@@meatball5887 so many muslim women arent happy in their marriage already because of this mentality today . Imagine trying to fullfill the emotionnal need of 2 if you cannot even deal with your actual wife .
@@ahl12366 I've "forced" any man I have authority over to keep a beard. Can I do the same for women and hijab? You people truly are champions of whataboutism. One thing being wrong doesn't make another thing right
@@MsKingusbaby1 because just like the captain of the ship, a man takes full responsability if anything goes wrong. Big risk big reward. Women in charge will do what politicians or weak men are known to do in times of strife, hide and find excuses. We protect women but ask for their trust in return. It s a fair trade.
Imagine there is Muslim women with no Mahram in her family (They died etc) The people in comments would prefer she should die out of starvation at home rather than going out and work. Shame on Muslims for playing 'God' by deciding who will go to hell (nauzubillah), forcing religion on everyone and using religion in wrong way to control their womens. Seriously, Allah gave us Mahram to make us feel safe and protected but we feel unsafe by our own men. Brother and sisters, there are term and conditions for men too, when they go outside to work. In 21st century, y'all are complaining about world becoming mixed and here men is scared of men. We gotta keep our boys safe too, so they doesn't get sexual harassed by another man
Finally a logical argument. I'm a lawyer, I have had to work with both genders. Yes, law offices are mixed. Most Court system are mixed. This is 21st century. As long as your faith and ethics are strong, you will not allow anyone to harm you. If they try to harass you, sue them or file a complaint, take action. :) Also, we can't compare 21st century with how things were 1400 + years ago. People evolve, society evolve, technology evolves, mentality evolves.
Allah is the most wise and merciful, and Allah makes exception for us in emergency. Even pork is halal if we are dying and no other thing to eat, but with conditions. So just do our best with our best intentions, always ask forgiveness and surrender everything to Allah. Wallahu a’lam bishshawab
@@pseudocolor Emergency or not, Islam never put any impediments in the path of a woman who wants to work. However, Allah asked male members of her family to do it for her and it is very stupidity of Muslim men to interpret whole different meaning that "women aren't allowed" just because of that. Allah never forbid women to work outside nor mentioned it in any verses of Quran or Hadith. "Women are prohibited to work outside" Just find something similar like this sentence in Quran or Sunnah then come and talk to me.
It's filled with salafis who believe women should be locked up, never get education cause going to college will make them apostates and they should even dream of working according to them
Brother, there are fields women are needed in, such as nursing, teaching, clothing, retail, doctors, and daycare. If women do not fill these positions, they won't have anyone who needs them take those jobs, as men generally don't work in those fields nor interested.
I'm a house-maid 🤭 so my job n work is inside the house In syaa ALLAH,,,,, it's Halal job that I can do since I'm 16 year's old until now almost 41 year's old 🙂
There are actually certain professions where women are required. Gynacologist, female doctor, female police, female teacher etc. It is best to avoid jobs in which mix-gathering is required, but women can still do it if they follow all the terms & conditions of Islam. Men have to follow them too! If a woman can do an online business, she should always avoid jobs that involve mix-gatherings. Hazrat Khadija(RA) was a business woman too.
Women who were working on the time of Rasul Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam was doing business from home.men were working for them and they were not like todays corporate ladies !! Also you said about the daughter of old man working outside but they were shy to get water for their ships because of other men were there and prophet Musa(pbum) helped those girls.... You can not compare those women to todays women who go out and work in an office with men!! Sorry to say ....nouman ali khans answer is not genuine .You don't need to please people but please Allah
It is also necessary to point out that "mixing" between both genders in a certain way is forbidden for both men and women and not women alone. Mixing within certain limits and restrictions is allowed for men and women. Jobs that require any type of forbidden mixing are still haram for men to do. Also, a woman is free to decide whether she wants to work or not as long as the work she desires is in a halal environment. It is better for her to stay at home but she is allowed to work if she wants to. And Allah knows best
What?! You mean to tell me that men cannot do haram either? There are a lot of men who are just using religion when it’s convenient to them. But you have men crying about ‘feminists’ who use religion when it’s convenient lol
@@Oooooooo797 and when the women has to mix to help his family its haram whats this double standard? so when a well is full of women and all are lined up to get water the man can just barg in and grab his water and go are you even Muslim?
In the very example cited, the women who went "to work" was out of necessity that their father was elderly, and stopped when Musa (AS) had married one of them, as he then took those duties. And Even then, as they "went to work," the Qur'an explicitly explains that they did NOT free mix as the workplaces of today frequently require. They purposefully waited for the men to leave the well. Edit: ALSO add that they did NOT do even a hint of tabarujj as the example in the Quran clearly teaches as an example for women to follow. They walked behind Musa (AS) as a non-mahram, and guided him by minimal speech. Please use the citation exactly as its presented. TEXT OVER CONTEXT.
then how about those women in Madinah? at the time of the Prophet SAW? are they also go "to work" just because all of their fathers are sick? lol out of curiosity... if women shouldn't work or only allowed to work when it's the situation like you described... tell me who'll be the doctors that's gonna treat those pregnant women? so (if you're a man) you're okay with male doctors assisting your wife giving birth? monthly check ups? how about female nurses? police women? you know.. body searching and all... 💁 but hey.. if you don't care good for you i guess 😏
Do your women only meet with their mehrams? Don't your brother come b4 your wife? Where does your "don't mix" theory go when its time to give your wife a separate home??
@@sarahnovella4971 @**S*J**** Sisters, its not that women should not work, but rather women are not obligated to. Its that Women should not free-mix or do tabarujj. Given the envirnments of today in non-muslim society, its not a very easy thing to circumvent.
@@sarahnovella4971 how did women give birth back then how did women get checked up back then? It’s not like women just started giving birth and all that that’s lazy excuse to give women reason to work and the women he’s talking about in Mecca and trade and all that most of them women will polytheist or Christian’s so this is the system of dajjal and even some of our great sheikhs are falling for it
Woman and man are equal in value but we r totally different in other things, physically biologically mentally ect including our role and function and this doesnt mean woman are less of value than man no def no how can we compare somth when its different. Staying home, taking care of the family ,the home, raising kids, supporting the husband ect is the best thing for a woman , we can go out and work but its much more preferable to stay home I would recommend reading a book called "a woman s guide to raising a family by shaykh salih al fawzen" a simple book straight to the point with dalel There s also "you can be the happiest woman in the world"
Lady Khadijah was a great business woman respected by all in a time where they used to bury girls and treated women like slaves. I understand her family was supportive, but it shows that women have no excuses to submit to oppressive social norms. We can fight it. God has made us worthy we just have to realize it.
Some men try to weaponize their twisted perception of islam against women out of insecurity and the worst part is they do it in a way that makes it seem legitimate
@@hamizulhafiz475 The men cheat way more than the women. Cheat while their wives are at home with their children. Do you talk about that?? You guys forget the guidelines apply to you as well!
@@hamizulhafiz475 and why would you even want to stay with a woman who jumps on the first given opportunity to cheat on you unless ofc their isn't something wrong with you? Would you not rather want a partner who despite of all opportunities never cheats on you and is only loyal to u? Your logic is flawed
Women used to pray in masjid during prophets (saw) era.....but Today's age doesn't allow us the same....I hope you would've heard the event of ibn Umar vs his son on the same matter..... And same here, it's a completely different environment contrast to the prophetic era so women can't go alone with their sheeps today
It's refreshing to listen to a more balance opinion than the one that is more heavily to one side. No matter what side it is. Woman can't work just doesn't make sense to me. Mixing also doesn't make sense to me, basically mixing of gender in today's time has been the norm, especially in work place - i mean there is both woman and man, doesn't mean there's no segregation. Also, people need to think if all woman doesn't work, than who would cater to woman's need? For example nurses or doctor. Who would a woman ask about illness specific to female? Male doctor? What about clothing? What about crime related to woman? No female police officer? Just what the heck with this mentality.
@@tabiakhan9870 By "no mixing" doesn't mean getting invisible around men. It only means when in need, we can interact but with proper manner, no silly talk, straightforward conversation with no eye or physical contact, proper modesty from both the sides. Just being friendly and interacting without any need is not allowed.
Part of "Mixing" is forbidden for both men and women and if you are in a mixed place or work environment that alone is not forbidden but it has certain restrictions that apply for both genders. What I'm trying to say is, there is haram mixing and even if it is existing everywhere, it is still haram. However, mixing within certain limits is still okay. I only refrain from mentioning those limits/restrictions as I know them because I believe it's better if you directly ask a scholar.
@@JohnRambo-dr7rd Yeah, as if we don't get educated, it's only you people, the only educated ones. Rest of the world just rolls on the floor.The entire world doesn't work and function your way. Education and free mixing are two very different things and if you're unable to understand this, free mixing hasn't done any favour to your education.😒
Very hard to find muslim men who are educated, financially independent and sound in religion. Thats why the whole ummah is in problem. Usually muslim men tries to find wealthy families so their son and rest of these men family can be supported.
U spoke the truth. Men don't earn enough, im not telling that people should have a lavish lifestyle , what some men earn is only enough for themselves. But they tell women to do their job properly
So many knowledgeable scholars in these comments. Passing judgement on someone without any proof why they think this person is wrong. Clearly Ramadan has made you better improved version of yourselves.
They are ignorant fools. They treat their women like slaves. They themselves watch porn and ALL other bad stuffs, flirt look at women in lustful way and they moral police women by fatwas and expect women to stay home. Nonsense
The old man and the two daughter’s story was the story bfore Quran and prophet Mohamed SA.and clearly mentioned they waited till men leave the pond snd avoided mixing.
Do your women only meet with their mehrams? Don't your brother come b4 your wife? Where does your "don't mix" theory go when its time to give your wife a separate home??
@@-S_J- our brother should nt come to our wife,and wives live separately,not with bro inlaws .if some ppl r doing wrong ,is it the explanation of giving permission to do wrong..
@@SS-Sna in asia mostly people live in joint family n lecture on women only, that's y i said. But meeting with namehram in loneliness is restricted, not the public meeting. Correct me if i m wrong with authentic reference.
@@-S_J- correct in india we live in joint family nd it's not allowed to meet alone with in laws but here the culture is different here they think brothers wife is half wife of there's 🥲
This Noman Ali Khaaa advice are dangerous. Breaking family, when women using people like Noman Ali khaa. May Allah guide those who think they are educated in Islam but very far from
I made a video (you can’t see it now because I deleted my channel) that was basically about how children act in the masjid, it was supposed to be a funny joke but someone took it to seriously and said “why are you going to the masjid when you’re a woman? The prophet (saw) said women should pray at home” and “you shouldn’t bring children to the mosque regardless because they’ll disturb people who are praying”. I told them as nicely as I could that Muhammad (saw) like children going to the mosque and said you should never ban women from going to the mosque. I usually go there because my father goes to the mosque and so do my siblings and my mother sometimes goes but usually she stays home because she’s cooking or taking care of our cats. She always encourages me to go because she always says that she wants me to get the full reward. They just got mad and kept saying that women SHOULD be ban from mosques because they belong at home. I tried to reason with them but they wouldn’t listen. And that was why I ended up deleting my channel because they were being disrespectful and tried to play “god”. It’s not up to us to say that women should stay home and not do anything, we still get the rewards of praying in the mosque regardless. May Allah forgive these people and help them see that Islam doesn’t say that women belong in the kitchen. I’m not a feminist but I know that women still have rights in Islam because it’s not like how others perceive it to be. May Allah guide us all and forgive our sins. Ameen.
The slight issue here is the modern day men have gotten used to wives working to help pay for their own lives or told they must pay towards all family costs. Yet refuse to help either around the home or actually be a father to the children. Some guys wanna hold on being a bachelor they abandon all responsibilities except go to work, no help at home no cooking no spending time with the family, and still expecting the wife to cook all the meals and take care of the family home
There are also Muslim women who have career they work don't cook or clean. Husband and wife both work and they both do household chores 50/50. But wife keep all of her wages and makes husband pay for everything. This is typical women influenced by feminism she wants her islamic rights when it benefits her and doesn't want to have responsiblity. And Allah knows best
@@nobodyisborngayislam islam states not feminism wife money belongs to her and if she wants too spend On her husband she can However husbands are not allowed to demand or use blackmail to eat up/ use the wives money No where in the Quran does it mention it’s a women’s job to cook or clean She and her husband Both get reward for helping out around the house Act of maturity, self respect appreciation and mercy helping in the marital home It’s fake cultural traditions that women do all the household chores Our beloved prophet helping his wives all the time at home and made sure he completed his fard acts as a man which Allah declared on husband Earn an I’ncom provide food a home and clothing for the women in his household
@@nobodyisborngayislam this is not about feminism its simply what’s stated by Allah. Please tell me which part in Quran or hadith or anything prophets said that women are the ones who should cook or clean? That’s not just her job, but both of the spouse. Prophet Muhammad helped his wife with house chores too. But about money, yes. Yours belong to her and hers belong to her. Just say you’re mad at women getting advantage
@@nobodyisborngayislam please don't get married until you understand that your wife's money is hers and your money is also hers LOL, she should not pay for anything, YOU are the provider, not her.
@@nobodyisborngayislam so a woman doesn’t want to be treated as a maid at home, that makes her a feminist? Do you know how miserable it is to clean up after 3 toddlers and another grown man child? I despise this argument because people who hide behind this thinking view women as objects that serve men only. If the Prophet Mohammad SAW used to wash his own clothes, make his own food, and raise his children, ( AND THIS WAS THE PROPHET WHO WAS BUSY SPREADING ISLAM) then so can any man. There is literally no excuse for a man to whine about cleaning after himself and raising the kids he impregnated his wife with. This is EXACTLY why Allah gave us so many rights; it’s to protect us women from men like this because unfortunately, we are under the mercy of our husband or our mahrams. As I type, I’m applying for a job so I can bring in my own money to fulfill my needs and wants bc my husband hasn’t been since we got married. Financial abuse is the number 1 reason couples get divorced, even in Islam.
Im glad you’ve said this. Alot of young boys and men follow this guy named Andrew tate and mix his beliefs with islam. Not knowing islam is not for his ideology’s. Islam is the first feminist religion or religion that gives women rights and power over them selves and in some cases over many others. Alhamdulilah i am a muslim!!🤎💕
Women who were working on the time of Rasul Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam was doing business from home.men were working for them and they were not like todays corporate ladies !! Also you said about the daughter of old man working outside but they were shy to get water for their ships because of other men were there and prophet Musa(pbum) helped those girls.... You can not compare those women to todays women who go out and work in an office with men!! Sorry to say ....Your answer is not genuine .You don't need to please people but please Allah
@@sharminsvlog8875 Time changes. stay-at-home jobs are not always readliy avalible, coming from somone whos father does not practice Islam corrctly and has taken my Islamic rights away, I have to work to help my siblings and umy, the avrage salary for somone in college trying to get a remote job usually pays less than $12 if you're lucky. 12 an hour part time wont put food on the table. I work for the sake of Allah. not for the sake men, and im sure many other women do also, because alot men dont do their Islamic part. I wish I didnt have to work yet here I am by the will of Allah. if you want to tell women to stop working, be their finacial support.
I do agree with you sis so many men dose not fulfill their duty .you are working hard for your family may Allah reward you make it easy for you ameen ,when It is necessary then scholars said you can work in a halal job with proper hijab... I didn't talk about you .I talked in a general sense as a general ruling of Islam.
(RA)... She worked briefly until married Muhammad SAW and she already inherited wealth from her former Husbands. Prophet Muhammad SAW never encouraged Khadija RA or women to work
@@tzarak6257 shewas working after marriage stupid. She didn't leave job. Hazart Khadija RA was Prophet Muhammad SAW boss in business. Prophet Muhammad SAW encouraged indirectly bcz she was working after her marriage. Women can work period. Stop being misogynist sexist. U r just misogynist sexist.
@@abdiaismail2449 misogynist sexist. Women can work period. Hazart Khadija was boss of Prophet Muhammad SAW in business. Women can do job. Just stop being conservative
Alhamdelliah my dad is understanding he said yur not getting married to someone who won’t let you work who won’t let you study. Im at uni now studying to be a surgeon practitioner and my dad is my biggest supporter. I work two jobs and my dad is my biggest supporter and tho I work my dad never once told me give me 1p. Instead I go out and help with shopping and my dad will get upset that I’m spending my money. So I stopped doing that to make my dad happy and just treat my siblings with anything that they want. My uncles/family stopped talking to me bcz I’ve put shame on me and my family🤣🤣. So I’ve told them when your wife/daughter or any female member needs the hospital don’t ask for a female member - who btw is someone else daughter/sister etc Me working is not shameful! Me studying is not shameful. What is shameful is you saying yur Muslim but make yur own rules. 😢 Sorry about my grammar I didn’t check too tired to check it.
@@FactFusionU its always not depends on us ,there are mens who have wrong intensions and try to destroy ur relationship also expects to become closer as possible knowing u r married .there is some limit to stop but after that u feel like u r being to rude and overreacting u take it easy thats all where your sins starts .
It is funny how Muslim men wants to respected by their wives but yet they don’t comply with the Islamic rules because under estimate a women power but example is The mother of mumiin khadija R.A. Was a merchant so don’t judge the women and a woman goes out does something bad then that is for her own soul problem in the world and the hereafter but education is equally important for men and women and work is essential for any human beings
Y’all are talking about mixed places but the street is mixed,the shops and the hospitals the transportation everywhere is mixed…that is just not logical. (+ why you think she will be in contact with man a lot it and not wear hijab) I really can’t understand…
It's mixed but we have to follow islamic guidelines in these mixed places, why do you think the most hated place to Allah is the market place? (but not haram to go there), islamic rulings follow preventive measures to bring about a pure society e.g. Men lowering their gaze and women wearing hijab etc
@@sarahnovella4971 there are more than enough female doctors than necessary, and you're speaking as if every single woman in a career is a doctor which is absolutely absurd
I am sooo just tired of making people understand how important a woman needs to to work in a business , hospital , bank etc in so many areas of work force so that she can serve women . But family comes first obviously and then to serve the society in a way that we shouldn’t mix with other men. Majority of the countries are not Islamic how is “women to serve women only “environment going to work? As a dentist in an western country I cannot say “ I will only treat women patients “ . Hijab is not just a cloth covering our head/ body it’s our consciousness within ourselves not just for women but for men as well! That the beauty of Islam! May Allah protect our hearts , open our minds and make us Understand His Deen in the best way possible!
It is the intention that matters the most.... Keep your intentions pure and For a doctor necessary skinship would not be a sin etc.... Both men and women shouldn't engage in Haram activities for Work... But working is important for both
Sahih al-Bukhari 42 Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "If any one of you improve (follows strictly) his Islamic religion then his good deeds will be rewarded ten times to seven hundred times for each good deed and a bad deed will be recorded as it is."
@@Eirlys0104they never had more rights and freedom before Islam. Before Islam women were trade able assets. Khadijah R.A inherited the business from her previous Husband. She hired men to work for her and stayed inside her house. Women were treated as garbage. If you had a daughter that was the biggest shame ever. People would bury their daughters. If you owed a man something and couldn’t pay it off with money you would then give your wife to the man for a night and that’s how the debt would be settled. Women were not respected or treated well before Islam. Do your own research fool.
Ur parents are right if u have to work then u work otherwise sit at home and do ur duties in the house no one will marry a women who wants to work and not prioritise the family
@@Oooooooo797But the prophet peace be upon him first wife which is khadija rdiya allah 3anha use to work and you as muslim have to understand that women nowadays cant truth men becuase msn marry then they start threatening their wife and cheating on her because its hard to fight for your life as an uneducated especially if you got divorce how are you going to take care of yourself?? And what do you mean by saying nobody would marry you if you work like ?? Are you crazy ???
@@Oooooooo797Ok so i wanna be a teacher in an islamic school. What's wrong with this. And of course if I want to be a teacher then I have to go outside for it. This is the only dream I have left. I have given up on every single dream of mine. But what's wrong if I want to be a teacher. But still my father won't allow me.
Women should be financially independent - it's good to share money if you're in a healthy relationship but if you get divorced or he cheats etc. then how will you pay to divorce?... Where will you stay whilst you divorce him?...Where will you live? And how will you pay for the kids (if you had any)? Those are things that require money so imao every woman should be financially independent.
I think woman would have all stayed at home if most men weren't controlling cause they are given money from the man and he doesn't recognise that the money he gave her is hers now and the fact that if she left him she will be ruined cause she doesn't have any source of moneys so she won't be able to leave a toxic relationship even worse if he divorced her
When a lady wears hijab then Allah sends angels for her protection. Surat al-Ahzab, ayah 59: Oh Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their outer garments close around them. That will be better, that they may be known and so not be bothered. And Allah is oft-forgiving, most merciful. From these two ayat of the Noble Qur'an and from the authentic sources of guidance provided for us, we can derive the following principles of proper dress and adornment for Muslim women: # not bothered means protected.
Women having careers is great and all, but they should never priorities it over the duties towards their husbands and children. Same way how a man must work, provide and protect his wife and children. That's the priority over almost everything else.
@Touhami this comment is quite unfair… many women try hard to take care of their family.. also just for my own knowledge.. is there specific duties cited in Quran for women.. i know men have to provide for their family but for women is there something in The Quran that says their only job is to take care of husband and children.. women have dreams too they want to achieve things too in their life.. and some jobs are better suited for women
@Touhami thanks for the info… if the question if is it better then the answer is it is better.. but nowadays both husband and wives need to work to support their family
@Touhami And who are u to decide someone else's priority in life? If someone has career or work as priority whether men or women there is nothing wrong in that..... This is the reason Muslim community is backward in every field nowadays....
@@adibajannat334 covering hair is also required as it makes people recognize that u r a Muslim woman. Before the hijab verse, women already used to cover their hair. The verse came down to tell them to cover properly by pulling their garments down in order to cover their chests.
Islam permits self-defense and allows individuals, including women, to fight in order to protect themselves, their families, and their communities from harm or aggression. Islam recognizes the inherent right to self-preservation and the defense of justice and peace. The Quran states in Chapter 22, Verse 39: "Permission [to fight] is given to those who are being fought because they were wronged, and indeed Allah is competent to give them victory." This verse indicates that Muslims are allowed to defend themselves when they are subjected to aggression or injustice.
I have done both and have come to realize that being a housewife in this day and age is better. A woman today cannot divide herself and give everything in each aspect be it career, family, wife etc. I now realize that my family is happiest when I am home. Everything runs smoothly. I am able to be there for my kids, my husband and also myself without stress. My marriage was always full of love even during my working times however I feel something has changed even for the better because we respect each others sacrifices even more. There are circumstances where women have to work if one income is not enough. May Allah make it easy on those women. However my experience is more for the woman who do not have to work and provide financially. The ideology of career is a waste of time because most are doing it not for themselves but rather because it is expected of them. Feminism is ruining families. Many may not agree with me but I would sacrifice my career anytime and instead get the reward from Allah because I am here to serve my family. Basically the way Allah wants it.
My sister, it is good that you feel happy but there are women who don’t want to get married, like me, and we still want to have a career and passion to follow.
MUSLIM MALE: you are my wife obey me , be grateful stay confined in your house and shut up. MUSLIM MEN to white western women : yes Madam how intelligent and beautiful you are 🙇 .
@@qarimohammed2141 I have known plenty of muslim zanis who watch corn even when they have a submissive, at home muslima h. The more a myslimah is submissive more the husband is inclined to zina they take advantage of it. So you are wrong i would say mote muslimahs should become independent so that they don't have to endure their immoral, haram, zulm work of husbands.
Khawla bint al-Azwar (Arabic: خولة بنت الازور; died 639), was an Arab Muslim warrior in the service of the Rashidun Caliphate. She played a major role in the Muslim conquest of the Levant, and fought alongside her brother Dhiraar. She has been described as one of the greatest female soldiers in history..... And blind people commenting any version of their Islam stop!!!!!!
Why are people in the comments feel so ENTITLED on deciding what should a women do when your own life is not sorted out and if you think you are doing well you are in jail already. Stop this nonsense
This comment section depicts the clear grounds for why our ummah is in crisis in every possible manner today! May Allah guide us all and have mercy on us people. Amin.
About the virtues of surat al-Mulk, Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever reads Surat al-Mulk every night, Allah will protect him from the torment of the grave.”
*What about men going to work where the non-Muslims invite for TGIF Bar Time, wasting tickets to sports shows, theater etc. How about men.leaving Islam? TAKE CARE OF THE MUSLIM MALE and the woman will be automatically saved*
We should seek knowledge from the scholars who have learned from previous scholars who have also learned from previous scholars. Truly we are in times of fitnah. Many Shaykhs but little knowledge, the basis according to majority of scholars is that women should stay at home. Their prayer is best prayed in the inner most corner of her house. There is necessity and need which allows women to leave the house such as attending Friday prayers etc. But staying at home is the basis. It is not ridiculous and we should be afraid of our speech when talking about the Deen of Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala. And Success is only with Allah. May Allah guide us all.
He is indeed mixing. The home is the best place for the women, this is why we should take from respectable figures of the Deen and not “compassionate imams”
@@redman6790 it is people like you who demand a female doctor for your wives but at the same time say such bullshit in RU-vid comment sections. Hypocrite
@@redman6790their is women nowadays that cant truth men so they work indeed becuase they dont want a man who might just break their heart and tou realize if you dont work you might get humilated by husband or threatened and islam tell us to respect eachother and the prophet peace be upon him first wife khadija rdiya allah 3anha use to work so...???
@@redman6790If women is in don,t do work who treat female patients,who look after them, Because female should get treat with a from a female,if it a ancient society mid wife go to to women,s house when it needed ,in at the same time they are female educated women who teach women they got education for skme level,get married but we are not living un Society like that,she can stay in home but education is very important because if you have education if your husband fell ill,you can do Classes to little kids, To for expeses,for that female teachers is neeeded,for dressing females Hair dresees needed
*Qur'aan Chapter 96.* 🇬🇧 *BELOW* *Pay particular attention to verse No. 4.* بِسْمِ ٱللَّهِ ٱلرَّحْمَـٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ .1 ٱقْرَأْ بِٱسْمِ رَبِّكَ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَ . .2 خَلَقَ ٱلْإِنسَـٰنَ مِنْ عَلَقٍ . .3 ٱقْرَأْ وَرَبُّكَ ٱلْأَكْرَمُ *.4* ٱلَّذِى عَلَّمَ بِٱلْقَلَمِ ➡️ .5 عَلَّمَ ٱلْإِنسَـٰنَ مَا لَمْ يَعْلَمْ . .6 كَلَّآ إِنَّ ٱلْإِنسَـٰنَ لَيَطْغَىٰٓ . .7 أَن رَّءَاهُ ٱسْتَغْنَىٰٓ . .8 إِنَّ إِلَىٰ رَبِّكَ ٱلرُّجْعَىٰٓ . .9 أَرَءَيْتَ ٱلَّذِى يَنْهَىٰ . .10 عَبْدًا إِذَا صَلَّىٰٓ . .11 أَرَءَيْتَ إِن كَانَ عَلَى ٱلْهُدَىٰٓ . .12 أَوْ أَمَرَ بِٱلتَّقْوَىٰٓ . .13 أَرَءَيْتَ إِن كَذَّبَ وَتَوَلَّىٰٓ . .14 أَلَمْ يَعْلَم بِأَنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَرَىٰ . .15 كَلَّا لَئِن لَّمْ يَنتَهِ لَنَسْفَعًۢا بِٱلنَّاصِيَةِ . .16 نَاصِيَةٍۢ كَـٰذِبَةٍ خَاطِئَةٍۢ . .17 فَلْيَدْعُ نَادِيَهُ . .18 سَنَدْعُ ٱلزَّبَانِيَةَ .19 كَلَّا لَا تُطِعْهُ وَٱسْجُدْ وَٱقْتَرِب ☪️ *A'uudhubillaahi min-aSHaitaan-iRRajeem.* 🇬🇧 I take refuge in Allaah from shaitaan the cursed. ☪️ *Bismillaahi-RRahmaani-RRaheem.* 🇬🇧 In The Name of Allaah, The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. *1.* ☪️ Iqra' bismi Rabbik Al-ladhee khalaq. 🇬🇧 Recite in the name of your Lord who created. *2.* ☪️ Khalaq al-insaana min ‘alaq. 🇬🇧 Created man from a clinging substance. *3.* ☪️ Iqra' wa Rabbuk al-akram 🇬🇧 Recite, and your Lord is the most Generous - *4.* ☪️ *AL-LADHEE ‘ALLAMA BIL-QALAM.* 🇬🇧 *WHO TAUGHT BY THE PEN.* ‼️ *5.* ☪️ ‘Allam al-insaana maa lam ya'lam. 🇬🇧 Taught man what he knew not. *6.* ☪️ Kallaa! Inn-alinsaana *LAYATGHAA.* 🇬🇧 No! Indeed man *TRANSGRESSES.* *7.* ☪️ Ar-ra'aa hus-taghnaa 🇬🇧 Because he sees himself self-sufficient. *8.* ☪️ Inna ilaa Rabbika - rruj’aa. 🇬🇧 Indeed, to your Lord is the return. *9.* ☪️ Ara-ait-alladhee yanhaa ? 🇬🇧 Have you seen the one who forbids *10.* ☪️ ‘Abdan idhaa sallaa ? 🇬🇧 A servant when he prays ? *11.* ☪️ Ara-aita in kaana ‘alal-hudaa ? 🇬🇧 Have you seen if he is upon guidance ? *12.* ☪️ Au amara bit-taqwaa ? 🇬🇧 Or enjoins righteousness ? *13.* ☪️ Ara-aita in kaDHaba wa tawallaa ? 🇬🇧 Have you seen if he denies and turns away ? *14.* ☪️ Alam ya’lam bi-ann-Allaaha yaraa ? 🇬🇧 Does he not know that Allah sees ? *15.* ☪️ Kallaa! La-illam yantahi la-nasfa’am bin-naasiyah. 🇬🇧 No! If he does not desist, We will surely drag him by the forelock. *16.* ☪️ Naasiyatin kaadhibatin khaati-ah. 🇬🇧 A lying, sinning forelock. *17.* ☪️ Falyad’u naadiyah. 🇬🇧 So let him call his associates. *18.* ☪️ Sanad'u-zzabaaniyah. 🇬🇧 We will call the angels of Hell. *19.* ☪️ Kallaa! Laa tuti’hu wasjud waqtarib. 🇬🇧 No! Do not obey him. And prostrate (make sajda) and draw near (to Allaah). ➖ Sadaqallaah Al 'Adheem ➖ Allaah the Almighty speaks the truth. *LADIES ...* ‼️ Already *forgotten* verse no. 4❓ Stop the legacy of being *TOLD* ‼️ *IQRA'.* *R E A D* ‼️ Life's a jack of all trades. Qur'aan is the *MANUAL.* Read what you can *DAILY.* Educate yourselves *DIRECTLY* from Allaah‼️ Else you'll be led like sheep to the slaughter-house‼️
I have been working from age of 11 because I have been grew up without any guidance.. and I am still working I am independent And I am proud of that ..
There are conditions to be observed, which is important and essential It's not like it's Halal to work in mixed place where the Muslim woman would be sitting next to men and chating, or she is dressing nice to show her body, wearing makeup, perfume, high heels And to be honest, as a woman, I think it's soooo hard for us not to do these things, so we can try working from home, not because we are repressed, but because most work environments these days are absolutely not Halal, like which job will allow you to keep your niqab, and not to "look and sound" attractive?? We need to be clear and honest before we say, yes go work anywhere even if you don't need to, because Sahabyat did!! Like WHAT are you talking about!
May Allah strenghen you. We muslims are weak as we should work hard and provide for our families as well as for those who can not work. Because of us (weak muslim man) you have such trial. But you still should try tu make it in halal way.
Salam Sister, i understand where you are coming from but just because you might find it hard to work while not to “show body, wearing high heels” doesn’t represent most women. please speak for yourself and not generalise everyone PS : i completely disagree with Women wearing to “show body” and etc, but to say that EVERY women do that at work is just ridiculous. think carefully, do your parents work? did your mom “show her body” ? Exactly.. think before saying something Sister, peace ✌🏽
@@TimTim-dq2nf bro what are you talking about? Read the sisters comment again and that yours. She does not say EVERY but MOST and jnfortunatelly she has right. Its difficult to find a job for practicing mudlim woman...
@@ibrahimagadjukic7627 not really I’m an engineer woman and I don’t have any problems regarding any of what she said it not that mixed really and every woman in the department is wearing a hijab so…
@@enami_0136 well she did not talk about you, me neither 😊 we talked in general. I would like it is like you say in general but it is not. I live in Europe and a wife of my friend has hijab, she sent hundreds of job applications and get always negative, although she has education and there is need on the market. I can tell you a lot of other similar examples unfortunatelly...
Some in laws look down on wives who don't have a job even when the husband earns enough to support the family. It's like why are you useless and freeload off your husband
Do your women only meet with their mehrams? Don't your brother come b4 your wife? Where does your "don't mix" theory go when its time to give your wife a separate home??
@@-S_J- Islam for Muslim men is only when it works for them, When asking women to cover up they say that women are a fitnah as men can't control their urges it's the way Allah made men But when it comes to letting women work outside they state that women are more vulnerable to sin and men can easily control themselves Make it make sense
@@avagray9705 most of them use islam for their sexist ideology that's why they hide or ridicule meaning of many hadeeses n ayaat... But they will have to pay for their deeds b4 god.
It doesnt mean stay home it means be satisfied and content in your home. Care well for this home as a domestic engineer.It tkes time and dedication. Your husband and children need your attention.
He is the first islamic scholar who literally talk about women in very beautiful way.... He respect them, encourage them for study, and he even talk about the actual rights given in islam to women... That, s why i personally love and respect this man..... There are many scholars no hate but they are so harsh to women, and even so called, some educated people.... U guys know who they are.... Like seriously women wake up, follow your deen and get to know about yout rights, trust me if u don, t some hypocrite will destroy you... Respect yourself and love yourself
The basic principle is that a woman should remain at home, and not go out except for necessary purposes. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [al-Ahzaab 33:33].
@@JigglyPlatypus Verse was revealed to them but it not restricted to them if you search tafsir. Just like verse to stop drinking alcohol was revealed to Sahaba of Medina but applies to all believers, all cities, and for all time till Judgement Day.
@@reyes8143 Many women like who? Can you name some? Also there is a difference between "making money" and going out of the house to work with men. Khadija (ra) was a business woman who was "making money" but she had the Prophet (pbuh) conduct the business on her behalf.
@@mohammadhaaris3302 there is no such thing like evolvution in ISLAM if you call yourself a MUSLIM and follow ISLAM then you have to obey ALLAH (SWT) rules. you are not allowed to make any changes in the ALMIGHTY GOD'S rules If you want to disobey the rules by giving freedom to your women then be ready and make your women ready to go to HELL.
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Assalamualaikum everyone. In daily basis we loved the togetherness respect each other roles and responsibilities . Two Questions help us the most 1. Every soles taste death, what if a dearly husband die first leave us behind , prior to that, we should have had prepared with all the possibility in coping with challenges and hardships. We prefer both having career to enable to cope with financial dificulties and others. 2. What can i help you with? such offer should have an extention to reach out "ummah" fm time to time regardless the limitations. Rememberance of Allah Ya Qoobith. Alhamdulillah, aamin.Loves fm an ant in woods, Ghombau. Malaysia.
One of the most problem nowadays with Muslim women is that they start to become feminist, and wants to work and go out without the blessings of their other half or their father when they are supposed to understand their dynamics of a muslim unit and the purpose is to get to Jannah together. Whatever outside that the modern muslim woman search are not going to lead her in Jannah except with her husband. That being said do whatever you all want and answer for it later.
Do your women only meet with their mehrams? Don't your brother come b4 your wife? Where does your "don't mix" theory go when its time to give your wife a separate home??
I'm a lawyer, I have had to work with both genders. Yes, law offices are mixed. Most Court system are mixed. This is 21st century. As long as your faith and ethics are strong, you will not allow anyone to harm you. If they try to harass you, sue them or file a complaint, take action. :) Also, we can't compare 21st century with how things were 1400 + years ago. People evolve, society evolve, technology evolves, mentality evolves. Also, by strictly following this "Not permissible” rule, how are you going to make a living to survive?. It is exactly this faulty logic that most families prefer to have a son (who they assume will be the provider and breadwinner) over daughters because apparently daughters can't be allowed to work due to free mixing and she's a burden on the family. ???
@Yassine Ma'am. I'm a working woman Sir. With no brother or a father. Just 3 sisters. How are we going to survive if we don't work? My husband doesn't make enough money and he has to take care of his mother and sister. Should I divorce him because he earns less, just because I can't work in a free mixing society? How will Islam solve my dilemma? I strictly believe that Allah help those who help themselves. That's why I have to remain active in work. Will it be fair on me to put pressure on my husband to make more money? Or be jealous of my female in-laws? How will you solve the problem of mother, sister, and wife all asking from one man to support them. Won't that create competition and jealousy? Life is challenging brother /sister.
We are in end times. Current environment is not suitable for woman to work as the woman of the past did. Today the workplaces are organized in a way that it leads us to zina as compared to old times. Everything must be considered.
@@hatersrmotivators6477 I am not talking about rape. It is compulsory for men to work and look after his family. But it is not compulsory for women. If there are no women in the working places then there is no chance for adultery in work places.
Who are u to stop women from doing jobs where Allah has given them the permission 🤔. Just think there are so many widows and divorcees and they don't wanna remarry or be someone 2nd wife so what should they do?? They should starve to death?? Or someone who doesn't have any mehram left in her family what should she do?? Or someone who's husband is mentally,physically abuse her or he is physically disabled what should she do??
@@saira5619 I didnot stop any women from doing jobs. I only stated the current reality of our world. If you can't see that. Then its your problem not mine. Adultery and fornication is widespread in our society including work places. I only warned about this. If the husband is physically abusing wife or he is physically disabled she can divorce him. If she is not ready for divorce then its upto her what would she do with her own life.
I don’t even know why anyone would say ‘stay at home”, instead of work at home. No body wants to work for anybody and get paid except a fool, we just don’t have a choice and that includes both men and women.
The thing is, it's very hard nowadays if not impossible for a woman to work while following all islamic guidelines, it's hard for a man too but easier, which is why women are told not to work. When need arises that's different, but in general cases. The man should provide. He is Qawwam. And if a husband tells his wife not to work and he is providing for her then she can't disobey him. And Allah knows best, may Allah forgive and guide us all
What is a woman supposed to do if her husband isn't providing for her needs & the needs of their children? She needs sanitary items for her menses & groceries at home; the children need medication yet when she asks him, he tells her he doesn't have any money or time to get those things. Then turns around and spends money on frivolous things, buys fast food for himself, donating to charities in his home country so people will see that he donated, etc. Doesn't charity start at home? The needs of the family are not being met. So again I ask, What is a woman supposed to do?
@@dionnewilliams1560 this man has betrayed the entrustment which Allah placed upon him. When we talk about necessity, that's a different story. If there is a completely halal way foe the woman to work Nd be able to provide, then alhamdulillah, but if the ways include haram and there is necessity, then a person is excused according to their necessity.for example, That's why we are allowed to eat pork when starvingto death. The woman is excused according to her necessity, if she has to involve herself with some things which are inappropriate for a muslim woman. And Allah knows best. May Allah help the women who have to deal with such men with no understanding
@@reyes8143 may it be a halal career in shaa Allah. Otherwise u would take a route which is not smart in opposition to getting married and having your husband take care of u and sweat blood for u, wanting from u to simply listen to him. May Aolah bless and protect our sisters and brothers
