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@reggiejones9772
@reggiejones9772 Месяц назад
I left my wife of 30 years for the reasons Crimson Cure is talking about. Everything I said fell on deaf ears, and EVERYTHING was my fault. Now she's trying to turn my youngest daughter against me. Smh..
@azariahyisrael3209
@azariahyisrael3209 Месяц назад
My good brother, you invested 30 years, and she still didn't listen. Women rate themselves too high and are poor listeners.
@patrickmccane3708
@patrickmccane3708 Месяц назад
It wouldn't have taken me 3 decades
@Dr.Thomas_Elliot
@Dr.Thomas_Elliot Месяц назад
You have two choices; accept the stress and struggle or forget about it. I made my choice.
@Payday-ky7mb
@Payday-ky7mb Месяц назад
Text book stuff. No accountability when women are in the wrong. Leave and don’t look back.
@karlyxbosikoro5448
@karlyxbosikoro5448 Месяц назад
Mine was bizarre! After disrespects, not taking me seriously when I complained about her hygienic antics, taking care of the kids and financing the family, she had the audacity to file for divorce because she was "tired after 16yrs of marriage". I left without looking back. Today I am happier and healthier than ever! A real blessing in disguise for me!
@lilbfrom094princeton8
@lilbfrom094princeton8 Месяц назад
Too much playing… Women play entirely too much nowadays. They are really worse than children at times.
@brokemillionaire6874
@brokemillionaire6874 Месяц назад
Facts..💯
@cactaceous
@cactaceous Месяц назад
Yup. You don’t lie.
@tonyshearin4707
@tonyshearin4707 Месяц назад
Truth and I’m a man saying this 😮
@brandijohnson1326
@brandijohnson1326 Месяц назад
So true🙄
@brandijohnson1326
@brandijohnson1326 Месяц назад
So true🤦
@williethomas4889
@williethomas4889 Месяц назад
Women’s intuition-- She can”tell” when he’s cheating, but CANNOT tell when he’s unhappy!!-
@KtotheG
@KtotheG Месяц назад
They think men only exist to serve them.
@ericbush6124
@ericbush6124 Месяц назад
Isn't that funny But can't tell when he is unhappy it'd narcissistic
@user-tn7bh2yk3z
@user-tn7bh2yk3z Месяц назад
Her heart is in her vagina
@ojalara3937
@ojalara3937 Месяц назад
Lol. You sound young. Women don’t care about how you feel
@williethomas4889
@williethomas4889 Месяц назад
@@ojalara3937 regarding my comment.. today’s word of the day is “ IRONY” do you understand the concept of irony boys and girls??
@rolandmarkland6844
@rolandmarkland6844 Месяц назад
Women overrate themselves and therefore think we are beneath them. They are legends in their own minds.
@jstreets1983
@jstreets1983 Месяц назад
Men leave because the woman they settled for wasn’t worth it to begin with and he can’t fix her so eventually he stops wasting his own time.
@mysticakhenaton1701
@mysticakhenaton1701 Месяц назад
and men are the ones who SETTLE. NOT women.
@jan-cq5wv
@jan-cq5wv Месяц назад
TRUE!!!!!
@anthonywilliams9415
@anthonywilliams9415 Месяц назад
📠
@DamienKross20
@DamienKross20 Месяц назад
💯
@KtotheG
@KtotheG Месяц назад
Men need to accept at least two laws in the universe. 1) Women don't love you. 2) You can't make women happy.
@dyates12
@dyates12 Месяц назад
Men, stay away from Single Mothers for God's sake!!
@Denzelswife-rb7qz
@Denzelswife-rb7qz Месяц назад
or stop making them lol
@naimreed8247
@naimreed8247 Месяц назад
We're grandfathering it in. We're awake and this is going to change among the best of us.
@naimreed8247
@naimreed8247 Месяц назад
​@@Denzelswife-rb7qzfemales choose that phenomenon, not men
@kingmaafa120
@kingmaafa120 Месяц назад
@@Denzelswife-rb7qzfacts😅
@Lonewolf-UP_Acts2.38
@Lonewolf-UP_Acts2.38 Месяц назад
​@@Denzelswife-rb7qzOver 50% of us black men are childless including myself, over 30% of men with children are married or stepfathers or have joint custody(lack of better term), only a small percentage of males have children out of wedlock. Stop the cap, bruh. Get out of your denial and face reality.
@aiynaiy
@aiynaiy Месяц назад
I left because I simply will not take lip from a disrespectful child that isnt mine while the mother defends their misbehavior.
@haggai3.477
@haggai3.477 Месяц назад
*IF* you *DON'T RESPECT YOURSELF* *NOBODY ELSE* will *RESPECT YOU* *TO RESPECT* something or *SOMEONE* is to find it/ them *VALUABLE* *ULTIMATELY* the *VALUE OF ANYTHING* is determined by its *RARITY* *NOBODY ELSE* on the *PLANET* has *YOUR FINGERPRINT* *ABSOLUTELY NOBODY*
@patrickmccane3708
@patrickmccane3708 Месяц назад
Amen too both comments
@fefe917
@fefe917 Месяц назад
A friend of mine just left his fiancé for this same reason.. and what makes it even worse, her children were grown 🤦🏽
@aiynaiy
@aiynaiy Месяц назад
@@fefe917 Same here. Daughter was 20 yo. Got pregnant while still in high school. Raiding her own dauhter at home. Lazy, no discipline, not in school, can't keep a job. Bad influence on her cousins. All her friends got pregnant in high school. Mama still treats her like a 7 yo.
@KorduroyD.-hv8ww
@KorduroyD.-hv8ww Месяц назад
Amen that is so true 💯 I left my wife for the same reason as well !!!
@thaiboxing67
@thaiboxing67 Месяц назад
Black men of value have started to understand their value and worth on the dating market and are no longer tolerating the boo boo the fool nonsense
@alsimmons1650
@alsimmons1650 Месяц назад
Their mad that BM have freed themselves from the plantation by exploring their options. I know this cause I've bounced off the plantation in late '94 early '95. And for the record if you notice zaddy is on the warpath deleting them as more & more BM are freeing themselves by exploring their options. They failed at being the greatest soldier in his army So he see's them as expendable.
@thaiboxing67
@thaiboxing67 Месяц назад
@@alsimmons1650 I too am noticing that “Big Daddy” lol is not giving any breaks as well but yet a lot of them still want to ride or die for the team that from the beginning wanted them to lose on all fronts
@BLKMALETV
@BLKMALETV Месяц назад
Finally
@alsimmons1650
@alsimmons1650 Месяц назад
@thaiboxing67 🎯 Remember the song from the bodyguard Film "I will always love you" that song was dedicated to zaddy. Them being on code against us and with him no matter what is why that song was a huge hit and BW especially loved it. I remember Whitney & Bobby was in a photo shot with Kevin Costner you can see the dirty look Bobby was giving him it wouldn't surprise me the lease if KC was smashing her and booby knew it.
@alsimmons1650
@alsimmons1650 Месяц назад
@thaiboxing67 Remember the bodyguard "I will always love you". That sums it up right there. That song was a huge it for a reason. There was a photo shot of Bobby & Whitney & Kevin Bobby was giving him a dirty look I wouldn't be surprised the lease if he was smashing that discreetly plantation style.
@jasonBGI
@jasonBGI Месяц назад
Men: what price are you willing to pay for peace of mind? If the cost is more than the value she brings...it's a simple decision.
@jesussson3467
@jesussson3467 Месяц назад
say it again jasonBGI, i dont think they heard you
@haggai3.477
@haggai3.477 Месяц назад
*WHEN PRICE* is an *ISSUE* *VALUE* is a *MYSTERY* *PEACE* is *SPIRITUAL STABILITY* *PEACE* is the *PAYMENT* for *DWELLING IN THE PRESENCE OF THE OMNIPOTENT, OMNIPRESENT, OMNISCIENT LIVING GOD*
@SoularLights
@SoularLights Месяц назад
Absolute wisdom ma man. 🙏
@anthonywilliams9415
@anthonywilliams9415 Месяц назад
📠
@dlx6028
@dlx6028 Месяц назад
*Spot on. Women look for reasons to leave. Men look for reasons to stay.*
@Ptah1130
@Ptah1130 Месяц назад
I said this to my wife the other day
@KtotheG
@KtotheG Месяц назад
"The divorce is planned before the wedding" - Coach Greg Adams
@davisjones3725
@davisjones3725 Месяц назад
That's a fact.. Good word
@THIRDWARD333
@THIRDWARD333 Месяц назад
She's absolutely right and we're sick of it.
@DVX755
@DVX755 Месяц назад
My father passed away and I mourned him, and for some reason my girlfriend saw this as some weakness and changed. She was not empathetic, because she never had a father. She could not understand my pain......so I left her immediately and never called her back. Since she never had a father, she would not respect ME because she never respected a man.
@mentlinc
@mentlinc Месяц назад
You did the right thing. My bm did not like and accept my family cuz they were different than hers but I accepted hers. It threw the whole relationship off
@biznessmn76
@biznessmn76 Месяц назад
You did the right thing Bro!
@erickonassis6310
@erickonassis6310 Месяц назад
Good you saw the writing on the wall, they are miserable, draining people
@ImmortalGods
@ImmortalGods Месяц назад
I learned a long time ago never date a woman that didn't have her father in her life. They are broken...
@Tony2Times-jn1jq
@Tony2Times-jn1jq Месяц назад
Bro same here. That’s crazy your story similar to mine my father died this chick slept like a baby while next to her didn’t even comfort me
@JB-tz8fu
@JB-tz8fu Месяц назад
Know your worth, men. Please stop accepting verbally abusive women in your life. You have the right to say No to a woman today. Good luck out there. June is Mens Mental Health Awareness Month
@t_adams
@t_adams Месяц назад
Many women talk about "emotional intelligence" and do not know the meaning of the term. So many men are just walking away because that is the only time so many women do finally hear a man, is when he leaves nothing but silence. Then they act confused.
@evos469
@evos469 Месяц назад
The term is an oxymoron
@user-bh6pq9oj9l
@user-bh6pq9oj9l Месяц назад
Most females are very emotionally UNINTELLIGENT and immature.
@airthrowDBT
@airthrowDBT Месяц назад
Emotional intelligence is a manipulation tactic. To women it means agreeing with them, nothing more.
@sayitaintso7544
@sayitaintso7544 Месяц назад
Around 60% of men have just dropped out of the dating scene. Women refuse to admit that their attitudes and actions(their greed, arrogance and laziness, disrespect and disloyalty) are the root cause.
@robbylebotha
@robbylebotha Месяц назад
And then they say you're a narcissist and abusive lol. Standard protocol
@user-gi2et5oc8v
@user-gi2et5oc8v Месяц назад
They don't wanna be saved...don't save them! Save yourself 🤫
@SoularLights
@SoularLights Месяц назад
That’s fire ma man. 🔥 👀
@mythic7327
@mythic7327 Месяц назад
I'll say this once...Most women only care about themselves. Nothing more. Then when they come back they still don't care they just miss the attention that you gave them. They will ALWAYS play the victim as men you should expect that when things don't work. Honestly it's just not worth it anymore dealing with them.
@King-ns7it
@King-ns7it Месяц назад
Man I just said that to my ex, it's the attention that they are seeking. The attention that a husband gives is wife is way different then dudes in the street. So they play nice and open you back up, only to go back to their same ways, smh
@Ptah1130
@Ptah1130 Месяц назад
You ain't never lied!!!
@KtotheG
@KtotheG Месяц назад
If she doesn't come back literally crying and crawling on her knees, you shouldn't even consider it.. and even then, you should leave her be... but it's not true repentance unless she understands her role as a wife, which is your help meet and not your boss.
@t_adams
@t_adams Месяц назад
Men fighting for something only you want gets you nothing but an early grave. Save yourself the grief and just leave.
@jasonBGI
@jasonBGI Месяц назад
Roger that. In Barbados we have a saying "one hand can't clap."
@barackthecomposer6642
@barackthecomposer6642 Месяц назад
@@jasonBGI Please elaborate
@bonafidetruckingpresentsea8222
@bonafidetruckingpresentsea8222 Месяц назад
Not one lie
@bonafidetruckingpresentsea8222
@bonafidetruckingpresentsea8222 Месяц назад
​@barackthecomposer6642 it's the equivalent of taking two to tango
@jasonBGI
@jasonBGI Месяц назад
@barackthecomposer6642 2 to tango...if you're the only one that's participating in a marriage what's the point? Might as well be by yourself.
@blackstallion4857
@blackstallion4857 Месяц назад
I know a woman who had 3 husband's she divorced the first two and the third one divorced her. At her big age of 70 she still doesn’t see anything wrong with her actions and is still blaming men for her terrible attitude and sense of self entitlement.
@drusato1209
@drusato1209 Месяц назад
Sounds like jay low in another 15 years 😂😂😂
@KtotheG
@KtotheG Месяц назад
My mother is almost 70 and she thinks she's perfect, too
@mysticakhenaton1701
@mysticakhenaton1701 Месяц назад
ZERO accountability equals ZERO growth as a person. and us men KNOW who have a HARD time with accountability, and growth.
@Illalcap
@Illalcap Месяц назад
This is what I experienced with my ex wife. I tried over and over to get her to understand how her behavior and actions disregarded and disrespected me and it never registered. When i finally made the decision to end the marriage and told her, she LITERALLY tried to fight me. Now she tells everyone how she was a victim who survived our marriage. Its almost like she was married to a whole other person to hear her speak about me. I recognize the truth now, about her and about women in general, and I'm thankful God showed me when it was time to go.
@theblackmarvel7395
@theblackmarvel7395 Месяц назад
As a man, I am HAPPILY DIVORCED and I was the defendant!
@Mr.Edwards233
@Mr.Edwards233 Месяц назад
Of course you were, we're always the defendants in the family and divorce courts
@user-xz2jb8fk6c
@user-xz2jb8fk6c Месяц назад
Modern women have this belief that it is okay to punish men of the present for the sins of men of the past. I wonder if men adopted the same approach if they would appreciate it
@Koyasi78
@Koyasi78 Месяц назад
Of course not that's why they're crying now on social media about drizzle drizzle
@R_W_Goodson
@R_W_Goodson Месяц назад
@@Koyasi78 …and crying about being disqualified for being an unwed “Baby Mama”.
@Koyasi78
@Koyasi78 Месяц назад
@@R_W_Goodson was talking to this woman and discovered she was recently divorced. I'm already thinking it's time to go (no single mom's, no divorcees) but I hang awhile to do my due diligence. She tells me her ex was crazy, narc, cheated on her etc. Then she tells she'll get what she deserves and what's owed to her. At this point I'm done but still curious so I ask her who owes her? She tells me her ex. I ask her if they're still in communication. She says hell no. So I ask her who she expects to pay her what her ex owes her. She had no answer. Then I left. They simply don't get it.
@blaclux
@blaclux Месяц назад
All women have the (ability) to be this way. My Japanese wife of 20 years is, unfortunately proving the point. I retired after 20 years of military service and she told me that she was embarrassed to tell her friends that I RETIRED at a lower rank as her friend’s husbands. This along with the belittling, constant complaining, and sexlessness, after conquering PTSD, depression, and climbing out of that “life ending dark place” on my own, I realized with continuing emotion and psychological abuse, it’s time to plan my escape. I’m just sorry I didn’t see it sooner.
@background187
@background187 Месяц назад
What you said is proof that women of all backgrounds can be just as rotten. Too many cats think being with an Asian broad is the answer, BUT they're women just like the rest of them. Individual results vary ofc but to keep hearing that Japanese/asian women are the bee's knees is sickening asl. They act like those same women don't do their own men dirty as well.
@kingmaafa120
@kingmaafa120 Месяц назад
Not with them ….everyone thinks submissive Japan 🇯🇵 ladies ok 😅esp if they get westernized
@DavidG.Hudson
@DavidG.Hudson Месяц назад
Run FORREST Run
@kingmaafa120
@kingmaafa120 Месяц назад
@@DavidG.Hudson facts
@saintgermain6031
@saintgermain6031 Месяц назад
I told an ex and my exact words to her was "You aren't helping me". I said this to her at least on three different occasions over a two year period. She never responded and looked at me like I said something in Chinese to her. She was dismissed and started calling me right after. I never took her calls.
@Marisa-om8cm
@Marisa-om8cm Месяц назад
Yes they are mean!! Women who treat their man like this also treat others this way. They are mean and disrespectful to their friends and children as well. They are selfish all the way around and wonder why they have a hard time finding real connections. Instead they surround themselves with a bunch of other hyenas that encourage their bad behavior.
@Koyasi78
@Koyasi78 Месяц назад
Or worse, they live a totally isolated life stuck in their own fantasy and bubble.
@Mr.Edwards233
@Mr.Edwards233 Месяц назад
@@Koyasi78 And come back around them when they're 50-70 y/o, miserable as hell. I just witnessed this in the grocery store.
@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71
@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71 Месяц назад
This is true and I have seen proof of it.
@SoularLights
@SoularLights Месяц назад
🙏 dead on
@dmappzoom6778
@dmappzoom6778 Месяц назад
what's sad is the fact, this is my aunt to a t.
@zetnodevol8457
@zetnodevol8457 Месяц назад
Then they cheat then blame you because it was how you've made them feel behind telling them about themselves in the first fkn place.
@curtishampton2212
@curtishampton2212 Месяц назад
So you want a leader but you can't follow direction, make it make since.🤔
@McKillahGuerilla
@McKillahGuerilla Месяц назад
Growing up, my dad always told me and my brothers that if someone always acts and portrays themselves as the "perfect" one then that's they're the core problem; that goes for any type of relationship, because that demonstrates that that person lacks and avoids accountability, and in my experience including 8 years in the Marines that is absolutely true. Nobody is perfect and it takes 2 to tango, so anybody claiming they didn't do anything wrong or they minimize their errors compared to everyone else involved is the person who required extra looking into.
@scorpionking6105
@scorpionking6105 Месяц назад
She nailed it🎯🎯🎯🎯
@seersoftimez
@seersoftimez Месяц назад
Personally, I leave when she doesn't reciprocate the energy im giving her. Something as little as not sending me a good morning text to check on me but I'm constantly checking up on you. Im out!!
@brooklynstudent73
@brooklynstudent73 Месяц назад
Facts! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@TheJapan38
@TheJapan38 Месяц назад
How mean a lot of these women are cannot be stated enough. And mean without being prompted! Just mean for the sake of being mean. I told a lady friend that I wouldn't date her because of how mean she is and she looked at me like I was crazy. They do think men are just supposed to take the abuse.
@ayoakinlabi6334
@ayoakinlabi6334 Месяц назад
They learned these evil and ignorant ways from their Mothers, Aunties, GrandMas, maybe Grandmamas, and the too much crazy degenerant TV shows Housewives of ATL, Basketball Wives and the Hollywood movies where they have seen women slap men's faces and no consequences. Most American women are witches and they don't even know because their behaviors are too destructive and men should leave a crazy woman to herself.
@tobeamazingtoo8881
@tobeamazingtoo8881 Месяц назад
So true. I told my wife a few things years before I filed for divorce. Then she broke the camel's back. I told her I'm done. We were married 16.5 years. She had 2 kids before we married and then had two together.
@barackthecomposer6642
@barackthecomposer6642 Месяц назад
So sorry to hear that my brother. On a scale of one to 10, what level of pain did this cause you?
@seersoftimez
@seersoftimez Месяц назад
Damn im sorry brother. That must have been very difficult to bear
@SuperheroJunior
@SuperheroJunior Месяц назад
​@@seersoftimez Thank God I got my passport renewed already 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am visiting Cebu in the Philippines 🇵🇭
@KtotheG
@KtotheG Месяц назад
Was it really 8.25 years of marriage? They say when you divorce, you divide the time in half and that's when you were really divorced, because you spend the other half either trying to fix it or going through the motions.
@barackthecomposer6642
@barackthecomposer6642 Месяц назад
@@KtotheG Or planning the exit$$$
@myklo4269
@myklo4269 Месяц назад
Women talk about being emotional intelligence, and I think they think because they talk about their emotions that they're more tuned with them but based from my experience, they don't acknowledge their shortcomings. Which is why I tell men to do these things: 1. Get closer to the GOD of your understanding because he's the one that knows and understand and more importanly: listens. 2. Find male social groups where you can discuss issues and find solutions 3. Go to a male therapist. Someone that resembles you and understand the male's persepective. Ladies, communication isn't about just talking, it's about listening and comprehension as well. Once you don't listen or comprehend what the man is saying, YOU lost him. All the sex, cooking and cleaning don't matter if a man can't express himself to his woman.
@King-ns7it
@King-ns7it Месяц назад
Facts brother, you spoke a word just now💪🏾🙏🏾
@LyvWyre313
@LyvWyre313 Месяц назад
🎯📢💯💯💯
@LyvWyre313
@LyvWyre313 Месяц назад
​@@King-ns7itDidn't he though??? 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💯
@DavidG.Hudson
@DavidG.Hudson Месяц назад
I approve this message.
@ddub2801
@ddub2801 Месяц назад
“ he was abuuuusivecannd a narcissist “ 😂😂
@Mr.Edwards233
@Mr.Edwards233 Месяц назад
I've realized over the years of living, that no matter how good they're treated, many women will find a way to screw it up and destroy it. My former GF confessed this to me a few weeks ago, finally admitted that she was treated well but for years played victim. Told me that she felt that men didn't have feelings, until after I left.
@erickonassis6310
@erickonassis6310 Месяц назад
Man that's crazy, it's good us nen are comparing notes, and changing accordingly
@Koyasi78
@Koyasi78 Месяц назад
True. I tell women right up front how to keep me and how to lose me. People who care about you listen. So when they push it to see if I'm real and I leave on the first incident they have nothing to complain about and I maintain my peace rather than bickering over and over wasting time.
@tommies3772
@tommies3772 Месяц назад
My 26 year marriage failed do to emotional beat down, lies and physical abuse. On her end.
@big_prev
@big_prev Месяц назад
Damn, this short video had me almost in tears… it’s crazy how so many women don’t recognize what they are doing until it’s too late.
@andre1987eph
@andre1987eph Месяц назад
1) No tears. Maintain masculinity. 2) you should have left American women decades ago.
@mysticakhenaton1701
@mysticakhenaton1701 Месяц назад
they know, they just DON'T care until it's too late.
@Mr.Edwards233
@Mr.Edwards233 Месяц назад
O no they know exactly what they're doing, it's just that many of them believe that as a man, you're just supposed to take it, suck it up, be a man and keep moving. Nope, new day new time.
@erickonassis6310
@erickonassis6310 Месяц назад
It's never too late, they never recognize, they.ll lie and say they understand now, and if you come back, same mess
@dontaskme5526
@dontaskme5526 Месяц назад
That’s damn near every woman in my family
@keeganmurphy1
@keeganmurphy1 Месяц назад
Facts. Whenever you mention how you genuinely feel as a man it is called gaslighting and being ‘abusive’
@bornphilosopher
@bornphilosopher Месяц назад
BM became crash test dummies for the women of the society.
@xocolatl3682
@xocolatl3682 29 дней назад
Yup. They watch black women, take all their greatness, and leave the bs to them.
@aychmorgan21
@aychmorgan21 Месяц назад
I’m getting there, the excuses I say to myself to convince myself to stay aren’t working like they used to…
@larryward2.082
@larryward2.082 Месяц назад
The video and your commentary describes my ex ... line for line bar for bar. After I moved on she said to me : " She gets the version of you I should have gotten, she gets the more calm & peaceful you" I said " she doesn't come half cocked and she doesn't stress me out" DUUUUHHHH
@R_W_Goodson
@R_W_Goodson Месяц назад
What was her response? Thank you for telling her that!
@KC-lg8qf
@KC-lg8qf Месяц назад
Yup this has been my experience with women as well....and the more you give a woman, the worse it gets. You have to be mean, uncaring and detached to maintain respect and proper behavior from a woman. Honestly you also need to have other women to maintain her respect. When she has nothing to compete against, she begins to take you for granted. I just believe it's a womans nature. You would have to be insane to commit to one of these modern western women long term.
@andre1987eph
@andre1987eph Месяц назад
They're Rebellious and Disobedient to their Creator. What chance do we have with them?
@mentlinc
@mentlinc Месяц назад
This is FACTS. I have tried and proven what you just said. The less you care and less you listen to them the more respect you get and it's sad but real.
@Koyasi78
@Koyasi78 Месяц назад
​@@andre1987eph none. And why would we want a chance? Their only value is sexual pleasure and their insane levels of anxiety, depression, self hated and neuroticism makes that questionable. A good woman is like a true God fearing man, they are far and few between. Logically it makes no sense for every women to be a virtuous women otherwise there would be no need to define what a virtuous women is.
@KC-lg8qf
@KC-lg8qf Месяц назад
@@andre1987eph exactly!
@KC-lg8qf
@KC-lg8qf Месяц назад
@@mentlinc 100% correct.
@kentay1224
@kentay1224 Месяц назад
I was married for over 20 years and I approve this message!!!
@AC-ss5oy
@AC-ss5oy Месяц назад
everything she explained is my mom in a nutshell.
@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71
@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71 Месяц назад
A none virtuous woman shuts down when I ask the following question. "Are you truly a virtuous woman?" Well I have yet to get an honest yes to that question. Their reactions to that question exposes them like an open book.
@Mr.Edwards233
@Mr.Edwards233 Месяц назад
"What's that supposed to mean?" or "What you mean by that?" 😄
@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71
@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71 Месяц назад
@@Mr.Edwards233 I don't answer to simps so go back to putting your neck on the chopping block for the witches you apparently are a worshipping slave to. That's idolatry. You have not a clue so go hustle and buy one. In the meantime reread my comment and learn from it or stay delusional clueless misused abused and miserable. By the way if you don't know where virtue comes from then you are as lost as the none virtuous women you apparently simp for. LoL 😂😂😂
@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71
@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71 Месяц назад
@@Mr.Edwards233 To be a simp is commiting idolatry. Did you not know that?!!!
@R_W_Goodson
@R_W_Goodson Месяц назад
@@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71 His comment was how SHE would respond to your question.
@jonathanthorogood7377
@jonathanthorogood7377 Месяц назад
I appreciate you saying the part about women not thinking because they don't yell and curse, they're not being mean-spirited and condescending (with emphasis on the latter). 🙏🏿💯
@yahokunun
@yahokunun Месяц назад
No disrespect to you or the brother, sis. But i love you how you articulate and how honest you talk. If just 30% of our sisters even had a glimmer of the mindset you have, we could build our people back to greatness. Thanks for the great content.
@bigtruckdriva901
@bigtruckdriva901 Месяц назад
I wish i had this content 5 years ago
@andre1987eph
@andre1987eph Месяц назад
I needed this content 12 years ago 😅
@darrieng6608
@darrieng6608 Месяц назад
Experience and confidence in your TRUE nature(regardless of external things/people) is why you supposed to hear it now! Would you rather learn to swim by being thrown in? Or watch RU-vid videos about swimming and never touch water?
@elizamack4512
@elizamack4512 Месяц назад
I watched my mom talk to my dad snappy my entire childhood and then when I grew up. I REFUSED!! Why would a man be in love with a woman that he can be in trouble with for just exsisting. I wanted my husband to adore me not tolerate me. And he does🤗🤗🤗
@R_W_Goodson
@R_W_Goodson Месяц назад
Bless you for being a wise wife!
@jonadams2334
@jonadams2334 Месяц назад
No woman is worth having high blood pressure (hypertension) and/some other cardiovascular issues. Take it from a black man who has been diagnosed with chronic hypertension and heart failure. Yeah, being alone can be painful sometimes, but, something has to give.
@wesleyhillard4491
@wesleyhillard4491 Месяц назад
Yup I left my wife for these exact reasons. And I'm not coming back no matter how much she tries to persuade me. I like them overseas women. Passport Life lives on.
@andre1987eph
@andre1987eph Месяц назад
Better to discover your value late than never. Congrats at discovering passport life
@wesleyhillard4491
@wesleyhillard4491 Месяц назад
@@andre1987eph thanks friend
@wesleyhillard4491
@wesleyhillard4491 Месяц назад
@@andre1987eph Thanks bruh
@erickonassis6310
@erickonassis6310 Месяц назад
Not just your girl either, when I.m out if a BW is the cashier or customer service, I find another person
@kevinumba6281
@kevinumba6281 Месяц назад
I drive to the next store
@R_W_Goodson
@R_W_Goodson Месяц назад
@@kevinumba6281 Damn, lol!
@haroldharris184
@haroldharris184 Месяц назад
It's basically to late
@papa6bell
@papa6bell Месяц назад
"too late"
@Malik.Deyon777
@Malik.Deyon777 Месяц назад
It's what they say or what they don't say it's disrespectful 💯
@TyroneDewayne
@TyroneDewayne Месяц назад
Imma come with the direct energy of a veteran. Us men are the legitimately most desired men on earth. We’re respected everywhere we go. I seen it traveling in the military. Our women are seen as the least feminine, honorable, and desirable women on earth. (Not saying I agree this is the perception). Meanwhile there is no other women that show the disdain and disrespect to their men. How can the most desired be the most disrespected by the least desired and be evenly yoked? One deviated from their nature the other hasn’t.
@andre1987eph
@andre1987eph Месяц назад
Yes we are. Traditional Women around the world know we make the best partners. I have seen that myself traveling the world. I was welcomed into German even Russian homes as a potential husband to the family's daughters.
@TyroneDewayne
@TyroneDewayne Месяц назад
@@andre1987eph I’m talking to people that look like me not concerned about snow people business. No matter how much I can’t stand the cave people y’all the same people 💯
@jamesmcclain4588
@jamesmcclain4588 Месяц назад
But the selfishness won't allow them to care
@mysticakhenaton1701
@mysticakhenaton1701 Месяц назад
BIG ego won't.
@househeadspeakz
@househeadspeakz Месяц назад
When you try to tell these women (not all), it goes in one ear and comes out the other. That is when you say screw it.
@lsporter88
@lsporter88 Месяц назад
Exactly so. Disrespect will be rewarded with absence from a Masculine Man who knows his worth. Don't f**k around and find out. Superb commentary.
@fight4blaque529
@fight4blaque529 Месяц назад
Why I left TWICE? My first and second BOTH got pregnant outside of our marriages. Second, neither one wanted to progress in life and acquire essentials like home ownership, investments, controlled spending, generational wealth. And lastly, the individuals outside of our homes infiltrated our households with their issues and I was kindly warned that 'girlfriends' and ex-lovers, retched in-laws, and all other desirables TOOK PRESEDENCE over me and my authority as being the head of the household. 😐 So...I left! 😊 Now, I am at peace concentrating on me and looking forward to finding that beautiful, Black woman I SHOULD have married years ago.
@R_W_Goodson
@R_W_Goodson Месяц назад
Cultural upbringing AND inherit personality trait matters.
@MrMeldog80
@MrMeldog80 Месяц назад
She aint said one lie " if it aint no peace it wont be no lease"😊😊
@tonydavid492
@tonydavid492 Месяц назад
That's why I left a beautiful Woman that I truly loved. She ignored my concerns. I hope she will learn from her mistakes. Peace and blessings
@montrez350
@montrez350 Месяц назад
I’m in this situation right now. Smh
@Mr.Edwards233
@Mr.Edwards233 Месяц назад
GET OUT BROTHA. Disappear... NOW
@DerellRutherford
@DerellRutherford Месяц назад
At the end of the day it's because they want to keep their options open for something better.
@lordsinister707
@lordsinister707 Месяц назад
That's the problem. Women think emotional intelligence is the ability to take their abuse in stride. It is actually the ability to determine whom is best for their emotional stability
@shawnperry8050
@shawnperry8050 Месяц назад
Spot on
@SCBMusic1
@SCBMusic1 Месяц назад
Horrible and absolutely avoidable
@christophersimmons8714
@christophersimmons8714 Месяц назад
If she isn’t a HELPMEET, I can’t HELP HER
@AMGW11
@AMGW11 Месяц назад
Hehe, saw something on the news about a man cutting off his wife's ears for failing to listen to him.😂😂
@ps112man3
@ps112man3 Месяц назад
The purpose of the rib is to maintain structural integrity of the body and protect the critical parts A men know that a women is not safe to be around based on the words that come out of her mouth and her actions
@albertsmalls6941
@albertsmalls6941 Месяц назад
This woman is spot on!!!!
@davidseverin7764
@davidseverin7764 28 дней назад
I remember that. Telling my wife (at the time) "you have friends, and you're friendly to them.. but with me you act like I'm your enemy" .. tota flash back.
@Kwabenata.Etu0hene
@Kwabenata.Etu0hene Месяц назад
I filed for divorce from my ex-wife after 9 years of marriage. I built her a house, purchased an acre of land, bought her a car, paid 100% of the bills for 9 years and let her keep all her money from work. Even though I was THE provider of the family, she never listened to me and refused to give bedroom time or peace of mind. The marriage was purely transactional. She took everything and gave nothing in return.
@2MuchMoneyOutHere
@2MuchMoneyOutHere Месяц назад
Women of this community now of days are no longer equipped for the long haul of marriage. They are taught to cut and run. No of them ever talk about the work they put into a relationship and lost after a break up. Unless it’s with a person they knew it was never going to work with in the first place. That way they have the victim card to play.
@R_W_Goodson
@R_W_Goodson Месяц назад
…or they’ll stay I. The marriage to make the husband miserable.
@jrr7031
@jrr7031 Месяц назад
I can hear the "pick-me" comments gettin ready to fly, from of course..ALL THE SINGLE LADIES.
@christophersterling6788
@christophersterling6788 Месяц назад
Facts, Auntie CC.
@shambejones4189
@shambejones4189 Месяц назад
Mad Facts!!!!!!
@gordiaugustin4062
@gordiaugustin4062 Месяц назад
Wow, when she said “how you friendly with the outside world but the man loving you at home gets super nasty and pissy behavior?” -speaking on my life. I would tell her that often, a damn stranger at grocery store gets immediate friendly and customer service Joy but I have to “fix your hangry” first? FOH
@BronxBombers_726
@BronxBombers_726 Месяц назад
"A male bird will not land in a nest with many thorns."🤔🤔
@kenweston2600
@kenweston2600 Месяц назад
Simple truth. You have called it chaos in other blogs. ❤ You crimson cure.
@terencew7716
@terencew7716 Месяц назад
Men don't wanna deal with a woman's attitude or drama when they are in a relationship/marriage
@andre1987eph
@andre1987eph Месяц назад
Im 58, i have been without romantic relationship for the vast majority of my life. You're assuming guys like me are going to tolerate even the slightest tests and drama. You are vastly miscalculating. I already have my eyes set on a foreign retirement. I gave up on American born women in the early 1990s after I had my first foreign born girlfiend.
@kevinumba6281
@kevinumba6281 Месяц назад
I gave up on American Women years ago. They're not in it for the long haul
@roy-haroldthompson4650
@roy-haroldthompson4650 Месяц назад
I'm 48. I dated a wonderful Asian woman that was 5 years older then me. We are still friends, we live in different cities.
@vmw0710
@vmw0710 28 дней назад
I rolled out 32 years ago & haven't looked back🫵FACT.
@themayne6303
@themayne6303 Месяц назад
These particular women want to be this way cause it feels & they can go tell their friend or sisters how they have to talk to him.
@victorboone2053
@victorboone2053 Месяц назад
When a man's spirit talks to him from God about his wife he is right! My wife treated me like I was a damn butler. I'm waiting for my divorce now!
@KROMERES
@KROMERES Месяц назад
Is she speaking all that truth while up in the Lamb? Or is that the Rarri?
@ORIGINAL__ONE
@ORIGINAL__ONE Месяц назад
When a woman don't listen I leave quick
@W.W.Podcast
@W.W.Podcast Месяц назад
This woman is on the money. But in most cases, men ultimately leave bc woman threat to leave first then pretend to be shocked when the man accepts her threats and walk away. A man can only accept disrespect but for so long before fully accepts it will never change. It’s amazing how even woman with children from other men even began to show disrespect once she feels safe in a good relationship. Shame shame shame smh
@GuyIncognito__
@GuyIncognito__ Месяц назад
This is why Becky wins...
@andre1987eph
@andre1987eph Месяц назад
More like Svetlana , and Ming Lee 😅
@Koyasi78
@Koyasi78 Месяц назад
​@@andre1987eph I was about to say. Becky is trying to be Shaniqua while Shaniqua of trying to be Becky. It's a sick dance between white and black women. Personally I can't do white women. Too clueless and more manipulative.
@Tony2Times-jn1jq
@Tony2Times-jn1jq Месяц назад
Nah they all the same in America
@GuyIncognito__
@GuyIncognito__ Месяц назад
@@Tony2Times-jn1jq ok...
@Michael_ATL_82
@Michael_ATL_82 Месяц назад
KENDRA🔥🔥🔥
@chasencrooks7115
@chasencrooks7115 Месяц назад
So basically black women want to die alone. I don't understand why they are ALWAYS difficult. I just can't with them.
@loriparks8657
@loriparks8657 Месяц назад
What news flash has you missed since you have been here on Earth 🌎 everybody dies alone. Why can't people handle and comprehend that ? Come up with a new slogan.
@R_W_Goodson
@R_W_Goodson Месяц назад
@@loriparks8657 Let me clarify @chasencrooks7115 comment (for those with low reading comprehension): Dying without having a relationship with another person who cares about you.
@80sGenX
@80sGenX Месяц назад
1000 percent true I dealt with this
@Brotha.B.M.O.G
@Brotha.B.M.O.G 7 дней назад
Thank you for speaking to my soul Mother. ❤️
@teenermeener971
@teenermeener971 Месяц назад
We love you, but change and come back. Or stay out in the street. We not doing it anymore. Period.
@jonadams2334
@jonadams2334 Месяц назад
Some people say that accountability is like kryptonite for black women. I beg to differ. BEING CALLED OUT for unethical behaviors is kryptonite for black women (and possibly women in general).
@dolaopposite
@dolaopposite Месяц назад
My girl just dont think she has to get cute. Im looking at the front door
@keeganmurphy1
@keeganmurphy1 Месяц назад
8:29 seriously becomes depressing watching the woman who ‘loves’ you be nice to everybody in the world except you. You can only take it for so long and they act like we are seeing things that aren’t there
@SoularLights
@SoularLights Месяц назад
This video is lights out!!! Fire! This video is dead on. The absolute truth! Snarky, mean… all of that and then some.
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