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I Got Mocked by basic girls back when i was in high school because of my bad appearance i used to look little chubby and acne in my face So i decided to get into shape and did a Glow up, now they are in complete shock that how could I do that. Now they are lurking Looking for a way to attach themselves to me Back then they didn't want to give me a chance but now what??? I'll Explain You What Happened When I Came Back to School When COVID Lockdown Was Removed During Physical Education Practical Exam Practice Period ,The Girl That I Tried To Talk When Was Bad Looking That Same Girl Was Saying To Her Friend "Idk Why I'm Falling For "My Name" Her Friend Replied: But He Was Chubby And Black The Girl Replied:"No Now He Is Looking Handsome & Hot" The Jump Of Emotion These Creatures Do Is So Shocking From Mocking Me To Complimenting Me Was Stroke One Hair In Wrong Way. Back Then I Didn't Used To Know The Importance Of Appearance That It Play A Very Important Role in Attracting Women's. I've Been To Two Sides Of Coin Unattractive & Attractive My Experience That I Went Through 2-3 Years Back 101% Proves That Women Treat Man Wether They Find Him Visually Appealing Or Not.
My own family has Hard time to look at me in the eyes when we interact, and I don't speak of some of my co-workers that stab me in the back, and wrongly accused me for things I never did... I think they just find me so hideous that maybe they are ashamed of my existence.. On the contrary, my handsome brother got all the attention and support, part due to his look, and he didn't all the traumas I got during my youth (12 yo to 25 yo), because of my appareance. But even, I became stronger and stronger in my mind, trying to improve myself, and having a high self estime, cause I consider I deserve the best in my life, whatever the look of my biological shell people try to trap me with ! We can recognize a real man when he stand tall against difficulties, even if everything and everyone is against him ! Be proud of what you are today and improve yourself (mind and body) the best as you can ! 🤙💪
I can 100% verify that your looks are the most important thing when it comes to how wømen will treat you. When I was younger, I always was treated really well by wømen and also dating was beyond easy. As I got older, I got ugly and now even basic niceness from women happens few and far between. Even other guys now treat me worse and my personality hasn’t changed; just my looks.
I can totally relate bro........when I was in high school this new teacher came to class for the first time me and four more guys were talking with each other so he called us in the front of the class and he just assumed that I am the most stupid out of all five guys because i looked the ugliest among my whole class. I still remember the world “hey you monkey can you even read ? you don't know anything about studying but you are chatting with your friends....dumb fool”. I am not bragging but i am a nerd and i am not like genius or something but i know my stuff and i am definitely not stupid in terms of academics. That was kind of my first realisation about looks and all.
I can 100% verify that your looks are the most important thing when it comes to how wømen will treat you. When I was younger, I always was treated really well by wømen and also dating was beyond easy. As I got older, I got ugly and now even basic niceness from women happens few and far between. Even other guys now treat me worse and my personality hasn’t changed; just my looks.
My own family has Hard time to look at me in the eyes when we interact... I think they just find me so hideous that they are ashamed of my existence... On the contrary, my handsome brother got all the attention and support, part due to his look, and he didn't all the traumas I got during my youth (12 yo to 25 yo), because of my appareance. But even, I became stronger and stronger in my mind, trying to improve myself, and having a high self estime, cause I consider I deserve the best in my life, whatever the look of my biological shell people try to Trap me with !
@@JohnDoe-ub9gj bro I totally get you my same for me nobody likes me cuz of the way I look and I liked so many girls and it hurts i never even got to interact with them cuz of my looks sigh my family always treated me like crap cuz of my looks
@@JohnDoe-ub9gj there it is! The white pill! All these black pillerw will just say “bro it’s Over because I don’t look like an absolute god, I deserve nothing waaaaa.” Like bruh how tf you think I nature works.
The blkpll is not even about telling you to give up. It is just about understanding human nature. One has to ask himself: Are there more people who are having it harder than me? More easier? Or just as hard? If it is your genetic destiny to fail, then you can at least choose the way in wich you want to do so.
Don't completely give up, leave your options open and see what happens. Also, if you don't like your appearance try making some changes - such as growing a beard. I always hated my chin and decided, at around 29, to grow a beard. Now I'm 60 and have had one ever since. Every great once in a while I shave it off - but when I do I can't wait to grow it back. It is frustrating out there, I think the worst thing is when you just want to have a nice interaction with a women and she is rude or mean. I got that a lot in my life. I never really got what was going on, but I developed a way to let it slide right off me. There are nice women out there, just move on to the next one. I feel that mindset is essential to survival, if one is rude to you immediately, in your mind, move on and hope the next interaction is move positive. Don't waste a second dwelling on the negative.
Same here, my family often makes fun of me because of my height (5'6ft) and my average face. I gave up on trying to find woman. I just wasted like 4 years of adulthood playing video game, manga, anime and comic book.
@@wojakthecrusader1410 Me? I see into a future, where people are too afraid of the truth, because it would destroy their world view. If all people understood certain mechanics, then every society would collapse in an instant. There is a good reason why religion is used to withold the truth. To burn books and keep people in line. And still. I would not want to live happy with all the lies. I rather keep suffering from the truth.
i have a female friend with three children; oldest boy, middle girl and youngest boy. the oldest boy was ugly and she treated him like garbage. the girl she treated okay and the youngest boy had a cute smile- she treated him like he was god incarnate baby jesus and spoiled him rotten. the oldest son ended up being homeless and turned to a life of crime because of the neglect and being unloved. i witnessed this with my own two eyes take place over the course of many years. trust me when i tell you women dont even love their own sons when they are ugly.
I've known ALOT of ugly guys that come from broken home's , being bullied at school , no love...And end up in and out of jail or prison..... They become cold..... I've become cold. Nature is cold.
It is true attractive people have privilege. My parents remember all good looking friends from my school and college over other average or not attractive friends. They always ask, how is the friend ( attractive) doing, they don't remember unattractive friends at all.
My own family has Hard time to look at me in the eyes when we interact, and I don't speak of some of my co-workers that stab me in the back, and wrongly accused me for things I never did... I think they just find me so hideous that maybe they are ashamed of my existence.. On the contrary, my handsome brother got all the attention and support, part due to his look, and he didn't all the traumas I got during my youth (12 yo to 25 yo), because of my appareance. But even, I became stronger and stronger in my mind, trying to improve myself, and having a high self estime, cause I consider I deserve the best in my life, whatever the look of my biological shell people try to trap me with ! We can recognize a real man when he stand tall against difficulties, even if everything and everyone is against him ! Be proud of what you are today and improve yourself (mind and body) the best as you can ! 🤙💪
@@JohnDoe-ub9gj That is absolutely true, I have experienced it myself in work place. Pretty people get away for not showing up at work for no reason , on the other hand If I call sick at work they either ask me quit the job or come to work
@@JohnDoe-ub9gj I got flack for being the good looking one , works both ways.I was lucky to have two cool friends in my class , we got through the mess that was our whole class of thugians. One friend in my class from Ghana , he good looking yet was picked on for his learning disability.
I can 100% verify that your looks are the most important thing when it comes to how wømen will treat you. When I was younger, I always was treated really well by wømen and also dating was beyond easy. As I got older, I got ugly and now even basic niceness from women happens few and far between. Even other guys now treat me worse and my personality hasn’t changed; just my looks.
Yet most men think it is the money😂... broo you got neither.. hence you want to blame money...when it is actually you... I get disgusted by rich men who don't give me a good impression attention means nothing if I get visceral reactions... one thing a man can do is groom himself regardless of his looks and keep his posture strong... and have an affable nature without expecting anyone to notice or laud you for it, your aura and personality will shine through... Also learn to see a woman as a friend and human..even the ugliest male can make a girl swoon if he makes her believe he's a home...make her fall for your character... don't fluster that other men get girls...above all don't run after good-looking girls while disregarding the average ones... the average ones like you have potential... all they need is a few strokes of makeup and confidence...
@@blobofconsciousness I get it positive attitude and effort… the thing is I am just sharing my real world experience (nothing hypothetical, just what is reality). Also, when I was young, I didn’t just do well, I did incredibly well and the majority of the time they came up to me and made moves on me. It wasn’t my “awesome” personality they noticed when I walked in room and that made them come and flirt with me. It wasn’t my gift with “game” that had wømen fighting over me in front of me or throwing themselves at me on the ride to take them home. You know that thing about teaching guys how to make the first move? Yeah, I almost never had to do that. No this isn’t BS and no I’m not exaggerating. This is what Chad’s life is like… but today I’m not Chad anymore. Which would be fine if half of femałes didn’t now treat me with contempt just for existing (and being ugly). That’s not even in flirting, that’s just in being a polite person.
@@GhostSal Man how old are you ? in what age did you get ugly enough to make women disgust you . and I should add that you are now more mature , because you have experienced both being Chad and ugly .
@Worthless garbage Well it depends how ugly you are. If your jawline is bad you can grow a beard, if your forehead is to big you can grow your hair out. Now obviously if your face is completely terrible there isn't much you can do but most people are not that bad.
@@randomhuman2595 nah, ugliness can be cured. All those ugly people haven't done research on the right places. I used to be ugly, I am a lot less ugly than before but still need improvements.
This is all facts. That’s why now I wear a face mask 24/7. Best thing to come out of COVID-19 in my opinion. It’s not just girls who treat ugly men disgustingly. It’s your boss at work, shopkeeper, doctors, everyone. Even the way they speak to you compared to an attractive person is so different. My top tip is keep your face mask on until you’ve managed to do the surgery, etc you need for your face. Also, studies have shown that people are rated more attractive with their face masks on.
I kept the mask too ! Nobody gets to see my blue veins under the eyes or my big reddish nose anymore. Face masks are a blessing for us ugly men. Shopkeepers are indeed nicer to me with it !
My own family has Hard time to look at me in the eyes when we interact, and I don't speak of some of my co-workers that stab me in the back, and wrongly accused me for things I never did... I think they just find me so hideous that maybe they are ashamed of my existence.. On the contrary, my handsome brother got all the attention and support, part due to his look, and he didn't all the traumas I got during my youth (12 yo to 25 yo), because of my appareance. But even, I became stronger and stronger in my mind, trying to improve myself, and having a high self estime, cause I consider I deserve the best in my life, whatever the look of my biological shell people try to trap me with ! We can recognize a real man when he stand tall against difficulties, even if everything and everyone is against him ! Be proud of what you are today and improve yourself (mind and body) the best as you can ! 🤙💪
@@JohnDoe-ub9gj Stay strong man. I feel your pain. My brother is handsome. That's just the genetic lottery. Nature doesn't care. I married a chinese girl who preferred an ugly man so he would be faithful. I'm indeed very faithful (no mistress would want me even with lots of cash). My mixed sons are very beautiful. I am happy my ugly genes have been erased by asian ones. At 40+ I'm still traumatized by all the punching and name calling I have endured ... the pain never goes away.
Hey man you really helped my dating life im 19 and used to get attention from girls for my height however we speak for 1 or 2 weeks and they're gone i though my game was the problem tried learning pick up tricks and nothing changed , when i found your channel i learned something that seems so basic yet i didn't do ; i did not take care of my self , my skin quality was trash and my hair was a mess , when i found you however o focused on my looks ,my style became on point i got into the gym ( i already had relatively wide shoulders but my jaw was hiding behind fat ) i fixed my style , started doing skin care and everything is so different now girls from my school are the ones that constantly start conversations and even set up dates for me lol my position 8 months ago and now is night and day difference , also rak kayn asat ;)
@CKS1949 Yes thats the problem with people that associate with the blackpill they tend to focus on the extreme of the extremes ( "Chads" and "truecels" ) which both are such rare cases , the reality is the overwhelming majority of us can improve themselves way more than they think
@@jumsicohe kinda has a point your mum and dad will more than likely love you even if you are not considered attractive yes looks do matter however it’s not the end all be all when it comes to dating
When I was in a band we were in desperate need of a bassist, I remember one candidate was a real good player, knew a lot of songs and was a very nice person overall. The other members rejected him because he wasn't "cool enough" which I understood at an unconscious level but didn't think it was a good reason to reject him. Later I understood what actually happened there.
bruh if u are talking about east asian that is a very good race to be right now in america and canada. top3 race for female preference due to 1. all of these asian chicks thirsty over asian guys 2. these white chicks thirsting over bts look alikes and 3. for some rsn black women love east asian guys too idk. being east asian and attractive is as good as it gets other than being white and attractive imo
Hence, Black Pill isn't just about dating or sex or romance or "not being able to get a woman." It's about how a person is treated in general. I noticed 20+ years ago that ugly women I had ZERO interest in sexually/romantically still treated me like trash in formal/platonic settings. It's one thing for a woman to reject a man who makes a pass at her, but even when men have ZERO interest in her, she still can't discern the difference and goes into hostile mode. Why does this matter? Because we still have to deal with women (even one's we have ZERO interest in) when out and about conducting business and working. It's so miserable and insulting how they treat us, especially if the themselves are ugly.
I couldn't agree more, they way that they despised me (before founding about black pill) is what confused me so much sometimes. I was like, I don't want to do anything with you and they were still so aggressive. Now I know why...
I don't deny any of that. I just don't care. Someone like me had the sociological experience of an Afghan Tribesman growing up compared to all you Happy Potato Chip Eaters. That's a REAL "de-privileging."
You are saying women ( in whom you had no interest) treated you like trash.... Not one or two but all of them???? Are you sure there is nothing in your behaviour what might triggered them? Most women don't go into hostile mode when they are talking to an unattractive man. Maybe the best thing would be to honestly analyze your behaviour and words. You might said something upsetting to them without realizing it.
My parents abused me and rejected me for being ugly--great abuse. I'm daily insulted and my life is ruined. Women upon seeing and talking to me say, your not very good looking. My life has destroyed
Your problem is not your looks, but your parents... I feel sorry for you, to have so awful parents must suck.... Parents should always love their children, regardless of anything, especially regardless of looks.... They made you believe you are lesser because you are not a looker..... The problem is we tend to believe anything what our parents stipulate in us during childhood. Please have some therapy. A good therapist might undo some damage your parents inflicted on you.... There are many unattractive looking people on the planet. It doesn't mean they are unhappy or rejected. I know many unattractive people who are in happy marriages, have good jobs etc (I'm one of them too, lol) ..... Because the most important thing is our attitude. You can achieve anything, even if you are not that good looking.... Lets face it the majority of people are not good looking either. So stop thinking about yourself as something inferior.
My own family has Hard time to look at me in the eyes when we interact, and I don't speak of some of my co-workers that stab me in the back, and wrongly accused me for things I never did... I think they just find me so hideous that maybe they are ashamed of my existence.. On the contrary, my handsome brother got all the attention and support, part due to his look, and he didn't all the traumas I got during my youth (12 yo to 25 yo), because of my appareance. But even, I became stronger and stronger in my mind, trying to improve myself, and having a high self estime, cause I consider I deserve the best in my life, whatever the look of my biological shell people try to trap me with ! We can recognize a real man when he stand tall against difficulties, even if everything and everyone is against him ! Be proud of what you are today and improve yourself (mind and body) the best as you can ! 🤙💪
I know the feeling. Even my oldest sister excluded me twice from her wedding fotoshoot. None of my parents ever stood up for me. Even worse my pops tried to gaslight me by saying I was present during the shoot, and my mom had sudden amnesia when I confronted them about not giving a shit as parents not to call my big sister out on it. Looks ARE very important! Even parent will reject their children if they are perceived as unattractive. You'll get the minimum support: food, shelter. But dont expect them to be involved in your life or show any interest in you other than the minimum requirements as a parent. Bro, human nature is cruel.. But humans cant help what their nature is, so we cant fault them for following their biological programming.
I think it's not about your looks. Do you look different from your dad and mum???? I'm somehow sure your parents don't look more attractive than you do .... But if your parents are excluding you it's probably because they perceive you as being different - different character, behaviour etc. You are not fitting into family for some reason. You have to think deep why they don't want you to be part of the family. Maybe you are an affair child? Who knows.
P.S. I just saw your picture. You are certainly not bad looking.. I would say you look good.... If you believe you are ugly, it's because your childhood programming by your parents.
My own family has Hard time to look at me in the eyes when we interact, and I don't speak of some of my co-workers that stab me in the back, and wrongly accused me for things I never did... I think they just find me so hideous that maybe they are ashamed of my existence.. On the contrary, my handsome brother got all the attention and support, part due to his look, and he didn't all the traumas I got during my youth (12 yo to 25 yo), because of my appareance. But even, I became stronger and stronger in my mind, trying to improve myself, and having a high self estime, cause I consider I deserve the best in my life, whatever the look of my biological shell people try to trap me with ! We can recognize a real man when he stand tall against difficulties, even if everything and everyone is against him ! Be proud of what you are today and improve yourself (mind and body) the best as you can ! 🤙💪
Was in home depot the other day. Im average looking. Anyways, the young clerk was flirting with me. I said later and started walking out and looked back at her.her co-worker was asked if i was hitting on her? I heard her say eew. She looks over at me and realized i heard her. You never know i guess. But she certainly felt stupid knowing i clearly saw and heard her. She was cool until her friend influenced her. It was obvious.
Don't take notice what others say. She maybe really fancied you but she had to play the ''hard to get girl with high expectations'' front of her friend.
I cant name how often teachers said that im smart, despide my less attractive friend did better most of times, and he was often called uneducated and nonintelligent
I used to think I was unattractive during quarantine, and up until a few months ago, I'd wear a face mask all the time because I was afraid people would judge my ugly face, but when I first took off the mask, I got compliments from everyone saying, "Wow, you're reverse mask fishing" and other such things. Cuurently talkin wit 3 girls, I was hit up by two , and I dmd one and went on a few dates with her, and one of the two girls who hmu ended confessing to me. It's horrible what unattractive people have to go through, and I can sympathize because it was the same for me for a while.
@@michaeljosephjackson2364Uh no, people who unmask shows their true color and face. Saying that mask and unmask person is the same is like saying apple and orange are the same.
Good video and very accurate too. If only some of us hadn’t gotten stuck with the Horned / Devil Effect, social life would’ve been a lot better. This effect is far beyond our control and can’t be changed or undone.
There was this girl in highschool that always acted grossed out by me. Years later we met angain and she gave me a long hug. That's when I realized my looks improved
@@esh9x153you should be a 100/10 since you are Reimu fumo, literally the only woman that matters. These so called "real woman" will always lose to the glory of the fumo. The Fumo Protects!
@@notenoughupdates2385 Not to everyone. If your eyes protrude out of their sockets and have scleral show, negative tilts, saggy looking and upper eyelid exposure, you cannot change it. You also cannot change your facial bone structure and your height which matter a lot. Most of the other things you can change but with surgery and it would cost you a lot. Don't get me wrong by the way, I strongly believe that everyone should looksmax and gymmax and work on improving themselves, but I'm just saying that there's a limit to that and most of the time this limit sits lower than the threshold of seeing a difference in the way people especially women treat you.
@@NoName-zj9jl thats true unfortunatly, i just learned to live with it and focus on myself instead of doing things for women and my mental health improved greatly. Its sad genetics play such a big role in life
@@notenoughupdates2385 What you did is exactly what I always try to preach to sub5 and normie blackpillers that cannot get a girlfriend. Those people think that their life is over just because they cannot get laid or get a relationship with a girl but imo this is the most ridiculous way of thinking because they basically think that life is all about this. This could not be further from the truth, there is much much more to life than women and life has so much more to offer so if you can't get a woman so what? It's not even your fault (genetics) so just accept it and focus on everything else life has to offer : friendships, career, traveling, entertaining yourself, helping out other in need... But some blackpillers are so toxic they would always respond with "cope" when I try explaining this. As if the sole purpose of life was to get laid.
In Asia no matter how ugly you are, your parents will never ignore or neglect you. Family is always constant in Asian cultures.... I don't know about the rest of the world.
@@adeekivlogs105 Are you Asian? If you are Asian are your parents don't love you because of your appearance, then I feel pity because your country is an exception amongst other Asian countries....And if you are not Asian then please step down and stop your hypocrisy of knowing everything, when in reality you know nothing.
@@adeekivlogs105 Thats whole of Asia bruh Even Asian women don't like Asian men always thirst for white tall western dudes don't tell me how racist whole Asia is
Nice joke coming from an Indian. It's literally the most racist country in Asia where everyone is obsessed with fair and dark sin colors lol and ugly women are constantly judged and find it difficult to be married don't make me laugh India like all other south Asian countries is very judgemental about this stuff
It's not just physical attraction. Being an Arab with an Islamic name has been hell growing up in the west. Teachers hated me, employers, and strangers veered clear in general. The worst is when your own mother is too ignorant to believe you.
Not only that but I would also like to add something else, no woman who finds a man to be ugly and sexually unappealing would ever develop any kind of emotional attachment to him. there's no reason to blame anyone for that because biologically speaking if you're short ugly and fat it can clearly means you come from a very defective and poor genetic lineage, and that's not suitable for procreation in any shape and from or whatsoever. Most people including men and women automatically assume I must be a smart guy. maybe just maybe they find me eye pleasing.
@@kingdoge69 alright. do women not have fathers, brothers, uncles, nephews, male cousins? majority of women aren't attracted to their male family members yet they have emotional connections to them. Also lots of guys talk about friend zoning and how a girl will say she only sees you as a brother, now how does a girl you're not related to see you as a brother if she has not formed a emotional connection to you?? if you have no emotional attachment to someone you aren't going to tell them you see them as a family member.
@@fatima-ql6tc I think he meant with women who aren’t related to you, and also the women who say they see some men as a brother, just say that as a way to let men know that they will never be seen as a sexual partner, doesn’t necessarily mean they have an emotional attachment to them
@@kingdoge69 It does though. women aren't saying they see random dudes that are hitting on them as a brother. that literally doesn't make sense and there's no way you're that unsocialized. If a women is saying she sees a guy as a brothers she's friends with him in %99 cases and if you're friends with someone you're obviously taking enough time out of the day to talk to them somewhat regularly, no one's doing that for someone they have no emotional attachment to. I mean at this point you're just pulling shit out of your ass bc if women never have emotional connections to guys they don't find attractive then how does friendzoning exist?
I remmber when my sister picked me up from school my teacher was like wow shes beautifull and look at me like how are you related and i gave her a look like i have no idea
Speaking as a hideously unattractive man (I’m 53), this video certainly strikes a chord with me. My poor genetics completely destroyed any chances of me ever getting a girlfriend or wife, but that’s life and my tough luck, yes vvomen are disgusted by my looks, I get rejected by vvomen instantly, even before I open my mouth. As for bedroom fun, I just pay a mature age lady of the night, and I have to say these ladies treat me very well.
Sorry to hear that brother. Ever thought about going to Thailand or something? The women there will look at you as a prize more then likely because you are from the west.(assuming you are)
As a woman ngl that is very true. Most people are not ugly they are average. But when you find the ugly ones , they really are ugly. That goes mostly for men than women. An ugly man is really gross I can't even explain it
I am super good looking and an introvert and I get unwanted attention all the time... young and even older women do things ( Sometimes weird ) to get my attention and I know they want something more.
5:50 the sentencingpill is rough and one of the many pills that made me stop trying in life the ugly guy who jaywalked 10 years ago is still in prison meanwhile chad killed a homeless ugly male with his sports car and got out 6 months later or chad cop "accidently" shot and killed an ugly black male and got suspended brutal
My own family has Hard time to look at me in the eyes when we interact... I think they just find me so hideous that they are ashamed of my existence... On the contrary, my handsome brother got all the attention and support, part due to his look, and he didn't all the traumas I got during my youth (12 yo to 25 yo), because of my appareance. But even, I became stronger and stronger in my mind, trying to improve myself, and having a high self estime, cause I consider I deserve the best in my life, whatever the look of my biological shell people try to Trap me with !
@@JohnDoe-ub9gj yep the preferential treatment my mom and dad give my stacy sister and chad brother is insane and im right in the middle the sub5 brother it sucks bad
It feels disheartening...and I'm a woman. I can tell you in school many guys used to look at my friend and not me. She used to be the archetypal thin fair kind, i was dark and a lil stout and taller than her. If you see by indian standards my face has more proportion than hers. But it didn't matter to teenage dudes..because they went by her light complexion and thin frame. Guess what happened,puberty😅.. It changed the game for both of us. Though i didnt magically become thin or fair like her. I got interested in doing my hair and face and dressing up. Somewhere she who was so confident in her looks in the formative years thought her charm would carry her far.. It so happened in a friend's wedding of ours, i was surprised to get all the male attention while she was standing right next to me getting none! Though i was weirded out, it was a redemption to my teenage self, which never felt attractive...idk if she felt anything back then in school or now about it..but ik for a fact ... attractiveness is a complex thing.. Focus on feeling good in your skin... nobody can miss your aura...as for that friend...what worked to her advantage back then, the thin frame, now looks unflattering as a woman...her skin looks the same pale without colour, she does not bother with kohl or anything...as boys have different taste than men...whew...
Sometimes it works the other way around though in general society, but not for women ever. Sometimes society feels bad for ugly people and treat them nicer ironically, sometimes too nice. It’s a similar affect that people may have when dealing with minorities for example.
The disgust seems to be reciprocated. When the partners are young and attractive, everything is hunky dory. But once they get older and attractiveness fades, they are less likely to "keep it together". "Among adults 20 and older, 34% of women and 33% of men who've ever been married have been divorced. Among those ages 55 to 64, that number is about 43% for both sexes. This number drops to 39% among adults 65 to 74 and 24% among those 75 and older" So, the older you are, the more likely you will be dissatisfied with your partner.
That explains A bunch of my childhood. Thanks 🙏🙏🙏. Good thing I read Tao Te Ching. Because you need a sound mind when your being judge based off Height, income, looks & sociability in a "judgement free zone". I remember Flirting with a childhood crush and being put down like a sick dog. Because of how "awkward" it came across. Both her and My "friend" who reintroduce us are dead to me now.
Ok, you need to know men treat women that are fat, short or dark skinned poorly aswell. People are going to treat others differently if they are not attractive. Christians cannot judge people on physical appearance coz we need to pray for them. Do not judge people on physical appearance when you want to tell them about Jesus Christ or repentance. When it comes to marriage you can choose who you want but not with spreading the gospel.
Hey Nero, when a person gets their overbite treated with braces it tends to give them more prominent cheekbones, will that make an improvement to the eye are like would it make the lower eyelid less droopy and decrease sclera show
Two days ago while working out on parallel bars. a gross hideous stranger who apparently had some sort of mental retardation started using the bars where I usually work out, after he was done using them. I sprayed alchool all over the places of the bar he touched. Did I had kind of reaction due to his physical appearance? I've seen how most women treat men who are fat short and ugly they want them miles away from them. even the slightest flesh rubbing can gross these women out. most women who I have had any sort of physical contact do say nothing. But I've seen how they react when a sub5 does the same thing. and it does nopt end well!!
Because according to female gaze, attractive and unattracive men look diffirent from eachothers such as cockroaches and butterflies. Also I'm thinking that even men think like that.
My own family has Hard time to look at me in the eyes when we interact, and I don't speak of some of my co-workers that stab me in the back, and wrongly accused me for things I never did... I think they just find me so hideous that maybe they are ashamed of my existence.. On the contrary, my handsome brother got all the attention and support, part due to his look, and he didn't all the traumas I got during my youth (12 yo to 25 yo), because of my appareance. But even, I became stronger and stronger in my mind, trying to improve myself, and having a high self estime, cause I consider I deserve the best in my life, whatever the look of my biological shell people try to trap me with ! We can recognize a real man when he stand tall against difficulties, even if everything and everyone is against him ! Be proud of what you are today and improve yourself (mind and body) the best as you can ! 🤙💪
After watching your channel , I don’t have subhuman features. I have a decent jaw, good maxilla growth, along shaped eyes and I’m a light skin Afro Latino however I still struggle very hard to get women. I am 5’7 and chubby (180 lbs) but my bone structure is visible . I live in the Midwest and I get treated by crap every other day by women ( mainly white and Asians) . Any other issue
You can make up for having average face by being rugged and masculine. Throw the shirts and sandals away and start wearing jeans and cowboy boots. Women like cowboys for a reason and most cowboys aren’t pretty
Most girls tend to think I'm attractive, but they never talk or approach me. I think this is because I'm an introvert and they see me as a different person
Id say im.average as it gets...ive noticed a pattern....sometimes i get women that are way better looking, i almost always can get the unattractive ones and the average ones who are like me turn me down more often than the ones are who more attractive, very strange
gay men have standards too. I recently talked to a gay man and he told me he couldn't date someone significantly shorter than him because he himself was 2m.
Yes. I hate the lies about this. Also they never truly put average women to the test. I think most men have disgusted reactions to the average woman , which is women you could find at Walmart. Lots of men and women have negative reactions, words and interactions with women who are not very attractive. Also men love to shame other men for what women they interact with or like or date or sex. To act like men don't participate heavily in making unnatractive women feel disgusting is wrong and a lie.
@@AlexClayland1232 Uh yeah the more attractive you are the more picky you are to be with the Stacey’s and Maria’s who have a cute face or better and a slim figure. Yeah, don’t give me that shit that you’d go for a land whale or your average looking single mother at the grocery store over the attractive girls.
I wouldn't say I'm ugly, in fact quite the oposite but I don't exaclty want to be. I got used to beeing bullied becouse my mom sent me to school in a village but I was born and lived in a town. To add to that my mom was also putting me down becouse of my homework that I was also good at. To her, I always could have done better. And I also have an asperger sindrome so beeind in a large group is draining me. Beeing with friends might be desierable for most of you if not even necesarry to remain sane, but I'm weird and broken. Therefore I envy those that everyone turns away from. That's becouse I learned that to thrive you always need to master and rely on yourself and most of people around you are parasites. Unwilling to help, unwilling to understand and see light through the cracks. I say, lets look for answers inside and disreguard those that are not willing to help, gIven that we are willing to help as well.
if you're a chad in 90/100 categories yeah no one flaw is going to be a big deal, and it isn't that severe with him. i didn't even notice his prey eyes at first glance.
I dont always agree with what society says or thinks… Yeah.. I remember JM, the prisoner who made millions of being a male model. Honestly… I dont find him that good looking or attractive. That prison mugshot was just a good shot of him. I saw several pictures of him with his friends, family, and in normal life. Just looked like a typical looking Mulatto… he was not good looking at all and kind of fat! Would not surprise me if his mugshot was edited/photoshopped! More than looks, it boils down to attraction because some ugly people can also be very sexually attractive!
