Im in middle school and yes, I’m in my middle school stage. I don’t use skincare from Ulta, I don’t shop at Sephora, I don’t where crop tops. I don’t swear. I’m just a regular 7th grader with acne trying to fix that problem 😅
nah it’s just sad that her parents allowed this dance and their choreographer literally came up with the idea to have 14,15 year olds do this dance. keep in mind that some of her damas might be 14😭 it’s just sad because she’s allowing people to see her like this. All her family, friends, etc especially the KIDS. there’s kids in that crowd and i could never imagine this in a quince or a wedding. her parents have some explanation to do and her choreographer
12 year old Hispanic male here, what the hell is this? Genuinely, I’m very concerned. Like, damn, it’s a quinceañera, not a strip club. Unlike a lot of kids my age, I don’t like social media that much, it’s entertaining, yes, but we all have to understand that there is a very defined line between safe content, and straight up explicit content, whether it’s porn, nude photos, art, people under 18 need to stay in the safe zone of the internet, family friendly content, texting friends, etc. In summary, people under 18 need to know that this behavior is unacceptable and should act their age, because life doesn’t get any easier after childhood. This is unacceptable and disturbing.
I wouldn't even expect this from a wedding! maybe the bachelor party but, no. I'm newly 17 and I would never dance like that in front of anyone (maybe future husband in the comfort of our home) let alone My Family. I'm going to a wedding in October and i'm trying to make sure my dress isn't to tight because my family is going to be there like bffr.
I’m 15 and Hispanic and this is NOT it 😭. for quinces yes it is about being introduced to women hood but it is also a very religious concept, for my quince like I went to church and had a ceremony for 2 hours because that’s how it works. Yes we party but never like this. The worse is that the adults might drink but that’s all🤷🏽♀️. And the way the chambelans looked a little hesitant to tells it all. Idk also the fact that the girl was comfortable doing this in front of her fam. I would’ve been dead lol.
2:56 when the boy on the left with the gold girl, I love how when he had to carry her he carried her with his arms around her waist instead of under her butt like the girl in red in the middle
That was so inappropriate.I don't know what's wrong with this quinceñera but does she not realize that her damas are like 14 and 15 years old and they are doing this kind of dance, around adults.Honestly,this was not a good surprise dance.I could tell the chambelanes were uncomfortable with this.
It sad to watch this because why are they doing this my mom and my dad saw it and said that is not good we are mexican and they should not treat the Hispanic cultural like her parent might had said what the f**k are we watch and the Quinceanera might got in trouble of the horrible dance they did i am just very mad and at the same time sad of what she did
It's a coming out celebration that means she entering the change of life going towards womanhood ,she has to start being and acting with respect for herself
Me as a 14 yr old. I get shamed for being too childish. I always thought i was a late bloomer like you said because i never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone. My friends always think my parents are super strict because they don’t allow me to wear tank tops or skirts at school, or any provocative clothing at that. This video made me realize that i don’t have to grow up faster, i have seen tiktoks where girls my age dress sexually and i feel like i need to be like that, but i dont. Im 14 and i need to just be 14.
Social media is definitely to blame, quinces used to be as innocent as they could be considering the girls were becoming women, but this is just an example of the negative affects of social media
This is Mexican culture, but not normal or the traditional way of doing Quinceneras. Many women ‘perform’ bc they think it’s sexy versus vulgar. Not all Mexican, but many parents that believe you have to be a certain way to be sexy are they themselves getting enhancements of body parts. They are proud that their daughters are being ‘sexy’ and push it on them. It’s pretty raunchy and sad. Not all Mexican women light up a candle to Mary or use the Rosary to pray or read the Bible. Gone are the days the quincenera was used to celebrate girlhood to womanhood, a coming of age celebration with big gowns, the ‘waltz’ and a party to enjoy family you have not seen in a long time. Although in America being an adult is 18, Mexicans keep it at 15 bc it’s a traditional event going back to Mexico and a time where a girl at 15 was considered adult for marriage. Mexicans will be Mexicans wherever they go. Now these Mexicans parents are exchanging the traditional ‘waltz’ dance for stripper dances or megan the stallion rap dances. Quinceneras have morphed into sexualizing the young girls. It so sad. The parents and family members most likely are okay with this indecent behavior. It begs to look at Mexican culture and ask why the need to be sexy to the point that it’s encouraged into to the young girls resulting in these types of inappropriate dances for young girls of age 15.
I love how u said this and explained yk it really made me realize that like I still need to be young and have that child life I’m 13 about to be 14 and I don’t know who to be anymore but honestly u made me feel like I’m perfect the way I am and that I don’t need to make changes to my body or face and that I don’t need makeup I love you thank you for changing my mind on everything ❤️😇
Thank you for saying this as a 13 year old girl in middle school many popular girls wear a bunch of makeup and if you don’t wear makeup your considered ugly and won’t get any boys so I’m grateful someone is understanding what’s going on❤
Give it a few years and you'll be the one laughing at them because you were focused on what's actually important and stayed true to you! Don't change for anyone. No 13 year old should be worried about "getting guys".. trust me you'll have plenty of time to worry about all that other nonsense later in life!
In front of your primas and primos and tias and tíos and your mother and father is absolutely wild I’m wondering what they are thinking or how old they are oh my gawd.
She’s Cuban she said her parents didn’t mind and she didn’t feel uncomfortable dancing and for the one that says the dress had to be flow. Yes, she did have a big poopy flow dress and a traditional Cuban salsa dance for the one that acts my Quinceañera wasn’t like this, but I did dance
My daughter will not be doing that! How embarrassing! In front of the dad? That’s an illegal dance for a 15 year old. Parents should have been arrested!
As a “tia chismosa” who watches a bunch of la Rosa de Guadalupe there is an episode where two girls have a like battle, on insta I think, to figure out who will be the prom queen and this one girl A starts posting sexualizado stuff to get more likes, so the other girl B does it too, girl A’s mom helps her and approves of those fotos, but girl B’s mom doesn’t approve. A predator gets on both girl’s page but he ends up kidnapping girl A but they rescue her. But her mom gets tought a lesson that doing stuff like that is bad for children. I just wanted to share cuz the vid reminded me of the episode 😊
They look like Mexicans. This is Mexican culture, but not normal or the traditional way of doing Quinceneras. Many women ‘perform’ bc they think it’s sexy versus vulgar. Not all Mexican, but many parents that believe you have to be a certain way to be sexy are they themselves getting enhancements of body parts. They are proud that their daughters are being ‘sexy’ and push it on them. It’s pretty raunchy and sad. Not all Mexican women light up a candle to Mary or use the Rosary to pray or read the Bible. Gone are the days the quincenera was used to celebrate girlhood to womanhood, a coming of age celebration with big gowns, the ‘waltz’ and a party to enjoy family you have not seen in a long time. Although in America being an adult is 18, Mexicans keep it at 15 bc it’s a traditional event going back to Mexico and a time where a girl at 15 was considered adult for marriage. Mexicans will be Mexicans wherever they go. Now these Mexicans parents are exchanging the traditional ‘waltz’ dance for stripper dances or megan the stallion rap dances. Quinceneras have morphed into sexualizing the young girls. It so sad. The parents and family members most likely are okay with this indecent behavior. It begs to look at Mexican culture and ask why the need to be sexy to the point that it’s encouraged into to the young girls resulting in these types of inappropriate dances for young girls of age 15.
i saw a comment on tiktok saying they were cuban and this typa dance is normal in their culture. is it really? ive seen some people vouch in the replies but i dont really see how or why...
This is Mexican/Latinos culture, but NOT normal or the traditional way of doing Quinceneras. Many women ‘perform’ bc they think it’s sexy versus vulgar. Not all Mexican, but many parents that believe you have to be a certain way to be sexy are they themselves getting enhancements of body parts. They are proud that their daughters are being ‘sexy’ and push it on them. It’s pretty raunchy and sad. Not all Mexican women light up a candle to Mary or use the Rosary to pray or read the Bible. Gone are the days the quincenera was used to celebrate girlhood to womanhood, a coming of age celebration with big gowns, the ‘waltz’ and a party to enjoy family you have not seen in a long time. Although in America being an adult is 18, Mexicans keep it at 15 bc it’s a traditional event going back to Mexico and a time where a girl at 15 was considered adult. Mexicans will be Mexicans wherever they go. As well as any Latino culture. Now these Mexicans parents are exchanging the traditional ‘waltz’ dance for stripper dances or megan the stallion rap dances. Quinceneras have morphed into sexualizing the young girls. It so sad. The parents and family members most likely are okay with this indecent behavior. It begs to look at Mexican culture and ask why the need to be sexy to the point that it’s encouraged into to the young girls resulting in these types of inappropriate dances for young girls of age 15.
This is Mexican/Latinos culture, but NOT normal or the traditional way of doing Quinceneras. Many women ‘perform’ bc they think it’s sexy versus vulgar. Not all Mexican, but many parents that believe you have to be a certain way to be sexy are they themselves getting enhancements of body parts. They are proud that their daughters are being ‘sexy’ and push it on them. It’s pretty raunchy and sad. Not all Mexican women light up a candle to Mary or use the Rosary to pray or read the Bible. Gone are the days the quincenera was used to celebrate girlhood to womanhood, a coming of age celebration with big gowns, the ‘waltz’ and a party to enjoy family you have not seen in a long time. Although in America being an adult is 18, Mexicans keep it at 15 bc it’s a traditional event going back to Mexico and a time where a girl at 15 was considered adult. Mexicans will be Mexicans wherever they go. As well as any Latino culture. Now these Mexicans parents are exchanging the traditional ‘waltz’ dance for stripper dances or megan the stallion rap dances. Quinceneras have morphed into sexualizing the young girls. It so sad. The parents and family members most likely are okay with this indecent behavior. It begs to look at Mexican culture and ask why the need to be sexy to the point that it’s encouraged into to the young girls resulting in these types of inappropriate dances for young girls of age 15.
this is so wild and i saw the tiktok when they made all of them twerk and i was like mind blown and ur right this is like s0ft |>0r|\| why is this not viral yet and plus a quince is like get a blessing before and go to church and then party but not in a perverted way..
This is Mexican culture, but not normal or the traditional way of doing Quinceneras. Many women ‘perform’ bc they think it’s sexy versus vulgar. Not all Mexican, but many parents that believe you have to be a certain way to be sexy are they themselves getting enhancements of body parts. They are proud that their daughters are being ‘sexy’ and push it on them. It’s pretty raunchy and sad. Not all Mexican women light up a candle to Mary or use the Rosary to pray or read the Bible. Gone are the days the quincenera was used to celebrate girlhood to womanhood, a coming of age celebration with big gowns, the ‘waltz’ and a party to enjoy family you have not seen in a long time. Although in America being an adult is 18, Mexicans keep it at 15 bc it’s a traditional event going back to Mexico and a time where a girl at 15 was considered adult for marriage. Mexicans will be Mexicans wherever they go. Now these Mexicans parents are exchanging the traditional ‘waltz’ dance for stripper dances or megan the stallion rap dances. Quinceneras have morphed into sexualizing the young girls. It so sad. The parents and family members most likely are okay with this indecent behavior. It begs to look at Mexican culture and ask why the need to be sexy to the point that it’s encouraged into to the young girls resulting in these types of inappropriate dances for young girls of age 15.
This is Mexican culture, but not normal or the traditional way of doing Quinceneras. Many women ‘perform’ bc they think it’s sexy versus vulgar. Not all Mexican, but many parents that believe you have to be a certain way to be sexy are they themselves getting enhancements of body parts. They are proud that their daughters are being ‘sexy’ and push it on them. It’s pretty raunchy and sad. Not all Mexican women light up a candle to Mary or use the Rosary to pray or read the Bible. Gone are the days the quincenera was used to celebrate girlhood to womanhood, a coming of age celebration with big gowns, the ‘waltz’ and a party to enjoy family you have not seen in a long time. Although in America being an adult is 18, Mexicans keep it at 15 bc it’s a traditional event going back to Mexico and a time where a girl at 15 was considered adult for marriage. Mexicans will be Mexicans wherever they go. Now these Mexicans parents are exchanging the traditional ‘waltz’ dance for stripper dances or megan the stallion rap dances. Quinceneras have morphed into sexualizing the young girls. It so sad. The parents and family members most likely are okay with this indecent behavior. It begs to look at Mexican culture and ask why the need to be sexy to the point that it’s encouraged into to the young girls resulting in these types of inappropriate dances for young girls of age 15.
I agree with 99% of what you said, this is very sad and sending blessings to the family 🙏🏼 Like my Great Mama would say “That flower will bloom to its fullest when it’s ready, but if its open to soon, it will decay quicker and lose it beauty forever” God Bless you 🙏🏼❤️ Note: Please however respect the Latin Culture of Quince, don’t talk about how it is a waists of money and unworthy. My quinceañera was one of those days I will forever cherish and be greatful, I thank the Lord of Abraham and Moses, the same God who turn into flesh and died for us and resurrected on the third day! I Thank him for such parents to who say to me “ That Dress look stunning bc you are wearing it my child” 🙏🏼❤️
i just went to a quince like around a month ago, and i can confirm this is NOT traditional. the dances they did at the one i went to were songs like “party in the usa” or “macarena”. she was gorgeous and had this very long, beautiful dress. i cannot believe someone would do that for a quince.
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i'm gonna have a quinceanera and my cousin had one but we don't go this far we just wear a nice top and cowgirl jeans for this dance plus its a QUINCEANERA aren't u suppose to wear a big beautiful dress i can't believe these girls would do this its crazy
This is so true, my friend WHO IS TEN, said some kids in her class did the deed, in school? IN SCHOOL?! And they are literally 10, make it make sense, bc that's crazyyyy👏🤡
OK in her defense, she only turns 15 once a quinceanera you gotta go all out like I I am Mexican and if I had a quinceanera, I wouldn’t dance like that of course in front of my family, but I feel like you have to have some sort of thing to get your family up and get everybody else to dance I feel like it’s appropriate even if her parents were there then she has parent permission so you guys can’t say crap about it
This just ruins the quince entirely. This genuinely gives me the ick.. the worst part is the other boys were probably forced into this and probably never had a choice. They probably questioned their life choices at this point like😭😭😭
Bro I’m only 14 and I know that a lot of girls and boys in my school would love to do all of that because that’s what they would think is right, and I really could not ever think about doing that and so many people are just ok with it
My parents and older brothers think that having a fiesta of quince años is something stupid. My dad says I can barely make a tortilla to have a quinceañera : )
And thinking that women wear tiny dresses just to attract men is a very close minded and holier than thou stated. Women can do that but little girls cant
The kids nowadays have a lot of what we call, the parents reflecting on their kids. They all want to look older, do adult things and have sexual relationships as young as possible. They’re exposed to those at young age by adults or family members, or as today, social media. The bad thing is that they grow up too fast, they want to have kids before getting to 16 and show as much of their body as possible… When I was 8, I was wearing what my mom bought, colourful clothes that almost looked like night clothes and never cared about style or how I looked, while others my age had ripped jeans and crop tops with mascara, concealer and lipstick. Even now that I’m almost 16, I still see girls getting pregnant at my age, getting raped by other students, making sexual jokes, asking for s*x with money, and having the freedom to vape, smoke or buy drugs from other students. This world disgusts me. (No I never did nothing of that no worries.)
Yall when she was bouncing her butt on the floor with her leg out , it’s a traditional dance step they do at their quencenera sometimes 😂lol (I’m srry if I spelled it wrong) but after all…it’s still innaproriate😂
Did you hear about the new story of the father canceling his daughters quinceanera because he found out his daughter had a boyfriend and they spent over $5000 and the father said he doesn’t care those parties are for girls who are versions and pure he caught his daughter sneaking back in the house late and told his wife I don’t care how much money I spent she doesn’t get her party
I’m sorry but I home people know a that Quinceañera is a party of coming to age back in the past, that would mean that she would be married on any were prepared to make that you’re also ready and had a good age to have children. we just grew out of that because of the fact that generations have changed and our mind got different. But it’s like you have your first drink them too. It’s like meaning you’re 21 when you’re not 21.
Damn....with the virginity statement another mistake. .....if an adult wants to have sex....its ok..... sex is an adult's activity....not a marriage activity.
She’s acting like everyone does this and like hating on how they celebrate I get that this quince was inappropriate but she’s saying a lot about how quince are just meaningless like if people want to spend a lot of money on there daughters they can it’s there decision but that doesn’t make them foolish and I went to a quince like a month ago and it wasn’t like this at all so her saying a lot of quinces are like this is crazy and then her also saying she hasn’t really gone to a lot of quinces I don’t know maybe it’s just me but she kind of being ig disrespectful but I totally agree with her about this dance
Dont know about god I don't think so loosing virginity with not the "right" person is a bad thing But i agree with you on the point that perverting lil girls is a no no
Um....being open-minded to new ideas has nothing to do with this 😒 why did you bring that up anyways? Open mindedness has to do with adults,two consenting ones. Your comment kinda sounded like that. This is a child tf. Why should children be wearing makeup
How ur talking about like young girls being like, looking way older and being pressured to grow up more, I’m 11 years old (I know to much) anyway I play with dolls (only do their hair) and like I don’t have TikTok and play hide in seek I love child hood, ima enjoy it 😊
