She's not being genuine and you can help to update us on her. Frontal lobe is not closed until 25yrs old . She was abused in and outside of the home and this was her answer too the trauma. She's so insecure and hurt. It's okay Patricia sorry they didn't see you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 7:11
She keeps saying she "needed" a BBL at 17. Ummmm...you need a high school diploma at 17. You need working papers at 17. You need to apply to colleges at 17....
Reckless af. 😢 n to say you “needed it” you need food, air water, etc… and in her case apparently love n a positive outlook on her body n self esteem. Girl stop. 🤦🏽♀️ #ignorant
I have always been overweight, obese what ever you want to call it. My family are from Puerto Rico. My mother wanted me to get a gastric bypass and I said NO! I want to lose weight the healthy way! I’m 33 yrs old now and I’m still losing weight healthily. The only thing I’m doing is a breast reduction bc I don’t like big boobs but other than that pure exercise. I was 320 lbs and now I’m 200 lbs and I am so proud that I never ever went ahead with any surgeries.
Gastric is different because it's not solely cosmetic. Your mom was concerned about your health. Being 320 lbs can lead to some very serious health complications. Congratulations on losing that weight. It is extremely impressive you did that all on your own 🎉🎉
I got gastric sleeve and it was the best thing that I could do with my life because of my autoimmune disease and my steroids just continued to blow me up. Salute to you sis for doing it without medical intervention and salute to my sistahs who did it with medical intervention ✊🏽🙂!
@@TJJ-od6wk we had no clue he was unlicensed.. we found out after but me and my parents are positive people & we went in with a positive mindset everything came out beautifully.
She would have gotten it herself. When a person has dysmorphia disorder makes ppl so depressed they want to die. Parents don’t want their child to die or be so depressed they don’t live.
She has body dysmorphia. People who have it don't know they have it. She keeps saying she's doing it for herself, which she probably is, but she keeps finding something wrong with her body. BBL are dangerous and she had three. See she's not even done. She's never going to be satisfied.
What's even more dangerous are these "drive-through window" surgery clinics that will do BBLS, tummy tucks, etc. for the price of a Happy Meal. Sometimes, assistive staff members, NOT a licensed physician, will do the surgery at such sites!!!!
i struggled w that. after therapy, slowly growing out of it. and the minute she spoke , i knew that’s what she’s dealing w. she’s beautiful as god made her, wish we could see that.
I graduated college & have 4 houses paid off, acres, plantation property, I’m a real estate investor, stock broker & a trader… getting a bbl young never stopped anything in my life lmao.
@@niaprice3267 & what does spiritual wisdom have anything to do w/ cosmetic surgery? Lmao ya be saying anything.. if ya can’t afford anything than don’t project that shit onto me.
@@kimberlyb6522Facts! Now I don’t know what the chick that posted the video looks like but when she was going in on her and talking about she looks better than her my first thought was “nah mama you’re face is hit too” and then that husky voice…….if I was a man I would need to see a birth certificate and baby pics as proof she was born a 👧
@@kimberlyb6522wtf Are you a husband or a lesbian? why does her face need to be what you want it to be for her to be worth a happy life ? I hope ur children look in the mirror hate their face and HATE you more for it and become super depressed and theres nothing you can do. I wish that for you xx
For sure!!!! I’m 40 with 3 of my own children and a grandbaby. I still get carded and everyone always says I look too young to have a 22yr old or a grandbaby!!!🤣
Everytime he bring up mentality its totally going over her head. Whew bless and HEAL her heart and her soul. For her to be 12 and researching BBLs and she isn't even finished developing. This is such a sad story.
I understand but you have to remember this is her culture. She said that at a young age they were taught or molded into thinking about their looks and body image. So this is her norm.. no different than in the black community we become babysitters at like 9-10.. some even younger. Not saying it’s right but it’s a cultural norm
@@keida1085 I think she said her family and friends bullied her. I've heard of kids in elementary school vomiting their food because they don't want to be fat. It's unfortunate, but most of us are consumed with how we look.
@@keida1085ma’am just bc it’s OF a culture doesn’t make it healthy, she’s so beautiful refrigerator shape or not 😊 I hope she sees and understands she didn’t need this she is fine already. I’m happy she’s still able to learn and grow from her experiences but the bbl culture is BS the way it’s making women feel & think. It’s an interesting how the insurance, health, and entertainment industries are the ones EATING off this sick ahh ish. & don’t be comparing babysitting at 9-10 to being a black thing 😂 tf be fr EVERY race has experienced babysitting at a young age that was weird. More success to MAMA in the video! F these mf’s 🎉
@@PrettyFinessa I don’t know what every other culture does except mines. And I feel my comment was quite appropriate. And let’s be clear I never said anything about it being ok or healthy.
She thinks her body cute? She from the Bronx ? Ppl who get their body done thinks everyone hates on them lol ANYONE can get a BBL off care credit 😂😂😂😂.
Thankfully it wasn’t off care credit it was CASH, all 3 times.. & that’s fine if you don’t think it’s cute I didn’t get my body to please anybody but myself.. my husband LOVES IT HERE. & yes I’m from the Bronx but I moved to the Dominican Republic and I live in a house I bought CASH.. but ofc anyone can move to DR & buy 4 houses CASH the same way I did 😄😘
@@CanelitaLubana your parents paid I’m saying anyone can get one off credit NOT that YOU paid credit.. but my point was hate on what? Smh hating on anything fake is wild! It’s not always hate sweety lol that word is over saturated
I’m 42 and didn’t get curves and a** until like 5 years ago. My whole life I was skinny. So your body will change. For some it will be sooner and others later. We are forever changing.
@@XeniasWorld yea but 167 and what?? You know how many miles long 167 crosses over east & west ?? 167 & University is opposite side of the Bronx from 167 & Vyse Ave lol..
She felt like she “needed” it for her self-confidence and feeling comfortable in her own body. But a lot of people don’t know that they can reach that state of mind for free.
I’ll never understand the mindset of one having a BBL feeling like they’re better than any natural woman. Insecure vs Secure? Secure wins every time, refrigerator built and all
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That’s very true. But being Dominican, I also understand her perspective. Perfect bodies and surgeries are a part of our culture. Even as children, we are judged for our bodies. She said that she was being bullied , so that must’ve gotten to her head. I feel for her, because she was just in the wrong environment.
Praying for her mental health and ability to overcome people’s opinions of her. She was absolutely beautiful before and still is. Beauty is fleeting and starts from the inside out.
@@ginathornton2690Yep, and while doing fire hydrants, also move your legs in circles behind you..this gives you a rounder butt and curvier hips. Squats can keep your butt plump but it shapes the thighs more than it shapes the butt.
I feel she is being honest & upfront about her feelings/body images/surgeries ❤ we might not see her POV regarding this, but that DOES NOT discount her story & struggles ❤ Be Blessed & try to love other good humans no matter ❤✝️❤️
@@Shyyan-mj6xbHow do you know if she’s educated or not. Are you educated? I know I am and i’m a natural woman but ya’ll care so much about other people and what they do to themselves. Stop it!
From what I gathered, she got the first one when she was 17, she got the second one because she wanted to go bigger, and she got the third one to fix the botched body that we saw in the TikTok video.
@@anon0268right, 3 like I said. It’s still too much. I understand why she did the first. Nothing but the grace of God that has kept her with those surgeries considering many women don’t make it off the operating table.
@@PlainJane82 When she said that she still wasn’t done with the surgeries, I just thought about all those women who died on the operating table. I hope God opens her eyes.
@@anon0268I don't understand how that wasn't a topic... She goes to the DR for surgeries repeatedly. If we aren't talking about the dangers, why discuss at all?
@@ShixB I think he tried to open up that discussion a few times. For example, when he would ask her “What was a 17YO doing getting a BBL?” But I think she kept deflecting, and she made it about how she was “mentally mature”. That’s not what it’s about - it’s about the danger and the consequences of these surgeries.
She’s not even mature enough to have an intelligent conversation. He was asking her questions she couldn’t answer bc she didn’t understand what he was asking. She says she was happy each time she got surgery BUT she kept having more. She will never be done sadly. It started when she was 17. Yea she may have the money for them but like Chris said that’s a dangerous surgery and some people don’t make it off that table.
How I didn’t understand what he was asking me & I answered everything he asked? I had to get multiple surgeries to fix multiple things.. every time I got surgery I was HAPPY & I fucked it up every time with my lack of discipline and bad habits but if you couldn’t grasp that when I said that clearly multiple times then I can’t be the slow one here.. & yes it’s dangerous but I don’t think of the dangers I give my self to God & I do as I please, that’s why I never had complications throughout these 10 years I got all the surgeries..
It’s weird because it’s like the interviewer wants her to feel bad, guilty or remorseful about her surgeries AND SHE DOESNT!!! She explained numerous times that she cried tears of joy, it benefited & enhanced her life.
He is looking for her to be honest and not act as if it was all good. At the end of the interview she said what he was looking to tell the younger audience. watching.
How can we know it enhanced her life? She hadn't even started her life at 17. She is a look and nothing else. Maybe she could've been a doctor, lost that weight whilst becoming an athlete, learnt music, the law, I don't know travelled the world? Instead here she is famous for a viral video and the size of her ass and here she is still obsessing over her looks. Her parents should've paid for therapy not surgery. To me it's sad.
@@SlenderSportyI used to feel that way and then I strayed away from God but he found me again and in my new church home I don’t feel the same. Maybe try a new church home. I wish you the best on your journey with God ❤
@@thearlettasamuelthe church is literally a political place to keep the human intelligence down by living in fear lmaooo, and the worst part is y’all be doing the most sinning and judging… nobody wants to be around that energy trust me god is far better / closer to me since I stopped going to church.
I rock with her. In the Black and Hispanic community girls/women are expected to either have a coke bottle shape or the frame for a coke shape. I was super skinny as a little girl. I was 1 of the fastest kids in the projects and they called me fire...because my legs were skinny like match sticks they'd say I'm gonna set myself on fire....my friend was a chunky girl my age and they called us #10 because she was round like 0 and i was skinny like 1. All it did was toughen me, i became quick witted and would snap back on anybody that teased me.
I feel like she don't even know the reason why people reacted like that to the video clip.... It's almost like she thinks it's because she looked fat. Nooooo your butt was completely lopsided. Had the most strange looking shape and stuck out way too much. But I waited for her to address the reason it looked so strangely shaped but she only really said that she gained weight and she knew that she was fat and that right before the video she was already in line for the weight loss surgery.... But I wanna know what caused the extremely strange shape of her BBL
Weight gain her fat cells went all over the place I know too many women get bbl and eat like shit now their fat cell are changing the way their bodies are shaped.
Everybody gains weight differently. And a bbl isn’t natural. But gaining weight is natural. So you adding natural weight on top of a manufactured unrecognized substance 🥴
Judging or sharing an honest opinion? Because nowadays if we aren’t throwing confetti over someone we are negative or judgmental. Truth hurts and people like to manipulate it into a negative when they can’t handle it
This has really become 1 of my favorite series 💜... As a former body contour provider.. I heard so many stories from women trying to achieve their idea of perfection...and I really tried not to judge... But ladies we have to really love ourselves better & fix the inside first.
I aim to continue to tell little girls in my community how naturally beautiful they are and that they dont need surgery to fit any fake, lame a** esthetics.
Im glad she told her story. I like her honesty and openness. Everyones journey is different, and just because YOU wouldn't do it doesn't make them less than.
Yes! The amount of people judging her and pointing out the things they think she should or shouldn’t have done is crazy. She’s being honest and regardless it’s HER body. Just crazy how people can have opinions as if they’re perfect..
@@teedatechtv7848 that’s fine love. I guess that just shows people’s characters … at the end of the day we all bleed the same 🤷🏽♀️.. who are we to judge if someone’s insecure or not hmm
This is sad… she was so young, she didn’t give her body enough time to develop. She wasn’t mentally there to have that surgery. You can tell because she went back for more surgeries then she talking about she needed the surgery but get hyped about the followers she had online and gets excited about the attention that’s the real reason
Sweetheart there’s nothing wrong with pretty Vee… you were insecure about your natural body she’s not ! Don’t try throw a jab at someone else’s appearance because you didn’t like you you were better off using your befor pic as an example instead of saying her name!!! Love yourself!
This guy is the BEST INTERVIEWER EVER! He really goes in depth respectfully. If she doesn't admit to body dismorphia, then there should be a term for her obsession for the "likes/ shares (social media) for sure
I love the fact that this lady kept it real and 100 percent honesty and yes, she's right the Kardashians started by having these surgeries to get the bodies of black culture something that we were born with naturally. So now everyone wants to look like and keep up with the Kardashians by changing the size of their lips that were already naturally beautiful now everyone is walking around looking alike with DUCK LIPS , OVERSIZE HIPS, OVERSIZE CHEEKS AND BOOBS INSTEAD OF INVESTING THEIR MONEY FOR RETIRMENT SO YOU WANT HAVE TO WORK YOUR ENTIRE LIFE ALL JUST TO PLEASE WHOM THE WORLD OR THE INDUSTRY WHO STARTED THE ALL .
Actually, the strippers started it. The Kardashians followed behind them. But does it matter who started it? They all look crazy. The difference is the Kardashians have the money for upkeep and reversal when the trends change. A lot of these "regular" women don't.
Just because you got the money and you think you're mature enough doesn't mean that you're ready to get a BBL… 17 year olds haven't even fully come into their body. I remember when I was like 20 and me and my cousin with a thick ass peanut butter sandwiches because we wanted to gain weight and if my younger self could see me now… The thickness came, no shots no surgery!
Theres nothing wrong with how she is talking. Thats just her personality, thats how she talks. Shes answering the questions and I understand her. Stop hating ppl
She's not an advocate, please learn the meaning of words. She's just telling her story as she went viral and its a crazy story. She ain't an advocate, grow up lol
@@lovethetruth953 she was comparing bodies. Talking about how her moms side were like Meg the Stallion and her dads was Jess Hilarious. I’m just saying, Jess body is 🔥 too so I don’t understand bringing her up. And she’s beautiful period
I love her energy and transparency! She has a beautiful soul and we all have a personal journey in life. I pray all continues to work out and her life is blessed.
I feel her pain. Growing up in Nyc the people are brutal. They will clown you out, yelling flat butt, bad body. Mind you there is no where you can go that is not crowded. Thats public humiliation in front of thousands of people on a daily basis. So, its a lot of pressure to look good.
So, one will risk infection, blood clots, heart attack, etc. after a bad surgery from an unlicensed Dr. Frankenstein? Let people "clown" you. Get a gym membership and find exercises that will enhance your physicality and most importantly, keep you healthy and alive!
I'm from NYC, I been slim all my life,, I look good I feel good and I smell good never had problems getting men and never thought about getting no bbl ...
People everywhere are brutal, and there are those who love to make fun of the girl who's skinny or fat or with no butt or no boobs, to that I say so what, those talking can be made fun of too, when you love and accept yourself as you were created you just don't care what people say 🤷🏾♀️
Yes people in NYC are very blunt but don’t blame her internal issues on that. As an 80s baby we got picked on and clowned too in school. The difference is these Gen Zs and Gen Alphas are growing up in the age of social media. Now people all over the world can clown you. Now factor in the fact that her culture starts sexualizing girls at very young ages and place a lot of emphasis on their bodies you have this type of delusional mentality.
I really love her personality. She seems to keep it 💯.. i also really appreciate his questions and the care he gave to not insult her or judge her. Great job 👏🏾 respectfully
The fact that she believes in her mind that she is one of the few who actually got a BBL because she felt she needed it is crazy everyone who makes that major surgical decision feels like they need it that's why they spent all day damn money to get it I just hope her body stays healthy and by the time she turns 40 she's still pleased with it BC she has a long way to go and it will not look the same once her body begins to age and like she said she don't even have children yet
Omg love her! She's beautiful and a whole vibe ❤. I used to live on 167 and Walton Ave in the Bronx. Women from NYC are some of the realest you'll ever meet! Especially from Harlem, Brooklyn and The Bronx!
She’s not even mature during this video, and I’m sorry her vocabulary and intellect level is at a 3rd grade level, not even excusing her accent from BX or being Spanish, She sounds completely illiterate. And she can’t answer his questions like an adult. But whatever makes her happy 🤷🏽♀️
I don’t think they failed I turned out great in life thank God. They gave me confidence I didn’t have. If your parents wouldn’t do that for you I’m sorry.
A lot of insecurities start in families!!! How is it that she is aware of body types at 7/8? This was put in her head probably by Aunts/Uncles maybe praising young girls ohh you're gonna be this and look like that! At 17, the focus should be on teenage things NOT adult things! What if she wants to have kids? She seems like she has a good personality but is lying to herself at 17 she did NOT need it she WANTED this for herself!!! Ladies surgery is Necessary for Medical reasons and even then you are putting your life in DANGER!!! Google/RU-vid ALL the video of the young/old ladies that DIED on the table and left their children/families behind!!! Cherish what you have and work to improve your body!!! Yall putting your life at risk and making the surgeons rich!!! Surgeons get paid whether you Lie or Die!!!!
It’s really a culture thing a lot of West Indian, and Hispanic ppl put these ideologies in their children’s inadvertently for many many many years same thing with skin bleaching smh
She’s not deep at all. She did it at 15 because she was insecure(still is), she compared her body to others. If you had so much self esteem you wouldn’t care about having a small 🍑 you would embrace it. so many reasons
I still feel like 17-19 is still too young. You woman’s body or adult body don’t really settle in until 21-25 and maybe a little longer. I also say don’t be so eager. That recovery is no joke. I had skin removal after weight loss in 3 phases. The abdominal one was the worst so much swelling that you cannot even stand straight. Day by day you wait for the swelling to go down so you can stand straight.
She’s worried about all the wrong things. She’s not mentally mature AT ALL but clearly she thinks she is smh. This video doesn’t “help our community” 🤦🏽♀️
That BBL is horrible. I’m so glad that my body is real and I’m thankful I’m from New York. I had an accent and a lot of New York women are low-key insecure and anybody will say we got this of her going viral. She looks unhappy. It’s just really sad. She’s a young girl, you just have to love yourself. She just looks like her whole body is in pain.
So. Maybe your face is horrible. Maybe your heart is horrible. She kept it real. She had the guts to tell her story. Her truth and not from behind a profile pic. She didn't come on here being mean, disrespectful and haughty like you. You got insecurities like every other woman. Maybe climb off your pedestal. I like her. She's telling her story whether you can just listen and not instantly pass judgment says more about you than her. ~NYCer
I'm a Dominican New Yorker and she sounds like the typical Dominican New Yorker 🤷🏻♀️ I grew up around a lot of girls from Washington heights and they sound exactly like her; I don't speak like her because I was raised in downtown Manhattan and we speak different. Nothing wrong with her though 😂
This is my first time watching your content, and I want to say that I’m subscribing because I find it incredibly insightful. If you can move past the accent and vernacular, there’s so much to learn from the important messages here. First and foremost is the discussion on Dominican culture. As a Dominican woman, I can relate to the experience of growing up in a family where compliments on beauty or body shape were rare. In Dominican culture, there's often an overwhelming emphasis on physical appearance. You’re either told you need to be thin to be beautiful, or that if you're not thin, you’re fat. On the other hand, being too thin makes you “sick.” It’s a tough standard to live up to. This focus on outward beauty often overshadows internal qualities, and it’s something that’s been passed down through generations. Whether people want to admit it or not, in Dominican culture, your worth is too often linked to how you look. There’s also a lot of colorism and hair-based discrimination. Growing up, I was told to avoid relationships with darker-skinned people, and having natural curly hair was viewed as a problem, not something to embrace. I had my hair permed when I was just eight years old because my natural, Afro-textured curls weren’t considered “good hair.” This kind of cultural pressure contributes heavily to body image issues and the drive to alter our appearances. Another major takeaway from the conversation is how people lie to sell a gimmick. I love the transparency here, calling out those who promote fitness routines, medications, and workouts after having cosmetic surgery themselves but pretending otherwise. Her honesty is refreshing, and I truly admire her courage. She’s putting her story out there, owning her decisions, whether we agree with them or not, and that level of openness is commendable. Ultimately, the biggest lesson here is that everyone will do what’s best for themselves, but we should all be more mindful of the pressures we put on each other. As a community and as a culture, we need to promote more body positivity, less judgment, and more support. The current obsession with physical appearance is driving people to extreme measures, like unnecessary surgeries, and it’s time we start valuing each other for more than just what’s on the surface.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. People are going to think whatever they want too. But I think she looks amazing… and I hope she knows that. Because her opinion of herself is the only thing that matters. When you don’t maintain after the bbl and gain weight… this usually happens. It’s not the bbl that’s the issue.
I thoroughly liked this interview. She was very clear and I understood exactly where she was coming from and I don’t even have one. I really feel like she did it for herself. She’s blessed to have gotten so many Ana still wants more is too much. But intial thought of her feeling as though she needed it I get it. She’s beautiful!
I haven’t had a BBL but 20 years ago a good plastic surgeon changed my life too. I know exactly what’s she’s saying. 18:26 I wax crying and thanking them before I ever even got put to sleep. And best money I ever spent too.
To get a breast reduction then get implants is insane.then to say u wudnt have kids unless u have lipo money is jus very shallow..smh.i was so amazed by my beautiful baby i wasnt even thinkin about my belly
I remember being made fun of in school and by family members because I didn’t have a big booty. It really made me feel bad when my mom told me I had a big back. But as time came I just felt less insecure. It never goes away, but just having a little confidence in myself helped me feel better.
People are so damn full of it. People especially women make other women feel bad about having a flat butt and no breast especially women of color. They call u flat butt and no ass at all and wonder why women with flat butts and small breast feel self- conscious. Please stop with the they need to be happy with what they have. Its hard ..People need to stop making fun of real bodies.
