Since I turned 30 years old, (also have a significant gender bias in my family, favoring boys over girls. ) Now, at the age of 38, I can say that I am much happier, earning significantly more than before. I consider myself fortunate and lucky. There is a belief that if you neglect or mistreat your parents, you will face negative consequences. However, I want to emphasize that this belief is not always true. If your parents do not show love for you, undermine your confidence, and derive pleasure from your sadness, please do not make excuses to protect them, such as blaming it on their low educational background. The reality is that they simply do not love you. This issue is particularly prevalent in Chinese culture, where boys are often favored over girls, and girls are not given the same level of care and attention.