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I am married to a Japanese woman, and I asked her one time. Why did she date me and ended up marrying me because I am not the most handsome man that she could’ve had. She told me “Your looks will fade in your body will end up soft but the personality you are inside your heart and your brain will remain over the years, and that is who I am marrying.
At 6'4", I guess I'm out of luck in the Philippines 😢 😭 to tall. Just kidding 😂 😜 🤪 I've seen in many videos that personality is very important in the Philippines, and accepting the cultural differences will also be a plus for expats moving to the Philippines.
Truth!My American boyfriend introduced Filipina pea channel to me and by then we were both excited if Pea uploaded new video then we will watch it and exchanged points of views based on Pea's new vid 😂😂😂
I grew up in California. Knowing that I am pursuing a Filipina whom I will fly to meet in October, one of my childhood friends recently asked me: "What is the difference between Filipinas and American women?" Without hesitation, I replied: "American women are complicated and nearly impossible to please. Filipinas are simple (not needy), and they are eager to please."
I’ve been watching your and others videos for years now… No one is perfect but it’s always refreshing to see women who are traditional, feminine, and not delusional about their preferences. Thanks, Pea!
Pea, I always enjoy your videos. This one especially hit the mark for me. I met my Filipina GF on Christian Filipina, and I am getting ready to come visit her for the whole month of October in Tagbina, Surigao del sur. She is 5'4" and I am 5'7," and I was really relieved that I did not have to be a lot taller than her when we started communicating. I always find it awesome how Filipina women have a much stronger base of realism than many of our western women do when it comes to appearance and dedication. They see us "in to out," while most western women go from the outside in.
You do know they don't have the option to pick from a slew of varied men.... just Filipino men. IF they did well you know the rest, I guess you got lucky.
@@Ytorisv Well, they actually do have enough to choose from it is just the way that they treat their women is the issue. Yes, I can agree that if many more treated their women well then I might not have been lucky. Same goes with how the western women treat us poorly here in the United States with their ridiculous requirements. If you, by some miracle reach their standards you're treated as a manslave & ATM. Since both our countries are allied since WW2 and have the same instilled core Christian values, it makes sense to seek better options since both our countries have the same issues but with opposite genders. Yea, I feel a bit more than lucky and well you know the rest.
If you have not been to the PI before and you have not met this girl I hope that you were smart enough to not send her truckloads of money.. If you did you might be in for a surprise when you arrive there
My best friend growing up was no prize in the looks department. He had a head shaped like E.T the Terrestrial and he always looked kinda sweaty and oily (love ya Jacob 😂)..but he never had trouble getting the girls he wanted!!! He wasn’t afraid to take control, he knew how to tease and flirt, and he was chivalrous in an over-the-top whimsical kinda way.
Hi Pea, it always cracks me up when I hear that they want someone taller and then clarify that as 5'4 or 5'5 and above 🤣🤣. I also find it amusing when they talk about no sex before marriage but then state a preference for circumcised when they have no experience of either. When it comes to cleanliness that is all down to the individual and nothing to do with what is or isn't down there.
Dude, I haven’t met a woman here yet that wasn’t down to “come check out my new TV at my place” on the first day meeting if that’s what you’re looking for. Some ladies maintain a different appearance when they know they are in front of a camera to save face and not sound so bold. I can assure you none of these girls were… with respect, saving themselves for marriage let’s say.
The more popular Christianity is per capita, the more you will find some Christians that can't answer questions about basic doctrine. They don't read the Bible. Some can't tell you the name of their pastor/priest because they don't go to church. Celibacy is an option to them. So to answer your question, they are Christian/Catholic only by name/birth.
@@portlandGTR Some save face in front of the camera. Others are honest in front of the camera and honest when they tell you NO. Believe them and respect them. Some want to believe you love them and they will believe you will marry them if you have sex with them. Have respect for them and respect yourself. Sex = Marriage. Better yet, Marriage = Sex (these are the couples that deserve medals of honor).
Enjoyed this video Pea! Very entertaining! The young ladies were so cute ! As Willie Nelson once said, when asked " what is something he has learned in his 80 some years being alive". Willie said " he has learned that being rich makes a man handsome and being rich turns women on " 😂😂😂😂. Thanks Pea! Goodnight! 😊💝🙏
I want a Dodge charger with air conditioned and black metallic paint , 22 " wheels and HiFi Surround THX system...^^ Oh! Sorry! I chose the wrong rubric ! :)
I laughed out when the girl said that. We were at SM mall in Iloilo and saw an African man who was like 6'6 and towered head and shoulders over the whole crowd
Sometimes I joke a bit with the girls that surround my wife and they ask me to "find/give them a foreigner". I jokingly ask: "preferably an old rich guy with a heart condition? or a Brad Pitt look-alike with a big oten?" that leads to much laughter...but eventually they will say: "No, just a good guy, that is enough and he doesnt need to be handsome". there is a belief among Filipina's that a handsome guy probably isnt a faithful guy
That was so entertaining, all having reasonable expectations, all the woman were very very beautiful, including you Pea, can't wait to see the next one!
The show is a little different than the earlier one. I noticed you are a little more direct and so were these girls. It is nice to hear that they know what they like and don't like. Fun show today!
I'm a 6"2' big belly and bearded man. I recently been on a dating site for Filipino woman and Ive gotten way more messages in the first few days of being in the site then I would have gotten in a lifetime of being on dating sites here in the states. My best friend has a wife from the Philippines and happily married so I thought I'd get on and look and was over whelmed with the amount of messages I received. Fully aware of fake accounts. They usually have 1 photo and no Bio.
I’ve been watching your videos for some time. You are really helping prepare for when I come, hopefully October or November. If you could give me advice on a few things that would be great. I think I’m going to need a lawyer first because I have a situation that I wouldn’t want to get bad.
The beautiful Pea, my mornings are always superb after watching a videos of yours before i start the day. I am going to visit the Philippines in December, watching your videos helped me a lot with information and knowledge. I have been to Japan, HK, Malay and Bhutan. I am from the Caribbean, 6"5, about 275lbs, Healthy & Built/Lean. Decided to take 2 weeks away from the Hospital, and your videos helped me tremendously with choosing Philippines.
Love your videos Miss Pea I subscribed very early on in your RU-vid career. it's funny how they were saying tall guys, 5'5 and above, I'm 5'7 and in Australia probably considered short. I have a disability, not super obvious but you can tell by looking at me, I have a lot of artificial joints. I still do most things all be it a bit slower. In Australia finding a woman that can see past this and get to know me has been very difficult. It's just natural that you have to be attracted to someone first and then you want to get to know them. I am realistic about this. I will be traveling around Asia soon so it will be interesting to see if things are different. Although I'll actually be looking around Asia for a possible retirement place and not for romance, it may take a few years before I decide which is the best country for me to retire to.
Its really the same everywhere.... Women prefer men who are taller than them, and not too fat or too over muscled and prefer men with money since that's just another expression of protection and safety. Normal stuff.
Thank you for sharing that idea. I never thought of it that way, even though that is the way I have always acted: "money is just another expression of protection and safety. Normal stuff."
And that is so sad. We are constantly told that for women it is not what you look like, but what you are, but the truth is completely different. For most, it doesn't matter if you love her and would do anything for her if you don't meet a bunch of standards for looks and whatnot.
Thanks for asking about a guy being too tall, I've often wondered about that. You asked two and we got one of each. I'm 6ft 2in and have met women that have an issue with guys being too tall. I did date a Filipina that was 4ft 9in. She didn't mind me being that tall.
Hello, Before I comment, I would like to let you know that I feel as though you’re my long-distance friend without ever having met you. 😊 I like that you revisited these questions about what Filipina women are physically looking for in a man. However, I was waiting to hear anything about: 1. How important is it to have children from a foreigner? 2. What if the man doesn't want children or cannot have children (due to a vasectomy or medical reasons)? 3. I know you have covered the question about black men versus white men for marriage. What about Latino/Hispanic men as husbands? 4. Americans are made up of many subcultures, languages, religious beliefs, southern accents/northern accents, foods, etc., etc., etc. Is there a preference within these subcultures of American men? Or for that matter, any foreign country within multicultural societies? May I request that you cover these additional types of questions in future videos? Your unmet friend from Philadelphia, PA. Thank you and keep up the great work 😊 Rubin R.
Excellent..the PEA does it again. I grew up in California. Knowing I am pursuing a Filipina whom I will fly to Davao to meet in October, one of my childhood friends recently asked me: "What is the difference between Filipinas and American women?" Without hesitation, I replied: "American women are complicated and nearly impossible to please. Filipinas are simple (not needy), and they are eager to please."
I saw an experiment done on RU-vid that took a guy (short, looked like a soy boy nerd, dressed homely but not sloppily) and sent him out on the town to ask girls out. Needless to say...he got shot down. Repeatedly. Afterwards, the girls were asked to rate him and why they didn't accept his offer to date, and he scored quite low. The next part of the experiment was they took that exact same guy, put him in a Beemer, dressed him in a suit (nothing changed with his actual physical appearance and features--you could tell he was a dweeb)....but guess what happened? I think you already know.
The same experiment could be done on modern men. Show them a naturally beautiful homely nice girl but they don't want her because she's boring. Take the same girl back to the drawing board, give her BBL under the knife, a bunch of makeup and then put her 40% dressed in front of the same men and they'll all drool for her. The shallowness goes both ways
I think you need to go to a doctor, you are straight up tripping my man. I have never, ever, met any guy that preferred BBLs over the real thing. Men prefer beautiful women, but you are going waaaaay to far my man. Stop the white knighting.
@@kokoyaro I am actually the opposite. Well, maybe not the 40% dressed, that sounds interesting.. But a natural girl wins over a plastic one for me. I'm definitely not into make up.
I’m short, 5ft 5in tall, my wife did not care about my height, she cared more about if I was a kind man, responsible and hard working, that’s all it took to win the heart of the kindest and cutest woman I have ever met, of course I had to marry her. Best decision of my life and been enjoying every day with her 🥰
Love your interviews like this Pea! You have a special gift with people and it's a joy watching you! I met my filipina wife (as friends) here in the US 7-8 years ago after visiting the Philippines. There wasn't a love connection initially because of a 26 year age difference and while she was ok with that, I was not. Over a 5 year friendship, I changed my mind! The only dumb thing I did was not see it sooner. She's a gem and I haven't been happier in my entire life than I am since we've been together.
Isn't that true in every country. Even out west the guys that girls want are different then the guys they marry. Typically Chad does not have a lot of money.
@@waltgreen8759 evolutionary psychology and behavior is universal. most older men who can get younger females in Asia would rather cope than face reality.
As an Expat in the Philippines, I can agree with this statement. It will always be the golden rule when it comes to women. Alpha F'ks, Beta Bucks is world wide. Men shouldn't fool themselves when it comes to women. This is why men should always build himself into his best version. They will come if you have most of the boxes checked but they must definitely will come if you have the cash box checked.
I have to honestly say that with how beautifully appealing and young many of the guest was on this video, I definitely wasn’t expecting the preference they spoke on to come from them.
Pea, not sure what you have done to yourself, but you are aging very well...Looking very good! Anyway, great vlog. I really enjoyed it. Thanks as always.
Being short , fat , ugly and poor … hairy and old … with lots of scars and a grey beard . I have learned to view the world with a shrug and a smile . Women will always choose someone else . Always … no exceptions … ever . They LIKE me … they trust me … I’m their friend or even a big brother from another mother … When it comes time to play “hide the weenie” … it’s going to be with a Chad or a Tyrone . They don’t think of me “ that way “. I’ve learned not to love , and keep my wants and desires to myself . I don’t play the fool any longer . If I am to be a brother or an uncle , I’ll be a good one . Nobody will know how I feel inside .
Hey Pea. I'm 5'11" and weigh 175 lbs. I have blue eyes and I'm circumsized. Is there any hope of me finding a Philipina woman?? Also, I subscribed to your channel. I could of sworn I was already subscribed but when I checked, I wasn't.😢 I am now!😊 P.S. The nurse costume was so sexy and you are very attractive woman!❤
Such a fun bunch of interviews with such wonderful women. Nice to hear clean cut guys with not too many tattoo's, piercing and facial hair are still in style. thanks Pea! 💜
true.💯 here's the truth : DECENT, traditional Filipinas (the large majority) still prefer Filipino men bec of two things: 1. cultural compatibility 2. values and morals This confirms the answers given by women in this video. They are basically describing the filipino men as their ideal guy. No wonder, foreigners get the indecent ones, who only wanted money. why? bec you guys look fot the worst places . Filipina here. Thank me later.
5:21 5'4" is TALL?!?! American girls want at least 6'. One reason I moved to the Philippines, girls my size. I found my cute wife here. American girls are water, too big (tubig).
Wow!! It is so different here in the U.S you gotta be handsome over 6ft tall and have plenty of dough!! But that is not reality! it seems that most Filipinas just want a good man that she can love and depend on and who will love her and treat her with respect and honor!! It's a breath of fresh air to hear this!! Most men from the West just wants a woman he can depend on and that will love and respect him!! I guess we're like dogs, pet us on our heads , rub our bellies and feed us and we are Happy as can be!! Simple isn't it? ❤❤🤣
Well all I can say is: I was the guy who nobody wanted, in my own country. So I accepted an offer to write to a Filipina (this was pre-Internet). When I was over there meeting her, I quickly noticed that when I walked down the street, all the female eyes were on me. Although I did not end up marrying that lady, the fact that they all seemed to want me over there encouraged me to try again. (This time successfully).
It never ceases to amaze me, the NT's ability to notice and care about what other people do. I never notice other women looking at me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Handsome is. Number. 2. Money is number. 1. If I tell a woman I have 10 million dollars in the bank and 3 homes in America and Norway I'd get 80 percent of all women married and single. So handsome to a woman is an American express card with no limit. Hi pea ❤
Well written truth brother. Some naive brothers say, "Every woman just wants to feel secure." That's irrational thinking from below the belt while they're looking at what's going to be in bed. For divorced couples, the average is a seven-year marriage before he loses half of everything.
@@johnsheakley8836 No divorce in the Philippines. So need to worry about losing half. Just don't cheat. If she catches you in the act of cheating and immediately offs you, the law will accept her plea of temporary insanity. Incidentally, you can also do the same to her.
@@eelchiong6709 Just a quick FYI: Even though there's no divorce in the Philippines, she can still divorce you. She can divorce you through the courts in your home country (as long as your home country has divorce of course). I'm sure this rarely happens if you choose to stay with her in the Philippines, but I think it's worth knowing about nonetheless.
I just started watching you today and have subscribed. You are one funny lady. The stories an interviews you have are very fun to watch. Keep up the good work
While looks might catch your eyes, it’s always the inner being - kindness and understanding that make a relationship truly meaningful. In the end, it’s about who you are inside that matters the most.
Good show! I've known from watching your content previously that Filipinas prefer clean-shaven men, and this video did nothing to dispute that, so when I come there I know that I must clean shave my face and get used to it again. 😂
@@PurpleDoritos666 Time for you to behave maturely and respectfully. People have no control regarding their height or any innate disability. You need to go back to school and learn. Your parents taught you zero values and etiquette.
Then there is something else about you girls don't like, like your personality. I know plenty of 5'8"- 5'9" guys in the US who have no problem getting dates.
No Offense to Any girls who Want or Like that. It Just makes me Laugh a Bit Knowing people still Want what they want. I think it's Rather Honorable. GOD Bless ya Girls, MAH BAAD.
It was so random, and she really didn't notice him. Edit: Pea is always really focused on the person she's talking to, which makes her a great street interviewer. She flows off of whatever the other person is saying. I know from first-hand experience how much focus that takes. She probably wouldn't notice a six foot black gorilla walking down the street behind her while doing an interview! Lol, and I mean that in a good way.
They seem to be *really* stuck on appearance / fitting in across all metrics I've noticed. Like Pea said they're told over and over again it's "better". None of them see it as mutilation and yet they don't want a guy with piercings. That might be the point to focus on.
It is promoted in the highly Catholic Philippines, and also promoted in the highly Leftist Western countries. For some reason Leftists screech about female genital mutilation being done in foreign countries, while simultaneously mutilating their own sons' genitals. It's very twisted and sinister, and they don't even provide any reason for doing it -- it's not done for religious or hygienic reasons -- it's purely done as a "preference", as in "I prefer to mutilate my boy's genitals over not doing it". Huh? It should be 100% illegal to circumcise your child without a religious edict. The hygienic reason carried some weight thousands of years ago when access to both medical care and soap was uncommon. By removing the foreskins of all boys, you reduced the overall rates of infections around the head of the penis. This is done by turning the mucous membrane of the head of the penis into a dried out callous of dead skin, which can no longer get infected. It's the same as cutting off an eyelid and letting the eye dry out, it's a rather extreme practice. It's a case of throwing the baby out with the bathwater, of over-attacking the problem. It's little more than using a grenade to kill a mosquito.
@@ARedMotorcycle sometimes the hospitals do it without even consulting the parents. Unless you request it to NOT be done it's automatically assumed to be approved.
It's a bit shocking to see ALL of these girls say 5'6 is TALL. Wow. So, if a man is 6'5......would he have problems attracting a mate? I know a few men who are quite tall and eyeballing The Philippines.
When I was in the Philippines for a year, as a 5 foot 9.5 inch male, I saw very few tall men there, foreigners included. But I do recall seeing a mixed couple where a white man well above 6 foot had a tiny Filipina girlfriend maybe 5'3" who was only up to mid-chest on him, but they seemed happy together! He would no doubt be treated as a movie star there, just because of how "foreign" his massive height would seem. Transportation can be difficult if you're very tall, as the taxis are small, and the Jeepneeys and trikes are even smaller. Even at 5'10" I sometimes struggled in low-head-room vehicles, doorways, or overhangs. Watch your head when walking!
@@RavenMobileMy Filipina girlfriend told me that at 6'2" and 300 lbs I will be both the tallest and biggest guy in her entire city. She is 5'0 and about 90 lbs.
I'm circumsized but i wish i wasn't, they say it makes the penis much less sensitive because it removes the protective skin that allows the penis to be extremely sensitive, so it's actually really tragic that they circumsize most babies in the US where i'm from, and i'm surprised that so many girls have a preference for it.