I Regret Leaving My Wife for Another Woman

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I Regret Leaving My Wife for Another Woman
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@luckminipiyatilake8191 Год назад

He wouldn’t feel any regret if it worked out with his side chick.

@erismana2105 Год назад

Exactly, he deserves to be alone the rest of his life

@ebbypetes Год назад

Exactly.

@benb7727 Год назад

Great observation.

@Ryan-wx1bi Год назад

Bingo. He's not sorry he left his wife, he's just sad now that he's alone

@denisedevoto5703 Год назад

Nailed it.

@simplybirdie6481 11 месяцев назад

His wife wasn’t sure if she was a Christian any longer, so he decided to cheat on her? What a man of God! 🙏

@aselyne5631 10 месяцев назад

Insane huh

@ambertorres4444 10 месяцев назад

Exactly, he is supposed to lead in love and love her like Christ loves the church. All he did was show that he was not a spiritual leader and not rooted in his faith.

@SuperValencia101 10 месяцев назад

You dont understand. This was why they formed religion... It was to control women... This is what he tried in 2023, cause he knows women are suppose to take him back... History proved this to be true... And thats why he is crying because he was the loser here. He cant believe it! 😂 thank god women are waking up and throwing away that book called the bible

@teresabrewer4052 10 месяцев назад

Wait, wife, you may not be Christian.. Now I can cheat on you, heathen

@tjaspire 10 месяцев назад

Most people who believe they are saved have never even cracked open the Bible. How do you know what you even believe if you don't read God's word, nor do you apply it to your life? I call these folks, "name-only Christians." They'll stand before God on judgement day thinking they're cool, and then God is going to be like, "Do I know you?"

@SmoochKassidy 2 месяца назад

“Keep an eye on me” implying you’re gonna kill yourself to get your ex to talk to you is a bullshit move

@mcmarin9932 2 месяца назад

Thiiiisss! The manipulation is astounding. I bet he didn’t keep an eye on his wife when he moved in with the woman 🙄

@diane4488 2 месяца назад

@@mcmarin9932 Yes, he didn't care about his poor wife. And I doubt he can genuinely get down in his knees, and say how very sorry he is. Because he isn't. What a piece of trash.

@ElsaLisa-oc8hv 2 месяца назад

He hostages himself to guilt trap her. Classic.

@farmhouseonthemountain 2 месяца назад

Omg, yes and I can't believe he didn't call him on that. And that's how he got her to come out. This dude is a manipulative a hole.

@moonsharn 2 месяца назад

It’s a classic Narcissist move

@karinaz8756 2 месяца назад

This is a narcissist that’s trying to play victim. If his side piece hadn’t left he would still be in that relationship.

@RachelSings21 Месяц назад

Oh this 110% he’s on the hoover

@ISEEKSPACE Месяц назад

Truth!

@hellaSwankkyToo Месяц назад

y'all really need to stop diagnosing strangers on the internet. you can't list even a handful of unique indicators of narcissism//NPD based solely on this call. please stop doing this; only thing it does is water down NPD.

@LoveMuffin800 29 дней назад

No it isn't. He said at the beginning that he knows he's the bad guy in this story. He played a game and lost. He wants to know how to handle this loss and the misery that's coming with it.

@PrettyGirlRock1115 27 дней назад

@@LoveMuffin800Yeah which is also something narcissistic people can do, there‘s different personality types with narcissists and some love playing the whole oh I did a bad thing but yet I‘m the victim because of my actions to gain empathy don‘t trust that bs.

@dianemurray6550 11 месяцев назад

He doesn't want his wife back. He wants a bandaid to make HIMSELF feel better IN THE MOMENT.

@anndeecosita3586 7 месяцев назад

He wants place keeper. It doesn’t matter who it is. I had an ex who did that. I actually found out through digging on Facebook he had a fiancé back in Puerto Rico I didn’t know about. I thought his trips were to visit his family. Later I think she dumped him because he started showing up at my home leaving notes. I ignored it at first then I went off on him and told his cheater butt to stay the h away from me.

@kate2create738 6 месяцев назад

He certain would regret reading the comments of everyone calling him out for the selfish being he is.

@bluebellcrushedvelvet 5 месяцев назад

No he doesn't want a BANDAID!! Let's call a spade a spade!! He wants a fking handmaid that will also s*:ck his d^%k!!! He wants someone to love HIM but he doesn't do anything to love BACK!!

@kzfingerprint 5 месяцев назад

And he will absolutely use her for that bandaid

@heatherangel9700 5 месяцев назад

Exactly. He doesn't really want his gf either. He just doesn't want to be alone, and will take any woman who will have him.

@Cramp915 Год назад

If you are this guy’s wife, DO NOT COME BACK! The trash took itself out!

@lorrainea.285 Год назад

Make that sewer trash!!!!!

@mdooms76 11 месяцев назад

Whew great comment!!!

@kdbee6086 11 месяцев назад

Amen to that

@kdbee6086 11 месяцев назад

And you can tell with this one, if he did it once, he'll do it again!

@tabathia7633 11 месяцев назад

I love this comment. Well put. When I broke up with my lousy, no-good, Sob, he went right to his girl-fr. which was in another state. My mom saw them, didnj't know about our final Div. It was all I could do, to calm her down, she had a bad heart, and just loved this guy, well........... His final ending came five yrs. ago, court again, facing 4 yrs. prison term, suddenly he passed on, who knows why? P.S. his girl-fri, was in and out of prison, for prost. and drugs. I never did any of that, I'm clean , ready to teach I.T. to anyone who wants to learn. Thank you Lord, for letting me, be me. ❤❤

@chilltheheckoutwithava1454 3 месяца назад

Don’t encourage him to bother this poor woman ever again, John! He has no remorse for what he did to her!

@momfromnj911 2 месяца назад

THANK YOU!! 💯

@michellealjunaidi8471 Месяц назад

Facts!

@rnarzu Месяц назад

Even if he had remorse- "He doesn't get to go back to his wife" she deserves better.

@miboogaroo 17 дней назад

Has no remorse but at least he got to glimpse what he put her through. Whether he puts that experience into bettering himself time will tell. I watch my ex and his revolving door of women since.. and the things he complains to me about experiencing with them, pretty much their behavior with him mirroring how he behaved with me, and I just look at him and raise my eyebrow.....and he says, yea ok this is karma.

@lyssgoddess 5 дней назад

I mean only him and his wife can even decide this lol

@anniealexander9616 2 месяца назад

I've been divorced for 13 years. Last year, my exhusband called me threatening to kill himself because he caught his girlfriend in bed with a man. He did the same thing wanting his old life back.

@sophiasana2393 2 месяца назад

What have you said to him? If i may ask as a sister

@bettyhappschatt3467 2 месяца назад

It might be a good day to get a new number.

@mamajojo2300 2 месяца назад

@@bettyhappschatt3467 LOL! A good day to get a new number! LOL! I declare you winner of these internets! LOL

@BagznBirdz 2 месяца назад

OMG what a douche! So glad you divorced him. He has no right calling you regarding ANYTHING, least of all his heartache over another woman. Good for you for saying he wasn't welcome back in!

@jauntycommander1065 Месяц назад

Mine too. Only his side chick got pregnant by another man and wanted nothing to do with him after she realized that what he had was because of me bringing home the bread and holding it down. He started losing everything. Has a new woman now and tried to cheat on her with me. He won’t change and I just want my money

@abab9622 11 месяцев назад

She didn’t want to have kids with him for a reason. Her instincts knew.

@phalynwilliams4119 5 месяцев назад

Exactly! I hope the wife realizes that being rid of this failure is the best thing for her.

@phalynwilliams4119 5 месяцев назад

The wife is a fool if she takes him back.

@jasminegreene8159 5 месяцев назад

I agree. Look at how he acts when he doesn’t have his way? I hope she doesn’t reconcile.

@timehgta_smg3058 5 месяцев назад

@@izealliaeldridge1901 hold up SHE SEDUCED HIM! SHE HELPED RUIN HIS MARRIAGE

@Jwa-fo6nb 5 месяцев назад

I wouldn't have a child with any man, no matter how much I loved him, its not worth the risk

@mountainaire7382 5 месяцев назад

As a Christian, I'm offended that he thought the answer to a wife who was questioning her faith was to cheat on her. I can't.

@getthesensation 4 месяца назад

The cheating came first. That's why he left.

@onyourcoffeebreak2476 4 месяца назад

It's still not going up to what he did so this guy hasn't learned anything.

@RB-bb2tw 4 месяца назад

The cheating tells you exactly the condition of his faith.

@davidl9155 4 месяца назад

😂😂

@crazygeechee 4 месяца назад

Right. Its the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard He got dumped at Whole Foods and went to a restaurant stop to cry Shame on him

@SuperKlur22 3 месяца назад

Am I hearing this right? He dumped his wife for a girlfriend a year ago and now, because his girlfriend dumped him a couple of weeks ago, he's now sad and wants his wife back??!! 🤦🏻 What about his wife's feelings all along?

@tantalize5795 24 дня назад

Married people don't have boy/girlfriends. They have affairs.

@diane4488 20 дней назад

In this call, he's shown no sadness or remorse for the pain he caused his wife. When John says get on your knees, and apologize, he went silent. He's incredibly selfish.

@vsmith6109 16 дней назад

I know I grieved my marriage and thought I failed it when I was replaced. The thing is that he wanted someone excited to be with him when I just tolerated him when he failed and hurt me many times over. A few peaceful days of doing whatever I wanted without asking permission or hearing him degrade me... I celebrated my freedom from him. It's the best revenge being his greatest regret 😂. I hope she also grew to be optimistic of her life without him 🎉

@bolivia.j 4 дня назад

@@tantalize5795yeah but he “separated” from his wife so she was his girlfriend and also was an affair

@tantalize5795 4 дня назад

@@bolivia.j Yes and no. Seperated or not they were still LEGALLY married. Unless the cheater is divorced, the affair partner is just a side piece. Either way they were both filthy scumbags at the time. Good job the 304 dumped him.

@susanh1447 2 месяца назад

“Reap what you sow” means something.

@annemarre 8 месяцев назад

If he didn't get dumped, he would never think about his wife again.

@user-si4kn9gz4o 5 месяцев назад

she need to leave him

@user-si4kn9gz4o 5 месяцев назад

he cheated because he wanted to.

@jayrodriguez4119 5 месяцев назад

He did her a favor by leaving and now she needs to do herself a favor and stay gone. This guy sounds like a codependent just needs somone all the time.

@jeanwagner7031 4 месяца назад

EXACTLY!!!!!!!!

@anglophils645 4 месяца назад

I disagree. I think it's key that he realized, that if he had tried as hard with his wife, as he did with his mistress, his marriage would have worked. He did some growing and learning. If his wife ever really loved him, she'll give him another chance. Read Paul's Letter to the Corinthians, Chapter 13, on the nature of love.

@chantalszemenyei4523 11 месяцев назад

"Because she is not a believer anymore" and then he does the most ungodly thing ever. Unbelievable

@visionarylifeministries4055 6 месяцев назад

That Part!!!

@monmon-vk8rz 5 месяцев назад

Hm. I have to wonder if he felt like the wife wasn't being "wifey" enough. I say this bc he also mentions her having second thoughts about kids, and bc traditional spouse roles are often justified by religion. "Not being a believer anymore" in this context could mean she was turning away from the more traditional "woman" roles, or that she wanted to center her life around something that wasn't just him and potential kids. It would explain why he felt the urge to step out on and ultimately replace her

@a.r.8954 5 месяцев назад

100%. I heard that code too. He was frustrated with her growing independence and humanity, which is frustrating to men who see women as servants. As their patriarchal god teaches them to do. I see the cheating as rather in step with that entitlement, not some shocking betrayal of his beliefs. That being said, I'm sure his community would have had a lot to say about him leaving his wife and moving in with a single mother out of wedlock lol@@monmon-vk8rz

@suckmanutsbach 5 месяцев назад

@@Ofwudann except it's allowed in their religion and not his

@dcliffy4332 5 месяцев назад

He's scum

@PJHEATERMAN Месяц назад

I would never cheat on my wife. Even if a super attractive woman was coming on strong and it's happened a few times. I fell in love with my wife the first time we spoke. That was 36 years ago.

@tantalize5795 24 дня назад

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏾💖

@kreyolLA84 20 дней назад

Right on. 👍🏾

@meganbailey6511 11 дней назад

As a single person who watches these videos to try to learn about healthy relationships, this is really promising to read. Sometimes it just seems everyone is treating each other horribly.

@lutherthompson2642 3 дня назад

@@meganbailey6511 stay single,, it's easier and better in the long run

@charlesbell5500 3 дня назад

Why were you in a position to let "super attractive women" come on strong to you while you were married?

@jenniferparrott8260 2 месяца назад

His wife deserves far better than him. Now he wants to rebound on her. What a selfish and immature human being. He deserves to feel the pain. His wife deserves a real man.

@leviacronym6770 Год назад

I have no empathy for this "man". He hurt his wife by tossing her away, and after his side piece dumped him, he wants his wife back? Naw, man. You got what ya deserved.

@gm6034 Год назад

For real. At first I just thought he made a huge mistake in screwing up and wanting to be needed. BUT then when I heard he was dumped I like ohhhh this guy just wants his wife back because he has no one. Had his side piece stayed he would have remained with her. His wife needs to NOT take him back. But if she does, she’s a dumba**. Life is too short to waste your time on dumba** people.

@venitiousquash7400 Год назад

He’s kidding right?

@ellencox8415 Год назад

@@venitiousquash7400 no. He is the perfect representation of modern culture. Zero loyalty. Zero duty. Zero accountability. Whatever feels good in the moment.

@BrendaBaBoom Год назад

@@gm6034 🎯🎯🎯

@sueblack5794 Год назад

Got to give to him, he wasn't asking for empathy but more of "how to get his life back". He still doesn't care about the wife. He just can't be alone.

@AndreDMalan1966 5 месяцев назад

He'll rather have ANYONE than no one. His wife deserves better. He doesn't love her, he hates being alone.

@faithinthejourney6409 4 месяца назад

Uuuufffff that was raw and hit hard …. facts!

@lorrainem8234 4 месяца назад

💯

@carlel121 4 месяца назад

Exactly! He is just escaping the pain, without thinking about his ex, nothing is more selfish than that.

@sarahrobertson634 4 месяца назад

Best comment ever

@DawnSuttonfabfour 3 месяца назад

My view has always been no one rather than anyone. Works well.

@rushdavids Месяц назад

The very next day after I found out my husband was cheating, with this "amazing woman who is going to elevate him in life (his words) " after 10 years of marriage, I come home the next day with him sulking, red in the face, crying and angry because she called off their affair and he tells me She betrayed him, he feels blind sided. Those words will forever be with me.

@breezeh1127 Месяц назад

Amazing how certain things said will never stop replaying in our heads. The words I got that replay are "I felt I deserved better than your body". Keep in mind this man married me at 239lbs. And I lost 100 on my own after having 3 kids with him. But it wasn't a perfect vidy. Guess hers was.

@msnawrecka9786 Месяц назад

I hope you laughed out loud.

@LeoGeminiPassyon 28 дней назад

And you forgave him???

@heerthbvvff 27 дней назад

@@breezeh1127that’s so true. Mine is when my ex-husband said “my dad told me when I was 10 to tell a woman anything to get the best out of her” and he looked so smug. Gave me chills and my stomach still turns with helplessness every time I remember it

@jasminehouston-burns1691 19 дней назад

Yeah, adultery seems to be antithetical to commitment. It's interesting how the predictably to-be-dumped always thinks they've found someone better.

@GB-zg4yu 2 месяца назад

I love how John calls this guy an idiot without calling him an idiot. And the dude doesn’t even pick up on it.

@teacher9882 11 месяцев назад

I’ll be honest when a woman changes her mind on having kids in a long term relationships or marriage it’s because she doesn’t feel safe and secured.

@stephkais5613 11 месяцев назад

Yes. His ex wife saw something about him that made her not want to begin parenthood with him. She made a good call!! The man is selfish and manipulative.

@tinaa7239 11 месяцев назад

Exactly.

@niyah7139 11 месяцев назад

Leaving your wife to immediately move in with a baby mama that's not yours. Only to have her moves her baby daddy in. 😂😂 she's totally using this guy for money while she still has sex with the baby daddy under the same roof. What a fuckin loser ..🤣🤣

@daniellebishop535 11 месяцев назад

Absolutely this

@kellharris2491 11 месяцев назад

She was getting that intuition. Sometimes you just know things you can't explain with words.

@MrsTayIor 7 месяцев назад

It was very manipulative of him to contact his wife to say, "Just keep an eye on me." That was purely attention-seeking. He is selfish and still hasn't learned anything.

@lcam9241 6 месяцев назад

Right! Of all people to call, her? Not his siblings or parents. Really trifling (and weird to be honest).

@barbaradixon9279 6 месяцев назад

Then call the authorities & put him away to get lots of attention

@crazyonebyfar 5 месяцев назад

Yeah he might as well said "grab your luggage, we're going on a guilt trip"

@PathologicallyIncurious 5 месяцев назад

100% - screw this guy and his “hurt.” He’s not sorry or feeling bad about what he did to his wife, he’s just regretting letting a great woman go for something “fresh & exciting” 😒

@lcam9241 5 месяцев назад

@@PathologicallyIncuriousI love your name 😊

@daniellegibson5612 2 месяца назад

Wife, I hope wherever you are, you are healing and thriving. Without him!!!!!

@cobrasmom 2 месяца назад

So she had two men to support her and her child financially??? What a smart woman! 😂

@vanessasingh39 Месяц назад

And didn't have to lie about it, they were in the same house😂

@Peem_pom Месяц назад

Neither of them married her though

@Peem_pom Месяц назад

Honey it wasn’t only her child, one of the men was the father and was equally his responsibility to care for the child… you’re painting an inaccurate picture of a cunning woman, when all of these men are equally culpable!

@delightschwartz2155 4 дня назад

@@Peem_pomGiving props, this chick evidently had some serious game lol.

@MungoLouis День назад

The side chick/work colleague, used this man to get her 'baby daddy' back. To use as an excuse "He's got a lot of debt, he needs to move in with us" is ridiculous, debt doesn't accumalate overnight, some of the debt the side chick would have known about as it was probably money spent on her and their son. The side chick choose the baby daddy with debt, rather than the boyfriend playing house, she was never really in love with the boyfriend.

@PassiveAgressive319 5 месяцев назад

The side chick moved in her ‘boyfriend’ into the home is funny AF😅😅😅😅😅😅. Karma is a b**h. Ex-wife if you are reading this? DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK!

@KimontheWeb 4 месяца назад

Amen!

@SatumainenOlento 4 месяца назад

😅😂😂😂😂 I was laughing my head off in here as well!!! 😅😂😂😂 Until I could hear the hurt in his voice. He did lost the child also 😢 I think that he really just want to have children and perhaps that was the one underlaying issue that made him to look for an another woman and family. And no, he was a BIG FOOL. Karma is a b*tch.

@meilingflesa8140 4 месяца назад

I couldn't agree with you more

@hfowl2907 4 месяца назад

Agree 😅

@donnaeilerman7458 4 месяца назад

Exactly! What if the side chick decides she wants him back? Does he dump his wife again?!?

@jonnyd9351 3 месяца назад

Oh wow, so you cheat on your wife and then the person you cheated with realizes you aren't marriage material? Who'd have guessed...

@kassassin_brahgawk 2 месяца назад

You lose em how you got em

@glynis1007 2 месяца назад

😂

@spndrtwentythree5239 2 месяца назад

😂😂😂😂😂

@nneoma6106 2 месяца назад

A 7 year marriage, too? Hope she's smart enough to walk away.

@Prettynikki815 2 месяца назад

Lol "well when you put it like that...:

@sharonbland9061 2 месяца назад

The trust is gone, he will never get his wife trust back, NEVER.

@tantalize5795 24 дня назад

It's not impossible. It will take ALOT of proving himself trustworthy until SHE'S ready to believe in him again.

@bisi1980 18 дней назад

I don't think he cares about that. He just wants to be with someone because he is lonely. Always about him.

@tantalize5795 17 дней назад

@@bisi1980 As if women aren't similar. The old cat "lady". Lol

@davidhenningson4782 3 месяца назад

my dad did this decades ago... crawled back to my mom... then eventually ran off (sneakily) with a Philippino woman across the world (on guise that he just wanted to 'see Asia ')... then gradually decided not to go back home... except to get his affairs (and divorce) in order... he got married to this second woman 10 years ago and is still with her. No one talks to him anymore.

@PrinceRoyceFan667 2 месяца назад

Is your dad Ben Hart?

@davidhenningson4782 2 месяца назад

@PrinceRoyceFan667 I think that's giving him alittle too much credit (maybe in his own head though...)

@aelh123 2 месяца назад

@@PrinceRoyceFan667 lmao Benny clapped back with receipts. He gave his ex a 1.8 million dollar settlement + 12k alimony + child support until they where 22 years old 😵‍💫 she just made that Tik Tok because “ my dadddy wouldn’t pay my medical bills” meaning “my dad won’t pay for grief counseling because my bf dumped me “

@runnerupcsal8241 Год назад

🤣 He committed adultery because she said she wasn't sure about her faith?! This guy is so full of it.

@CF. Год назад

I agree, he’s full of ish

@WidgetWW 11 месяцев назад

I LOL’d at that part

@CyeOutsider 11 месяцев назад

Well he had to find some excuse to blame his affair on her.

@alexisjankowski3281 11 месяцев назад

It wasn’t the real reason. He simply started lusting after another woman and he didn’t need much of any reason to sleep with another woman.

@mahamehanna9826 11 месяцев назад

As if his faith is strong! Committing adultery is a sin in all faiths. Besides, once a cheater is always a cheater. This man can never be trusted. His wife should go on with the divorce procedures, and hopefully she’ll meet a better man who treats her right and makes her happy, if she wants to remarry. Or she can be single, free, and happy.

@melaniegenuinely 5 месяцев назад

He's more hurt over the mistress dumping him than him hurting his wife by cheating🤦🏾‍♀️He didnt even acknowledge that he hurt her smh.

@jayrodriguez4119 5 месяцев назад

He's a Narkie.

@Rp-pc1rl 4 месяца назад

Because cheaters are yhe appitamy of selfishness.

@nomg563 4 месяца назад

He’ll continue to attract people like him who will most likely use him and spit him out like old gum until he wakes up

@ch3rrikiss 4 месяца назад

@@Rp-pc1rl"epitome "

@Raidersmomma2489 4 месяца назад

Because if things had worked out the way he wanted them to he would have never been sorry in the first place he is only sorry because he is facing the consequences of his actions

@amberhardy6947 2 месяца назад

What a big slap in the face! I hope the wife doesn’t take him back. He only wants her back because he got dumped. He will definitely do it again

@elleb1326 Месяц назад

"You are NOT marriage material" brilliant advice

@LittleMarySunshine4 Год назад

Leaving your wife and then using her for emotional support after you're dumped... yikes

@CrystalM1917 Год назад

Special breed of narcissist.

@djpuplex Год назад

Sounds like something a woman would do.

@yogaqueen1527 Год назад

She is a fool for being there for him

@JKNat9004 Год назад

@@yogaqueen1527Buuuhhtt, according to the state of North Carolina, they are technically STILL MARRIED. Also, who would want on their conscience that they weren't there for someone who was considering taking their own life? My only hope for this guy, who put up with craziness after leaving his wife, is that he can get his life in order, even if they continue through the divorce. I think it's good he reached out to her, and am impressed with her for not hanging up on him.

@djpuplex Год назад

@@yogaqueen1527 He's a even bigger fool thinking she cares. Look at all the comments in this section she's probably loving every second this.

@limiwa 11 месяцев назад

I hope his wife hears this conversation and doesn't take him back. Not once did he acknowledge the pain he caused her or act remorseful. He spoke more highly of his affair partner and how pretty she is ("like you wouldn't believe" barf). This isn't about him realizing he made a mistake and lost a good thing, this is just him feeling sorry for himself. What a fool.

@FollowPickMeekPodcast 11 месяцев назад

None! Just like most narcissists, he wants her to come back to fulfill his needs and his guilt. I pray she trusts her intuition and leave this clown where he is.

@sonofhibbs4425 11 месяцев назад

Seriously well said. This guy needs to burn until the Good Lord cleans the rot off of him. Until then he’s a selfish man child.

@patymartin8568 11 месяцев назад

Love your comment. Sooo 👍 true

@MonaLisaFaceMusic 11 месяцев назад

His "lowest moment" was when he got dumped by the girlfriend, not when he cheated on his wife.

@mitylene_bailey 11 месяцев назад

She's listening with a giant glass of cienna and a bowl of shrimp cocktail

@araceliramirez7315 3 месяца назад

Sounds like KARMA!!! He gets what he deserves and I hope the wife finds a good man

@rozaucja8612 17 дней назад

Ladies, don't EVER take them back.

@Kal-El207 13 часов назад

Lmao but ya’ll want us to take YOU back when you cheat on us with another man though right? 😂😂😂 pathetic. Stfu.

@hothotheat3000 4 месяца назад

He doesn’t feel regret, he feels inconvenienced.

@ladybluelotus 3 месяца назад

Agreed! That's the best description.

@GreenGrasshoppa 3 месяца назад

He just wants his maid/cook back. -_-

@landonevans818 3 месяца назад

Feel compassion for once in your life.

@landonevans818 3 месяца назад

Not saying what he did was good but sometimes you have to give people a second chance at life.

@hikerhobby1204 3 месяца назад

How do you know how he feels? Thats creepy if you can read peoples minds.

@janeyrevanescence12 4 месяца назад

You don’t feel regret for destroying your marriage. You feel regret that your side piece left you.

@momfromnj911 2 месяца назад

Right..this guy is UNREAL

@Tomas-major 2 месяца назад

Stay single xx the grass is never greener on the other side! He is crying for himself, no one else.

@CJ-ox4oc 2 месяца назад

My ex did this to me. Said it was the worst mistake of his life. Yeah only because she cheated + dumped him.

@craeearc 5 месяцев назад

These videos are helping me identify the red flags in weak men.

@SippenSomeTea 4 месяца назад

👏👏👏👏👏👏

@heydibear1079 3 месяца назад

😂exactly

@melgm002 3 месяца назад

Totally 🎉

@ashleycope1237 2 месяца назад

💯

@nooneinparticular4895 Месяц назад

Right!!!

@Pootypatooty 4 месяца назад

He’s so sad over his breakup and not about his DIVORCE, he’s such a pathetic excuse for a man ✨

@lindamusser7370 3 месяца назад

I call that kind of person a schmuck.

@landonevans818 3 месяца назад

Not all men are perfect some men have to figure it out. Jesus died on the cross for our sins and allows us a second chance at life.

@danikahholdman2609 3 месяца назад

@@landonevans818 lol

@user-pd7gy2xz4l 3 месяца назад

@@landonevans818 NOPE its still pathetic. He is a grown ass man. I feel no sympathy and he is embarrasing.

@candiedconnor 3 месяца назад

⁠⁠@@landonevans818yeah, no. That man is still pathetic.

@themissmay 2 месяца назад

Same thing happened to my father, the second wife lasted two years then she took ALL of his money and left him, served him papers on Christmas.

@themissmay 2 месяца назад

He was also religious.

@jasonadventist5226 Месяц назад

I hate how good it felt reading that. I should feel bad for your dad..... dont know how you feel about the situation, ( hope you're happy and healthy) but your dad deserved every bit of that.

@bolivia.j 4 дня назад

@@jasonadventist5226no reason to feel bad for their dad. That’s a shitty thing to do

@tinycatfromhell 2 месяца назад

The funniest thing is that men come online to cry about their ex-wives rinsing them of their assets and property in divorce court, taking the children away from him, etc. Like they're genuinely surprised when she files for divorce and ruins his life. You cheated on her, genius! What did you think was going to happen? I can't with men, seriously.

@veggiesaremurder 6 месяцев назад

No!!! Two adulterers in a "relationship"... and it DOESN'T work out?! Shock! Horror!

@LegendaryCS4 5 месяцев назад

I never feel bad for people like this. They need to learn their lessons the hard way. You knowingly engaged in a relationship that is an affair? Your fault when the immoral person acts immorally TO YOU. Cheaters like to think they’re “special” and an exception to the rule, when cheating is a personality defect, not an act of love. (Clarification “you” is being used towards people that cheat, not in regards to the person who made this comment)

@veggiesaremurder 5 месяцев назад

@@LegendaryCS4 I hope you understood I was being sarcastic, lol. And yes that's called the "universal you" or the "collective you". Anyway, I couldn't agree more. I remember hearing someone say that " adultery is the most morally irresponsible thing you could do to someone". I like that. "Morally irresponsible". It's so true. You're doing something completely devastating, carelessly and premeditatedly, because you care more about your own gratification than you do about the feelings of the person who loves you. It demonstrates a severe lack of character. It's selfishness at its peak.

@naturallyhoneybrown 5 месяцев назад

lmbo, delusion is no joke

@Lilydee 4 месяца назад

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@PrincessCassandra 4 месяца назад

lmao!

@Jami-Frankie Год назад

My husband left me for a co-worker. The pain is like surgery w/out being put under. I have zero sympathy for him.

@Rebecca-ci3zc 11 месяцев назад

Same here, after 27 years. My life is very peaceful now without him.

@blueseptember2174 11 месяцев назад

Surgery without being put under...that's 💯 exactly how it feels 😢

@whendoigettosayfuck 11 месяцев назад

Emotional pain is secondary to physical pain. When you are screaming in pain from a physical injury, all your emotional problems are put to the side. Be happy you were not beaten and crippled with pain for life. My surgery reminds me every day of the abuse.

@squiggleworks9 11 месяцев назад

@@whendoigettosayfuck what happened to you is completely awful but does your experience invalidate hers?

@blueseptember2174 11 месяцев назад

@@whendoigettosayfuck I agreed with her about the pain because I have been through both. Being left and a 5 hour surgery where the epidural wore off and I could feel them pushing on my organs before I screamed and they put me under. She's right. That's what betrayal feels like everday.

@999nnr 3 месяца назад

I hope the wife never takes him back. You picked your side now stay on it.

@joy2thefrickinworld Месяц назад

He’s a narcissistic manipulator, he doesn’t want his wife back, he wants the comfort she gave him in his old life. He honestly doesn’t even sound hello le he cares that much about women, just the comfort and peace they can provide him. The thought hasn’t occurred to him yet to treat his wife well… just keep using her for his own emotional support… he didn’t even sound like he wanted to apologize

@dolphinbear661 Год назад

She was correct to never have kids with this caller. The levels of fantasy.....this dude should not be a father, he's a mess

@erismana2105 Год назад

He only used that reason to cheat . Cheaters dont make good parents

@dolphinbear661 Год назад

@@erismana2105 hey, whatever it takes to keep this out the gene pool, maybe in a decade or so, after staying alone and doing ALL the therapy, it's possible he could change his entire personality and live some truth. Maybe, 🤔

@redbougainvillea Год назад

Yes, it's entirely possible his wife knew what a hot mess he was before he cheated and didn't want to bring children into it. Then he doubled down on his immaturity and turned that against her.

@erismana2105 Год назад

@@thecreativemind6675 its common sense but dead beat dads defend dead beat dads so go off

@lucindabreeding Год назад

@@thecreativemind6675 You didn't ask me, but the cheater in my family wounded his children in addition to their mother. Cheating is a character issue, and I no longer believe a parent can be a good parent while simultaneously defrauding the mother or father of their children. Cheaters put their ego & their sexual gratification before their spouses and their children.

@JJ-pj7wn 5 месяцев назад

Crazy how he wants to get his wife back. But then says the other woman was beautiful like “ you wouldn’t believe.” Sounds like his wife will always be the backup plan…

@kerrymillar1267 5 месяцев назад

Yes I thought that too Why is this still Impressing him when she moved another man in with them. Some people are crazy!

@lucianaromulus1408 4 месяца назад

Wife is absolutely the back up plan. He wants her at home while he goes on the prowl. This man deserves to be single forever.

@masixchell 4 месяца назад

Right?! Like he was waiting for the cohost to co-sign and be like “ohh ok so she was beautiful - aw man that makes it all ok” 😵😵‍💫. He let that other woman run alllll over him. Thank God his wife never bore him any children 🙏🏽🙏🏽 Hope she’s happy and thriving without him.

@videodj310 4 месяца назад

It sounds like she was a placeholder, she was the best he could Get at the time until he found his actual type smh Now because it didn't work out with the side piece, he wants to go back to his wife

@katamadordelvalle7972 4 месяца назад

He and the wife were having problems in the marriage that he fails to mention. Why didn't she want kids? He blames her changing for his cheating and walking out on her. He expresses no accountability whatsoever. He just says that he needed to work on his marriage the same way he worked on the relationship with the girlfriend while living with her and her ex. The girlfriend went back to the ex and had him move in to get this guy out. She used the excuse of not wanting to keep her child away from their father to wash her hands of her role in breaking up his marriage. I'm so glad he got dumped and in the most degrading of ways: by being cuckolded in front of his eyes. 👏

@mariaturner8121 Месяц назад

Crying for himself only!! Don’t take him back.

@daninaavery3532 3 месяца назад

Thank you John Delony for always standing up for women and children when they need you most! This man is delusional if he thinks he is worthy is going back as if nothing happened. He needs to be single for a long time and think long and hard about what he did, but most importantly he needs to make sure it NEVER a happens again. What a disgrace.

@SatipatthanaSakuraDragona 3 месяца назад

He doesn't want his wife back. He just doesn't want to be left alone with his thoughts and he wants free therapy from her.

@rizen9457 2 месяца назад

Yesssssssssssss

@duvessa2003 2 месяца назад

That sounds about right.

@DoubleA-ou7pj Месяц назад

And a place to live

@TheArtzytype Месяц назад

Emotional labour vampire

@diane4488 20 дней назад

Totally agree. Very self centred and selfish.

@katrina3560 Год назад

🤢 you cried to your wife about your girlfriend dumping you and it making you "suicidal". If it weren't so disturbing a situation, it would be comical!

@erismana2105 Год назад

He is malniptive and manipulation is a form of abuse.

@dolphinbear661 Год назад

Manipulative af

@katrina3560 Год назад

@@erismana2105 ABSOLUTELY! His phoney bologna big, sad tears disgusting. He also attempted a bit of smearing her via the vague "she doesn't believe anymore" statement. Then TF he still interested for!? He should 🪨 🪨 🦵

@brendamoon2660 Год назад

How dare he? I just imagine if his wife was my daughter or friend. After dumping her for another woman he has the nerve to call her for sympathy?

@jamessanders8895 Год назад

@@brendamoon2660I would have told him to call 911 instead of me. They have more training in that, and they accually care. 😂

@xoxo_00__00 Месяц назад

It’s almost as if ur actions have consequences

@annc.3908 2 месяца назад

Nope. Had same happen to me. 7.5 years, at age 24, he left for a girl he dated in 8th grade. Left me holding the bills, filing bankruptcy and being alone with no help from parents or anyone. I would have NEVER taken that back. Sorry. Especially hearing him talk about the girl he met that way STILL. Oh waaah I lost all I had…and your wife? Be off dude. Go sleep in your car at the rest stop 👋

@ABab-jf2jb 2 месяца назад

Hats off to you. Don't take anyone (male or female) back when they cheat.

@kadebebesis4204 4 месяца назад

He’s the kind of man I pray I never meet. I would rather die alone.

@ladybluelotus 3 месяца назад

😂 same, love. I'm with you on that one.

@_AnotherOne 3 месяца назад

Man?!

@StevenP726 3 месяца назад

@@_AnotherOnecarrier of testicles

@leslietarter2096 3 месяца назад

Agreed

@MalesAreDemons 2 месяца назад

@@_AnotherOneYes MAN what is he

@intentionalparenting2605 3 месяца назад

A lot of men REALLY DO NOT understand the side chick is only there to torment the wife and have fun with the husband. Once the wife leaves, the side woman is no longer interested.

@Malibusunrise 3 месяца назад

They’re possessed by demons

@elettramia6380 3 месяца назад

Good point, they have very low self esteem and feel that they are the woman worth cheating on your partner for. It gives them a false sense of confidence. This is why I Would never be with a man who I knew was in a relationship, it’s absolutely insulting to believe I would be that desperate and pathetic

@judigemini178 3 месяца назад

Wow, nicely put...these weak men are super dumb & they deserve every consequence of their own dumb actions

@whiteowl80 2 месяца назад

Many times the side chick doesn’t even know that she is a side chick till they’re already involved with this person.

@joanstepleton1637 2 месяца назад

Lol, a lot of men also lead double lives where the wife and the side chick don’t know about each other.

@shawnbrooks5293 Месяц назад

The audacity of people who cheat. Doesn't matter the situation all, they think about is themselves

@TheGreenbutsad Месяц назад

Once a cheater, always a cheater. He doesn't deserve the second chance.

@alisonyuroshoski7501 3 месяца назад

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

@Gotoworkkk 28 дней назад

We don’t say that anymore

@diane4488 20 дней назад

@@Gotoworkkk Why not?

@cravensz Год назад

A very sad person. Calling ur ex wife to gaslight her by using "suicide" is a sick thing to do.

@latoshastanfield5523 Год назад

Yeah he is a bastard

@Kamingo170 Год назад

I don't know about all that but city boys we up

@mystiquevening Год назад

Yep!!

@alluringbliss4165 Год назад

He is a selfish man.

@erind2261 11 месяцев назад

The petty me would've said 'Do it!' & hung up

@unchargedpickles6372 2 месяца назад

I have never once heard a happy ending of a love story that begins with marital infidelity. It always ends in tears.

@ThisIsSoMomo 2 месяца назад

He wants his wife because her girlfriend dumped him? This is typical of a Narcissist. He only thinks about himself, he doesn’t realize the damage he creates. I hope his wife files the divorce ASAP!.I’ve been there and know his kind. It never gets better. Run!

@amandanicole7449 4 месяца назад

In this call, he sang praises about his former mistress, then didn't show anything but indifference about his wife, but wants advice about getting back with his wife ONLY because he doesn't want to be alone. She better stay far away.

@LaciRae 3 месяца назад

i heard the opposite.

@leigha1023 3 месяца назад

Isn’t that the truth

@AM-lc6hy 3 месяца назад

@@LaciRaeI heard the same thing as you. I heard him uplift his wife. I heard this man's pain for what he'd done.

@guellaliguemra2321 3 месяца назад

@@AM-lc6hyPain that only appeared after he got screwed by the mistress. Where was the pain before?

@Indigo565 2 месяца назад

@@AM-lc6hyhe said she was there for him and she had it together to the point where he felt like he didn't matter. He said his mistress was beautiful. It's clear he view them differently

@mamakitty6549 11 месяцев назад

It's telling that he said "I just want my life back" cause he's alone, not "I want my ex back" because I still love her. He doesn't love her... He misses the stability she brings.

@CrayolaCoffeeBean 5 месяцев назад

Exactly

@YeshuaKingMessiah 5 месяцев назад

He misses living in a couples world as part of a couple It’s a lonely life

@jillphillips1667 5 месяцев назад

Not true repentance

@mish375 5 месяцев назад

This says it all. He wants the lifestyle: he doesn't love his wife and never did. It was all about status to him. This conversation was incredibly selfish on his part because it was all about him and there's no recognition of the pain he's caused her or the rest of the family.

@avirei98 5 месяцев назад

I feel like I've had a man date me before that very reason and it sucked because he was my first love and he was only with me because I brought him peace instability. He literally cheated on me with the girl that he did nothing but argue with and when I left him he pursued her just to find out she didn't actually want him. She just like the attention and the money. He was giving her the money that he convinced me he was giving to his mom and I told him that didn't make logical sense like she has five boys. You are the youngest. Why is she asking you for money and she is married. She has a husband like why would she ask her youngest for money that we need. It didn't make any sense but he told me I was being selfish and that was his mom and I'm being a bad girlfriend so I kept my mouth shut. Turns out the entire time I was right it was BS. He was giving the money to his ex and cheating on me made me feel like a fool because my gut told me something was wrong but he told me I was being insecure. And when I left him and I told him what could have stopped him from cheating he told me nothing. He told me I did everything a man could possibly want but there was nothing more I could have done and I didn't know how to take that because if I gave you my everything and it still wasn't enough then what the hell. But I treat that like a lesson now. Now I know a cheater is going to be a cheater no matter what you do. So you just have to make sure you pick the right person for sure. It sucks though because it makes me feel like I've become jaded because I am now a lot less patient compared to how I used to be. There's a lot of things I just refused to tolerate early in a relationship and I'm so easily kicking men to the side. As soon as anything happens. And I know that's not okay. I just don't want to be made a fool again

@hgray7917 2 месяца назад

“My Wife Doesn’t Want To Be A Christian Anymore So I Cheated On Her” WTF😂

@zoelife7272 Месяц назад

"in a split second, I lost all I had." the word of God says SUDDENLY!!! the wife should not take him back. he had no problem hurting her, terminating her world. none whatsoever.

@andrea6053 Год назад

One of these days I want John’s response to be “That’s what you get. Next caller.” Sometimes you’ve got to call a jerk a jerk.

@33Jenesis 11 месяцев назад

Coddling people like this guy is never going to make them a better person down the line.

@georgewagner7787 11 месяцев назад

He's trying to make him face what he did.

@esmeraldagarcia2848 11 месяцев назад

😂🤣😆🤣😂🤣😂

@blackreign7661 11 месяцев назад

🤣😂🤣😂

@angorachic 11 месяцев назад

😂😂😂

@gbarbecue2399 10 месяцев назад

Ex left me for his co-worker. At the time I was devastated, now I am beyond grateful he's gone. I wouldn't take him back if he had a winning lottery ticket stapled to his forehead.

@blueseptember2174 10 месяцев назад

I hope to get to this point of gratitude. I'm still in pain.

@spectre3492 5 месяцев назад

Lol

@itzurgurlElenore 5 месяцев назад

he was a problematic person😂😂😂

@XheGoLong13 5 месяцев назад

😂😂😂😂😂 *high five*

@phalynwilliams4119 5 месяцев назад

@@blueseptember2174, you will get there. It takes time. Start with gratitude and everything else will follow. It is a process.

@chriztianhusher8401 2 месяца назад

It kind of difficult to feel bad for someone who caused themselves the self-inflicted wounds.

@CJ-ox4oc 2 месяца назад

Lifetime of trauma for his ex wife, he's not the victim. Clearly lacks empathy and utterly selfish

@MadeinBrazil_NYC 6 месяцев назад

This is hilarious. Trash takes itself out EVERY TIME! I hope his ex is happy and healthy :)

@hotmess9640 5 месяцев назад

I wish the trash sitting in my kitchen would take itself out lol

@katiavoznaya2395 5 месяцев назад

Exactly what I wanted to say here! ;)

@tocaanimals4628 5 месяцев назад

The way I bust out laughing when he said she dumped me 😂😂😂

@caitlinjohnny3828 4 месяца назад

Foreal and hope she finds a real man of God to love her like the bible tells him to and that she's sure of her faith. Salvation shouldnt be questionable

@zammymynakersnackstbmoth 4 месяца назад

I hope she has the best hair day everyday and sleeps good every single night. ❤

@Mooches33 Год назад

As someone whose husband cheated with the most amazing ( LOL )woman in the world, who cheated on him dumped him and married someone else 2 months after our divorce was final, I can’t help but have a bit of a giggle at this. Actions have consequences dude.

@Mooches33 Год назад

@@prevaloir5362 LOL. No. I sarcastically called the woman he cheated on me with the most amazing woman in the world.

@SomeBody-ce3gq Год назад

Girl you ain't alone, I'm laughing too 😂 good riddance!

@lucindabreeding Год назад

I'm so sorry. This happened in my family and it sucks. It taints every memory you share with a cheater. It poisons everything. The only perk is knowing that our cheater will never ever truly bond. His high is his orgasm mixed with the excitement of conspiring against girlfriend du jour. We found out he was a true blue serial cheater. This guy is a mess. Apparently wanted a kid so bad that he made a semi-life with a woman who had someone else's child. Good god.

@Brainjoy01 Год назад

and this is why men marry the girl nextdoor but cheat with the instagram models. instagram models have no heart, and traditional "simple" women are considered boring or unattractive. its depressing.

@Hiiamsamm Год назад

@@Brainjoy01 I wouldn't say it's just instagram models. It's anyone with more than average looks because there are more options to choose from in the gene pool. Male or female. It's basic biology at this point.

@4789slydax 2 месяца назад

Thank you, Dr. John, for mentioning his need to tell the truth. He Um'd and Ah'd his way through the entire first part of the call. That he called his wife asking her to monitor his movements via GPS was beyond the pale. He was letting her know that if he did something horrible to himself it would be on her head. Another great summarization on your part.

@maryunsworth480 Месяц назад

Reminds me of my ex. Left when I was 6m pregnant with our second. Immediately got on tinder and started speaking to other women. He was living his best life and acted like we never existed. Acted like I was keeping our 2yr old from him all of the things. One night he went to a concert and got a dui and went to jail. He called me from the cops phone crying begging me to help. I ended up telling one of his friends and he bailed him out. He lost his new apartment and had to move in with his parents lost everything and then begged me back. If that didn’t happen I bet he would have been in a relationship in a month. This guy only wants her back because he got dumped. Never look back

@kadebebesis4204 4 месяца назад

This is a narcissist who feels sorry for himself and has no regard for others. Wifey if you’re reading this, don’t walk away, RUN!!!!

@liba4089 2 месяца назад

right! this is hovering! run, wife, run!

@joecuster6926 2 месяца назад

Truth

@moonsharn 2 месяца назад

Absolutely!!

@moony-_-. Год назад

the audacity of this guy lmao got exactly what he deserves

@user-ih9dg3uz5y Год назад

Me hairy drunkin ole Daddy got what he deserved. Another bottle of Jack Daniels

@jimsmith8359 Год назад

You all missed an important part of this. He was with his wife for seven years, and she said she didn't want kids. That's not a marriage. In truth, his first wife dumped him too. She said he wasn't good enough to procreate.

@OdachiRain Год назад

@@jimsmith8359 he stayed with her for 7 years wasting her life and NOW he leaves because he finds a gf but now neither of them want him

@queenofswords420 Год назад

1000% eff this guy for real lol thats what he gets

@jimsmith8359 Год назад

@@OdachiRain he stayed with his wife for seven years, who didn't want any part in raising his children. Society has lost its mind. You totally dont understand what love and marriage is.

@karatekai6384 2 месяца назад

Delighted, hope his wife is living her best life.

@88bobcat 2 месяца назад

He romanticized his side piece & the life they would have then he found out the reality was different. Now he’s thinking the grass was greener where he was - he’ll never learn.

@amyitis 16 дней назад

THAT! He will never learn. He admits fault but there's no lesson learned here..... he's looking for someone to coddle him.... he only knows how to use women, not appreciate them.

@Kal-El207 13 часов назад

Like most women. 😂😂

@Kal-El207 13 часов назад

Like most women. 😂

@Calcifurr 11 месяцев назад

He left his wife because she wasn’t sure if “she was a believer anymore.” But he goes around and cheats on her like the “believer” he is. Such a hypocrite, disgusting sinner.

@jimmytwotime6875 5 месяцев назад

Christians, am I right?

@dallasjansen2226 5 месяцев назад

Comical.

@tideio 5 месяцев назад

It’s a complete excuse

@kerrymillar1267 5 месяцев назад

And allows another woman to humiliate him by bringing another man home to live. It’s unbelievable 😮

@whispersinthedark88 5 месяцев назад

@@jimmytwotime6875 so right, all the men who have cheated on me were Christians...but they had the balls to say non Christians have no morals.

@nmalele0909 Год назад

John should've called him out on how manipulative it is to randomly send your ex-wife, who you left, a suicidal text to keep her in your life. This dude doesn't deserve her or anyone at this point in time

@jet4415 Год назад

What a gaslighting move!

@bekind2416 Год назад

I think so too. I understand wanting to stay neutral and be kind to him but a good way to use the platform is to hold some people accountable because they do bad things. Even though it may come off harsh

@erismana2105 Год назад

proves what a lil b*tch he is

@msthang5366 Год назад

EXACTLY

@msthang5366 Год назад

@bekind2416 he lost all credibility to me.. I understand being kind. But this dude is manipulative and had self esteem issues that he needs to deal with, and that wasn’t address properly.

@valerieg4223 2 месяца назад

He couldn’t answer the simple question of “why did you cheat on your wife” he thought the grass was greener!! That’s why. This whole thing just sounds like he got his karma to me🤷‍♀️

@flygirl2447 11 месяцев назад

Dear wife of caller: Run away from this man-child. Run to your divorce lawyer’s office and file the papers. They DO NOT change. He’s just sorry he got what he deserved and now he wants you back because he has nothing else. He wants a pity party. Not a marriage.

@CrayolaCoffeeBean 5 месяцев назад

I wouldn’t even say he’s “sorry he got what he deserved,” but rather, he’s “upset or sorrowful that he didn’t get what he wanted”

@rebelks88 4 месяца назад

In NC you can file papers with the court after a full year of separation and not need to pay a lawyer.

@marvin2678 4 месяца назад

man child ?

@kathleenbueter1272 Месяц назад

@@rebelks88 In the meantime, needs to steer clear of him and not have anything to do with him

@mrenae6798 Год назад

To this caller’s wife: Please don’t take him back. He never would’ve called you or this show if his mistress didn’t break up with him. This man is using you to be his emotional dumping site. If he meets a halfway decent looking woman between now and the next time you all talk, guaranteed he’d put you on the back burner again. He’s not healed and it’s not your responsibility to be available to him.

@leehalloway8787 5 месяцев назад

Exactly. If his side piece didn't leave him, he would be having a good old time.

@gracesanity6314 2 месяца назад

He needs a Place to live. Hense the poor wife...using her. Hope wife has standards and great self respect.

@duvessa2003 2 месяца назад

He has shown his wife that she is disposable. Down the line she may decide he’s disposable, too.

@HollieMoodie 22 дня назад

Hopefully she's smart enough to already realize this. Well, that he''s the trash, not her.

@prettyfeet22 Год назад

He mostly wants his wife back because this isn’t working. He will cheat again.😮

@isay207 Год назад

Never felt so alone I bet his wife felt this way when he left he didn't care then😂

@sueblack5794 Год назад

A future 5 time divorcee this guy.

@abbyxiong3931 11 месяцев назад

Yeah sad but he will.

@roymercer22 8 месяцев назад

Not necessarily. Conviction and redemption are real and Christ can change hearts.

@prettyfeet22 8 месяцев назад

@@roymercer22 you’re right. I hope he has changed.

@jes6161 Год назад

You can tell he feels no remorse for hurting his wife, he still said that his side chick was beautiful ‘like you wouldn’t believe’ he’s still caught up and heartbroken over her. He doesn’t care about his wife. This man is a coward and manipulative.

@tinasapienza6552 Год назад

He got what he deserved. He called the wife because he was lonely. He chose to destroy her world then goes running back when someone else destroys his. He’s a complete POS. Dr John was very kind handling this the way he did. Honest but still kind.

@catblack4091 Год назад

Yeah that pretty much made me want to vomit!

@stayroxy Год назад

100%

@veracityhunter7777 11 месяцев назад

Yes I caught that as well

@cbase06 11 месяцев назад

Dude!! That’s what I was thinking

@lynnepainter4190 2 месяца назад

It's called -- dealing with the consequences of his actions.

@user-kq8bq2bl3u 2 месяца назад

Wife should not take him back. The only reason he wants to come back is because he got dumped, and has no one else to go to

@crd9551 5 месяцев назад

May his ex-wife meet a guy whose also been cheated on, and they live happily ever after forever laughing at their horrible exes.

@Skmskmskm 5 месяцев назад

This sounds somewhat similar to my story… and I would never ever ever ever ever take him back. God delivered me from evil For Sure!

@priyankapawar1912 4 месяца назад

Yes, may that women finds a good man 🌻

@lucianaromulus1408 4 месяца назад

That would be a dream come true.

@meilingflesa8140 4 месяца назад

Good idea 👍

@tiawarren5403 4 месяца назад

Agreed!

@onailinekodrugi 4 месяца назад

He left his wife for another woman and he's blaming her. Isn't he marvelous?

@mrv2308 3 месяца назад

I bet she takes him back… embarrassing

@AM-lc6hy 3 месяца назад

I didn't hear blaming. Guy asked a question and he gave his reasons.

@annewalden3795 2 месяца назад

This man only thinks about himself .Why doesn't he try to apologise to his wife because he might learn some useful information?

@kirstyvanwell4024 2 месяца назад

What a man. 💪🏻🤮

@MsLemonMarmalade 2 месяца назад

Wow, his wife is way too nice, and he is SUCH a totally selfish and immature person, who only thinks of himself.

@lindamusser7370 3 месяца назад

Proverbs 6:32 He who commits adultery lacks sense; he who does it destroys himself. This is a vivid example. There is forgiveness, but there will be scars and unintended consequences.

@siarheipilat8152 5 месяцев назад

This man is not sorry for hurting his ex-wife.

@freedomdance7 4 месяца назад

No he's not. He's just like leach, can't live on his own. Pathetic.

@hollyallyson4111 4 месяца назад

Exactly. The only reason he's even trying to get her back bc he's homeless and familiar ppl feel soothing after a break up. I worry that she will take him back based off her reaction to him reaching out. I have unfortunately been in a similar situation before I went through therapy. At the time, I was willing to do whatever it took to get my ex away from the other woman, even if that meant taking him back. The situation was triggering something from my childhood that at the time I was unaware of. He used this exact same guilt trip on me - crying, no place to go - knowing I had a big heart and would struggle to leave him out on the street. That man tortured me for years but I eventually had enough and I am actually grateful to have been through the experience today. It opened up all doors and my life is significantly better now because of the healing work on myself I had to do in the aftermath. I hope she doesn't have to learn the way I did though

@hollyallyson4111 4 месяца назад

I actually live in the same area as this dude. Wish they'd release his real name. I think he's around my age

@erismana2105 4 месяца назад

@@hollyallyson4111 They have you fight to "save" them from the other woman/man all while stringing them along and crazy making with you, so when it's your turn to be left they already know what you will do to "save" them while they get the new supply "trained" . Also it's how they spin the "crazy ex" story because you have ripped yourself apart trying to fight a fight that was never real ..

@meilingflesa8140 4 месяца назад

No he's not, he is only sorry his gf dumped him

@InternetUser._ Год назад

If you get with a woman who knows you were cheating on your wife to be with her, don’t be surprised if she cheats on you too 😂

@prettynpetty8342 11 месяцев назад

This. The side chick doesn’t respect you and never will. She got what she wanted then got bored. The manipulator got manipulated. Boohoo.

@Matt-cr4vv 11 месяцев назад

It’s always a fun irony how this happens when people who begin their relationship by cheating on somebody are shocked when someone who had no aversion to cheating chooses to cheat when it’s with them. But this dude exhibits narcissistic behavior so it’s perfectly possible that he believed that she would cheat but never cheat on him as well. But I’ve also fallen for it like an idiot too because I was ridiculously insecure and was attached to feeling like a woman loved me even if I was treated poorly. I dated someone who I was convinced I loved but was really just believing there was love because I had low self confidence and didn’t think there was anything else out there. And she cheated on me and then out of idiocy and desperation I continued to lobby to get back together while she dated the dude she cheated with and then she cheated on him tons of times with me which I justified against them cheating together. And then she left that guy and dated another guy and she cheated on him with me which I’ll always regret and apologized to him for because he was a good guy and didn’t deserve it at all. But then we did get back together because somehow in my head it didn’t click that she cheated on me and then cheated on the next two guys with me and how any belief that she wouldn’t do it again now that we were back together was such a joke. Thankfully after those events I realized my mistakes and I apologized to the two guys I participated in the cheating against because it was such slimeball behavior by me. And there was a price to pay because I was unable to trust anybody relationally for years to where I just didn’t date at all until I met my wife and finally had resolved those issues.

@annstewart8506 10 месяцев назад

Exactly! Totally agree.

@atdepaulis 10 месяцев назад

Ha or if he cheats on the new girl? I mean he did it once he could probably do it again

@viviennedunbar3374 9 месяцев назад

Seems like she used him to get the baby daddy back. She showed the BD how quickly she could get another guy and move on and he didn’t want that and basically moved back in. The caller is a total idiot. His wife dodged a bullet.

@Thecrazyraven. 3 месяца назад

It’s called Karma and it’s pronounced “ your side chick made a fool of you “ and she’ll take him back but it’ll eat at her slowly until she resents him.

@lyricsoftheart 2 месяца назад

My ex wanted me to take him off child support because his license got suspended. Mind you where was his compassion when me and his child were couch surfing? He was too busy creating another child With another woman. Go ask your woman for help on that not me!

@JezziOnKori 2 месяца назад

That's some nerve he had asking you that!

@YourSuperFan 11 месяцев назад

“I left my wife because she lost her faith and didn’t want kids with me.” She probably lost her faith in Him and the Marriage. No woman wants to have children with a man who steps out on her! NONE.

@BagznBirdz 3 месяца назад

And she knew he was looking to step out of the marriage first chance he got. Women have an instinct.