Will a Man Leave His Marriage for the Other Woman? 

If she does it to you, it is Biblical grounds for divorce. If he does it, he is actually not doing it to you, but to whomever he is doing it with. The real question is why he is not being up front and honest with his first wife, about his desire to take a second wife, or why he does not want to commit to the second woman by marrying her.

Love and attraction is not something rational...

Because that person has social proof and is high value. So they can cheat and continue.

Not necessarily

Married men are narcissist!

Thou shalt not murder!

There are also wives who dgaf who talk down to their husbands, treat them like children who are there only to do chores, and ignore them. Keep treating your man like crap and you'll lose them. Period.

@@alouise3557m a wife and I know you’re the mistress and you can best believe when you land him you will be supporting him and he is moving in your crappy crib by the time I get through with him. I will make sure he leaves with nothing. The both of you will be starting from scratch. Tada!

@@MercedesAshleyOnline Something is very wrong with you. The fact that you'd even call a home a "crib" says enough. What's worse is you actually think another woman needs your stuff? Are you serious? Sounds to me like your intellect is probably enough to drive any man to drink.

@@MercedesAshleyOnline wow, you call yourself a "wife" and a PORN STAR? You're nasty. No wonder why you have to worry about a man leaving you.

No man ever leaves his wife for another woman. That is a lie. They leave their wives in order to conform to a hypocritical serial monogamous (technically polygamous) society's norms and legalities.

yep

They don't leave wife because their narcissist!

@@danieldeluca4936 oh some definitely do leave

@@soniacastro-sanchez5726 Most the time they leave for good reason.

She isnt coming in between him and his wife. He that all by himself! No one can force a man to cheat! Stop blaming the non married partner.

All marriad man intrested more othere woman I sm saprat .❤😍🌷

@@vicstee482 Just because she is not married to the wife does not mean she should assist the cheater in hurting his wife.

@@mariamm663 Leave married men alone!

@@vicstee482 Your conscious should tell you to do the right thing dummy dum!

Why do you promote serial polygamy which Christ condemned, and condemn concurrent polygyny, which Christ never condemned?

Whom did you remarry? If you married any other man besides your first husband, you and this other man have committed adultery with each other. No man ever leaves his wife for another woman. That is a lie. They leave their wives in order to conform to a hypocritical supposedly monogamous (in truth serial polygamous) society. Think about your two gorgeous children! Are they better off with their real father, or a step-father, who very well may be preying on them.

@Straight Facts true, i fucked a married man once and its the first and last time ill ever do that.him and i cut ties and He eventually divorced his wife but years later.

I know a lady who dated a guy who was married .not formally in church or the registry and her therapist told her he would never leave his then live in wife or baby momma or whatever but he did .they are about to clock 1year now

@@danieldeluca4936 she did not commit adultery. You are free to divorce if your spouse has committed adultery. It is him who is an adultery and still in the act if he remarries.

@@ugoezenewkirk526 Dude! You need to read what Jesus said about this. He NEVER used the word "spouse"! Learn the difference between the words "wife" and "spouse".

You’re a rare diamond.

@@God.sDaughter thank you for those kind words 💯

And if you fall in love with another woman.

How about if she withholds sex for 4 years? 10 years?

@@Sapper65 that would apply too

No man should EVER desire to leave any of the women whom God hath joined him together with.

Android 18 Super Sayin facts... dummy

Actually they think that he will leave her in order to conform to society's hypocritical norms and legalities, having only one wife at a time. There is nothing wrong with having two wives, so long as you don't ditch one wife ostencibly in order to have the other.

Queen Camilla of England

Same here

i mean shit happens , but i think the relation was doomed from the start , but it doesn't matter , after all its not the end of the world , you can rebuild your life and have a better one

She still committed adultery when she married him. Matt 5:32

And i so badly want to go to heaven

What about the husband? If he never opened up that door the access wouldn't be there...

What verse of Scripture are you basing this on? When we get to heaven, we will see women such as Abigail, Hannah, and Esther there.

Amen! Who doesn't?

Junior Almeida 😂

🤣😂🤣....Amen

@@danieldeluca4936 all of us don't.

@@Tkimba2 Correction: Some of you don't realize that you do. You are welcome!

No they are not!!!! Married and divorced WOMEN are off limits.

@@danieldeluca4936 you really need to look at new testament and see that we are all one in Christ.

A man who leave his wife, causes her to commit adultery, plain and simple!

No man ever leaves his wife for another woman. That is such a lie! Roman monogamy is just serial polygamy.

@@danieldeluca4936 no it is not. Married men leave their wives for another man's wife all the time!

@@maunder01 It is a lie! They are not leaving their wives for another woman! They are leaving their wives in order to have the other woman, and conform to this hypocritical idea of monogamy. Man! If someone wants to have a second wife, there is nothing wrong with that! Just don't ditch your FIRST wife!!!!!

@@danieldeluca4936 it's not ok to take another man's wife

@@maunder01 Agreed 💯percent.

That is a lie! Plenty of married couples out there are looking to add a sister wife, and there is not one verse of Scripture that condemns them for doing so.

Queen. Kristal My husband left me and our two kids. For a 26 year old. They are telling everyone that they are married and even wearing wedding rings. We are not divorce yet.

Susan Green-Sutton You left out the part about him wanting to remain monogamous. That is the other reason why he left you. He wanted to conform to a hypocritical society's norms and legalities which say that it is perfectly fine to leave your wife and two kids, but remain married to her and marry a second woman is supposedly wrong.

Daniel DeLuca Yes ma'am !! I completely agree 100% !!

Well, I am a sir, but I hope you are able to communicate with your husband. His second wife might not be so keen about remaining with him, if she has to share him, but she has to realize that when she pursued a married man, that is what she signed up for. I like the words of the song "Why Does it Have to Be". "Why do you have to hurt one to love another? Won't somebody please, please tell me!" Good luck! Go get your husband back! I'll pray for you.

It is also why men who desire to have more than one wife, ought to be honest and up front about this, before they marry one wife.

He might leave his wife for her.

Korey Brown That was a very mature answer you gave. Granted it's not right to be involved with someone that is taken, but everybody did something once in their lifetime that they're not proud of. No im not saying that she should get a pat on the back and be told it's ok, but the harsh comments is. not necessary.

Great comment

Thank you.. my thoughts exactly

Korey Brown Yea well he shoulda got an divorce. If you're still married and "meet someone new," its still adultery. If you want it that bad you can wait or the other person can.

Korey Brown yes absolutely true ! If a man has not been intimate with his wife for a while , or they sleep in separate bedrooms ,then happens to meet a woman with whom he finds happiness then of course he will leave his wife for the new woman. He was going to leave his wife anyway. So you are totally correct ... we do not know the whole story. And FYI gentlemen... yes many have left their spouses for other men .... or women. Geez it’s all over Hollywood LOL

Briana R hey girl ice cream this woman going out with a married man and then having her nerves to ask if her man is cheating on her with his wife stupid and ridiculous she shouldn't be doing that

I am a victim of husband cheating on me I found out that he was cheating on me with his friend's wife in January I started having issues I confided in this woman told her everything she's trying to give me moral support in April I found her wallet underneath the passenger side before he sits now my husband living with his best friend's wife

2838yolanda ...and Im sorry you had to go through such shit with your ex pigman!

Christy McKee God bless u.i appreciate your positive thinking .

Briana R That is easier said than done. Good men are hard to find, last time I checked. Well that is only true if you ignore the many good men who have proved themselves with one wife. BTW, what is so bad about sharing a good husband. Is that any worse than settling for a lousy husband?

Aly Sanusi Thank you for being open& honest! Things do happen for a reason.

but then you were willing to see past that fantasy that affairs conjure up..most people get shocked when their AP isnt that 100% perfect ken or barbie they knew once they had an actual relationship.

But then why did you divorce your first wife? Did you initiate the divorce, or did she?

You do know that if you divorce your wife, you are causing her to commit adultery, do you not?

@@danieldeluca4936 do you realise that a man in LIMERENCE will not care about his wife and will divorce her to please the other woman? You need to seperate the man of God to the man of flesh...

I needed to see this

Shady in the form of dishonest, but that is only because of the fact that society has imposed monogamy upon him against his will!

Not a good reason for divorce! If you move on and marry someone else, you will be committing adultery, and you cannot blame that on him, since you yourself were the one to divorce him. Reconcile with him or else remain single. I Cor 7:10-12

@@danieldeluca4936 once again, you are pointing fingers at people and telling them what to do when no one asked you to. Going around telling people on youtube to "be honest" and engage in polygamy, which is illegal in most states, indicates you're a few flies short of a picnic.

@@danieldeluca4936 and no, she is NOT "GUILTY" for marrying after she was cheated on. *YOUR MOTIVE IS SELFISH* because you want TWO WOMEN, which is exactly the same as men who have two women in affairs. The paper it's written on doesn't matter. You just want your wife to shut up and LET YOU do it so you don't have to pay for a divorce and you can keep 2 women. This isn't biblical times. Stop using the Bible as a weapon to justify your own selfish motives.

@@alouise3557 So shoot the messenger. The message remains unchanged.

@@alouise3557 She left him, and if she marries another man, she will have to answer to God for that. I don't want two WOMEN; I want two WIVES. There is nothing wrong with having more than one wife. "Affair" is an invented English word that has no meaning when it comes to what God's Word has to say. My wife has every right to tell me not to marry another woman, up until the point in time when the second woman becomes my wife. God hates divorce. You love it, because it destroys families and Satan has given you the spirit of Jezebel. Men are to cling to their wives and never let them go, even when Satan comes around and gets in his wife's ear and tells her to tell her husbad that she wants a divorce. My response is always that she should not talk like this, and you shouldn't either. You love the destruction of the family, because it is dragging this nation to hell! God's Word is still relevant today, and we are paying a high price for ignoring it. My motives need no justification, and who are you to judge whether they are selfish or not? You will stand before God one day to be judged by Him, whether you like it or not. He gave us His Word, but when it says something that you don't like, you simply disregard it. It will not bode well for you on the Day of Judgment. Repent.

Then become her best friend!

Nor should he, but he should not be getting it on with the other woman until he makes her his second wife.

She could get any man ... I feel bad how dumb she is . She should do modeling to take her mind off But also about the wife too . The guy is the real problem

And she isn't the first nor the last. Sometimes I'm wondering if those women have brain.

She should consider polygyny.

That is why monogamy is the biggest sham that has been played on our society. We inherited this garbage from the Romans, and it has had disastrous results.

​@@danieldeluca4936oh you pathetic human being want polygamy I hope you never get even a wife loser with loser mindset .

Marta Venade i agree with you. there are men out there who divorce their wives to be with some1 else they loved. some marriages was broken because the wivies cheated n took for granted. there is no 1 size fits all. but its also true majority of the situations, men will not divorce. they rather cheat outside their failure marriages

Marta Venade Amen! Thank you

Miss Thinking: In a case like that, he should wait until his divorce to move on. Two wrongs don't make a right. And, there ARE rules. The Bible spells them out, starting with the 10 commandments.

OK so he didn't really leave his wife for another woman. He left his adulteress wife, because she was unfaithful.

If the man wants a second wife, he should be up front and honest with his first wife, and if she gets enthusiastically behind him and supports bringing in a sister wife, they will all be blessed.

Lol. It's still the expectation.

If you are a woman seeing a married man, get to lnow his wife, become her best friend, and watch a couple of "sister wives" episodes with her. If you OTOH are a man who is seeing a married woman, repent. Even looking at a married woman to lust after her, is adultery in your heart.

Monster

Why not get Jesus' opinion on the matter? He said that whoever divorces his wife, causes her to commit adultery. The problem with cheating, is dishonesty. Men should be up front with their wives about their desire to have a second wife, and if she comes to understand the blessings that come along with polygyny, they can both seek out a good sister wife that will be an asset to their marriage.

@@danieldeluca4936 you're a crack smoker.

Have you ever heard of the 10 commandments ? The person who handed down those rules didn't do it for his own benefit but for the benefit of the people He gave the rules to .it's ok for you to laugh at that remark .I think that's only a tporary situation though

@@cathleencavanaugh8351 Yeah, but God never gave one commandment against marrying a married man!

and you have kids from him

Do you still love him?

@@danieldeluca4936 if I was honest with myself, yes, part of me still does

@@wendygraham6863 That is awesome! I can tell you how to win him back, but it will take some serious soul searching on your part.

There is a shortage of good men. There is no shortage of men who are unsuitable for marriage.

Yup, some do leave. Not very often, but it happens.

Marje. Yes, so its not a guarantee. We can't generalize everything, its a case to case bases.

joanpalanca well, things happen to me...currently in this situation, and am the bitch....

One question: did he MARRY her?

joanpalanca But is he faithful to you?

There is nothing wrong with dating a married man, provided his wife or wives are enthusiastically supportive, and she is refraining from sex, until marriage.

Yessss these women who is agreeing with Dr Drew are filling their insecurities scared their man will leave them..the women who is saying he is never leaving are on eggshells and fear the mistress..it’s DATA and FACTS men do leave their wives..I know if 3 beautiful now married over 10 plus years left their wives and 1 left her husband for high school sweetheart it happens a lot People are sick of staying in miserable but marriages to save face for the public When it’s time to leave let him go sis! Why stay in an unfulfilling marriage?

Fuck off

Alot of people do, but they let evil or flesh/carnal desires control their life. They end up sad and still continue believing either that God is not real or that He is not taking care of them. Alot of things ppl do to get hurt is *self inflicted* . Either other unstable evil people like to hurt others or you did something to hurt yourself and want to blame others for your foolishness. Alot of these people are weak basically. God gives blessings, however it's your choice to accept them. Happiness is a choice. God does not control anyone. This world was not meant for us, but we must endure bc humanity brought itself here. We must be cautious in this harsh world. The forbidden fruit was not supposed to be eaten, but our origins disobeyed and became exposed to all sorts of knowledge and were thrown onto this world. We followed the prince of this world (satan) and it ruined us. The Garden of Eden is only pure and only filled with purity. We are not bc of disobedience of the 1st two humans, so we were taken out and caused, what is called, the fall of humanity. God did not send his son Jesus to bring peace on earth. Alot of folks don't get it. We are all sinners and he payed for ours sins. We owed a very big price, but one we could not pay, so he saved us, but it's up to us to completely abide to his laws and love God back. It's all up to people. God forces no one. I will not fall in love with a world that doesn't love me in return.

Chlarie Peace, you need Jesus.

If he divorced his wife, he caused her to commit adultery.

@@danieldeluca4936 and Iif she remarried does she have the blessing of God?

@@maunder01 Not really, but she does not have condemnation either, since it was the husband that Jesus was condemning.

Did he tell his wife about the second woman?

TheBummed82386 did u find it

Am saprat . Alone need 💑👫❤😍

Chuck Norris and his first wife divorced. I don't know if she committed adultery by remarrying, and I don't know who initiated the divorce, but if she has remained single and desires to remarry, as long as Chuck Norris is still alive, he is the only man she is Biblically allowed to remarry.

Also, Jesus Himself said that whoever divorces his wife, except for fornication, causes her to commit adultery. He himself needs to marry the second wife, in order to avoid fornication, as Paul put it in I Cor 7:25.

Everyone needs Jesus.