched is bad as… my mum put down mine and my big brothers dog when we were 8&10yrs old he still calls her “dog murderer”
Wait, so she was at fault in a fault state, he had video proof of all her lies, proof of her cheating, proof of her falsely accusing him, she lied in front of police and in front the judge and got found out both times, he had a 'good lawyer', and she STILL came out of it scot-free with $110,000?? If the roles were reversed, the man would at the very least come out of it in debt and gone straight to jail..
The fact it's implied that users were upset that the children may have been "playing in the yard" unsupervised is mind blowing to me. Are kids not allowed to play in the yard unsupervised anymore??
I haven't seen the original post or comments, but my take on that criticism was something like, "if they live in as rural a location as it sounds from OP, maybe bigger wild predators might come for the small children." Granted, idk the size of their yard or even where they live, enough to say whether that would be much of an issue Also, given their young ages, i wouldnt want them playing outside unsupervised by an adult or generally older family member for at least another year or 2, just because they dont fully have the self control to not go look at whatever caught their attention without saying something, or to not accidentally get hurt or die because they didn't know better
@@E_tha_N3rdyeah but I'm sure kids older than 3 would be smart enough not to leave the property without supervision, or the go ahead from whomever is taking care of them
@@Anarchristian_Beanz Nah, they can give legit good ass advice. With such a massive user base, you are essentially rolling the dice on who ends up seeing your post and commenting.
Remember everyone: Just because she cries doesn’t mean she’s right. And it’s okay to need space, but purposefully refusing to speak to your partner until they apologize is manipulation and emotional abuse.
To the end, people tried to frame OP as a liar 😂. I'll never understand people of reddit. Lying to the police and wasting resources will absolutely get you in cuffs....
That hawk was kind of an angel, yes it took the bunny and hurt the kids, but if he didn't do that the OP would never find out about the cheating and would have lost everything, because she was going to lie about him, the hawk maybe bad but not this one.
I don't understand this kind of comments. Precisely, it is only a Bunny, why the person would be able to do something to a human being. I'm a doctor researcher and i work on mice. I neither hate or love thème, they are just mice, ans while for some expériments the mice are not what we can call happy, i do that for the sake of humans
@@martinsnathan2039 - Yeah, and there is your difference. You are doing it trying to accomplish something good; sometimes sacrificing lifes, sure, but we need a lab rat. Now, can you say the same about someone that says "it's only a [blank]" about a life they helped vanish for absolutely no reason? Are psychopaths that kill cats "just killing cats, nothing special"?
Good on OP for getting the cameras throughout the house. Because it legit could have turned into a "he said, she said" situation in court but my boy came with receipts!!! 😂😂😂😂
The dumdums of reddit never cease to amaze me. Kids don't need to see a bunny that they grabbed be taken by a hawk. They're definitely feeling guilty that they grabbed it in the first place. Offering an animal on a silver platter ain't the circle of life. And having zero empathy for your kids is the first of many red flags.
I mean can you blame him for saying that? She made it clear that she didn't give a damn about her other kids and her marriage and was clearly more than willing to let AP knock her up
so in an at fault state where she cheated with clear video proof, clearly on video stating she was planning on abandoning her kids the courts STILL wanted to give her custody of the kids and she still walked away with $110,000 payout and gets to go off and have a relationship with her new partner no strings attached and no obligations towards her children? Yeah
I dont blame the kids for calling thier mom BS, i mean hey your ex wife seems a hypocrite, she there around cheating and feels atacked and acts all ofended but shes the one atracking her kids and cheated on you.but good for you for the divorce l. Its best for kids to stay away from the mom as she is toxic.
Boi, the first dude was not trying to defy nature, he was trying to save his kids from seeing a bunny dying when they were barely old enough for kindergarten!
@@jgrAnimations23 True. In the states, if you give up your rights/sign them over, you also sign out of child support. Plus, she's been a SAHM, and pregnant, so the judge wouldn't have had her pay anything anyways. It's screwed like that.
Still can't believe the story went from "I had a fight with my wife because of a bunny and my children hate her for it " to "my wife cheated on me got pregnant by the guy she's cheating with and said she hates her children and tried to get me arrested with fault accusations" 💀
I'm glad that OP was able to gain custody of the kids its rare for fathers to gain custody of their children since some states do that law differently but at the same time I'm glad the wife got arrested for falsely claiming sexual abuse never ever do a false claim of sexual abuse it really hurts people who are actual victims of sexual abuse or just abuse in general
If a man cheats, they tell the wife to leave without question with a "no neogotiating" attitude. A woman cheats, and those same people beg the husband to "take her back," "she didn't mean it," "it was a single mistake." Despite cheating for MONTHS.
Wow that ex wife is the worst. I bet she will cheat or her baby daddy will cheat. The company probably needs the AP and can't risk firing him. But I think ex just wanted to be in a non at fault state because she won't change. She just wants to make sure she gets money this time.
Yeah, that woman was pretty stupid. I agree, the hawk needed a dinner, but they saw the bunny as a pet. I get feeding a hawk pieces of meat, is educational. But forcing them to see a living creature unalived in front of their eyes is traumatic! I feel so bad for those kids!
Disgusting how everyone tried to pick on everything OP wrote and tried to make him look like the bad person and justify her actions or make it seem like what she’d done had to be his fault for some reason or another.. situations like this are a lot more common than people realise. People need to realise it’s not just males who can be horrible and unfaithful for no reason, FEMALES CAN DO THE SAME. there’s females who can cheat or use their words or actions to hurt their partner without a second thought or a care in the world. I’ve heard of plenty of situations where the woman is at fault, both genders can do stuff like this but people need to not act like they know this situation better than OP does🥴🥴 cheating isn’t okay and her actions aren’t okay even if anyone thinks he did something wrong somehow, if unhappy then work on it with your partner or leave them. Don’t cheat or find a way to hurt them.
If it was a female who posted this and was in the guys position then people would believe things more but because OP is a male people question things more. It’s sad how people’s minds work.
If you uncover an affair. 1. Make sure to start recording everything, get your partner and family members to talk about how your relationship is and how swell you are. 2. HIRE A PI. This not it’s important. If you do the legwork yourself you can easily run into wiretapping/eavesdropping laws. They won’t, and they will find more evidence. 3. When you are ready to go public, do so big. Let everyone know (respectfully) that you are separating. This may seem tacky, but you NEED to take control of the narrative and not let the cheater try to twist things.
Good for OP. His family is better off without that woman. Though I kind of feel bad for the do-over baby. Something tells me that CPS is gonna come knocking on OP's or the grandparents door in a few years.
On that last subject so many charges can be held for what she did. Filing a false report obstruction of justice. Purposely wasting the time of Emergency Services they can actually make her pay for that last part there in cash
The fact OP had to defend himself against people thinking he's the bad guy, because they THOUGHT he yelled at her. Certainly not in front of their kids, but, SHE WOULD HAVE DESERVED IT. Truthfully though, it almost seemed like she was purposefully trying to get him to lose control. How any mother could have NO remorse, for traumatizing her own children, is disgusting. For all those people saying, "circle of life", yes that's true, but it does NOT mean it's ok to have children that young see it up close, and that brutally, right in front of them like that. I'm sorry, but she's more than just a few fries short of a happy meal. I don’t think I've ever heard one of these stories where someone was as absolutely VILE, as this woman was. Just with everything she did to OP, she showed how ruthless, selfish, and vindictive she is. But what she did to her own children honestly makes me sick. I swear, listening to this was like being on an emotional roller coaster. Shock, anger, sick, and most of all, heart broken for those little kids. You don't ever have to lay a hand on a child, but you can still inflict unbelievable a*use, and t*auma on them. I truly hope OP and his kids will have all the love and happiness they deserve.
I'm currently studying about laws. My dad is a police officer, he also knows alot about psychology. I read a book on how to know when a person is lying. If i was the police officer, i would ask the husband "is it true sir?" If he said no, i will ask another question. It will go something like this "Sir, what's the issue here?" If he answered "My wife is accusing me of abuse, just because i found out about her affair." Me: "Oh, okay sir let me just ask your wife." "Ma'am is it true that you have accused your husband of abuse, and also you have been cheating on him?" If she answered while crying "No! He did abuse me and i didn't cheat on him. Huhuhu" Me i will just look at her as she answers the question, if i find anything unusual on how she talks or looks me in the eye, i will be like "Aight! Sir, you're good to go. Ma'am, I would like to talk to you." If while talking to her she says something or does something that seem odd. I will be like"B!tch you lyin."😂 Edit: I just wanted to put one my most favorite lines in movies, if i ever become a police officer. "Bravo! Bravo! That was excellent! 👏 I almost teared up." "Sir, your wife is such an amazing actress! Bravo! Her acting was so good, I almost actually believed it! In honor of her wonderful performance, i present her with a small token of appreciation for that beautiful act. Stick your arm in front of me ma'am (proceeds to handcuff her ess!" 😂
You know what these stories have taught me is to always have a divorce lawyer on standby am still probably going to get married but ill always have a good lawyer on my side just in case 😂😂
“Hawks gotta eat too”, dang, why didn’t she just put the rabbit on a plate with a side of mice. Circle of life, yea right, that circle been broken for years now.
Op's Wife be like "I didn't want to admit I was wrong so I just disregard not only my husbands but my children's feelings. Then instead of admitting I was wrong i decided to be immature and give my husband the silent treatment. " Pride cometh before the fall.
A stark reminder that the majority of people online these days are not very nice, and actively enjoy hurting others from the safety of their basements.
It is. She gets no alimony. No child support. She has no right to house or his retirement accounts. He gets full custody. Any other money he has saved is his as well. I'll take that anyday.
I think that goes to show maybe how well off they were before the divorce. Of the 60k and a paid off car is all she hot and he won everything else that’s pretty good,
@@packergeek10 He chose to do a lump sum instead of alimony and child support, it's the same just divvied out differently. In a state with at fault divorce she should be getting absolutely nothing except split custody if she was still a decent mother and didnt have other problems
The AI this story was pushed through really changed it a lot. I remember the original and how this is based on a viral video of the hawk grabbing the bunny, that the OP was quick to point that out and tried to see the funny side of his wife being an idiot.
I just can't understand how women are allowed to lie to police and get off scot free? They even had camera footage of her fabricating abuse. She should have gone to jail at least for a bit. Does the law not apply to women? If cameras weren't there, for sure he would have gone to prison.
He should dedicate his post to the memory of the bunny that got taken by the hawk. It’s tragic fate will always be a reminder of how you found out the truth about your ex wife. RIP Little Bunny. You will be missed.
The fact that so many of these commenters were pulling out that stupid 'hawks need to eat too' strawman argument is a testament to how stupid people on Reddit are.
In the 100s of reddit stories I have listened to across multiple platforms a common issue I see crops up in which spouses don't know where they stand in the marriage which may lead to emotional affairs,affairs,abuse and separations.The children suffer the most from the tumultuous times due to young age, insecurities, fear of change and just emotional trauma. Many of these issues could be mitigated by good morals, Religious background that promotes a healthy family structure and well-being, as well as growing up with your spouse therefore knowing them intimately through the years which is the least reliable of the three but is worth mentioning Comment down below if you agree or disagree with some of the points being made as I would love feedback.
I almost feel bad for AP since he doesn't truly know who he's dating/gotten pregnant keyword *almost* I'm sure that demon will get bored of him as well and try to be rid of him now
I remember once I was playing catch with my mom and we turned around and a squirrel ran from under som steps or from the ally and a hawk tried to grab it but it squirmed out of its grasps
Where are these cops that are ready to throw down over domestic abuse whenever an actual victim is calling? There was another recent OP on these channels who's husband was actually trying to kill her and yet NOTHING.
