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Will No Contact Rule Work On A Stubborn Ex Boyfriend, Ex Girlfriend Or Spouse 

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Will the No Contact Rule work on a stubborn ex boyfriend, ex girlfriend, or spouse? Get Coach Lee's "Emergency Breakup Kit" at myexbackcoach.com/emergency-b...
If you believe that your ex is stubborn and you are wondering if the no contact rule will work in the situation of a stubborn ex, this video discusses that situation.
Read the article that accompanies this video at myexbackcoach.com/no-contact-...
Other videos that are mentioned in this one:
The Mind of Your Ex During No Contact: • What Your Ex Is Thinki...
Stages of No Contact Your Ex Goes Through: • Stages of No Contact
Read the accompanying article to this video at myexbackcoach.com/no-contact-...
For more content on getting your ex back, go to MyExBackCoach.com
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@Randjohn007
@Randjohn007 4 года назад
My ex just reached out to me yesterday after almost two months of no contact it definitely works you just have to focus on improving yourself and not worry about them
@Randjohn007
@Randjohn007 4 года назад
A P she’ll definitely come around just give her the space she is looking for
@alexp4898
@alexp4898 4 года назад
That's some serious discipline bro. Congrats.
@Randjohn007
@Randjohn007 4 года назад
A P we’re not back together lol I just wanted to tell ppl it is possible for them to reach out after no contact especially if they are a stubborn individual. Just wanted to give ppl hope
@xy28100
@xy28100 4 года назад
@@Randjohn007 💯💯💯
@eliotruben3442
@eliotruben3442 4 года назад
Randall Johnson would you like to get back? And did she want to? Update me
@d-nise6364
@d-nise6364 4 года назад
Being that stubborn in a relationship is toxic. If you do not know how to communicate like an adult then to hell with them. Time waits for no one.
@emiliamateo9319
@emiliamateo9319 3 года назад
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@helenadair32
@helenadair32 Год назад
I think this program is fur people who feel the person is worth fighting for, doesn't mean they are not worth fighting for, I'm stubborn too so I totally understand but I'm also copromiseably
@SurrealisticSlumbers
@SurrealisticSlumbers Год назад
Hell yes
@TSWaves1
@TSWaves1 Год назад
I had to read this. My ex didn't communicate a single thing to me until the very end. I was blindsided, I went full anxious defensive mode like an idiot, and now I'm dumped over a text and blocked. It's been 38 days completely radio silent.
@ULTIMATEUNITED2000
@ULTIMATEUNITED2000 11 месяцев назад
​@TSWaves1 dodged a bullet in my opinion. Be honest with yourself. She decided to destroy your relationship. Let her fix her mistake. U get to work on you, its hard but you got to not cave in to the silly cow
@luluchen5883
@luluchen5883 3 года назад
“You gotta out stubborn them” - well said!!! 🤣
@mukherjeearnab1
@mukherjeearnab1 3 года назад
Difficult to out stubborn women as they are generally emotionally much stronger from inside. We guys show we are tough but that's only the exterior. Let's see how my case turn out. No contact day 5 and I already died 1000s times. 😂
@luluchen5883
@luluchen5883 3 года назад
@@mukherjeearnab1 well I am on day 28 and I think I’m dealing with a “tough inside” kinda guy.... we’ll see :)
@mukherjeearnab1
@mukherjeearnab1 3 года назад
@@luluchen5883 Good luck, hope you succeed. NC day 6 Time runs so slow in no contact and to make it worst here in India we have lockdown. 😂 Cheers. 👍👍
@rikginchimarak4043
@rikginchimarak4043 3 года назад
@@luluchen5883 how did it turn out? I'M on day 13
@luluchen5883
@luluchen5883 3 года назад
@@rikginchimarak4043 he did reach out to me on about 45 day range because it was my bday lol. But I was not surprised…. Also I’ve moved on already…
@Icantbuttons
@Icantbuttons 4 года назад
Your dead stare makes me come to terms with my soul
@RealCoachLee
@RealCoachLee 4 года назад
Someone had to do it.
@FreedominLove711
@FreedominLove711 4 года назад
lol
@JMthdjhgbnjk
@JMthdjhgbnjk 3 года назад
icantbuttons true
@saimashapi3819
@saimashapi3819 3 года назад
Hahahaha right on point.
@marchels9649
@marchels9649 3 года назад
😂🤣
@gorgjess_one
@gorgjess_one 2 года назад
NO CONTACT WILL WORK. DO NOT COMMUNICATE WITH THEM UNLESS THEY REACH OUT WITH SOMETHING OF VALUE. PERIODT!
@mamadubalde5739
@mamadubalde5739 6 месяцев назад
What if they just pop out of nowhere with a single “hey”? What would you do in that situation ? 😭
@Layerlol
@Layerlol 4 месяца назад
​@@mamadubalde5739 Don't ignore them, You respond with a simple hey back and keep it casual
@ReleaseMyKrakken
@ReleaseMyKrakken 3 месяца назад
@@mamadubalde5739 Answer with a hey back or a howdy or a gif of hey there. And thats it
@TaxmanTV
@TaxmanTV Месяц назад
@@mamadubalde5739 Still do nothing - no response. Quick messages or texts like saying 'hey' are a clear indication they are just fishing for any response from you, and then when you take the bait they will reel you in from there. You lost the power at that point and showed weakness.
@yr5425
@yr5425 4 года назад
I thought I wanted my ex back and did all these things , but when he came back to me, I changed my mind🤷🏼‍♀️I ended up breaking up with him and for good.
@hwdareu5848
@hwdareu5848 4 года назад
How long did you wait?
@yr5425
@yr5425 4 года назад
Mysteriously Mysterious like a month
@thaiwithme8960
@thaiwithme8960 4 года назад
@@yr5425 why did you break up? I did 26 days no contact , he dumped me because lost of attraction n I guess he is talking to someone else
@deadshothdgaming2688
@deadshothdgaming2688 4 года назад
Yusita P sorry, but if he thinks he can find someone better than you just let him. There are plenty of real men that would give 100% of his time for you. My advise and find some real men! I’ve lost my gf 1 week ago. We broke up together and i did the no contact rule and it worked. But why should i waste my time on someone that would walk away and thinks she could get better. I been together for 2,5 years and the last view days were the hardest but you will come thru my girl! Believe in yourself! You have selfworth and power so use it wisely.
@yr5425
@yr5425 4 года назад
Yusita P I broke up because I lost interest in the process. Now I have someone way better who doesn’t put me through that.
@nevilab5181
@nevilab5181 5 лет назад
I just want to thank you, coach Lee. It's not even about the break up story itself, which ended good cause we got back together and are going strong since 4 months now . I want to thank you, cause listening to your advices every night, crying myself to sleep, helped me a lot. Someone who understood what I felt and gave me real true advices on how to act. When everybody else was giving me their opinion without actually understanding what I was going through. Thank you cause I would listen to you every morning driving to school and this gave me hope, faith and positivity. When I was about to give up and contact him, I would stop myself and open one of your videos, didn't matter I already watched it 3 or 4 times. Coach Lee, you were my light in that painful, cold darkness. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ♥.
@hassibalhassanrizveredoy3143
@hassibalhassanrizveredoy3143 4 года назад
I'm doing the same thing. Mind sharing how you got back? Would love to listen as I'm going through similar situation atm.
@calvinthomasmuzik
@calvinthomasmuzik 4 года назад
n b yes he’s mine right now
@linomannake8346
@linomannake8346 4 года назад
I'm improving now thanks Mr Lee
@AddictzAnt
@AddictzAnt 3 года назад
How’s it going are u still in the relationship
@binoybiswas9392
@binoybiswas9392 3 года назад
Me 2
@jasonburris9576
@jasonburris9576 4 года назад
I have a story that might give y'all hope. One of my best friends girlfriend had broken up with him unexpectedly back in 2014 and he did no contact till 2018....now they're happily married. I'm not saying that this'll be the case for every situation guys and gals, but if they dumped you and truly love you, they'll come back. It might take some time, but have hope, the key thing to remember, is that you need to act like they're never coming back and work on yourself.
@kanchanajayan950
@kanchanajayan950 4 года назад
Thanks 🥰
@eliotruben3442
@eliotruben3442 4 года назад
Jason Burris really appreciated this
@parker90042
@parker90042 4 года назад
He was treated as a second option
@charlesbaker7619
@charlesbaker7619 4 года назад
Yes thats very powerful and true, im going to consider that suggestion!!!
@nicolewinters
@nicolewinters 4 года назад
Kanchana Jayan wtf
@rob1996ization
@rob1996ization 5 лет назад
very strong eye contact, feels like your actually talking to the viewer
@b_afrika
@b_afrika 4 года назад
On exactly 30th day, my girlfriend called me, while crying. She told me she had a dream that I have moved on. Now we are back together, enjoying the honey moon. I believe your advice that, it is a bad advice to keep on ignoring your ex when reaching out to you, especially when no contact has had an impact on them.
@bobstoner8152
@bobstoner8152 5 месяцев назад
so she got back with you out of jealousy not love.
@khizerbaig9796
@khizerbaig9796 4 года назад
I did 30 days no contact and i don't want her anymore... So i've moved on
@beccahon6704
@beccahon6704 10 месяцев назад
Last year I watched just about every coach Lee video after my bf of 3 years suddenly left me (there was no other woman, just him panicking when I was asking for marriage) I was a complete mess but I followed the no contact rule religiously and after 2 months we got back together. We have been living together ever since and are now engaged! I know my experience is rare I just wanted to let people know that getting back together is possible sometimes! peace and love to you all ❤️
@user-tm4gp9ne8r
@user-tm4gp9ne8r 6 месяцев назад
I'm in the same situation. He panicked even though I wasn't pressuring him for marriage but that is what we were dating for. I am going on three months NC :/ he moved on immediately not even a few days after the discard. One of the worst experiences of my life, just working on me
@joshuafoster9945
@joshuafoster9945 5 лет назад
You need to do a video on an ex that is always to busy and never gets bored enough to miss you or rethink their decisions.
@specieschild1
@specieschild1 4 года назад
read book bro . i suggest " art of seduction " by robert green .
@key29784
@key29784 4 года назад
I agree
@theforeigngirl8495
@theforeigngirl8495 4 года назад
They're never too busy to not think of you. Even if.. life is all ups and downs and there will be the time when they're all alone and maybe feeling down and they'll remember you. And the support you gave them ( if you gave them any)
@MimMdance
@MimMdance 3 года назад
@@theforeigngirl8495 Nice comment. Thanks.
@tracymanalo10
@tracymanalo10 3 года назад
Same
@jayzeljavier4652
@jayzeljavier4652 4 года назад
If I ever “fall” during the no contact rule, I swear I’m going to watch your videos to remind myself why I’m doing this. Thank you Coach Lee! ❤️
@QueenToKingOfSpades
@QueenToKingOfSpades 3 года назад
I pretty much stopped watching these to get her back, and started watching these to know how to build myself up again. Thanks Lee 👍
@paulbrandt3292
@paulbrandt3292 3 года назад
+234 7084314979 You can contact him on WhatsApp
@Layerlol
@Layerlol 4 месяца назад
Most people that leave you, Come back.
@suzannemuliolis6066
@suzannemuliolis6066 5 лет назад
The thing is, we are BOTH stubborn stress monkeys, and yes, the no contact rule works. We love one another, know we love one another, and that is what keeps us coming back.
@suzannemuliolis6066
@suzannemuliolis6066 4 месяца назад
It wasn't used as a weapon. It was used to cool off and evaluate things.
@leidibelcina577
@leidibelcina577 4 года назад
The NO CONTACT rule works! It worked for me at least :-) Just stay strong to everyone reading this comment. Mine worked exactly after 30 days, I was almost giving up like ready to move on, not go back to him. But one day he contacted my best friend, then my sister, then my dad. And now we're much happier together than before. So yeah, it really works!
@pandadancer808
@pandadancer808 4 года назад
how long were you together and who did she say was at fault?? what were the reasons? trying to figure out if i should say happy birthday
@eggstheticguy2830
@eggstheticguy2830 4 года назад
I'm so happy for u ❤️
@leidibelcina577
@leidibelcina577 4 года назад
@@pandadancer808 Hi there, we're together for 2 years and a half and then we just got tired of fighting each other and eventually he broke it off but we're good now thanks to the NO CONTACT rule. I think it's because it made him believe that I can live without him and that scared him a bit.
@hwdareu5848
@hwdareu5848 4 года назад
3 months and didn't hear a peep from her. I guess Time for me to move on..
@manuelestevez3062
@manuelestevez3062 3 года назад
Update?
@peonmyhall
@peonmyhall 4 года назад
I'm in my mid 30's and I can tell you no contact has worked for me since high school. However in my experience usually by the time they start contacting again you've used that time to improve yourself and you've been dating people in your much better so you don't even care anymore. That's the true power of no contact its just nobody wants to hear that, they just want to use it to manipulate someone to come back because of separation anxiety.
@AlarisH
@AlarisH 4 года назад
So they have always come back? I agree with what you said also
@peonmyhall
@peonmyhall 4 года назад
@@AlarisH It depends on how you define come back. Rarely do they come back and say hey I want to get back together although it certainly has happened. Sometimes they reach out in casual way and things go from there. Sometimes they reach out just out of curiosity and then dissappear again. I don't think I've ever gone no contact and had girls not get in touch with me again though if we've dated for longer than 3 months or so.
@peonmyhall
@peonmyhall 4 года назад
@@AlarisH also to add onto that, if you are still worrying if they will come back or not you are in no mindset to be talking to them. Get your own life together and then if they reach out you will be able to handle it in a better way. I've made that mistake too many times and I still make it.
@AlarisH
@AlarisH 4 года назад
Got it! I'm trying to focus on myself for now as I have A LOT going on. Thank you so much for the reply!
@christinabeita5671
@christinabeita5671 Год назад
What if the relationship is less than 2months?
@agbordaniels
@agbordaniels 4 года назад
Coach Lee is the baddest in the game hands 🤚 down
@kimsikorski5691
@kimsikorski5691 5 лет назад
Honestly it's to the point that these videos and videos like this one is making me see that an ex is an ex for a reason. If he truly loved me then we would have worked through things and talked to get to the bottom of things to make things right but when your ex just ghosts you and leaves you so broken they not only don't deserve me when I'm broken but they sure in the heck don't deserve me when I'm able to get my head and heart back to normal that they crushed. I know it takes both people to make things not work the way it should to make things work but if the person that has been thinking for a while about breaking up it would be a lot smarter to sit down and talk about what is bothering them. Truth might hurt but it is the lies and the ghosting that kills you. Thank you and God bless 💞
@rachelhawk7661
@rachelhawk7661 5 лет назад
Kim My ex broke my heart like that too and I ask myself the same question !!!! Do I really want him back ? If I ment so little to him after loving him for 9 years!!! I did the no contact in the beginning just to try to get him back... but I discovered that no contact turned out its helping me heal !!! I hope I heal fast and I pray he gives me closure and explanation about why he discarded me but I doubt I will get it... No I just long to not cry first thing upon eye opening !!! Sending understanding love your way... Rachel
@GirlsOnTop_
@GirlsOnTop_ 5 лет назад
Kim Sikorski some exes are just too fucked up or too stupid. Doesn’t mean they are a bad person, and didn’t love us. They just can’t get over themselves. And we still love them and want them back. We’re blind, i know. Love makes us blind. I can do much better than my exes, but I can’t forget him. I miss him more than i can explain...
@caramcburney4779
@caramcburney4779 5 лет назад
Kim Sikorski 100% agree with you and I honestly just realized that seeing your comment. If you do get back together, who’s to say they won’t do it again? No contact has helped me make myself better and stronger for me
@KB-rp7nr
@KB-rp7nr 5 лет назад
@@rachelhawk7661 Don't wait on his closure. Give yourself closure. Anyone who ghosts and don't consider your feelings don't deserve to be in your life. Ghosting is cruel, painful and know one should be treated this way. I know it's hard and very painful. Let no contact be your closure. Don't let him make the decision on when to come and go. Forget his closure. His closure was when he ghosted. So you give your own closure. He will be back and I would go no contact and stick with it.
@rachelhawk7661
@rachelhawk7661 5 лет назад
@@KB-rp7nr thank you so much.... I stayed no contact... he sent a text saying "now we can be friends" "now he will talk to me" I ignored him and he went to my friends and neighbors and tried to force me !!!! I flat out refused !!!! He threw me AWAY!!!! He doesn't get to come back now and Hoover me
@tinkymcginnis
@tinkymcginnis 5 лет назад
You should create a success stories playlist of some of your clients
@michaeljohn1474
@michaeljohn1474 4 года назад
Stubborn ex
@jerryrogers2516
@jerryrogers2516 4 года назад
I agree
@edwards.8453
@edwards.8453 4 года назад
Seriously!!
@moniquesetiawan5892
@moniquesetiawan5892 4 года назад
Definitely!
@keylimepie8426
@keylimepie8426 4 года назад
Good idea
@LorisLaboratory
@LorisLaboratory 4 года назад
Lee, your videos have been such a great help. Even after a few videos and knowing what needs to be done, I find myself coming back to them almost daily for encouragement and reminders. You lay out everything clearly and with no judgment, no fluff, no annoying flashy video edits and gimmicks, no BS. Awesome job. Thank you!
@jposco
@jposco 4 года назад
Hands down.. you are the best. People are suffering all over the world, dealing with break ups and loss... and your sincerity and wisdom is helping so many heal and reconcile. Your teachings work. I recommend everyone... get his break up kit - FOLLOW it... and most importantly, keep improving yourself. Everything will fall into it’s proper place. Peace ✌️
@xsupersxyscrpiox
@xsupersxyscrpiox 4 года назад
I'm so grateful for these videos...I thought I would never survive this breakup and all the sadness and panic that accompanied it. Watching this channel really calmed me down, though, because I actually felt like there was something I could DO to change the situation. I found Coach Lee 5 days into the breakup and immediately started No Contact...On Day 14 of NC, my ex messaged me for the first time about something other than logistics. I gave a warm, friendly response but kept things brief and to the point...Then on Day 16, he admitted to creeping on my social media and asked me if I'd be interested in hanging out. I'm just going to see where this goes, but I think I'll be okay either way!
@Rizzy_K
@Rizzy_K 3 года назад
If you have a serious relationship of 1+ years, there’s no way they won’t contact you unless you were a toxic partner. Eventually they will contact you. I’m not saying you’ll get back together, but you’ll hear from them one way or another, especially if you were good to them.
@ToddSnow
@ToddSnow 5 лет назад
My ex just texted me after 5 months of no contact.
@thaiwithme8960
@thaiwithme8960 4 года назад
Are you back together? Why did you break up
@sharona1ification
@sharona1ification 4 года назад
What Happend and did u get bacj
@vibe8517
@vibe8517 4 года назад
@@thaiwithme8960 seems like you have faced a recent breakup like me..
@vibe8517
@vibe8517 4 года назад
What's your update.?
@hwdareu5848
@hwdareu5848 4 года назад
Happy for you 😊
@KrissyNotty
@KrissyNotty 5 лет назад
Finally a new video! I was starting to think you were doing no contact on your subs, Coach Lee! 😅😂
@F-J.
@F-J. 5 лет назад
Treat 'em mean keep 'em keen 🤣
@denisejaydub
@denisejaydub 5 лет назад
😅😅😅
@mariyanatancheva2713
@mariyanatancheva2713 5 лет назад
I am dying laughing :D
@thewhitehairedwitch8777
@thewhitehairedwitch8777 5 лет назад
Lol hope this comment could make Coach Lee Smile lol 😂
@hourounmaqsourat
@hourounmaqsourat 4 года назад
@@thewhitehairedwitch8777 hhhhhhhh i hope too
@arefemji7560
@arefemji7560 5 лет назад
Coach lee, my girlfriend broke up with me 1 week ago, and i started to watch your videos, your videos really calmed me and gave me strength, i mean it, and guess what? today my ex texted me and wanted me to come back !
@GirlsOnTop_
@GirlsOnTop_ 5 лет назад
ArefEmji congratulations!!
@TheBlanco951
@TheBlanco951 5 лет назад
Careful there...she's going to be hot and cold on you. I would suggest that she do all the work to get you back. It has to be her idea to say she wants to be in a relationship with you again.
@myrahouse2368
@myrahouse2368 5 лет назад
How long where you together? Did you row? I’m curious
@SpyderBlackOfficial
@SpyderBlackOfficial 5 лет назад
Bring up marriage & getting serious watch how she reacts lmao
@jeanpaul2710
@jeanpaul2710 5 лет назад
congrats
@ayuazaria432
@ayuazaria432 4 года назад
Spot on. He loves to win all the time. That sucks!! He drives me nuts. Finally detached myself from him..i need to focus on myself and self worth is a priority at the moment
@noziphothusi529
@noziphothusi529 3 года назад
Update
@EJayyDreadHead
@EJayyDreadHead 4 года назад
Update I move on and I'm in a new relationship
@userrrreesss7892
@userrrreesss7892 4 года назад
Did your ex ever reach out?
@denisejaydub
@denisejaydub 5 лет назад
Missed you coach Lee! I have to share that I’ve been watching your videos since my breakup about 3 months ago. And I went into contact with pretty much zero hope of ever ever hearing from my ex again. But lo and behold... Out of the absolute BLUE, 2 weeks ago on a random Monday, my ex contacted me after 3 months. My eyes pretty much popped out of my skull when i saw his name on my phone. I still smile to this day thinking about that feeling. No contact works people. ❤️
@xPauliAa
@xPauliAa 5 лет назад
I've been in no contact for almost 2 months now and have been experiencing anxiety because I'm afraid he will never contact me again, but if you stayed strong for 3 months and it happened, maybe I'll get lucky too if I don't give up... thank you for sharing ❤
@jimaediva8443
@jimaediva8443 4 года назад
Happy for you but did you get two get back together? I was on almost four months begging now only one week NC. I'm losing hope.
@denisejaydub
@denisejaydub 4 года назад
@@jimaediva8443 We are just talking again and hopefully will see each other soon. I actually just got like 8 messages from him in a row.. its a good feeling haha :) I reached out twice after the breakup- not begging or anything- just trying to see where his head was and he didnt even bother responding, so I REALLY thought I would never hear from him again. I'm glad to hear youre doing NC... I'm sure you've learned by now begging hurts more than it helps :( I'll keep my fingers crossed for you
@aloneindeed1307
@aloneindeed1307 4 года назад
@@denisejaydub I really hope I would be lucky as you are. My ex blocked me all socials 1 month and a half after fight already. but he sent me email 2 times at the end of June and latest 1X July asking me back if I am doing well. and go back to silent again now. I don't understand at all for my situation, he never repeated me that it's over, we broke up already or else, also in email i still call him Babe for many times, he doesn't say anyth for the way I call him. But he still blocked me over a month now. It will reach to 2 months for sure I guess. But I keep patient and still believe that we will get back together one day, idk why i feel like that. So i do NC now again after the last msg he sent me and I replied. I'm so confused. Look at you, make me know that it's worth to do at least. Maybe it's not a specific time for me 3 months, maybe over 3 months but I hope it will work even it's too long. I will try to give him space as he said last fight "leave him alone". Wish me luck too. I still love him and choose him no matter what and I didn't find a new one, still loyal and not cheat on. I got blocked cos of emotional saying bad to him when we fought. It's misunderstanding. After that it's like this until now. : ) I really wish it will end soon.
@MsLadytiffany
@MsLadytiffany 3 года назад
What if it’s been 8 months and u never did no contact
@emeraldking4162
@emeraldking4162 4 года назад
I'd cried, begged, pleaded.. After a week I am now at stage 5 loving myself. He was so stubborn. He tried to reached out though 3x maybe after he felt that it wasn't my lost. He went exactly through those stages. Relief, partying, curiosity... I am now back in shape and healing😊 Thanks coach lee for your advice 😊
@awhb5412
@awhb5412 4 года назад
Yes you deserve to be a relationship coach or marriage counselor because you proved by your own marriage life. Married for 19 years & still married, you are a good example to everyone
@hokacorndancerhawkeyes2019
@hokacorndancerhawkeyes2019 5 лет назад
Awesome Inspiriting Advice, Suggestion and Thank You from Virgo! Yes, stubborn is his first name and I have been 100% NO CONTACT! I feel the Power of Love!
@chrislopez9504
@chrislopez9504 3 года назад
No contact works! I gave him what he wanted and he messaged me today after 2 weeks of not messaging him. ❤️❤️❤️
@emiliamateo9319
@emiliamateo9319 3 года назад
I was totally broken when the love of my life left me it was so hard for me & I almost gave up if not for a friend who directed me to a very good and powerful man called Ologbo the witch Dr. who helped me bring back the love of my life and now he treat me with so much love and care. I don’t know what your problem are passing through but with what he did for me I know he can help you. So try and talk to him on WhatsApp: +2349048673506
@alinacosta2801
@alinacosta2801 5 лет назад
Coach Lee no doubt you are absolutely the best coach out there. Your ideas not only work on relationships between boyfriends and girlfriend, husband and wife but it will work with any kind of humans relationship. That’ is just how we humans are and act to any kind of strategies like the ones that you always mention in your videos. We only value what we give to ourselves. If we think we are worth $20 people will treat us on that way,. If we think we are worth a million dollars certainly we are going to be treated that way to. It’s simple as that.
@mariachiingles2348
@mariachiingles2348 3 года назад
"Out-stubborn them"
@FNAFEDITS17
@FNAFEDITS17 3 года назад
Lol😆😂
@miasandholdt
@miasandholdt 5 лет назад
I’ve asked one question on this Channel and you just answered it. You are a life saver. Thank you❤️
@Catia-Ribeiro-
@Catia-Ribeiro- 5 лет назад
I really nedeed to hear this. I'm trying to move on but I still think about my ex all the time and it´s nice to know this. Thank you soooo much Coach Lee.
@lambokpanigoran8937
@lambokpanigoran8937 3 года назад
@@Catia-Ribeiro- so glad to hear that
@ColeIt91
@ColeIt91 4 года назад
Coach Lee you're a life saver 🙏🏻♥️ My ex broke up with me about a month ago and after a little bit of begging I started no contact, it's been three weeks now, still nothing but I'm hopeful. Last time we spoke he said he still loves me, but because all of the fights we had in the last few months he thinks this is for the best. But he said there is a possibility that we might get back together, he doesn't know now. I've been focusing on me, started meditating and working out everyday to improve myself. I feel strong but there are still some days when I feel so bad, and I miss him like hell. But I feel it in my gut that he's the one and we still have a chance. I just need to stay strong 💪🏻 Watching your videos gives me the strength to keep going!
@diptimayekar
@diptimayekar 4 года назад
Same story as mine.
@hamedkoochehbaghi7170
@hamedkoochehbaghi7170 3 года назад
Can i ask your current situation and feelings now?
@stacieembrey3290
@stacieembrey3290 3 года назад
You sound like you are going through what I am! We argued a lot. However, I talked to him 4 days ago and he claims he misses me terribly and loves me. Even hangs up the phone ending with “I love you” but says if he comes back now we will fight again in a week and he cant go thru that. I think he is in “party mode” and it is killing me. It has been a month for us.
@mish5488
@mish5488 3 года назад
Update?
@youloveemelia
@youloveemelia 3 года назад
@@stacieembrey3290 how’re you doing?
@peterwhite4429
@peterwhite4429 4 года назад
Almost been 4 weeks since she broke up with me, no contact is very difficult, but I’m pushing through. She is a very stubborn person, so this video gave me a lot of hope. Coach Lee’s videos have helped me tremendously.
@rainbowconnection7652
@rainbowconnection7652 4 года назад
I simply love the way you talk and deliver what you want to say. Your tone of voice makes you credible
@lucynjideka8863
@lucynjideka8863 2 года назад
I feel strengthened hearing this, coach Lee u actually do ur explanations clearly.
@Lex-gx5sg
@Lex-gx5sg 4 года назад
It works, trust no contact 🙏🏼 I’m doing it again now, day 2 wish me luck 💔
@jhncrl3853
@jhncrl3853 4 года назад
Update?
@gaoang3391
@gaoang3391 3 года назад
Updates
@mish5488
@mish5488 3 года назад
Update??
@Lex-gx5sg
@Lex-gx5sg 3 года назад
Heey update here, he did come back but after 2 weeks he leaved again i don’t think someone that can stay without you for days deserves you, he came back like 3-4 times but it’s not worth it. Learn how to love urself but yes this method works very well
@gaoang3391
@gaoang3391 3 года назад
Lex 1 i think so , but the feeling sucks , sometime I felt ok but sometimes I felt like gun shot on my stomach
@TeddyBear-lb9ho
@TeddyBear-lb9ho 2 года назад
You have a great way of communicating. It makes me feel peaceful.
@meimeisalai
@meimeisalai 3 года назад
Im scared, because of the way he thinks, that he is not gonna regret breaking up, because he is the kind of person who believes he's best on his own and also, im afraid he will never realize what was really the problem and he'll just keep believing the break up was the only solution and that nothing could have been changed
@octavialucas6915
@octavialucas6915 Год назад
This is my concern. He is stuuuuubbbborn!!! Very nervous
@xPauliAa
@xPauliAa 5 лет назад
This is the exact video I needed, it's like you read my mind. Thank you for another great video and helping me get through this, Coach Lee.
@joycesexton2495
@joycesexton2495 5 лет назад
I dont chase never will respect myself to,much .💝
@joycesexton2495
@joycesexton2495 5 лет назад
_ BUDDHA _ god bless you hon just take one day at a time keep god first keep negative toxic people out of your life I will keep you in prayer god bless 💝💝💝
@F-J.
@F-J. 5 лет назад
It's been 5 years. Not expecting anything. Just had to heal. I'm in a good place now.
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 4 года назад
Five years??? Good Lord. Don't waste your life.
@lifeisbeautiful3019
@lifeisbeautiful3019 3 года назад
@@emiliamateo9319 reported scammer !
@relaxingcentral9605
@relaxingcentral9605 5 лет назад
Your videos help me so much getting through no contact. Anytime I think of contacting my ex I just watch one of your videos to help me through it thank you so much coach Lee :)
@xclent1975
@xclent1975 5 лет назад
Relaxing Central agreed ...the strength I gather from Coach Lee is so comforting...thank you
@juststorm3105
@juststorm3105 5 лет назад
I feel and do same bro!
@irineoromero2347
@irineoromero2347 4 года назад
Relaxing Central haha same
@emiliamateo9319
@emiliamateo9319 3 года назад
I was totally broken when the love of my life left me it was so hard for me & I almost gave up if not for a friend who directed me to a very good and powerful man called Ologbo the witch Dr. who helped me bring back the love of my life and now he treat me with so much love and care. I don’t know what your problem are passing through but with what he did for me I know he can help you. So try and talk to him on WhatsApp: +2349048673506
@idaliak5194
@idaliak5194 3 года назад
I've reached that point where I just automatically upvote your videos at the very beginning because I know they're pure gold 😄🥇
@kennettalexanderbivens6913
@kennettalexanderbivens6913 4 года назад
Taking the control back is priceless
@krissiskloset1177
@krissiskloset1177 3 года назад
I love Coach Lee. I came on here sad about my ex. I’m leaving not worrying about my ex 😂
@markmolen9039
@markmolen9039 4 года назад
I have no contact for three years. I hope to never contact her again.
@paulbrandt3292
@paulbrandt3292 3 года назад
I can recommend you to the man who helped me bring back my ex
@paulbrandt3292
@paulbrandt3292 3 года назад
+234 7084314979 You can contact him on WhatsApp
@shontailyew1946
@shontailyew1946 4 года назад
Hello coach lee..Trust me what you have been mentioning thus far in your videos has given me so much clarity on relationships.
@languages170
@languages170 4 года назад
Thanks for the motivacional words! I was needing that! I ve divorced recentily, but i really believe that my wife Will come back! Almost 8 years togther! and i trust that no contact will make she remember the good memories and my values and soon we will a much happier couple than before, learning from mistakes we ve made and growing as a couple too!! I wish the best for those who are in the same boat! Soon we will cross this ocean of sadness and we will get ours exes back :)
@AlarisH
@AlarisH 4 года назад
Has she come back?
@MySuperEmilio
@MySuperEmilio 2 года назад
Update please
@Erica-wq7cv
@Erica-wq7cv 2 года назад
What happened?
@jessicataylor1775
@jessicataylor1775 5 лет назад
Hey Lee. Whatcha been up to? :) By this point it's over, but I still enjoy your videos, for staying calm and learning for future reference.
@Edski3774
@Edski3774 5 лет назад
Hey couch you explain so well your awesome!! I'll be watching this over and over Haha thanks lee!!! 😁
@dudeduedate5020
@dudeduedate5020 5 лет назад
I love your content and it has helped me push through NC tremendously. Thank you so much. Do you have an idea to when you might be available for coaching calls?
@giovanniramos2718
@giovanniramos2718 4 года назад
Very comforting material, thank you!
@user-gm9sj4hz6c
@user-gm9sj4hz6c 3 года назад
This video and your wisdoms /advice is amazing. I love how you phrase these things...my female brain responds to robotic logic speak because it retrains my brain to be less anxious especially coming from a guy like u!
@Keisha_Kay32
@Keisha_Kay32 5 лет назад
Just wondering that! Thanks for posting this video!
@QuinnLIFTS
@QuinnLIFTS 3 года назад
Live, Laugh, Love... then Leave. Feels like my exes motto lol although it hurts, I was kinda the best she ever had and she admitted that when we met and even when we broke up. Every other ex was unattractive, unfaithful, not great personalities and they were all immature. And we both have been very mature about things lately. I have a feelin we will have another chance at it again down the road, but I'm not counting on it anymore and I'm simply moving on.
@Thatslavon
@Thatslavon 5 лет назад
Dude you are spot on my ex actually contacted me after I haven’t contacted her in weeks
@Jitendrapas1
@Jitendrapas1 5 лет назад
You're lucky..
@mikeman5505
@mikeman5505 5 лет назад
@@Jitendrapas1 Stay positive !
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 4 года назад
Thats a good thing?
@Thatslavon
@Thatslavon 4 года назад
GuitarGuy yes for me it is
@nicksteve5392
@nicksteve5392 4 года назад
@@Thatslavon update??
@Adriel14296
@Adriel14296 5 лет назад
Hey, I’ve been listening to your videos for a while now. And it encourages me and provides me with many good advice. Thank you! I have a question, my ex and I, We developed a great connection and slowly getting closer even he is in a rebound relationship. But he suddenly said he will be MIA for a while, but will check in with me. What should I do towards this? Hope I would get your advice.
@yoseline8979
@yoseline8979 2 года назад
Thank you so much coach Lee for all you’re advice it helps give me peace in my heart 💜 knowing there’s people who care about our broken hearts and are here for us. Thank you for you’re work my ex is so stubborn 😂and this video helped me look at things differently which was nice I am a week in the no contact
@Xxxxxrrr6464
@Xxxxxrrr6464 Год назад
A lot of good points in this one Coach Lee 👍
@framboise8845
@framboise8845 5 лет назад
Can I put anymore likes on this video? Great advice, and also: you did it! Yu changed my mental outlook today. :) Thank you!!!
@nichollemariemendoza1505
@nichollemariemendoza1505 5 лет назад
finally! I've been waiting for your new content! thank you!💕
@regentsreet
@regentsreet 4 года назад
Hello Coach Lee It’s been a almost a week since no contact rule and it’s quite helping watching your video to understand the scenario Well instead of loosing my mind,currently we were in distance relationship as she’s in India n I’m in Dubai.Actually in our last conversation I felt she’s trying to push me away saying live your life even I’m there or not I’ll try to be by your side as much as I can n stuff like but when our conversation go further she ended up saying things like I don’t want you in my life I’ll not look back to you forever Her family found someone for her marriage she can’t continue with me as I need to be loyal with the future husband right after that conversation I’ve blocked her from everywhere as I couldn’t take those words she’s saying but couple of days ago she texted me saying you’ve blocked me from everywhere thank you blocked me here too to which I didn’t reply yet At this point I’ve got lot of questions to ask her about why she has changed but I’m not able to do it What should I do As I’m getting very eager to talk to her to get answers about us Thanks Taher
@debasishhuzuri9372
@debasishhuzuri9372 5 месяцев назад
Any update mate?
@jackl6928
@jackl6928 5 лет назад
Good to see you again, you really gave me hope and made me feel better. Please make more videos for great advice. God bless
@aroojaziz
@aroojaziz 3 года назад
Wow such a powerful explanation 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@Enkies
@Enkies 4 года назад
my girl just left me 2 weeks ago and i’ve been watching your videos for a while now and i’ve been doing no contact since. and i’m starting to think she’ll never reach out to me because she’s to stubborn or prideful or whatever but i’m okay with it.. i’ve learned that no contact is for yourself, to be a better version of you, with or without her... 🥀
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 4 года назад
Let her go, man. Learn and move on. Don't be a little Beta.
@benjcalderon2583
@benjcalderon2583 2 года назад
Update?
@Enkies
@Enkies 2 года назад
@@benjcalderon2583 it was a done deal, she never came back. but it was for the best i’ve met a lot of new girls since.. just been enjoying the single life really. cheers!
@esmeealvarez9308
@esmeealvarez9308 4 года назад
Question Coach Lee: I’m the one that ended things with my spouse 1month ago because I caught him having inappropriate communication with his ex. I calmly asked him to move out with no resentment because I’m not like that...He moved out and seems to be doing fine. I’m implying the no contact rule I wonder if it’ll work for me?! .. thanks I would appreciate your response.
@prashantdammalapatti1587
@prashantdammalapatti1587 5 лет назад
Thank you coach Lee. I was confused as to was going on. This vedio cleared everything up.
@user-ot6em3yt4k
@user-ot6em3yt4k 5 лет назад
Thank you you are always right on time for me very appreciated gratitude Coach Lee you are the best
@ek5926
@ek5926 4 года назад
I would like to thank you for this! My gf broke up with me a week ago i did beg but i stopped. And its so hard not too
@dakotakerr6467
@dakotakerr6467 3 года назад
Update?
@CherryDarling11
@CherryDarling11 4 года назад
9 yrs of a relationship. He left . We always argued. His parents and sister hate me and have always not liked him as well. Since they saw we were having issues they started to treat him better and as if he and them were great again. He said it’s done. Can’t date someone his fam hates. Also, I’ve always let him slide and always gave him love. Maybe we were clingy with each other and I could’ve been a bit more. But I feel he’s talking to an ex from high school that lives in the same state. He moved back to his parents in FL and I’m still l in OR. Don’t know what to do. He blocked me and has seemed to move on.
@angelinelimsengboey4960
@angelinelimsengboey4960 3 года назад
Coach lee with ur years of experience has given us the best advice. Absolutely. right n true.great stuff.
@jaylopez7061
@jaylopez7061 4 года назад
Hi Coach Lee, it’s just 3 days since I haven’t contacted the Guy who blocked me (something we have agreed upon when I became paranoid). Just the first day after he dumped me, he unblocked me though until now he is still not contacting me. It’s just 3 days but I am determined to continue this, regardless if he will contact me or not. I know by doing this NoContact thing will help me respect myself more, and that’s all we need, loving ourselves more before loving others (Ex). You videos really helping, please continue to spread your words of encouragement. A lot of people need this. Thank you and more powers!
@Cynthia-1981
@Cynthia-1981 4 года назад
11 mins into your video my ex text me after i went ghost on him 6 days ago so odd
@remo4409
@remo4409 3 года назад
This really works... my ex call me last night she's the most stubborn person i ever met we didn't talk for 2 weeks. i didn't call her or text her. she just couldn't stand it
@dnlperth8243
@dnlperth8243 Год назад
Thankyou Coach Lee. You are the best! I watch your videos everyday to stay on track 💪🙏
@moxiefox5021
@moxiefox5021 4 года назад
I subscribed! 28 days NC. Dating 1.5 loving years, rarely ever argue. She got frustrated with me and said she wanted to date. I told her I can’t be her friend while she dates. I went NC. She hates it. Lots of texts, phone calls, FB messages. Mostly threats of deleting our online photo gallery, and FB, which she has done. Some texts were ugly and angry. She recanted by text and message. I remained NC. NC means NC. Radio silence from me. I’ve been focusing on me and my work. She did send one little blurb in the middle of her nasty texts saying “FYI, I’ve never kissed another man” Then after one day she unfriended me and deleted our online photo album. Now she’s asking friends to ask me what’s going on. - What do I tell the friends? - should I remain NC or can I now call after she disclosed she hasn’t kissed another guy ? Is it too soon?
@fbi8436
@fbi8436 5 лет назад
Coach lee, can you make a video about being a jealous/insecure person in the relationship
@madisonstephenson5486
@madisonstephenson5486 4 года назад
I’m leading myself to believe my ex is stubborn. We are deeply in love and we never broke up due to loss of attraction or love. It always seemed to be timing - both times. Second time we dated we moved WAY too fast. Been apart for 6 months with no contact on either part, although I’ve heard he plans on coming back just with no time period. We have a lot of love and history. Deep love too. Focusing on myself and my work and schooling. Hopefully it’ll work 🤞🏼
@damayanti1745
@damayanti1745 4 года назад
Thanks, Coach Lee! I am your new subscriber
@ChulaRuthie72
@ChulaRuthie72 2 года назад
I appreciate you sharing these helpful videos. I left my husband over 4 months ago due to infidelity but what made me do something different was his comment to me on the night i found out of him cheating..."i haven't wanted this marriage for at least 3 yrs, you killed the love And this marriage "! Those words were like daggers! Still haunt me now. But why was i going to try to stay where i wasn't wanted. I can't even rely on what i thought were happy moments because how can i believe they were real? I was left with a million pieces of my heart shattered. I don't think i found every piece but I'm working with what i have to put myself back. I love him n miss him but he really messed up
@ChulaRuthie72
@ChulaRuthie72 2 года назад
I changed my phone number, blocked him from social media, unfollowed any one or anything that dealt with him. I do not ask about him but i receive unsolicited info of the many women he's with. Even a 28 yrs old girl! He's 40! It hurts and i get weak for awhile but pick myself up and keep going. I haven't allowed a man to come close to me because i value my vows. Until divorce papers are signed i will move on. But for now i pray for marriage restoration.i know im not ready to forgive completely so ive accepted his lack of effort to reconnect. Working on accepting an end. I tired
@ChulaRuthie72
@ChulaRuthie72 2 года назад
@Gift Cynthia i appreciate the offer but I am not interested in going back to him. My life is peaceful now
@christiepressley3684
@christiepressley3684 2 года назад
Similar situation Sanchez . I went no contact .He married his mistress . It's been almost 8 yrs . I decided I'm tired of avoiding going to local places . I'm tired of ' running or hiding ' from reality . I unblocked him on social media and it took alot of courage to face it. Within a few hrs he blocked me . Haha Oh well not me hiding anymore.
@MberHaven
@MberHaven 4 года назад
this made me cry :(
@dragonfly8184
@dragonfly8184 4 года назад
my ex is stubborn. extremely stubborn. i broke up with him due to him taken me for granted. 12 days and im hurting but i do hope this is a lesson for him because i was always reaching out and doing everything. He was the one who neglected me, ignored me, ghosted me, made feel like crap. im not begging him. i just want him to realize that i just wanted him to give me what i was giving him. i want him to feel like loosing me. i want him back but not until he changes his behavior and treat me the way im supposed to.
@MissRegina79
@MissRegina79 2 года назад
Update?
@davidyoung5897
@davidyoung5897 2 года назад
Update?
@dragonfly8184
@dragonfly8184 2 года назад
NC does work. Definitely. He realized he didn't have that control over me like he had before. Granted, I gave it to him. As of right now, we are both cool. Maybe even can call him a friend. When you go no contact, for a long time.....you start to get used to it. My ex went for so long without reaching out to me, so it made it easier to adjust. Longest I went till HE reached out was about 3 or 4 months. I ignored him for a while.....until he noticed I wasn't responding. Then he kept at it. Eventually, I responded.....and he responded in less than 5 mins lol
@nikhilbaraiya9592
@nikhilbaraiya9592 3 года назад
hey coach lee thanks for the advice. my problem is that after no contact my ex reach out for me and she felt all regret about rejecting me. I let her calm and treat her with best friendship i can give someone. I allow friendship between us and things were going pretty good but from last 3-4 days she's starting to talk about past whole day and once again started to blame me for the mistakes we did in past. She did replaced me for some better guy cause of my issues and now i finally making some progress over my issue by improving my inner self, she still reject me for the past. What should i do means does no contact will be best for this situation or i need to stop giving what she want me as a friend? please help me out from this situation sir .
@christianstromain4655
@christianstromain4655 3 года назад
I will sleep better tonight after watching this been going through a hard time and your videos are keeping me goin thanks bro
@ThePunis-Her
@ThePunis-Her 5 лет назад
Realy like to see a video about a ex reaching out, wierd communication after/during no contact and how to act on it. How about a control freak?
@miatakromah6462
@miatakromah6462 4 года назад
My ex came back after no contact after 9months
@jamess1171
@jamess1171 4 года назад
Does all your rules also apply if the girl loves two guys the same time and somehow she chose the another guy at last, should the guy who left behind apply no contact too?
@po5541
@po5541 Год назад
This coach is absolutely amazing.... stuff works
@that.ethanguy
@that.ethanguy 4 года назад
So to make a long story short, I did all of the right things during no contact and she came back around again asking to be “friends” I rejected her offer of friendship and just told her “I’m not interested in being friends, I want to work things out, let me know if you change your mind, take care of yourself” I worded it nicer than that but she seemed pissed and wrote back “thanks you too” I then left her on read and went into no contact again but I blocked her on everything just to give myself a solid chance to move on but no matter what I do I still want her back, should I keep her blocked? it worked well last time I did it but I’m afraid I might’ve blown my chances, idfk
@thelifeofdes6395
@thelifeofdes6395 4 года назад
My biggest fear is one of us dying during no contact we’re both stubborn it took him 6 months and I wouldn’t gaf if it takes another six months! I’m not reaching out first! 😂
@kaviseranG
@kaviseranG 4 года назад
Let the ego go girl...wat u gonna bring after u die...life is too short to being egi and hold grudges....i beg u talk to him....
@unicornajmg5078
@unicornajmg5078 4 года назад
Give us an update
@nicolewinters
@nicolewinters 4 года назад
ABANG KAVI wtf why we must chase when they broke up with me
@passionscott4877
@passionscott4877 3 года назад
Lmao
@Rich.3015
@Rich.3015 5 лет назад
Please cover how NC effects people who are already in prior relationships.
@InoKanzakii
@InoKanzakii 2 года назад
Great content! 👍🏻Thank You Coach Lee 🌸
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