Women Don't Want Nice Guys for this One Reason 

I don’t care really I’m a stand up guy who wants to be decent to others till they give me a reason not to and honestly if a woman isn’t interested I don’t make myself available or give them my attention I rather be in solitude

Nice guys and players is a classic, everybody go buy it by any means necessary. I bought my copy 22 years ago, paperback!

This is a good topic Brother Rom… As a man who was branded by certain females as a “Nice” guy in my past. I was to blame for it… And the reason why is because I did not create or assert sexual tension early enough. Creating sexual tension will give you 2 things either sex or setting a sexual dynamic or you’ll find out very quickly that she’s not feeling you sexually. A lot of women will let you be in a relationship with them although they view you as the “Nice” guy.. This is one of the ways they become entitled to your attention, time & resources…Nice guys tend to think logically this how things should go sexually, but there is no logic to a woman’s emotions.. they move based on how they feel at the time.. I’ve witnessed it too many times to count..

There's a difference between a nice guy and a guy who does nice things. Women are only attracted to strength. Your ability to do harm but choose to show restraint for those you deem worth it.

I know I’m an anomaly here, BUT…I’ve always been turned on by a “nice” guy, aka nerdy guys. Nothing turns me on than seeing a man be kind. it’s not actually being the beneficiary recipient of his kindness, but also being in proximity to an act of kindness that he’s doing for someone else. Kindness, giving and attentiveness are altruistic traits that women need in the men we want to father our children, take care of our mothers and grandmothers during their senior years. A man doing random acts of kindness to me and towards others turns me on sexually. However, my family background is seeing the men in my family go above and beyond showering their sisters, mothers, children and girlfriends with kindness , so this is the early childhood model that I have of men. On the same side of this token , I am kind myself. What women should realize is that “niceness” isn’t weakness. And many women will actually be surprised to know that the nicest men are really borderline sociopaths. Most of these men served the federal government in some capacity of their career, so they are used to ac​qui​esc​ing to the will of others from the time they get out of high school. So if it is an honor for men to serve their country, imagine how much more honorable it is for a man to serve the woman that he loves⁉️ Women misinterpret the “askhole” bad boy swag as confidence, when in reality these types of men be the most insecure, whereas the nice man is really the high esteem and most confident man of all. Niceness is a higher octave of love, selflessness and bravery, these types of men are also k!ller$ if you push them or hurt someone they love. Being nice, pleasant , kind whatever wish to call it doesn’t mean that man is a pushover, weak or naive. Some men with high esteem will show you nice , first to see how you receive and reciprocate so that they place you in a certain category. I do understand that some men being nice is rooted in a lack of self worth, but I from my experience this is not the majority of men. The problem is women seeking hidden sexually pleasure in the form of a sadist because they have a masochistic personality complex and they just don’t know it because no one has called them out on it. Meanness is a woman’s pleasure principle .

Never be the "Nice" Guy. Be the Select Man. That, Hits it right.

They say they want a nice guy until they get a nice guy

This is dating/attraction advice that makes the most sense in the entire genre. It’s so simple

Nice guys and players is a must read for every man. Without it, you are basically blind in a foggy forest trying to connect with women. You won’t have a clue on what you are doing wrong.

“Yeah, your mom too” 🤣 Almost choked on my coffee laughing at that line. Thanks for another great video 🙏🏾

"Nice guy" means, one more female friend. You are considered one of the girls.

I already knew what you were about to say before I even opened up the video.

I met one of my female friends in middle school. I liked her she had a big booty, but she was a thot she kept rushing me and other guys into get her pregnant i told her not ready to be a father she will stroke of my ego, but then that’s why I realize she don’t really like me like that cause she moved onto the next guy real quick. Every woman have agenda once I start leveling up two years later she come back texting me saying hey how are you doing, I just put it in the friends zone add in a day if a woman don’t want you leave her F alone and that’s go for other women friends . Nice guys and players select or Non select. Work on become your best self become man The woman’s go for this is a physical and emotional agenda. You need to conquer in the world. If you don’t have this, you just don’t get none

Glad you brought this up Brah Rom because as an ambiverted man, I learned that women will get with the lamest, goofiest, boringest man if he physically appeal to her...

Good reminder. The least successful dates I've had was when I was afraid to be the man, too scared to speak my mind, and wouldn't show my personality/make moves for fear of rejection (being "nice"). The most successful dates I had was when I out my head, being physical, and speaking authentically.

Nice guys and players taught me a lot! Definitely want to be that guy who has the best of both sides for sure! It’s nuts that most women marry nice guys for survival…and what’s even scarier is that these women aren’t attracted to these men🤦🏾‍♂️….appreciate this Unc!!

Nice guys don't make women tingle. Also, the women tell nice guys you're like family means they're not highly interested sexually. There's a difference between a nice guy and Mr. Right.

I’ve always feel like women don’t like nice guys because they come off as being fake

I lost 60pounds a year ago and transformed into a superhuman like version of myself. I let the nice guy shit go and just started playing the game by my own rules and it’s been a hell of a ride ever since. #Select thanks for coaching me up Unc.

One thing you gotta ask urself "are you a "nice guy" or a "good man"? Big difference there, especially to women. Are you a harmless people pleaser, or a man that can hold his ground?

Bad boys are really just men who havnt lost thier edge. A man should never let the comfort of a woman tame him to the point that he looses that edge. You never know when you might need it

As soon as I started becoming more sexual appealing, women went from having mysterious headaches to throwing the breastisisisisis and buh-dawnk at me. What you’re saying is true, Uncle Rom. You always say go find out for yourself and I found out that it works. Peace and blessings!

Unc kept it short and sweet...

I really enjoy watching your vidéos while on the bus every morning. ❤

Gotta unlock that erotic aura, and at that point you can be a "good" guy and still turn them on. I have noticed they will become more defensive(younger girls) because they can't understand what they are feeling. Creating this "I have to test him to get some level of control, so I'm going to find some weakness in him." Some are just down for the dance right away.

I'll also add Uncle Rom that I grew up in a church going household and the organized religion did cause a bit of an internal conflict for me early in my personal journey. There were some other things going on besides what we were learning in church and the Bible, which causes conflicts even today when talking with my mother. Salute.

Great video Brother Rom! Guys have to understand that you can have all the 6's that women say they want, but if you're "game goofy", she still won't let you clap cheeks. That nice guy role ain't where it's at.

Nice = Invisible

See Unc, this is why i only listen to you regarding the dating game. You are not an extremist. You don’t be on one end of the spectrum solely. Are there simps? Absolutely but those simps are nice guys that thinks simping is what get the women moist between there legs. What I’m trying to say is that, most RU-vid channels regarding dating, goes against what I feel naturally as a man. If I’m dealing with a woman and we rocking good, I have a tendency to want to nurture and protect that but some channels make it seem like it’s not a natural way to be. What you are saying, it’s nothing wrong in being that way, just make sure you have that sex appeal about you that will make you stand out from the others because it’s rare for men to have both. Sex appeal and Nest appeal🤴🏾

If guys think women were different back then. Better listen to Roy C saved by the bell. Or Charles Wilson Backdoor lover. And many more songs telling men how women were back in the day. I'm not promoting nobody its just a couple of songs

Straight facts Unc!!

Good to see ya brother appreciate the message 💯

Bless Rom

I concur, Ron..Great points brother.

Great topic Rom you made a lot a great points.

Rom spoke the truth in this video!!

Rom you are spitting facts 💯

Once again, you hit another one out of the park!!! #facts 💯

Rom preach 🙌🏾

Keep dropping these Jewels Uncle Rom, U never miss 💯

Thank you..peace and blessings.

Good to see you doing better Rom. Been following you for a decade

Rom you are always dropping some serious game kudos to you 👏

This man speaking facts

Unc you preachin ! 🙏🏽

You looking good brother . Keep pushing All of our lives are just stories at the end You have many stories to tell and to show We are listening and seeing A great example you are. Much love

Uncle Rom is speaking the raw truth on female nature. This is great information.

That's the important thing. BOOM. I think this is one thing my family did not understand in raising and socializing my brother. Salute Uncle Rom. Glad to see you back clicking on all cylinders.

Well said

glad my mom put me on game as a kid

Nice guys finish....well we all know the rest!

This is Rom Wills 101

Rom the Realist😎 A lot of ppl not gonna like to hear this one!

3:30 💯💯💯

This is true. Where can I get a copy of Nice guys and players?

“Yeah your mom too” lmao

Nope, a nice guy to me is one that can not assertive himself hence he can't get things done. It's definitely not about sex...I'm a mature woman

Then what is the point of telling men to be nice guys still nowadays. Since people are so more open about what they want.

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It's a difference between a nice guy and a simp! A nice guy can be a player if his game is good. I was a nice guy with game and had plenty of women in my day. And its a difference between a pimp and a player. A player don't let the right hand no what the left hand is doing. A pimp let it all be known. See the ladies want you because you are a nice guy with plenty of options and she thinks you are a player but she can't catch you because your game is tight. #Pro nice guy with game and options player!

It's a simple question of evolution the more emotional you are the more needy you'll be..Being nice is much different than being kind,nice is something you learn to survive in society but being kind means having good intentions.Lots of men act nice towards women thinking they will get rewarded with sex/love and sometimes they don't have any boundries they do everything for them without question which turns women off because there isn't any challenge on the other hand ''bad boy'' is less emotional and full of confidence and after sleeping with women he doesn't want to commit which creates a massive chalenge for the women to want to change him which never happens so women end up hurt with baggage and have to ''settle'' for the nice guy when they are 30+ and end up resenting him and not providing him sex/cheating later on after marriage/kids..That's why women stay in abusive relationships with narcissists,even though they get abused they love the drama and the fact that that abuser wouldn't care if they left is very apealing.The nature is cruel and doesn't care about feelings it's all about creating the strongest/toughest offspring.

True I am not a nice guy I am real mwn qNR RO VCW CIXRIMA.

This dude keeps it so simple 🫡 appreciate this guy