Do y'all know that the episodes you watched recently was shot last year? Women heal in relationship, and when they officially leave just know they've cut ties. Also they if y'all see vuyos social media post she went through the pregnancy by herself. She the is no where she was with mpumelelo. She went as far as leaving social media
Tirelo is here for the bag, the soft life.......Vuyokazi should get out of this as fast as she can, she deserves way better than Mpumelelo will ever give her. Akaphume kulodoti!!
Better where she is or going than being headed by a man that is provided for to provide for his family and can't make his decisions. Mseleku will always rule the household of Mpumelelo. Tirelo is the most miserable in that relationship, with Vuyo moving on and her thinking that she has Mpumelelo all to herself, Sbindi is about to her flames.
We feel for you ngalesthuphed Vee , kodwa there is Red Flags with this UK guy please we know Tirelo pushed you far kodwa phephisa and heal weke uXolani for her baby mamaz this relationship won't solve your problem darling Phuma kuse kusha you too smart for all this gal FOCUS❤
Gogo uqinisile,kodwa uvuyo uyalazi iqiniso and I don't think she did that to hurt mpumelelo,kodwa uyazi ukuthi umpumelelo akamhloniphi qha,futhi uthole indoda emhloniphayo kuphela ❤
Marriage is God's bonus. I'm happy for you Vuyokazi uTixo ukuthandile girl ubuyise isidima sakho. Awuyiyo into yokudlala kakade. Ukhethiwe girl and abantwana bangakamamakho . Now wena nomyeni wakho nabantwana benu you are one big happy family. God bless you my baby
There is absolutely something wrong with parents who don’t take safety measures for their kids in moving vehicle! It’s 2024 and the accident rate in South Africa is crazy.
Oksalayo ku wrong, careless and dangerous to have a child sit without i sit belt. The rate of Accidents in SA is too much and imagine carelessly losing your child like that?!
Kids will grow up and make their own judgements. They won't be happy to be taken away from their father's family. Kids have nothing to do with all these . They deserve to have a relationship with both parents. It doesn't matter who is wrong, kids deserve both parents.
Just always keep in mind that some men don't want to be a part of the child's life. The more we chase and force them to be fathers, the more we're actually hurting our own children.
But who said Mpumelelo wont have his kids???????????they going to share full responsibility of the kids together ,he has every right to see his kids and be there for them and more than anything be A FATHER TO HIS KIDS .All they will have to do is agree on how him and Vuyo are going to navigate everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sabelo has no right over those kids.People are speaking everything out of "Tradition"......but when you go to the Court of Law Sabelo will be ruled out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@tshololekwene2702 not if he legally adopt them remember they are not mseleku they still nciweni and our tradition is recognized by the court of law,he failed to pay damages for them so he can give them he's surname,and our culture which is Xhosa you pay six cows for each child,but it can be negotiated how much a cow should cost but you pay,the mistake of the Zulus they always think they can force other black people to practice their culture they think they are the only ones who are proud to be Zulus and other tribes are not, rhaaaaasa .
We lucky at SA as children's act protect the rights of kids and looks at their best interest. Culturally kuyavuma konke kodwa legally no one will remove kids to any place without the consent of the father. Father's have rights too
Idingo soku lobola abantwana andisiboni. And nawe Vee awuka pholi cc kwesi siphithiphithi obu kuso. You supposed to wait until uphole. Umendo undzima cc ingakumbi unabantwana efika nabo. Kusezoba ndzima girl Star praying and ask happyness to your marriage.
The family has the right to let Xolani take the kids because at the end of the day Mpumelelo and his family has no desire to do right by the Vuyokazi family They have means to correct from the onset but no Sbindi was busy focusing on his son trend of following him in Sithembu so Good luck Vuyokazi
I believe no one said vuyo is not going to allow the kids to go to the fathers side of the family and from what I’m getting is the father never paid for the damages or lobola(d ) the kids hence why the guy married even the kids and secondly imagine having to be humiliated by the baby daddy,bayolobola a virgin yet can’t pay inhlawulo for the kids ..I understand isidima but a part of this feels like it was to fast and it was only done for her to gain back isidima because people were now calling her stupid for have two babies with a man that shows he doesn’t love her
Exactly my point I'm married with my daughter, but she's visiting her daddy and his family it doesn't mean she won't allow the kids to visit the Mselekus
Good decision Vuyo. Soze onwabe uMpumelelo bcoz awuhambanga nje wedwa you left with your kids baby. Kusemnandi kuwe kwa Mseleku Tirelo that is why you think you are better. Watch and see Nono bcoz to start with they don't love you. Sorry to tell you.
@@thelmamokholo7176, UVuyokazi nabazali bakhe, bayilahlile kakhulu kulena yabantwana, ai ngeke umseleku avume nabazukulu bakhe, noyise wezingane angimboni, ekuvuma lokho! Enkantolo ke khona abayisebenzi nje indaba ye third part if abazali bengane bephila!
Xa silandwa isi Xhosa baye benze umzekelo nge Tafile yase Dining room bathi xa ufika e venkileni ufika sinazo nezitulo then xa uyithenga uthenga nazo awuzishiyi. Meaning ke kwaXhosa intombi ilotyolwa nabantwana bayo. Xa bafuna lo uzaba ngumyeni kwintombi noba ayingutata wabantwana. Then uMpumelelo akanalungelo lokuvela athi ufuna abantwana fanele abacele u Tata wabo wesbini onguXolani.. SisiXhosa ke eso
Abantwana bangahlala nabo, but Vuyo should make sure not to change those kids surnames to be under Sabelo but her surname yakowabo. She can introduce them uXolani as their kids they're raising since he had taken their mom as the wife. Kids need to be free to visit both families it's within their rights. The father is the secondary prime giver. Mseleku's can borrow the kids for visits. That is my take on co-parenting.
Kaloku cc umntana uhlala nomama wakhe bazayothini e UK ngoku abaka Xolani? And mhlambe basebacinci badinga omama babo...makungashatwanga vele iba yingxaki..ngoba naye and nabo abantwana bayadinga uba no Vuyo njengoba bedinga uba no Mpumelelo..ma u Vuyo ebashiya kwa Mseleku abantwana ayozishatela ngoba vele kona kufanele aphile mpilo yakhe kuzophinda kuthiwe washiya bantwana wakhethi ndoda ...u right ahambe nentsana zakhe Vuyo..xolise ngoba mde.
Hhayi lo gogo sounds like my jelous uncle owathi uma ngiyoshada ngina 21 yrs umshado awusiwo umdlalo.... wasuyanyamalala wedding day yet he promised my cousins kuthi uzobalayisha to my weeding. I am still married shem 😂😂😂😂 21years later
Kyafana guys if ingane zihlale kamseleku benizothi uvuyokazi ushiye ingane .and lapha there's lot of drama and many mothers and step mothers.Vuyokazi did what best for his children..Yes kids will make their own decisions but she tryed ....
So xolani's kid is going to UK or only baka vuyokazi ai yazi Nina. U all forget that this guy has a kid and is vuyo ready to be a step mom or its true that all this are for the show not reality of how this are
Okubuhlungu ngizwela izingane kuyoyonke le fiasco iingane zakweminye imizi especially ikhaya okwenziwa kulo usiko ngisho ungayilobola izolifuna ikhaya uVuyo udale I complications ebantwaneni imagine izobangwa yidalwa zakubo nezala zilotsholwe khona ningamshayela izandla ma fans wakhe but she has no idea what she buzani mina okwamele ngibuselwe esbongweni sakubo mawami mina iyangicasula into yokusebenzisa iingane to settle scores with the ex
SingamaXhosa thina, abantwana abahlawulwanga, uXolani ulobole so nguye utata. If the Mseleku wanted those kids they should have done things according to the Xhosa culture. Those kids don't belong to the Mselekus according to Xhosa culture as they failed to do what the culture requires of them.
When i first saw this vuyokazi thing ,i was like i hope the intentions are pure, the kids wld hv left them with the original family.....kids can b taken only if there are no partenal family in the picture ,so the thing of loboling the kids just bcoz they are hlawula-d ...s not true
