Will My Ex Give Clues They Want Me To Contact Them? 

If they left you, they need to come to you; don't contact them.

If they want to be with you then they will reach out and be with you. If you don't hear from them then the silence speaks volumes.

Everyday I watch atleast 2-3 videos by Coach Lee. I don't why but it feels like somebody's got my back and I can last through this tough time. Thank you very much Coach Lee!

90 days no contact. I could reach out but I’m not going to. If she was interested in me at all she’d at least send a text. I will NOT contact her first. Thanks coach Lee!

Short answer:yes But if they broke up with you, be cold. Let them chase. They will break eventually. Mine is breaking after almost 3 months of no contact.

I don't even care about getting my ex back anymore, I am just watching all his videos cause it is soothing and it make me feel better.

Whether I get my ex back or not, these videos help me deal with the grieving.

"You need to follow your heart" Coach: No you don't! Nailed it 😂😂🔥

It does help listening to you on a daily basis.

Just because he reached out doesn't mean they love you. Sometimes they're playing mind games.

It worked!!! No contact is a success. My ex after 4 weeks started texting back and said she missed me, that she thinks every day about me. She will accept what I deside! she gave me even the Position to deside. But I am still conservative and I want to answers to many open questions now. Every word Coach Lee is true. In my case I never took initiative and applied most of the thinking from Coach Lee on me. THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!!!!

I put ear buds in at night and fall asleep to your videos. It’s helps distract and encourage me. Thanks Lee.

She got a matching tattoo with her boyfriend of two weeks. I’m out dawg.

Everytime I get anxious because of the breakup, I always watch your videos and it makes me feel better instantly, thank you, coach lee 🥺 you helped me know my worth

"We're dealing with people, not math problems. It's not as easy as 2 plus 2."-Coach Lee

Him reaching out constantly sends me back months of progress. Because he doesn’t want a relationship. He just wants to use me as a backup plan, while he does whatever he’s doing.

No Contact fòr me is like FASTING. It is really very difficult in the beginning but it get all the toxication out of your mind about your own self and creates the sense of self respect and love for your own self and eventually it makes you happy. For me No Contact is a spiritual and holy action and you get spiritually very strong.

My heart says snickers too. My ex can wait...

OMG your videos have stopped me so many times from making a mistake. I wake up, listen to a video and then approach the day correctly. Thank you!

Your videos have truly helped me get past my anxiety.these days I can sleep through the night.thank you Lee

You are absolutely amazing! You have changed my perspective & opened my eyes to a lot . I’m in the middle of the no contact and am staying strong! Excited for the opportunity to see him again and inspire others on a good and healthy relationship! Thank you!☺️👍🏼👍🏼

When coach Lee says I have enough experience , over 2 decades of experience just give me the motivation to trust his advise more and more each day.

Coach Lee videos have healing power. Watching them will let you heal eventually. Trust me it works.

“My heart says ‘snickers!’” 😂 I adore you Coach Lee! Thanks for existing...learning so much and feeling more confident in love and life.

I cannot tell you how much you have helped me to navigate the break-up and go no contact. I feel better every day just listening to you. Your guidance is keeping me strong, hopeful and focused on me. It has raised my self-esteem and self-respect. Thank you, Coach Lee. So glad I discovered you.

Thank you Coach Lee. Your videos are the only thing keeping me sane and not feeling dead inside. I fall asleep watching your videos cause it's the hardest at night when she's not there.

Coach Lee, you are like a healing balm to all the broken hearts. Just by watching your videos I am calmed and soothed. It's a nice human gesture, money and business aside. The lonely hearts came, and you offered them a free refuge. Perhaps your greatest prize is that little piece of gratitude from an aching heart. When they were alone in the darkness you offered them a caring touch, extended belief, and actually gave them a good advice.

I Hope God rewards you for making these videos as it really helps us when going through heartbreak. I’m still hurt months after. It’s been 3 months and your videos have really opened my eyes ❤

THIS VIDEO IS SO TRUE!!! Coach Lee I cannot thank you enough for all your videos and guidance!!! My boyfriend broke up with me after 5 months and I went into no contact --- he came back after 3 days BEGGING me to take him back and he was sorry. I said I would consider it but wanted to take it very slow....However, literally the day after he came back to me, his father passed away and I immediately jumped back into the supportive role and being the "at your beck and call' girlfriend. Then 9 months later, he said he didn't know if he saw a future with me and he broke up with me AGAIN. I made the huge mistake of calling him the next day crying and pleading for us to stay together and he agreed. Then 6 months later, he broke up with me AGAIN... This time, I immediately started no contact (it has been 1 month of NC). My point is that he NEVER had to experience the break up! He NEVER had to realize the consequences of his decision and NEVER had the fear of loss. I didn't allow him the opportunity to miss me - EVER. I didn't allow him to live life without me and realize my place in his life. Therefore, he didn't value me. He took me for granted because I never left his life when he 'broke up' with me. I learned that immature people will 'break up' with you frequently if 'breaking up' always remains a concept and never a reality. This time - I AM GIVING HIM THE BREAK UP.

I binge watch Coach Lee’s videos, morning and night, driving in the car, you name it! I had a really tough week this past week, and I did hours of binge watching. I felt strong, and then I almost broke down. Coach Lee’s videos have been so helpful in keeping me on course. I think I could write a paper on Coach Lee’s videos, citing direct quotes from heart. That’s how much I’ve watched and rewatched the videos. Thank you, Coach Lee. ❤

The binge-watching your videos part was sooo true! You have actually helped me a lot and helped me remmember why I started no-contact in the first place... We actually work together and I have seen my ex use my old sweaters to work, but your videos have helped me so much!

That's exactly what I'm doing to keep sane. Kept binge watching your videos. It keeps me on track

Watching Coach Lee videos just makes it easier to deal your situation. I am in NC with my ex for a month now, and everyday that passes it gets better, less anxiety, you focus more, and value yourself. If she has moved on and May not contact me ever again, On my mind I am also ready to moved on. Thank you Coach Lee👍👍

Hello Coach Lee 😊 A day before 3 months of no contact rule with my ex. I got him back coach Lee I am happy and we had date last Sunday (3-15) hang out, spend time together in a whole day.. My ex tried multiple indirect move to me, casual response of course and I made smart contact too during no contact. I never mention our relationship I just keep silence. And hang out with my friends posting in social media that I am good and happy in my life. Thank you very much Coach Lee and thank you for all your videos specially the one video that I remember and apply to myself about "the cup" hold on to no contact. I remember that part. 😊 May the Lord bless you more And more clients to get their ex back too 😊😍

I don't care if this works but I get tones of strength from your videos. I think it boosts the energy of thinking outside of my breakup situation. I have done all the DONTS mentioned in this videos but I still have good hope.

Her birthday was yesterday. I didn’t call her. I’m on 3 weeks of NC. I’m feeling strong. Watching your videos on a daily basis keeps me strong. Thank you!

Thank You Coach Lee ☺️ It helps me a lot handling break up situation Ive been through 😌 Its almost 4 months I feel sign of relief on myself, your videos gives me enough knowledge about the situation.

Even though you say the same stuff every video, just listening to you helps with getting over the pain of the breakup. Thank you.

Access to your video has been a healing thing.

Yes this content is what I will love my kids to watch…I haven’t had any kids yet, but it’s so encouraging.. kudos to you 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

Coach Lee I can really see that you are a man of GOD full of wisdom and power may GOD bless you for what you are doing🙏🙏🙏

Wut about over a year? My heart knows it’s probably been more then long enough...but my practical mind says STAY STRONG. Most of you losing your shit after a few weeks...try being me.

Ladies cant put coach lee down Coach lee puts the ladies down

Thank you Coach Lee!!!! I have totally F...up and done all of the wrong things...the begging, the pleaded, etc. I have finally begun to let him contact me. And when he responds, I respond. I wish I could schedule a coaching call. Ours was a 14 year relationship that I hope can be salvaged.

Hi coach lee, i hope you are safe. Take care of your health!

I listen to everything Coach Lee says except the 3 month mark. I’m sure it won’t work in my situation. I’m going to wait until I move on completely and meet someone new.

I’ve been watching your videos daily to give me strength in keep NC going. I’ve tried it before. We split 1/4/20. He wanted to remain friends. I started it multiple times he used to reach out every 48 hours. Then every 96. Now it’s been a full week. It’s getting harder. I’m so sad & miss him sooooo much!!!!

I miss her with my being, yet it has been nice not having her negativity around the house.

You are helping me be stronger. These videos are invaluable!!

Thanks coach Lee!! What precious suggestions...we don't think about these matters though we kind of know them... So very important to know what direction to take... Thanks 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 🙏🏻

Deleting the phone numbers is the only way. I got a friend to do it for me as I struggled to. Got fed up with receiving contact then going quiet again then me contacting - via Versa. It’s harder when they see you daily and act like they don’t give a sh*t about you, I finally believe they don’t. The next step will probably be me changing my number -again!

Great advice Lee..... You're saving the world!

Definitely binge watching on repeat all videos lee haha ....im currently phase 2 ...he reached out a few times but I'm not initiating! Now he ran out of excuses for Christmas valentines and bday .... so let's see what happens next

Thank you for the content, I have been in NC for 2 weeks and now I feel the power of mine back in me. I’m ready to live alone, adventure alone and enjoy all the moments alone :) Thank you...I feel loved again by me myself.

Coach lee is very comforting I feel like he’s talking to me 🥺

Just glad I found your videos. I'm hurting so bad. He pulls me in to push me away. Now I think he has found someone else. .

God bless you for this video coach, really helped me once again. God willing I’ll be in a position to support you soon. Thanks.

All you need to know is that your ex is literally thinking about you.

Ok, wow, this was my absolute favourite video of yours. This helped me enormously, it was so much of what I needed to hear. I'm going to stay strong!! Thank you so much!!

This guy is bang on with his advice.

Mine reached out just shy of 2 months after I went No Contact on her, and I must confess the conversation ran long. She wanted to talk. It flowed. And she raised points that I myself had wanted to berate her about, which saved me from having to be a scold because she answered them herself. I'm glad to hear responding courteously (if coolly) was the right thing to do at 2 months. Sounds like by 3 months one might have to admit she's gone.

Strongest piece of advice I can give anyone. Go through therapy if you so much as think you need it. Focus on building yourself. Life is always full of opportunities to improve. Try something new. Step out of your comfort zone. It doesn't take the pain away, it doesn't stop the memories flowing. But what you choose to do moving forward HAS TO BE for yourself.

I fell OFF the Wagon ...I re read some of the comments just now and realized its no problem at all I CAN JUST COME TO YOU ALL HERe NOW and NOW is NOW....now is all that matters ...nothing has changed really all roads lead back to i must connect wtih this Channel Daily ...its connecting with MY HIGHER SELF when i do

Coach you absolute legend. I have been binge watching your videos to help me through ages of pain, i'm just starting to feel better (day 67 no contact) she has been positng lots of bikini pictures on social media and I've not reacted to anything but naturally I've just been curious over whether it's for me or not. Anyway, today, I got confirmation she is thinking of me because she viewed my tiktok profile! (On tiktok you have to go out of your way to look directly at the profile and it's a new feature being told someone looked so she probably hasn't realized) Obviously this doesn't mean she will come back and i'm not going to do anything in return or react as she needs to reach out but it's a sign no contact could be working on her. I will keep this updated, i'm already half moved and am not expecting a reach out yet but it at least shows that she still thinks about me which after being dumped like you were nothing is a nice feeling to have, nobody wants to be forgettable it's a horrible feeling.

It's been about 4 months since my last text message. I've had friends know that I'm not over my ex. They suggested and only suggested that maybe I'm going to have to reach out to her if I have a chance. I keep telling them I can't reach out to her. I can't give her the validation I'm still here waiting or whatever she may think. I can't come this far and get rejected again and go through the mental heartache of her saying, "no". I'm torn in this but I have a feeling it's honestly better to stay the course and not reach out

This is the best advice and video I have ever heard. You are so talented my friend. I thank you so much.

I watched so many videos of yours and intuition tells me i know the answer before i watch the video.

Coach Lee, I want to say that I get so much reinforcement to remain strong from your videos. For some reason after more than 45 days, I cannot shake this man. You have no idea how hard I have tried! Crying myself to sleep still. I feel strong for a while after I watch one of your videos. THANK YOU 💚

I've been benge watching your videos since the night she broke up with me and it is helping a lot, it's helping me get her off my mind by focusing on what you are saying and how you're saying it, it's helping make me stronger, it's helping me build patience, understanding, and knowledge, thank you coach lee, I tried to book a call but your website said you're taking a break from calls but when you're accepting calls again I'm still gonna book a call to share my experience rather I get her back or not

Hello King Coach, your words spoken like the genius you’re . Thank you . Be safe . 😘

Feeling stronger every few days ups and downs but I’m sure it’s over . It was too dramatic and just wrong for each other so Toxic .. your voice seems to help me on my low days

You are the best coach i ve ever watched,yr words are just real from the heart of us not like others,way to go coach

After 2 months of no contact, she reached out to me and asked how I was doing.

I don't care any more, I enjoy my life with out them big time

"I need to follow my heart" "no! you don't" lol Coach Lee you are my hero!

Everyone story is colored with shades of aches, pain and joy but in the midst of winter there is a summer inside each and everyone , alive and kicking. Dig in , very deeply and get it out....

Just what I needed to hear Coach I'm on day 2 . No contact and she watches my social media . Ur right as soon as she texts I go over her house I need to show her I have a life also let reality set in and that's what I'm gona do when she finally texts me I love her I hope we get back someday thanks coach

Damn good video. I had the same "desperate" thing happen the past two weeks. I kept watching afterward for more likes but got too hooked on the little breadcrumbs for personal validation. My ex had liked a SERIES of profile pics I was posting, and I was confused as hell. She needs to fucking TALK to me if she really wants to talk. I agree, she probably still has some attraction or "liking" of me. But way before these likes I sent her a song I wrote about her, and MULTIPLE emails (ridiculous) most of them unanswered. If she wants to talk to me, then she can text me, call me, or email me on facebook. I am DONE.

Sneakers part is Funny. Absolutely right Mind over Emotions.

This is absolutely powerful, useful stuff here.

Thank you coach lee you made me realize my worth.😇

Thank you for your videos..you really helped calm my nerves quite a bit..

Make sure to eat well and exercise. I had way too much to drink over the weekend vacationing with friends. Came so close to screwing up. Be sober minded folks. It's very important.

Hyy coach lee i must say u r God Sent For broken ones..i really respect u....today i thought i vll say out of my sylabus just appericiate u cox u deserves mch more dese words........stay safe tc

This is one of my favorites thank you thank you 🙏🏼

What is a Coach Lee video without a Snickers analogy?

Got my answer in this video. Coach Lee... bravo 💯

Yeah Coach Lee, I followed your advice and when he reached out , it was a pure ego stroke for him and , poof! He disappeared. On my life, I will never respond again unless he comes with humility and a clear statement of intentions. And maybe not even then!

I'm making diet and working out, when he said "my heart says Snickers" I had to laugh out loud, I love Snickers!!! That made my day!!! Wish you all good luck getting your ex back!

I am at the 3 month mark and from experience, I have always been the one to go back and make it work. It always placed him on a pedestal, like he was the dictator of my life.. I do not care how long it takes, I am not reaching out to him this time. It hurts because I am realizing a lot about our dynamic and I am not sure if I will go back to him if he reaches out. Especially if he sleeps with someone else... He has sent out a few clues, but it does not mean anything unless he actually reaches out to me by phone... Taking it one day at a time.

The coolest dating coach

Thank you sir...For giving me a hope ...and making me strong to stay in no contact mode.

With all this COVID-19 situation you better don't break no contact! If the dumper don't contact you now to see how are you at these hard times what do you think about them?

Fun fact, you always have a chance of getting ur ex back unless they die or u die.

Pfff, oh yeah, she gave me clues she wanted me to reach out alright.. then when I didn't I was removed shortly after. But not before her needing to announce a cleanse of her friends list as a warning. She left me. Her life didn't improve- been in no contact for almost a month. She is still causing havoc for me in the workplace- with rumors and all the one sided nonsense. Meanwhile I'm focused on my self improvement and getting closer with other relationships. Your videos and breakup kit have kept me going on low days. You rock.

This really helps to get over my ex. No contact kind of makes me feel stronger and i don't think of my ex so much.

I pushed my girlfriend away because of emotional trauma I experienced as a child. I treated her like a princess the first year but afterward the demons inside of me got the best of me and I hurt her emotionally. She finally just blocked me on Snapchat and broke up on snap. I didn’t realize my mistreatment until it was too late. 7months passed and I broke no contact. I broke down and even went to her house begging to comeback. I could see in her body language she was done. I feel so much regret and pain for what I did to her. I respected the cycle of my father and it kills me inside that I did. I pray one day she will forgive me and I will never let her go again but I feel she hates me. I pray god to cleanse me of my sins and to forgive the hurt I put on such an innocent girl

It took me 3 months to get my x back years ago ,no contact works, all my friends said It was over ,everything felt lost and hopeless but no contact worked . She wasn’t a woman of value ? I left her after a year as I wanted a family , 10 years later I found my soulmate, very short relationship and she just moved out and asked for space , now I’m going through it again , but yes time to start no contact again , relationships are hard , but now I finally got a woman of value , wish me luck !

Good Morning from Greece, another great vid, Lee. The thing for me is that I have no way of knowing what she's doing, whether she's dating some new guy (rebound or not). I just received a fb message the other day from a friendly couple - whom I've met from her - asking if I was still in Crete. I've moved in another city, some 90 miles away since breakup (Crete is a big island). That's all I have, as I didn't asked them anything about her.

Here for my daily dose of strength.